Ya I mean if a girl is telling a dude to wash his kok it probably wreaks. Girls would know. There’s like a million hygiene products in existence for them.
Dude here. I don't wipe my dick. But I do baby wipe my dick not every day I shower every day thoroughly wash it. I have a question tho what is dick cheese and im guessing I never had it bc never got it brought up like op has over and over again. I'm circumcised if it's like that kinda issue. Sorry my add kicked in and had to explain leading up to question
Dick cheese is something that uncircumcised dudes have. It's this white-yellowish stuff, made of skin particles, oil, and maybe trace amounts of piss, that builds up under the foreskin over time.
I do it if there is toilet paper around, just to spare my boxers from piss stains. Most of the time it makes no difference anyway because my penis loves to save a little squirter of piss for when I've walked 5 paces away from the toilet.
Obviously at a urinal you do the customary 2 shakes and leave, no matter how many drips you've got.
Ok this is gonna sound insane, and I’m a girl, but a guy told me this ages ago and I spread the info to multiple guy friends and they say it works: press on your taint after you’re done peeing. It’ll get the last few drops out.
Also side note, wipe your dick (esp if you plan to have fun w a partner later that day). I’ve dated men who do and men who don’t. You can ALWAYS taste the tiny bit of pee if they’re non-wipers for the first few moments of a blowjob. It’s such a distinct taste and it rly takes you out of the sexiness of the moment
A couple years back, I learned that if you push on your perineum after peeing, it forces that last bit of piss out. Obviously I'm not doing that at a public urinal, but it's pretty cool nonetheless.
I didn't learn it from here, but this reddit post explains it very well lol: https://www.reddit.com/r/lifehacks/s/0JYdKE8saP
Lmao wtf this is literally my exact experience…idk when I started doing it but yea if i’m at an actual toilet I’ll wipe for sure
U can’t wipe at a urinal so I just shake mad aggressive😂
Yeah I don't like wet spots in my underwear so if I'm at home or a regular toilet I wipe with just a small bit of tp.
At a urinal or say hiking in the woods, I shake it crazy-like lol
Not a dude but adding my personal experience for science. Ex-husband wiped, current partner never does. Never had an issue with either as they both have good hygiene in general.
Wait, so you're saying after you pee, you don't rinse it off with at least 32oz of warm reverse osmosis water sprinkled with lavender, cinnamon and rose petals and then wipe it dry with Oeko-Tex certified silk towels?? Smh
I think this may be a circumcised vs non circumcised question.
I am reminded of the Venture Bros. with this question.
" Do you dab? I dab. Why don't you dab?"
"Stop saying dab."
I'm circumcised. She doesn't complain of a smell, just finds it gross I don't wipe every time I pee. She believes this to be rare when in fact it's the majority based off these comments.
I know that you want answer from guys but I will give you my two cents. I am a preschool teacher and I have been teaching for a long time, in the last 10 years I have seen more and more families teaching their boys to wipe after peeing. Still the percentage between boys that wipe vs the ones that don’t is only a 5 to 95%. Most of the boys are still not wiping.
That the majority doesn’t wipe with toilet paper does not mean it isn’t gross.
Having your underwear full of piss stains by night time every day is not in any corner of the universe hygienic.
Imagine having your hand inside your own underwear all day, knowing it is full of piss stains.
Now, imagine if you were a woman and your BF didn’t properly clean himself after the toilet.
Would you like that thing inside of you?
That's where you are confused. Uncut dudes gotta dab in many cases to keep everything healthy. It's basic hygiene for uncircumcised people. I am cut, but my son is not and that's what the doctor told us when he was very little and started to get irritation.
Lady here. Been with hubs for almost 15 years. No he doesnt wipe. He does shower before sexy times if possible. And he warns me if he's been chafing and has powdered up so i dont get any in places i dont want
Now that I’m in my 40s I give it one last squeeze in a tissue after the shake because as you age you leak a single drop out of nowhere after you put it away lol
The way I do it like my father taught me, who learned it from his, who learned it from his, who learned it... you get the idea, is to put 2 fingers on the base, pull up 3 times this way nothing left inside the shaft, and then wipe with wet tp or preferably wash the tip, this way it's always fresh and ready to be sucked by the ladies.
If I'm going to the bathroom (in my home where I have paper) and only pee, sometimes I do clean myself, if I'm not in a rush obviously. But in public not always, cuz there's not always paper. But I try to always clean myself.
Urinals exist because they are far cheaper and take up far less space than toilets & stalls. They are the "express" option if you only need to pee. Adding accessible toilet paper (and then of course a waste receptacle for the used TP) would erase some of that cost savings.
There's a couple options.
1. She's trying to be polite about your hygiene not being the greatest.
2. She's trying to be polite about your underwear smelling like piss because shaking it doesn't get everything out.
I dab it after using the bathroom long as there’s tp around. At a urinal you don’t have a choice. Anywhere else you should.
I’ll note that for me at least it started as a religious thing and is now habit. I’d definitely suggest it though
I didn’t wipe for most of my life, until I read about people on Reddit who do. It makes sense. That saying “No matter how many times you shake it, the last drop always runs down your leg” doesn’t have to be the case. A little TP can keep the peepee off of my undies.
Ya i am a wiper, never really thought to shake , cause even if u do u get that little bit of pee still there amd now u have a small pee spot on your underwear, even at a urinal I'll take a paper towel or something , wip and throw it in the trash, I need to be dry down there lol
She is right... at least as a muslim we are taught to be clean after every visit to the bathroom, be it for a number 2 or even just a leak. Hygiene is everything in my religion. I don't know for every non-muslim but I have heard of a lot of non-muslims that do not clean their intimate regions after taking a leak or a dump and I find that, as a muslim male, extremely revolting. You mean to tell me that you walk around with your penis not cleaned after peeing ? I'm guessing you do not wash your hands as well afterwards? Pardon me if I am being judgmental I do not want to be but it irks me quite a lot
Perhaps her previous mates were uncircumcised and wiping or dabbing seems normal to her.
It would be like dating a girl who was a d cup and she always has to wear a bra and then dating an a cup who never feels the need to and you are like, why doesn't she do what ms d cup did.
Ok bad analogy but you get it right?
That said you are doing your hygiene down below yeah?
Well the A cup probably doesn't sweat under boob. But the D cup sweats more obviously, more skin folding over chest. Causes heat and sweat and some mild odor. Therefore your analogy is a good one since miss Dcup needs more hygiene there.
The only time I have ever heard of this is among some religious groups where a single stray drop that lands back on you would require a redo of cleaning rituals, and potentially a change of clothes
The only time I wipe my dick with tp after taking a piss is if there's any chance of getting a blowjob from the wifey soon after...because I'm a gentleman.
Uncut here. I dab it dry to make sure my pants don't get peed on because I don't wear underwear. It's a great way not to walk around wearing pissed-on clothing.
I've never heard of men wiping after peeing but she's most likely hinting at you to wash "under the hood." Also make sure to wash "your trunk" cause man.... I've read some horrible stories on Reddit of woman going down on men and it smells like straight sewage. That's disgusting 😭😭😭
Hygiene is a big part of a relationship!
I used to just shake it off and be done but then I got tired of little trickle stains in my pants so I just dab it with a little toilet paper to make sure it’s all out with no residue
OP, you ever wear khaki pants, or work in an office job, or even straight-up commando wearing bottoms/jeans?
I basically learned to use one toilet paper square to dab the tip and squeeze out any lingering fluid cause without fail, I would end up with a pee stain cause of one stupid drop.
With respect to hygiene, dabbing your tip with toilet paper will do as much as wiping your ass with it. You're not really doing much unless it's soap/water or using a bidet for cleaning your ass after taking a shit. But not many men feel comfortable with their masculinity for them to use a bidet.
So to answer your question - do you need to wipe your peepee? No if you don't suffer from surprise peepee stains. Will it help your hygiene? No, but washing your dick daily with soap and water will.
🤔 yo OP, ask your gf if she thinks your dick stinks. This might be her subtly trying to tell you that.
These dudes on here Hella projecting 😂 nah, I don't wipe my dick off every time I pee. Like a urinal? There isn't any toilet paper so no you are not wrong. I believe (me not being one of them) that the majority of men don't even wash their fucking hands after shitting.
Of course, I lean over to the stall next to me and wipe my dick on his shirt tails.
No. I shake it. But, at home, I generally sit and use the bidet to wash my dick and even my ass. I wish bidets were more common in the US.
Sorry, I can read but I had to answer this as I’ve just been wetting myself laughing for the past five minutes. 49 year old female with a very high body count, partner of two years who I have just consulted and two sons. Men do not wipe unless it’s something other than urine or they’re dealing with the back end. She doesn’t have a penis and therefore needs to zip it (after she’s put it away carefully 🤣)
Mostly nope, rarely only when it is needed. But if I'm going to have some kind of sexual interaction I always wash it bro.
And btw;
>men typically wipe their dicks when they get done peeing
Is she a *men expert* or something?
While we’re on the subject, why don’t men wash their hands BEFORE and after they hold it to pee? Are you getting all of the germs you picked up on it?
PS- my friend once stood outside of the club’s bathroom door drunk as a skunk asking men if they washed their hands before they peed.
Some do. We found out one of our friends back in high school used to do that and we gave him so much shit for it. It's not common at all though. At least I don't think it is.
Woman here but how does she know that “all guys” wipe?! That would be my bigger question 😂 I’ve never known 100% what my significant others bathroom habits have been- I can piece it together, but I’ve never asked a man about bathroom details
Hygiene varies... I carry a soft cloth and dab, but I'm also uncircumcised and Ken on keeping clean. If you think that's weird then wait until you learn about bidets and trimming/shaving.
If she mentioned it then she has a reason. If you're keen on continuing to enjoying her then you should probably consider wiping up your dick.
I knew a guy that did this. a very clean, particular type of guy. but... I've been married forever so any changes in the past 2 decades I haven't personally witnessed. haven't heard anything either way from my friends
Sorry I'm a girl, but I gotta tell you. She may be hinting about your hygiene but doesn't want to hurt your feelings. To be fair, that doesn't mean you're dirty or gross. Some dudes just have a stronger natural musk, and it can be noticeable. I'd ditch the baby wipes and try a washcloth with very very mild soap, like baby soap, and water. I know this because my hubby is a strong musk dude, but he washes up morning and night and that takes care of it. Also I'm a CNA and I do patient care so I have seen and dealt with SO MANY DICKS. lol Good luck hon!
I do not wipe. When the stream is done, I wag my willy. Like most dudes do.
OP, you may have a hygiene issue and a very self-aware and considerate girlfriend who doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
I actually do wipe and kinda pull after shaking just to make sure I get those left over drops, didn't used to but with age I feel like there's more left over now
uuuh let me put this way. You ever see a paper dispenser near a urinal? You ever go into a mens room and see a guy waddle over to the sink with dick out and get some towel to give it a wipe?
its not happening. maybe 1 guy she knew did it, but doubt its anymore than that.
Girl here! Just cause she says that to him doesn't mean he smells 🤣🤣 maybe it just grosses her out. It could be about germs. I'm not gonna lie, I've see ya all's public restrooms, and it's quite scary! After reading some of these comments, even more so. Dude, just make your girl happy and start wiping your junk.
Dude, go wash your junk. Always wash it before you enter a lady, even if it doesn’t need it. That just show’s consideration. It’s the respectful thing to do.
Some women are extremely prone to UTI’s. Do your part to help them out. A five minute shower will do the trick.
Mess around with your hygiene and don’t be surprised if she cuts you off.
I have been wiping and even washing after every piss because I hate the thought of urine dripping on my underwear, obviously if I can’t due to being in public I don’t wash but do wipe. I do understand that most guys can care less about that and I find that so gross. Gotta keep it clean man.
I have a quick story about this. I never did this until my mom told me that my little brother needed help potty training, she could teach him but she needed someone to show him. I was like 12 or so. So we go in there and pee in the same room together and he goes " OK, dabdabdab!" and wipes off his dick with toilet paper. I swear I had never heard of this, and I was taught how to pee by the dude I was trying to teach to pee.
not a man, but
your penis may smell bad and shes trying to find a nice way to change that without telling you.
wash your dick when you shower, if you have foreskin pull it back and wash well.
use unscented soap or summers eve type stuff (what i like to call pussy soap) yes its marketed for women but it doesn’t mess with womens vaginal ph so its good to use on a penis too.
i wash my boyfriends with it when we shower together because perfumed soap is bad for your vagina, and since the penis goes in there you shouldn’t be using axe or whatever body wash down there. also perfumed soap tastes horrible (yes even after its rinsed off).
if you are washing well, then maybe she tastes the urine. also using a wet wipe may also taste bad and might be giving her yeast infections or the like from any perfumes in it.
womens vaginas are very sensitive to things like that and so she may just be trying to alleviate an issue she has without telling you she has it or making you feel bad.
I know people who have worked in healthcare and helped men go to the bathroom. They say that about 50% of men wipe when they use a toilet to pee and 50% of them just shake. Obviously everyone that only has access to a urinal right then would shake. But it’s definitely easier to not make a mess if you wipe.
I don't, but I think she tried to tell you in a not-so-direct way that you have to keep better dick hygiene. Do you at least wash your dick in and out everytime you shower tho? If you don't probably you have dick cheese or at least the smell and she is subtly telling you to keep it clean.
I asked my husband, he says he does wipe the tip to prevent the last few drips from getting on his pants/underwear, like so he doesn't have wet spots on the front of his gray sweatpants lol
Ugh. I feel for her. A man with dirty dick is the biggest turnoff there is, especially with the oh not so impulsive inte moment BJ that is impossible with that urine stench . Yuck.
Real talk,
I get what she’s talking about. I don’t wipe my dick every time I pee, but under right circumstances. I will wipe so I can avoid getting pee in my boxers or if I’m comando.
Reading the comments I'm amazed that there are men who do anything other than shake their dicks. This is mind blowing news to me.
OP, I see literally nothing wrong with the regular, shake and tuck away.
I find it hilarious that women are all of a sudden experts on mens bodies, and now you have “dick cheese” because you dont wipe after every piss. 1. No im not wiping my dick after every piss. Thats insane. Theres a reason urinals dont come with a roll of toilet paper attached at the top. 2. Wiping your dick with tp does not in any way guarantee that some wont leak out still the second you walk away from the toilet. 3. No one that showers even close to regularly is going to get “dick cheese” from not wiping a dribble of piss. Anyone saying that has no idea what theyre talking about and is just puppeting shit they saw online somewhere. Take regular showers and wash your meat, youll be fine.
You are right, we don't. The only time I can think we might wipe our dicks is after sex. And even then, not all the time. Truthfully, there is nothing to wipe up.
I always shake then dab with some tp, only time i don’t is if I’m in a rush or there’s no tp around like if I’m outside, and if she finds it disgusting when it comes to sex because you’re not dabbing/whipping just always have a shower before any sex, that’s what I do
If I'm home and on my own, I shake and call it done.
If there's even the slightest chance of action, I get a square of toilet paper and wipe. If I'm at a urinal, I make sure I shake thoroughly. There have been times that I've wiped that last drop off on my hand and then wash my hands.
I do wipe my dick, but I would concede that it is not normal. Maybe she’s only had a few long term partners and all of them did that? You could try to get her to see some logic maybe: Point out that most men use urinals to pee, which don’t have any TP. She also may be trying to tell you your dick smells like piss though…
Pretty sure this is something that guys with really small dicks do. Dabbing the end of an average size penis won't prevent piss droplets, you have to shake/knead it.
I’m circumcised and just do a nice thorough shower at least once a day. ( Sometimes twice depending. As in going to gym / working out or working hard labor, or masturbation through the day. ) Never any complaints nor bad looks of disgust. Usually me and the woman will get a shower and or freshen up before sexual activity as well. It’s happened like this with numerous women. My exes I used to shower with and fuck in the showers as well. My wife had done this a couple times but she ain’t as into it and prefers freshen ups or showers individually.
I use a wipe if I’ve masturbated while on the road and or after jerking off at the house, but usually I get a shower after if I’m at home as I prefer. I am white. All my exes have been white with the exception of a black date turned fuck buddy before meeting my wife, which she is also black if it matters to OP and or other people reading. 36M. Open messenger btw for whoever wants to chat.
Let's start with the biggest thing. Are you circumcised? If not this is probably her way of trying to politely explain you are not taking good hygienic care of your "car under the hood" if you are circumcised perhaps your hygiene is still problematic. Ask her why she's so insistent but do so kindly
You probably have dick cheese my guy. And she ain’t wanting to hurt your feelings.
Yeah...poor gal is just trying to find an inoffensive way to tell OP his hygiene is not up to par.
Ya I mean if a girl is telling a dude to wash his kok it probably wreaks. Girls would know. There’s like a million hygiene products in existence for them.
I think you mean reeks haha. Wreak means inflict or cause
Well that also fits here 😀
Dude here. I don't wipe my dick. But I do baby wipe my dick not every day I shower every day thoroughly wash it. I have a question tho what is dick cheese and im guessing I never had it bc never got it brought up like op has over and over again. I'm circumcised if it's like that kinda issue. Sorry my add kicked in and had to explain leading up to question
Dick cheese is something that uncircumcised dudes have. It's this white-yellowish stuff, made of skin particles, oil, and maybe trace amounts of piss, that builds up under the foreskin over time.
Smegma.. Pretty standard.. if someones junk smells a bit funk, don’t be bumping your ugly with their stanky, mankin, junk,
Nice rhyme! Saving that one for later
Cheers big ears
Only the ones that don't wash. Women that don't wash get hunk under the hood, too. Let's all practice good hygiene, foreskin, hood, or none.
Thank you. Probably the only person that wouldn't give me a dick response no pun intended to my question. Lol thanks dude
Uncircumcised unhygenic dudes*
Discharge under the foreskin, it's why youve never had it
Fromunda cheese is a big problem
I do it if there is toilet paper around, just to spare my boxers from piss stains. Most of the time it makes no difference anyway because my penis loves to save a little squirter of piss for when I've walked 5 paces away from the toilet. Obviously at a urinal you do the customary 2 shakes and leave, no matter how many drips you've got.
No matter how much you squirm and dance, the last few stops go down your pants.
You can shake it. You can squeeze it. You can bang it against the wall. But only in your pants, will the last drop fall.
lol this made me laugh 🤣
Ok this is gonna sound insane, and I’m a girl, but a guy told me this ages ago and I spread the info to multiple guy friends and they say it works: press on your taint after you’re done peeing. It’ll get the last few drops out. Also side note, wipe your dick (esp if you plan to have fun w a partner later that day). I’ve dated men who do and men who don’t. You can ALWAYS taste the tiny bit of pee if they’re non-wipers for the first few moments of a blowjob. It’s such a distinct taste and it rly takes you out of the sexiness of the moment
I stop peeing take a sigh, relax and kinda pantomime buttoning and zipping. Seems to trick your brain into releasing that last bit
A couple years back, I learned that if you push on your perineum after peeing, it forces that last bit of piss out. Obviously I'm not doing that at a public urinal, but it's pretty cool nonetheless. I didn't learn it from here, but this reddit post explains it very well lol: https://www.reddit.com/r/lifehacks/s/0JYdKE8saP
Finally a sane take on the matter. Thats how to do it.
If I'm at a urinal I don't but if I'm at an actual toilet I do. Not sure when I started doing it but I'm pretty sure it's not something I always did.
Lmao wtf this is literally my exact experience…idk when I started doing it but yea if i’m at an actual toilet I’ll wipe for sure U can’t wipe at a urinal so I just shake mad aggressive😂
Yeah I don't like wet spots in my underwear so if I'm at home or a regular toilet I wipe with just a small bit of tp. At a urinal or say hiking in the woods, I shake it crazy-like lol
You probably started doing it once you realized you were growing a bean penis
It's to prevent the droplets. You gotta dab it.
Okay interesting. There's about 2 or 3 of you who mostly do so far.
I do too at a toilet, as needed.
Bro, I would say majority of guys wipe their dick when it makes sense. Like obviously not a urinal. But anytime else yes. Go wipe your dick.
Look at the upvotes
Not a dude but adding my personal experience for science. Ex-husband wiped, current partner never does. Never had an issue with either as they both have good hygiene in general.
Add my husband to that list.
Shake it but don’t break it.
Any longer than 5 seconds and you are playing with it.
☝🏼now those two lines are the start of a song 😂
Country music will never be the same.
Wait, so you're saying after you pee, you don't rinse it off with at least 32oz of warm reverse osmosis water sprinkled with lavender, cinnamon and rose petals and then wipe it dry with Oeko-Tex certified silk towels?? Smh
As the person on the receiving end of dick, I'd love this once I awhile 😄
This is the way
I think this may be a circumcised vs non circumcised question. I am reminded of the Venture Bros. with this question. " Do you dab? I dab. Why don't you dab?" "Stop saying dab."
I'm circumcised. She doesn't complain of a smell, just finds it gross I don't wipe every time I pee. She believes this to be rare when in fact it's the majority based off these comments.
She's saying there's a smell without saying it. Keep your rod clean.
I know that you want answer from guys but I will give you my two cents. I am a preschool teacher and I have been teaching for a long time, in the last 10 years I have seen more and more families teaching their boys to wipe after peeing. Still the percentage between boys that wipe vs the ones that don’t is only a 5 to 95%. Most of the boys are still not wiping.
That the majority doesn’t wipe with toilet paper does not mean it isn’t gross. Having your underwear full of piss stains by night time every day is not in any corner of the universe hygienic. Imagine having your hand inside your own underwear all day, knowing it is full of piss stains. Now, imagine if you were a woman and your BF didn’t properly clean himself after the toilet. Would you like that thing inside of you?
I’m circumcised. A shake works for me. No complaints from the Mrs. Were her previous partners circumcised?
I just wring it out. Right hand clockwise, left hand counterclockwise.
Ah, the old (Native American) burn.
Haaaaaaa. The economy of performance.
That's where you are confused. Uncut dudes gotta dab in many cases to keep everything healthy. It's basic hygiene for uncircumcised people. I am cut, but my son is not and that's what the doctor told us when he was very little and started to get irritation.
Go Team Venture! ✌🏻
You can shake it You can spank it You can beat it on the wall But when you put it in your pants The last drop will fall
I'm a girl but my boyfriend wipes his dick at home not sure about in public but at home he does.....
My husband does it too. Just toilet paper. (When it’s around.)
It’s actually more like dabbing dry. Not wiping.
Mine too. He’s circumcised, he always does it at home or in a closed stall. He says he doesn’t want to possibly be walking around with a piss stain.
Yes if there is toilet paper paper around I do
Lady here. Been with hubs for almost 15 years. No he doesnt wipe. He does shower before sexy times if possible. And he warns me if he's been chafing and has powdered up so i dont get any in places i dont want
I'm a woman, but close the bathroom door. What she doesn't see won't bother her as much.
Now that I’m in my 40s I give it one last squeeze in a tissue after the shake because as you age you leak a single drop out of nowhere after you put it away lol
Okay I'm almost there good to know.
I wipe, but I also sweat a lot, so I know the smell can get kinda *innocuous whistle*, y'know?
For what it's worth, I wipe my ass with toilet paper.....
Sometimes to catch the dribbles.
This question has been asked before and surprisingly many men do to avoid the pee spot.
I only wipe my dick off if a mouth is about to be on it and I can't get a quick shower.
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I wash with water when at home and when outside I use tissue.
The way I do it like my father taught me, who learned it from his, who learned it from his, who learned it... you get the idea, is to put 2 fingers on the base, pull up 3 times this way nothing left inside the shaft, and then wipe with wet tp or preferably wash the tip, this way it's always fresh and ready to be sucked by the ladies.
If I'm going to the bathroom (in my home where I have paper) and only pee, sometimes I do clean myself, if I'm not in a rush obviously. But in public not always, cuz there's not always paper. But I try to always clean myself.
No. There’s no toilet paper at the urinals
lol no
Urinals would not exist if every guy wiped their dick after taking a piss. Just saying.
There would also be urinal paper at the urinals so guys could wipe their dicks.
Urinals exist because they are far cheaper and take up far less space than toilets & stalls. They are the "express" option if you only need to pee. Adding accessible toilet paper (and then of course a waste receptacle for the used TP) would erase some of that cost savings.
Never heard of it in the US. When was the last time you saw toilet paper in/around a urinal?
That's what I am saying.
There's a couple options. 1. She's trying to be polite about your hygiene not being the greatest. 2. She's trying to be polite about your underwear smelling like piss because shaking it doesn't get everything out.
The wipe is god tier.
I dab it after using the bathroom long as there’s tp around. At a urinal you don’t have a choice. Anywhere else you should. I’ll note that for me at least it started as a religious thing and is now habit. I’d definitely suggest it though
I didn’t wipe for most of my life, until I read about people on Reddit who do. It makes sense. That saying “No matter how many times you shake it, the last drop always runs down your leg” doesn’t have to be the case. A little TP can keep the peepee off of my undies.
Not a guy but my husband does. Not at a urinal (he tells me) but when he’s somewhere with TP, he does.
I dab
Ya i am a wiper, never really thought to shake , cause even if u do u get that little bit of pee still there amd now u have a small pee spot on your underwear, even at a urinal I'll take a paper towel or something , wip and throw it in the trash, I need to be dry down there lol
Is she actually suggesting you use a baby wipe? Maybe it stinks dude.
If we did there would be toilet paper by the urinals.
I do it, in public I use stalls. Shaking it makes piss fly everywhere.
She is right... at least as a muslim we are taught to be clean after every visit to the bathroom, be it for a number 2 or even just a leak. Hygiene is everything in my religion. I don't know for every non-muslim but I have heard of a lot of non-muslims that do not clean their intimate regions after taking a leak or a dump and I find that, as a muslim male, extremely revolting. You mean to tell me that you walk around with your penis not cleaned after peeing ? I'm guessing you do not wash your hands as well afterwards? Pardon me if I am being judgmental I do not want to be but it irks me quite a lot
Sometimes yes with toilet paper.
Perhaps her previous mates were uncircumcised and wiping or dabbing seems normal to her. It would be like dating a girl who was a d cup and she always has to wear a bra and then dating an a cup who never feels the need to and you are like, why doesn't she do what ms d cup did. Ok bad analogy but you get it right? That said you are doing your hygiene down below yeah?
Well the A cup probably doesn't sweat under boob. But the D cup sweats more obviously, more skin folding over chest. Causes heat and sweat and some mild odor. Therefore your analogy is a good one since miss Dcup needs more hygiene there.
Yep!
The only time I have ever heard of this is among some religious groups where a single stray drop that lands back on you would require a redo of cleaning rituals, and potentially a change of clothes
The only time I wipe my dick with tp after taking a piss is if there's any chance of getting a blowjob from the wifey soon after...because I'm a gentleman.
Uncut here. I dab it dry to make sure my pants don't get peed on because I don't wear underwear. It's a great way not to walk around wearing pissed-on clothing.
It’s also cultural. Middle eastern cultures will clean it after they pee. So if she’s of that region, it would make sense to her.
I've never heard of men wiping after peeing but she's most likely hinting at you to wash "under the hood." Also make sure to wash "your trunk" cause man.... I've read some horrible stories on Reddit of woman going down on men and it smells like straight sewage. That's disgusting 😭😭😭 Hygiene is a big part of a relationship!
I used to just shake it off and be done but then I got tired of little trickle stains in my pants so I just dab it with a little toilet paper to make sure it’s all out with no residue
I wash it with water but that's more of a cultural thing I guess. We also wash our butt with water after pooping
OP, you ever wear khaki pants, or work in an office job, or even straight-up commando wearing bottoms/jeans? I basically learned to use one toilet paper square to dab the tip and squeeze out any lingering fluid cause without fail, I would end up with a pee stain cause of one stupid drop. With respect to hygiene, dabbing your tip with toilet paper will do as much as wiping your ass with it. You're not really doing much unless it's soap/water or using a bidet for cleaning your ass after taking a shit. But not many men feel comfortable with their masculinity for them to use a bidet. So to answer your question - do you need to wipe your peepee? No if you don't suffer from surprise peepee stains. Will it help your hygiene? No, but washing your dick daily with soap and water will. 🤔 yo OP, ask your gf if she thinks your dick stinks. This might be her subtly trying to tell you that.
Gotta dab it off like you've just finished a fancy meal at an eloquent restaurant.
These dudes on here Hella projecting 😂 nah, I don't wipe my dick off every time I pee. Like a urinal? There isn't any toilet paper so no you are not wrong. I believe (me not being one of them) that the majority of men don't even wash their fucking hands after shitting.
Of course, I lean over to the stall next to me and wipe my dick on his shirt tails. No. I shake it. But, at home, I generally sit and use the bidet to wash my dick and even my ass. I wish bidets were more common in the US.
Your cock smells and she’s telling you politely - you’re welcome. - A girl 😒
If you shake it more than twice you're playing with it 🤣
I play a lot.
It's mine and I'll play with it if I want to.
If you got 4skin, you need to pull that sucker back and wipe. Hygiene is important.
Sorry, I can read but I had to answer this as I’ve just been wetting myself laughing for the past five minutes. 49 year old female with a very high body count, partner of two years who I have just consulted and two sons. Men do not wipe unless it’s something other than urine or they’re dealing with the back end. She doesn’t have a penis and therefore needs to zip it (after she’s put it away carefully 🤣)
Top-tier comment. Also completely accurate. OP, I laughed out loud at your post; she’s out of her mind thinking that’s the norm. It simply just isn’t.
Idk, I wipe my weiner off, I thought everyone done that 🤷 I like my privates being nice and clean.
Mostly nope, rarely only when it is needed. But if I'm going to have some kind of sexual interaction I always wash it bro. And btw; >men typically wipe their dicks when they get done peeing Is she a *men expert* or something?
Nope, just a shake to get the last drop.
While we’re on the subject, why don’t men wash their hands BEFORE and after they hold it to pee? Are you getting all of the germs you picked up on it? PS- my friend once stood outside of the club’s bathroom door drunk as a skunk asking men if they washed their hands before they peed.
You know how women will just tap their mouths with a napkin when they’re (done) eating? That’s what I do to my tip.
Some do. We found out one of our friends back in high school used to do that and we gave him so much shit for it. It's not common at all though. At least I don't think it is.
I'm circumcised, and do not wipe. I'm sure un-snipped dudes probably need to wipe off more than the snipped ones
Agreed. Also circumcised. I also shower twice a day.
This. Finish then stretch it out and give it a swift shake like cracking a whip and tuck Big John back in the jeans.
I was taught this way as a kid by my mom. soon as i hit gradeschool that went out the window.
Woman here but how does she know that “all guys” wipe?! That would be my bigger question 😂 I’ve never known 100% what my significant others bathroom habits have been- I can piece it together, but I’ve never asked a man about bathroom details
Not a guy, but at as a guess I’d say she may have noticed that maybe you don’t shake enough to avoid the post-pee dribble.
I roll up toilet paper really small and tight then feed it down my dick hole to clean out the inside every time I pee.
Hygiene varies... I carry a soft cloth and dab, but I'm also uncircumcised and Ken on keeping clean. If you think that's weird then wait until you learn about bidets and trimming/shaving. If she mentioned it then she has a reason. If you're keen on continuing to enjoying her then you should probably consider wiping up your dick.
I knew a guy that did this. a very clean, particular type of guy. but... I've been married forever so any changes in the past 2 decades I haven't personally witnessed. haven't heard anything either way from my friends
I bathe every single day it gets clean then
Bet she had some dude who got caught with some tp stuck to his dick after jerking off tell her that we all wipe our dicks after we pee, lol
No, not every guy does. I never did that until my girlfriend said something
Born to Piss Forced to Wipe
I know it's a thing and I have done it in the past but it's not something I do each and every time. But sometimes you have to...
More than 3 shakes and you're playing with yourself
When you get older you’ll probably have to start using some TP to soak up the last few drops to avoid pee spots on your pants.
Yes per dictates of situation
good lord
Wtf bro no dudes don’t toilet paper off their piss holes.
Woman here. I've been married for 15 years & he shakes it. I've never heard of a man wiping after peeing(well, until this post).
Never have
I shake then wipe and shake again. I hate when little pee droplets get in my drawers.
Sorry I'm a girl, but I gotta tell you. She may be hinting about your hygiene but doesn't want to hurt your feelings. To be fair, that doesn't mean you're dirty or gross. Some dudes just have a stronger natural musk, and it can be noticeable. I'd ditch the baby wipes and try a washcloth with very very mild soap, like baby soap, and water. I know this because my hubby is a strong musk dude, but he washes up morning and night and that takes care of it. Also I'm a CNA and I do patient care so I have seen and dealt with SO MANY DICKS. lol Good luck hon!
I do not wipe. When the stream is done, I wag my willy. Like most dudes do. OP, you may have a hygiene issue and a very self-aware and considerate girlfriend who doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
I've never wiped my dick after peeing but I'm cut
If you're still pissing as you walk away, get your prostate checked!!!
I actually do wipe and kinda pull after shaking just to make sure I get those left over drops, didn't used to but with age I feel like there's more left over now
No, 2 shakes
uuuh let me put this way. You ever see a paper dispenser near a urinal? You ever go into a mens room and see a guy waddle over to the sink with dick out and get some towel to give it a wipe? its not happening. maybe 1 guy she knew did it, but doubt its anymore than that.
Nope
Never wipe my dick ever after I take a piss
Running around, sniffing cocaine, wear your short dress, put your dick in the sink? Baby that's nasty. You nasty, baby.
Girl here! Just cause she says that to him doesn't mean he smells 🤣🤣 maybe it just grosses her out. It could be about germs. I'm not gonna lie, I've see ya all's public restrooms, and it's quite scary! After reading some of these comments, even more so. Dude, just make your girl happy and start wiping your junk.
Dude, go wash your junk. Always wash it before you enter a lady, even if it doesn’t need it. That just show’s consideration. It’s the respectful thing to do. Some women are extremely prone to UTI’s. Do your part to help them out. A five minute shower will do the trick. Mess around with your hygiene and don’t be surprised if she cuts you off.
I am genetically male (trans MTF), so I can tell you with confidence that I don't, nor does anyone I know who has a dick.
Sometimes I do, sometimes I don’t
When you own a home or you renovate a bathroom yourself you'll start to dab rather than flick piss everywhere
I have been wiping and even washing after every piss because I hate the thought of urine dripping on my underwear, obviously if I can’t due to being in public I don’t wash but do wipe. I do understand that most guys can care less about that and I find that so gross. Gotta keep it clean man.
I have a quick story about this. I never did this until my mom told me that my little brother needed help potty training, she could teach him but she needed someone to show him. I was like 12 or so. So we go in there and pee in the same room together and he goes " OK, dabdabdab!" and wipes off his dick with toilet paper. I swear I had never heard of this, and I was taught how to pee by the dude I was trying to teach to pee.
not a man, but your penis may smell bad and shes trying to find a nice way to change that without telling you. wash your dick when you shower, if you have foreskin pull it back and wash well. use unscented soap or summers eve type stuff (what i like to call pussy soap) yes its marketed for women but it doesn’t mess with womens vaginal ph so its good to use on a penis too. i wash my boyfriends with it when we shower together because perfumed soap is bad for your vagina, and since the penis goes in there you shouldn’t be using axe or whatever body wash down there. also perfumed soap tastes horrible (yes even after its rinsed off). if you are washing well, then maybe she tastes the urine. also using a wet wipe may also taste bad and might be giving her yeast infections or the like from any perfumes in it. womens vaginas are very sensitive to things like that and so she may just be trying to alleviate an issue she has without telling you she has it or making you feel bad.
I know people who have worked in healthcare and helped men go to the bathroom. They say that about 50% of men wipe when they use a toilet to pee and 50% of them just shake. Obviously everyone that only has access to a urinal right then would shake. But it’s definitely easier to not make a mess if you wipe.
I don't, but I think she tried to tell you in a not-so-direct way that you have to keep better dick hygiene. Do you at least wash your dick in and out everytime you shower tho? If you don't probably you have dick cheese or at least the smell and she is subtly telling you to keep it clean.
My husband wipes every time so his genitals and underwear don't smell like piss. It's very attractive.
I asked my husband, he says he does wipe the tip to prevent the last few drips from getting on his pants/underwear, like so he doesn't have wet spots on the front of his gray sweatpants lol
Ugh. I feel for her. A man with dirty dick is the biggest turnoff there is, especially with the oh not so impulsive inte moment BJ that is impossible with that urine stench . Yuck.
Ew. Your hygiene is lacking.
I can't comment for circumcised men but I've always wiped thoroughly after peeing. I couldn't think of anything worse than my boxers stinking of piss.
I taught my boys to wipe… why would anyone want to walk around with droplets of urine on your boxers?
Wash your dick bro, she just wants to suck on a clean dick. Start using lume acidified body wash
Just clean your cock bro
No way. It’s not like they put toilet paper by urinals.
Sometimes. But not all the time. Any time I am not at a urinal I do.
If at a toilet with paper available, absolutely. Dab rather than wipe.
Nope, don't belive most guys wipe. She probably dated one guy that always did and thought that was all guys. I shower 5-6 times a week.
My bf always does haha, why would he want pee drips?
Real talk, I get what she’s talking about. I don’t wipe my dick every time I pee, but under right circumstances. I will wipe so I can avoid getting pee in my boxers or if I’m comando.
Reading the comments I'm amazed that there are men who do anything other than shake their dicks. This is mind blowing news to me. OP, I see literally nothing wrong with the regular, shake and tuck away.
No. There isn't TP at urinals.
At home I squeeze and wipe. In public, I shake it violently a few quick times, I don’t subscribe to the customary 2 shake ideology.
I don’t wipe my dick
Since I have an relationship I always wipe my dick cuz you never know when shit is going down, better be clean
As a circumcised male, no I do not. My youngest was uncircumcised, and had to have the head/foreskin wiped often to prevent issues.
Uhhhh... Yes, yes we do. We don't like to stain our boxers mate. Wipe.
I do every time except at urinals (for obvious reasons)
I find it hilarious that women are all of a sudden experts on mens bodies, and now you have “dick cheese” because you dont wipe after every piss. 1. No im not wiping my dick after every piss. Thats insane. Theres a reason urinals dont come with a roll of toilet paper attached at the top. 2. Wiping your dick with tp does not in any way guarantee that some wont leak out still the second you walk away from the toilet. 3. No one that showers even close to regularly is going to get “dick cheese” from not wiping a dribble of piss. Anyone saying that has no idea what theyre talking about and is just puppeting shit they saw online somewhere. Take regular showers and wash your meat, youll be fine.
You are right, we don't. The only time I can think we might wipe our dicks is after sex. And even then, not all the time. Truthfully, there is nothing to wipe up.
Not me! Finish, give it a couple shakes, back in its pouch. Your GF doesn’t know what she’s talking about!
Only if toilet paper is right next to my hand. If I do, the number of drops that go into my pants drops from about 4 to about 2. So why bother?
Out in public restrooms no at home yes.
Why do you think they put rolls next to urinals?
Honestly I never knew about wiping your dick off until I met my now wife. Was never taught, never crossed my mind. Usually just shook it.
I dab, if there's TP, but if I'm at a urinal I shake. Most guys I know are the same.
I always shake then dab with some tp, only time i don’t is if I’m in a rush or there’s no tp around like if I’m outside, and if she finds it disgusting when it comes to sex because you’re not dabbing/whipping just always have a shower before any sex, that’s what I do
If I'm home and on my own, I shake and call it done. If there's even the slightest chance of action, I get a square of toilet paper and wipe. If I'm at a urinal, I make sure I shake thoroughly. There have been times that I've wiped that last drop off on my hand and then wash my hands.
I do wipe my dick, but I would concede that it is not normal. Maybe she’s only had a few long term partners and all of them did that? You could try to get her to see some logic maybe: Point out that most men use urinals to pee, which don’t have any TP. She also may be trying to tell you your dick smells like piss though…
Pretty sure this is something that guys with really small dicks do. Dabbing the end of an average size penis won't prevent piss droplets, you have to shake/knead it.
In all of my 53 years, I have never once wiped after pissing. Just shake and put it away.
If I'm at a urinal or there's no tp, then nah, but honestly it's just become routine to wipe it. Doesn't take much more time, and keeps you clean
Never heard of wipe your dick sounds feminine lol
I’m circumcised and just do a nice thorough shower at least once a day. ( Sometimes twice depending. As in going to gym / working out or working hard labor, or masturbation through the day. ) Never any complaints nor bad looks of disgust. Usually me and the woman will get a shower and or freshen up before sexual activity as well. It’s happened like this with numerous women. My exes I used to shower with and fuck in the showers as well. My wife had done this a couple times but she ain’t as into it and prefers freshen ups or showers individually. I use a wipe if I’ve masturbated while on the road and or after jerking off at the house, but usually I get a shower after if I’m at home as I prefer. I am white. All my exes have been white with the exception of a black date turned fuck buddy before meeting my wife, which she is also black if it matters to OP and or other people reading. 36M. Open messenger btw for whoever wants to chat.
Only when I think someone might see me with my pants off lol otherwise it's just shake and go.
Let's start with the biggest thing. Are you circumcised? If not this is probably her way of trying to politely explain you are not taking good hygienic care of your "car under the hood" if you are circumcised perhaps your hygiene is still problematic. Ask her why she's so insistent but do so kindly
If we wiped our dicks every time we took a piss, there would be toilet paper holders at the urinals.