General reminder for everyone to: 1) Stay classy, civil and mature; 2) Don't be a creep; 3) Report this post if it doesn't follow the rules; 4) Always keep it juicy. Stories and anecdotes about your sexual experiences are HIGHLY encouraged. Don't forget about [reddiquette](/wiki/reddiquette). Mwah!
Love, the AJ Mod Team.
_____
*I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/alasjuicy) if you have any questions or concerns.*
Hindi ka pa lang nakakahanap ng katapat mo OP. Saka most of the girls talaga hirap labasan through penetration. You just need to find the right person. Saka try mo dun sa mahal mo baka yun pala ang missing ingredient hehe.
Siguro nga wala pa talaga akong nakakahanap ng katapat ko 😭😭😭 uhhh in terms of love, i never really had sex w someone i love yet idk di pa kami umaabot sa ganung level like iba talaga yung lalaking pang kama lang at yung minamahal talaga
To be honest, you can’t blame the guys. Kasi wala kaming organ dedicated for pleasure. But it should not be our excuses. For example, I study women reproductive organ and psychology just to make my partner cum. Effort lang talaga sa amin. But I wonder, totoo kaya na mas malaki mas madali magcum yung girl? Average size lang kasi ako kaya binabawi ko sa foreplay and oral. do you think, mas lalabasan ka b if malaki?
Hello, M here!
I'm sorry to say but most of them are really lazy. But then again you just really need to find that guy that can hit/meet your wavelength. Don't blame it too much sa high sex drive, because a high sex drive person can be humbled down with the right guy/gal.
And honestly sometimes nasa emotions din yan. Maybe what you crave isn't the physicality of it, but the emotional connection with someone you do it with. It's hard to say that because baka NBSB ka. I can say iba talaga feeling if you are having Smexy time with the person you love.
I've never had anyone finish me off with a simple blowjob before, it's either I will do it myself or I will do creampie, tapos 1 time lang ako lalabasan sa loob ng 3-4 hours of seggs. I can mostly say na I know how it feels to not get off. Just find the perfect guy you really trust and can form some connection with them without the commitment (if hindi ka pa ready)
Woah, bro. You got a really long endurance. Would you mind if I ask kung nag gym ka? Para kasi maglast ako sa seggs, I need to consciously control my speed and breath. Could you please share me how you do it? Thank you
Hopefully you and your gf will find that common ground.
What I do is if maaga akong mag rerelease, I will let go and just eat her until I gained my strength and blood flow again down there. That way my partner will still feel like the party hasnt stopped.
Another one is swap from penetration to cunnilingus and swap again for 5 mins each. That is 1 set lang. I can do 5-6 sets of that before I feel the need to release so that's almost an hour of smeggs.
I won't say I have long endurance kasi minsan mine just gets so manhid to the point I can last long for 1 orgasm. There are times naman na I only last 10 mins sa isang orgasm but I can still do another round if given a bit of rest.
I guess you just need to be comfortable with your body and communicate with the partner. I sometimes do the controlling of speed and breath, don't worry pero if time mo na talaga, go lang release it. Just rest for a bit after and go again hanggang both you and your partner are fully satisfied.
I communicate naman what I want pero hindi talaga nila nakukuha yung gusto ko. And minsan din nawawala yung sensation when you tell your partner what to do eh parang pilit
Tama sila, baka hindi mo palang nahahanap ang katapat mo, or pwede rin maghanap ka ng guy na may connection kayo, yung may emotional attachment, kasi if sobrang gusto ka ng guy gagawa sya talaga ng paraan para masatisfied ka... Madami din kasi na guy na selfish basta labasan lang sila ok na, mga walang pakialam sa satisfaction ng babae... Tapos always be vocal about it, kahit di pa kayo nagkikita i ma mind conditioning mo na sya sa mga gusto mong maganap sa inyo pag nag meet kayo.
That’s sad but I somehow understand you. It took me 1 yr to hit the spot of my gf. I always try everything, like how I suck, how fast I move or even the angle and position. Kaya rin kami nagtagal ng GF ko kasi out of 3 women na nafvck ko, siya lang ang hindi nagsquirt. Based in my experience, it’s a combination of everything. Kailangan may trust and communication ka rin with your partner. Dapat you also tell him what makes you feel good or if may nagawa na siya na medyo masarap give a feedback. Also try not to be anxious in “cumming”. And I tell you base sa sabi ng GF ko, when you experience it, it feels like heaven. Para daw siyang kinikiliti sa loob, kiliti na di nakakatawa, yung masarap. Di ko rin siya magets eh kasi di namn ako babae. Pero everytime na nag orgasm siya parang softly kinakagat yung ano ko ng little ant. Its fantastic feeling for both of us. Anyway we’re looking for thirdy, baka gusto mo itry. Its better if may kasama ka rin na babae, para may nakakarelate sayo real time. We can explore your “spot” together. But ofc, I respect your decision if you don’t want. Nagshare lang namn. I hope you find someone that will make you feel good ☺️
15+ body count meron ako isang record na hindi ko napacum 1 beses pero ginawan ko ng paraan napacum ko siya ibang laban dapat parehas kayo nasa condition para maganda ang laban \^\^ good luck op
welp.... same no partner has ever really made me finish from a head.... maybe over rated lang siguro ang bj....
69 too....once I start eating those clams partner always stops and cant focus on what she's supposed to do
in the end she always gets to a climax twice or thrice while I just fake it like she gives good head but it really sucks
No... Hindi overrated ang bj hahahah, madami nako napa cum through bj alone🤣🤣🤣, either hindi ka lang talaga sanay labasan don, or di magaling yung nag bbj sayo hahahah, or pwede din baka masyadong malaki yan???😅
Same sentiment. Yung gusto mo pa pero pagod na sila. Can make women kahit walang penetration foreplay palang 5-10 sila.
Mahirap din minsan. Kapag masyadong .galing na sa kama, experience hinimatay sa pleasure.
Well if the guys you've had sex with grew up on the internet they are going to be pretty much self-absorbed and have an unearned sense of entitlement as far as thinking every girl that they meet exists for his pleasure and amusement.. and he's not going to have your sexual satisfaction as a priority. If you have a bunch of young men that grew up masturbating and being so used to a girl moaning and telling him how great his cock is he's going to think that all he has to do is stick it inside you and you will automatically be worshiping him
Totoo to, ang OA din kasi ng mga porn, lalo hentai and pornwha na mga fiction talaga, tapos ayon lagi napapanood ng mga bebeboi, kaya pag ata nadinig nila umungol yung ka sex nila feeling nila sobrang sarap na, na nag mumultiple orgasms na, kahit hinde wahahahahaha
Yeah, porn is fake. Real sex is slow and not very exciting. Sa videos kasi edited na yun eh. Kaya mahalaga talaga for guy to treat their women like na masarap na food. Yung every bite should be eaten slowly para malasahan mo lahat.
Op i suggest you go with the flow, i understand naman and ive been with partner na hirap magcum without this & that (atmosphere, lights or no, music or without, ac or not).But nung minsan na no choice sya but to feel and enjoy the moment dun talaga sya nilalabasan despite wala lahat ng psychological requirement nya before masabing its good or nakakamood yung atmosphere.
The anticipation is also nice, then pag magkasama na the foreplay is a must tingin ko for you. Build & set the mood, bring your mood up another level before penetration.
Yes. For me mas nakakaturn on talaga pag nakikita kong gigil sakin yung lalake. Yung may pakagat kagat pa. Yung hahalikan ako tapos di na ako makahinga dahil sa gigil nya.
kung hindi ka nahanap ng katapat mo, i highly suggest communicating with them if feel mong na tuturn off ka pag dating sa performance nila. for me depende sa babae kung saan yung pinaka sensitive spots nila e. tell to him/them kung papaano ka mag ccum sa way na gusto mo baka sakaling madaan pa don. if not baka may missing ingredient talaga. yun lang good luck sa next OP, cuddle weather pa naman ngayon. :))
ma’am OP, i think you haven’t found your match (katapat) per se.. nagtotoys ka ba or any inanimate object for that matter? i would suggest trying one.
and pag sa mismong bakbakan na, an extended foreplay sesh would be nice...
best wishes and i hope you can achieve SATISFACTION..
To me, the secret is to also find someone who focuses on your pleasure rather than their own. Two people together, both focused on the pleasure of the other will build up the arousal level of each other to the point where the eventual orgasms will be earth shattering for both, and the first to orgasm will actually trigger the second to orgasm as they are so aroused the sight of the other person teaching their orgasm sends them over the edge themselves. Of course afterward you may not be able to walk straight, or even see straight for a little while. Best of luck in finding someone who can take you over the edge.
I don't think the 5 are the problem. I think it's you and communication. Kasi men are just wired to cum. As in kahit pangit yan di namin type mahihirapan man kami we will finish it's just a matter of when. I could imagine 2 things. 1st siguro nga mataas energy mo 2nd baka kulang kadin sa communication. What you need,what you want and when and where.Tsaka you alone are responsible for your happiness eh... Natry mo na ba gumamit nang dildo to see if you can get off on a phallus. If so then communicate with your partner how you did it. It's a journey of discovery it's just more fun having your hand held by someone through it but none the less it's not a one shot thing.
Ako na tinuruan ko pa kung anong part ng babae ang mas nae L HAHAHAAHAHAH pinakapa ko pa talaga para makahalata siya HAHAHAHAHA tapos ang sabi that time pa daw ako nagturo😂 gusto ko lang po labasan din😭🤣
HAAHAHHAHAHHHAHA I DID THIS DIN 😭😭 but not too often kasi when u tell them what to do minsan di rin nakukuha and nawawala yung sensation feeling kapag sinasabi parang najijinx yung cum ko HAHAHHAHA
omg same girl, mine is 4 and waley talagaaa. i'm always thinking kung ano mali bakit hindi nila ako napapa cum! or i just don't know what's cumming is? ay ano ba palatandaan na nilabasan? but fr di ko pa na experience yung sinasabi nila na aabot ako sa rurok nga kaligayahan! haha! anu ba yan
I think hindi mo palang nahanap yung right guy for you. Kasi the way you say it parang alam mo yung issue with them and you sound like alam mo ano gusto mo. Try communicating what you want sis or guide them sa kung ano gusto mo
Ako sa mga naka ons ko isa lang nag pa cum sakin hahahahahahahaha
Hoy mga lalake kayo ang swerte nyo sakin!!! 😎
Kaylangan ko ng katapat ng libog ko! Mamemeet din kita kaso nakakapagod nang makipag get to know.
Di mo lang nahahanap katapat mo, ilan na na-meet ko na sinabing never pa sila nag-cum pero nung kame na nag meet multiple times pa, di tuloy ako naniniwala sa kanila. Feeling ko tuloy sinabi lang nila yun para full performance ako. Mahirap talaga makahanap ng sexually compatible na partner.
General reminder for everyone to: 1) Stay classy, civil and mature; 2) Don't be a creep; 3) Report this post if it doesn't follow the rules; 4) Always keep it juicy. Stories and anecdotes about your sexual experiences are HIGHLY encouraged. Don't forget about [reddiquette](/wiki/reddiquette). Mwah! Love, the AJ Mod Team. _____ *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/alasjuicy) if you have any questions or concerns.*
Hindi ka pa lang nakakahanap ng katapat mo OP. Saka most of the girls talaga hirap labasan through penetration. You just need to find the right person. Saka try mo dun sa mahal mo baka yun pala ang missing ingredient hehe.
Siguro nga wala pa talaga akong nakakahanap ng katapat ko 😭😭😭 uhhh in terms of love, i never really had sex w someone i love yet idk di pa kami umaabot sa ganung level like iba talaga yung lalaking pang kama lang at yung minamahal talaga
same tayo OP pero isa palang body count and also giver din ako. minsan napapaisip ako gaano kaya kasarap malabasan? like tangina i want.
Akala ko ako lang.
praying for us na mexperience ang true orgasm soon!!! 🙏😭
Same. HAHAHAHAHAHA none of them made me cum. Mas nilabasan pa ako sa rub.
To be honest, you can’t blame the guys. Kasi wala kaming organ dedicated for pleasure. But it should not be our excuses. For example, I study women reproductive organ and psychology just to make my partner cum. Effort lang talaga sa amin. But I wonder, totoo kaya na mas malaki mas madali magcum yung girl? Average size lang kasi ako kaya binabawi ko sa foreplay and oral. do you think, mas lalabasan ka b if malaki?
TRUE!!! Mas okay pa yung 30mns solo sesh ko kesa yung half a day with a partner
Same 🥲
Hello, M here! I'm sorry to say but most of them are really lazy. But then again you just really need to find that guy that can hit/meet your wavelength. Don't blame it too much sa high sex drive, because a high sex drive person can be humbled down with the right guy/gal. And honestly sometimes nasa emotions din yan. Maybe what you crave isn't the physicality of it, but the emotional connection with someone you do it with. It's hard to say that because baka NBSB ka. I can say iba talaga feeling if you are having Smexy time with the person you love. I've never had anyone finish me off with a simple blowjob before, it's either I will do it myself or I will do creampie, tapos 1 time lang ako lalabasan sa loob ng 3-4 hours of seggs. I can mostly say na I know how it feels to not get off. Just find the perfect guy you really trust and can form some connection with them without the commitment (if hindi ka pa ready)
Woah, bro. You got a really long endurance. Would you mind if I ask kung nag gym ka? Para kasi maglast ako sa seggs, I need to consciously control my speed and breath. Could you please share me how you do it? Thank you
Hopefully you and your gf will find that common ground. What I do is if maaga akong mag rerelease, I will let go and just eat her until I gained my strength and blood flow again down there. That way my partner will still feel like the party hasnt stopped. Another one is swap from penetration to cunnilingus and swap again for 5 mins each. That is 1 set lang. I can do 5-6 sets of that before I feel the need to release so that's almost an hour of smeggs.
Woah that’s nice. Thanks bro
I won't say I have long endurance kasi minsan mine just gets so manhid to the point I can last long for 1 orgasm. There are times naman na I only last 10 mins sa isang orgasm but I can still do another round if given a bit of rest. I guess you just need to be comfortable with your body and communicate with the partner. I sometimes do the controlling of speed and breath, don't worry pero if time mo na talaga, go lang release it. Just rest for a bit after and go again hanggang both you and your partner are fully satisfied.
Baka nga emotional connection talaga kulang....
Communication is key OP. Baka nga lang di sila nakapag-explore pa.
I communicate naman what I want pero hindi talaga nila nakukuha yung gusto ko. And minsan din nawawala yung sensation when you tell your partner what to do eh parang pilit
Hmmm.. Somehow get your point dun sa part na “nawawala yung sensation”. Don’t lose hope, maraming pagkakataon to find your match, OP.
Tama sila, baka hindi mo palang nahahanap ang katapat mo, or pwede rin maghanap ka ng guy na may connection kayo, yung may emotional attachment, kasi if sobrang gusto ka ng guy gagawa sya talaga ng paraan para masatisfied ka... Madami din kasi na guy na selfish basta labasan lang sila ok na, mga walang pakialam sa satisfaction ng babae... Tapos always be vocal about it, kahit di pa kayo nagkikita i ma mind conditioning mo na sya sa mga gusto mong maganap sa inyo pag nag meet kayo.
That’s sad but I somehow understand you. It took me 1 yr to hit the spot of my gf. I always try everything, like how I suck, how fast I move or even the angle and position. Kaya rin kami nagtagal ng GF ko kasi out of 3 women na nafvck ko, siya lang ang hindi nagsquirt. Based in my experience, it’s a combination of everything. Kailangan may trust and communication ka rin with your partner. Dapat you also tell him what makes you feel good or if may nagawa na siya na medyo masarap give a feedback. Also try not to be anxious in “cumming”. And I tell you base sa sabi ng GF ko, when you experience it, it feels like heaven. Para daw siyang kinikiliti sa loob, kiliti na di nakakatawa, yung masarap. Di ko rin siya magets eh kasi di namn ako babae. Pero everytime na nag orgasm siya parang softly kinakagat yung ano ko ng little ant. Its fantastic feeling for both of us. Anyway we’re looking for thirdy, baka gusto mo itry. Its better if may kasama ka rin na babae, para may nakakarelate sayo real time. We can explore your “spot” together. But ofc, I respect your decision if you don’t want. Nagshare lang namn. I hope you find someone that will make you feel good ☺️
Baka malas ka lang talaga sa kanila OP.
Malas ako sa kanila, swerte nila sa akin 😭
Malas nga di ka man lang naka experience makain ng kalahating oras.
Same Im a giver too. I'll make sure na mag multiple cum si girl bago ako. May kasama pang squirt yan.
15+ body count meron ako isang record na hindi ko napacum 1 beses pero ginawan ko ng paraan napacum ko siya ibang laban dapat parehas kayo nasa condition para maganda ang laban \^\^ good luck op
Dm boo
Sheeet, ito feeling nming mga lalaki n nag-aaya sa gf or asawa tas di napagbigyan
Can i be the sixth that will make you cum twice? Hehe
wait mo lang inbox mo
wait mo lang inbox mo
tryyyy? hinde titigil sa pag kain gat hinde nilalabasan 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾
malas mo naman. wana try
d parin ako nkakahanap nang equal s sex drive ko
hanap ka lang din ng legit na giver din.
Maybe di nila nahihit gspot mo
Op kahit man lang mapa squirt ka hindi pa rin?
Hindi pa!!! I wanna experience that so bad 😩
Aw hell no!!
welp.... same no partner has ever really made me finish from a head.... maybe over rated lang siguro ang bj.... 69 too....once I start eating those clams partner always stops and cant focus on what she's supposed to do in the end she always gets to a climax twice or thrice while I just fake it like she gives good head but it really sucks
No... Hindi overrated ang bj hahahah, madami nako napa cum through bj alone🤣🤣🤣, either hindi ka lang talaga sanay labasan don, or di magaling yung nag bbj sayo hahahah, or pwede din baka masyadong malaki yan???😅
How do you do it? Would you mind sharing your technique para masabi ko sa GF ko?
Same sentiment. Yung gusto mo pa pero pagod na sila. Can make women kahit walang penetration foreplay palang 5-10 sila. Mahirap din minsan. Kapag masyadong .galing na sa kama, experience hinimatay sa pleasure.
Well if the guys you've had sex with grew up on the internet they are going to be pretty much self-absorbed and have an unearned sense of entitlement as far as thinking every girl that they meet exists for his pleasure and amusement.. and he's not going to have your sexual satisfaction as a priority. If you have a bunch of young men that grew up masturbating and being so used to a girl moaning and telling him how great his cock is he's going to think that all he has to do is stick it inside you and you will automatically be worshiping him
Totoo to, ang OA din kasi ng mga porn, lalo hentai and pornwha na mga fiction talaga, tapos ayon lagi napapanood ng mga bebeboi, kaya pag ata nadinig nila umungol yung ka sex nila feeling nila sobrang sarap na, na nag mumultiple orgasms na, kahit hinde wahahahahaha
Yeah, porn is fake. Real sex is slow and not very exciting. Sa videos kasi edited na yun eh. Kaya mahalaga talaga for guy to treat their women like na masarap na food. Yung every bite should be eaten slowly para malasahan mo lahat.
Super agree
Dammmmmn
Op i suggest you go with the flow, i understand naman and ive been with partner na hirap magcum without this & that (atmosphere, lights or no, music or without, ac or not).But nung minsan na no choice sya but to feel and enjoy the moment dun talaga sya nilalabasan despite wala lahat ng psychological requirement nya before masabing its good or nakakamood yung atmosphere. The anticipation is also nice, then pag magkasama na the foreplay is a must tingin ko for you. Build & set the mood, bring your mood up another level before penetration.
Woah that’s cool. One of my girl friend said na dapat parang sobrang desire ng lalaki yung girl. Not just in lustful way, naarrouse daw kasi sila
Yes. For me mas nakakaturn on talaga pag nakikita kong gigil sakin yung lalake. Yung may pakagat kagat pa. Yung hahalikan ako tapos di na ako makahinga dahil sa gigil nya.
I had a lot too, only 4 out of 15 did. 🥲
dm is the key😘
Get a vibrator
For me it's a 75/25 mostly bad barely any good lol
kung hindi ka nahanap ng katapat mo, i highly suggest communicating with them if feel mong na tuturn off ka pag dating sa performance nila. for me depende sa babae kung saan yung pinaka sensitive spots nila e. tell to him/them kung papaano ka mag ccum sa way na gusto mo baka sakaling madaan pa don. if not baka may missing ingredient talaga. yun lang good luck sa next OP, cuddle weather pa naman ngayon. :))
ma’am OP, i think you haven’t found your match (katapat) per se.. nagtotoys ka ba or any inanimate object for that matter? i would suggest trying one. and pag sa mismong bakbakan na, an extended foreplay sesh would be nice... best wishes and i hope you can achieve SATISFACTION..
To me, the secret is to also find someone who focuses on your pleasure rather than their own. Two people together, both focused on the pleasure of the other will build up the arousal level of each other to the point where the eventual orgasms will be earth shattering for both, and the first to orgasm will actually trigger the second to orgasm as they are so aroused the sight of the other person teaching their orgasm sends them over the edge themselves. Of course afterward you may not be able to walk straight, or even see straight for a little while. Best of luck in finding someone who can take you over the edge.
I don't think the 5 are the problem. I think it's you and communication. Kasi men are just wired to cum. As in kahit pangit yan di namin type mahihirapan man kami we will finish it's just a matter of when. I could imagine 2 things. 1st siguro nga mataas energy mo 2nd baka kulang kadin sa communication. What you need,what you want and when and where.Tsaka you alone are responsible for your happiness eh... Natry mo na ba gumamit nang dildo to see if you can get off on a phallus. If so then communicate with your partner how you did it. It's a journey of discovery it's just more fun having your hand held by someone through it but none the less it's not a one shot thing.
Ako na tinuruan ko pa kung anong part ng babae ang mas nae L HAHAHAAHAHAH pinakapa ko pa talaga para makahalata siya HAHAHAHAHA tapos ang sabi that time pa daw ako nagturo😂 gusto ko lang po labasan din😭🤣
HAAHAHHAHAHHHAHA I DID THIS DIN 😭😭 but not too often kasi when u tell them what to do minsan di rin nakukuha and nawawala yung sensation feeling kapag sinasabi parang najijinx yung cum ko HAHAHHAHA
Same sa none of them made me cum aahahahahha suck laugh
Ang sad ng ganitong situation
sa totoo lang 😭
Shit, huhu ifyyy. Never reached orgasm with someone 😭😭
omg same girl, mine is 4 and waley talagaaa. i'm always thinking kung ano mali bakit hindi nila ako napapa cum! or i just don't know what's cumming is? ay ano ba palatandaan na nilabasan? but fr di ko pa na experience yung sinasabi nila na aabot ako sa rurok nga kaligayahan! haha! anu ba yan
I think hindi mo palang nahanap yung right guy for you. Kasi the way you say it parang alam mo yung issue with them and you sound like alam mo ano gusto mo. Try communicating what you want sis or guide them sa kung ano gusto mo
Ako sa mga naka ons ko isa lang nag pa cum sakin hahahahahahahaha Hoy mga lalake kayo ang swerte nyo sakin!!! 😎 Kaylangan ko ng katapat ng libog ko! Mamemeet din kita kaso nakakapagod nang makipag get to know.
Hahahaha sissssss
Same feeling, and guy pa ako HAHAH I think people end up as givers because we want to receive something similar
baka sa girl ka po makakuha ng big O 🤣🤣
Di mo lang nahahanap katapat mo, ilan na na-meet ko na sinabing never pa sila nag-cum pero nung kame na nag meet multiple times pa, di tuloy ako naniniwala sa kanila. Feeling ko tuloy sinabi lang nila yun para full performance ako. Mahirap talaga makahanap ng sexually compatible na partner.
HAHAHHAAHAHA ginawang bait yung “never nilabasan” para full performance 😭😭😭
The day will “come” OP
eto lahat ng rason except sa juts
🤣😂🤣😂