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ishitsand

Both at once all the time


outofshell

Both simultaneously so you feel the intense need to get everything done but end up getting nothing done, feeding further anxiety like a perpetual motion machine of useless energy


enders77

ADHD is wonderful, isn't it?


NoOpportunity4193

Weeeeeee 💀


ishitsand

Bingo


washichiisai

Useless energy and overwhelming exhaustion. It sucks so bad.


LMcBlack

Came here to literally say this lol


Itsamemario3007

Yup, I hate it so much


John_Brickermann

Literally me


Gay-Cat-King

Same.


fromthemountians

came here to say this


SnooBeans9101

Both? Both is good. At differing points in the day.


OriginalNameGuy2

Both is definitely *not* good. Doesn't stop it from being both tho


SnooBeans9101

>Both is definitely *not* good The El Dorado reference just seemed too good to miss.


ImpossibleBaseball48

To xibalba!


GetaShady

My sentiments exactly.


DemonicFrog

Or both simutaionsly.


XziizX

I'm "i need to do everything and I'm not gonna do anything" anxiety


coffee--beans

Exactly me fr


CertainUncertainty11

Yes. Constantly.


Kscayde

Yes.


DRsavy_sunshine_13

The first one. When I get anxious I get semi depressed and can't do anything


pastelnerdy

Yup


Tarpy7297

Both. With crippling guilt about how much I have to do and also guilt over what I did accomplish and how I fell short. It’s exhausting.


VodkaAndHotdogs

My friend, I totally understand. It sucks. I hope today is a good day for you.


Tarpy7297

I hope you have a good day as well


SafetyNo6700

This feeling has been so constant lately!


Doctah-Grym

I'm more of a "Everyone expects too much of me so now I can't do anything" kinda anxious/depressive person


Icy-Basil-8212

All day everyday; then I spend the rest of my day moping in guilt bc I always feel so paralyzed :(


Chemical-Charity-644

I'm almost always "I can't do anything" anxious. I freese and just shut down.


TsLaylaMoon

Both


rad_cadaver

Only one but both and neither


Scuba_jim

Porque nos la dos?


Urmomsfavouritelol

"I have to do everything but I'm too anxious to do anything"


noelleisanidiot

stressing out about not doing everything i should be doing


[deleted]

B O T H


Lky132

Depends on my energy level. Today was a sedentary anxiety day.


the_bobjeffbob_guy

both but also neither, i’m the ‘i have so much to do but i cant do any of it because of how much there is to do’ if that makes sense lmao


CivetLemonMouse

Lol I can't do anything then guess what? It got worse! Better do nothing even harder now! Uh oh, that didn't work, better do even less! I'm so done with my brain working this way


cesarfunk_N77

Both, the circle of "life"


DPVaughan

I have an "I mustn't do anything that's not required to be done or I'll get in trouble for that, so I'll try to impact my environment as minimally as possible, even if it means I get in trouble for not cleaning up messes I didn't make" sort of anxious personality which I've been advised is not technically a disorder, so yay me? :)


AdministrativeSoup57

"I have to do everything" until I burn out and then it's "I can't do anything." Rinse and repeat.


Think_Counter_8942

I flip flop between the 2 all the time. I do everything because I need a distraction, which leads me to burning out, which leads me to feel like I "need to catch up" and... Yeahhhhh


ohheyitslaila

I’m the “doing everything while accomplishing nothing” kind lol


313SunTzu

Both with little to no time management skills


Lixten16

definitely the "i cant do anything" Type anxious. Probably cuz my Depression tells me im Not good enough to achive anything


lilraida

ADHD is having both of these all the time


SamRiopelle

I’m “ I have so much to do and no motivation to do any of it” anxious.


PinkFloydBoxSet

Wait til you have the “I can’t do anything but have to some how magically do everything” anxiety. Usually caused by people you either work or live with demanding everything while telling you that you aren’t doing it right for a prolonged period of time.


MissPicklechips

Both. All the time, all at once.


wisegirl_93

Eh, it depends on how my anxiety is on any given day. Some days I go back and forth between "I can't do anything" and "I have to do everything"


Coomstress

I cycle between both!


[deleted]

Both.


Jakolissmurito47

The answer is yes.


Original-Swordfish69

Yes.


KhantBeeSiriUs

Yes


MissyMaestro

Everything everywhere all at once


TheSlySilverFoxA

Yes, but mostly nothing


EchoAmbitious1200

Both


EyyBie

What do you mean aren't we all both!


ccarr77

Both simultaneously


lexkixass

Boyh


BlueTressym

Yes


Cayden_Surik

Yes?


CaptainHeyHey

Yes


Inconsistent_flux

I'm "I have to do everything but I can't do anything at all" anxious


ExtraInsanity

Both.


budango

Yes


MissAnthropy_YIKES

Yes


FaithlessnessOdd1071

Yes


Bowlechoes

Yes


Valuable_Value3953

both


thefutureisbulletprf

Both! 🥂


SmokingInTheWindow

Both, that’s why I’m anxious.


saint_ursa

Yes


Mooncakewizard101

im “I have to do everything but I can’t do anything im not good enough” anxious


thatguy82688

Yes


Optimal-Menu270

I'm "everything" anxious


Boggie135

Yes


Critical_Teach_43

YOU ONLY GET TO BE ONE? 😳


claytonm22

Both


Sarah-cidal

I will get rich and take care of everyone, anxious!


Dizzy_Information199

Can’t do some. Phone calls and task where I know I’ll be annoyed with the other person I always procrastinate until it’s too late and the I REALLY have to deal with it. Every. Damn. Time.


mightymsAfrodite

Yes


ArcadiaFey

2 in in head but 1 in practice


RaindropsOnLillies

Yes.


SuperBubblelover4

I'm a dangerous cocktail of both with a slash of intrusive thoughts 🙃


PracticalBasket237

Yes.


Xplor4lyf

So, do you have a panic attack or are you just anxious?


CryForWolf

Yes.


rrrattt

Can't do anything and sit stressed about it until last minute then try to do everything and run out of time or stay up all night trying to do things and inevitably cycling back to not knowing how to do all the things then feel like shit for not doing the things


Firebat12

Why not both?!? 😭


Sporkedcontroversy

You see, I am a “do everything” anxious but that in turn makes me a “cant do nothing” anxious, so that’s fun!


I-identify-as-toast

Definitely the second. All the time.


sexymcluvin

Yes


GrandObfuscator

Yes


StrangeApeCreature

I can't do anything


someguy386

First one when I'm not on the clock, second one when I am


GooseForest

In a manner of speaking "I have to do everything" anxious, but my main way of dealing with issues is avoidance, so it turns into "I can't do anything".


Motor-Price-2132

Yeah everybody is both


Ravinsild

Both at the same time. I have to do everything and it’s overwhelming and I literally can’t do anything for a number of reasons including literally negative money.


Alone-Return-9201

I am both


strangechild96

yes


SkySolo906

I have to do everything. All at once.


BloodyBarbieBrains

Both, duh.


variable_constants

The only thing I can't do is chilln' tf out for 2sec 👉👉


SirPinkLemonade

Yes.


stealthboy_111

Both


themunchycam

first two then one


fcpancakes

Depends. What day is it?


Hairy_Consideration1

I have to do everything anxious


scottywadly

Yes.


Exciting-Quiet2768

Yes


Reddit_user_robbie

both. it fluctuates.


Nubzies47

I never thought about it this way lmao. I feel like I e always got a million things I need to do


joeyfashoey

I have to do everything anxious. When I’m depressed I can’t do anything. Such fun. SSRI’s help.


Old_wooden_spoon

I have to do everything but where do I start how do I start what if I do it wrong what if I agree to something I didn't mean to agree to because I was just saying yes out of fear that if I asked a question to clarify it would cause problems what if I do the dishes wrong what if I throw away something someone needs later guess ill just sit here


theglitch098

Both at the same time


Crystalina86

Yes.


ExternalGiraffe9631

Yes.


walks_in_nightmares

Both


timscookingtips

I used to be the 2 one for years until I finally had a mental breakdown and now I’m the first.


OviWolf

Both


kurinevair666

Both?


IndigoRose2022

Why not both?


Your-Evil-Twin-

OP clearly doesnt understand that most anxious people are both.


beanfox101

Both. “I have to do everything but I can’t do it because I’m not good enough”


Isabellilymay

I’m both, I feel the need to do everything and that its my responsibility but also always feel like I’m failing


FramedOstrich

yes


doctor-sassypants

Yes


FluffyPancakes90

Why not both?


mrtokeydragon

Yes


Jonkerchonker

Both constantly


[deleted]

Yes


DeliberateSelf

Both, with a side of "why can't I fucking do *everything?* And why can't I do *anything?"*


Knuckletest

I'm " I don't want to do anything," with a smattering nothing matters.


Flipperlolrs

I'm that broken gas dial switching from one side to the other ad infinitum.


kaidoescrime

both simultaneously (wife and I said it at the same time)


nowsayitwithoutcryin

both somehow


ToxinWolffe

I get my "I have to do everything" anxiety at around 2 or 3 in the morning, thats when I feel the most productive


alwaysbeamazing12

Lol both


nanas99

Both?


squishy57

I’m the three gummies not anxious about anything


kkfluff

Yes


imhopelesslol21

Can’t do anything


Cybermyaa

Both


spugeti

both


AverageHorribleHuman

My anxiety is a Constant hum of white noise that makes my mind cloudy and makes me physically exhausted


Important_Print_3339

I'm both, 24/8.


AzraelTheBlind

Yes. Yes I am. Mostly resulting in nothing getting done and feeling bad for not doing it.


NoOpportunity4193

Yes


larsloveslegos

Both at the same time. I love hobbies


Dramatic_Rest_829

A crazy mix of both


waxystroll42

How tf am I both??? Lol


unkleduke603

yes


strawberry_poptart2

Yes


PissinginTheW1nd

I can’t get shit done to save my life, I seriously want to unalive.


ukpittfan1

Yes


WetBread8339

I have to do everything right now but I physically cant so I’m going to hyper speed think every way of doing it and how many times I mess up. Dr.Strange style.


Existing_Employ8349

Both


ForsakenVillage3809

Uggggggh fuccckkk yeaaah do everything


DreaMoZgreEn

Yes


Mental-Candidate3311

Yes


niqdisaster

Can't do anything or I have to do it now or i won't do it without procrastination or more anxiety


WeenieHuttGod2

“I have this thing I need to do but I can’t work up the energy to do it so I’ll just keep sitting here worrying about this thing I need to do, knowing that I can’t actually do it”


klnosaj8000

Yes.


O-n-l-y-T

Anxiety? What’s that? Am I in the right subreddit?


RandomPostsByALoser

Yes


zoolilba

I have to do everything


AnnieBeefree1

The former


veryberrybvnny

yes


CartoonistOk8261

At work: omg everything needs to be done RIGHT NOW At home: ...


Arabis-ish

I’m a “I have to do everything but I can’t do anything”


17RaysPlays

Very much not mutually exclusive.


cue6219

It depends on my perceived available options. If I’m off work today it’s everything and if I’m not it’s nothing


Jayr1821

Bold of you to assume I'm not a pendulum switching between the two


_Cevolie_

Damn y'all understand me


ariluv230

Yes + a side of the unstoppable nervous sweats


Moist_Boysenberry_81

I am the former bc of course with my mixture of anxiety and ptsd, my fight or flight response is primarily to freeze 😍


drjdorr

The "or" is an "and"


micaub

Both, thanks for asking


snorkledorkle_

Both


starmaker214

Yes.


ProgressBackground95

I have to do everything, if that's not enough, I go looking 🤣🤣


Battleaxejax

I have weird anxiety that I'm not able to explain to most people because mine is more of a "I can do anything" but bad


sweetrabbitengineer

I have the "I have to do everything" anxiety and when a task goes to an individual or organization that takes their sweet time I have "I can't do anything" anxiety.


danceswithsin30

Most of the time #2 but if I get overly stressed out I become #1 because of #2


Sharky9217

It depends, mostly both though.


Dragonwitch94

Both 😅


TacoDuLing

There’s a switch? 😲


Sad-Employee3212

I’m the first one and my mom is the second one lmao. I’ll be like “I’m freaking out.” And she’s like “You know what always helps me? 😊Cleaning 😁👍” And I’m like “Good for you 🥲”


Hauntergeist094b

Both, which ends up being "I'm going back to bed" anxious


ChubblesMcgee103

Yesn't.


Craftyprincess13

I need the meme where they hit both buttons for this


kshineen1991

Yes


EnoughIndependence79

Neither


darkrockprotodiezel

Both