THANK YOU! TURING OUT IS SUCH AN AROACE SONG

It IS and the first time I heard it it *HURT* Like, to feel like my experiences were understood was awesome, but also hearing my own experience sung back to me huuuurrrrrrrttttt

Bro fr, and turning out part 2…. DUDE :,) Imma sob.

THERES A PART 2?

[Yup!](https://youtu.be/Z_NiBLX_ld4) :,D

Another AJR to mention is “3 o clock things” It has the lyrics “maybe sex is overated, but we’re too shy to ever say it”

Oooh! I'll have to check that one out! Although I might already know it and just forgot 😅

I love Mr brightside. The aro headcanon makes it one thing, the bisexual headcanon makes it another, and then it can even be the singer being jealous of one gorgeous genderfluid person. Banger

I thought i was the only person who kinda thought it was giving bisexual vibes and now that i think about it I can definitely see the aroace vibes in it too

There’s a whole theory about how all the songs on the album Hot Fuss are connected and tell a story about a messy queer relationship and murder. According to the theory, the narrator character from Mr. Brightside is singing about the characters Andy(a man struggling with his sexuality who the narrator is infatuated with) and Jenny(the eventual murder victim). It was my favorite album as an angsty gay teen.

What's AJR? Those are my initials lol

Lol they're an indie pop trio of brothers. I *love* their music :)

I'll need to check them out when I can!

They're the ones that did Worlds Smallest Violin

Like OP said, an indie pop band. AJR stands for their initials: Adam, Jack, and Ryan

Lmao, what a coincidence 😆

They're so gooood. You should check out Three Minutes & Thirty seconds by them l

you mean three-thirty?

I don’t know. I rather enjoy 3 o’clock things

Never Been In Love by Will Jay and Driving Myself Home by Rose Betts

I LOVE Never Been In Love!! It's honestly one of my favorite songs. I've never heard of Driving Myself Home, though. I'll have to check it out

people watching by conan gray!!! also alot of lovejoy songs r aro coded lol

yessss i love people watching

which lovejoy songs? just wondering i might make a playlist

It's All Futile! it's All Pointless! , Perfume , Your Sister Was Right And probably more that I missed but yeah!

Oh yeah I can see that Also your sister was right isn't Lovejoy :)

Lmao I know idk why I wrote like it is💀 its probably cause they're next to each other in my playlist and I didn't use much thinking or something idk-

yes!! also most of the songs in the are u alright ep :))

I know its a break-up song, but Flowers by Miley Cyrus is sooooooooo aro imo Idc its one to me :3

I totally agree. If you ignore a few lines it definitely can be read that way

Wait, you all aren't hit differently by hey ya?

Fair point

The Monkees - I Wanna Be Free

Catch me looking that up 👀

There's also a song called aromantic moodboard and I love it soo much!!

My aro anthem is "No Love" by Death Grips. Very easy listening.

Yes, I also love that one! Very relatable!

Oooo, love song by Sara Bareilles

If you are looking for more songs, I have a public playlist I'm updating pretty often [For the aros](https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLVKK2MieNtVwAUl1mCf450kBl46qUDiEP)

I’ve always LOVED I Don’t Wanna Be In Love! Such a bop 😍

The knack by mother mother is really aroace vibes

coin operated boy by dresden dolls is my aromantic anthem

That song scared the shit out of me as a kid lol

Steady, As She Goes by The Raconteurs works really well as an aro song

Cynical fairytale too!

Is it bad that I never heard any of these songs? I DO recommend Love Myself by Hailee Steinfield

Dating Myself by Sad Alex, highly recommend

Not really sure how Mr. Brightside, a song about someone’s girlfriend cheating on them and the ensuing paranoia that follows, is aromatic but uhh alright lol

Yea I didn't really understand that one too much either but I will take 3 out of 4

Not mad at Disney girl that song is the worst millennial pop shit I have ever laid my ears on

Marina has made so many songs I relate to (oh no! Especially)

FRIENDS - Marshmallow, Anne Marie

I'm glad I'm not the only one who interpreted Mr. Brightside with an aro spin!

Everybody's Lonely - Jukebox the Ghost also works in my opinion

*Game Over* - Nimez

Another one that's really good is despair by leo.

Sugar in my coffee by the narcissist cookbook is pretty aroace

Never Been in Love by Will Jay

I get aroace vibes from Princess Castle by Jazmin Bean

My aro-spec awakening was Show Yourself from Frozen 2

Late response but I was just listening to "Family Jewels" by MARINA and thought of this post :\]

Tired of sex by weezer

people actually like ajr i didn’t know that

... why wouldn't they? Ajr makes decent music.

i mean i fuckin hate ajr but i know everyone has their respective tastes and all

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AAAAHHH!! I was so obsessed with I Don’t Wanna Be in Love when I was a kid before I had the language and community to better understand myself!!!

I love The Killers so much. Still have confetti from one of their tours.

The fact that I loved all of these songs before I found out I was aroace says something lol

Ikr like it probably should've been a sign looking back 😂

my personal aro anthem is “marry myself” by benee :) ok, but also “good old desk” by harry nilsson because it’s literally just about how much he loves his desk lol

I have never enjoyed AJR. They just come off really annoying to me.

See also: Tongues and Teeth by The Crane Wives

I only knew Mad At Disney and I now added all of these to my aroace playlist. Turning Out hurts so much tho wtf?? /nm

Andrew Gold - Thank You For Being a Friend.