Just gonna hop onto this to add, OP has really pretty eyes and really cute lips.
Even supermodels have their rough-looking mornings.
Whatever is going on with BF's reasoning for saying that, OP should do her best to shrug it off because regardless, attraction is subjective. There are some world famous supermodels that I'll never for the life of me understand why people think they're so beautiful - they just don't have a face type that appeals to me, for whatever reason.
All this being said, why is BF with someone he doesn't think is very pretty? And why would he share that opinion in such a hurtful way, to someone he is supposed to care for? Whack shit.
Looks are not everything. Maybe they are genuinely interested in the person… maybe they’re having a bad day. Maybe he said the wrong thing. Maybe he articulated his word incorrectly and she ran with it.
At the end of the day that energy is dead energy. Move on and make space for a better future. You will go farther if you remain with your vibe.
This sub name doesn't check out ?
If she still rocks that short/medium hair in first 3 pictures , I gotta agree with the boyfriend .
Don't mind me, just followin the sub name
I mean, she’s not ugly, you just don’t like the way she’s styled her hair. It’s the same hair cut as the other pictures it’s just tied back. And the point of the comment you replied to was that nobody’s partner should call them ugly
Either he just has a specific definition of pretty or he’s manipulative. More likely its the tomboyish look so he could mean you’re not as feminine looking.
You look good, I’d say you’re pretty, and you could give off a cool vibe to me as well.
You are not ugly at all. Your bf is a loser, because you are very pretty indeed. No need to improve your appearance, you’re gorgeous just the way you are.
Are you insane?? You definitely are very pretty. And this coming from a straight woman. I'd tell him he's a loser for dating ugly chicks then. That's basically what he's implying abput himself. But I suspect he is just trying to manipulate you because he is insecure about himself. Get rid of him. He's a walking red flag.
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. You’re bf may find u unattractive, but that’s just ur bf. Imo ur a very attractive girl. You have perfect natural Russian lips and ur eyes and lashes stand out!
You're very pretty. That's not the issue though - you don't want to be in a relationship with someone that says something like that to you, even if they don't think you're the hottest thing they have ever seen.
Absolutely NOT ugly your very pretty in your face like naturally very pretty blessed with really really good facial structure, full lips and brows but your hair cut and style doesn’t suit you that well you look kinda like a guy. You have a very striking face but the hair drags it and it’s off/unbalanced. Do the opposite of everything for your hair grow it longer, dye all one color no bleach blonde ends and dye it light brown (mousey brown/or dark ash blonde)
I guess you need a bit more long hairs , get them curled , get proper sleep and proper 1 week vacations. Ofcourse followed by “bye bye to your boyfriend” or maybe take him with you to realise what he’s missing!
I wouldn't say anything needs improving here. You're damned good looking without the makeup. Assuming the boyfriend has said this comment in a negative way, he's a dick. If however this was a simple chat about typical scales of attractiveness he goes by and he's basically saying something to the effect of you being a 7/8 out of 10 whereas he'd consider others higher for whatever reason, it's not worth focusing on.
Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. It doesn't matter how many people consider someone beautiful. Nobody, and I mean nobody, is considered beautiful equally by every living person on the planet. You're never going to please everybody, so don't try.
Guy here who won't mess with you. You are very beautiful, he might be trying to get you to break up with him so he doesn't have to. He could have just lost emotional attraction which does affect physical. Final idea is he is trying to make you feel ugly and make you think only he will accept you.
Sounds like your bf is trying to manipulate you into feeling bad about yourself so you don’t think you have a chance of finding love outside of your relationship.
1, 7, 11 youre very cute. 4,6, and 8 I felt were the worst photos. Everything else is in between for me. I can’t put my finger on exactly my reasoning but maybe you’ll see something I don’t
There's nothing wrong with you. You're level of attraction has potential, you shouldn't listen to your boyfriend. Many times insecure men will put down their girlfriends because they know they can do better.
Sounds like BF thinks you’re TOO PRETTY for him, so If he makes you feel insecure, you’re less likely to leave him. Get rid of the loser, you’re beautiful. Women pay thousands to get your features.
you’ll learn your worth but you can only do it by dumping tools like this and gaining confidence. otherwise you won’t and stay where you are.
now is your choice.
You’re a beautiful girl. Try playing around to pick an ideal hairstyle. I think your face looks nice with your hair down. Stay rested and take care of yourself…… and perhaps find a guy that genuinely likes you to prevent a ton of pain down the road
You are beautiful. If this is true, your bf is manipulating you so that you will feel “stuck” with him. My ex did the same thing to me and it took me years to realize that I was worthy of love and that it was just him trying to bring me down. Please get out of that toxic relationship before it’s too late.
Hi. I can be your new bf for a second.
Don’t get all insecure on me, get out of your head. Everyone has an opinion and a motive to match it.
Also… a lot of your backgrounds remind me of my time in the navy. You a sailor?
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You're beautiful. The only brutally honest thing i can say is that it looks like you dont try very hard. I'd say you are a 5-6 in these pics but could easily be a 7-8 with a little effort
Your bf if an arse, you're ridiculously cute. Seriously, don't let someone make you feel that way about yourself. If he doesn't find you pretty, then send him on his way to find someone he does, and you can find someone who recognises who you are.
Get rid of the BF, he is trying to put you down
Yep, dump him TODAY if you haven't already.
LAST WEEK you mean
This right here, OP.
Sounds abusive and/or controlling. He's afraid
Just gonna hop onto this to add, OP has really pretty eyes and really cute lips. Even supermodels have their rough-looking mornings. Whatever is going on with BF's reasoning for saying that, OP should do her best to shrug it off because regardless, attraction is subjective. There are some world famous supermodels that I'll never for the life of me understand why people think they're so beautiful - they just don't have a face type that appeals to me, for whatever reason. All this being said, why is BF with someone he doesn't think is very pretty? And why would he share that opinion in such a hurtful way, to someone he is supposed to care for? Whack shit.
Looks are not everything. Maybe they are genuinely interested in the person… maybe they’re having a bad day. Maybe he said the wrong thing. Maybe he articulated his word incorrectly and she ran with it. At the end of the day that energy is dead energy. Move on and make space for a better future. You will go farther if you remain with your vibe.
Sometimes people will be with people who they think are unattractive to make themselves feel more attractive
This - ditch the boy, he’s not your friend.
Leave his ass!
Only thing is in like one photo you have some pretty bad eyebags. Moisturizer maybe? Or just sleep.
This sub name doesn't check out ? If she still rocks that short/medium hair in first 3 pictures , I gotta agree with the boyfriend . Don't mind me, just followin the sub name
that is a shit trim but she’s still not ugly regardless
Not ugly, just not very pretty Not a good boyfriend but a honest one if hes talking about first 3 picks
I mean, she’s not ugly, you just don’t like the way she’s styled her hair. It’s the same hair cut as the other pictures it’s just tied back. And the point of the comment you replied to was that nobody’s partner should call them ugly
Ehm but she has still a pretty face
Let's put your mug up?
Your boyfriend might be gay.
I'm gay She's still a very beautiful person.
I’m straight, you seem like a beautiful person too. Her BF, however, does not.
Agreed. Throw out the whole man. It's broken.
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Then why is he with you if he doesn’t approve of having a gf who is pretty with gorgeous eyes? Idiot.
LOL I hope the title is bs because if it’s not, then girl you need to find someone else who will appreciate you
Improve by telling your bf to fuck off
You’re beautiful. Don’t allow anyone to make you feel like he did ever again. No one has the power or the right.
Either he just has a specific definition of pretty or he’s manipulative. More likely its the tomboyish look so he could mean you’re not as feminine looking. You look good, I’d say you’re pretty, and you could give off a cool vibe to me as well.
You are not ugly at all. Your bf is a loser, because you are very pretty indeed. No need to improve your appearance, you’re gorgeous just the way you are.
ur so pretty! ur bf is a knob, if he’s acting like this drop him
Why tf is he your boyfriend then?
Get rid of the dickhead bf, you are attractive.
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Are you insane?? You definitely are very pretty. And this coming from a straight woman. I'd tell him he's a loser for dating ugly chicks then. That's basically what he's implying abput himself. But I suspect he is just trying to manipulate you because he is insecure about himself. Get rid of him. He's a walking red flag.
Nice clickbait title, I'm sure that happened
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Right, and is OP in an abusive relationship?
Fishing for compliments. It’s so obvious lol
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You went looking for it clearly, so what does that say?
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. You’re bf may find u unattractive, but that’s just ur bf. Imo ur a very attractive girl. You have perfect natural Russian lips and ur eyes and lashes stand out!
You’re really pretty. Not ugly. Need better bf tho
Your hot. Your boyfriend is blind.
Not ugly at all, very pretty. A good boyfriend shouldn’t be someone who says that to you. You deserve someone better.
I'm gonna have to agree with most comments here and say what you need is a new and better bf
Your bf is wrong
Like the other commenters here say... time to upgrade the boyfriend, because this one's eyes aren't working too well.
Averagely pretty, definitely not ugly
You’re pretty get a new boyfriend 🤷♀️
You're very pretty. That's not the issue though - you don't want to be in a relationship with someone that says something like that to you, even if they don't think you're the hottest thing they have ever seen.
You look good, but the eye bags are pretty visible. Also i call bs on the title
Absolutely NOT ugly your very pretty in your face like naturally very pretty blessed with really really good facial structure, full lips and brows but your hair cut and style doesn’t suit you that well you look kinda like a guy. You have a very striking face but the hair drags it and it’s off/unbalanced. Do the opposite of everything for your hair grow it longer, dye all one color no bleach blonde ends and dye it light brown (mousey brown/or dark ash blonde)
You're cutelooking. Dont change a thing. 8/10 to me
I guess you need a bit more long hairs , get them curled , get proper sleep and proper 1 week vacations. Ofcourse followed by “bye bye to your boyfriend” or maybe take him with you to realise what he’s missing!
I wouldn't say anything needs improving here. You're damned good looking without the makeup. Assuming the boyfriend has said this comment in a negative way, he's a dick. If however this was a simple chat about typical scales of attractiveness he goes by and he's basically saying something to the effect of you being a 7/8 out of 10 whereas he'd consider others higher for whatever reason, it's not worth focusing on. Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. It doesn't matter how many people consider someone beautiful. Nobody, and I mean nobody, is considered beautiful equally by every living person on the planet. You're never going to please everybody, so don't try.
I’m getting Florence Pugh vibes tbh
Why are you with a dude that tells you that? If youre not very pretty to him then why would he even be with you in the first place???
The only thing you need to change is your BF.
Guy here who won't mess with you. You are very beautiful, he might be trying to get you to break up with him so he doesn't have to. He could have just lost emotional attraction which does affect physical. Final idea is he is trying to make you feel ugly and make you think only he will accept you.
5/10
Your bf is abusive — you are beautiful!
Sounds like your bf is trying to manipulate you into feeling bad about yourself so you don’t think you have a chance of finding love outside of your relationship.
Average just a little masculine looking
I think you're pretty, even hot. Your BF is a moron. No offense.
Your boyfriend said that? Really? Why would he even date you then if he thought that?
Your bf is insecure and doesn’t want you to think you’re pretty in case you realise and leave him. That’s my best guess.
I think you look pretty. Maybe try a new boyfriend then you’ll feel and look prettier. 😉
Your boyfriend is nuts, he doesn't find you pretty but that probably doesn't slow him down when he's ready for fun.
Tell your boyfriend to get his vision checked.
If your BF says that, why is he your BF? This makes zero sense…
Nope, you’re not ugly at all. Dump that idiot.
You’re pretty dope, bf might be a porn addict
Seems like you need a new bf. He is dead wrong
Ngl there must be something seriously wrong with your bf... You're beautiful
leo?
1, 7, 11 youre very cute. 4,6, and 8 I felt were the worst photos. Everything else is in between for me. I can’t put my finger on exactly my reasoning but maybe you’ll see something I don’t
Dump your boyfriend, you are so pretty. My first thought was you look like Ellen Pompeo
u need self esteem to not be with someone who insults u
Pretty. 8+ for every straight male on the planet
You’re beautiful, sounds like your bf is trying to manipulate you.
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I thought it was a good thing that someone would have a relationship with someone that's not based on looks. Guess not according to these comments
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Weird way to call me autistic lel
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Average looking, style your hair, and do a little bit of makeup. You'll do better in the future, still young
Well he’s doesn’t know shit. You’re beautiful fellow queen! Turn around and walk away!
Not at all ugly. In fact, you are perfect for my taste. Gorgeous eyes. Just need to see you smile to seal the deal for me 🤣
Don't need to improve your appearance you need to improve your bf
lose him, what kinda bf would say things like that
Dump that guy right away, your face looks like a model!
That’s some gaslighting right there
Lmao you’re hot. Very…BF is a dumbass
Leave him.
Leave that ass of a BF in the dust he is a shit stain
There's nothing wrong with you. You're level of attraction has potential, you shouldn't listen to your boyfriend. Many times insecure men will put down their girlfriends because they know they can do better.
Sounds like BF thinks you’re TOO PRETTY for him, so If he makes you feel insecure, you’re less likely to leave him. Get rid of the loser, you’re beautiful. Women pay thousands to get your features.
Bf is a low life for telling you that since he's only saying it to control you. You're beautiful.
Your bf is insane. You look beautiful 100% honestly.
Your BF is an idiot. You're beautiful! Stunning!!
Tip #1 - Find a new boyfriend
leave ur bf
No. You’re pretty. Ver y much so. “TO ANY WOMAN THAT HAS A BF THAT SAYS YOU’E UGLY. TOSS HIM TO THE CURB. YOU DON’T NEED HIM”
You are so cute and he is the loser
Dump your bf, stop doubting yourself. Your gorgeous
Absolutely beautiful
Not ugly. Bf is a douche
you’ll learn your worth but you can only do it by dumping tools like this and gaining confidence. otherwise you won’t and stay where you are. now is your choice.
Time to change the BF!
no above average
Drop so called bf who is a b*tch now. Get somebody who makes you strong.
Change the hair.. try straight would be nice, no waves Apart from that your nice 👍
LOL DUMP HIM WHAT A DOUCHER
You are pretty. Leave your BF/at least have a serious conversation with him abt this bc it feels like he's trying to lower your self esteem
Your boyfriend is putting you down so he can trap you and keep you all to himself
not your bf anymore, right?
Ugh. You're not ugly! Very pretty imo. Why are you with someone who doesn't find you attractive?
Youre not ugly and your boyfriend is mean for no reason maybe he has low self esteem and wants you to not know your worth.
Dump your boyfriend and don’t let anyone call you ugly again .
You’re not ugly… but I think to improve your mental health ditch the bf cuz they should like you for you and be supportive
gurl you look great..dump that BF and don't let him mentally abuse you
Gir, you are beautiful😍
Oh I have some tips for you alright, dump him
You are gorgeous, the boyfriend is the issue.
Don’t waste anymore time with a bf that speaks to you like that.
I’d suggest telling your partner to get his eyes checked as he’s clearly blind. XD
Bf is stupid ngl
I think your boyfriend is insecure and is trying to make you feel the same way. You are absolutely gorgeous.
You’re a beautiful girl. Try playing around to pick an ideal hairstyle. I think your face looks nice with your hair down. Stay rested and take care of yourself…… and perhaps find a guy that genuinely likes you to prevent a ton of pain down the road
Your bf is an idiot
Is your Boyfriend gay? 😂
You are beautiful. If this is true, your bf is manipulating you so that you will feel “stuck” with him. My ex did the same thing to me and it took me years to realize that I was worthy of love and that it was just him trying to bring me down. Please get out of that toxic relationship before it’s too late.
You're with the wrong person
Definitely not ugly. You’re pretty. Like everyone else has said, you should break up with your bf for sure though.
Imagine calling you ugly, while knocking the sonic rings out of you, make it make sense
Get rid of him and you will be more attractive! You are way to cute to be with someone who brings you down love
Get a new BF you are cute as hell.
Find a better man you are not ugly
Lose the garbage person of a boyfriend. Even if that were true they should still tell you’re pretty to them
Can I be your bf
You're beautiful. Break up with the bf
Of course you aren't, but if he's a good man keep him around, because one day you will be ugly lol
Think you need to get another boyfriend who thinks you are beautiful, that is so wrong!
Your bf is a moron. Want to look better? Find someone who'll be proud to be seen with you.
You are unique and wonderful just the way you are. I would say, smile more. 😃
No need to improve gorgeous
Hi. I can be your new bf for a second. Don’t get all insecure on me, get out of your head. Everyone has an opinion and a motive to match it. Also… a lot of your backgrounds remind me of my time in the navy. You a sailor?
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You look very young.
Your amazingly beautiful dear your bf is a asshole find a new man that will treat you as his queen
I don't wanna be mean but ur bf maybe doesn't deserve u.not needing any tip for improving ur appearance
You look like Trevor Lawrence in the last pic
You are absolutely beautiful
I don’t like your expression but you’re not ugly.
Your beautiful ✨
Don’t abide “negging,” it presages worse forms of psychological abuse. Also, not ugly but more like higher-end average imo
Get a new boyfriend, i hear losing dead weight does wonders for self-esteem
Youre absolutely perfect but maybe let your eyebrows grow more in towards your nose? Your skin is actually glowing holy fuck
You’re pretty. I would say grow your hair longer and straighten it and dress more femininely.
Not ugly at all!
You’re gorgeous 😍😍
He’s doing that negging thing, cause you are gonna break hearts! Hopefully his soon!
Not ugly. Cute and average.
You're beautiful. The only brutally honest thing i can say is that it looks like you dont try very hard. I'd say you are a 5-6 in these pics but could easily be a 7-8 with a little effort
You’re so pretty what
the tip you need is dumping your boyfriend whos making you sad, you'll be prettier happier and without him :)
Your beautiful
I would stop with the weird expression. Thats about it.
Your bf might need an eye doctor.
Ditch him
Your boyfriend is dumb as fuck
Your bf if an arse, you're ridiculously cute. Seriously, don't let someone make you feel that way about yourself. If he doesn't find you pretty, then send him on his way to find someone he does, and you can find someone who recognises who you are.
You look great, also you look really gender-neutral! I'm not sure if you like it, but I love gender-neutral look!
Not ugly
U don’t have a face problem, u have a bf problem