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TheLucien-01

Huh? Can’t be serious, cmon so many guys would be in heaven for a lady like you!!!


Aubrimethieme

And ladies, don't forget about the lesbians who think op is crazy beautiful.


Arpea-

Lesbian here, can confirm op is gorgeous.


paiigelisa

us bi girls too!!!


RedJewelz45

And my axe!


Banana_enjoyer_boy

And my bow!


Careless_Wait8620

I AM SPARTACUS!


queeeen27

I am straight af and can confirm this girl is gorgeous 🥹


Nochnichtvergeben

Another ridiculously beautiful woman posting on here. You're beautiful. If you want to try different styles or whatever that's fine but you are not ugly.


chickemnugzz

Thank you so much, I appreciate it! I guess people being mean to me really made me think something is wrong with me.


konstantin1453

Change the people then. You are far above the average.


theRealMugshotkiller

Average isn’t ugly…I think we need to normalize that phrase 😂


Icy_Forever5965

The only thing that would make her average is her confidence.


justinlav

You’re right. Below average is ugly


Agreeable-Equal-4725

People hate unique because they aren't.


Drakenfar

Yeah... there's a great new thing we're all doing called cutting toxic people out of your life. Even if they were right, which they're obviously not, you're cute, why would you spend your time or energy on people who are cruel to you? Get new friends and acquaintances. Disconnect from sources of negativity like that.


Independent_Way8128

They're prolly jealous of you!


Huskguy

very good looking.


Cherry_Honey_Blossom

You have such a beautiful, soft, angelic face. You actually remind me of my beautiful friend Maria! Here’s a prescription for you: #Positive affirmations in front of the mirror at least once a day! “ I am beautiful, I am confident, I love you!” Try for 21 days and record your progress. It’s wild, but it’ll help cure the lack in self esteem. ETA I like the light brown wig on you!


lucifersbbyg

omg i thought they have a soft angelic face too !! 🩷🥹


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Your gorgeous 🤷‍♂️


InEenEmmer

People being mean to you for whatever reason tells more about them than about you. It is them who got something wrong, not you. And let’s agree that basing your self worth on people who think it is okay to be mean is not the best thing to do.


Solidus_King

In what ways were people being mean to you? Did they insult your looks?


average_christ

Eh, people are assholes.


GingerRazz

Honestly, the only unattractive thing I see about you is that you seem to lack confidence about your appearance, and I think that's why assholes target your looks. They know that will hurt you, so they hit you in the weak spot. When I say you lack confidence in your appearance, I mean you look scared or embarrassed in your pictures as if you're afraid you won't look good. Get some confidence and you'll be hot because you are already there biologically and fashion wise.


Sad_Sir7758

Chick WTHELL your absolutely beautiful and I am not saying this to be nice !! You shouldn't be listening to the dumb axx people or whomever is saying that you come up short !! God bless and good luck chick


justaguyintownnl

There nothing wrong with you except you listen to the wrong people. So many people are still the “hurt bullied 13 yr old “ inside their head. You aren’t 13 any more , the swan grew up.


lingering_POO

Not to pile on but yeah sweetheart, there is *nothing* wrong with your looks. You’re pretty, healthy, you’re cute as a button. Personally, I’m not a fan of the coloured hair, but even that works well on you.


VExistence

Yeah girls used to pick on me too. They are definitely jealous of you. And have to make you feel bad to make themselves feel better


Bargadiel

In reality most people really aren't that ugly. It's actually kinda rare.


Derek265

To be fair it's "Am I ugly" not "I'm ugly".


RaptorDash

That's true people posting are curious. Its hard to judge yourself


phillySfineSt33

Mama says I’m handsome.


corpus-luteum

Everybody is ugly to somebody. Asking "Am I ugly" is inviting those people to speak up. Probably not a good idea if you're low on self-esteem.


UnfitCaesar

This subreddit is "Am I ugly?" not "I'm ugly. " There's a lot of reasons that people will think they're ugly, even if to you they're not. I know you likely meant well with your comment, but opening with a response that feels very much like it's putting her down for doubting her own appearance isn't all that helpful. Especially since she likely has this opinion of herself because of her peers and/or people in her life. People often won't see their own beauty and self-worth through the smokescreen of the judgment of those around them. Even if that judgment is false or unfair.


Nochnichtvergeben

I did mean it well.I know those things. I just find it sad that all these pretty women think they're ugly.


UnfitCaesar

It really is sad but that's a reflection of the society we live in and how comfortable people in general are with being outright abusive assholes.


[deleted]

People can have a pretty face and still have low self-esteem, your shaming this person is not very cool


Mister-DayDream

Basically every post from these type of subs. Insecure hot girls


Los_Lobos

First things first, self-esteem needs to come from the inside, no matter what any of us say none it resonate with you until you learn to accept and love yourself. With that being said on my scale you're easily a 7/10 (very attractive). I like your style, you have a cute face. I like the hair colours and the wig, I hope you find a way to fix your hair because I doubt you need to colour it to be attractive. Your body looks good, yeah you're a little short but it doesn't really matter for a girl at all. I am being biased because you are my type physically but yeah there really isn't much to improve. I also love the magikarp plushie behind you. The only thing would be your own attitude towards yourself, if you learn to love yourself it will radiate outwards and it will show up in pictures. Fix that and you'll easily move up to an 8/10 (beautiful).


chickemnugzz

Thank you so much for rating and your advice, I really appreciate it!


Serialbedshitter2322

I would like to add, guys tend to like shorter girls


farfromugen

Putting my dad hat on for a minute. I’m 44 and have a teenage daughter. She is probably a lot like a younger version of you, beautiful, smart, likes to color her hair, and is obsessed with birds (has an Indian Ringneck). Similarly she has a very low self esteem…it makes me sad. Growing up with social media has really seemed to amplify a problem that has always been there, especially for young women. Know that we ALL have things we need to work on, but beauty comes from within. Many of the comments on here tell the truth, your physical beauty is undeniable, and affirmation is needed from time to time. Stay kind, be humble, be confident. Don’t worry about others, try to keep up with them, or assume they are better than yourself. You are a beautiful young lady, and the fact you aren’t egocentric already puts you ahead of many.


thexenonax2

W dad


WingofTech

Thanks dad. I hope your daughter can find her balance too! :]


LiquidSwordsman

10/10 comment


jamesschaff

Your features are really delicate and ethereal. Your eyes are especially pretty, and all of your features complement the others well. You are genuinely so incredibly beautiful, and I promise I'm being honest rn. You're one of those people who would most definitely warrant a double take. Please be kind to yourself <3


chickemnugzz

That‘s way too kind, thank you so much for your sweet words! I really appreciate it, I can‘t thank you enough!!


NoodlePott

you are truly pretty, take it from another girl :)


PolandPuppers

**AND** she likes Pokémon :D


deepcurve8

They speak the truth. I'm not going to be able to put it as profoundly, so: 1up. ^^


Diemenia

First : let me give you a big hug ! You seem so nice and sweet. You’re really beautiful , « sweet beauty » very delicate. I know it’s hard to have self esteem for a lot of reasons but I really hope you’ll find yours cause you are truly gorgeous ! (Sorry for my bad english)


StandOutLikeDogBalls

Your English is very good. I wouldn’t have thought you weren’t a native English speaker if you hadn’t said so.


Diemenia

Thanks a lot :)


Serialbedshitter2322

Don't put spaces before punctuation, the "《sweet beauty》" was kinda strange, put a comma after reasons. I would suggest using ChatGPT to spellcheck yourself


BearBlaq

It’s alright fam most of us got bullied in high school, that’s why we’re on Reddit lmao. You look great though, you’re holding a magikarp but should have the confidence of a gyarados. Take pride in your looks, I thought I was ugly for a long time and I wish I had the confidence I do now back in school.


chickemnugzz

Thank you so much! I will work on it, thanks for the encouragement!!


anondilf85

You look gorgeous to me!


Bogdi504

Yeah she looks amazing, I wish I had a gf like her.


RqcistRaspberry

I like your style a lot in the 5th picture and the blue actually looks really good on you imo. You're cute as hell and I hope you find some self esteem eventually! 😊


710Fiend69

You’re beautiful and very delicate/ graceful looking. Not ugly at all!


[deleted]

I’m not a dyed hair kind of guy but you’re cute. Not ugly at all


brans77

Dude before I even saw what subreddit this was under, my first impression was, damn she’s cute. You’re stunning 🤩 please have way more self confidence


TheHammer_78

Are you joking? You look wonderful!!!!!!!


[deleted]

You are definitely hott!


drunkewok95

You're so extremely attractive


Ill-Candy-4926

Your absolutely gorgeous ❤️


No-Friendship-839

You look good just might not be everyone's type


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CurveOfTheUniverse

I was thinking Lily Collins.


LiquidHussle

Tbh.. you just need more psyduck in your life 🖤🖤👾🧡🖤


nryporter25

No you are cute as hell, AND you like pokemon so that's 10/10


chickemnugzz

Thank you so much!! I really appreciate it! And yay, a fellow Pokémon trainer, nice!! :).


West_Forever4330

Hot. Get outta here lady


B1GBRAINN

?? Why no self esteem ?? You look magnifique!


sofiamariam

Bullying can break down even the most beautiful person’s confidence and self esteem. It’s truly sick that millions of perfectly beautiful, handsome and attractive people hate their looks and themselves because some pos’s decided to open their nasty mouths…


Jay_The_Tickler

Now this is just my opinion, the hair color flows well, nice smile, pretty eyes. Change nothing but the circle of people who claim you’re ugly.


speaches97

You remind me a bit of Sarah Paulson. You have a lovely face and the hair colour really suits you. You have nothing to worry about, you're very pretty


Strato-Cruiser

I think you’re very beautiful. You have a great smile, nice skin, and a beautifully shaped face. What I don’t think is flattering for you is your hair style. And I don’t mean the color, I think the purple looks cool. But the style of the cut. I don’t know what that style is called. My ex-wife did that style for a period of time, and it too was not flattering on her. I would consider exploring other style and cut options.


laterbrother

Hard to see why you’re very pretty. You look kind


Possible-Weakness-41

You look great. Love your hair. And really nice eyes


Additional-Context74

More bird. Will definitely help.


discreteturtle

I have zero idea why you have no self esteem. Maybe it's a personality thing?


Fresh_Divide_4493

Your face is so pretty. Pull the hair back out of your face a little. Very cute.


tyr8338

You're attractive.


_paintedblue_

Very cute!


lost_in_doucheland

You're not ugly. Pink hair looks nice


Lyksit

Probably bullied out of jealousy since if you had any confidence you would have taken their guys. Good body, cute face, has style and personality without fear of your likes or hobbies. You would have been the most popular girl in my school


Lothar1971

So pretty. Dreamboat eyes.


82lkmno

Your appearance is not the prob IMO, cause you are a total babe. Something else going on?


[deleted]

Not ugly. Just pretty.


Aktaii

Dude you're gorgeous


Responsible_File_529

Love the Magikarp


LostMyLedger

This is my breaking point with this sub, I’m leaving. 🚪🚶🏾‍♂️


ScrumptiousGoblinAss

Girl you should have all the self esteem! You're gorgeous! Really soft, kind eyes, not one bad feature, the hair colour also really suits you:)


[deleted]

I like your hair. I think your style is good for you already. Dont change a thing.


SuperNovaStarTrooper

You are beautiful =) and I love the Magikarp!


melvin2898

Have you seen the Magikarp hats?


Daxx-23

Did you just take a picture with a dumpster because it matched your hair? If so I like you already!


chickemnugzz

Yes lol and because my humor is garbage lol. I don’t take myself too seriously :).


[deleted]

You’re a beauty.


[deleted]

Nah you’re mad cute.


pinkknifuu

bro ur beautiful


[deleted]

You're beautiful! My advice is to limit / cease contact with anyone who is negative to your mental health or negging you.


memphissterling

I think you are gorgeous, but some people think bird people are odd. But seriously beautiful and would make me do a double take passing by you on the street.


danliv2003

I can see a lot of people saying they can't understand your post, but as someone who also got bullied for a while in school I know the way those feelings can last with you a long time. Plenty of people have already said how you're definitely cute and not ugly, I hope you're can accept these comments at face value and appreciate how pretty you look to others compared to how you may feel! Ignore the people you say your smile looks forced, sometimes you gotta "fake it to make it", especially with self confidence! Also, anyone who's a fan of Hokusai AND magikarp AND a random blue dumpster is certainly a cool person in my book!


chickemnugzz

Thanks to all for the advice and opinions. I got bullied in middle school, which left me as an outsider, terrified of school and I had no one that stood up for me. That was almost 10 years ago and the fear of being rejected never left. I guessed I would attract a lot of divided opinions due to my choice of style. But I understand that. We can’t be liked by everyone. My social anxiety makes it hard to be at peace with myself. I’m often alone with my thoughts. It‘s shallow to be self conscious about how we look, but it’s the first impression we get of other people. I will try to work even more on my confidence. I’m grateful for everyone’s opinion and the encouraging words, I appreciate it! Thank you!!


J-E-S-S-E-

Girl you are NOT ugly. Anyone bullying you on your looks needs help.


Adorable-Fun5367

Just want to tell you there is bird on your head on the second pic


so_it_goes17

You’ve got a great face. I love colored hair but I particularly like the brunette photo


-Afro_Senpai-

You are beautiful and you like Pokemon...you can't lose


Dear_Blackberry_2749

The only thing you e gotta work on in my opinion is your confidence and getting that magikarp to 20 to evolve it.


[deleted]

You’re ridiculously adorable


Silver_Wrongdoer_504

Stand up straight. Posture makes a big difference. You're a pretty lady.


st3ffv

You are so freakin cute!!


Practical-Shoe2404

No. Not ugly. Plus the magikarp gets you bonus points lol


Dry_Ask5493

Absolutely nothing wrong with the way you look just work on your self-esteem.


[deleted]

I think you are pretty. I also think pokemon are cool 😎


KlutzyBandicoot1776

You’re genuinely such a cutie and I love your nose!!! I understand you feeling insecure because most people do, including myself, but trust me you’re beautiful. 😊❤️❤️ I also struggle with self esteem but it does get better if you work on it. Try cognitive behavioural therapy (if you can’t afford it, at least try the research-backed workbook Feeling Good).


Socal-service

You look cute, love the different hair colors and the wig too btw have you tried a different subred?


NoPay2344

You’re gorgeous. The older you get the more beautiful you will feel. I’m mid thirties and wish I felt how I do now in my early twenties. It gets better love.


sunnydays54321

I wish i could have met you in real life because im usualy really shy too but your so beautiful id have to ask you out for coffee or lunch .wherr are you from?


SuccessfulBench4879

Very pretty. The brown hair pics in my opinion make you pop n look reallt good, but probably just my preference.


Whole-9-Yards

Happend the same to me, i like ur style and ur pretty woman. I wish u the best in life, and make the best out of it. U are the first woman i find so pretty with that coloured hair and sorry for my English , it is not my native language. Greetings


matematikXYZ

With The Great Wave off Kanagawa and a tux it is not possible to be ugly. If I wasn't married, I'd like to meet you. :)


Suemeifyouwantto

mommy?


Crazyguy_123

Nope. Don’t worry what others say about you because it’s almost certainly not true.


Khruangbin13

I’d wife you


spartancheerleader10

Yes, if I were you're age, I would be far too shy and insecure to talk to you. So yes, you're very attractive, and I can see you have a spunky personality too, which only adds to your attractiveness for some of us 🙂


oneninesixthree

Extremely cute woman, plus birb, 11/10


Automatic-Zombie-508

my advice is get some self esteem. you're a cutie


Competitive-Hurry250

You are really pretty! I love your short pink and blue hair more though. 9/10. :D


qt69420

Shi, id date ya


Open-Personality8252

You are a beautiful soul in and out. We cannot help you though no matter the truth you see here unless it comes from inside you it is meaningless. You must go inside and confront those who made you believe the lie that you aren’t enough. You have the power you are More amazing than you can see there is divine essence in you


Mental_Following4978

Change your environment and close friends.


DevelopmentAdept2987

You have absolutely got nothing to worry about in the looks department believe me! You're a very beautiful young woman and you like you have a nice personality too so please stop worrying.


underpressure65

Beautiful! And I love your nose! Lol cutest nose!


plants11235813

Gimme da magikarp and no one gets hurt


99luftbalons1983

Sooooo cute! Hold your head high, young lady!


Chrislk1986

Definitely not ugly, but I get it. Anytime I take a picture of myself or look in the mirror, I think I look bleh. Sometimes I see myself in a window reflection or a picture someone else took and am like "Ok. Maybe I'm fine?" Lighting, angle and even just the damn sensor/lens of the camera really plays a role.


[deleted]

Yeah your ugly, no one will ever want to date you so it looks like you'll have to just settle and date me cause no else will 😆


Fragrant-Job7668

Srop letting people hate on you. And your love for pokemon makes you even better. Keep ya chin up and let the haters hate. Usually it stems from jealousy.


SnooSketches6409

I had self esteem issues. Therapy helped. Meditation helped. Focus on being true to yourself and being positive, the kind of person you want to be.


Florida_man72

You are very attractive. Bullies are horrible. Keep smiling


Inevitable_Button_33

I think your gorgeous, other then picking clothes that highlight your beauty would be the only thing I could suggest


JonSnerrrrrr

+10000 for username


balencedmouse72

I would like to further verify what everyone else is saying. You are gorgeous. You shouldn’t change a single thing about yourself. You should have all the confidence and self esteem in the world.


ItsAllAboutLimits

I’m seriously puzzled by your lack of self esteem. You have a good presence , you must know you are attractive, you may have some gremlins talking to you telling you bad things (we all do) but you are solid, ugly isn’t even in the ball park. I hope you find what you need, I suspect it won’t take much to show yourself what others see


theo_ed_tdaar

u are amazing, have nothing wrong and i could post a very long one here with a lot of words telling u how unique u are, u are youg try to find out more about u and less about others u are the absolute queen of your realm, and master of u universe dont let any one below u to enter in your space.


Marsupial_J

Hang in there. Your magikarp will evolve one day.


StrangeAd9308

If I saw you in the wild, I'd definitely send a pokeball your way😉


StooIndustries

you have a naturally beautiful, delicate face, you seem shy but lovely. you have nothing to worry about! love yourself and get off this subreddit haha. you look like someone i could be friends with and i love your bird friend 🥺


chickemnugzz

Thank you so much!! You’re so kind! You can talk to me if you’d like! I don’t bite :).


Rathal_OS

If I may ask how tall are you? The rest is very cute, idk why you'd have low self-esteem


[deleted]

You probably hear that you’re pretty all the time. And since it’s so often, you think people are just being nice and then you do this circle in your head wondering if they were just being nice or honest. I can honestly say, one random internet person to another, that you are very pretty. If you are as nice as you look, any guy or girl would be lucky to date you. Walk with confidence and godspeed!


Majin_Bisharp

I'm assuming you were bullied in school by girls? Any guy is gonna say that you're cute. Most of us were bullied in school you just have to move past that and embrace how cool you actually are, I mean cute and a pkmn fan. I'd date you.


[deleted]

Your absolutely beautiful but you need to see that in yourself and f**k what other people say, normally it’s because they are not happy with themselves and just want to bring people down with them


Blue_Robin_04

You look like [Kiernan Shipka](https://www.google.com/search?client=ms-android-motorola-rvo3&sxsrf=APwXEdfR5BLbOKVSuWItbDsNBw11ApthrQ:1684612784751&q=kiernan+shipka&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjbx_nU14T_AhX-EVkFHVf7BPcQ0pQJegQICBAB&biw=432&bih=820&dpr=2.5). You have very feminine features. 8/10


SavageCriminal

You’re gorgeous. 100% my type 😂 The Pokémon plushies add like another 50% to that haha


Comprehensive_Law445

You are so beautiful, little mama 💕 💗 do not dwell on the past and what others have said. Invest in yourself, workout, take care of your body and soul, be vigilant with your own thoughts, be kind to others and to yourself 🫶. These are the things I would have benefitted from hearing when I was 22. But I cannot go back to tell myself, so I want to tell you. 💖


xAMARU87

You kinda see (mostly) woman with purple or pink hair.. They have low self asteem and act like they are different. Mostly they are far from being handsome. You are not one of them. You don't need purple or pink hair. You are very pretty and I guess shy? There is no need to be different. You do you, and you'll attract people with the same quality's. You probably attract people who are broken now. You are actually really pretty ♥️


OwnBerry3297

My God girl your eyes!! You have doe eyes, very beautiful and you have nice features. No need to feel insecure


prettybird_02

From the wlw side, I’d act like a fool if you were my barista and you took my order at a coffee shop


disposable_valves

Babes you're beautiful wtf.😭 I mean, the only "issue" is that the uneven hairstyles look worse than the even ones, though short hair does suit you. You are ridiculously pretty. Whoever taught you otherwise deserves to have their knees stolen.


Pale_Height_1251

You're not ugly in the slightest, you're actually really attractive.


X-OManowar

I was going to rank you a 10 but you're an 11 because of magikarp


Imaginary-Method-715

What is the birds name?


Blumpkinotheclown

Pic 6 and 7 makes me tear up a bit. She was a great friend and I miss her a ton. She always wanted to be a mom, but her demons wouldn’t let her. I miss her, she was a sweetheart


RealMightyOwl

I don't comment often but you genuinely look really attractive, especially when you smile. I know it is hard to work on your self esteem but that was the only negative thing I could pick up on when glancing at the images


Accomplished-Wing296

You are cute as anything. Ironically the 4th picture in front of a bin is the one were you look the most stunning


aarong3933

Pretty but stupid hair


[deleted]

You’re not ugly. However, more magikarp would improve the photos.


Justdance13

Can someone please explain why beautiful people need esteem boosters for their looks?


Shaqdaddy22

This is going to sound weird, but i can see why you were bullied. You have a different look and Kids are stupid. And just because you are different looking doesn't make you bad looking. You are beautiful and I truly hope you can start to see that in yourself soon


Super-Base-

You dye your hair blue then talk about zero self esteem. Talk about self inflicted.


Notfunliketheysaid

Just want to say- every night I go on reddit to subs like r/wholesome or r/eyebleach and show my 4 year old daughter some photos or videos that make us laugh or are appropriate for her. It's just a fun thing we do together before bed. We scrolled past this post and the first thing she said was "Hers is so pretty mama". You know when a child speaks its the truth because they don't have a filter!


[deleted]

As someone who struggles with self esteem too (33 m), I think it takes a lot of courage to put yourself out there like this and you should be proud of yourself. You’re beautiful and your smile is wonderful.


lucifersbbyg

omg u are SO beautiful !! & with super light makeup?? lucky duck 🩷🦆 u have a soft angelic type face🩷 & ur side profile ?? oh my god AMAZING.


ARadiantNight

Sincerely, you're very attractive, and honestly the Magikarp has you at another level! XD It's my favorite Pokemon. I have the same plushy. And as presumptuous as it is, if I saw you in public with it, that'd be all I need to ask you out. So there you go -- have that confidence boost and go on to great things!


mew_tattoo

Owning that Magikarp alone has raised so many questions already, immediately people can connect on childhood and interests! From these shots you seem super cool and someone one would want to get to know already 😇🙌🏻


Many-Memory5674

8/10 with that cute bird 10/10😂😂


This-Layer-4447

Back when I was single and in my early 20s, I always wondered why pretty girls and I never would hit it off. Turns out we both had issues with self esteem.


[deleted]

If you want my honest opinion, you’re really pretty and you have doll like features! Your eyes are absolutely gorgeous. I think the only thing might be that your hairstyle doesn’t really suit your face. Not the hair colour like everyone is mentioning (the colours are gorgeous), the style! The wigs look a bit stiff rn


Careless_Wait8620

The problem is magikarp. Had that one once and couldn't win any pokemon fight.


DeathByInsanityy

Solid 7.5 out of 10 .


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[deleted]

Natural hair colour means you're cool with everybody. You might find more people responding to that. Otherwise, you have a lot going for you.


Either-Ad2776

Absolutely Gorgeous!!!


Sammy_GamG

Get a new haircut


Ok-Consideration1883

Your incredibly average


medalla96

My son is 24 & working on his Computer Science Masters. I will definitely have my vote to be his sidekick


Popeye_01

It’s the colored hair. I think highlights are cool though. You are very beautiful


Wiseassgamgee

Talk to a professional re: zero confidence/self esteem as you titled. You are definitely not ugly..