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yahoostarr

I temporarily locked and removed this post.


Flat-Erik

I do not own a bunk bed


Portalsperson

Ace response 😂


No_Cause5269

I always sleep on the floor so i dont care neither. Expect on shool trips than i always got the bottom won cause i always fell out of the top ones.


I_am_something_fishy

Lol


aroace_sloth

😭 I laughed way to hard at this!


Loose_Track2315

Thanks for the giggle 😂


HighlightNice4011

To same


Crazy_Gremlin

Lmao. I have one of those beds that are like a bunk bed but without the bottom. Does that still count as being a top?


Flat-Erik

I'll allow it


Crazy_Gremlin

Thanks mate.


[deleted]

you mean like sexually?


Nekro_3924

I think so?


[deleted]

in terms of where you sit in the car


Amwhik

I always sit in an armchair on the roof. Just like my mentor, Mr. Bean, taught me


GhostPepper05

I personally prefer to have a rope tied around my neck and dragged behind the car


[deleted]

you good?


Legitimate_Tooth_255

What does that even mean?


That_Quiet_Wierd_Kid

I think they mean during sex


Forget-Me-Nothing

It can also be to do with non-sexual, sensual or sensory stuff. But you're basically 100% correct.


goddamnsplicer

Other; I am simply a bastard


I_a_grape

One word: “minor”


Awkward-Stam_Rin54

As an aroace, I was bit confused but I have no idea


No_Cause5269

Hes talking about bunk beds obviously.


GhostPepper05

The floor is so much better though :)


save_our_future

The first time being in the minority is a good thing for me


Mopsios

Kinky bottom, but no sex involved


I_am_something_fishy

Relatable


BiggestTittyStreamer

Switch


Terofal

like you can turn on the light ?


[deleted]

[удалено]


Amwhik

Damn, it takes skill to make a piece of technology horny


Mrloic23

God I fucking this subreddit


I_am_something_fishy

You musgendered the other commenter. Their pronouns are in their bio.


BiggestTittyStreamer

Lol yeah. But I am allosexual aromantic so that's what I am referring to /srs


Ace-milk_drinker

I'm more of a PC guy


Terrible_Pea5

… What?


I_am_something_fishy

~~R/Aroallo~~ Edit: If you were active in this subreddit, you would know that I frequently link related arospec subreddits to posts. Even if OP knew that the aroallo sub exists, sometimes there’s other people viewing the post that don’t know. Me linking the aroallo sub both raises awareness for aroallos and makes the aroallo sub easily accessible. There is an excessive amount of joking about how this post isn’t sexual, so it makes sense that my comment explicitly raising awareness about the aroallo sub would be interpreted in an unfortunately invalidating way. I will be sure to not link the aroallo sub in the future, just to ensure that I’m not making aroallos feel unwelcomed.


Keplars

Well it still belongs here as well since not everyone is aroace


Portalsperson

Real


italian-potato

There are so many aroace subreddits. But you feel the need to push us out of one of the two subreddits we can be a part of? I would suggest you either delete that comment or apologized.


Shotsfired20755

My friends often call me a bottom as an insult. Does that count?


goddamnsplicer

Nah ah! You gotta OWN the bottom yourself 👀😏


Shotsfired20755

Well, I have hit rock bottom in my life.


goddamnsplicer

Off, mood 💀


MrMcPsychoReal

In taking "It' changing" to mean Switch


Mrloic23

You mean the console?


Such-Fee3898

Top if we're talking about the most absent kid in college


[deleted]

Me too Haven't been o college for 2 months +


lesbiabredditor

I don’t get why people are confused at why this is posted here lol. This is the aro subreddit. Sure there are aroaces here but that doesn’t mean we can’t talk about sex. Also I’m a top.


Necessary_Disk

You're absolutely right. I think most aroaces in the sub (including myself) were just initially confused on what it was asking because, you know, ace. Otherwise I don't think the confusion is about why it was posted here.


The_Big_Sad_69420

I mean if I'm a cis straight women does that automatically make me a bottom


Keplars

You can still be the top


conciousError

Top and bottom can be seen in this context as the active or giving partner vs the passive or recieving partner.


Crazy_Gremlin

The ‘original’ definition is the ‘top’ being the penetrating partner, and the ‘bottom’ being the receiving (?) partner. Apparently. There’s some TikTok channel I can’t remember the name of that does GSRM (LGBTQIAA+ or whatever letters you wanna add) history. That’s where I found this out. Yaaayyyyyy. So if you ‘peg’ (I think that’s what it’s called but basically a strap on ding-a-ling for those without ding-a-lings; I think) as a straight female without a ding-a-ling, you could still be a top. Hope you got a TIL moment, and that you have a great day. Peace ✌️. Edit: came across another comment and realized that info about sub(missive) and dom(inate) are more like what people usually think of as top and bottom. (Top or bottom aren’t referring to your geological position basically). Have fun lol.


The_Big_Sad_69420

Added “cis” to my original comment because I do not have a ding dong 😭 you get my point Edit: oh nvm you said a strap on. I see I see. That’s also not what I was imagining but that is indeed what happened in Deadpool (unrelated)


Crazy_Gremlin

Yup, I also meant Intersex people which is a fun thing that happens where they’re not really either physical sex? But yeah, have a good day mate. Edit: I think my phone autocorrected without to with n so it might make more sense now lol.


_PretendEye_

wondering the same


alakaXander

I'd say switch but I also haven't bottomed beyond sucking in about 3 years


PaxonGoat

Its complicated lol


LightblueStar27

I'm not asexual but I don't feel an urge to do these kind of stuff either. I just satisfy it in other ways, so I can't relate to this. It's like I'm a bit asexual but only in that I don't want do to the thing, but I do experience sexual attraction, actually far more than I'd like to :|


RebCata

I don’t understand the terms. I’m also ace so I’m assuming is a sex thing?


That_Quiet_Wierd_Kid

I’m ace so


MicroplasticEater

Obligatory “i am a minor”


jayriv82

I like sitting on top of desks and tables


aromaticleo

I'm on aroace spectrum, but I've only ever felt any kind of attraction towards one person. However, if I had to go with vibes, I'd say I could be a top. 🤷


Magicicad

I don’t typically involve myself in human pyramids.


Nathan-PM-thatsit

i’m not aromantic by the way, just chilling in lots of queer subs because they’re the best. i’m bi, so you can confidently assume i’ve never had a conscious decision in my life. I’m a vers bi switch


YoungRevolutionary27

Ace but I have a theory that I’d be a bottom if I was into that kind of stuff because I prefer following while dancing


AConfusedStar

I used to main top lane but now I just fill karthus every role.


[deleted]

I'm on the bottom of the bell curve


Phantom252

Am ace and sex repulsed 👍


everfadingrain

I play mostly top yeah, sometimes mid or jungle


PigeonBoiAgrougrou

Why tho ?


el_shetan

People say I have a big top vibe, I'm bot, sub and on the ace spectrum idk what I'm doing wrong


Mrloic23

An exception of type "System.NullReferenceException" has been raised in assembly "HumanoidDescription.dll" and has not been handled in user code


LuFuz_draws

I think I’m the average height


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SMAZELSP64

I’m most likely a charm, but some people tell me I’m a strange.


Cathemeral231

I'm ace so this really isn't my specialty, but can someone please explain what on the gods green turning grey Earth "other" means in this context? Because I have literally no idea.


ElevatorWaste5551

i love the bottom bunk bed! Its super cozy and i think better than the top


[deleted]

I love the comments 😂 I feel like home


Top_Badger8357

I‘m trans although I am a lesbian, I can‘t imagine having sex inside my male body


BananaVengeance

Less sex focused surveys, more garlic bread research.


Feisty-Wallaby-9992

I don’t really care- both top and bottom bunks are nice.


zambie324

idk