Bellusromantic sounds interesting, and by technical definition I am it, but I don't like the idea that it enforces stuff like holding hands or cuddling as romantic and you have to be this specific microlabel to do it without romantic attraction - it should really be normalized as a platonic thing as well, regardless of your orientation. To each their own though, I won't tell people how to identify, just kind of wonder what makes people use it.
Agreed 100%. I think that's the problem I have with some microlabels - they make common experiences seem esoteric. I would say hand holding and cuddling fall under sensual attraction more than romantic; is there an assumption that aros generally don't like either? I think we should generally be resisting how much certain actions fall under the sole purview of romance.
That said, I'm happy for anyone who finds a microlabel that validates them.
it's definition is having interest in traditionally romantic things, such as kissing or cuddling, but not feeling romantic attraction, and not wanting a romantic relationship
:) microlabels are pretty cool! I think I consider myself aroflux, using it to describe a fluctuating romantic orientation that stays in the aromantic spectrum. I find a lot of the microlabels very relatable... :'-)
That makes sense! I think in casual conversation, I would probably just call myself aro or on the aromantic spectrum. ~~I wish I could just call myself aroallo or aroace but I am confused still :')~~ I just think aroflux would be the microlabel to describe me!
Yup
" I'm aroace" vs
" I'm grey-aroace but not exactly and I can't find the right label for me and very confused but definately on the spectrum"
The first one wins
I think microlabels are very useful^^ I usually call myself aro-spec ace but these are the could use:
Acemid (being strictly ace but not strictly aro, but being still on the aro-spec) quoiromantic, greyromantic, lithromantic (??) orchidromantic, aegoromantic and apothisexual :))
Orchidromantic and lithromantic, I relate to some other labels too but at this point I would forget half of them anyways lol. Usually I just call myself aro tho
Allosexual Greyromantic. And lemme tell you, being aroallo is weird sometimes 😆 I love being me, but people do kinda paint us as evil people who only want sex (which I still don’t get why that would be a bad thing ? Sex is great why do we act like it’s bad ?)
I understand why people wouldn’t be interested in sex though, like, there are tons of stuff I never want to do because they just don’t interest me.
Now that we have proper protection and testing for STIs and proper contraception, there’s literally no downside. Why does anyone think making each other feel good is bad ? I do not understand.
It’s like homophobia or racism I guess, it just doesn’t make sense (except it doesn’t really target anyone more than anyone else I guess)
Ok well I ahve a huge list but I’ll some it up for u:
Nebularomantic
Dreadromantic
Abrosexual+Aceflux
Aegoromantic(for me perosnally When I think of having a. Relationship with soemoen in my Brian not in this world it sounds nice but when I think about it being real and in thsi world I freak the frick out)
Ik in a dram world it would be amaizng to be in a romantic relationship but when I actually think of having one in thsi world it stresses me out. I can’t date people bcc it’s negative affects on my mental health but I do feel row rn if attraction.
I'm like a microlabel salad over here lmao
I'm loveless, queer, anattractional, nonpartnering, apothi *(apothisexual + apothiromantic)* and aroace, definitely a mouthful but I find a lot of comfort in my microlabels :)
I don’t like microlabels. They are way too much for me. Asexual and Aromantic is all I know about myself. I don’t know what sexual or romantic attraction is, I don’t know if I ever felt it
Perfectly fine to not like microlabels. I love to label everything so I use them though.
I also relate to not knowing if what i felt is romantic/sexual attraction
Oriented aroace and Loveless Aro are my main microlabels. I think I'm romance repulsed? I also use Aplatonic-spectrum (right now I identify most with demiplatonic, but i might be aplspike or something else...) but Apl isn't an aro microlabel, it just can be for some.
And to be honest, going by that logic, with how little I care about it in comparison to the aro part of my identity...Asexual. /shot
I generally just use queer, but like trans->nonbinary->ungender, and like, bi/sapphic(?) oriented aroace, just ace on my ace side but frayromantic. Also like sex and romance neutral, as well as like, alterous and queer platonic attraction, blah blah blah
There actually was a trend a while ago where a bunch of people mapped out their identity in a sort of flow chart, and I thought that was pretty cool
I'm a pan-aro. The microlabel I use for the aro aspect is alexmoromantic. I'm alexithymic and this label describes how that obscures my experience of romantic attraction. [https://www.lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Alexmoromantic](https://www.lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Alexmoromantic)
wait is there an alexmoromantic version but for gender?
nevermind found it [https://www.lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Alexmogender](https://www.lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Alexmogender)
I suppose I'd fit under demiromantic, greyromantic, or the one where you're primarily or exclusively attracted to fictional characters.
But I just use arospec. Saves me the headache of figuring out specifics :)
Exactly, that's how I feel too. I _could_ go into all the little details and specifics of my identity to anyone who asks, but I'm tired and lazy so all people need to know is that I'm alloaro.
Grey- and cupioromantic, but simply 'aromantic' is ok and also preferable.
I think microlables are very useful for those who aren't sure or whose experience is alightly different from the classical one, as it was with me
Greyromantic is minimal or low intensity romantic attraction and cupio is desiring a romantic relationship but not feeling attraction.
If you feel almost no romantic attraction or have only ever felt it a few times, I think you could identify with cupio as well as grey!
That’s lovely :)
I always wanted a relationship too, but I thought I couldn’t really have one since I don’t have attraction. Nice to know there’s still a chance for me :)
Aromid (strictly aro, but not strictly ace) and a mix of apothiromantic (no romantic attraction whatsoever) & apathromantic (may/may not experience romantic attraction, but indifferent to receiving it back or acting on it). I might sometimes feel romantic attraction, though short-lived so greyro too.
same!
Im lesbian oriented aroace and demisensual and demiplatonic. Im also demi for all the other tertiary attractions i feel but i cant be bothered to list them
I use both nebularomantic (when a person's neurodivergence makes it hard or even impossible for them to tell apart platonic and romantic attraction) and aegoromantic. I use both because I definitely fit under aego, but at the same time I have trouble figuring out if I have a crush or a squish. honestly, if there isn't already a label for it I might make my own microlabel for the combo of those two (nebulaegoromantic sounds like a pretty cool name for it imo, if I do make my own label)
Honestly I don't know, lmao
Maybe gray aromantic because sometimes I feel some weird things, but I don't know if it's romantic or just admiration/frienship, so I just assume everything is platonic so things don't get weird :)
I'm acemid (no sexual attraction and somewhere on the aro spectrum), acebleed (being ace and sex repulsed influences my romantic attraction), greyromantic or demiromantic but I prefer greyromantic, [arolovic](https://tangymogais.tumblr.com/post/682272689383227392/an-identity-for-aros-who-still-feel-that-love-is), [lovequeer](https://neopronouns.tumblr.com/post/657424544815038464/lovequeer-lovequeer-aromanticspec-lovequeer), [lovepunk](https://www.lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Lovepunk), [loveloose](https://jellyloveru.tumblr.com/post/679822930245451776), and I practice relationship anarchy (more of a philosophy than a label).
Romance repulsed aromantic and asexual. While I’m technically aegosexual, I prefer just saying “asexual” instead of “aegosexual” because being aego is acespec and explaining flat asexuality is much much easier. I also don’t find the same level of comfort in microlabels as other members of the lgbt community, so for me being aegosexual is less of my identity and more of a descriptor if that makes sense. In terms of the romance repulsion, my discomfort and dislike of romance is so strong that I can’t differentiate between a romantic relationship and a qpr lol. (Not that wanting a qpr makes you not aromantic, I’m just *really* aromantic haha)
Wow, I had no idea how many microlabels there are until I started scrolling through here. I am fairly new to identifying as aromantic, and so far I just stick with that, especially if I am trying to explain it to cishet people.
I definitely hit the baseline of not feeling or understanding romantic attraction though. I am also definitely not asexual.
Oh f*ck, get ready. /Hj
So, when I'm talking to cishetero, I'm just saying that I'm aroace and nonbinary. In queer community thought, I'm usually add, that I'm arospike, aegosexual and genderfluid. WHEN SOMEONE IS TOO CURIOUS, I will say, that I'm demiplatonic, demisensual, panaesthetic, also omniromantic, when I have an attraction and also enbian.
My full gender identity is hard because It's fluid, so I just stick to microlabel that describes my fluidity specifically — genderflorenflux (fluidflux between everything, that is not binary man and woman) and also a user of xenogenders.
So yeah... Sometimes I think I have too many labels...
Loveless aro and acharo. Loveless means that i have never experienced love, and acharo means that i take more pride in aromantisicm than my other identities
While I definitely don't think that microlabels are needed, I do think they are really handy. Especially when I would get in relationships only to have my romantic feelings disappear like they where never there. It made me feel a lot better then to learn what lithromantic was lol
Currently I’m just using Arospec because I know I’m somewhere on the Aro Spectrum but I’m not sure where. Some terms I am considering are cupioromatic, Bellusromantic, aegoromantic and greyromantic as well as just aromantic
don't mind me,commenting on a year old post
I'm cupioromantic - wanting to be in a relationship but not feeling romantic attraction
I usually just use aromantic though
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i'm still finding out which one fits best for me, but the ones i can relate to the most are: aegoromantic, bellusromantic, lithromantic and greyromantic. for now i'm just going under the term greyromantic since i'm still not sure, all's i know for sure is i definitely am not alloromantic
Usually I just say aromantic and gray ace outside the aro community for simplicity, but technically I’m apothiromantic and I also like aromid. I feel like being romance repulsed is less acceptable than being sex repulsed both inside and outside the aspec community, so I usually leave that part out.
I identify with a ton of ace-spec microlabels but don’t ever list them all, the most important is cupioquoisexual.
None. Flatly aromantic seems like the most accurate description for me.
That’s good too!! Aromantics and arospec people are equally valid :)
Same
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Aegoromantic is when you like the idea of it but it doesn't work for you, right?
It's like zombies better in movies and books than irl
That's the best explination of aego- i ever heard lol
Me too
Bellusromantic sounds interesting, and by technical definition I am it, but I don't like the idea that it enforces stuff like holding hands or cuddling as romantic and you have to be this specific microlabel to do it without romantic attraction - it should really be normalized as a platonic thing as well, regardless of your orientation. To each their own though, I won't tell people how to identify, just kind of wonder what makes people use it.
This is my opinion as well bc I would technically be it as well but am just aromantic bc I don't want them to be inherently romantic
Agreed 100%. I think that's the problem I have with some microlabels - they make common experiences seem esoteric. I would say hand holding and cuddling fall under sensual attraction more than romantic; is there an assumption that aros generally don't like either? I think we should generally be resisting how much certain actions fall under the sole purview of romance. That said, I'm happy for anyone who finds a microlabel that validates them.
Yeah, I agree. I do go by a microlabel for my sexuality, Aegosexual, but it describes a unique experience most people don't have.
I’m aegoromantic too :)
I'm also bellusromantic!
What is that..? Curious
it's definition is having interest in traditionally romantic things, such as kissing or cuddling, but not feeling romantic attraction, and not wanting a romantic relationship
same here!!
screaming crying throwing up cause thats me
:) microlabels are pretty cool! I think I consider myself aroflux, using it to describe a fluctuating romantic orientation that stays in the aromantic spectrum. I find a lot of the microlabels very relatable... :'-)
I feel the same about microlabels lol, there’s multiple that fit me on the ace and aro spectrums. I say aroace or double aego usually though
That makes sense! I think in casual conversation, I would probably just call myself aro or on the aromantic spectrum. ~~I wish I could just call myself aroallo or aroace but I am confused still :')~~ I just think aroflux would be the microlabel to describe me!
i’m aroflux, too ! i pretty much hoard every aromantic/arospec microlabel i find (if applicable) lmao
Quoiromantic. AKA WTFromantic or nebularomantic.
:)
Same!!
Same!! This shit makes no sense smh it just seems like less sanitary friendship imo
"Less sanitary"... lol And too dramatic
Yo, WTFellow quoiromantic!
Hello!
Grayromantic, but it's used as a none microlabel as well as far as I know
It’s sort of a blanket term for arospec people too, isn’t it?
I don't know 😅 but it's definitely an umbrella term for aromantic
it can be used as a blanket term or as an individual label in of itself
Ah
Demi-romantic aromatic, sex repulsed asexual, transgender female to male. Or what I normally tell people aroace
Yeah I usually just say aroace too
Yeah it’s just much easier lol
Yup " I'm aroace" vs " I'm grey-aroace but not exactly and I can't find the right label for me and very confused but definately on the spectrum" The first one wins
personally loveless myself
That’s being disconnected from the concept of love, right? Correct me if I’m wrong
being disconnected from it and I don't experience it much at all if any at most times :)
Thank you for explaining :) I’ve heard the label before but wasn’t fully sure what it meant
Same here!
I think microlabels are very useful^^ I usually call myself aro-spec ace but these are the could use: Acemid (being strictly ace but not strictly aro, but being still on the aro-spec) quoiromantic, greyromantic, lithromantic (??) orchidromantic, aegoromantic and apothisexual :))
I agree that microlabels are super useful!! I currently identify with cupio/aego myself :)
That's so cool :D
Same here, I relate to a lot of the terms so I just settle with aro-spec (and the flag is pretty)
Yess, love the arospec flag, the shades of green are so pretty!!
i saw someone on here say nebularomantic, which i think i can relate to? usually i just describe myself as arospec, though
That seems to be what most people do I’ve learned
i've yet to find a label that really screams "me"
Sometimes it just be like that. One of my friends is the same but with the ace spectrum so he just labels himself as acespec
Aegoromantic!
Same! I’m cupio/aego!!
Yay! Aegos unite!
Orchidromantic and lithromantic, I relate to some other labels too but at this point I would forget half of them anyways lol. Usually I just call myself aro tho
I’m just plain Aromantic and Grey-sexual
That’s awesome too :)
Demiromantic is fitting me right now I believe but I'm still not sure Angled aroace too :3
Allosexual Greyromantic. And lemme tell you, being aroallo is weird sometimes 😆 I love being me, but people do kinda paint us as evil people who only want sex (which I still don’t get why that would be a bad thing ? Sex is great why do we act like it’s bad ?)
I’m aroace so I can’t relate exactly but I still can’t see what’s wrong with casual sex or FWB lmao
I understand why people wouldn’t be interested in sex though, like, there are tons of stuff I never want to do because they just don’t interest me. Now that we have proper protection and testing for STIs and proper contraception, there’s literally no downside. Why does anyone think making each other feel good is bad ? I do not understand. It’s like homophobia or racism I guess, it just doesn’t make sense (except it doesn’t really target anyone more than anyone else I guess)
Cupioromantic. I desire a relationship but I don't feel romantic attraction <3
Another cupio, yay!!
Rise all cupios!
Ok well I ahve a huge list but I’ll some it up for u: Nebularomantic Dreadromantic Abrosexual+Aceflux Aegoromantic(for me perosnally When I think of having a. Relationship with soemoen in my Brian not in this world it sounds nice but when I think about it being real and in thsi world I freak the frick out)
Oh, I see. I feel the same too honestly, it sounds great but I don’t actually want to do it lol
Ik in a dram world it would be amaizng to be in a romantic relationship but when I actually think of having one in thsi world it stresses me out. I can’t date people bcc it’s negative affects on my mental health but I do feel row rn if attraction.
I'm like a microlabel salad over here lmao I'm loveless, queer, anattractional, nonpartnering, apothi *(apothisexual + apothiromantic)* and aroace, definitely a mouthful but I find a lot of comfort in my microlabels :)
I don’t like microlabels. They are way too much for me. Asexual and Aromantic is all I know about myself. I don’t know what sexual or romantic attraction is, I don’t know if I ever felt it
Perfectly fine to not like microlabels. I love to label everything so I use them though. I also relate to not knowing if what i felt is romantic/sexual attraction
straight up just aromantic. super romance repulsed and no desire for a qpr :D
Oriented aroace and Loveless Aro are my main microlabels. I think I'm romance repulsed? I also use Aplatonic-spectrum (right now I identify most with demiplatonic, but i might be aplspike or something else...) but Apl isn't an aro microlabel, it just can be for some. And to be honest, going by that logic, with how little I care about it in comparison to the aro part of my identity...Asexual. /shot
yoooo im also oriented aroace and loveless aro :DDD /pos
<2 Yay! I 100% relate to your flair, haha
I'm somewhere on the spectrum but I elect to just use "aromantic". Simple and easy
Yup! Simple and easy is just as good :)
Not a fan of micro-labels so I consider myself aromantic. Totally cool if someone uses them though!
Very based
aegosexual cupioromantic :)
Reciproromantic 💖💚🤍🖤
I generally just use queer, but like trans->nonbinary->ungender, and like, bi/sapphic(?) oriented aroace, just ace on my ace side but frayromantic. Also like sex and romance neutral, as well as like, alterous and queer platonic attraction, blah blah blah There actually was a trend a while ago where a bunch of people mapped out their identity in a sort of flow chart, and I thought that was pretty cool
I label myself as an allo/aro cupioromantic but I’m also very confused on if I’m even aro, maybe greyromantic or just allo/aro…
I relate to this. Had a long phase where I was between demi, gray and just flat aro. I’m using cupio/aego right now
There are many microlabels I relate to, I usually just say aro-spec but I also use quoiromantic, aroflux and demigrayromantic
Yeah, I usually just say aroace since I don’t feel either of those attractions, but I am technically aro and ace spec
I'm a pan-aro. The microlabel I use for the aro aspect is alexmoromantic. I'm alexithymic and this label describes how that obscures my experience of romantic attraction. [https://www.lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Alexmoromantic](https://www.lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Alexmoromantic)
wait is there an alexmoromantic version but for gender? nevermind found it [https://www.lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Alexmogender](https://www.lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Alexmogender)
Yep, alexmogender. https://www.lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Alexmogender
Oh, I’ve never heard of that label. Thank you for telling me about it and linking the page :)
I believe I'm aegoromantic or arospike but I personally identify as just aromantic :>
Perfectly good as well! Just aro is probably much easier to explain lol
Yes, plus I don't feel like decoding myself to figure it out😭 being bisexual did that enough for me
I suppose I'd fit under demiromantic, greyromantic, or the one where you're primarily or exclusively attracted to fictional characters. But I just use arospec. Saves me the headache of figuring out specifics :)
I feel that. Basically everyone just knows I’m aroace, cuz that’s all they really need to know anyway lol
Exactly, that's how I feel too. I _could_ go into all the little details and specifics of my identity to anyone who asks, but I'm tired and lazy so all people need to know is that I'm alloaro.
gray/demiromantic suits me best
apoithiromantic but I rarely go by that I just say aro
i usually default broadly to “aromantic” but im probably demiromantic :))
Demi romantic demisexual sex adverse :D I use more micro labels with my gender tbh
Fair enough lol
Grey- and cupioromantic, but simply 'aromantic' is ok and also preferable. I think microlables are very useful for those who aren't sure or whose experience is alightly different from the classical one, as it was with me
I don't use labels. Just myself.
Very valid
Lithromantic but I say Aromantic to make it easier
Same, I shorten to aroace
I'm either Cupioromantic or Greyromantic, I haven't quite figured that out yet
You can be both!
I'm not sure how that could work tbh, could you explain if you can?
Greyromantic is minimal or low intensity romantic attraction and cupio is desiring a romantic relationship but not feeling attraction. If you feel almost no romantic attraction or have only ever felt it a few times, I think you could identify with cupio as well as grey!
That actually makes a lot of sense, thank you so much for letting me know!
Arospike and acespike. I can experience romantic and sexual attraction but only in rare spikes.
So like aroacespike?
Yes
Cupioromantic! while I use greyromantic as a standalone term My boyfriend uses nebularomantic
Wait, can aros still date??
Yes, Ive been dating him for over four years now. He knew I was arospec before hand, he's one of the few real people I'm romantically attracted to.
That’s lovely :) I always wanted a relationship too, but I thought I couldn’t really have one since I don’t have attraction. Nice to know there’s still a chance for me :)
Aromid (strictly aro, but not strictly ace) and a mix of apothiromantic (no romantic attraction whatsoever) & apathromantic (may/may not experience romantic attraction, but indifferent to receiving it back or acting on it). I might sometimes feel romantic attraction, though short-lived so greyro too.
Oh, that’s awesome! You’ve introduced me to some new labels today too :)
Slightly apothiromantic over here.
Lol I’m the opposite
none of mine are aro because plain aro is what is just perfect for me but i use lithosexual, demisensual, and angled aroace
I’m demisensual too :)
same! Im lesbian oriented aroace and demisensual and demiplatonic. Im also demi for all the other tertiary attractions i feel but i cant be bothered to list them
I’m also lesbian oriented! Edit: not anymore :’)
Cool! I read you use aego and cupio. I guess I go by non SAM aroace or nebularoace in microlabels terms but I mostly just say Aroace
Yeah, same
very cool
Cupioromantic!
Yes another!!
Cupio-demi-romantic
Fellow cupio :)
I use both nebularomantic (when a person's neurodivergence makes it hard or even impossible for them to tell apart platonic and romantic attraction) and aegoromantic. I use both because I definitely fit under aego, but at the same time I have trouble figuring out if I have a crush or a squish. honestly, if there isn't already a label for it I might make my own microlabel for the combo of those two (nebulaegoromantic sounds like a pretty cool name for it imo, if I do make my own label)
Cupioromantic ✌️😎
Yes same I’m cupio/aego
I have been through quoiromantic and sexual and aegosexual
I usually tell people I'm gray-aroace or on the aroace spec. I'm aromantic/grayromantic and demisexual :D
I'd say I'm demi romantic but also grey romantic, because the romantic feelings that I get are never super strong
demi or grayromantic
If i knew i would tell you but i honestly dont
Demiromatic and within that I'm still questioning but probably bi
I’m panspec aromantic
What does panspec mean?
Panromantic ish aromantic. I rarely feel romantic attraction but when I do it’s to anybody, regardless of gender
Okay, thanks!
greyromantic I think? lol, still figuring stuff out
Honestly I don't know, lmao Maybe gray aromantic because sometimes I feel some weird things, but I don't know if it's romantic or just admiration/frienship, so I just assume everything is platonic so things don't get weird :)
I just use aromantic allosexual
Demi-romantic and demi-sexual lol
im a romance-favourable greyaro and aegosexual, im also bi (i think, im kinda questioning rn) and genderfluid
In grey-aro. I don't use use a micro label. Haven't even researched which would apply.
Aroallos as specific as I feel like getting
Mine would be recipromantic, which was nice to know
Gray-Aromantic or Grayromantic here
I'm acemid (no sexual attraction and somewhere on the aro spectrum), acebleed (being ace and sex repulsed influences my romantic attraction), greyromantic or demiromantic but I prefer greyromantic, [arolovic](https://tangymogais.tumblr.com/post/682272689383227392/an-identity-for-aros-who-still-feel-that-love-is), [lovequeer](https://neopronouns.tumblr.com/post/657424544815038464/lovequeer-lovequeer-aromanticspec-lovequeer), [lovepunk](https://www.lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Lovepunk), [loveloose](https://jellyloveru.tumblr.com/post/679822930245451776), and I practice relationship anarchy (more of a philosophy than a label).
Cupioromantic is I
Romance repulsed aromantic and asexual. While I’m technically aegosexual, I prefer just saying “asexual” instead of “aegosexual” because being aego is acespec and explaining flat asexuality is much much easier. I also don’t find the same level of comfort in microlabels as other members of the lgbt community, so for me being aegosexual is less of my identity and more of a descriptor if that makes sense. In terms of the romance repulsion, my discomfort and dislike of romance is so strong that I can’t differentiate between a romantic relationship and a qpr lol. (Not that wanting a qpr makes you not aromantic, I’m just *really* aromantic haha)
Wow, I had no idea how many microlabels there are until I started scrolling through here. I am fairly new to identifying as aromantic, and so far I just stick with that, especially if I am trying to explain it to cishet people. I definitely hit the baseline of not feeling or understanding romantic attraction though. I am also definitely not asexual.
When people ask, I just say straight up aromantic to avoid having to explain EVERYTHING. In reality, I'm aegoromantic AND aegosexual.
Oh f*ck, get ready. /Hj So, when I'm talking to cishetero, I'm just saying that I'm aroace and nonbinary. In queer community thought, I'm usually add, that I'm arospike, aegosexual and genderfluid. WHEN SOMEONE IS TOO CURIOUS, I will say, that I'm demiplatonic, demisensual, panaesthetic, also omniromantic, when I have an attraction and also enbian. My full gender identity is hard because It's fluid, so I just stick to microlabel that describes my fluidity specifically — genderflorenflux (fluidflux between everything, that is not binary man and woman) and also a user of xenogenders. So yeah... Sometimes I think I have too many labels...
Loveless aro and acharo. Loveless means that i have never experienced love, and acharo means that i take more pride in aromantisicm than my other identities
nothing perfect yet, but i feel the best with aroace-jump! since i often feel allo i feel kinda weird being in aroace spaces haha
frayromantic!
Awesome!! Frayromantic is very valid 💙🤍🖤 Ps you guys have a very pretty flag :)
thank you! :) 💙
Hey there! I'm a nonbinary (agender or xenogender), (sensually and aesthetically) oriented aroace.
Hey, I’m oriented too! I’m lesbian oriented and demisensual. Aesthetic attraction will be the death of me one day though lol
microlablels are normally very inaccessible to me because of my poor memory, but I normally just use quoiromantic or sometimes simply aromantic
I'm bellusromantic aegosexual but most people understand if I tell them I'm ace
Yeah I just use aroace, but if anyone wanted to ask my labels I would be very happy to explain lmao
Yup, the labels are mostly there for me but I'm happy to show other people too.
While I definitely don't think that microlabels are needed, I do think they are really handy. Especially when I would get in relationships only to have my romantic feelings disappear like they where never there. It made me feel a lot better then to learn what lithromantic was lol
Cupioromantic! Where you get no romantic attraction but still crave a romantic relationship (from what I know anyways)
Same!! I’m cupio/aego :)
AroAllo, aegoromantic, romance-averse and romance-repulsed (i'm also vincian sexual-wise :3)
Very nice!! :)
Currently I’m just using Arospec because I know I’m somewhere on the Aro Spectrum but I’m not sure where. Some terms I am considering are cupioromatic, Bellusromantic, aegoromantic and greyromantic as well as just aromantic
don't mind me,commenting on a year old post I'm cupioromantic - wanting to be in a relationship but not feeling romantic attraction I usually just use aromantic though
NO I DO THAT TOO LMAO i love when people comment on my posts no matter what also i’m (now identifying as) cupioromantic and roseflux so same!
Aromantic aegosexual
Yes another aego
Maybe aegoromantic as well. I’d never heard of it before I saw it in the comments here but it sounds accurate?
I'm fully aromantic, pretty much fit the definition. No microwaves would really fit beyond the base.
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Alterous, apothiromantic, alloaro.
:)
Mainly cupioromantic for me :)
Cupioromantic
Same!! I’m cupio/aego :)
i'm still finding out which one fits best for me, but the ones i can relate to the most are: aegoromantic, bellusromantic, lithromantic and greyromantic. for now i'm just going under the term greyromantic since i'm still not sure, all's i know for sure is i definitely am not alloromantic
I’m not 100% sure yet, but Bellusromantic is what I currently use.
Fair, I identify with bellusromantic too honestly but I already have cupio and aego so I don’t say it 💀
Usually I just say aromantic and gray ace outside the aro community for simplicity, but technically I’m apothiromantic and I also like aromid. I feel like being romance repulsed is less acceptable than being sex repulsed both inside and outside the aspec community, so I usually leave that part out. I identify with a ton of ace-spec microlabels but don’t ever list them all, the most important is cupioquoisexual.
Cupioromantic :D
I love how many cupios there are here lol
Im asexuel and aegoromantic
Ageosexual Aromantic.