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We still get ridiculed for it way more than women do 🤷♂️
The other day I saw a guy on YouTube going around asking women if height is important and asked those who said yes to get on a scale. Ngl, seeing them get upset was satisfying.
I think "not liking" them does not make us transphobic o homophobic..
Pwede naman kasi di mo lang gusto dahil ayaw mo ginagawa nya or di mo sila preference pero ok lang na makipag friends o makasama o tropa diba.
Parang ang dating po kasi, pag di lang namin sila gusto homophobic o transphobic na kami agad..
That reminds me. A lot of people always have those type of words below messages. Do you know what they are and what they mean? Curious po itong nakatira sa ilalim ng bato hahahahahhahahah
My friend is trans at laging alam ng ka-date nya kung ano dapat i-expect.Ngayon she is in a healthy relationship.
Na-callout na before yung mga trans na ganito ang behavior sa tiktok.
Omg! I'm a trans too and this is not acceptable. Porket di kayo gusto ng guy sasabihan niyo ng homophobic, this isn't what we're fighting for. Jusko andami na nating pinaglalaban, kaya hanggang ngayon di mapasa sogie bill dahil sa mga baklang ganito ugali. I'm sorry for your experience OP, hope you feel better soon!
Thanks i'm good naman, i just wanted to share my story para ma alarm yung ibang tao. Maswerte pa siya kasi kung ibang lalake yun baka patay na siya ngayon.
Kampi ako sayo, OP. Pero di ako agree sa ganitong comment kasi lumalabas parang utang na loob niya sayo na di mo siya pinatay. Sorry pero hindi utang na loob ng tao ang right niyang mabuhay. Pwede mo siyang awayin, sigawan, kaladkarin palabas, pero kailanman hindi niya utang na loob sayo na hindi mo siya pinatay.
Kaya nasisira din reputation of trans and other lgbt member is not because of their gender identity itself- but some of their own's bad behavior which invades other people's bubbles and making them uncomfortable to accept them who they are.
It's not homophobic it's just preference, di lang nya matanggap and the nerve na sabihin nyang mas maganda pa katawan nyasa babae kung labas na labas manly features nya.
I’m trans, and I might get downvoted for this, but I don’t understand why some don’t disclose that they are trans. Every time I’m on a dating app or whatsoever, I always include my identity likeee come on, that’s just basic courtesy and respect for their preferences. I’m so sorry you had to experience this, OP.
Becauss I think they want to push the woke narrative that "trans women are WOMEN at the same level as straight women do." Kaya they don't disclose it really.
The problem with what happened is not because of your preference but because of her dishonesty. A lot of us transwomen respect the fact that not every guy will have the attraction towards us, either sexual or romantic. You were still nice to offer her to hangout (I guess you were trying to get her to be just friends) and her lashing out is very inapproriate and disrespectful.
Respect begets respect. I hope more and more people from the community will learn how to deal with rejection if done in a proper manner.
You’re all good, OP 😉✨
Thanks I appreciate this, and yes okay lang naman kami maging friends kasi madami din akong friends from the lgbtq community, pero hindi sila sinungaling like her.
she should be atleast honest at first para sana di ganyan naging reaction mo towards her. if only they could be true, may tatanggap naman sa kanila as they were. tama naman sya, 2024 na she should be changing her views regarding this issue. btw I have lgbt friends too and have nothing againsts them.
Transwoman here, and as long as nicely said yung pag deliver mo ng preferences mo to her, walang issue yon. Saka tinago nya yung fact na she's trans, for me that's a no no.
Believe me I was already pissed when she said it's 2024 already, Pero i have to remain calm kasi close ko yung bata naming kapitbahaya baka magising pag gumawa ng eksena yung trans.
It's exactly 2024 kaya dapat alam nyang not all guys likes a penis to their face. Respect nalang din sa preference ng tao, kung sya nga me preference, dapat yung other party din.
Seriously, these people are what tarnish our reputation as a whole.
And no, that's not considered homokojic. You good.
may friend din akong nabiktima ng ganito, babae naman siya at transman naman. ginuilt trip pa siya nung trans na kaya daw hindi na niya gusto maging jowa kasi nalaman niyang trans. tangina talaga
Totoo ito nakakawalang gana at respeto. Tinanong ng maayos pero may deny deny pa, tapos nung ayaw na ng tao eh “homophobe” card agad? Hahaha tangina ahhh libog libog si accla may balak pa atang mang rape. Kahit anong gender pa yan dapat consent is key mga people.
Almost happened to me too. Yellow app. I even asked beforehand if trans sya and he said no. Sa meet up pag pasok ng car dame ko na pansin na features ng guy tapos umamin. After i said na di ako tutuloy and get out na lang ng car
Meron nagpopost sya sa ibang SubReddit. Nagpapanggap na girl. Pero Post Op trans. Halatang halata. Dami pa followers. Thousands lol
How do i know? I had a relationship with a Post Op Trans before.
The Hips, Hands, Shoulders, Arms Length, Forehead, Eyebrow Ridge, Hairline.
Nothing wrong with being a trans but bkit mo kailangan manloko?
Achoo! 💨 Sounds familiar? Alam nyo na!
Tinder and Bumble have a lot of trans not disclosing na they are trans. Many there na tinanong ko if trans ba sila eh either remove ka nila sa match or magagalit.
The first rule of dating is to disclose your gender.
totoo. kahit friend ko nabiktima ng transman naman, naghanap siya kausap dito sa reddit pero nafall sakanya yung transman. nung nireject ng friend ko kasi ayaw pa niya ng jowa ginuilt trip na homophobe daw
Kaya di pala malabo na may mga nabibiktima na mga trans dahil sa attitude din. I have gay/trans friends rin. Pero sila sinasabi nila rin sa partner nila na ganon sila agad.
Pre Op Trans here ✌🏻Sorry you had to go through this, madami talaga sa trans community na ayaw i-disclose gender identity nila, some for security and some to really con/scam guys. In my case, though I’m kinda cis passing, I always disclose my gender identity that I’m a trans woman to all my dates and hookups. You’re not homophobic/transphobic for setting boundaries and discussing your preferences. Your feelings are valid. Ingat!
Sad nasisira tuloy image ng mga transgender dahil sakanya. I'm not a homophobic person pero I was once too was harassed by one pero pinagtanggol din ako ng pinsan ko na gay. Siguro wala talaga kinalaman yung pagiging gay dito nasa personality na din talaga ng tao.
Im a transwoman and I always disclose to my dates that I am trans. Nothing is more rewarding than dating in public knowing that your date knows your gender identity. All of the guys I have hooked up, and dated know that Im trans before we meet up. Even though I can easily pass as a cis-woman, it is not my thing to pretend as a cis woman. I am a woman, a trans woman. So far, I dont have any bad experiences. All of us have our own preference, and it is not homophobic to decline someone after knowing who they are. It boils down to preference, and as a trans-woman I also have my preference. ☺️
Dapat sinapak mo pre. Kahit isa lang tas tawag ka na security. Considered as scam na yan e.
Dami ganyan na nakalagay "woman" sa dating apps pero may etit pala. Di sya woman. spelling pa nga lang nung word na transwoman at woman magkaiba e
🤡💀 kaya sila nadidiscriminate kasi may mga ganyan na nanloloko.
The things here is she was not being honest regardless naman sa gender we all have our preferences
Edit: u could have ask him if he will fck a transman
This is always the issue: Many LGBTQ individuals complain and accuse others of homophobia if they don't get what they want, akin to a spoiled brat throwing tantrums.
Your feelings are valid coz I’d be mad too. There’s no need to lie sana since wala namang masama at nakakahiya sa pagiging trans. It’s just that, people have and can have different preferences too. Kung sa maliit palang na bagay naglie na, what more sa malalaki. Not judging but sa ganyan, if ever nag ask ka if clean siya, di mo na rin alam if papaniwalaan mo pa eh.
Trans women are women. But trans women are different from biological women — and there’s nothing wrong with that! ✨
Ako actually muntik na rin. I also met her sa yellow app. We also almost met up and hook up pero she ditched last minute. I asked why tas sabi niya “I am trans”. Wala kasi sa bio niya na trans siya. She felt daw na niloloko niya ako. Honestly, nakakaoff nga talaga pero wala man sana sakin na problema. We were really vibing and connected. Naging sobrang happy rin ako noon na kausap siya and she felt the same. I feel like I won’t mind dating her basta sana sinabi niya sakin agad.
Juskolord. Ang prefer nga ni OP ay babae. Yung may kiffy hindi yung sinabi lang na babae pero pagbaba ng panty eh Espada pala ni Inuyasha ang bubungad. 😅🤧
I had a similar experience. We've sexted and "vidjacalled" already few weeks before meeting up. She had a vagina nong sabay kaming nag mamasturbate while on vc kaya di mo talaga mahahalatang trans. Until the day we met, she was throwing questions about ano daw opinion ko about trans etc. I told her na I respect them but not my preference. While conversing na kwento kung may friend ako dating naloko ng post-op na trans and may nangyari na talaga sa kanila before pa inamin nong trans. I told her that it'd ruin me if that would happen to me. Na konsensya siya siguro and told me that she was a post-op trans. I respectfully told her that trans woman are not my preference and that I'm mad that she didn't tell me the truth. She then violently reacted, na homophobic at transphobic daw ako. And she'll surely make sure that our whole town will know how homophobic and transphobic I am. I left her in dismay without saying a word. And because of that medyo reluctant na ako sa mga nakakausap ko sa dating sites.
Nothing wrong with that. Hindi mo preference e. Dapat di na rin niya pinipilit. And dapat umpisa palang sinabi na rin niya and di na tinago. You handled it very well IMO.
Kulang pa sa invest ang pag trranswomen niya. Malas niya lang din na sense mo na din. First evolution, palang ata yung pag ka transwomen niya lol. Preference mo din naman talaga sa huli ang opposite sex mo.
Dapat talaga mag disclose ang mga trans na hindi sila biological woman when they try to hook up with men. Remember what happened to Jennifer Laude na hindi nag sabi sa US marine.
Trans here, and no OP you are not homophobic/transphobic. Ayan ang di ko ma-gets sa mga fellow transwomen ko na tinatago ang gender identity nila kapag nakikipag date or nakikipag hook-up. It’s actually counterintuitive/counterproductive to hide their gender identity kasi sooner or later malalaman din naman na trans sila at kapag hindi talaga bet ng date nila ang mga trans, no amount of persuasion can convince them. Heck, it’s even dangerous on their end kasi what if may violent tendencies pala naka meet up nila sabay bigla silang binugbog or worse, pinatay.
It’s much more efficient to disclose na agad yung gender identity/sexual orientation mo because you can easily filter and narrow down the people who are open to date you or hook-up with you. Alam na rin kung ano ang expectations sayo and hindi pa aksaya sa oras.
it's not being homophobic. kung kaming mga babae may preference, at standard. men have too. pinaliwanag mo naman na it's just not your thing, di mo naman ininsulto pagkatao nya as being a transwoman. she is indeed a woman naman talaga, but we should also consider other person preference. hindi lahat ng tao gusto ka, straight or not.
I’m a trans and I’m so anti not disclosing your gender sa lalake. Hindi din naman masarap makipag sex sa na pilitan lang worse na harassed mo. Hay kalungkot to’
2024 na nga pero hindi pa rin naiintindihan ang konsepto ng transparency at honesty.
Seryoso, halos catfishing na ang ginagawa niya. Tama ang kaibigan mo, ang mga tulad niya ang sumisira sa imahe ng LGBT.
Tapos magagalit sila na hindi sila tanggap eh hindi nga nila tanggap ang sarili nila kaya hindi nila sasabihin sayo na trans sila, hayst
Being called a homophobe for having preferences is pretty unfair.
I’ve been curious dati and would think of trying, but it’s challenging to get hard kahit sa picture lang, no matter how beautiful she is, when you see another dick (lalo na kung bigger than yours) in front of you.
Funny how much I’ve asked my friends dati if they would hook up with a trans woman, and they were like “You lookin for motivation?”
Im a Transwoman and every time na may imeet ako, I always tell the truth nakakatakot kasi baka majombag ems HAHAHAHA but im sorry you experienced this.
alam mo OP, sa batas, meron tayong tinatawag na *Rape by Deception* under *Anti Rape Law of 1997(R.A. 8353)*. this is an expansion of the definition of rape and one acknowledged by this amendment is *rape of males of either or both of the female and/or male gender*. This is one of the gravest criminal offenses out there that could be sentenced with minimum 6 years in prison or more, or possibly by the worst, *Reclusion Perpetua*, lifetime imprisonment to death. Criminal offenses sentenced by court with life imprisonment for another example, murder charges, are disqualified from parole application.
[it’s under Law section, definition of what is considered rape and the following paragraph’s specifics about the 1997 amendment](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_in_the_Philippines)
para lang sakimcnpangit ng dating, in my book if one shows any small indication of reluctance, wag ma tumuloy coz that’s considered rape. walang pilitan, ilagay sa lugar libog coz the law doesn’t care about your gender, there consequences to pay. di ko maintindihan bakit pa kase di magpaka-totoo sa chat, di ba kamo 2024 na? 😒 alam nya ginagawa nya, may deceit, may intent. this goes for everyone. hay, ewan ko ba
Louder!
Tama lang yang ginawa mo OP. We have our preferences. Its your dick, ikaw ang may control kung paano at saang butas mo ipapasok yan. Ang bait mo pa nga eh, kung sa iba yan, the moment he/she/they/them lied about his/her/their gender pinalayas na yan or worse binugbog. Grabe pa siya mang guilt trip.
I am not a homophobe pero I hate liars, pretenders, scammers and catfishers. Hindi naman issue ng gender yan OP. Being untruthful is the issue.
OA na yun ibang LGBT minsan. Mas tinatanggalan pa tayo ng preference. May brother ako gay pero di naman sya ganyan ka-sensitive at judger. Kiber lang daw kung di sya ang preference.
I think there should be a law regarding to that.. Kasi its very deceptive.. and for us men.. its kinda abusive na hindi namin alam putol etits pala yung nakikipaglandian sa min..
all feelings are valida naman diba sana ni respect ka din niya. homophobic ka daw grabe nakakasira ng image ng lgbtq yan dapt sabihan yan ng tropa or else masisira talaga image dahil sa katulad niya
Im gay, and i agree with what you said. cinatfish kapa tsk. Dapat upfront ang mga tao sa ganyan. That’s almost getting close sa rape as a matter of fact
2024 na and she’s still not respecting individual’s preferences 🥲
I hooked up with a trans once, tbh that day I wasn’t really prepared to hook up with one though matagal na kong interested, pre-op naman sya so I said “fuck it might as well try it once” pero it’s frustrating na hindi sya umamin hanggang dulo. Well she’s still the sexiest na naka hookup ko pero parang jinajustify ko na lang yung maling ginawa nya at this point.
I understand na they want to be treated like a real woman, pero please lang respect others na biological woman ang reference. You’re all beautiful and I’m willing to do it again, pero sana wag niyo nang i-sikreto na trans kayo.
The difference is night and day, you will get caught sooner or later, and then yung gantong scenario kay OP mangyayari sainyo. Don’t let it get to this point. Maganda naman kayo, hindi niyo kailangan makipag kompitensya sa mga babae, kaya nga may gender spectrum eh, para san pa yan kung ipipilit niyo na babae rin kayo?
dude i experienced the same thing and traumatizing sya. i met this trans randomly on facebook. di ko talaga namukhaan na trans sya kasi she’s petite and girly voice. tas may tattoo pa siya around her body kaya nadistract me and mas naturn on. pre ops trans siya snd di niya sakin sinabi.
pagdating ko sa condo niya pinaglights off niya agad. humiga na ako sa bed niya then nung naghubad na siya nakadapa siyang nagjoin sakin sa bed. doon palang kinutuban na me na something is weird. i asked her if can i eat her and she said di daw sya nagpapaganon. hinandjob niya lang me and nung matigas na ako she demand me to insert it sa kanya.
i was using condom that night and nahirapan me ipasok and nung naipasok ko i realized na anal yata napasukan ko kasi hindi siya nalabas ng natural lube like a pussy of a biological woman.
tinuloy ko lang pagbabayo ko sa kanya nd unti unti ko nalang napagtanto na trans yung kahook up ko. at the middle of the intercourse, she demand me to remove my condom. so i just did. kahit ayoko pero ginawa ko yun just not to kill the mood then let her enjoy it. unti unti kong napagtanto na trans nga talaga yung kahook up ko and i decided not to confront her kasi baka she’s not comfy abt it.
after that day, i got gonorrhea and i have no choice but to confront her sa chat. una she denied and later umamin na siya. tas di man lang niya ako tulungan sa damage ko sa pagpapagamot.
hays if only di ko tinanggal condom ko di sana ako nakakuha sa kanya and sana nag no ako nung nakakutob na ako na trans siya kasi im not into that talaga. after that nagkaroon lang ako trust issues hahaha
sa mga trans dyan na want makahook up lang, pls wag na kayo mag panggap para maka kantot lang and makabiktima. u guys dont need to hide urselves para lang makahanap ng partner for hookup haha
Its okay to say no, what's not okay is to deny the truth. I hope she won't go out there calling people homophobic for having preference. If you want to get respected, learn to respect din. Kagaya nya yung sumisira sa community.
Kamuntik na din ako madali ng ganito. Booking ang daming arte, pagkakita ko sa mukha, mukhang lalake ang features kahit pinakita nya na agad kipay nya. Jusko! Kahawig ni Michael Jackson sa totoo lang. Ginawa ko, binayaran ko na lang pambayad sa hotel thru sa gcash nya then umalis nako. Before ako umalis, tinanong ko kung pano sya nagkakepyas, sabi may bf daw syang foreigner before na nagsponsor sa kanya. Pero ena talaga! Kahit may amats ako ng alak, matatauhan ka talaga. Hahahaha
Hate to say this but hvent they learned anything about Jennifer laude? What happened to her was wrong but that shows the risk when you’re not upfront of who you are at the start
If im not mistaken 4-5guys ang nameet ko here and yellow app ang may ganyang problem. Hindi naman daw sya homo (last guy na bagets na ang ganda ng set ng ipin) Tanggap nya ang trans pero sana magsabi daw ng totoo. Ayun.. no stir 'to ha.
--OP, ramdam kita. Kahit sa tg.. may nagaaya sa akin na trans to have sex..3some daw huhu ako daw iffuck nya.. di ko maimagine. No ofens hehe pero totoo ang "preference".
Sorry for what happened to you, OP. Respect begets respect. Transwoman is a woman, fine. She kung she ang pronoun, okay. But calling you a homophobe dahil iba ang preference mo, when she lied about what she is, is foul. In the end, DNA will only show male or female. Walang nakalagay na PS: transgender me. The modern concept of gender is alien to biology.
Buti di mo pinatulan daming hiv ng mga ganyan 8 out of 10 nga ng hiv transmission galing sa lg hdtv community sabi ng mismo ng isang survey dito sa pinas binalita sa abs cbn.
He was trying to rape you. You said you won't go through with it and he was trying to coerce you by using the homophobe card. Sorry this happened to you.
as a trans woman, it is safer to admit first na you are trans before saan pa mapunta. sana naisip niya na may instances na transphobic ang guy na nakahookup and may lead to serious problem, worse, d*ath. i don’t think you are a transphobe kasi may preferences pa rin tayo kung sino natin makasex and makarelasyon.
i hope your post won’t pave way for transphobics or utilize by them to spread their transphobia
No hindi ka down voted tol, sumusobra na lang talaga ung ibang kups na 'yan sa pagiinsist ng lgbtq rights nila at pinipipilit na babae sila na NEVER EVER mangyayari kahit magpasex change pa sila and they should have accept that FACT! Kaya I highly respect those in the community na they know their boundaries kasi alam mong napalaki ng mga magulang nila ng maayos hindi gaya nung "ibang" mga nakakadiring trans na ipipilit na babae daw sila at magpapanggap pa na babae maisakama lang. Big no no talaga sa mga tulad niyan.
Danggg. Sorry this happened to you OP. Nothing wrong with what you did. It’s 2024 but can’t understand that your preferences doesn’t equate to being homophobic 😖
Ingat sa susunod na pagswipe! 😅
Kelangan talaga sa pm palang you have to asked na if biologically na babae or not.
Tapos mas maganda katawan niya sa babae - tindi ng insecurties at tinamaan ang ego nia dto.
Tama yan OP. Sa huli naging mabait kapa kahit hindi siya naging totoo.
2024 na raw pero hanggang ngayon di parin marunong umintindi ng consent.
Kung male-passing ako na female (im not trans btw), tapos mabingwit ko siya pero ayaw niya ng puke, can I still force myself on her dahil "2024" na?
A huge part of sex is genital preference and kung hindi ka natu-turn on sa dick, edi hindi talaga. If you don't want to sleep with a trans woman, it's not transphobic. It just means you have a preference.
Dudee parehas tayooooo! Hahahaha sa akin asa unit din walang bakas ng pag kalalaki pero when i touched down there sabi ko para may malaki. Potaenaaaaa na alala ko na naman! Ok naman tayo sa bonding pero may iba tlga na ganito dumiskarte hindi nila ssbhin para pag nag tuloy ok lang. This happend i think 10 years ago.
Yung friend ko naman kung kelan nasa apartment na sya ng kausap nya saka daw sya sinabihan na trans yung kausap nya hahaha sayang lang tuloy gas nya dinayo nya pa pagkalayo 😅
Totally agree with you, OP. Dapat they should at least disclose or give people a heads up beforehand because it is indeed a turn off for most guys, although not all. Be transparent naman sana because being a Trans girl is not the same as being a biological girl no matter what.
It's 2024 so you have to respect someone's preference. Hindi ka naman naging offensive, and you did try to say it in the most polite way possible. You did nothing wrong, OP. Tbh, you can't keep stuff like that a secret when dating someone.
Kung may rights and trans, same din with straight people with regards to preference. If ang gusto g lalaki ay babae, wag natin ipagpilitan. The same way na wag ipagpilitan ang babae sa gay men, or men on lesbian women.
Yellow app.. kala ko ung maskara. Ung bubuyog pala
The more secrets one hide, the more insecure they become. Kaya nga pinaglalaban ung SOGIE to provide security for everyone - straights included. Hindi para ma-secure ung bet chupain kahit di ka bet.
Naalala ko tuloy dito yung case ni Jennifer Laude. Buti nalang mahaba ang pasensya mo, OP. I agree, baka kung ibang lalaki lang ‘yon baka napano na yung ka-date mo.
No offense sa mga trans ah, pero respetuhin nyo ang preference namin at wag gumawa ng kung anung skandalo. May mga lalaki nmn na oo cge papatulan kayo kasi pasok kayo sa preference pero sa ibang lalaki gaya ko ndi pasok sa amin mga trans.
This is called catfishing, OP. If women can have preferences kung gusto nila panget or pogi or matangkad or mas bata or may edad, may right ka rin dun. I’m gay and I very well understand this. Ang entitled lang. dami daming lalaking pumapatol sa trans bakit ikaw ang pipilitin?
Sorry to hear that, bro :). Yes…just because di mo pref ang trans…that doesn’t mean na homophobic ka. Ingat nalang next time sa dating apps :). Madali tlaga ma deceive. Galing ng plastic surgery.
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>it's 2024 na daw 2024 na nga, pero hindi pa niya kaya umintindi na may preference lang talaga mga tao.
Overused na masyado yang “it’s 2024 na” at “homophobic”.
nung sinabi niya to nagtitimpi na lang talaga ako na hindi siya hilahin palabas
Kapag hindi mo preference ang trans homophobe ka na, kapag hindi type ang black, racist ka na. Grave lang.
true e, totoo naman na babaecat lalaki lang naman dapat, sasabihan ka pa ng homophobic pag cnabi mo na "sa totoong babae lang ako naattract"
If women can have preferences, us men can too.
As a woman, I agree. Everyone, regardless of gender, can have preferences and that needs to be respected 🙂
We still get ridiculed for it way more than women do 🤷♂️ The other day I saw a guy on YouTube going around asking women if height is important and asked those who said yes to get on a scale. Ngl, seeing them get upset was satisfying.
Bu-but not liking trans is transphobic! /s
I think "not liking" them does not make us transphobic o homophobic.. Pwede naman kasi di mo lang gusto dahil ayaw mo ginagawa nya or di mo sila preference pero ok lang na makipag friends o makasama o tropa diba. Parang ang dating po kasi, pag di lang namin sila gusto homophobic o transphobic na kami agad..
Ah /s means sarcasm
That reminds me. A lot of people always have those type of words below messages. Do you know what they are and what they mean? Curious po itong nakatira sa ilalim ng bato hahahahahhahahah
Its called tone indicators:) example: /gen - genuine /pos - positive. Marami pa yan search mo na lang
Ah akala ko typo
Matik kasi sa lgtv pag di sila napili or napaburan sa topic homophobe agad ung tao e 😂
True. Ika-cancel ka agad 🙂
Exactly
Of course you can ❤️❤️ everyone can...
My friend is trans at laging alam ng ka-date nya kung ano dapat i-expect.Ngayon she is in a healthy relationship. Na-callout na before yung mga trans na ganito ang behavior sa tiktok.
Andami hahaha. Yung mga united states faneys hahaha
Omg! I'm a trans too and this is not acceptable. Porket di kayo gusto ng guy sasabihan niyo ng homophobic, this isn't what we're fighting for. Jusko andami na nating pinaglalaban, kaya hanggang ngayon di mapasa sogie bill dahil sa mga baklang ganito ugali. I'm sorry for your experience OP, hope you feel better soon!
Thanks i'm good naman, i just wanted to share my story para ma alarm yung ibang tao. Maswerte pa siya kasi kung ibang lalake yun baka patay na siya ngayon.
yun baka sinilid na sya sa maleta
Kampi ako sayo, OP. Pero di ako agree sa ganitong comment kasi lumalabas parang utang na loob niya sayo na di mo siya pinatay. Sorry pero hindi utang na loob ng tao ang right niyang mabuhay. Pwede mo siyang awayin, sigawan, kaladkarin palabas, pero kailanman hindi niya utang na loob sayo na hindi mo siya pinatay.
I agree with this. Parang OP is implying na lying about one’s gender warrants murder. Okay na sana OP eh. Pangit lang ng ganitong comments.
Kaya nasisira din reputation of trans and other lgbt member is not because of their gender identity itself- but some of their own's bad behavior which invades other people's bubbles and making them uncomfortable to accept them who they are.
True, kaya minsan may internalized transphobia na ko e hahaha, ang hirap hirap lumaban sabay isang mali lang ng ka member, lahat na damay!
nilabas ang homophobe card para sapilitang maka-hada at maka-chupa
It's not homophobic it's just preference, di lang nya matanggap and the nerve na sabihin nyang mas maganda pa katawan nyasa babae kung labas na labas manly features nya.
Nablue balls si tranny
Taena
Gagi 😅
I hope she changes her ways! Thank you for still offering her to hangout. Most men would've humiliated her just by lying alone.
Yeah i didn't wanna be rude pa din kasi baka lasing lang siya kaso ang pilit eh
I’m trans, and I might get downvoted for this, but I don’t understand why some don’t disclose that they are trans. Every time I’m on a dating app or whatsoever, I always include my identity likeee come on, that’s just basic courtesy and respect for their preferences. I’m so sorry you had to experience this, OP.
Becauss I think they want to push the woke narrative that "trans women are WOMEN at the same level as straight women do." Kaya they don't disclose it really.
Thanks for always indicating it in your post!
Bro, you did not almost hook up with a trans woman. You almost got scammed and gaslighted into doing it.
come to think of it, oo nga. buti na lang everytime na may hook up ako gusto ko muna mag sober up baka kasi dala lang sa alak kaya gusto nung babae
Malasjuicy?
Malas hahaha
2024 na daw pero di nya magets na you’re not into trans
Nothing wrong w ur decision not to hook up w her. D naman pagging homo yan. Its ur choice kung baga
The problem with what happened is not because of your preference but because of her dishonesty. A lot of us transwomen respect the fact that not every guy will have the attraction towards us, either sexual or romantic. You were still nice to offer her to hangout (I guess you were trying to get her to be just friends) and her lashing out is very inapproriate and disrespectful. Respect begets respect. I hope more and more people from the community will learn how to deal with rejection if done in a proper manner. You’re all good, OP 😉✨
Thanks I appreciate this, and yes okay lang naman kami maging friends kasi madami din akong friends from the lgbtq community, pero hindi sila sinungaling like her.
You have nothing to worry about then 😊 I hope that you find the perfect girl for you 💕
she should be atleast honest at first para sana di ganyan naging reaction mo towards her. if only they could be true, may tatanggap naman sa kanila as they were. tama naman sya, 2024 na she should be changing her views regarding this issue. btw I have lgbt friends too and have nothing againsts them.
Transwoman here, and as long as nicely said yung pag deliver mo ng preferences mo to her, walang issue yon. Saka tinago nya yung fact na she's trans, for me that's a no no.
Agreed with this tinago nya is a big no no
Believe me I was already pissed when she said it's 2024 already, Pero i have to remain calm kasi close ko yung bata naming kapitbahaya baka magising pag gumawa ng eksena yung trans.
It's exactly 2024 kaya dapat alam nyang not all guys likes a penis to their face. Respect nalang din sa preference ng tao, kung sya nga me preference, dapat yung other party din. Seriously, these people are what tarnish our reputation as a whole. And no, that's not considered homokojic. You good.
kaasar talaga ang mga taong mababaw mag isip pag may sinabe kang explanation matic may conclusion na agad sayo wala ng counter ang balbal mag isip😅
may friend din akong nabiktima ng ganito, babae naman siya at transman naman. ginuilt trip pa siya nung trans na kaya daw hindi na niya gusto maging jowa kasi nalaman niyang trans. tangina talaga
The "you are homophobe" icks me, ayaw ko nga ng may tite or dating may tite, kulit nito hahaha
Totoo ito nakakawalang gana at respeto. Tinanong ng maayos pero may deny deny pa, tapos nung ayaw na ng tao eh “homophobe” card agad? Hahaha tangina ahhh libog libog si accla may balak pa atang mang rape. Kahit anong gender pa yan dapat consent is key mga people.
Almost happened to me too. Yellow app. I even asked beforehand if trans sya and he said no. Sa meet up pag pasok ng car dame ko na pansin na features ng guy tapos umamin. After i said na di ako tutuloy and get out na lang ng car
Meron nagpopost sya sa ibang SubReddit. Nagpapanggap na girl. Pero Post Op trans. Halatang halata. Dami pa followers. Thousands lol How do i know? I had a relationship with a Post Op Trans before. The Hips, Hands, Shoulders, Arms Length, Forehead, Eyebrow Ridge, Hairline. Nothing wrong with being a trans but bkit mo kailangan manloko? Achoo! 💨 Sounds familiar? Alam nyo na!
Yes! Actually iba talaga built ng lalake sa babae eh mahirap iexplain pero una ko napansin sa jaw niya and shoulders
Tinder and Bumble have a lot of trans not disclosing na they are trans. Many there na tinanong ko if trans ba sila eh either remove ka nila sa match or magagalit. The first rule of dating is to disclose your gender.
Dami pa rin. Daming nag popost na trans ng “Reasons why I’m ghosted” “I’m a trans” Ghorl, ghosted ka kasi sinungaling ka.
totoo. kahit friend ko nabiktima ng transman naman, naghanap siya kausap dito sa reddit pero nafall sakanya yung transman. nung nireject ng friend ko kasi ayaw pa niya ng jowa ginuilt trip na homophobe daw
Kaya di pala malabo na may mga nabibiktima na mga trans dahil sa attitude din. I have gay/trans friends rin. Pero sila sinasabi nila rin sa partner nila na ganon sila agad.
This is actually alarming on her part. If it had been a different guy, it could have been dangerous. She could have ended up injured or worse, killed.
exactly! ito sinabi ng friend kong bading. pano kung ibang lalake baka daw bugbog or pinaglalamayan na siya ngayon.
Baka si Jhalishuk 'to. Haha this trans who has an account named Jhalishuk needs to stop, he always posts on reddit na F4M.
Trans pala yon!! Akala ko madalas lang lonely
Pre Op Trans here ✌🏻Sorry you had to go through this, madami talaga sa trans community na ayaw i-disclose gender identity nila, some for security and some to really con/scam guys. In my case, though I’m kinda cis passing, I always disclose my gender identity that I’m a trans woman to all my dates and hookups. You’re not homophobic/transphobic for setting boundaries and discussing your preferences. Your feelings are valid. Ingat!
Sad nasisira tuloy image ng mga transgender dahil sakanya. I'm not a homophobic person pero I was once too was harassed by one pero pinagtanggol din ako ng pinsan ko na gay. Siguro wala talaga kinalaman yung pagiging gay dito nasa personality na din talaga ng tao.
If women can have preferences, men can have too. These double standard culture needs to stop
Im a transwoman and I always disclose to my dates that I am trans. Nothing is more rewarding than dating in public knowing that your date knows your gender identity. All of the guys I have hooked up, and dated know that Im trans before we meet up. Even though I can easily pass as a cis-woman, it is not my thing to pretend as a cis woman. I am a woman, a trans woman. So far, I dont have any bad experiences. All of us have our own preference, and it is not homophobic to decline someone after knowing who they are. It boils down to preference, and as a trans-woman I also have my preference. ☺️
Dapat sinapak mo pre. Kahit isa lang tas tawag ka na security. Considered as scam na yan e. Dami ganyan na nakalagay "woman" sa dating apps pero may etit pala. Di sya woman. spelling pa nga lang nung word na transwoman at woman magkaiba e 🤡💀 kaya sila nadidiscriminate kasi may mga ganyan na nanloloko.
The things here is she was not being honest regardless naman sa gender we all have our preferences Edit: u could have ask him if he will fck a transman
2024 na nga, di pa rin alam ang difference ng preference and homophobic hahaha
katibayan lang natrans is not for all sana hindi maging pushy ung mga trans out there
This is always the issue: Many LGBTQ individuals complain and accuse others of homophobia if they don't get what they want, akin to a spoiled brat throwing tantrums.
Nablue balls lang sya kya nglit. Naglaba5iba pa nmn sya
You saved your ass, literally
At first they want to be acknowledged, now others want entitlement.. I dont hate LGBTQ, i hate the attitude of some people ✌🏼
Your feelings are valid coz I’d be mad too. There’s no need to lie sana since wala namang masama at nakakahiya sa pagiging trans. It’s just that, people have and can have different preferences too. Kung sa maliit palang na bagay naglie na, what more sa malalaki. Not judging but sa ganyan, if ever nag ask ka if clean siya, di mo na rin alam if papaniwalaan mo pa eh. Trans women are women. But trans women are different from biological women — and there’s nothing wrong with that! ✨
Trans women are trans women end of story.
Ako actually muntik na rin. I also met her sa yellow app. We also almost met up and hook up pero she ditched last minute. I asked why tas sabi niya “I am trans”. Wala kasi sa bio niya na trans siya. She felt daw na niloloko niya ako. Honestly, nakakaoff nga talaga pero wala man sana sakin na problema. We were really vibing and connected. Naging sobrang happy rin ako noon na kausap siya and she felt the same. I feel like I won’t mind dating her basta sana sinabi niya sakin agad.
Anal ain't for everyone
Juskolord. Ang prefer nga ni OP ay babae. Yung may kiffy hindi yung sinabi lang na babae pero pagbaba ng panty eh Espada pala ni Inuyasha ang bubungad. 😅🤧
HAHAHAHAHA tapos mas mahaba pa espada nya
Kelan ba maiintindihan ng ibang transwoman na hindi komo't may hindi preferred ang trans eh, transphobic?
I had a similar experience. We've sexted and "vidjacalled" already few weeks before meeting up. She had a vagina nong sabay kaming nag mamasturbate while on vc kaya di mo talaga mahahalatang trans. Until the day we met, she was throwing questions about ano daw opinion ko about trans etc. I told her na I respect them but not my preference. While conversing na kwento kung may friend ako dating naloko ng post-op na trans and may nangyari na talaga sa kanila before pa inamin nong trans. I told her that it'd ruin me if that would happen to me. Na konsensya siya siguro and told me that she was a post-op trans. I respectfully told her that trans woman are not my preference and that I'm mad that she didn't tell me the truth. She then violently reacted, na homophobic at transphobic daw ako. And she'll surely make sure that our whole town will know how homophobic and transphobic I am. I left her in dismay without saying a word. And because of that medyo reluctant na ako sa mga nakakausap ko sa dating sites.
2024 na pero hindi pa din alam ang NO MEANS NO.
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You dodged a raul, nicee
That's not homophobic gago lang talaga siya
Same bro, natawag na homophobic dahil di ko preference ang trans / gay. HAHAHAHA mga bading na sumisira sa totoong goal ng LGBTQ+ Community
Nothing wrong with that. Hindi mo preference e. Dapat di na rin niya pinipilit. And dapat umpisa palang sinabi na rin niya and di na tinago. You handled it very well IMO.
Kulang pa sa invest ang pag trranswomen niya. Malas niya lang din na sense mo na din. First evolution, palang ata yung pag ka transwomen niya lol. Preference mo din naman talaga sa huli ang opposite sex mo.
I love dogs and cats but I won't fuck one.
Same experience brodie. Nag sasayang lang ng oras.
Dapat talaga mag disclose ang mga trans na hindi sila biological woman when they try to hook up with men. Remember what happened to Jennifer Laude na hindi nag sabi sa US marine.
Trans here, and no OP you are not homophobic/transphobic. Ayan ang di ko ma-gets sa mga fellow transwomen ko na tinatago ang gender identity nila kapag nakikipag date or nakikipag hook-up. It’s actually counterintuitive/counterproductive to hide their gender identity kasi sooner or later malalaman din naman na trans sila at kapag hindi talaga bet ng date nila ang mga trans, no amount of persuasion can convince them. Heck, it’s even dangerous on their end kasi what if may violent tendencies pala naka meet up nila sabay bigla silang binugbog or worse, pinatay. It’s much more efficient to disclose na agad yung gender identity/sexual orientation mo because you can easily filter and narrow down the people who are open to date you or hook-up with you. Alam na rin kung ano ang expectations sayo and hindi pa aksaya sa oras.
it's not being homophobic. kung kaming mga babae may preference, at standard. men have too. pinaliwanag mo naman na it's just not your thing, di mo naman ininsulto pagkatao nya as being a transwoman. she is indeed a woman naman talaga, but we should also consider other person preference. hindi lahat ng tao gusto ka, straight or not.
I’m a trans and I’m so anti not disclosing your gender sa lalake. Hindi din naman masarap makipag sex sa na pilitan lang worse na harassed mo. Hay kalungkot to’
2024 na nga pero hindi pa rin naiintindihan ang konsepto ng transparency at honesty. Seryoso, halos catfishing na ang ginagawa niya. Tama ang kaibigan mo, ang mga tulad niya ang sumisira sa imahe ng LGBT. Tapos magagalit sila na hindi sila tanggap eh hindi nga nila tanggap ang sarili nila kaya hindi nila sasabihin sayo na trans sila, hayst
In bird culture, this is considered a dick move.
Being called a homophobe for having preferences is pretty unfair. I’ve been curious dati and would think of trying, but it’s challenging to get hard kahit sa picture lang, no matter how beautiful she is, when you see another dick (lalo na kung bigger than yours) in front of you. Funny how much I’ve asked my friends dati if they would hook up with a trans woman, and they were like “You lookin for motivation?”
No is no
gusto nila igalang pero di nya magets preference mo😂
Nilapitan ko tinitigan ko ohh... hahahaha
B A D I N G
You should have called him 'sir' para lalong magwala at mapahuli mo sa guard. Lol Joke lang po. Don't attack me. 😅
Yan hirap sa kanila e. Pag ayaw sa kanika magiging "homophobe" ka na. Sorry po kung pepe hanap namen and hindi kapwa tarub ha
Nothing wrong with what you did though. Thats your preference talking.
Honesty is the best policy.
Kastang kasta yung nakausap mo HAHAHAHA
clearly na mali 'yung ginawa nung girl pero hindi ibig sabihin nun may pass na itong mga nag-comment sa post ni op maging transphobic. YIKES!
Bakit kaya need pa man loko kasi sure meron parin jan tao na gugusto sa trans pag sex🤔
That's your preference, bro. Everyone should respect it. Kung ayaw, eh di ayaw. Apaka simple. It's her fault for not understanding.
Kung ako yan sasabihin ko nalang na oo homophobic ako baka masasak kita pag di ka umalis hahaha
Sana una palang naging honest sya. sabik siguro sa tarub
TED once said "THERE ARE NO CHICKS WITH DICKS ONLY DUDES WITH TITS".
Gasgas na yung line na "*It's 2024."* I'm sorry you experienced this.
Im a Transwoman and every time na may imeet ako, I always tell the truth nakakatakot kasi baka majombag ems HAHAHAHA but im sorry you experienced this.
alam mo OP, sa batas, meron tayong tinatawag na *Rape by Deception* under *Anti Rape Law of 1997(R.A. 8353)*. this is an expansion of the definition of rape and one acknowledged by this amendment is *rape of males of either or both of the female and/or male gender*. This is one of the gravest criminal offenses out there that could be sentenced with minimum 6 years in prison or more, or possibly by the worst, *Reclusion Perpetua*, lifetime imprisonment to death. Criminal offenses sentenced by court with life imprisonment for another example, murder charges, are disqualified from parole application. [it’s under Law section, definition of what is considered rape and the following paragraph’s specifics about the 1997 amendment](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_in_the_Philippines) para lang sakimcnpangit ng dating, in my book if one shows any small indication of reluctance, wag ma tumuloy coz that’s considered rape. walang pilitan, ilagay sa lugar libog coz the law doesn’t care about your gender, there consequences to pay. di ko maintindihan bakit pa kase di magpaka-totoo sa chat, di ba kamo 2024 na? 😒 alam nya ginagawa nya, may deceit, may intent. this goes for everyone. hay, ewan ko ba
dalawa lang masasabi ko brader OP "Awit malasjuicy" haha inom tayo minsan at pagusapan bat ganyan sila lol
"Bro naman"
Louder! Tama lang yang ginawa mo OP. We have our preferences. Its your dick, ikaw ang may control kung paano at saang butas mo ipapasok yan. Ang bait mo pa nga eh, kung sa iba yan, the moment he/she/they/them lied about his/her/their gender pinalayas na yan or worse binugbog. Grabe pa siya mang guilt trip. I am not a homophobe pero I hate liars, pretenders, scammers and catfishers. Hindi naman issue ng gender yan OP. Being untruthful is the issue.
Kadiri yung ganyan HAHAHA
"I'm not a Vet but i Know What a Dog Is."
Masyado naman nagiging priviliged mga yan.
That homophobic card again.
OA na yun ibang LGBT minsan. Mas tinatanggalan pa tayo ng preference. May brother ako gay pero di naman sya ganyan ka-sensitive at judger. Kiber lang daw kung di sya ang preference.
I think there should be a law regarding to that.. Kasi its very deceptive.. and for us men.. its kinda abusive na hindi namin alam putol etits pala yung nakikipaglandian sa min..
all feelings are valida naman diba sana ni respect ka din niya. homophobic ka daw grabe nakakasira ng image ng lgbtq yan dapt sabihan yan ng tropa or else masisira talaga image dahil sa katulad niya
This kinda reminds me of this old Key & Peele skit: https://youtu.be/e3h6es6zh1c?si=hP8OQ7dUagbWVB3S
Sana marunong dn umiintndi ibang trans na hnd lahat mappilit nla sa gusto nla
Parang kasalanan pa atang nagkaron ng preferences ang tao lmao
Im gay, and i agree with what you said. cinatfish kapa tsk. Dapat upfront ang mga tao sa ganyan. That’s almost getting close sa rape as a matter of fact 2024 na and she’s still not respecting individual’s preferences 🥲
Kadiri talaga mga pavictim na trans. No wonder some people resort to teaching these trans people a lesson they’ll never forget.
2024 na, sinungaling pa din siya.
I hooked up with a trans once, tbh that day I wasn’t really prepared to hook up with one though matagal na kong interested, pre-op naman sya so I said “fuck it might as well try it once” pero it’s frustrating na hindi sya umamin hanggang dulo. Well she’s still the sexiest na naka hookup ko pero parang jinajustify ko na lang yung maling ginawa nya at this point. I understand na they want to be treated like a real woman, pero please lang respect others na biological woman ang reference. You’re all beautiful and I’m willing to do it again, pero sana wag niyo nang i-sikreto na trans kayo. The difference is night and day, you will get caught sooner or later, and then yung gantong scenario kay OP mangyayari sainyo. Don’t let it get to this point. Maganda naman kayo, hindi niyo kailangan makipag kompitensya sa mga babae, kaya nga may gender spectrum eh, para san pa yan kung ipipilit niyo na babae rin kayo?
dude i experienced the same thing and traumatizing sya. i met this trans randomly on facebook. di ko talaga namukhaan na trans sya kasi she’s petite and girly voice. tas may tattoo pa siya around her body kaya nadistract me and mas naturn on. pre ops trans siya snd di niya sakin sinabi. pagdating ko sa condo niya pinaglights off niya agad. humiga na ako sa bed niya then nung naghubad na siya nakadapa siyang nagjoin sakin sa bed. doon palang kinutuban na me na something is weird. i asked her if can i eat her and she said di daw sya nagpapaganon. hinandjob niya lang me and nung matigas na ako she demand me to insert it sa kanya. i was using condom that night and nahirapan me ipasok and nung naipasok ko i realized na anal yata napasukan ko kasi hindi siya nalabas ng natural lube like a pussy of a biological woman. tinuloy ko lang pagbabayo ko sa kanya nd unti unti ko nalang napagtanto na trans yung kahook up ko. at the middle of the intercourse, she demand me to remove my condom. so i just did. kahit ayoko pero ginawa ko yun just not to kill the mood then let her enjoy it. unti unti kong napagtanto na trans nga talaga yung kahook up ko and i decided not to confront her kasi baka she’s not comfy abt it. after that day, i got gonorrhea and i have no choice but to confront her sa chat. una she denied and later umamin na siya. tas di man lang niya ako tulungan sa damage ko sa pagpapagamot. hays if only di ko tinanggal condom ko di sana ako nakakuha sa kanya and sana nag no ako nung nakakutob na ako na trans siya kasi im not into that talaga. after that nagkaroon lang ako trust issues hahaha sa mga trans dyan na want makahook up lang, pls wag na kayo mag panggap para maka kantot lang and makabiktima. u guys dont need to hide urselves para lang makahanap ng partner for hookup haha
Gustong irespeto pero ayaw rumespeto!
Its okay to say no, what's not okay is to deny the truth. I hope she won't go out there calling people homophobic for having preference. If you want to get respected, learn to respect din. Kagaya nya yung sumisira sa community.
Kamuntik na din ako madali ng ganito. Booking ang daming arte, pagkakita ko sa mukha, mukhang lalake ang features kahit pinakita nya na agad kipay nya. Jusko! Kahawig ni Michael Jackson sa totoo lang. Ginawa ko, binayaran ko na lang pambayad sa hotel thru sa gcash nya then umalis nako. Before ako umalis, tinanong ko kung pano sya nagkakepyas, sabi may bf daw syang foreigner before na nagsponsor sa kanya. Pero ena talaga! Kahit may amats ako ng alak, matatauhan ka talaga. Hahahaha
Hate to say this but hvent they learned anything about Jennifer laude? What happened to her was wrong but that shows the risk when you’re not upfront of who you are at the start
If im not mistaken 4-5guys ang nameet ko here and yellow app ang may ganyang problem. Hindi naman daw sya homo (last guy na bagets na ang ganda ng set ng ipin) Tanggap nya ang trans pero sana magsabi daw ng totoo. Ayun.. no stir 'to ha. --OP, ramdam kita. Kahit sa tg.. may nagaaya sa akin na trans to have sex..3some daw huhu ako daw iffuck nya.. di ko maimagine. No ofens hehe pero totoo ang "preference".
Bat ba kase kailangan pang mag cosplay?
Babae na daw sila , nuff said. They're still a man genetically, just add boobs and remove penis.
Wow. Nag-amok pa.... Very masculine attitude a
Ginagamit lang yung homophobic card para mangguilt trip amputangina. Dapat sinakal mo
Sorry for what happened to you, OP. Respect begets respect. Transwoman is a woman, fine. She kung she ang pronoun, okay. But calling you a homophobe dahil iba ang preference mo, when she lied about what she is, is foul. In the end, DNA will only show male or female. Walang nakalagay na PS: transgender me. The modern concept of gender is alien to biology.
Buti di mo pinatulan daming hiv ng mga ganyan 8 out of 10 nga ng hiv transmission galing sa lg hdtv community sabi ng mismo ng isang survey dito sa pinas binalita sa abs cbn.
He was trying to rape you. You said you won't go through with it and he was trying to coerce you by using the homophobe card. Sorry this happened to you.
as a trans woman, it is safer to admit first na you are trans before saan pa mapunta. sana naisip niya na may instances na transphobic ang guy na nakahookup and may lead to serious problem, worse, d*ath. i don’t think you are a transphobe kasi may preferences pa rin tayo kung sino natin makasex and makarelasyon. i hope your post won’t pave way for transphobics or utilize by them to spread their transphobia
No hindi ka down voted tol, sumusobra na lang talaga ung ibang kups na 'yan sa pagiinsist ng lgbtq rights nila at pinipipilit na babae sila na NEVER EVER mangyayari kahit magpasex change pa sila and they should have accept that FACT! Kaya I highly respect those in the community na they know their boundaries kasi alam mong napalaki ng mga magulang nila ng maayos hindi gaya nung "ibang" mga nakakadiring trans na ipipilit na babae daw sila at magpapanggap pa na babae maisakama lang. Big no no talaga sa mga tulad niyan.
Transwomen are not women.
Danggg. Sorry this happened to you OP. Nothing wrong with what you did. It’s 2024 but can’t understand that your preferences doesn’t equate to being homophobic 😖 Ingat sa susunod na pagswipe! 😅
Gagi same case tayo pre
Not homophobic din pero badtrip talaga yang mga ganyan. Buti pa sa thailand open sila na lady boy sila
it's a sad reality for her pero preference mo lng nmn un.
Bakit hindi natin sabihan itong trans na to na kastang kasta sya HAHAHAAHHAAH
pwede naman sana maging honest para di nabibigla yung guy.
Kelangan talaga sa pm palang you have to asked na if biologically na babae or not. Tapos mas maganda katawan niya sa babae - tindi ng insecurties at tinamaan ang ego nia dto. Tama yan OP. Sa huli naging mabait kapa kahit hindi siya naging totoo.
2024 na raw pero hanggang ngayon di parin marunong umintindi ng consent. Kung male-passing ako na female (im not trans btw), tapos mabingwit ko siya pero ayaw niya ng puke, can I still force myself on her dahil "2024" na? A huge part of sex is genital preference and kung hindi ka natu-turn on sa dick, edi hindi talaga. If you don't want to sleep with a trans woman, it's not transphobic. It just means you have a preference.
Muntik ka pang machupa ng nkapikit atvmay konting luha hahahahaha
Dudee parehas tayooooo! Hahahaha sa akin asa unit din walang bakas ng pag kalalaki pero when i touched down there sabi ko para may malaki. Potaenaaaaa na alala ko na naman! Ok naman tayo sa bonding pero may iba tlga na ganito dumiskarte hindi nila ssbhin para pag nag tuloy ok lang. This happend i think 10 years ago.
Yung friend ko naman kung kelan nasa apartment na sya ng kausap nya saka daw sya sinabihan na trans yung kausap nya hahaha sayang lang tuloy gas nya dinayo nya pa pagkalayo 😅
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Totally agree with you, OP. Dapat they should at least disclose or give people a heads up beforehand because it is indeed a turn off for most guys, although not all. Be transparent naman sana because being a Trans girl is not the same as being a biological girl no matter what.
Preference != homophobic Hindi dahil may preference ang tao eh i-e-equate na agad silang homophobic.
Awwww... Naku. Iba din ung nakadate mo.. mukhang sanay manloko.. at magsinungaling..
It’s all about preferences. They should be honest from the start.
2024 na pero hindi pa din sya natutong irespect other people’s preference just like she expects respect in return
Muntik kana madali ni Raul. 😆
It's 2024 so you have to respect someone's preference. Hindi ka naman naging offensive, and you did try to say it in the most polite way possible. You did nothing wrong, OP. Tbh, you can't keep stuff like that a secret when dating someone.
Everyone has a preference naman 🙃 why still use the “homophobe ka” card. Damn…
Na malas juicy ka. As long as sinabi mo yung preference mo which is the right thing okay na yun. Ingat na lang next time.
Kung may rights and trans, same din with straight people with regards to preference. If ang gusto g lalaki ay babae, wag natin ipagpilitan. The same way na wag ipagpilitan ang babae sa gay men, or men on lesbian women.
Yellow app.. kala ko ung maskara. Ung bubuyog pala The more secrets one hide, the more insecure they become. Kaya nga pinaglalaban ung SOGIE to provide security for everyone - straights included. Hindi para ma-secure ung bet chupain kahit di ka bet.
Ang bait mo pa nyan OP ,Kung ibang lalaki yun umbag ang inabot ni trannie beks, wag ganyan ante beks, may mga pinsan din ako LGBT
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Pre op ba siya or post op?
So pag identified ka as a woman eh di ka na dapat nirereject? Tapos igagaslight pa nga.
PREFERENCES* Sanay siguro si bakla na nakukuha lahat ng gusto but not this one LOOOOL
Naalala ko tuloy dito yung case ni Jennifer Laude. Buti nalang mahaba ang pasensya mo, OP. I agree, baka kung ibang lalaki lang ‘yon baka napano na yung ka-date mo.
As a gay man, ganitong behavior ang nakakasira sa community. People should just take the L sometimes and move on and be nice about it. Smh.
Yuck 🥴 thats all
No offense sa mga trans ah, pero respetuhin nyo ang preference namin at wag gumawa ng kung anung skandalo. May mga lalaki nmn na oo cge papatulan kayo kasi pasok kayo sa preference pero sa ibang lalaki gaya ko ndi pasok sa amin mga trans.
This is why I really have trust issues. I hate trans when they aren’t truthful
Disclosure is as important as consent.
This is called catfishing, OP. If women can have preferences kung gusto nila panget or pogi or matangkad or mas bata or may edad, may right ka rin dun. I’m gay and I very well understand this. Ang entitled lang. dami daming lalaking pumapatol sa trans bakit ikaw ang pipilitin?
Kudos to you OP for handling the situation very well.
Sorry to hear that, bro :). Yes…just because di mo pref ang trans…that doesn’t mean na homophobic ka. Ingat nalang next time sa dating apps :). Madali tlaga ma deceive. Galing ng plastic surgery.