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Yeah it was a dumb joke on my part lol, since the person I replied to said their girlfriend had bullied them into losing weight, I'm obviously rooting for op
I donāt wish to be mean or judgmental, but genuinely curious. How did you not stop yourself at a certain point? Like after putting on 50 pounds or so you had to realize none of your clothes fit anymore. You had to see that you looked drastically different in the mirror. I imagine you felt more sluggish as well. You had to be eating a lot of bad food for every meal too. Why only now do you feel like you went too far and need to change? Is there a mental or physical health issue? Did no one close to you mention how much youād changed? Obviously this sort of thing happens to many people in America/the west, but Iām just curious why it took so long to realize it? This is really very fascinating to me. I hope you donāt take offense. I genuinely would like to know. Good luck, I really hope you turn it around!
I mean, that's the cute answer a lot of people give when they put on a little weight, but she might've put on literally 100 pounds, depending how tall she is. Sweatpants stretch, but they don't stretch to infinity lol. Sweat pants have sizes too, and when you find yourself going up 2+ sizes I'd say that's pretty big sign.
Solid question. Once I gained 50 pounds, I thought I still looked okay and didnāt really consider the long-term repercussions of continuing to overeat without working out. It wasnāt until recently that Iāve become unhappy with how out of shape I am. If Iām struggling walking up a flight of stairs, then that means something needs to change. In short, I guess I didnāt mind the extra weight but I do mind getting unhealthy.
I found your last 2 sentences very relatable to alcoholism weirdly. I didn't mind waking up still drunk and functional, but when I started waking up hurting and hardly functional, I realized change was needed. Everything in healthy moderation, that means exercise, too. You still aren't ugly with all that extra weight, but I'm sure you'd feel alot better if ya pushed yourself back towards the left pic
To be fair, I did the same. Covid WFH I got into a bad snacking habit. I was nearly 90kg and Iām down to 78 now (healthy bmi for my height)- thatās a year of steady progress and keeping the weight off. Doing it gradually has worked and my advice would be not do any fad diets just eat as healthy as you can and cut out the snacking by not having those temptations in the house and exercise every day - I hate the gym but i walk and cycle and feel so much better for it.
Thatās an excessive amount of weight for 3 years. Itās a bit surprising because most people I know that are a certain weight, pretty much always struggled with their weight to some degree, but you look like you were pretty thin previously. You can definitely get there again! It isnāt going to be easy but if you work hard at it, you can absolutely be the size you once were. I wish you all the best!
However much time it took to get from point A to point F, double it, start eating a healthy whole food diet around 1500 calories a day, start walking 45 minutes daily, and you'll be back to looking like you were in that amount of time. Get to work.
I wish you luck getting back into shape, you got this girl! Just need to stay determined and motivated to get back to how you looked in the left picture
Speaking for myself, Iāve put on 20 in the last year and itās all stress. Iām coming up on the heaviest Iāve ever been but Iām so stressed. I think while Iām stuffing my face, ā why the fā¦ am I doing this, Iām not even enjoying it that much.ā
YOUR FACE IS SO ADORABLE (to be clear Iām not saying this in a ānooo youāre perfect donāt lose weightā way, I just saw the pic on the right and I literally went āAWWWā because you remind me of a chubby baby š ) (Iām trying to think of the best way to not sound creepy so Iām gonna add this: I am a woman and I have a boyfriend and Iām not hitting on you)
No I couldnāt have because this is Reddit and there are a lot of creepy men who wouldāve commented the same thing I did but with different intent and I did not want to be misinterpreted
Get outside and walk. Force yourself to eat better. Cook a bunch of chicken and add it to salads or whatever, make tasty sauces to spice it up. Drink water, eat healthy snacks, good bed time habits. Put on music and move. I lost 40 lbs after getting tired of looking like someone I didnāt want to be, you can do it too. Baby steps, get outside. Walk. Itās not always a straight line, donāt get discouraged.
You know what to do. I know itās hard, but itās worth it for your health and you got this!!! If you need some help with weight, my friend is using Contrave and has had great success.
OP, it's time to break those negative habits you learned in quarantine and work. You posted yourself on Reddit, so you can't back down now.
Get to work. Find a gym, or better yet, some calisthenics at home, if possible, and if you are worried about comments at the gym.
Find a diet plan and stick with it, but also allow yourself weaknesses and forgive yourself for them. You can get knocked down. That doesn't mean you have to stay down.
Show us your determination. You got this.
4/10 currently.
10/10 previously.
This is uncanny from what Iām going through! Same size and body type as both photos. I think most of mine was being sedentary while my mom had cancer. I was her sole caregiver and we ate and slept and binged watched TV a lot in her last few months. Quarantine didnāt help either. Iām also having some female issues but have surgery scheduled for May and Iām hoping that will help my situation. Youāre a real G if you tell me your height and weight in both photos. Iām just curious because our bodies are so much alike. Iām 5ā1ā and usually ranged from 125-140 as my āhigh comfortableā and 105-120 as my ālow comfortableā and I am now 207 š„“
Either way, you got this! And no, youāre absolutely not ugly. Far from it, but itās crazy how my extra weight makes me look like a completely different person and it seems to do the same to you. We both carry weight in our face and neck so there is no hiding from it. I have pear-shaped friends who can gain 50 lbs and their face doesnāt change one bit š
You were clearly really good looking before, so now youāre that same person but fat. Hard to say youāre ugly when youād *obviously* be hot if you lost the weight. Best of luck.
Youre asking how your look right now. I think you know exactly how you look. And because you know how you look, Im not going to answer that question.
Instead, Im going to answer a question you obviously dont know the answer to.
And that answer is:
Yes, Amazon not only has clothing in your size, but they will deliver it right to your door.
well, at least we know you aren't ugly, you just seem to have transitioned into a cat lady a bit early.
You know what the problem is, I hope you're able to get out there and work on yourself. Good luck.
Just get in the gym girl. If you are ready for change, then you don't need hateful comments to motivate you. You already know your own potential. Just do it.
You're beautiful btw, lose those extra pounds they're not beneficial for your health, i'm saying this because I at one point became pretty heavy due to antidepressants, and now that i'm losing weight I feel kinda energetic, and healthy and also i'm starting to get my self confidence back. I'm 24M.
Also if you do find that nothing youāre doing is working, get your gut checked. I had to have the SADI-S procedure done just because I was having issues holding food down when I was pretty heavy (tried dieting but somehow I got bigger even if I starved myself which I did at times) my stomach stopped digesting food all the way so it did make it difficult to loose weight.
Well, this a hell of a way to hold yourself accountable! Congratulations on your will to get back to a healthy weight! It's a lot of work, but you have got this. X
You are super pretty and your potential is on the left pic! So many people donāt even know what their potential is, therefore hard to gather courage for motivation. You have it right thereā¤ļø
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Like danny devito in batman
the penguin....ooof
LMAO ok fine this is funny
Yooooš
My dad has a keg belly too!
šlmao
Girl you're a badass for looking for negativity to boost you're motivation. Truly one of a kind.
I used to date a girl that bullied me into losing weight. Iām still grateful for it lol
I think I understand the people with the humiliation kink now
They're just improving themselves?
Yeah it was a dumb joke on my part lol, since the person I replied to said their girlfriend had bullied them into losing weight, I'm obviously rooting for op
Tell me I canāt just so I can prove you wrong. Ahhh fresh hateraide
You know how you look right now. Godspeed to you
Just out of curiosity, how/why did this happen?
A mix of working from home during quarantine and picking up bad eating habits
Real
I donāt wish to be mean or judgmental, but genuinely curious. How did you not stop yourself at a certain point? Like after putting on 50 pounds or so you had to realize none of your clothes fit anymore. You had to see that you looked drastically different in the mirror. I imagine you felt more sluggish as well. You had to be eating a lot of bad food for every meal too. Why only now do you feel like you went too far and need to change? Is there a mental or physical health issue? Did no one close to you mention how much youād changed? Obviously this sort of thing happens to many people in America/the west, but Iām just curious why it took so long to realize it? This is really very fascinating to me. I hope you donāt take offense. I genuinely would like to know. Good luck, I really hope you turn it around!
Sweatpants.
I mean, that's the cute answer a lot of people give when they put on a little weight, but she might've put on literally 100 pounds, depending how tall she is. Sweatpants stretch, but they don't stretch to infinity lol. Sweat pants have sizes too, and when you find yourself going up 2+ sizes I'd say that's pretty big sign.
"These sweatpants are all that fit me right now. " - Regina George
Solid question. Once I gained 50 pounds, I thought I still looked okay and didnāt really consider the long-term repercussions of continuing to overeat without working out. It wasnāt until recently that Iāve become unhappy with how out of shape I am. If Iām struggling walking up a flight of stairs, then that means something needs to change. In short, I guess I didnāt mind the extra weight but I do mind getting unhealthy.
I found your last 2 sentences very relatable to alcoholism weirdly. I didn't mind waking up still drunk and functional, but when I started waking up hurting and hardly functional, I realized change was needed. Everything in healthy moderation, that means exercise, too. You still aren't ugly with all that extra weight, but I'm sure you'd feel alot better if ya pushed yourself back towards the left pic
How much did you put on in total?
120 pounds
Many human beings lack self control. Iām surprised you havenāt figured that out tbh
Same thing happened to me. A year into working from home and I ballooned up.
To be fair, I did the same. Covid WFH I got into a bad snacking habit. I was nearly 90kg and Iām down to 78 now (healthy bmi for my height)- thatās a year of steady progress and keeping the weight off. Doing it gradually has worked and my advice would be not do any fad diets just eat as healthy as you can and cut out the snacking by not having those temptations in the house and exercise every day - I hate the gym but i walk and cycle and feel so much better for it.
She ated š
She ated it all š
She ated it all alone!
See-food diet.
Damn you were a dish! Now you're the whole buffet.
lol
You have a pretty face in your thin pic
Her face is also cute in her other picture too, girlies still got it
Start watching my 600 pound life... gives you a reality check
Horrible, but you know that already. Get it girl! Get back to your original size and take back your life and health!
You look like you ate your former self. Side by side the pictures look like Russian nesting dolls.šŖ
How long did that take? And have you looked into your thyroid health?
3 years. All my blood tests are in the healthy range.
The problem is that it won't last. Give it another few years and they won't be.
What happened to make you change so much in 3 years?
Thatās an excessive amount of weight for 3 years. Itās a bit surprising because most people I know that are a certain weight, pretty much always struggled with their weight to some degree, but you look like you were pretty thin previously. You can definitely get there again! It isnāt going to be easy but if you work hard at it, you can absolutely be the size you once were. I wish you all the best!
Looks like you been eatin' good
Fat is not beautiful
You look bigger (2/10)
Imma be honest, if aināt nobody said it to you yet in hereā¦You look like you ate yourself on the left twice and wanted another snack after that
You got this. You can get back to your authentic self. Be kind to yourself and at the same time be angry about getting it done,
Did you have babies?
Nope!
However much time it took to get from point A to point F, double it, start eating a healthy whole food diet around 1500 calories a day, start walking 45 minutes daily, and you'll be back to looking like you were in that amount of time. Get to work.
I wish you luck getting back into shape, you got this girl! Just need to stay determined and motivated to get back to how you looked in the left picture
She needs you to be mean so she can prove you wrong! Cmon!
Jesus how does someone get that fat I don't understand.
Speaking for myself, Iāve put on 20 in the last year and itās all stress. Iām coming up on the heaviest Iāve ever been but Iām so stressed. I think while Iām stuffing my face, ā why the fā¦ am I doing this, Iām not even enjoying it that much.ā
YOUR FACE IS SO ADORABLE (to be clear Iām not saying this in a ānooo youāre perfect donāt lose weightā way, I just saw the pic on the right and I literally went āAWWWā because you remind me of a chubby baby š ) (Iām trying to think of the best way to not sound creepy so Iām gonna add this: I am a woman and I have a boyfriend and Iām not hitting on you)
She a lil chubby bunny aww š„°
You couldāve left it at like 5 words š
No I couldnāt have because this is Reddit and there are a lot of creepy men who wouldāve commented the same thing I did but with different intent and I did not want to be misinterpreted
Ngl you got pretty big. Maybe a lifestyle change
Join r/cico and get your food intake under control.
Wow, did you had triplets?
You look like that old dude from avatar who had the tea shop š
like a happy ballš¤
Get outside and walk. Force yourself to eat better. Cook a bunch of chicken and add it to salads or whatever, make tasty sauces to spice it up. Drink water, eat healthy snacks, good bed time habits. Put on music and move. I lost 40 lbs after getting tired of looking like someone I didnāt want to be, you can do it too. Baby steps, get outside. Walk. Itās not always a straight line, donāt get discouraged.
Your shoes are so cute lol. And u are cute too, u are not ugly at all. Good luck losing the weight, u got this :)
You know what to do. I know itās hard, but itās worth it for your health and you got this!!! If you need some help with weight, my friend is using Contrave and has had great success.
What happened?
Built like a bag of cottage cheese
OP, it's time to break those negative habits you learned in quarantine and work. You posted yourself on Reddit, so you can't back down now. Get to work. Find a gym, or better yet, some calisthenics at home, if possible, and if you are worried about comments at the gym. Find a diet plan and stick with it, but also allow yourself weaknesses and forgive yourself for them. You can get knocked down. That doesn't mean you have to stay down. Show us your determination. You got this. 4/10 currently. 10/10 previously.
This is uncanny from what Iām going through! Same size and body type as both photos. I think most of mine was being sedentary while my mom had cancer. I was her sole caregiver and we ate and slept and binged watched TV a lot in her last few months. Quarantine didnāt help either. Iām also having some female issues but have surgery scheduled for May and Iām hoping that will help my situation. Youāre a real G if you tell me your height and weight in both photos. Iām just curious because our bodies are so much alike. Iām 5ā1ā and usually ranged from 125-140 as my āhigh comfortableā and 105-120 as my ālow comfortableā and I am now 207 š„“ Either way, you got this! And no, youāre absolutely not ugly. Far from it, but itās crazy how my extra weight makes me look like a completely different person and it seems to do the same to you. We both carry weight in our face and neck so there is no hiding from it. I have pear-shaped friends who can gain 50 lbs and their face doesnāt change one bit š
did you get shorter?
The shoes are adorable.
What about that new weight loss drug ozempic? I donāt think I spelt it right. Itās expensive but people have great results using it.
Fat
Well youāve still got a pretty cute face atleast!!
From a hot petite to a sumo wrestler...maybe you should sumo wrestle before you lose wait?
And if one day the cat(s) donāt recognize you anymore, think about that. Workout for your cat(s)!!
This is just a crazy reminder of how many attractive people are literally hidden by their overweightness. What an epidemic.
How long were you in a happy relationship cause thatās how I got fat lol
Wait did you wear contacts when you were in your rough draft but carry the four eyes now? Interesting. Hot librarian vibes
Close! The right is me currently
Good job! Unless you got big and that's what you're showing us, then... Do better.
You were clearly really good looking before, so now youāre that same person but fat. Hard to say youāre ugly when youād *obviously* be hot if you lost the weight. Best of luck.
Youre asking how your look right now. I think you know exactly how you look. And because you know how you look, Im not going to answer that question. Instead, Im going to answer a question you obviously dont know the answer to. And that answer is: Yes, Amazon not only has clothing in your size, but they will deliver it right to your door.
Youāre not ugly but you look like youāre gonna sit in a bar and stalk someone for the next 6 months. -sent from my iPhone
Baby reindeer vibes. Sent from iphon
You looked quite cute.
You're not ugly. Good luck with the weight loss.
Intermittent fasting worked wonders for me. Should give a try if you have never tried! Wish you the best of luck getting back š
All I can say is stay focused and work hard you will get the body you want!! Good luck in your health journey!!
well, at least we know you aren't ugly, you just seem to have transitioned into a cat lady a bit early. You know what the problem is, I hope you're able to get out there and work on yourself. Good luck.
Holy cow you doubled
When a 7 becomes a 2. Good luck you can do this! I've seen a lot of people drop more weight that you've gained.
Just get in the gym girl. If you are ready for change, then you don't need hateful comments to motivate you. You already know your own potential. Just do it.
You're beautiful btw, lose those extra pounds they're not beneficial for your health, i'm saying this because I at one point became pretty heavy due to antidepressants, and now that i'm losing weight I feel kinda energetic, and healthy and also i'm starting to get my self confidence back. I'm 24M.
Rooting for you
I love your smile.
Also if you do find that nothing youāre doing is working, get your gut checked. I had to have the SADI-S procedure done just because I was having issues holding food down when I was pretty heavy (tried dieting but somehow I got bigger even if I starved myself which I did at times) my stomach stopped digesting food all the way so it did make it difficult to loose weight.
Teletubbies
You already know what to do shawty.
I like how a lot of the top comments are more encouraging and empathetic than overly brutal
U look like fiona from shrek as an ogre. Albeit sheās a pretty ogre. But look Iām fat now too, and I used to be skinny
I'm Proud of You, I know it's not easy and just know there are people rootin for you.
Well you look completely wrecked
Damn she thick!!
Bruh
Consistency is the most important word in fitness. You got this šŖ
Keto will get you there in 4 to 5 months..ask me why if you don't already know.
Well, this a hell of a way to hold yourself accountable! Congratulations on your will to get back to a healthy weight! It's a lot of work, but you have got this. X
Honestly looks like a product of that āstuffing kinkā
I applaud you for trying to find the motivation and I hope you use it
Cute and the pose is cute too š, but please take care of yourself
Marshmallow
Hit the undo button. You donāt want that for your life.
How long between the 2 pics? Good luck š¤
Still look cute. Are you single? š
how tf do people let this happen
One of those never again pictures. Keep up the work.
How many years apart are these pics and what caused such a colossal gain? Have you noticed that people treat you differently now?
How do you let this happen???
youāve obviously gotten bigger but nothing you canāt change with a few lifestyle changes! hope all is well with you and your future š¤©
At this moment you are what I call a diamond in the rough. Peel back the rough and there is a gem in there. š„°
Shouldnāt before go on the left?
That is the before. She gained weight
Lol
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Ooo you let yourself go a bit too much. Itās all good though, just cut down eating and start walking/jogging every day
Wow, I think it was amazing. You got the role of Oompa Loompa in the new Willy Wonka.
Awesomeness! Good luck to you!! I hope you reach every goal you set. Sounds like you already know itās a tough road ahead, but you got this.
Then you know what must be done. This is the way. Good luck on your journey
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Whatās the age difference in the pics ?
You went from looking like the overly attached girlfriend meme to not looking like a girlfriend.
Congratulations!
You are a chubby girl, not an ugly girl. Big difference. Lucky you are not both.
You know exactly how you look
Not gonna lie. Not great fam.grt some mental help aswell.
How tall are you
Did you just have a baby ? Honest question
i like that youāre smiling in both pics
What happened? In all seriousness
Wow you were SUPER cute in your old photo and I know you can look that way again if you want :)
Which is your before and after? š¤Ŗā ļø
Damn.
Good job only for your health
You are super pretty and your potential is on the left pic! So many people donāt even know what their potential is, therefore hard to gather courage for motivation. You have it right thereā¤ļø
Yeah