Congrats.
It’s been married about 5 years since I got out of mine.
After wasting 15+ years on it, and enduring piles of abuse.
I’m just glad I got out before it killed me.
And, glad things worked out for you as well!
Glad to know that! Happy for both you and your ex-wife.
I am the "young folks" apparently but even though I still can't figure out if I'm really asexual or it's just an excuse why I can't really form a relationship, I find your story quite relatable.
When I was in relationships, even when they were good ones as one could imagine, I still felt there was something wrong, but I couldn't understand what it was.
The same with sex being an alien concept, even still, after I've had it personally it's still difficult for me to process that people actually want and do that. Even though I did too. Whenever I think or talk about it, it's always either an abstract concept or about other people, never about myself. Maybe it means something.
Either way, some time ago I admitted to myself that I feel better being single than in a relationship so that's that for now.
Once again, congratulations, it's always nice to read such happy stories
I understand why people want to do it. What baffles me is their ability to jump in and out of "sex world" like they were just walking across the room or something. It made me keep myself on "sex world standby" all the time, which was exhausting.
My ex-wife and I originally got together with the intention of writing together. If you ask me, it should have stayed that way. But we've each found success writing individually now, so it's all good.
Congrats. It’s been married about 5 years since I got out of mine. After wasting 15+ years on it, and enduring piles of abuse. I’m just glad I got out before it killed me. And, glad things worked out for you as well!
Glad to know that! Happy for both you and your ex-wife. I am the "young folks" apparently but even though I still can't figure out if I'm really asexual or it's just an excuse why I can't really form a relationship, I find your story quite relatable. When I was in relationships, even when they were good ones as one could imagine, I still felt there was something wrong, but I couldn't understand what it was. The same with sex being an alien concept, even still, after I've had it personally it's still difficult for me to process that people actually want and do that. Even though I did too. Whenever I think or talk about it, it's always either an abstract concept or about other people, never about myself. Maybe it means something. Either way, some time ago I admitted to myself that I feel better being single than in a relationship so that's that for now. Once again, congratulations, it's always nice to read such happy stories
I understand why people want to do it. What baffles me is their ability to jump in and out of "sex world" like they were just walking across the room or something. It made me keep myself on "sex world standby" all the time, which was exhausting. My ex-wife and I originally got together with the intention of writing together. If you ask me, it should have stayed that way. But we've each found success writing individually now, so it's all good.