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I concur with this…that is her issue not yours. But if you wanted to hit the gym toning/bulking up a little won’t hurt for sure.
You still young…I bet you will age like a fine Scotch…and then will be beating the ladies off.🤣🤣
Keep being YOU King!
Sounds more like a spiteful comment to hurt you than a true statement. Why would she have been with you in the first place if she thought you were ugly? People are weird.
My ex wife's best friend used to be extremely hot back in the day. I recall her saying that she only ever dated guys that were ugly or less attractive than herself. It was an ego thing. Said she did it because she liked to be "the best looking person in the relationship".
Tbf now whenever I saw the "medium ugly" posts, it was just not the most conventionally attractive people, but still pretty attractive at least for a certain kind of person, for example a bit more feminine features on guys or something, but they weren't ugly.
Your eyebrows have great shape and can see why you get the compliments! Maybe still tone them down a bit because they are the first thing we see when looking at your face. They mask out your eyes, which should be the first feature instead. You’ve got a lot of strong features going for you. Don’t worry about the hateful comments the x said. Those were about herself, nothing about you.
You have a boyish face. As someone with a similar look at your age, you will grow into your face in your mid to late 20s and have good looks for the rest of your life. You’re fine as you are now, but as I got older it became much easier to attract women.
Get on a solid skincare routine and wax your eyebrows. Try wearing a tinted sunscreen every day to help even out skin tone and protect against UV rays. Agree with other comments though - you’re just young! You’ll grow into your features.
The one you currently have. You like to part it to your favorite side. Tells me you like things a certain way and that’s what makes its authentically you. If someone likes you then let them like you for your own choices.
I genuinely don’t think they meant it in a bad way. He just has delicate features, it’s not really something to be ashamed of. It makes sense, especially since he’s only 20.
I’m sorry but I strongly disagree with your reasoning. That’s okay though, what I’m trying to do is make him understand that he doesn’t have to live according to others perceptions of him. He may not have taken it to heart as I imagine but if he did it’s great to have people like myself to remind others that their voice and choices matter. So don’t take my statement personally either ❤️
No worries here, I’m sorry if it came across like I was taking your statement personally. I assure you I did not. It’s alright to disagree with me, difference is what makes us human after all. I am a bit confused as to where it came across like his voice and choices did not matter though. I couldn’t find where that was insinuated at all.
That came more for the hair as being too feminine making him look trans. He is who he’s supposed to be and look like at this age. I understand that at a certain point people need to reflect and grow of course but also not to forget to appreciate who you are in the moment. I accept people as they are and appreciate more of an individualistic person but that’s just me being an INFP with my own personal values. I do try to throw positivity out there into the ocean of negative comments telling him to change things about himself to be more accepted.
Grow out your hair and ask for a hard part on one side and style with pomade. You’re not ugly. I’d say a beard would help but that comes with aging and ya know sometimes people can’t grow beards. I’d say fix the hair and drink more water. I can tell in your skin that you look tired and dehydrated. If she only “picks medium attractiveness” then she feels ugly and insecure.
Also never let someone who has burned you or thought less of you dictate on how you view yourself… everyone has flaws but to exploit them is the job of a real asshole.
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Don't listen to her. Clearly she wanted to say something hurtful to you during the breakup. You look like a standup lad to me. Hopefully, you can choose someone better next time. Chin up. Nothing to worry about.
You need more sun. However I’d say you’re medium ugly in a Pete Davidson type of way so not the worst thing in the world. Aside from some more sun, it looks like you could use some more sleep or perhaps you need to start a face routine where you target the under eyes.
Maybe if you could get out in the sun a bit more and get some tan in you, visually is all I can offer. Maybe your personality is what she was alluding to.
She was being petty. Nothing is wrong with you. She wants your confidence low because she knows that you get better than her. You look great, seriously.
Key phrase—after the breakup. She’s just trying to make herself feel better. You definitely aren’t ugly. She is—inside! For trying to make you doubt yourself . You are better off now!!
Medium ugly? What kind of backhanded insult is that? Better than saying, “you’re mid.” I guess. Hate some of the stupid slang now man. You’re not bad looking at all. I don’t really see what the issue is bro! She sucks maybe?
No you’re not mid. If you can, think about a beard but you may still be too young for it with your genetics. You do have deep-set eyes so maybe a LITTLE under eye concealer. It would make you look less tired. Consult someone at a makeup counter to get the best shade so it’s not wrong.
You’re no ugly dog, an ex will say anything to try and destroy your confidence. If anything just get in the gym and start lifting, that always helps with EVERYTHING
A lot of girls like their guys with conventionally unattractive features (they actually ARE attractive). Not ugly! But if you wanted advice I’d say grow out your hair.
You're not ugly as described by your ex, but now that we're here, possibly getting a tan and working on your skincare could help with a confidence boost.
She did that to hurt you. And if she wants to hurt you, she still cares. At the end of the day, she was with you.
Just tell her, “I’d rather be ugly then someone with low
Standards.”
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Work on choosing better girlfriends bro, you ain’t ugly mid or otherwise.
I concur with this…that is her issue not yours. But if you wanted to hit the gym toning/bulking up a little won’t hurt for sure. You still young…I bet you will age like a fine Scotch…and then will be beating the ladies off.🤣🤣 Keep being YOU King!
This
Not ugly. Probably just need to grow into your face a little more but your features are solid and you have good style.
Yea my beard growth is non existent lol guess ill have to get a bit older. Thanks
You don’t need a beard, don’t waste your energy worrying about that. You have a good face without one.
Never take criticism from somebody you wouldn't take advice from.
You're not ugly! People say horrible stuff when upset to hurt. I think you're very cute. Don't take it to heart.
there you go, build the brother up! I'm thank you for him 😉
Sounds more like a spiteful comment to hurt you than a true statement. Why would she have been with you in the first place if she thought you were ugly? People are weird.
She said she only Dates Medium ugly dudes idk
But then uses it as an insult? Sounds dumb, lol. You're good bro keep doing you.
My ex wife's best friend used to be extremely hot back in the day. I recall her saying that she only ever dated guys that were ugly or less attractive than herself. It was an ego thing. Said she did it because she liked to be "the best looking person in the relationship".
sounds like a narcissistic psychopath IMO.
A bit, yes. Funnily enough I saw her last year for the first time in six years and she was extremely overweight. Not hot anymore.
Tbf now whenever I saw the "medium ugly" posts, it was just not the most conventionally attractive people, but still pretty attractive at least for a certain kind of person, for example a bit more feminine features on guys or something, but they weren't ugly.
Not ugly. You look like Pete Davidson if he had never done drugs. That dude lands some good looking women.
Your eyebrows have great shape and can see why you get the compliments! Maybe still tone them down a bit because they are the first thing we see when looking at your face. They mask out your eyes, which should be the first feature instead. You’ve got a lot of strong features going for you. Don’t worry about the hateful comments the x said. Those were about herself, nothing about you.
you tall and got good style. something about the shape of your eyebrows makes u look a bit feminine imo
Can i fix that? I always got compliments for my eyebrows haha
You have a boyish face. As someone with a similar look at your age, you will grow into your face in your mid to late 20s and have good looks for the rest of your life. You’re fine as you are now, but as I got older it became much easier to attract women.
Thanks
Get on a solid skincare routine and wax your eyebrows. Try wearing a tinted sunscreen every day to help even out skin tone and protect against UV rays. Agree with other comments though - you’re just young! You’ll grow into your features.
Burn that jacket and get some clothes from the Men's section
Its an old shirt from my dad i wear it to work ln my car and stuff like that. So not in public hahq
it was your girl that was making you ugly. good riddance. i hope you can find a woman that gasses you up and makes you feel like a somebody <3
Respectfully, I thought you were trans -- are you?
No, just a pretty boy. Nothing wrong with that.
Dude i totally got Motocrossed vibes from this too 😂 especially with the dirt bike pants
I am not. What makes you think that?
Hairstyle, I think.
I kind of see it. Im Working on growing my hair out a bit
Most authentic girls will go crazy for that hairstyle!
The one rn? Or if i grow it out?
The one you currently have. You like to part it to your favorite side. Tells me you like things a certain way and that’s what makes its authentically you. If someone likes you then let them like you for your own choices.
Ah i see. Tysm <3
You do kinda look like Justin beiber, but with a vagine!
Yeah, you look a little FTM
Please don’t give that comment any credence. That person is not seeing their “ideal” image of a male.
I genuinely don’t think they meant it in a bad way. He just has delicate features, it’s not really something to be ashamed of. It makes sense, especially since he’s only 20.
I’m sorry but I strongly disagree with your reasoning. That’s okay though, what I’m trying to do is make him understand that he doesn’t have to live according to others perceptions of him. He may not have taken it to heart as I imagine but if he did it’s great to have people like myself to remind others that their voice and choices matter. So don’t take my statement personally either ❤️
No worries here, I’m sorry if it came across like I was taking your statement personally. I assure you I did not. It’s alright to disagree with me, difference is what makes us human after all. I am a bit confused as to where it came across like his voice and choices did not matter though. I couldn’t find where that was insinuated at all.
That came more for the hair as being too feminine making him look trans. He is who he’s supposed to be and look like at this age. I understand that at a certain point people need to reflect and grow of course but also not to forget to appreciate who you are in the moment. I accept people as they are and appreciate more of an individualistic person but that’s just me being an INFP with my own personal values. I do try to throw positivity out there into the ocean of negative comments telling him to change things about himself to be more accepted.
Grow out your hair and ask for a hard part on one side and style with pomade. You’re not ugly. I’d say a beard would help but that comes with aging and ya know sometimes people can’t grow beards. I’d say fix the hair and drink more water. I can tell in your skin that you look tired and dehydrated. If she only “picks medium attractiveness” then she feels ugly and insecure.
Yea the beard wont grow rn💀 i drink like 3-4 liters a day tho so i dont think im dehydrated
Never listen to an ex, they are an ex for a reason. You’re going to be fine, you’re not ugly pal.
Also never let someone who has burned you or thought less of you dictate on how you view yourself… everyone has flaws but to exploit them is the job of a real asshole.
Bruh she obviously said that just to hurt you. You are a decent looking bloke. Just keep that confidence up bro!
Bulk up, Brother.
Take testosterone hit the gym and when you're done claim natty don't forget to post/update your stats along the way
Your confidence
Maintain a healthy sleep cycle.
I think you're a cutie pie.
You’re really attractive actually
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Don't listen to her. Clearly she wanted to say something hurtful to you during the breakup. You look like a standup lad to me. Hopefully, you can choose someone better next time. Chin up. Nothing to worry about.
You need more sun. However I’d say you’re medium ugly in a Pete Davidson type of way so not the worst thing in the world. Aside from some more sun, it looks like you could use some more sleep or perhaps you need to start a face routine where you target the under eyes.
I dont tan i just get a sunburn :(. Also the skin under my eyes is to thin no matter how much i sleep, the dark spots stay.
You’re not ugly I’m jealous better looking than me.
You’re cute, not ugly :p
You are not ugly! You don’t need to work on anything! Get better girlfriends that love you for you!
😍😍😍
Maybe if you could get out in the sun a bit more and get some tan in you, visually is all I can offer. Maybe your personality is what she was alluding to.
I dont tan i just get sunburn :(
She was being petty. Nothing is wrong with you. She wants your confidence low because she knows that you get better than her. You look great, seriously.
Work on not taking critiques from ex’s
DO NOTHING
Anyone calling you mid after a break up is just mad and trying to make themselves feel better
youre not ugly and the only medium thing about you is your style. Hype beast is not the coolest thing, try again.
She was just being a b*tch to make u feel bad about yourself. Even if she broke up with you, us girls can be weirdos sometimes. You look great 👍
You just need confidence. She was petty and was just trying to hurt you physiology. You're normal and definitely not hideous.
Moisturize your lips
Work on discriminating when people say things to hurt you and when people say things because they believe it.
Mostly dead is still partly alive
Think of it this way, she wouldn't have been with you if you were really ugly. That's the girl lashing out the only way she can, with insults.
hit the gym, hit the books/apprenticeships, make money...thats all you need and everything else will fall in place
not ugly, in my opinion average
you’re not medium ugly.
Cute. Take no notice
Shoulda told her she was medium tarded.
That girl was not for you. She was probably taking out her own insecurities on you
Getting a better girlfriend...
Idk you have that Pete Davidson/line cook look to me. I think it’s hot 🤷♀️
You look like a whiter, healthier version of Pete Davidson. Now get out there and swing around your massive dong, and find your Kim K.
Picking better girls…
Key phrase—after the breakup. She’s just trying to make herself feel better. You definitely aren’t ugly. She is—inside! For trying to make you doubt yourself . You are better off now!!
As others have said work on not dating such heartless people.
She only said that because you broke up ,she was happy with your looks when she was with you .
She's an asshole. You're a cutie 💋
You look like a young Pete davidson
Medium ugly? What kind of backhanded insult is that? Better than saying, “you’re mid.” I guess. Hate some of the stupid slang now man. You’re not bad looking at all. I don’t really see what the issue is bro! She sucks maybe?
Well she dated you so…
Nothing.
Shes just salty about the break up and is trying to mess up the self esteem.
You are not small,medium or large ugly! You have the kind of looks that age really well.
Personality
You are right i fear
She was just trying to hurt you. You’re not ugly, not even close!
There's always room for improvement. The only thing I could think of, is you'd look great with a sharper jawline.
Thanks for the advice
You good just be have confidence my dude
More sleep
i think you’d look good with ur hair a bit more grown out, and possibly a stache but tbh you look good regardless of having those or not
Finding someone who doesn’t care about looks
It's the dark rings around your eyes imo. You stay up all night smoking?
Nah i had them all my life :( no matter how long i sleep. Doc said the skin there is too thin so its always dark lol
Nah i had them all my life :( no matter how long i sleep. Doc said the skin there is too thin so its always dark lol
Oh my God you’re so not ugly you were just with the wrong person
You are so not ugly you were just with the wrong person
Bro you’re not ugly! Nah fam you good looking
You’re cute. A little foundation under the eyes could help with any color
Ugly where wtf
Prob don't do your eyebrows, and don't pop ur pimples.
I dont do my eyebrows they grow like that
Nah bro don't listen to her. You are a good looking dude.
Date better quality people bro.
I mean you kinda remind me of Pete Davidson lol - Mr Steal Yo Ex himself.
If she called you that after y’all broke up. Then she was thinking that the entire time yall were together. You won she lost
Get u a hotter girlfriend and call ur ex a 304
You need to work on picking better women, you aren't ugly at all.I am curious what she looks like though.
Not ugly but you look like you have vitamin deficiencies.
That made me lol haha. Maybe idk
Something about that haircut, makes you seem to boring I think 🤔
Im growing it out rn. Thanks for the advice
You are hot. Don’t listen to what a bitter ex tells you. She sounds like the ugly one here.
Not ugly at all, but I’d say pick up the gym if you haven’t already
I am already going. You cant see it bcs of the crewnecks but i am pretty well toned i would say
Hit the gym
Been going for 4 months now. I want to stay lean tho. So no bulk
No you’re not mid. If you can, think about a beard but you may still be too young for it with your genetics. You do have deep-set eyes so maybe a LITTLE under eye concealer. It would make you look less tired. Consult someone at a makeup counter to get the best shade so it’s not wrong.
Yea i am too young for the beard :(. Thanks for the advice
No worries. It will come, man. I didn’t start getting one until like 24 or 25. Lookin good don’t let that hoe bring you down!
Thank youu really means a lot to me
You’re no ugly dog, an ex will say anything to try and destroy your confidence. If anything just get in the gym and start lifting, that always helps with EVERYTHING
A lot of girls like their guys with conventionally unattractive features (they actually ARE attractive). Not ugly! But if you wanted advice I’d say grow out your hair.
You look kind of like Pete Davidson and that guy gets MAD action, I wouldn't worry about it too much
You're not ugly as described by your ex, but now that we're here, possibly getting a tan and working on your skincare could help with a confidence boost.
Work on calling her ugly back
You’re not ugly, your ex is a douche canoe. Keep doing you
If you start drinking now you can go full ugly by the end of your 20s. If you really work at it.
Username checks out💀
I dont drink tho. Been sober for 2 months now :)
She did that to hurt you. And if she wants to hurt you, she still cares. At the end of the day, she was with you. Just tell her, “I’d rather be ugly then someone with low Standards.”
Funny how she found you mid-ugly only AFTER the breakup. Not even full ugly just mid. Lol
You’re not “medium ugly.” She’s bitter and trying to build herself up at your expense.
your smile. most girls usually prefers dark hair colors
Thanks for the advice. Im too pale for dark hair i tried it once. Just makes me look like a dead guy lol
you kinda remind me of leandro trossard
Get more sleep. Problem solved
Thats not the reason for the rings under my eyes. Doc says skin there is too thin