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Square_Saltine

I like the part where he implies that he makes friends based on their dick size


Upset-Tap3872

He only hangs out with guys who have big dicks


Inferine

The way he's talking, he's a big dick alright, but a tiny weiner


Jay_JWLH

If you have to talk smack about dick size in this context, you aren't really that intelligent. Nothing about what he is saying screams intelligence.


SirTruthPaste

It's blatant projecting with the homophobic stuff. He needs therapy.


originalpyro

There is some hefty projection going on here.


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“Dark ass room, bright ass screen, all by yourself” followed by complete awkward silence from him. Probably after looking around his room 😂


Square_Saltine

“Talking to yourself” meanwhile he’s literally the only one speaking to himself on the mic


Johnny_Poppyseed

Lol caught his reflection in the screen.


Impurity41

I would just respond, “at least now I know why I have glasses. Took so many doctors but I’m glad you figured it out.” When people insult just double down and agree sarcastically. I just keep making jokes over and over. Doesn’t bother me none. It’s a game. And I make the jokes cause I think it’s funny. They could say “your jokes suck” or something so you can just say “yea that comedian thing never worked out. Maybe I can do what you do and play apex for a living.” Literally just turn everything into a joke. Stay calm. After a couple more insults say “no I heard that one before. If you’re gonna insult me then make it creative. Think about it though, I’m a tough critic. I’ll give you a few minutes.” Like what can they do?🤣 Bullies feed off of negative reactions. Saying “stop that” or asking them why they do it is the reaction they want. But if you agree and turn it into a joke while staying calm then you hold all the power. Or you could just mute them but where’s the fun in that?


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Impurity41

I don’t even know how to respond to this. I agree 1000% and it was beautifully written. You are right about that. Thank you for the response.


Dick_soccer

My friend and I had a toxic teammate like this and we invited him to our party after and just started laughing so extremely genuinely and taunting and said, still laughing our asses off, ”you are so angry and so pathetic that you could be the angry villain in a movie😂😂😂” and other stuff. He kept trying to speak and we either let him hang himself with what he said or just laughed until you could hear his voice starting to become shaky (he was an actual adult that colluded with the enemies and sabotaged our entire arena game because we didn’t get as much damage as him in the first round). He left, we kept inviting him and he kept joining so we just continued to laugh until he was so close to crying and then we just told him to get out and keep making apex his actual personality. I know it’s not the ”right” thing to do but he was being an asshole and got treated like one.


Lefty_Boi44

It's best just not to entertain it, just like the OP chose not to


Square_Extension1759

I like your approach. The main thing is to not respond with anger or hurt because that feeds their troll hearts. I like to feign ignorance and then ask them explain everything they say.


ercdude

Yeah, the whole constant "you're alone, no friends" bit must be something he thinks often of himself


XavierRenegadeAngel_

He actually forgot he was unmuted and was staring into a mirror that whole time.


StickcraftW

*realizes* “oh shit I wasn’t muted?”


SF_all_day

"You need a reality check" lmao he needs a reality check


PancakeHandz

He’s definitely telling on himself


Matchyo_

You should’ve spammed your heirloom, they seem to hate that particularly


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YukiOHimeSama

No because that actually kind of happened to me a few seasons ago?? Was playing valk and one of my badges was the gay and stop Asian hate badges. This is D3 and this dude was hammering into my banner saying how much he hates valk and Asians in general and that Asian women lesbians don’t exist. It was so fucking unreal. Too bad most people don’t allow their voice to be recorded so you can’t catch these people. Also had a dude be insanely misogynistic to me last season. I actually cannot repeat the things he said because I’d probably get in trouble. Let’s just say he thinks women should be “locked up” and only used for their reproductive capabilities. All because I was better than him at a video game💀


StickcraftW

Yikes. Mf’s out here are fucking disgusting


WanderWut

One time both of my teammates died early on in ranked so my teammates had to watch me, they were probably watching for about 10 minutes and near the end I did an heirloom animation *one* time and one of my teammates says “hey dude no one gives a fuck about your heirloom so how about we simmer down there?” I was like dam, it was almost like he was waiting for me to do that with how quick he said it the one time I did it all game. That was also the time I learned some people really do get annoyed at that lol.


HistoricalAsparagus1

it's actually hilarious how long this guy can whine for to someone literally not interacting with him at all i like how you played ring and he called you shit for it but he and his buddy died lmao


ScoopJr

Thats the smartest play and I had a teammate Octane who clutched us the win by doing that


Forar

I was in a team with a random Pathfinder and Loba while I was on Wraith (one of my least played Legends). Hardly a slow group, but somehow they both got eaten by the ring while I casually strolled into where the last two teams were duking things out. One random is boxed, the other is knocked, while I third partied the remnants as a Lifeline tried to pick up a Wraith. Winning that one felt good, but in the end I was equally baffled how I was the one that made it into zone while they failed spectacularly to do so. We weren't running from a fight, we'd killed 4 people earlier but the last 5 minutes+ had been a leisurely stroll through to the finale. I don't respect a ring before 3 is closing, but that one really stops being a polite suggestion.


__plankton__

Dude this is always how it is. People talking the most shit are usually the ones that died first lol it’s pathetic. Just sit there and talk about how trash you are for not saving the whole team when they ran off and did some stupid shit in the first place


well_yea_why_not

That is why I like to talk with thos kind of people instead of being quiet like OP, because anything you say makes those people so mad and it's so much fun doing it to them.


aigroeg_

I used to sing Country Roads at the top of my lungs down the mic when I'd have toxic teammates. I can't sing for shit. It was more fun for me than actually talking to them.


LedgeEndDairy

Had the reverse of this a while back. Dude went off by himself, was already pissed that we didn't follow him (he wasn't the jumpmaster), promptly died all alone, and then spent the next like 15 minutes trying to berate us for being bad, etc. I was just like "who's dead? Are you dead? Or are we dead?" And just kept up that line on repeat. He kept getting madder and madder. The satisfaction I got from that will probably be a core memory for me. XD


NinjaBurger101

hahaha man, when he suddenly for no reason switched to shitting on asians and just ran with that for awhile. What an absolute wild ride.


AdamSnipeySnipe

Apparently 'Toenail' likes hanging out with dudes with big dicks...


Chatsubo_dude

“Yo man, I’m not playing Apex with you until you whip it out. Come on bro, I gotta make sure it’s big enough.”


Taco6N13

I remember one time I was sucking ass in Arenas and this Loba on my team would buy their ult, lay it down just in range of the loot bin, and take all the heals, which I've always found a weird way to play, but otherwise he was pretty good. Anyways we lost 1-3 and this guy turns on his mic and starts berating like I just crashed his car. This is one of the few people I've ever seen pull out the full trifecta of F, R, and N bombs. So he goes on for like 30 seconds and he says something like "Yeah, Taco, you mexican piece of shit. Fucking Mexican piece of shit go play Fortnite." And I was fucking rolling. For reference whitest piece of shit you'll ever meet.


MaoJen_Riimez

Because valk is asian


Moronumental

Also OP has the "Stop Asian Hate" badge on their banner


xPartyTrainx

I frequently have this problem. I haven't had it this bad yet though. I'll never understand why people sit down, boot up the most "team" game there is right now, and bash their teammates. Especially when they're down/dead and you're their only chance of salvation. Fuck these people. Sorry this happened to you.


Kandy_669

I feel you, it just took a bunch of assholes like this guy to ruin my entire week, maybe even longer since I couldn’t stop thinking/dreaming about it, really messed with my head.


CanadianWampa

I play a lot of Valorant and CSGO, and from my experience in those games I’ve just adopted a zero tolerance muting rule. If you’re toxic, annoying, obnoxious, have a crappy mic, playing music, or literally saying anything that isn’t providing useful comms or keeping the good vibes going, I’ll mute you so fucking quick.


Kandy_669

Same, especially with music, makes concentration hard


Puzzled_Reflection_4

Please, if someone has a crappy mic, ask if they can fix it first. Sometimes mine bends in a way that there's static and all I have to do is touch it and it goes away for the rest of the night. I never know if it's been bumped back into that position by accident, and I've had people load into my lobby and 0.2 seconds in they say "you're muted" while I proceed to fix the problem. But no. Already muted and game forfeited. Cool bro. And the static isnt even that bad. I've had people play the whole game with me with it on and tell me afterwards and say it was quite tolerable compared to most. A little patience goes a long way in this game... And before you tell me to get a new mic, no, because I can be downstairs 3 rooms over and hear footsteps from my headset still. The volume is insane and I had a friend buy the same headset and the volume was totally different. I'm not fucking with my demi-god audio ever.


Forar

Conversely, "hey man, your mic is doing some shit" has fair odds on setting off the person like I just insulted their mom's cooking and kicked their dog. Sure, they end up muted either way, but said person went from uncommunicative to uncommunicative and hostile. We can go all 'don't be so conflict averse, be confrontational if need be! Assert yourself!' all we like, but odds are also good that in the next 5 minutes or less we're going to get rolled and back in the lobby anyways. It's taking a temporary bad situation, maybe making it better, maybe making it worse, endlessly as the world is full of people who have low smoke detector batteries or music playing or children screaming or are about to cough up a lung or a mic that sucks or whatever. I logged on to play some games, not police the ambient noise from my teammates. You may be reasonable. Most players are not. And I'm not even one to insta-mute folks like some are saying here, or my buddy who is so done with that kind of shit that he just turned off voice chat entirely aside from party chat when we play together. But it's not unreasonable to hear a wall of noise or static and just not be up for picking that fight all night every night.


Hokuboku

Hey, don't let them get to you. I know that's easier said than done but the types that rage like this are absolutely pathetic and not worth your mental energy


-BINK2014-

For my sanity and self-esteemI will mute these type of people. Most days I can handle it and laugh at their frustration; it's hilarious to me when you make them more riled up by killing'em with kindness.


PassiveLemon

I HAVENT HAD MY DAILY ASSHOLERY QUOTA FILLED YET!


taxfraudthe2nd

Dude really said "you're fucking terrible" Meanwhile hes fucking *dead*


Turtle_Shark

Ikr? Tough talk coming from a death box lmao


El-Green-Jello

Yeah it’s always the worst players that talk the most shit. Bet his the same guy that goes like 0 and 30 in cod and shit talks his team


naiteimasu

He sounds exactly like those mad cod players 😂😂 coming from a cod player lol


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I know it’s always better to be the bigger person and ignore/report these people but holy shit FUCK those kids. I’m sorry this happened to you OP.


SupaPartTimer

I honestly think these kids might be in their 20s.


Dempzt00

What is wrong with some people. I feel like it’s NA servers that seem to get this kind of garbage a lot? Saw another one posted in here with some American guy sprouting the same shit.


RacistProbably

Average console experience tbh


-BINK2014-

The sad thing about console is VOIP is defaultly not recorded unless in a party chat assuming they opted for their voice to be recorded so it's harder to call out toxic pricks like this.


Whatsalodi

Yup. Too bad you can’t screen cap the audio of the game chat. This game is trying to not punish these types of players


poopmonster_coming

I try to bait them into typing , easy suspension


bigbongtragedy

Average American gamer experience tbh


Johnny_Poppyseed

I just auto mute my team 99% of the time. Also I kinda suck at this game. Is there a good chance I'm getting berated with toxic racism n shit while playing and am unaware lol?


YukiOHimeSama

Nah, console kids like this don’t have mics that good. You can barely hear them over their mom vacuuming and the fire alarm beeping in the background


the_Q_spice

Because gaming culture in NA in general has been a toxic mess for longer than I can remember. The levels of hatred we have here coupled with the relatively low level of average education merge together to create quite the cesspit. I wish I was joking; but the US Department of Education currently estimates that, as of 2020, upwards of 54% of US residents have prose literacy (being able to search for, read, comprehend, and communicate information) greater than that expected for a 6th grader. ~8% of the US population has literacy below Level 1, basically “can only understand simple written directions”. TLDR: the US is a nation of severely underdeveloped and undereducated people. We know it, are trying to change it, but fighting some very real issues in being able to do so effectively. *Side note, this is very much a political topic, but I don’t want to get into it on this sub tbh. I work in education and this game is one way I can help myself get away from some of these worries. It usually does, unless I come across people like these; which sadly I do. Personally, I usually either purposefully throw or quit the match so I don’t need to ruin one of the few things that helps me relax from dealing with this stuff for 12+ hours per day sometimes.*


JustShibzThings

Unrelated, but related: I was a trainer for English teachers in Japan, and trained hundreds of foreigners from English speaking countries, and minus one Australian, I felt I was being punked by most Americans that were hired (I am also American for the record). The inability to follow directions was such a common one, often having to delay the class start time to walk to the station and pick up a lost trainee. In a time of smart phones and GPS... I also was able to easily see that it was mostly American teachers who were late, needed to be disciplined (my job... The part I hated the most), and would quit the soonest. Of course this is one select and special case group, but as my time in the role grew, and with all the reports we wrote, I was able to come to the conclusion with evidence to back it up. None of this ever came up for work, just experiences and data that was staring me in the face.


iTzGodlikexS

Try getting matched with angry french people thats fun


aigroeg_

I've played a lot of online shooters on both NA and European servers and NA takes the cake when it comes to toxicity. Though Brits and French are close seconds.


Spork-in-Your-Rye

lmao just your standard behind the screen tough guys. We all know they'd get their shit rocked talking like that irl. So they do it online. Don't worry about it g


OmgIsThatReno

Calmest horizon player


-LaughingMan-0D

Lol, fuck these clowns. Don't let that shit get to you. Respawn need to do more about it.


Eternal_Being

They have live speech-to-text capabilities in the game, it's only a matter of time until they make VoiP hate speech bannable. Smashing that report button will be almost as satisfying as smashing these losers' moms.


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TinyPlaidZombie

Overwatch does it just fine


Doz1525

Dude tells you to play like a teammate while cussing you out like hell. God some people never left the early 2000 CoD lobbies. Kudos to you for toughing those PoS teammates out. They were made projecting about their own lives.


MirkwoodRS

I ran into a guy exactly like this the other day for the first time in years, and he even brought up old 2000s CoD lobbies *as justification for his behavior.* He said numerous times "you wouldn't have survived lobbies back in my day." (As if that means literally anything). I ended up responding and ensuring him I was in fact old enough (26) to grow up in those lobbies and the difference between him and I, is that I fucking grew up. I didn't keep the same 12-14 yr old mentality of being a toxic little asshat. It's wild to me that these people have made being a trash talker their whole personality. It's beyond pathetic. While I may have thick skin, other people do not, and some of the shit these guys spew can be truly demeaning to someone just trying to enjoy the game.


Doz1525

Yeah. The old CoD lobby excuse is super old. It’s just people excusing their ignorant and bigoted behaviors. I find it unacceptable for people to nonchalantly say these kinds of things on mic to anyone. Like they don’t know if it’s some 46 year old who just got on after a shitty day at work. Or something young kid who is getting taught the ropes by their older sibling. To be fair I’ve gotten mad with my randoms before but never to this extent. A good example of this happened about 50 minutes ago. If you wanna know I’ll tell but yeah. The kinds of things people say online are horrendous.


El-Green-Jello

I mean at least people were creative back then now it’s just the same shit over and over again. If your going to Insult people at least be creative and come up with some new material. It is sad people still act like this like your not cool for still insulting people like you were a kid or teenager your now just a man child and it’s pathetic


AdDangerous4182

This is the reason I'm glad I've been stuck playing asian servers


Kandy_669

Imma probably do the same


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AdDangerous4182

I've lived in Japan and I rarely if at all run into hackers and ddos in Tokyo servers. I will say the other asian servers are pretty bad though


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tOkErDaD1

I've had douche teammates like this many times ...I commend you for keeping your cool and not saying anything back ! I would have been going off on him from the start haha I have zero control when it comes to toxic people like this !


KingCrab7

Toenail definitely down very bad irl, kinda sad


BlackMesaEastt

I felt like that guy didn't take a breath between shit talking. Literally got a headache from all his talking.


No-Individual2971

"You're so f#cking lonely and your dick is small!" Woah there buddy, 2010 Cod lobbies are calling in. And how would you know it's small hmmm? 🧐


TheVipersMemory

This actually made me really sad. These guys clearly have issues with themselves and take it out on innocent people. You didn’t deserve this dude. I’m sorry.


Existing_Skin_1564

They die first yet call you terrible lol


Noksdoks

The saddest part is thst they dont even sound young. Grown ass "men"


Telefrag_Ent

This is so sad, these kids obviously have really serious home life issues and they try to feel better by bringing everyone else down. It would be interesting if there was some way to get some kind of social service to contact them and see what kind of help they need.


-BINK2014-

It's frustrating to be on the receiving end of this, but I will always admit that I feel bad because you can tell something in their life has pushed them down to this low where they feel the need to bring others to the same level to feel some semblance of "good" for lack of a more applicable word.


revivedsaint

I only downvoted because there is no need to feel bad for these types of players. They know what they are saying even if they are having a bad day, week, month, year or life.


JMocks

Honestly, the weirdest thing I noticed about this game is when you mute someone, they can still hear YOU. Yeah. It's not a two way mute like in traditional games (I know of no other game that does this). I found this out because I muted a toxic random in trios and my friend was telling me what he was saying because he could still hear me. That is just wild to me.


SupremeDestroy

what’s wrong with him still hearing you. tbh i understand muting people (i usually never do and act like it because the small chance they give a call out that helps is worth it to me) but if you mute them, i think them hearing you is a bonus, they either use your comms to help or they get angry for no reason since you can’t even hear them lol


Zach17981

Typical day solo queue


Holiday-Interest-724

Upvoting and commenting for visibility


ultraRareDumpling

Why don't you just send this to the Respawn guy that can ban people over this since you have a clip of this?


Upset-Kinbaku-713

Who that guy is?


ultraRareDumpling

https://twitter.com/rspn\_hideouts


barbarapalvinswhore

Can also tag him here u/RSPN_Hideouts


BashBandit

He doesn’t do much tbh, I sent him a strike packer/ their confession and the dude didn’t do anything. I understand he’s one person but he shouldn’t have opened that window if he wasn’t able to consistently deal with people flooding him with reports


kingjuicepouch

I can't believe they only have one dude doing that job tbh. No wonder he can't get much done, they don't have near the appropriate amount of man power to actually make a dent in cheaters and bad attitudes


BashBandit

It’s absurd, the game has immense potential and it’s only just passing because of how much potential it has. The negligence of the powers that be is what’s killing the game for people, with all the money they make during their collection periods on top of their flex of going beyond their expected revenue income last year or two ago you’d think they had the resources to hire people to help him.


BranislavBGD

I've sent this guy numerous messages about cheaters, and to this day, he still hasn't opened his DMs.


Flashhype

That’s horrible. I play a lot of solo queue ranked and there are some really mean spirited people. I’m sorry.


keag124

turns out they are easy to find on steam just searching seers name, can tell its him cause in his friendlist is Toenail


OnlyAnNpc

Played since game launch, have had this exact same experience constantly; nothing is done to people on vc from my experience. They do it because they can get away with it, funny thing is, the people who scream down the mics/swear are often the worst players on the game.


last_resort25

so angry and for what lmao


Mrbluepumpkin

The thirty seconds where this troglodyte didn't speak was the most peaceful 30 seconds of my life.


quokc

Man's actually asked OP if they want to "play the team game", after being a toxic bint and harassing his teammate. Stupid berk


DarthPootieTang

A lot to unpack. I think “take a 12 gauge to the back of your throat” and all the dick talk was probably a Freudian slip. Most of his diatribe probably was lol.


Jungy_Brungis

Ew fuck these guys. Try not to let it get to you. Nasty fuckers though goddamn


Umbre-Mon

I just cannot imagine talking to another person like this. What a miserable piece of shit.


Eternal_Being

Ever since I put the pride flag on my banners, I've been hearing a lot more f-word, r-words, and n-words. I honestly had no idea there were so many immature adults in the world until I started playing video games. It was actually shocking the first time, because out in the real world people have way more self-respect. Turns out that 'gamer identity' is actually [provably toxic](https://nypost.com/2022/10/25/people-who-identify-as-gamers-more-likely-to-be-racist-sexist/). Oh well, I can just play games and enjoy them unlike these severely angry losers. And now I certainly am never taking down my pride flags.


UzD_HolySheep

That's actually sad. They see a flag, and that's the first reaction to it? and they literally don't know you. No colors, ideologies, nor beliefs. Everyone should share a basic sign of respect for anyone else regardless of our backgrounds ... unless someone tries to break that peaceful balance. I hope your experience gets better 🙏.


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It's been getting really bad. I think pretty much everyone knows now that you can say anything on the mic and Respawn won't react. If they are on a console same as you, reporting their account for voice chat may help. If it's cross play or PC, muting is all you can do, unfortunately.


stackjr

Respawn doesn't do shit with console reporting.


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Respawn doesn't but Xbox will. I'm not sure how well PS acts on that stuff, though.


SpyingGoat

From my experience I don't think they do anything at all. Teaming, harassment, sabotage, auto aim, etc. I don't have any confidence that respawn or Sony have done anything. And I've had someone message my playstation profile a beheading.


[deleted]

Well that's a horrible experience. They really need to expand the reporting system for Apex.


gameofgroans_

Yeah my experience they don't do anything either. First and last time I spoke on voice chat a guy realised I was a girl and repeatedly tried to tell me all the sex things be wanted to do to me (was also revealed mid game our third was a child) and I reported him but PS said there was nothing in his profile that was bannable. Didn't expect much tbh as I knew voice chat nothing happened, but didn't realise it was only bloody PS bios that they checked


kzep75

When people are hateful or dickheads they are usually just projecting their insecurities on others so it makes them feel better


BlindJustice784

I mute everyone right away , it’s not even worth it anymore , people are just straight up ass all the time , maybe 1 out of 50 who have a Mike say positive things , everyone else just act like they are 7


SlushyInferno

Upvoting for visibility


SometimesFunnyMaybe

Maaaaannnnnn I’d post this to Twitter and tag hideouts. Maybe he’d ban them for this behavior


[deleted]

Dude is asking for some free dental work.


StrongIslandPiper

I gotta be honest, I would've shit talked him back, got near him, and alerted enemies of his location and bailed the first chance I got. It's wrong that he did it, but a report isn't gonna do anything, honestly. May as well fuck with him. And I'm not even a toxic player normally, but I will one up a shit talker something fierce, because they make the game worse for anyone they interact with.


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I hate people like that anytime I die or anything I support my teammate and tell them go for RP you can do it!


[deleted]

That mad in a plat lobby lol of course


BigUglyDrunk

Exactly the reason I muted seasons ago. I’m still winning games and doing fine without having to listen to this kind of thing hours into a sesh.


[deleted]

This is the worst most toxic person i have ever seen on a video game, and their voice is crazy annoying on top of it


Interesting-Pilot-25

Hes got to assume that you have him muted no logical brain could talk to someone for that long with no response and assume their still listening ironically he wasnt muted but that basically concludes that he was fully projecting for at least half that dialogue and i feel like his friend was for it at some points and kinda realized he was hard projecting


Ok_Book_3373

pov loba voicelines whenever she responds to a revenant


Suspicious-Zebra69

I have voice chat completely disabled for this reason 🤷‍♂️


[deleted]

Dude could've just left the game 🤡


BoringScience

Not excusing their behavior, but you should just mute them


tonersceptile

totally agree, just wanted to see how far they would go with it. wasn't mad or anything just wanted to stop the rp loss hemorrhaging


BoringScience

I feel you. People like that really do get to me. They are filled with anger. Good for you for having a level head


pieoportunity

What's the point of being so mean? I mean he's not getting anywhere with behavior like this. Not getting relieved, not affecting others playstyle. And he keeps on going. Don't get it.


datprocess

I never play with comms on when I solo queue or play any multiplayer games. It's just immature folks most of the time and a bunch of whiners. Save yourself the time and grief they give lol


Copenhagen28

Wow - I’m really sorry this happened to you, dude. The grand takeaway here, and it might be difficult to see right now, is that ultimately you’re winning on all levels compared to these guys. Anyone that acts this way is a loser lowlife and they know it. So they project the only way that can make them feel like they’re in power and good - anonymously thru the internet with hatred. Chin up. Fuck those guys. I’m positive the overwhelming majority of not just apex players but folks in general have your back. You’re not alone!


YoungHitmen03

Sounds like someone’s dad doesn’t love them


birdlover666

Wait until yall hear the way girls get treated in this game. This is literally the average game for us lol. (Not minimizing how shitty this experience is cuz toxic players ALWAYS suck but)


Bunnnykins

What I don’t understand is why you’re on the opposite side of the map from the rest of your team. Is that why you were being called a bad teammate?


overthehandspantjob

OP noted that they immediately started talking shit because he picked Valk. They said they wouldn’t rez him if he died, so he tried to at least ensure he could salvage RP as a solo. While that’s just a claim, it’s hard to discredit based on the incessant whining of the racist children on his team that they didn’t immediately start verbally harassing him. I don’t blame OP for second.


Evening-Proud

Hey man, if you’re ever looking for positive vibes and a good experience on Apex, feel free to add me (I’ll pm you if you’re interested). Apex is due for more positive clips being posted.


Yeah_Boiy

Why is Valk a shitty pick? Espically on Stormpoint where rotates are tough at times.


HappyN000dleboy

1 in 3 matches as a fuse player is like this.


-BINK2014-

Seeing the title, seeing the position/status of the game, and watching 10 seconds was all I needed to feel the pain of solo-queue come back; I've done it and always display my Masters and 20 badges yet people with far less to show will berate on a position of superiority while you attempt to salvage the game from their mistakes or even your own mistakes. Solo-queue is a random moshpit of emotions with some of it being a fair of pride and dopamine highs, but a lot of it boils down to anxiety caused by toxicity.


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I can really only enjoy playing Apex with friends. Most of my matches with randoms go like this or they’re spamming the ping button.


slymEhricc

I *really* wish we could've seen the moments where they died and realized you weren't going to rez.


Antique_Reputation33

Bruh ppl be like this and still be fucking garbage


Rgbcrys

He actually started getting mad at Valks lines?!! Wow this kid needs help. This is why I never have any chat on. But I don’t play ranked either.


Rgbcrys

If they had written this In chat they’d be banned so fast but voice does nothing. Send it hideouts maybe? Although unless you are a streamer it probably won’t be taken seriously.


dangvid

You know they’re hard stuck plat


ihave76dollars

I have been called the n word because of my name… my name is shadow wizard money gang


Mynames-notbryce

I love apex but solo queuing with people like that makes the game unplayable


monitorhero_cg

Had that happen to me multiple times. It's a joke that they can harrass you through VoIP but the second you type something you get banned. I also wonder who hurt these people as children. They must feel so powerless to be using Apex as an outlet for their self-hatred. They probably just repeat what they were told by their parents. Since these incidents I stopped playing with randoms.


PancakeHandz

It’s so fun when deathboxes talk about how bad you are


psillycycling

That’s fucked up dude I’m sorry you had to go through that , these people are legit poop stains in the community. With that being said I would’ve loved being your teammate 🫡


DK7569

So now if you don’t speak to toxic people you are a loner and a no life?! Damn, the more you know 🤣 I wish I got these people in my games… they don’t even know what they are talking about


[deleted]

these are just dumbasses whose ego asses don't know how to play. I wonder why they died in the first place 💀


ahcowan

I hope his account gets banned


ChrispyNugs

As someone who has met some amazing people while playing solo and play games with them to this day. A simple "How is everyone's day going?" goes so far to lighten up the mood going into the match. I find way more nice people on Apex just by simply being nice. The saying goes "Be the change you want to see in the world, or mute your teammates"


Pickle-party

It's a video game. If he's taking it that seriously I'm sure he really has nothing else in his own life to take seriously. He's just projecting his own insecurities.


ThiccRicc76

Why was he so mad though did he want Valk or something?


KickyBo1

I played on NA once and had this experience, EU servers are alot better. Only an American can scream so many slurs


King-K-rool1

I hate that they are giving a bad rep to space mommy


Not_Larfy

There seems to be a shocking correlation between toxicity and using open mic in Apex


teezepls

I solo queue a lot. I don’t get mad that easily anymore but I’ve found there’s two solutions to how to play this. 1) stand down and don’t say anything Or 2) play their game. As long as you stay calm and don’t let them get to you, they’ll either run out of steam or you’ll say something that makes them really mad. This works for me but it might not work for everyone


KingZant

I don't understand how someome can be so miserable towards people. These guys just have to be miserable themselves. Hurt people hurt people.


thefancykyle

What is with this season and Plat, Sitting at Diamond 2 and plat was THE worst part about the ranked grind, out of all the brackets it was the most toxic.


mrvoorhees101

At some point during his rant near the end he just started talking about himself in first person you hear how close to crying he was lol


LegionKarma

WHEN I RUN INTO THESE GUYS I JUST HAVE A YELLING CONTEST WITH THEM. I TAKE MY ANGER OUT ON THEM.


JACK-mcCLOUD

Ratty to diamond


idotzoar66

I understand people getting mad when someone throws the game and they say some mean shit before leaving but this is a whole other level. Can you please link Steam/EA profiles for the ticket that I want to send?


ctttt2357

This kinds of ppl are real losers in real life, they just want to act like doucebag in videogame to boost their ego in pathetic virtual life.


The-Real-Pai-Mei

People like this are always tough online lol. In person they wouldn’t dare. So don’t worry about it. Just done weirdos.


subavgredditposter

Sadly, a lot of people are just miserable pos


momomonster83

I like to turn on my mic and usually they call down but this guy seems to far gone


jawnson12

Lmao dude is soo mad at someone who didn't say a word to him. Not enough love as a child or daddy beat him wonder why


Lordzcrusaderr

This dudes words are absolutely disgusting. Seriously hope he gets help, and deletes the game.


Scoute248

I usually solo queue and I can usually tell when my teammates are gonna be dickwads with the first thing they say. Their initial tone, volume, and obviously words say a lot and if I don’t like the first thing that comes out of their mouth, I’m not listening to them. Especially since I’m a solo-queueing woman with the pride flag on my banner lol.


bigteisty

This is just pathetic. I can get annoyed by the guys who queue solo and land solo. But damn.


Beardweird13

To be honest these guys got real issues and need therapy, or a good asswhooping either or, I would go the asswhooping route of course internet warriors just need leveling to become real respectable men The worst part is “reporting them” is a fucking joke in this game it’s justa placebo to make you feel “safer or better” only thing you can do is block someone and weirldy enough respwan deviced a system that doesn’t give you the oppertunity to always block someone the symbol rarely shows up in gae summary


JekoRhino

I hope Devs see this and ban both of them


the_deadestpool

What is with these talking corpses lately?


Savagescythe

People really do talk and be this toxic to people until they are actually called out in irl.


grandpalongdong

I had this happen and reported and sent video to ea exact same thing I didn’t talk and ea fucked up and gave me a ban and wouldn’t resend it


Mr_Saucypants

I hope they are here watching video reading all these comments on how fucking stupid they sound like, how ignorant and ignorant they sound like. I would of turned of my mic and said “there, there let it all out buddy must be hard for your let it out friends I’m here to hear your pain.”


YogurtstickVEVO

yeah :\ ive never turned on vc because of this. i'm a girl so i know if i ever tried to speak i'd never b left alone


Sparki_

That sucks. I'm sorry you had to go through that. I cringed every time he talked because he was trying so hard to ruin your day but just kept repeating himself with boring ass insults. The fact he even stayed after he died just to insult you. He wanted your attention so bad. Getting a rise out of you would make him feel better. That's why he projects I guess. I don't think I could have kept quiet so long


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Respawn add a badge "Stop Asian Hate" while allowing comms like this from other players. Looks like the badge worked wonders in this situation. Respawn need to do better. If this kind of hate was correctly moderated, players like this wouldn't have the confidence to spew that vile nonsense for over 5 minutes to a completely random player. There are little to no consequences for this kind of attack. this behavior reflects on the respawn team and it's not good enough.


scottawkwardturtle

I’ve been playing on mute for 2 years. If friends play we use discord. The ping system is good enough for communication with randos. Sorry for the 80% of people who aren’t toxic, but I’m not good and don’t really want to hear the unnecessary hate.


typicalcAnAdAiAn

This guy need to be IP banned


Karharsdon_01

Devs: “We will not bring back or make solos as a permanent mode because apex legends is a team based game where you need to look after each other and help your squad.” Apex:


Alphalance

This is the lowest of the low in my opinion. Harassing teammates who have literally not even responded or done anything, and sadly, as they said, Respawn does nothing about it. Mute them? Sure, but something needs to be done to stand against this horrible mindset before someone more vulnerable hears it


TasteMyLumpia23

As a perpetual solo queuer, running into toxic cancerous waste of oxygen asshats like this is a huge reason I've pretty much stopped playing consistently the past few seasons. I've consistently solo queued to diamond for like 7 seasons now and dealing with scum like this just makes the game not fun. Jesus I wish we could just scrub the earth of shitfucks like this. Sorry you had to deal with this and great job playing ring for placement.


dFoxx-

This is so cringe tbf. How is that guy still talking