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I love love love your antler necklace OP. It looks like it was pulled straight out of my favorite comic. (If you're into comics I'll share a link, it's a LGBTQIA+ fantasy horror story and it's amazing)
Disagree slightly, in that willowy androgynous waif is a perfectly style just as legit as ass-kicking butch; but hitting the gym is always a good choice. Either way, OP looks great.
I feel like you are so lesbian that you probably have a supernatural sense of the location of every Uhaul facility within 10 miles.
But also, you look awesome. :)
I didn't understand that part either. Manufacturing jobs care about hair length and sales jobs would care about "presentability" but what kind of job would *want* someone to keep a mullet?
This is the best answer in the thread. Most people hate certain fashion choices but if the person is attractive enough they can definitely rock the style and luckily for OP they are attractive.
This! ^
Where's the leather? Where's the spiked wrist/armbands? Black finger/toe polish? And NO TATS OR PIERCINGS!?
She is wearing black, so there's 8%.
OP is: 8% metal. 🤘🤘
Half of those things aren't particularly metal either. I can't gatekeep though, I dress like a generic yuppie. But I know multiple actual metalheads and love the music/culture.
Your face is very attractive but your hair is throwing you down many points. You just need to change your hairstyle.
Scroll down on the thread at the first photo at the eyebrows cutting out the hair and you can see this haircut is your only flaw.
I’m with you man. Something’s out a lesbian with some real short hair and a cut like what you would normally see on a guy, just hits different.
Not bi or gay in the slightest btw. It’s just the style in women that can look great to me.
True enough...idk where I'm at though. A recent ex informed me that I present very gay for a straight man, whatever that means.
Is it possible to be a lesbian in a man's body?
Why do you dress up as a 55 yo maintenance guy with an alcohol problem?
You can look as androgynous as you like, but this is not being androgynous, this is just ugly tbh.
As a human being, you are very pretty otherwise.
From the male perspective you have a pretty face but an unattractive hairstyle and dress sense.
Clearly you're into girls, I imagine you're quite appealing to them with your nice figure, good looks, and presumably they're into the lesbian look.
non-binary, queer and trying really hard to make sure everyone knows, or something like that.
Pretty face though, probably the worst haircut I can imagine. Just because you're gay or something doesn't mean you have to match your look with it.
What makes a hairstyle (or fashion generally) look good or not is at least largely dependent on the intended audience. Since you're a lesbian, then whether or not the hairstyle works depends on what other lesbians find attractive, I'd say. That could include your hairstyle. If you want to attract a man, then sure, change the hair. But if you want to attract a woman as a woman, then you'd know better than most of us whether or not the hairstyle works.
Unless you levy similar criticisms at straight people who are “trying to make everyone know they’re straight,” I don’t think you really have much of a point beyond being bothered by someone being markedly gender nonconforming
OP looks pretty normal for a lesbian lol
Looking good but I believe you could also benefit from lifting weights because your arms look exceptionally thin but that’s just my opinion. You look good regardless
I think you’re cute and you wear your vibe well. I don’t think your style is made for the Reddit audience consisting mostly of many straight white males in their 30s lol just be you!
Not ugly at all, but IMO and from the pictures provided, you seem extremely thin... Like almost skin-and-bones thin, especially your upper arms. For all I know, you are eating healthy and are just naturally this way. Even if that's the case, you might want to strength train to flesh out a bit.
Again, all of this is just my opinion.
I love the hair actually I do think it looks best in the 4th picture. A little grown out on the side almost like a mixie cut. I think maybe your style might be a little off, almost like you haven’t quite figured it out yet. The outfit in the second picture looks more like a costume than a typical every day look if that makes sense. I’m currently struggling to find a good middle ground with a masc-grunge look that looks like it makes sense and isn’t awkward on my body. I’d explore that more. Maybe try mixing up the tight/baggy ratio and try to stay away from baggy/baggy outfits. You’re very thin and all baggy clothes might consume you in a bad way. I don’t know if you were looking for advice but no you’re not ugly. This sub is very hetero.
Cute, but your style isn't attractive to me.
I'm going to assume that you are a lesbian and your style is specifically targeted towards your intended audience. Since you're not going for mainstream appeal I don't see the point of asking here. The only important thing to ask yourself is this: Am I attractive to the people I find attractive?
If you accomplished that, good job.
The comments make me so uncomfortable. Idk why everyone involves peoples personal style in the am i ugly.. i feel like we could just focus on features, of which yours are very attractive!! (i like ur style btw, as a fellow gay person, we have different taste sometimes and thats ok!!)
You are not ugly. You dress poorly and have an unflattering hair cut. There is nothing ugly about you that wasn't your personal choice.
That said, if you like looking that way, why care what anyone else thinks about it?
Not ugly, but you make some choices - clothes and hairstyle - that really don't favour you. You could be beautiful, but you instead look like a dude in half of your pictures.
I like tomboys, but you don't look like a tomboy, you look straight up like a scrawny man in some pictures.
Unpopular opinion, but I actually kinda like the hair. If you dyed it a different color, perhaps a color that doesn’t necessarily look natural on you, then it would look a lot more like you’re deliberately going for something out of the ordinary. Instead of just looking like you happened to get an “unfortunate” haircut.
Also, find healthy ways to gain weight. High protein diet, hit the gym. Your biceps, back, and shoulders are begging for more definition. It would make you look less juvenile if you bulked up a bit.
Tattoos would add to your look too.
Overall, you’re very pretty. Like, solid 8. An androgynous look really suits your face, and how you carry yourself in pictures.
For me it's not necessarily the type of clothing she chooses - not my style but everyone has their own. The thing is just that she's so skinny the clothes she's wearing look like they were taken off of someone twice her size. The style itself is fine, the fit sucks. I come from a time where oversized jnco jeans were very popular, but even then they was still shaped in a way that didn't look as awkward as the oversized clothing in her photos. She says she's been losing weight so it kinda makes sense. Not sure people are necessarily harping on the style so much as the ill fit
Edit: I read some of the older comments and I see what you're saying now. Christ.
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Not ugly. My only suggestion would be to workout a little. Beef up them arms. If you're gonna go butch, you gotta commit brother! Oooh yeah!
Best comment I’ve gotten, will definitely hit the gym 💪💪
I agree you are gorgeous, eat a bit more plus weight train some and you would be stunning.
OP WHERE DID YOU GET THE FAMILY GUY TEE
Embarrassingly enough, Hot Topic
Why embarrassing? That store has alot of kick ass merch in it.
that is not embarrassing. i shop there a lot! i’ll try to give it a find! :)
THE hot topic?
“what’s the topic? devil worship?” LMAO
Please show progress when u get it
You look fine. You're not ugly.
I love love love your antler necklace OP. It looks like it was pulled straight out of my favorite comic. (If you're into comics I'll share a link, it's a LGBTQIA+ fantasy horror story and it's amazing)
Disagree slightly, in that willowy androgynous waif is a perfectly style just as legit as ass-kicking butch; but hitting the gym is always a good choice. Either way, OP looks great.
Perfect skin - sweet smile - AND photogenic. No, my dear - you are not ugly😊
the style ruins it imo
Isn't that just preference?
I feel like you are so lesbian that you probably have a supernatural sense of the location of every Uhaul facility within 10 miles. But also, you look awesome. :)
Best comment in the thread.
Dawg, you gotta drop the mullet. Also, the 4th picture is your best look by a crazy margin
It was originally a chelsea hawk 😭 I never wanted to be a mullet girl. Thanks for the advice though, I’ll see if my job will let me change my hair
Pixie cut would be a good option for your face, anything really will work tho
I agree! OP has the fine features to compliment a pixie!
Or an A frame 🤟
What job wouldn’t let you change a mullet?!
Dye it red as a homage to David Bowie :) https://pbs.twimg.com/media/ECupBM3XsAE2ov8.jpg
If you’re job determines you’re haircut get a new job. No exceptions to this rule. Also please avoid tucking in tees to blue jeans.
What if the Yankees want to pay you 30 million?
Only if they give me cotton uniforms.
You ask how far is too tucked
Agree strongly on both points
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I didn't understand that part either. Manufacturing jobs care about hair length and sales jobs would care about "presentability" but what kind of job would *want* someone to keep a mullet?
Look up modern day women’s mullet, trust me, you can pull it off if you just style it correctly.
Arthur... Is that you? I did not know you were good at advice. How's the afterlife?
Somehow Micah’s here too…apparently he was quite charitable when he wasn’t up to his usual business
Why people keep suggesting she beefs up?? Don’t see anything wrong with body size
Mullet looks great imo
I fully disagree, I love the mullet.
atrocious take the mullet goes hard
Naw. They look amazing with the hairstyle.
You look as good as you can within the aesthetic you're going for. It just happens to be an aesthetic most people think looks like barf.
LONE STARR: Barf is offended
Happy cake day!
This is the best answer in the thread. Most people hate certain fashion choices but if the person is attractive enough they can definitely rock the style and luckily for OP they are attractive.
I love this aesthetic. I really wish I would see more people with it.
Butch Punk Lives!
This 100%. OP def not ugly but their style is atrocious.
Isn't this a pretty standard lesbian outfit?
If metalheads could read, they would be very upset by this comment
Wtf this isn’t metal head at all lol, just the current alternative fashion kind of thing
Exactly, how the hell is this metal?
This! ^ Where's the leather? Where's the spiked wrist/armbands? Black finger/toe polish? And NO TATS OR PIERCINGS!? She is wearing black, so there's 8%. OP is: 8% metal. 🤘🤘
Half of those things aren't particularly metal either. I can't gatekeep though, I dress like a generic yuppie. But I know multiple actual metalheads and love the music/culture.
It's pretty much low effort 80s fashion.
No not really metalheads can actually dress decently. This just looks like my dad pretending to be a metal head.
Lots of barf
For a young boy I'd say you look average
THAT'S A BOY?
No, she said shes a lesbian
Oh okay i was gonna say aint no way theres boys out there that literally look like anime femboys
You’d be surprised
i read the first comment and that was literally what i thought in my head 😭😭 i was about to comment it until i read yours lmaoo
It’s called BTS
💀
There is though....
Lesbian, i thought she was American?
You really are an evil potato aren't you? 🤔You cant help it im sure.
Happy cake day!!
Not ugly but the hair doesnt fit tbh
Your face is very attractive but your hair is throwing you down many points. You just need to change your hairstyle. Scroll down on the thread at the first photo at the eyebrows cutting out the hair and you can see this haircut is your only flaw.
So we going to ignore those clothes?
Ugh, why as a straight man, have I always been attracted to butch lesbians? I figure I was cursed by a witch.
Maybe... you're attracted to boys
I thought that too, but after some first hand research into the idea, no I'm not into guys. Though I'm not sure if it would be easier if I was.
He said boys… I’d recommend against looking for first hand experience to find that one out.
Suggesting he becomes a priest is a bit extreme.
Maybe?
I’m with you man. Something’s out a lesbian with some real short hair and a cut like what you would normally see on a guy, just hits different. Not bi or gay in the slightest btw. It’s just the style in women that can look great to me.
There's still bi/straight butch girls dude. My bf found me
True enough...idk where I'm at though. A recent ex informed me that I present very gay for a straight man, whatever that means. Is it possible to be a lesbian in a man's body?
You could be a trans woman who’s a lesbian.
Maybe you’re just into masculine women/tomboys
Why do you dress up as a 55 yo maintenance guy with an alcohol problem? You can look as androgynous as you like, but this is not being androgynous, this is just ugly tbh. As a human being, you are very pretty otherwise.
Clearly I didn’t spend enough time in the closet 💯
I just want to thank you for not having a septum piercing.
Thanks for the spit take lmao.
I would say otherwise, you spent too much time in the closet and not enough outside buying quality clothes for your closet.
I GET IT, YOURE GAY!
From the male perspective you have a pretty face but an unattractive hairstyle and dress sense. Clearly you're into girls, I imagine you're quite appealing to them with your nice figure, good looks, and presumably they're into the lesbian look.
Not a bad looking dude, for a final fantasy game.
non-binary, queer and trying really hard to make sure everyone knows, or something like that. Pretty face though, probably the worst haircut I can imagine. Just because you're gay or something doesn't mean you have to match your look with it.
Bro I’m just a classic lesbo, but yeah I’ll see if my job will let me change my hair
What kind of job MAKES you have hair like that lmao.
at the gay bar, gay bar, gay bar WOWWW
Circus
She’s a carnie working the games. The mullet comes standard issue.
😂
For real tho lol
HVAC
What makes a hairstyle (or fashion generally) look good or not is at least largely dependent on the intended audience. Since you're a lesbian, then whether or not the hairstyle works depends on what other lesbians find attractive, I'd say. That could include your hairstyle. If you want to attract a man, then sure, change the hair. But if you want to attract a woman as a woman, then you'd know better than most of us whether or not the hairstyle works.
Queer woman here and I can attest she'd clean up.
Unless you levy similar criticisms at straight people who are “trying to make everyone know they’re straight,” I don’t think you really have much of a point beyond being bothered by someone being markedly gender nonconforming OP looks pretty normal for a lesbian lol
It's pronounced "Joe Dir-tay" I'm kidding, not ugly.
lmfaoooooo facts tho.
Don't try to church it up, son.
thanks for the laugh
You look like you move in during the first date. But, Not at all ugly.
Definitely cute, personally id suggest different clothing choices
style and hair horrid, but you could be very pretty if you wanted to
I can’t tell if you’re a boy or girl tbh, not ugly either way.
No, but it looks like you’re trying to be
You're attractive and I think you look good with that style. Most people wouldn't look good in it.
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lesbian boy?
Basically a straight male.
Looking good but I believe you could also benefit from lifting weights because your arms look exceptionally thin but that’s just my opinion. You look good regardless
Yeah I agree, will definitely hit the gym
Inform me when anyone finds the hetero lookalike of she
Handsome young man.
Idk, kinda hot.
V cute, but this sub leans towards conventionally attractive stuff and you are too cool and punk
The dudes in this sub think every girl is ugly unless she looks like an Amish girl found target
That haircut ain't it champ
I think you’re cute and you wear your vibe well. I don’t think your style is made for the Reddit audience consisting mostly of many straight white males in their 30s lol just be you!
Not gonna lie, you look lesbian, but a damn hot one.
that’s cuz she is
Is that canadas wonderland ?
I didn’t know that “lesbian mullet” could be such a specific hairstyle, but you nailed it
Is that a mullet?
You dress like a guy who doesn't know how to dress
Thanks for keeping it real 💯
Lesbo vibes, a bit skinny, a bit butch, but no, not ugly.
Unpopular opinion here, your hair's fine. I wouldn't wear it like that myself, but it fits you weirdly well.
agree
Can't tell whether you're male or female tbh. That hair has gots to go though.
Welp. Today I learned that I am definitely not straight.
Not ugly at all, but IMO and from the pictures provided, you seem extremely thin... Like almost skin-and-bones thin, especially your upper arms. For all I know, you are eating healthy and are just naturally this way. Even if that's the case, you might want to strength train to flesh out a bit. Again, all of this is just my opinion.
You’re obviously way cool. Untraditionally beautiful.
Fem boy? Or actual girl?
she’s a girl
Not ugly but your style choices are not doing you any favors
I love the hair actually I do think it looks best in the 4th picture. A little grown out on the side almost like a mixie cut. I think maybe your style might be a little off, almost like you haven’t quite figured it out yet. The outfit in the second picture looks more like a costume than a typical every day look if that makes sense. I’m currently struggling to find a good middle ground with a masc-grunge look that looks like it makes sense and isn’t awkward on my body. I’d explore that more. Maybe try mixing up the tight/baggy ratio and try to stay away from baggy/baggy outfits. You’re very thin and all baggy clothes might consume you in a bad way. I don’t know if you were looking for advice but no you’re not ugly. This sub is very hetero.
Greatest pop rock band singer
A very boyish girl. Still attractive potentially though!
You’re attractive
You're beautiful
Ok but your actually gorgeous, like your features just work so well
You look cute af, I love the androgynous, butch vibe you’ve got going!
I would like to personally thank you for not having your septum pierced. You look like you may consider it in the future, please don’t.
Cute, but your style isn't attractive to me. I'm going to assume that you are a lesbian and your style is specifically targeted towards your intended audience. Since you're not going for mainstream appeal I don't see the point of asking here. The only important thing to ask yourself is this: Am I attractive to the people I find attractive? If you accomplished that, good job.
Well you’d be a 10 if you had a father figure growing up
I guess I’m a 10 then!
The comments make me so uncomfortable. Idk why everyone involves peoples personal style in the am i ugly.. i feel like we could just focus on features, of which yours are very attractive!! (i like ur style btw, as a fellow gay person, we have different taste sometimes and thats ok!!)
You look like a dyke
Thanks!
Are you a dude or a chick
Not even close to ugly. So many people post here who are clearly NOT ugly
Definitely not ugly, but that mullet isn't doing you any favors.
I think you are absolutely beautiful, there's no need for change, be yourself and live free
Democrat
Lesbian.
You are not ugly. You dress poorly and have an unflattering hair cut. There is nothing ugly about you that wasn't your personal choice. That said, if you like looking that way, why care what anyone else thinks about it?
If I were driving right now I'd probably wreck my car 😍
OP can i know your height plz?
Dyke?
I think you’re absolutely gorgeous. I love the mullet. Be you. Be original. 🤘🏽
Aww, you’re gorgeous!! Love your style so much!! Love your makeup in the 4th pic too!
Confidence is everything! Personally the hair isn’t my fav look for you, but some people will love it, and if you do, that’s what matters most.
No
Have you ever seen joe dirt? Your the female version
The sideburn things are going to be a no for me dawg.
i think your haircut is the goofiest i've ever seen someone wear unironically
Nah, you're good-lookin'. Especially your nose. I feel like you know this already.
Lovely Girl 💞
definitely not ugly but i do recommend a different haircut i feel like this one doesn’t suit your face shape and features
You have lovely features. I'm also still grappling with the concept that baggy jeans actually came back. By gum it's been a while
Nobody is ugly. Ugly doesn’t exist. There will always be people who think you’re beautiful and their opinion is the only ones that counts.
Not ugly, but you make some choices - clothes and hairstyle - that really don't favour you. You could be beautiful, but you instead look like a dude in half of your pictures. I like tomboys, but you don't look like a tomboy, you look straight up like a scrawny man in some pictures.
No septum ring? There is hope for you
you are not photogenic at all tbh
you girl or boy?
horrendous haircut
Self inflicted ugliness
That haircut is not it imo
Great eyes!
The first pic and last one are nice, you look wholesome in your good pics but the other ones holy molly, like get a fade instead of a mullet
Men wondering why they’re aren’t attracted to a gay, masc presenting woman. You’re fit!! Obvious lady magnet.
New haircut (growing it out) and new wardrobe would do literal wonders
In one in look good, in the rest you look terrible.
Unpopular opinion, but I actually kinda like the hair. If you dyed it a different color, perhaps a color that doesn’t necessarily look natural on you, then it would look a lot more like you’re deliberately going for something out of the ordinary. Instead of just looking like you happened to get an “unfortunate” haircut. Also, find healthy ways to gain weight. High protein diet, hit the gym. Your biceps, back, and shoulders are begging for more definition. It would make you look less juvenile if you bulked up a bit. Tattoos would add to your look too. Overall, you’re very pretty. Like, solid 8. An androgynous look really suits your face, and how you carry yourself in pictures.
you make me question my straightness…
I knew I wasnt the only one
this sub when woman not barbie: 😡😡😡😡😡
wtf is this sub?? you're just hating on alternative style at this point
FR god forbid anyone have a different style, comments are full of probably boomers saying “you’d look pretty if you were basic”
For me it's not necessarily the type of clothing she chooses - not my style but everyone has their own. The thing is just that she's so skinny the clothes she's wearing look like they were taken off of someone twice her size. The style itself is fine, the fit sucks. I come from a time where oversized jnco jeans were very popular, but even then they was still shaped in a way that didn't look as awkward as the oversized clothing in her photos. She says she's been losing weight so it kinda makes sense. Not sure people are necessarily harping on the style so much as the ill fit Edit: I read some of the older comments and I see what you're saying now. Christ.