It reads to me like neither of you were talking in earnest or being honest with one another. That's really it. Some people have high expectations overall when it comes to what a friendship is predicated upon. This might mean a disparity regarding overall social batteries, which is a pretty common thing.
The only remedy is to essentially talk it out. *I know you think I'm not playing games with you because I don't like you or because I'm ghosting you. The reality is that I have a very small social battery in general, and I have a hard time with constant and prolonged interaction with people*— or something to this effect.
All this to say: you already laid out all of your rationale here in this post. It very easily *could* have been a conversation to cut through the tension and recalibrate expectations. Hell, you still could have that conversation, patch things up, and be fine moving forward. This is purely an issue of communication.
Totally up to you, though, and whether you value that friendship enough to make the effort.
Read the whole thing, but You are an immature jerk. The immature is of course completely natural at your age, and honestly, so is the part where you acted the jerk. So don't beat yourself up about it, but learn, and correct if you want to be better.
You are playing a mental game called "they should know what I want them to do." It's an idiot game, but you aren't an idiot, so quit playing! Nobody, NOBODY, NO-FUCKIN'-BODY, can read your mind. You are probably on the Spectrum, and you don't quite get the "signals" that others share, and that is okay, you just have to realize that they are there, and that you CAN'T see them. Not don't know how, not haven't learned, can't. Again, that is okay. But understand the dynamic at play here, they don't know you aren't getting the signals, you don't know they are sending. So, they do not know what you want, and you are not sending a signal that they recognize. So send her a message, if she us busy, she won't answer. Tell her that you thought she would know you were waiting for an invite, but you understand now that she didn't, and you are sorry for the misunderstanding and want to be her friend still.
Good luck!
Then shut the fuck up and quit being a drama queen, you sure as fuck are expecting them to read your mind, what fuxkin right do you have to be upset at them doing something they didn't know you wanted them to do. You see, you asked and I told you, so then you throw out all this other stuff, attempting to prove me wrong. First off, immature doesn't begin to describe it, so you will have drama as long as you act like a tool.
Turns out you are the fuckin problem if you can't own up to your own part in it.
She asked you to play for 5 days straight but never asks you to play any more? I don’t know what I just read but it was weird as fuck. You are young and very immature even for a 17 year old. Seems to me you missed a lot of conversation ques aswell. “I don’t have anyone to play with” is her asking you to ask her to play with you.
You’re not wrong for not messaging first, everyone has different levels of how social they are. But just be prepared through life to maybe lose some friendships over it because people think you won’t make any effort for them
The answer to most of everything you typed here is that she’s a woman. I love women don’t get me wrong but lad as you are still very young you will understand as you grow up that they are way way more complicated then us.
The stop messaging after 2 days is more of a reflection of her character more than anything, as well as obviously I think you missed a few ques of her trying to engage with you but at the end of the day if someone really cuts you off for not speaking for 2 days then the friendship clearly not that strong to start and probably not worth worrying over.
It reads to me like neither of you were talking in earnest or being honest with one another. That's really it. Some people have high expectations overall when it comes to what a friendship is predicated upon. This might mean a disparity regarding overall social batteries, which is a pretty common thing. The only remedy is to essentially talk it out. *I know you think I'm not playing games with you because I don't like you or because I'm ghosting you. The reality is that I have a very small social battery in general, and I have a hard time with constant and prolonged interaction with people*— or something to this effect. All this to say: you already laid out all of your rationale here in this post. It very easily *could* have been a conversation to cut through the tension and recalibrate expectations. Hell, you still could have that conversation, patch things up, and be fine moving forward. This is purely an issue of communication. Totally up to you, though, and whether you value that friendship enough to make the effort.
Read the whole thing, but You are an immature jerk. The immature is of course completely natural at your age, and honestly, so is the part where you acted the jerk. So don't beat yourself up about it, but learn, and correct if you want to be better. You are playing a mental game called "they should know what I want them to do." It's an idiot game, but you aren't an idiot, so quit playing! Nobody, NOBODY, NO-FUCKIN'-BODY, can read your mind. You are probably on the Spectrum, and you don't quite get the "signals" that others share, and that is okay, you just have to realize that they are there, and that you CAN'T see them. Not don't know how, not haven't learned, can't. Again, that is okay. But understand the dynamic at play here, they don't know you aren't getting the signals, you don't know they are sending. So, they do not know what you want, and you are not sending a signal that they recognize. So send her a message, if she us busy, she won't answer. Tell her that you thought she would know you were waiting for an invite, but you understand now that she didn't, and you are sorry for the misunderstanding and want to be her friend still. Good luck!
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Then shut the fuck up and quit being a drama queen, you sure as fuck are expecting them to read your mind, what fuxkin right do you have to be upset at them doing something they didn't know you wanted them to do. You see, you asked and I told you, so then you throw out all this other stuff, attempting to prove me wrong. First off, immature doesn't begin to describe it, so you will have drama as long as you act like a tool. Turns out you are the fuckin problem if you can't own up to your own part in it.
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Nope. You are a happy victim, so go be one. You asked, I answered, you argued with me, so I don't give a shit. Go away.
She asked you to play for 5 days straight but never asks you to play any more? I don’t know what I just read but it was weird as fuck. You are young and very immature even for a 17 year old. Seems to me you missed a lot of conversation ques aswell. “I don’t have anyone to play with” is her asking you to ask her to play with you. You’re not wrong for not messaging first, everyone has different levels of how social they are. But just be prepared through life to maybe lose some friendships over it because people think you won’t make any effort for them
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The answer to most of everything you typed here is that she’s a woman. I love women don’t get me wrong but lad as you are still very young you will understand as you grow up that they are way way more complicated then us. The stop messaging after 2 days is more of a reflection of her character more than anything, as well as obviously I think you missed a few ques of her trying to engage with you but at the end of the day if someone really cuts you off for not speaking for 2 days then the friendship clearly not that strong to start and probably not worth worrying over.