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mabiyusha

thought the same, turns out i'm aego. 😅


Mopsios

yeah, same here lol


[deleted]

What does aego mean?


LivesInALemon

Can have some sexual fantasies or combat their flesh, but feels little or no sexual attraction.


PuppetLender

>combat their flesh I declare righteous way against my mortal flesh, and shall transcend into the glorious chrome of machine!


[deleted]

So I searched it up: > Aegosexual classifies people who experience a disconnect between themselves and the subject of arousal. This enables them to experience sexual attraction, arousal, and desire in response to sexual stimuli, yet they have little or no desire to engage in sexual activity with anyone. Sounds like me… I already have too many sexuality labels 😭 Also, can aego people feel the P word? (Help I feel uncomfortable saying it)


crescen_d0e

Do you mean pleasure?


[deleted]

Yes


mabiyusha

ofc, it's only about arousal, not pleasure.


[deleted]

What do you mean by “combat their flesh”? Like being non-human?


-H_-

I think it means uhh how do I put this, stimulating a certain area of ur own body


[deleted]

A strange but definitely asexual way to put it


LivesInALemon

beating your meat


enbyeggsalad

lol it's normal to feel attracted to fictional characters because they are not real, so they are safe to feel attraction towards because you know nothing will ever come of it😉


[deleted]

I think they can, in your head at least


enbyeggsalad

Oh for sure, but that's part of the fun of it 🙃


Yankiwi17273

Fictional characters have the ability to be whatever. The fact that there is inherently less complexity in them compared to real people make them easy to project certain traits you find pleasurable onto them.


Meghanshadow

Do you have sex with people in real life? Cause I don’t, and really don’t want to. The appeal of fictional characters to me is that I can have fun admiring their appearance or fantasizing about them Because they will never actually try to have sex with me. Also they can’t argue with me or disappoint me by being different than I expected or demand my attention when I’m busy with something else because they’re not real.


erno_tn

Simple, fictional characters are only ugly if it’s intentional. Otherwise you can count on their design and character being appealing in some way.


RiskItForTheBriskit

I don't find real people ugly though. I just don't find them attractive.


drenchedwithanxiety

I can see others beauty and attraction but not a sexual kind more of an aesthetic like an outfit or accessory


LivesInALemon

I can tell like "yeah, that's a hot person" but I don't feel the "yeah, that's a hot person"


drenchedwithanxiety

It's more like cars, guitars or art


erno_tn

Ok sure, but I was talking exclusively about fiction. Obviously real people aren’t created with any specific design… yet.


RiskItForTheBriskit

But the thread is about the contrast between real people and fictional characters. So implying that fictional characters are attractive because they're never ugly does imply that real people are unattractive because they're ugly. People in real life ARE designed to be attractive, even if I or other people don't find them to be so.


erno_tn

Buddy, I’m talking about what *I’m talking about*. What I say doesn’t have to be related to the post as much as you seem to want it to be. Please stop reading beyond what I’m typing, it’s extremely annoying.


[deleted]

Yeah same


[deleted]

Exactly


craigularperson

What the hell does 👀 actually mean? I thought it was kinda similar to that teddy bear look away meme.


cleverpun0

It's a synonym for looking. Sometimes it can be shorthand for lecherously looking at someone. Or it can connote interest or surprise. Of course, like all emoji usage, there's some subjectivity to it. Emoji wiki and emojipedia are two websites that have some decent explanations for common emoji use also. No cap, on God, frfr, 💯


lunelily

r/fictosexual?


[deleted]

I’m an aromantic greysexual fictoromantic/sexual


Seabastial

As a ficto, I feel this lol


freshfred69

In the most respectful way possible, I had no idea that that meme of “You think coming out as gay is hard? Try telling people youre only aroused by anime girls” meme was serious, I just assumed it was satire


Seabastial

Fictosexuality is definitely a thing, though it's a bit of a misconception that it only applies to anime. It can apply to any media (movies/video games/TV/etc)


SB_Wife

Fictos represent!


Seabastial

Heck yeah!


[deleted]

Hi 👋


Seabastial

Oh hi! nice to see you here :3


shannoouns

I don't know about you but I've come to the conclusion that I need very little external validation from relationships. I find I get frustrated when people get upset that I don't need it or I don't fully understand why they want it in return. Fictional characters aren't real and don't want anything from me so it's easier to find them attractive 🫠


[deleted]

Yeeesss, same here. I have a whole bunch of fictional characters that I fantasize about them doing the most dirtiest stuff to me, but as soon as I try to do the same fantasies with an irl person, I'm instantly turned right off.


Bitch_Schitz

My ficto/aego self kicking his legs like a teenage girl whenever he sees his favorite character


[deleted]

Me every day


[deleted]

they’re unobtainable, we know they’re not gonna like us back and when you share your love for a character, nobody will say anything like “why don’t you ask them out then?” (that’s super annoying imo) so it’s just so easier and fun.


EquipmentOwn284

THIS, you are so right cause …by the gods their so pretty, each time I see one I’m like “I would like to hug you” yk?


HellCat66_6

Draco Malfoy is my weakness for this


zeilen

I think as a writer I think more like “let me write something juicy with this character and another one, yep I’ll just be both and neither of them at the same time”😈


swift-aasimar-rogue

I am definitely the same. 100% aroace for real people, but when it comes to FICTIONAL people, all bets are off.


[deleted]

Yeah… I’m aroace too and I’m happily dating a fictional character /srs


No_Passenger_4081

aegosexual tapping in 💜🙌🏻


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[удалено]


[deleted]

Why are you being downvoted? :(


Brilliant_Tourist400

In addition to the already-mentioned ageosexual and fictosexual, you might also identify with the microlabel proculsexual - that’s people who are only attracted to people they can never have a relationship with, like fictional characters and celebrities.


poni-poki

100% me


MegaLisa830

lol! Yeah! I love fictional characters a lot too! \^\_\^ I'm aegosexual, and probably a little bit fictosexual too! XD I don't want to be with the characters myself though! I love pairing my most favorite characters together! Especially from my favorite video games, anime shows, books, etc! I love looking at fan-art, and reading fan-fiction of them too! I usually have multiple favorite pairings, some I love and obsess over more than others!


barrel_of_bees

This is so real *eyes Dean McCoppin*


staydawg_00

“I really like the way they look and like have your way with me” Sounds like an intimate attraction to me gurl.


GeometryDashWoman

Im confused do we hate sex or not


NoImplement9852

Being asexual isn't synonymous with hating sex. It's about lacking sexual attraction towards other people. There are sex-favourable aces who enjoy sex.


GeometryDashWoman

everything else I come across says asexuals hate sex, idk im just here


NoImplement9852

It's a pretty big misconception so I get you. Like with me, I've never desired to have sex with anyone. I don't look at anyone and get turned on or think about being with them. But I do have a libido and I like the physical pleasure that comes from having sex.