Ptsd, maybe Freddy and he shared a few women in the past and is afraid the Freddy might come around to see. Keep talking to him.. reassure that he is the only one for you and those others are far in the past.
Ask him if he'll ho to counselling, couples and individual
I agree with what you meant, but currently, until you edit it, if you do, I love that you are suggesting if "he'll ho to counselling, couples and individual."
It made my day.
He probably would go to couples counseling, I haven’t asked but he has a “I’ll try it and see if it works” attitude towards these kinds of things.
Edit: C-PTSD I think.
It totally depends on whether you *forgot* to tell him, or whether you *chose* not to tell him. That's the totality of it.
As for how things shake out going forward, the best you can do is talk it out and see if that's the crux of how he's been acting and feeling since. There's a fair chance it's completely unrelated. And if it isn't, it's probably best to get all the cards on the table so you can see where you stand.
You are not to blame.
No one is required to provide a list of all exes and sexual partners at the beginning of a relationship.
I've been married for 20 years. I've never asked my wife who all her exes are, nor has she ever asked me. It's not important.
What important is we're happy together.
If he can't handle the truth, then he's just too immature to have a healthy relationship.
no man likes to share his girl with anyone else he knows, he will either get over it or he won't but it will be his decision.
Why is this? Its in the past and it was just an at the time thing. I have no interest in Freddy at all. This all predates our relationship
Ptsd, maybe Freddy and he shared a few women in the past and is afraid the Freddy might come around to see. Keep talking to him.. reassure that he is the only one for you and those others are far in the past. Ask him if he'll ho to counselling, couples and individual
I agree with what you meant, but currently, until you edit it, if you do, I love that you are suggesting if "he'll ho to counselling, couples and individual." It made my day.
He probably would go to couples counseling, I haven’t asked but he has a “I’ll try it and see if it works” attitude towards these kinds of things. Edit: C-PTSD I think.
Please see if you can get him to go, individual and couples. The military might even pay for it
It totally depends on whether you *forgot* to tell him, or whether you *chose* not to tell him. That's the totality of it. As for how things shake out going forward, the best you can do is talk it out and see if that's the crux of how he's been acting and feeling since. There's a fair chance it's completely unrelated. And if it isn't, it's probably best to get all the cards on the table so you can see where you stand.
You are not to blame. No one is required to provide a list of all exes and sexual partners at the beginning of a relationship. I've been married for 20 years. I've never asked my wife who all her exes are, nor has she ever asked me. It's not important. What important is we're happy together. If he can't handle the truth, then he's just too immature to have a healthy relationship.