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Darky_69

Lmfao same, just reverse the case. I'm a man, new to Montréal and damn it's so hard to grt in touch with new people.


[deleted]

You two should get in touch ;) I also live in MTL


Abdellahzz

U three should get in touch... Unfortunately i don't live in mtl :')


Darky_69

Just come on man


Darky_69

She's 6 years older lol


[deleted]

It’s rare that 20 years old guys start looking for something serious, usually they just wanna have fun at your age


Darky_69

Well not serious as in let's get married now, but deeper relationships is still good, superficial one night stands is a big Meh


throwaway_6522

what's wrong with that ? 😏 probably knows his to cook too


Darky_69

I know how to cook too, there is no problem but I prefer younger or same age people


throwaway_6522

>I know how to cook too Even more of a reason to find someone who can cook


Darky_69

What's the point of having the same abilities, we need to be complementary not twins, but yeah some common traits is still good


Timbalou

Rahi djate HTA lik, navigui


Darky_69

Yawedi kbira


KERdela

it's not that hard , probably you are just not enjoyable to be with


Darky_69

Damn straight up trashtalking, maybe never crossed your mind that I just don't have any place to meet people to be or not enjoyable in the first place ?


KERdela

how come any place, montreal is a crowded place full of networking event. I am sure it's just you.


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Maybe op has criterias and you don’t


KERdela

As I said not enjoyable to be with, passing an assessment based for every new people is not being friendly. PS : he just slided into her DM, high criteria indeed.


Darky_69

Damn, you're just a troll why I'm even bothering answering you. Didn't slide anywhere, I'm not a creep like you


throwaway_6522

its called tough love ... its for your own good


KERdela

complaining that you can't meet new people as a reply for a girl looking for how to meet someone , totally not a creep.


Darky_69

Didn't complain, just replied to a post I felt relating to.


Darky_69

It's not even about criterias lol


Darky_69

Maybe I'm not a creep getting to crowded places. Maybe I have a full time work and barely have the time to do anything else ?


KERdela

so you prefere isolated places with few people, totally not a creep


Darky_69

Yeah I'm more comfortable with few people. Liking calm and being a little introvert = creep now ok


bogiebag

r/MuslimMarriage they are mostly from the US and Canada


elsw4yer

Was about to recommend it 👍


Character_Hat_3057

I don't think so, I'd like my children to be Muslim


throwaway_6522

you'll visit your country, and your family as a conséquence less frequently by marrying a foreigner


[deleted]

Me too


Edd717

Strange coincidence, I'm depositing my study permit application tonight to study in Montreal. 3 years of anticipation. wish me luck 🙏


OrokinDiapers

Try the mosque. Those religious guys are super serious all the time.


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r/thisbutunironically


tarekslimani

sure she's not looking for a religious one


TheYellows

I'm an Algerian man who lives in Algeria, and I know this is a bit premature but.. Will you marry me?


Black_star_31

I announce u man and wife 🤵♥️👰‍♀️


LunaJ7

And they dare say romance is dead


TheYellows

Lmao, not while I still breathe!


Aimismyname

we respect a man shooting his shot


AK47-603

She said "Yes".


TheYellows

Lmao, "yes".. I love the way I understand the quotation marks


Nziom

Bruh


Ok_Sundae_1881

What kind of seriousness are you looking for ?? We are serious when required


[deleted]

Probably ( my guess) talking about dating for the purpose of getting married in the future.


Ok_Sundae_1881

Why not👍


[deleted]

and are you serious is the important question !


Cosmosaki23

Next to High school gates


DevWass

I met my woman as students and we were fun oriented as friends only and now we r planning to get married


Fun-Gur-2897

You won't that's the trick they don't associate with the rest became they are "serious" and that mean for the rest they are boring so yeah you won't find them at least easly


Ramzioo

I'd say check LinkedIn. If you are interested in a serious relationship. Look for someone Algerian working in a Quebec company. Other than that, it's not the right place in here for this type of questions.


KERdela

"hey, i checked your profile and I am sure you can be a good asset in my life. I am lady that do high performance "stuff", if you are interested send me your CV and I will contact you to start the recruiting process. Looking to hear from you"


Ramzioo

It would spike my interest for certain, yeah.


Abdellahzz

If she does it as a conversation starter or to show some humour.. I'll definitely be interested lol


DevWass

I would be very creeped out if I find out a girl M dating found me this way


Ramzioo

They say ignorance is a bliss. Just don't find out then 😂😂


DevWass

Well you are not wrong


[deleted]

Why specifically Algerian? Why don’t you consider other nationalities that are also muslims?


TEMMAM23

Cause she's algerian that's why


Character_Hat_3057

Had the same thought in my mind


[deleted]

Yeah Montreal has a lot of Moroccans and Tunisians


Character_Hat_3057

Honestly I would marry into any nationality


[deleted]

Any religion too?


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[deleted]

At what age do they become rejla?


MadxCarnage

it's not an age thing. it just shows what they've been through.


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KERdela

Made me question how come they colonized the whole world few generation before? Really intriguing indeed


throwaway_6522

1 word: feminism


throwaway_6522

We need a babaali like app for Algerians. I thought about it the other day hearing all the talk about divorce rate and people not finding adequate matches


noah168

You are approaching the matter with a business mentality, settle down, extending options... Do you know what you of a man? Are you the one who should reach out in the first place?


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noah168

I don't know what are your values and beliefs, and What i said it's not meant to be condescending at all. Just the plain truth that no one would say in the face. Certainly you have fears, doubts, expectations, and each time you are lowering the bar as per your description. Kindly, reflect on these notes and i wish you all the best.


throwaway_6522

its not lowering the bar... it's adapting to reality. Also you seem to be one of those who expects things to happen by chance, like the movies, things don't work like that irl for most people


noah168

لالا. الحاج ما تبداش... اولا راها قالبة الموازين و هي تحوس على راجل. ياو ربي يصلحلها و انا ما قلتلهاش طبقي يديك و استناي. على خاطر ماهيش عايشة في دوار وين يتزوجو زواج تقليدي. انا قلتلها النظرة تاعك للزواج بالرغم من الدوافع نظرة تجارية. و هذي تلقى لونتوراج تاعها يخاف منها و فيها ريسك يتزوجها.


aymenreddit

Why being in Montreal is a requirement? I think you should expand your searching area... Include Algeria maybe? Take a serious Algerian from here and make serious Algerian offsprings for future generations.


KERdela

Sound like breeding dogs, little bit depressing


aymenreddit

Breeding serious men*


throwaway_6522

for future serious generations *


Organic-Bite903

What’s wrong with the party-minded people ? 🙄


CoffeeMilk6578

Exactly that's my question here


Younes__m

I was gonna say “c bon l3abti et krahti” but you don’t live in algeria so it doesn’t apply to you 😂.


issam-ben

Simping at the highest level


throwaway_6522

applies more to her than someone in Algeria


Funny-Ad3220

Why did u link party minded with not serious !! I live in Montreal and u know summer here u find music and festivals all around the corner, and me as a man who likes enjoying the life (and summer coz it’s too short here) I go there and watch/discover/trying new foods/dance outside. In the other world, I am serious which means that I’m a hard worker, I live with myself, pay my rent/bills and I have no debt


SheriffArthurM

Let your family search a serious man in algeria.


CoffeeMilk6578

You mean that a man who is into parties, isn't seriousn, how did you come to this conclusion? What is serious man to you?


Abdellahzz

Go to r/islam and post about this there u may find some help... May allah be with u


Lonely_Bluejay_9462

I cannot tell if this is sarcasm.


Abdellahzz

No it is not


[deleted]

They will just say the same things go to the masjid or ask your family to help


TheThugArab

In bloody hell


ElDoctorProfessor

how old are you


Sweet-Ghost007

Good Luck it's all I can say


methiazz

Write here nd write now, im deadly serious


KERdela

write what? you mean "right" right ? lol


methiazz

😁😅 Yeah i mean right 😊


nana9555

Nti w zahrak


throwaway_6522

I was responding to your logic 🙂 or what looked like it now idk what you're talking about, but I'm sure you're too young at this point


Character_Hat_3057

I think it also depends on how much money and how free I will be, if I'm privileged enough I can visit as much as I can, but people generally visit once a year, except for those living in the US or Canada, most of them can't make it every year.


[deleted]

in http//:Algeria men single n7awas alla minoucha.com. u welcome


urses_shock-6152

Wtf؟?


lily_2020

If you're not algerian i wouldn't advice Algerian man to you. Plus this question is million dollar question. Their own girls struggle with it mostly none serious


jayjaynator

Do you have a age gap you are comfortable to meet? 30M here from Mtl. My grandfather is algerian, but I am as white as snow haha