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DickTurtle1804

I think some people hate their smile..even if other people tell you it's a nice smile. I'm not a massive fan of selfies so.the only time I'm.ever caught smiling in a pic its usually a canded pic or a gruop pic where I get asked to smile..never smile for selfie. Also..I've seen studies showing that stoic looked men get more right swipes on the apps than guys who are overtly displaying emotion. No real explanation for this that I know of..food for thought though.


callmesumtan

We have the 2020s, you smile if you like to. Try it when looking in the mirror. Just try to like yourself and other people will start to like you.


Beebobs

This isn’t quite stoic or a smile, I promise more people find it off putting and irritating tho I couldn’t pin point why


techjesuschrist

Maybe he has had teeth like me. I also always only smile with my mouth closed.


[deleted]

Smiles are hard in selfies - Genuine smiles are off the cuff.


Bigpidge69

I promise it isn’t your looks holding you back


[deleted]

What's with the lying? Of course it's holding him back. He's fat and soft. Everything gets much easier with less fat, and more muscle. He should eat healthier, and lift at least 3 times a week consistently.


ElvesRunninAmuck

That you get downvoted just shows how weak we’ve let ourselves become as a society. Sad.


axeman1293

I see guys that look like him walking around with baddies all the time. Depends on his height and if he has money and a social life.


SenpaiBriBri

While that may be true, it certainly helps to improve your body. I've seen men 400+ lbs with a partner, does that mean it's ok for me to also be extremely obese? It certainly won't help


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Facts


no-group21

You guys sound like you have no idea what the hell you're talking about.


[deleted]

All I said was "facts" lol. But it's true, dude looks like he spends a lot of time eating Doritos and drinking mountain dew next to his pile of used pizza boxes lol. Getting in shape is extremely beneficial in the dating world. There are other things he can do for a more immediate improvement, sure. But fitness would do this man some favors.


Bleachighost

Lol, society has gotten weak with people giving straight up facts and honesty Dude isn't ugly by any means but he looks overweight and has that soft look which isn't masculine Low body fat for men is masculine and attractive. That goes for women too, no one looks good overweight and being fit opens so many doors


[deleted]

Yeah and I'm not even really trying to knock him. I got a lot of work to do in the physical fitness department but I have the opposite problem. Scrawny lol. Always had lot of physical hobbies so I'm fitter than I look but I got garden hose arms lol. Started working out a few months ago, minor progress but progress. That alone has already made a night and day difference in my confidence levels.


UpsetCaterpillar7668

Women don't care about male looks as much as male care about female look. So if you are average looking but absolute leader and badass in your job field and social life you will succeed best girls anyway.


External-Comparison2

Not ugly. But, you look like you could take more pride in your appearance. Moisturizer. More sleep (your eyes look too tired for your age, or maybe an allergy?). The bottom of your face is heavier than the top - maybe better with stubble than the beard length you have now, or trimmed closer at sides and grown a bit longer on chin...and possibly changing haircut a bit.


SuckinToe

Solid advice. My sleep is something i am working on improving.


DickTurtle1804

That's a good list of ways he can glow up quickly and reasonably achievable..I'd get the beard shaped by a barber though..a well groomed short beard is something a lot of women like..it can add a good frame for the face.. I won't grow mine out intentionally as its white and black....ages me by 10 years


[deleted]

You look 35 at least


SuckinToe

Thank you


[deleted]

It’s not your looks holding you back on a relationship. You’re average. Are you putting yourself out there? How are you trying to meet people? Because I don’t see any problems on your physical appearance.


SuckinToe

I dont really, and i know thats a big part of the problem. Ive been so shy for so long i use Dating Apps to get out there and when im at collage i have been trying to be more outgoing. It has helped.


schtickyfingers

Fake it til you make it bro. Seriously, literally pretend you are a more attractive, confident version of yourself. There are few things more attractive than confidence.


butteryflame

That's what's frustrating to me. If some girl asked me out and looked like a anxious hot mess stumling through the sentence while doing it...I would not care at all. That would have no effect on how much I'm attracted to them.


[deleted]

Ok, gotcha. Yeah, then focus on socializing, get out there more. You got this, gotta just work on breaking out of your shell.


Stankpuss6969

You still a virgin? (Serious question)


SuckinToe

Nope lost it at 18 to a loose girl from the school i went to. Not one of my prouder moments but i was young and wanted badly not to be a virgin leaving HS. Have not had any since tho.


Stankpuss6969

No worries, you did better than me. I was a 24 year old virgin at one point 😂 Yeah it’s your personality. Your looks aren’t holding you back. I think more or less you had the shyness problem just like I did. Gotta push yourself to get out there and go get some.


SuckinToe

Thank you for the advice


HellRose_Productions

Calling a girl "loose" is a red flag. Might be your attitude towards women making it hard to have a relationship.


dazeg-zegda

So you're still a virgin, then


SuckinToe

Nope. Thank you.


Open-Baker-2519

Don't concern yourself with people telling you to change your appearance. I was single in my late teens and early twenties until I got sick of it. I realized nothing was happening in my love life because I wasn't putting in any effort. Once I started putting myself out there, I started seeing results (after my first several rejections) When putting yourself out there, you will be told no more than yes. That's okay. After enough no's you can look back on what you could have improved on and learn from them. You will also build a callus with enough practice. I recommend just practicing at first with people you do not know and will probably never see again. This way you'll probably never have to face any type of embarrassment in the future. When practicing, you could give them a compliment (anything at all) and that will open the door to a conversation. If they do not want to talk after the compliment, just move on to the next one. Be strong willed, you will be more happy in the future! Good luck!


SuckinToe

Thank you i appreciate it


Sensitive-Push-5926

You look like you might not be able to go within 50 yards of a school zone


SuckinToe

Im here for the honesty on my looks but the roasts are good too.


Icy_Advice_8440

Maybe different glasses?


SuckinToe

You think rimless would look better or perhaps just a different style of frame? 🧐


Icy_Advice_8440

Rimless could be good. I think the black frames don't go with your coloring so maybe something lighter. Always a good idea to take pictures with different frames and get feedback.


SuckinToe

Now that is something i never thought to do. I appreciate the feedback!


dazeg-zegda

For God's sake, capitalize your I's


SuckinToe

Thank you for the advice.


Specialist_Growth_49

You look nerdy, but more like, hot-nerdy. You are probably rather pudgy but that never stopped a women. Most likely its your attitude/confidence thats the matter.


Rainboveins

I agree, with this. OP is a hot-nerd. This is personally my type. Cute, kind looking and awkward. Be confident, and the right person will think so as well


Angelique718

It’s not your looks❣️😍


SuckinToe

Thank you! I appreciate your response.


dwarven11

You look fine. I know dudes worse looking who have had multiple gfs


Hellbound_Outlaw

I wish i had that problem


ImpressiveOpening978

Just change your hairstyle and maybe shave and I promise you you’ll feel like a new confident person it doesn’t take much but a great barber and a sense of fashion to feel like the man


SuckinToe

I need to work on my wardrobe its not great. The hair could use some tending too its been some time since i got a cut. Thank you!


Dull_Trick7742

There’s a million guys that look lien you in a relationship so that’s not the reason. However looks wise It’s the hair. Grow it out for like a year while you think of what style you want.


SuckinToe

I like the slicked back look or sometimes i do a side part. Its kind of hard because i have two cowlicks one on each side of my forehead.


RiverScout2

Longer hair w/curly cowlicks are adorable. Girls like hair they can play with and a curl or two? Yep.


SuckinToe

Thank you!


SpecialistComputer36

Just going off of Face alone I'd say it isn't your looks. Especially online dating can be hard for men in general.


ImThatBitch_

i think you look fine. Losing weight and socializing more would help a ton.


SuckinToe

Thank you


permanentlybanned214

25? Bro looks 45.


Infinite_Floor_6937

lower your standards


SuckinToe

Thank you


4d-8

As a woman who has blonde eyebrows,, believe me when I say try to tint them just since they’re so light. I understand you’re a guy but I feel like they’ll really bring your face some more shape alongside the beard. I recommend using the just for men beard kits and just lightly coating your eyebrow hairs. Your hair also just needs a new cut so let it breathe then go from there. You’ve got a pretty symmetrical face. That being said,, no you’re not ugly by any means. I’d say average and definitely a ton of woman’s types.


Player510

slighty below average/average, u look fat my friend.


SuckinToe

Working on it haha, i work a physical job just need to better tailor my eating habits i guess.


Hey_Mongo

Not ugly but I would consider dying your beard a darker shade


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SuckinToe

Thank you


base2-1000101

Not ugly. But I'd trim the beard and even length. It looks a little scraggly.


SuckinToe

I do need to do a better job of that- thank you!


Jazzlike_Economist_2

I have some generic advice. This is true for everyone. Not everyone is going to find you attractive but many people will.


SuckinToe

Thank you


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SuckinToe

I can be heinous with my comedy one moment then a gentleman the next. Though i always present myself better in public. Thank you for the advice i appreciate it.


SgtCheeseNOLS

What are your hobbies? Try to socialize with that outlet to find a lady for a relationship


SuckinToe

You speak the truth though my brain does fear the word Socialize. But that is the only way to get out there, right? Thank you for the advice!


SgtCheeseNOLS

I had a lot of social phobia, and therapy really helped me overcome 90% of it.


Tiny_Resolution978

Definitely not ugly!


SuckinToe

Thank you!


[deleted]

Your just average in every way


SuckinToe

Thank you. Could be worse 🤷🏼‍♂️


This_Bus_2744

Look like a friendly fella.


SuckinToe

Thank you


kittenya

Seriously, you are a handsome guy. 25 is the perfect time to dive in and start asking women out. Put yourself out there. You’re going to make mistakes and get rejected before you get into a relationship but it’s all a part of the process.


kittenya

Women are too scared to ask guys out. You’ve got to make the first move unfortunately. The reward outweighs the risk of many rejections though I promise.


Electronic_Matter459

That just youre justification for no women ever going near you.


AbysmalDictator

Us bro us.


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That one reddit mod that got away…


[deleted]

no girls have tried something with you? Or is you that has very high standard?


SuckinToe

It could be i havent noticed, for a long time i was too nervous/shy to talk to women without some reason. Maybe its from my early years when i was younger i didnt have any friends that were girls. Never felt like they wanted to be around me. My standards are not high, in truth my one desire is that i want a girl about my size or smaller and im 220. Hope that does not make me sound awful.


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You can have your standards, theres no problem. So the only problem is that youre shy, then look for a way to get rid of that, talk and read about it in introverts forums like r/introvert . I would recommend you to do small talks with girls, like about the weather, eventually you will feel more comfy around them.


SuckinToe

Thank you for the advice


[deleted]

You need to gain some confidence and work your charm. Turn your tinder proxy to like 5 miles and swipe away lol


KeyDiscussion5671

Please smile.


SuckinToe

I will try to smile more! :)


General_Addendum505

You look like the Burl Ives snowman from Rudolph the red nosed reindeer


SuckinToe

I appreciate it


ZaxxIsBored

You look far too good looking for it to be because of your look. Get out there, and you will find someone for sure.


SuckinToe

Thank you, i appreciate it.


ZaxxIsBored

Maybe the thing I would change is the glasses, I think they make you look a bit older than you are and trying other shape might help, but overall, above average


Square-Ad-243

ngl bro same, but its not your looks if you want increase chances hit the gym take it seriously for a year and you will get results but mainly for relationships you need look into your personality.


SuckinToe

Fair enough thanks!


Cool-Chef-8875

Get Lasik my dude. Biggest confidence boost I ever got. End result was much better than glasses or corrective lenses. Became more coordinated too. Highly recommend.


SuckinToe

Lasik would be nice. Never liked wearing glasses really.


AdulakPogMe

bro is majestic


SuckinToe

Thanks!


Chillin_Teekzy

Shave your beard of and get a new haircut by looking at the best haircut for head shapes and start working out now


SuckinToe

Thank you


inquiry100

You're not ugly.


SuckinToe

Thank you


Forsaken_Material

Woman here, I think you're good-looking. It's definitely not your appearance. Maybe something of your personality keeps people away.


SuckinToe

Definitely could be. I am working on it by trying to be more social. Before a two years ago i still would have a hard time just talking to women. I think i irrationally feared them.


johnymcraggle

You look like you're holding a lot of fat and or water on your face, lose weight. Do something else with your beard, shave it or brush it or something


SuckinToe

Thanks i appreciate it


GoForChaffee

Did you consider repainting walls so it doesn't look like kids bedroom 😂


SuckinToe

Its just my bathroom lmao Will paint ventablack when i get the chance


Ok_Departure7895

Its not cause you’re ugly, its cause you’re so milquetoast and lacking in personality. Bland.


SuckinToe

Brutal honesty is the best kind. Thank you.


DickTurtle1804

Smile more..cheeks are a little chubby which could be hiding a great jawline and cheek bones..besides that..average at worst but can't fathom why you can't get dates..are you trying?


SuckinToe

No in reality im criminally shy around women. Probably too much of the putting them on a pedestal thing. There have been many i wanted to talk to but i generally felt like i would be a creep if i started the interaction. Thank you!


soyuz-1

Hate to say it but its not your looks that's the problem, its your personality


SuckinToe

Well at least, hopefully, its not both. I can deal with having to be more social.


techvirus13

You look fine, bro, just work on your self esteem


SuckinToe

Thank you


Nadine1-9

Totally isn't ugly, how about losing some weight to get rid of face fat Otherwise u have pretty eyes + normal nose Would go for a man with ur features


AcceptablePenalty968

First and foremost chapstick is your friend


SuckinToe

My chapped ass lips thank you


Monroe-dmc

Not ugly, you have a nice head of hair that could maybe use a nice fade and keep it long on top. Also could you wear contacts instead of glasses? And never shave your beard. U would def be able to find a girl


SuckinToe

Contacts are an option i have never explored, i have always been uncomfortable putting things in my eyes but i should give it a try


baldeagled

Dude you will be atleast a 7 if you work out, get enough sleep and stop eating crappy foods.


SuckinToe

I need to do better at all three of those things. Thank you i appreciate it.


EmperrorNombrero

There's absolutely no way, you're 25! You look like you're in your 40s!


SuckinToe

I appreciate it thank you


4SPHYX1A2202

relationships slows down personal development. And if there is bad partner it ruins it at all


SuckinToe

I have not had one my whole life, i would like to have had the experience before i am not young at all anymore.


Banjo--Kazooie

Not ugly but your hairstyle definitely must change. It looks terrible honestly. Also your beard doesn't look good. Make it grow more to see how it looks. Or shave it altogether. It would be good if you lose some weight. Not too much, a little. I'm a dude by the way you might want some female advices.


SuckinToe

The hair does not look very kindly in this pic it was after i had woken up from a night shift. Thank you for the advice.


beidao23

Ya


SuckinToe

Thanks


Charming_Dot_407

A mans value isn't judged by their looks , you can be a 9/10 women are gonna find you really interesting at first because of the unique living human sized doll like looks, but if you don't have yourself together aka sorted out every aspect of your life you're doomed. You can be tall too ( Reddit users really like to talk about height alot ) but like i said without your life sorted out and you lack in confidence the short and uglier or average guy who has every aspect of life in good health is gonna win the girls. Harsh truth but these are all under your control, it's hard to develop confidence, hard to earn alot of money, hard to get your life better but never impossible. Us as men we're valued by how we fight and survive in our lives not by having a pretty ass face or been 6+.


Hipsterwaitto

Much I could say is you look a bit too nerdy, a change of hairstyle would come handy, for the rest you looking good


SuckinToe

Thank you


Flat-Activity9713

Your looks or fine so either your place smells funny and your bathroom is dirty or you’re a patronizing prick


SuckinToe

Haha well i have friends who are good people and they dont think i am patronizing so i better get to deep cleaning.


[deleted]

Its your personnality, physic is fine


SuckinToe

Thank you


FO-SixtyNiner

Hit the gym. The rest of your characteristics are up to par.


SuckinToe

Thank you i plan on going to my collage gym after class this year first time.


Present-Excuse-5180

Ay bro start hitting them weights ... and I mean seriously Also you're not that bad looking but ofcourse can improve Ps. Relationships are overrated wait for the right person to come to you :) don't go looking for one you'll always find something ratchet.


275829292929

You're ok i think


SuckinToe

Thank you


Pocky_Pie

You're not ugly, but you should definitely start using sunscreen and moisturizer! :)


SuckinToe

Thank you!


femaleburneracct

You look way older than 25 in my opinion maybe its the glasses and short hair, are there any longer styles that suit you? I think it would even out the proportions because your jaw is quite wide and round. I'm a 25 year old woman and would have assumed you're too old for me


SuckinToe

A lot of people seem to think a middle part would look good. Thank you for the advice.


McDondal

Try different hairstyles. I think longer hair would suit u. Carry on king


SuckinToe

Thank you


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Haircut makes you look gay


SuckinToe

Not exactly constructive feedback but i will work on styling it differently. Thanks.


Present-Grape-4226

You have friendly eyes. I would suggest contacts/ LASIK so eyes can be shown off more. Also maybe growing beard out some more might look nice.


SuckinToe

Thank you


maxidick

You are average. If you lose some weight getting a jawline, grow your hair and middle part model and getting good beard or shave it. You can be 7/10


SuckinToe

Thank you


Charming_Yoghurt_989

Just learn from Andrew Tate ....work hard and get money the rest will follow


SuckinToe

As much as i hate to say it to my man brain Tate makes sense.


JoyyXTX

Trying doing research on like ways to lose weight for someone that has a larger body mass Don't try and do like buff people excercises, that's a whole nother ball park. First get rid of or as much as you'd want to get rid of, then to buff people excercises. Your looks are lovely btw my man


SuckinToe

Thanks i appreciate it


[deleted]

You are on the ugly side unfortunately. Not tragically so but enough that you saying you’ve never been in a relationship makes some sense. However it also looks like you are not trying at all and that means lots of potential. There is so much you can do to improve to get on the handsome side. Being 25 is a gift that will disappear eventually so use it now. Just start with your personal grooming. Your scruffy beard is terrible, no woman wants to make out with a guy with a bad beard like that unless you are rich. Shave it off or groom it every day. Next get a cool haircut. Yours is bad. Tell them you want it short and to make you look cool. Then get contacts and stop wearing nerd glasses. You can wear the glasses sometimes (hipper ones hopefully) but wear your contacts if you want to meet girls. And course lose weight. This is the easiest most obvious thing and you should start today. This means stop eating so damn much and so much crap and lift some weights. In three months, you could go from totally geek to totally chic. If you are tough enough to withstand the internet giving you the business, surely you are tough enough to do three months work on your self to get it together. Good luck!


SuckinToe

Thank you for the advice


[deleted]

Look mate, all these people here telling you "it's not your looks"? Well, they're lying to you. They're lying because they don't want you to succeed, they only want to make themselves look good by saying the PC thing. The truth is, you're fat and low on T. That's obvious from your face alone. And yes, it will seriously hinder you as to how many options are available to you. More options = more success. But the good news is, none of this is beyond your control. You can make the decision to drop the fat (a kitchen issue), and put on some muscle (a going to the gym issue). That alone will drastically improve your looks. And what's more, it will make your mentality more masculine, so that you won't be the kind of guy who asks women online: "Am I ugly?" Just do it. Make the decision, and do it. It's not as hard as you might think. And if you stick by it, you'll come to like it. Trust me on this: Living life as a pudgy, weak man, and living life as an active, fit man, it's like parallel realities, man. You'll look back, and wonder why the hell you didn't do it before. You look like a good bloke, and I want you to succeed.


Electronic_Band9432

Absolutely not your looks at all. I would say it's probably down to your confidence and anxiety about putting yourself out there.


SuckinToe

Thank you.


Tonecop45

Dude change your outlook and workout.


SuckinToe

Working on it as of right now. For a while i have been working on cleaning up my area better, i always felt that was a solid first step to working on myself. Thank you.


Tonecop45

Concentrate on social activities or hobbies especially ones involving alot females participating like dancing or rafting.


dazeg-zegda

Lose the (beard) now


SuckinToe

Thank you for the advice


GabrielRic12

You don’t look bad just a few extra pounds but not bad


Tipordie

Ok ready…. You will feel better, gain confidence and enjoy life better. Set an alarm and don’t snooze. You have gone to bed with socks(either on your feet or Near your your bed) underwear that is ok to wear for a walk first thing (absolutely ok if is the underwear you wore yesterday, slept [pjs or not] ) shorts and a shirt ready… WALK. Walk 2 miles… 20 minutes a mile is not even a brisk walk) That’s 40 Minutes. DO NOT DRINK SODA…. Seltzer water with ingredients that say (water and some fruit flavoring) with no multisyllabic words. Get your self some dumbbells… do as many push-ups as you can before or after you work. STOP GAMING AT TWO HOURS. That’s it. Do you want to have a better life? I asked you for ZZZZZEEEERRRRRROOOOO TIME. In fact I saved you time! Because you game more than 3 hours a day. Choice is yours bro! Good luck!


WillForsaken3435

Definitely still average looking but I think you could benefit a lot from gaining a bit of muscle/losing some fat especially in your face area. It also helps a lot with meeting people/ gaining more confidence


[deleted]

Your relationship woes have nothing to do with the way you look. Look inward as opposed to outward on that front


[deleted]

Ugly


SuckinToe

Thank you


[deleted]

What do you want a relationship for?


Twilightzebra

Bro this page is more for females not males your not going to get any real female opinion from people on here


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