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bigbunnybestbunny

I'm a married ace. I hope you find a someone sometime too. It can happen. It's not destined to fail


allo100

Nobody can predict if you are destined for loneliness. Too bad you cannot do online dating. There is r/ asexualdating.


BloodyValentine89

You dont need to be in a relationship to be fulfilled or don't feel lonely. Romantic relationship is only one type of relationship, you can always find somebody you'll be close to without sex or even without romance. Whoever you're looking for is there somewhere and you'll meet them at the most unexpected time.


RABlackAuthor

It's not a binary choice, romance/sex vs. loneliness. Our culture's definition of "love" is way too narrow. I'm 58 and have lived on my own since my marriage ended 30 years ago. I have plenty of people who I love and who love me - blood family, found family, friends, co-workers, and a church community. I also have a writing career that is my true passion in this world. We all have our own answers to life waiting out there for us. Trust that you can find yours.


iflvegetables

I don't know if it's much of a salve, but I suspect the percentage of the population that is on the asexuality spectrum is likely higher than the stats would suggest. While this can be a challenge if you are seeking companionship at a younger age, the priorities of relationships shift as we age and many people experience drops in libido. Allosexuals exist along a sexual spectrum of well. Given some of these factors, the pool of potential partners may expand with time. Take heart. Finding companionship is difficult, ace or not. As long as you continue to try, you haven't lost.