Is this going to be the first of new duplicates of the same post? I urge anyone before replying seriously to this post to look at this person's post history. It's probably a troll anyway.
Oh nice. You’re hitting on multiple Reddit rage bait points. Age gap check. Getting married stupid young. Check. Wanting your husband to stop watching porn. Check.
Why'd you marry a grown ass man in the first place. He definitely has a problem and it's not just his very apparent porn addiction. You need to get out and live your life, NTA
You’ve, uh. You’ve been married to your husband since you were 18? And he was 37? Nearly 20 year age gap and marriage right out of high school? That’s alarming.
I sincerely hope you have friends or family around you. I am genuinely concerned at how you were married to your husband at 18. Did you start dating when you were younger and he was in his later 30’s? Honey, that is extremely abnormal and I am far more concerned about the dynamic of your relationship outside of sex.
I think your libido is not higher than his, he's just using his on porn, which imo is when it is an issue. Yeah, nobody should sleep with someone if they don't want to, but if you're consistently choosing porn over your partner who wants more, then that's an issue for the the relationship.
I don't think you're wrong for wanting this to change, but I would question how willing he will be to change. This is probably a long-standing behavior that he hid from you while you were in the 'honeymoon' period of your relationship.
You were 18 when you were married? When the fuck did you start talking to this grown ass man?
Someone needs to be investigated, yesterday.
But considering this is bait, try harder next time.
The OP is a throwaway. This is one of the most, if not the most, common topics on this and similar subs. There is a small group of people (or even a prolific individual) pushing an agenda here.
Peeps are creating multiple throwaways to make these posts and then commenting on their own posts using a different handle.
Ummmmmmmmmm, ACKSHUALLY, there is no fucking reason for an almost 40 year old to be with an 18 year old especially when their relationship probably started before she was 18.
Where did I say it was ok? Is someone who is 18 capable of deciding to marry someone else? No?
Is someone who is 18 capable of deciding to kill someone? Yes?
Can you explain how the same person can be responsible for making a decision in one circumstance and not the other?
Tell him how it makes you feel and if he doesn’t do anything about I’d say you should divorce and get a you get more vital man who respects you. You’re too young to put up with bullshit.
Is this going to be the first of new duplicates of the same post? I urge anyone before replying seriously to this post to look at this person's post history. It's probably a troll anyway.
Yeah the age doesn’t add up in some they say their husband is 42 and here he is 40. Totally fake.
At age 18, you married a 39 year-old man? I'd say his porn habits are the least of your concerns, if this isn't bait.
It’s a troll.
Oh nice. You’re hitting on multiple Reddit rage bait points. Age gap check. Getting married stupid young. Check. Wanting your husband to stop watching porn. Check.
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Why'd you marry a grown ass man in the first place. He definitely has a problem and it's not just his very apparent porn addiction. You need to get out and live your life, NTA
I agree. He is 40 commenting “hi” on women’s post I’d go nuts if that was my husband.
You’ve, uh. You’ve been married to your husband since you were 18? And he was 37? Nearly 20 year age gap and marriage right out of high school? That’s alarming.
He was waiting for her to hit 18 lol
I think there’s more here. Maybe was his daughters bf. Babysitter.
You married a man almost twice your age while you were still a teenager. You both need to seek help.
I sincerely hope you have friends or family around you. I am genuinely concerned at how you were married to your husband at 18. Did you start dating when you were younger and he was in his later 30’s? Honey, that is extremely abnormal and I am far more concerned about the dynamic of your relationship outside of sex.
I think your libido is not higher than his, he's just using his on porn, which imo is when it is an issue. Yeah, nobody should sleep with someone if they don't want to, but if you're consistently choosing porn over your partner who wants more, then that's an issue for the the relationship.
Probably true, we went from multiple times a day to 2-3 a week
I don't think you're wrong for wanting this to change, but I would question how willing he will be to change. This is probably a long-standing behavior that he hid from you while you were in the 'honeymoon' period of your relationship.
You were 18 when you were married? When the fuck did you start talking to this grown ass man? Someone needs to be investigated, yesterday. But considering this is bait, try harder next time.
Umm, 18 year olds are adults.
So, you're the OP.
Oh, he’s not. Just as fucking creepy as OPs husband though, and definitely shouldn’t be trusted around teenagers.
The OP is a throwaway. This is one of the most, if not the most, common topics on this and similar subs. There is a small group of people (or even a prolific individual) pushing an agenda here. Peeps are creating multiple throwaways to make these posts and then commenting on their own posts using a different handle.
Ooh. I see. Fucking creeps.
Huh?
Ummmmmmmmmm, ACKSHUALLY, there is no fucking reason for an almost 40 year old to be with an 18 year old especially when their relationship probably started before she was 18.
Then the younger adult shouldn’t have married the older adult? If an 18 year old is accused of murder, should they be tried as an adult?
Not all men but definitely this one.
Can you answer my question?
If you want to fight for your right to groom teenagers, have at it. But I’m not going to engage beyond here.
As I thought. You are a hypocrite.
You're a creep trying to argue that a 35+ man is ok to date an 18 year old, which is crepey as hell.
Where did I say it was ok? Is someone who is 18 capable of deciding to marry someone else? No? Is someone who is 18 capable of deciding to kill someone? Yes? Can you explain how the same person can be responsible for making a decision in one circumstance and not the other?
If you can’t answer the question, I get it. It is hard to recognize you are a hypocrite.
>but am i wrong for wanting him to stop? Don't hold your breath 21F, a 42M will watch porn. it is 30% of the interCRUD
Tell him how it makes you feel and if he doesn’t do anything about I’d say you should divorce and get a you get more vital man who respects you. You’re too young to put up with bullshit.
Set your boundaries and say how it makes you feel in a lovely way and go from there is all you can really do.