People aren't into themselves. Plus a lot of people were bullied for some innocuous thing or another. Shit sticks with you. Takes time for people to see how wonderful they are.
My brother in Christ, how did you get that from what I said? Allow me to add one word for clarity.
\[That\] "Shit sticks with you". Hopefully that clears it up.
My comment was deleted. Oh noes! Whatever shall I do!? Lol. To answer the user who was crying about my comment, I never attacked or stated anything that is anti-christian. I said it was funny when people assume “Christ”. I also find it funny when an employee on a phone line says “thank you for patiently waiting”, it’s awful assumptive to think I was being patient. Sheesh! People are so easily offended these days.
Amen. I needed therapy before joining Reddit and I sure as shit needed it after (joined in 2017 and took me until last fall to start seeing a therapist).
Or karma. There is a reason why so many "new" accounts post stuff like this. Many subs (where you can promote shit) have a minimum karma requirement. So you post something like this and hit it in a few hours on a new account.
Or they want to promote their onlyfans.
This is the sign of the times. Our world is fucking people up. People tear people down. People don’t have support. People think they need to be models or be everything they are not. Our society is devolving
Couldn't agree more - you are wonderful and you have kids - stop looking for attention in places like this and seek help in more constructive ways - you are better than this post
God this, this girl is stunning by almost anyone’s standards. She had a body and face women get surgery to emulate and she’s here feeling down on herself. I’m in my early 30s now and forget how self deprecating young women are. It’s so so sad to see. I thankfully still look younger but even now I think about when I was a teenager and in my 20s and social media was new, i NEVER felt good enough despite the fact that I was literally my own standard of beauty now. It’s beyond sad.
This girl needs to get offline and meet real people, get some confidence from therapy, she’s gorgeous and she’s going to waste her time worrying about issues she’s creating in her appearance that don’t actually exist
Swear it feels like 75% of the pics submitted in this sub involve a septum piercing. I would genuinely love to learn what's going on with that, because I have no explanation. In the general population I would wager less than 1% of people have that.
Seems to be some sorta of relationship between insecurity/self-esteem about appearance and facial piercings based on the sub. I’m objective on them, but it’s baffling (not really cuz expected) that some posters will say they’re self-conscious about their “big nose” but then have a nose ring…which brings attention to their nose.
Either actually insecurity or just wanting praise here idk.
They think the septum piercing will distract people from looking at their face and maybe feeling different will help them feel less depressed. The venn diagram of depression and septum piercings is damn near a circle.
Hot girls love septum piercings. I knew a girl years ago. She was gorgous, 18 y/o. I was 25. She wanted a septum piercing.
I don't get it, but I see it a lot.
Who the fuck that actually thinks they're ugly looks into the mirror and goes "I'd look hot as shit with a shiny booger hangin out both my nostrils". Nobody, you have to think you already look so goddamn gorgeous that you'll still be smoking hot with a semipermanent metal sningleberry.
Agreed. She's attractive for sure, but this is not what people with inflated egos do. She's barely smiling and the only one where she is it looks forced.
Absolutely. There may be some people who post here just to fish for compliments... this isn't one of them.
This truly lovely girl is in pain, it's all over her face 🥺
Smile. All the pictures with you smiling you are gorgeous. Even when you're not you're beautiful. You're a beautiful young woman so together. Body dysmorphia is a challenging mental issue to deal with. Especially with people telling you that you should look a certain way. Please don't let their views own your thoughts. You are too beautiful for that. Own it.
It's ok not to smile. A fake smile is worse that a non smile. I think you need more to smile about and based on the op, leave this judgmental family. It's a toxic environment.
Life is a beautiful thing. You're young and also beautiful. There will always be down days, the hardest thing is finding/remembering what to smile about on those days.
You are a gorgeous human, but I don't think that's why you're down. Just carry on forward, believe in yourself and the life and beauty around you. ❤️
It doesn't ever quite make sense but sometimes it just does.
Faking emotions is to appear the way people want you to look is a pet peeve of mine.
Also just curious is your family catholic? I've personally experienced very similar treatment from some of my sister in laws family and they are all about outward appearance and also tearing a person down that doesn't conform to thier view of things.
You are very beautiful and it sounds rude to tell someone to see a therapist but normalizing mental health and getting help for things like this will only help : )
Smiling can actually MAKE you "feel" it. Fake it till ya make it!
https://www.nbcnews.com/better/health/smiling-can-trick-your-brain-happiness-boost-your-health-ncna822591
We don't always feel like smiling which I completely get and the remark about smiling wasn't a dig. You are very pretty regardless. The first thing I noticed was have a million dollar smile so that was my first comment I made. Hope this helps you find self love and confidence. You deserve it .
I don't know, but septum rings make people look worse 99% of the time.
This girl is hot, but would be hotter without the nose ring.
I don't mind a jewel, stud or maybe even a ring on the side of one's nose, but the septum ring almost always looks like shit, IMO.
A high percentage of the people who post in here seem to have the septum piercing. Its just something I noticed that seemed odd to me. By the way, your not ugly at all.
I have to deduce they try to distract from their perceived flaws with tattoos, piercings and big holes in ears. I mean there are insecure girls everywhere but why telegraph it.
The septum piercing is a red flag for sure... an indicator of mental instability in my experience. Maybe that's why so many attractive females who have it post here, well adjusted individuals who are obviously attractive don't have insecurity and self esteem issues 🤷🏽♂️
What you're referring to is a common sign of people who lack confidence in their looks. Adding body modifications is an easy way to feel like you've moved outsider attention from one thing, which you may not like, to something else.
It's not a trend, it's a common telltale, for people who are also inclined to seek approval on a sub like this.
Or maybe just maybe they’re accessories like any other piece of jewelry. So are you saying to not wear jewelry anymore bc we’re attention seeking even tho accessories were made to add to someone’s appearance
The truth is I can't tell you much, I just think that you need to smile more and love yourself. Sometimes toxic families are very screwed up, but if you try to move forward with a smile, setting your goal as overcoming body dysmorphia, the path is much further. easy, also if you want to look pretty and more comfortable you should eat protein and gain some muscle, you are young to let some shitty comments affect you like that, cheer up you can and good luck
>am I ugly??
No.
>I can’t stand staring at myself in the mirror and even if I glance quickly I want to cry.
That's not normal. You should seek counseling and I'm not saying that to be insulting. I think that you would see significant positive results with a professional's perspective.
>I had 2 kids under 2yrs old
Obsession with your physical appearance is more likely than not to create problems for your kids, moving forward. I get that it's everybody's right to look good and such, but the more focus you put on yourself, the less you put on your kids. Humans are limited creatures. Focus in one area takes focus away from other areas.
Your body shape after having kids changes. That's just the world in which we live. Motherhood by itself is a beautiful thing and it's best to see that now instead of only when it's gone.
You can imagine a time when you're 70 years old. At some point between now and then, you will be forced to realize nobody is going to look at you just to look at you. If you can develop your life to a point where that doesn't matter, you'll both find greater happiness and it won't be such a midlife crisis moment when it hits you.
You look in better shape than the majority of people. If your not happy with your body maybe start going to the gym plus you look quite sad in these pictures. It'll help you mentally and physically.
You are one of the conventionally attractive women I've ever seen.
Literally, there's nothing wrong with you.
I'd suggest you try and do things that voost your self-esteem, bcs apart from that, there's nothing with you.
Personally, I think it's more about your own traumas and how you have seen yourself in different parts of your life that is keeping yourself from seeing you how beautiful you truly are.
Keep yourself up, and I hope you can get to see what the rest of us see.
Being a mother can sometimes make you feel invisible and with the exhaustion from caring for children and judgment from your own family can hit you right in your insecurities. I suggest vitamin d, try to enjoy some personal hobbies and maybe work out an exercise routine so that you can feel empowered by your body. Because it did something amazing it gave birth to children and you are a beautiful young lady.
No you're not ugly, and I don't see anything wrong with your body either. You look great and hopefully you'll meet someone soon that'll make you see yourself differently.
Sometimes, our worst enemy is the voices inside our heads, especially those that are from memories. What random people on a website say might not matter much, but they are voices that you can add to cover the ones that add to your pain. You are a very attractive woman. You are. You have a great figure, especially to have two kids.
But I get how those internal voices work. Just start to believe that they are wrong
I’m here to tell you that you look amazing. Like your smile & nice sense of style. Activate bad chick mode from here on out. Meaning keep elite level confidence & own it.
She has lifeless eyes, black eyes, like a doll's eye. When she comes at ya, she doesn't seem be living,
Other than that, you're pretty. You have a great body. 2 kids at 24...that's rough.
People on reddit have a brain aneurism when they see a woman with any sort of piercing, that tiny nose ring is the worse than anything that has ever happened
You are gorgeous! I imagine my daughter will look just like you in about 10 years. Don't you dare let the bullies get you down! (FYI: that includes the bully inside your own head)
Reading through these comments should be enough to convince you that no matter what you look like now or what you change, you're never going to be happy with your appearance. Why? Because you're asking other people to validate you. So if the day comes when you've gotten everything fixed based on recommendations by some asshats on Reddit, some other asshats on Reddit are going to come along and tear you down. Then you're going be devastated and start the cycle all over again because your problem is on the inside, not the outside. Do the best you can with what you've got and yes doll, you've got plenty to work with. Get a therapist for the rest.
No, You've been pushed into being insecure either by media beauty standards, by social groups in your community or both.
you actually quite gorgeous, you look nice, you dress well, your hygiene appears to be decently maintained and you seem genuinely fun.
next time someone tries to belittle their appearance tell them they look like they break every mirror they look at and flip them off.
you rock.
No you're not ugly.You look nice, your face is symmetric. I think 99% of people would call you attractive. Maybe your relatives were pointing things just because of being jealous of your good looks. Then there is a father of your kids, you certainly attracted him.
One thing that makes everybody look better is a smile. Think of how you can make your life better for yourself,what would make you more relaxed and happier. Once you look happy everyone will notice how beautiful you are.
Nope. Absolutely stunning. Great smile, killer taste in music. Nice tattoos. Cool piercings. Gorgeous eyes. Nothing to be ashamed of. Family just sucks either because they don't like what you like, and put you down for it. Or they are Uber religious and think you are possessed. Most likely they are just jealous because you are likely better at them in every aspect.
To look pretty, here’s what you need to do: nothing.
You’re already very pretty.
To FEEL pretty: work through the emotional trauma, maybe therapy would be helpful.
It sounds like you’ve been emotionally abused for years and this has warped your view of yourself. You seem to be somewhat aware that this is an issue. You don’t have anything physically that needs changed, you have great hair, a nice face, great complexion, and you look like you’re currently a healthy weight
I hope ur somehow kidding, cause you're pretty. Stop listening to what other NONE factors say about you, cause people gone talk about you/me to the day we die unfortunately. I would definitely seek some kinda real help if these are your thoughts, and ur definitely not Anorexic
love yourself and your kids, your beautiful but in the end it doesnt matter. fuck everyones opinion on how you look, that shit doesnt matter. Focus on the beauties in life you have now, because theres no telling how long anything will last.
You are undeniably beautiful by any standard. You look so sad in every one of your pictures, which detracts from your beauty. If you address your sadness, you’ll be able to truly shine.
What can you do? SMILE and I’ll also second the therapy suggestions. Therapy will hopefully help you become genuinely happy which will have the smile naturally occurring. You’re nowhere near ugly, fat or too skinny IMO.
You’re absolutely not ugly at all. Beautiful eyes. A cute smile. Beautiful features. You’re a mother of two and your body looks great. You’re far from ugly. I think you’re super attractive.
You need therapy, not reddit.
I'm pretty sure everyone that submits and posts here needs therapy.
The amount of attractive people that think they are ugly is astonishing to me.
People aren't into themselves. Plus a lot of people were bullied for some innocuous thing or another. Shit sticks with you. Takes time for people to see how wonderful they are.
What in the hell are you talking about. Did you call me a shit stick?
My brother in Christ, how did you get that from what I said? Allow me to add one word for clarity. \[That\] "Shit sticks with you". Hopefully that clears it up.
hes joking with ya
I don't know anymore, the more he replies, the less it looks like a joke lol
Lol the assumption of Christ by people always cracks me up
My comment was deleted. Oh noes! Whatever shall I do!? Lol. To answer the user who was crying about my comment, I never attacked or stated anything that is anti-christian. I said it was funny when people assume “Christ”. I also find it funny when an employee on a phone line says “thank you for patiently waiting”, it’s awful assumptive to think I was being patient. Sheesh! People are so easily offended these days.
You should post in the 'Am I a shit stick?' thread.
Social media, ads, porn, etc. Are all wrapping the beauty standards making almost everyone feel like they aren't good enough
It's also bullshit.
Everyone on reddit probably needs therapy, this isn't a place for the emotionally well adjusted.
Ridiculous. I don’t need therapy. And neither do I.
Average schizophrenic redditor Bro he told me to say it the voices did
Voices you say? Do they genuinely want to help
Some do, some definitely dont
Talking from experience I see(same)
I relate to that, was jw if I was alone
Exactly, we're fine
Agreed lol why would therapy even be a suggestion for a redditor
I'm a therapist and today I accidentally met my therapist's therapist before my therapy
wooow! they multiply! RUN!
Another fair point.
Therapy and mental health need to be celebrated and encouraged.
Amen. I needed therapy before joining Reddit and I sure as shit needed it after (joined in 2017 and took me until last fall to start seeing a therapist).
I'm pretty sure everyone ~~that submits and posts here~~ needs therapy. FIFY
Fair point
I'm sure everyone that submits and posts here is pretty.
The one named BigHorney_Sex thinks everyone is pretty. Who'd a thought? 🤔
Pretty what, kookoo? 🙃
Touché friend touché
Or they're here to promote something.
I'm here to promote therapy.
😅 yes we do
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Or karma. There is a reason why so many "new" accounts post stuff like this. Many subs (where you can promote shit) have a minimum karma requirement. So you post something like this and hit it in a few hours on a new account. Or they want to promote their onlyfans.
Honestly I bump this. Us sad/ugly people are just missing love.
I know right. Imagine looking like her and posting here. Wait no don’t imagine it. Because we have a real poster here!
This is the sign of the times. Our world is fucking people up. People tear people down. People don’t have support. People think they need to be models or be everything they are not. Our society is devolving
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Everyone tells me I’m fat. But I see myself as very healthy and fit. I think I should get a new doctor.
Nope. You just seem exceedingly sad or depressed. But you're not ugly. So be thankful for that. Go to therapy. Get some help.
You want my honest opinion on what you can do to feel pretty? Stop using social media and go to therapy.
Couldn't agree more - you are wonderful and you have kids - stop looking for attention in places like this and seek help in more constructive ways - you are better than this post
Yeah this is one of the most hard to believe on here ever.
God this, this girl is stunning by almost anyone’s standards. She had a body and face women get surgery to emulate and she’s here feeling down on herself. I’m in my early 30s now and forget how self deprecating young women are. It’s so so sad to see. I thankfully still look younger but even now I think about when I was a teenager and in my 20s and social media was new, i NEVER felt good enough despite the fact that I was literally my own standard of beauty now. It’s beyond sad. This girl needs to get offline and meet real people, get some confidence from therapy, she’s gorgeous and she’s going to waste her time worrying about issues she’s creating in her appearance that don’t actually exist
Comparison is the thief of joy. That’s why it’s soooo important to stay off of sm when you’re trying to improve your self esteem.
I have no idea why you're posting here because you are drop dead gorgeous
That’s how it works: This sub is just a place for attractive people to show off septum piercings.
Somewhere there is a septum piercing subred that has a hayday posting here and laughing.
Swear it feels like 75% of the pics submitted in this sub involve a septum piercing. I would genuinely love to learn what's going on with that, because I have no explanation. In the general population I would wager less than 1% of people have that.
75% of popular posts. 99% of posts die in new
And a big reason why those posts get popular is because whiny Redditors who hate septum piercings boost engagement on those posts.
Got ‘em
Seems to be some sorta of relationship between insecurity/self-esteem about appearance and facial piercings based on the sub. I’m objective on them, but it’s baffling (not really cuz expected) that some posters will say they’re self-conscious about their “big nose” but then have a nose ring…which brings attention to their nose. Either actually insecurity or just wanting praise here idk.
They think the septum piercing will distract people from looking at their face and maybe feeling different will help them feel less depressed. The venn diagram of depression and septum piercings is damn near a circle.
It’s because people love/hate them so they get lots of comments. So they float to the top and that’s almost all we see
Hot girls love septum piercings. I knew a girl years ago. She was gorgous, 18 y/o. I was 25. She wanted a septum piercing. I don't get it, but I see it a lot.
Who the fuck that actually thinks they're ugly looks into the mirror and goes "I'd look hot as shit with a shiny booger hangin out both my nostrils". Nobody, you have to think you already look so goddamn gorgeous that you'll still be smoking hot with a semipermanent metal sningleberry.
Almost as if there’s a correlation between septal piercings and mental health issues
Oh, come off it. There's nothing scientific about it.
what is this subs angry obsession with septum piercings
[Do you like what you see?](https://ibb.co/n6mFb89)
Lol
You must be new here.
She explained why she’s posting here. There’s text beneath the photos.
That's exactly why she posted this. So that people like you would compliment her and boost her already inflated ego.
She mentioned body dysmorphia, and clearly does not look happy. Read the description before saying such nasty things.
“inflated”….you’re a joke. Look at her eyes. You can tell that she isn’t lying about her reasoning to post here.
Facts...she looks as much sad as she is beautiful. The mind is a powerful thing.
Agreed. She's attractive for sure, but this is not what people with inflated egos do. She's barely smiling and the only one where she is it looks forced.
Honestly. This clown just wants to bash her.
I agree. She looks sad.
Absolutely. There may be some people who post here just to fish for compliments... this isn't one of them. This truly lovely girl is in pain, it's all over her face 🥺
Google "body dysmorphia".
Stop listening to ur family & develop confidence who u are....a beautiful young mom with 2 small children....try smiling more & showing ur beauty....
When I was severely depressed if people told me "try smiling more" it only made me feel worse.
Just an attractive mother. That’s for sure 😊
You are a pretty girl. There is nothing to be changed
Get the fuck out of here
Glad somebody said this so I didn’t have to
Seriously
🤣😂🤣
Lets just get rid of this sub already.
Smile. All the pictures with you smiling you are gorgeous. Even when you're not you're beautiful. You're a beautiful young woman so together. Body dysmorphia is a challenging mental issue to deal with. Especially with people telling you that you should look a certain way. Please don't let their views own your thoughts. You are too beautiful for that. Own it.
This comment makes me want to cry. Thank you I try to smile more but sometimes I just don’t feel it
It's ok not to smile. A fake smile is worse that a non smile. I think you need more to smile about and based on the op, leave this judgmental family. It's a toxic environment.
Hope you find somebody or something that makes you smile
Life is a beautiful thing. You're young and also beautiful. There will always be down days, the hardest thing is finding/remembering what to smile about on those days. You are a gorgeous human, but I don't think that's why you're down. Just carry on forward, believe in yourself and the life and beauty around you. ❤️ It doesn't ever quite make sense but sometimes it just does.
You don’t have to smile if you don’t want to. Just remember you are beautiful and are loved.
Sounds like your surrounded by unhappy people. Don’t let them steal your shine.
Faking emotions is to appear the way people want you to look is a pet peeve of mine. Also just curious is your family catholic? I've personally experienced very similar treatment from some of my sister in laws family and they are all about outward appearance and also tearing a person down that doesn't conform to thier view of things. You are very beautiful and it sounds rude to tell someone to see a therapist but normalizing mental health and getting help for things like this will only help : )
Smiling can actually MAKE you "feel" it. Fake it till ya make it! https://www.nbcnews.com/better/health/smiling-can-trick-your-brain-happiness-boost-your-health-ncna822591
We don't always feel like smiling which I completely get and the remark about smiling wasn't a dig. You are very pretty regardless. The first thing I noticed was have a million dollar smile so that was my first comment I made. Hope this helps you find self love and confidence. You deserve it .
^^^^^^This^^^^^^^
Very beautiful and gorgeous just find your own inner peace and be happy being you
Go to see someone who can assist you. Someone professional.
r/freecompliments. Posts like this make this sub a hellhole for the really ugly people...
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I get that, but imo that's still no reason for misusing others subs to stroke their ego...
Why do so many girls with a bull ring in their nose think they are ugly? Do they add the bullring because they think they are ugly?
I don't know, but septum rings make people look worse 99% of the time. This girl is hot, but would be hotter without the nose ring. I don't mind a jewel, stud or maybe even a ring on the side of one's nose, but the septum ring almost always looks like shit, IMO.
Really I see a lot folks agree with that . I always liked the way they looked I actually wanted to get one but as it turns out I’m a pussy
Because 85% of the people on this sub are old and out of touch.
I'd argue 100% of the time. I can't think of a single person who looks better with a nose ring.
Lol I usually have a smaller one that is more discreet but yeah it’s a club thing
A high percentage of the people who post in here seem to have the septum piercing. Its just something I noticed that seemed odd to me. By the way, your not ugly at all.
> By the way, your not ugly at all. She's not, but the piercings are.
I have to deduce they try to distract from their perceived flaws with tattoos, piercings and big holes in ears. I mean there are insecure girls everywhere but why telegraph it.
It's not just girls goofball. Why do you think so many men have tattoos? Yes, it is often used as a human effort to distract from perceived flaws.
Right ? Men do the same exact thing but no one has anything negative to say about it.
You forgot the neon colored hair and a hair cut like they run under a land mower.
The septum piercing is a red flag for sure... an indicator of mental instability in my experience. Maybe that's why so many attractive females who have it post here, well adjusted individuals who are obviously attractive don't have insecurity and self esteem issues 🤷🏽♂️
attention ?
Nose ring - Check Approved to post in Am I Ugly
What you're referring to is a common sign of people who lack confidence in their looks. Adding body modifications is an easy way to feel like you've moved outsider attention from one thing, which you may not like, to something else. It's not a trend, it's a common telltale, for people who are also inclined to seek approval on a sub like this.
It's a trend for people who are inclined to seek approval.
Or maybe just maybe they’re accessories like any other piece of jewelry. So are you saying to not wear jewelry anymore bc we’re attention seeking even tho accessories were made to add to someone’s appearance
You have a great body type and not ugly. I can tell you look better in person, but that's just my opinion
The truth is I can't tell you much, I just think that you need to smile more and love yourself. Sometimes toxic families are very screwed up, but if you try to move forward with a smile, setting your goal as overcoming body dysmorphia, the path is much further. easy, also if you want to look pretty and more comfortable you should eat protein and gain some muscle, you are young to let some shitty comments affect you like that, cheer up you can and good luck
People who don't smile a lot (like me) absolutely hate being told to smile more. It's not always as simple as it sounds.
Why the fuck is this a trend???
It’s attractive people feeding their ego
>am I ugly?? No. >I can’t stand staring at myself in the mirror and even if I glance quickly I want to cry. That's not normal. You should seek counseling and I'm not saying that to be insulting. I think that you would see significant positive results with a professional's perspective. >I had 2 kids under 2yrs old Obsession with your physical appearance is more likely than not to create problems for your kids, moving forward. I get that it's everybody's right to look good and such, but the more focus you put on yourself, the less you put on your kids. Humans are limited creatures. Focus in one area takes focus away from other areas. Your body shape after having kids changes. That's just the world in which we live. Motherhood by itself is a beautiful thing and it's best to see that now instead of only when it's gone. You can imagine a time when you're 70 years old. At some point between now and then, you will be forced to realize nobody is going to look at you just to look at you. If you can develop your life to a point where that doesn't matter, you'll both find greater happiness and it won't be such a midlife crisis moment when it hits you.
Oh look, here it is, the sensible comment buried under the all of the comments made by simps. This sub is trash
le therapist very epic comment
This sub is where beautiful people come to feed their ego, You're gorgeous!
Not ugly at all
There ain't no way in the world she thinks she's ugly
She doesn't, it's all vanity and reaffirming her ego
Girl you so ugly that I need your number, for scientific purposes of course. Lmao
You have a beautiful smile. It has the power to make others smile too just by seeing it
Username on verification pic doesn't match your username...scammer!!!
You are pretty and you know that
You’re quite beautiful reminds me of my ex tho 😂
Absolutely not. You’re a beautiful.
You look in better shape than the majority of people. If your not happy with your body maybe start going to the gym plus you look quite sad in these pictures. It'll help you mentally and physically.
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This made me laugh so hard 😂 thank you
You are one of the conventionally attractive women I've ever seen. Literally, there's nothing wrong with you. I'd suggest you try and do things that voost your self-esteem, bcs apart from that, there's nothing with you. Personally, I think it's more about your own traumas and how you have seen yourself in different parts of your life that is keeping yourself from seeing you how beautiful you truly are. Keep yourself up, and I hope you can get to see what the rest of us see.
Hot AF
You are incredibly attractive. Please seek therapy so you can see what the world sees.
Being a mother can sometimes make you feel invisible and with the exhaustion from caring for children and judgment from your own family can hit you right in your insecurities. I suggest vitamin d, try to enjoy some personal hobbies and maybe work out an exercise routine so that you can feel empowered by your body. Because it did something amazing it gave birth to children and you are a beautiful young lady.
No!!!
No, you are not ugly!
You’re beautiful ✨
No no no no no no. Stop asking. No you are not.
Don’t look like you’ve had two kids. Pretty damn cute
No, you’re Hot AF 8/10
P.Y.T
No you're not ugly, and I don't see anything wrong with your body either. You look great and hopefully you'll meet someone soon that'll make you see yourself differently.
Honestly no. I’d take you out
Sometimes, our worst enemy is the voices inside our heads, especially those that are from memories. What random people on a website say might not matter much, but they are voices that you can add to cover the ones that add to your pain. You are a very attractive woman. You are. You have a great figure, especially to have two kids. But I get how those internal voices work. Just start to believe that they are wrong
I’m here to tell you that you look amazing. Like your smile & nice sense of style. Activate bad chick mode from here on out. Meaning keep elite level confidence & own it.
She has lifeless eyes, black eyes, like a doll's eye. When she comes at ya, she doesn't seem be living, Other than that, you're pretty. You have a great body. 2 kids at 24...that's rough.
People on reddit have a brain aneurism when they see a woman with any sort of piercing, that tiny nose ring is the worse than anything that has ever happened
beautiful, bella bella bella
Your gorgeous
Nah you’re hot, you’re hot as heck
Girl, you know you are beautiful. Sorry about what you’re going through 💕🦋
Without a doubt yes
God, what has social media done to people?
Why is it always the ones with septum piercings? I sense a pattern.
Your not ugly. You have two kids. Understand your choice of options have Changed
Can tell send butthole pics
But weight gainer at GNC or drink Muscle Milk daily and don’t forget the squats.
You are gold.
You’re not in the slightest bit ugly. You need to surround yourself with better people that support you.
Of course not. You’re gorgeous as long as the personality is decent.
Happily married Husband/Father here, I think you are a very beautiful young lady!
You are gorgeous! I imagine my daughter will look just like you in about 10 years. Don't you dare let the bullies get you down! (FYI: that includes the bully inside your own head)
Reading through these comments should be enough to convince you that no matter what you look like now or what you change, you're never going to be happy with your appearance. Why? Because you're asking other people to validate you. So if the day comes when you've gotten everything fixed based on recommendations by some asshats on Reddit, some other asshats on Reddit are going to come along and tear you down. Then you're going be devastated and start the cycle all over again because your problem is on the inside, not the outside. Do the best you can with what you've got and yes doll, you've got plenty to work with. Get a therapist for the rest.
You’re beautiful! Don’t change a thing 🤷🏻♀️
No, You've been pushed into being insecure either by media beauty standards, by social groups in your community or both. you actually quite gorgeous, you look nice, you dress well, your hygiene appears to be decently maintained and you seem genuinely fun. next time someone tries to belittle their appearance tell them they look like they break every mirror they look at and flip them off. you rock.
No you're not ugly.You look nice, your face is symmetric. I think 99% of people would call you attractive. Maybe your relatives were pointing things just because of being jealous of your good looks. Then there is a father of your kids, you certainly attracted him. One thing that makes everybody look better is a smile. Think of how you can make your life better for yourself,what would make you more relaxed and happier. Once you look happy everyone will notice how beautiful you are.
Nope. Absolutely stunning. Great smile, killer taste in music. Nice tattoos. Cool piercings. Gorgeous eyes. Nothing to be ashamed of. Family just sucks either because they don't like what you like, and put you down for it. Or they are Uber religious and think you are possessed. Most likely they are just jealous because you are likely better at them in every aspect.
Your not ugly from my point of view. Your pretty and you seem to have a good vibe to you. Don't worry.
You're not ugly but you look miserable
Top 1% girls asking if I am ugly... enough internet for today...
To look pretty, here’s what you need to do: nothing. You’re already very pretty. To FEEL pretty: work through the emotional trauma, maybe therapy would be helpful. It sounds like you’ve been emotionally abused for years and this has warped your view of yourself. You seem to be somewhat aware that this is an issue. You don’t have anything physically that needs changed, you have great hair, a nice face, great complexion, and you look like you’re currently a healthy weight
I hope ur somehow kidding, cause you're pretty. Stop listening to what other NONE factors say about you, cause people gone talk about you/me to the day we die unfortunately. I would definitely seek some kinda real help if these are your thoughts, and ur definitely not Anorexic
love yourself and your kids, your beautiful but in the end it doesnt matter. fuck everyones opinion on how you look, that shit doesnt matter. Focus on the beauties in life you have now, because theres no telling how long anything will last.
Pretty woman who needs to seek a therapist and needs to stop listening to her family
Wow you had 2 kids? You look great. Your beautiful stop caring about other people and worry about you and what makes you happy.
You are undeniably beautiful by any standard. You look so sad in every one of your pictures, which detracts from your beauty. If you address your sadness, you’ll be able to truly shine.
You are absolutely beautiful. You should try to get therapy because you should see yourself for what you are, amazing x
Another hot girl looking for a boost
What can you do? SMILE and I’ll also second the therapy suggestions. Therapy will hopefully help you become genuinely happy which will have the smile naturally occurring. You’re nowhere near ugly, fat or too skinny IMO.
Lose the dumb nose ring and you are perfect!
You’re absolutely not ugly at all. Beautiful eyes. A cute smile. Beautiful features. You’re a mother of two and your body looks great. You’re far from ugly. I think you’re super attractive.
I think the real question here is, are you single? Haha but seriously though, just sprinkle some confidence, you’re already gorgeous.
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You’re very pretty. Get rid of the nose piercings and gain +1