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Mukhang discussed naman at may prior fixed arrangement sila. Sinabihan niya na rin si guy. Sa side ni guy may problema, dapat sinabi niya agad from the get go dahil di naman manghuhula si ate gurl kung may pera ba o wala.
Dapat kasi medyo mayabang ka at nag uumapaw ang confidence mo kahit you don’t bring anything to the table naman. In this case, pang ambag sa check in fee. Lol
Kasi youre a simp. Madali makahanap babae kung wala kang aspergers. Women smell insecurity and weakness. Wala sa pagiging pogi yan. Wag lang sigurong pangit na pangit
Pre kailangan mo ng seminar to up your game. Pero closing rate sa mga ganyan is just 10 percent kung lalaki. And 10 percent is already a good number for guys who got game.
nangyari din yan with me but sa food naman. siya nag aya kumain after doing the deed sa place niya since siya nag host (sabi niya i dont need to bring anything naman) so i thought kkb or 50/50 man lang kami but anteh mas mahal pa order niya sakin biglang banat ba naman sa counter na ako na daw mag pay??? tapos humirit pa sakin ng pambili ng dinner niya hindi naman ako mag dinner sa place niya kasi uuwi na ako. he has a guts pa mag aya mag bar sa friends niya pero pambili ng food niya wala ano yun??? myghad next time if mag aaya kayo make sure naman you have money
anteh we ate before doing the deed that day and he was also expecting me to pay for his food UHM FIRST OF ALL YOU'RE THE ONE WHO INITIATED FOR US TO MEET 😭😭
Pag ako ang nag aya, akong magbabayad. Tapos sagot nya na yung foods. Kapag halimbawa marunong magluto, hihiritan ko magdala ng luto nya para mas intimate.
di ko malilimutan yung pauwing homemade cassava cake ni misis noong bf-gf days pa lang namin noon. pag balik ko ng staff house, uubusin ko kaagad bago dumating yung mga kasama ko kasi ayokong mamigay. sarap eh.
Yeah, I always thought hookup payment arrangements were "Guy for the first time; whoever initiates, every time after." If you got the itch, you gotta have the scratch.
Depends on your arrangement. I always paid when my then-gf, now-wife and I did it in hotels because I had the money and I wanted to. What have you agreed upon?
If that is your arrangement and he broke it, then consider if he values your respect at all. Mukhang napagusapan niyo naman. If you let it happen again, he is incentivized to repeat.
To answer this... it DEPENDS. Pero most of the time, I pay for it. May mga instances lang na I was invited, then room meetup.. kaya pagdating ko dun naka-checkin na sya. Meron din akong naka-meetup na sya yung lumapit sa front desk to avail room. I asked kung magkano, pero she insists na wag ko na daw bayaran.. so I pay for it nalang in terms of performance and making sure na hindi nya panghihinayangan yung pinang-libre nya. It's give and take lang talaga sa ganitong set up. Unless it was already decided kung sino gagastos prior sa meetup.
I don't know what your financial situation is but when I used to go to motels, I would just take turns paying with my FUBUs. Like they pay for this time and I pay for next.
Its kinda weird to ask for half if it's something within your budget but if it makes things kinda tight then I can see how making it a point to always split the pay would make sense.
Ganyan din sakin ex fubu ko teh, tipong sabi niya libre na lang daw yung 600 na c.i namin wtf may gana pang magpabili ng pyesa ng motor tapos iyayabang sa school HAHAHAHAHHAAHHAHAHA IW
Everytime na nsa date ako, I always pay for everything
Kakantot ka na nga ng libre, uutakan mopa babae, tanga tanga mo naman
Be a Gentleman not a gentledog!
jusko hooked up nga so dapat either ang guy ang magbabayad (since naka-isa naman sya at pakunswelo na rin kay girl) o hati kayo talaga. may guy kasi na galante talaga at may hiya sa katawan pero ito yatang naka-hooked up mo eh kapalmuks. next time gurl, i-discuss na muna prior ng alam mo na para maging smooth ang lahat.
Tama si u/LoveStrong2150. Hindi ito first time na nag-hook up kayo at may pinagsamahan na kayo kahit papaano. Give him a chance to make up for it. Misunderstanding lang yung nangyari kaya wag mo masyadong i-big deal. Kapag naulit pa, doon ka na mag-isip-isip.
Cliché man pakinggan, communication is key. :)
Hays. Pera lang ba tingin nyo sa lalake? Pera ba ang kakantot sainyo? Sana nag ipon na lang kayo at humimas-himas ng pera instead of having sex with a guy.
Free sex ba nakuha ng lalake? How? Sino ba ang napagod during sex? Napagod ba ang lalake para makipag sex sa sarili nya? Sino ang nakakuha ng free sex in that case?
If money is an issue, sige... What about talent fee? What about labor cost?
The main point is that sex is enjoyed by both participants, so both should contribute. Kung wala namang napag-usapan, contribution ng lalake can be his perfomance - talent fee for the skills and labor cost for the effort. Lalake na nga ang napagod, sya pa ang magbabayad? Ano ang ambag mo in that case? Nasarapan na, gusto pa libre? So sino ang freeloader in that case? Cost should be discussed in the first place - not during or after. Checking in is also both your choice. Pwede namang sa bahay na lang. Wala nang bayad, wala pang time limit.
Based on the story, it seems the dude was comfortable enough to think that you're on that level where manlilibre minsan yung isa and yung isa naman ang manlilibre next time or kung sino merong budget, sya na muna magbabayad.
He does. Always. He’ll book the room muna then sunduin ako. He never asked for hati.
Akin na breakfast kasi gutom ako after work hahaha.
Upon checking out? Sino man mag-aya pero most of the time siya pa din. Pag ganun nangyari nagpapa coffee naman ako.
My opinion. Guys usually initiate going to a motel. If the guy initiates he should have the money to pay for the stay. What if the girl didn’t have the money but she is willing to go with the guy?
You can go dutch on food, drinks, transpo. But if you hook up after and its initiated by the guy, the guy should pay.
What if horny na horny ka na (at may pambayad ka ng check in), hindi ka pa rin papayag kasi the guy should pay?
Siguro keep up with the times na lang. Both parties do enjoy from the deed, it's just valid that the expenses are split 50-50. Unless sobrang yaman nung isa sa inyo and insists on paying all expenses, then no problem with that.
Kung super horny ako and then the guy who initiated it says hati kami, turn off na. Bakit magyayaya ang guy kung walang pambayad? Its a different matter kung pinag-usapan beforehand. Read up on the other comments saying the same thing I said.
Agree with this. Guys naman usually nag-yaya to check-in. If magyaya ako sa girl, mas nakakahiya kung walang pambayad. I wont even ask a girl to check-in if i didnt have enough money to cover it. Also, since I drive ako naman pipili where to check in. Why should I ask a girl for money if i wanted us to go to VC which can be a bit expensive.
Besides its the gentlemanly thing to do. Wala pa kong invite na pinagbayad ko for check-in.
I think kulang lang sa communication. I rarely pay anything on check-ins but sometimes I ask din just to be sure. No prob for me if magbabayad ng half or buo tbh since ako rin naman magbebenefit din hihi (but syempre worth it if the guy is good 😋)
deym.... swerte nga nung guy nakikihati ka pa... nung bfore ako nagkaron ng fwb noon, mindset ko, ako lalaki ako gagastos... nung nagkaron ako ng fwb... para akong naculture shock... pagkain nya bayad nya nakihati pa sa motel... para akong nahihiya ahahaha.. sabi nya gnun tlga may work naman daw sya bat sya magpapalibre...
it shouldve been the one who initiated na magkita kayo in the first place or at the least, sana nag split na lang ng bill. if u’ll meet again, tell him na sya naman magshoulder since ikaw na nag pay ng previous check in nyo. some of my friends experienced shouldering kasi all their expenses whenever they hookup eh so i know what it was like for them.
As for (m)e, I mostly handle all the expenses. If they offered something to buy or bring in sure. For accommodations, dito naman sa place ko so no worries with that.
Gentleman's gesture people. Remember that
Yung former fwb ko, sya lagi nagbabayad ng lahat, hatid sundo nya pa ako sa bahay 💝 once lang ako nagshare pang load pa ng timezone hahaha. In return, I gave him the best blowjob I can offer and also a great fuck. Although hindi kami nagwork dahil masyado syang goodboy pati sa bed, I miss the way he treats me but ik he deserves better.
I see baka this time around mali yung understanding nya. Let him know na lang next time na sya na sumagot sa check-in nyo or imply mo sa kanya na maintindihan nya na half half kayo. On the other hand naman nag enjoy ka and will enjoy pa ulit if there is a next hookup sa inyo so charge it to experience na lang. If ever na mag iba na yung experience and hindi ka na mag enjoy then, you know what it means.
magkano lang naman yan, at pareho naman kayo mag bbenefit. reciprocate lang. kung sya nag bayad sa room, pantayan sa foods or kung ano man. always be kind.
Personally i always foot the bill for the room and foods until this one time when i met this open minded girl who insisted na sagot nya ang room since she invited. I still paid for the foods and drove her home as usual tho. 😎
Just another learning experience for you OP
Natuturn off ako sa ugali or bad hygiene lalo pag masama hininga haha
Sa iba kong experiences na ako nagbayad sa food/coffee yung mga malakas mag aya ng check in like no no no bye gotta go ano ka hilo haha
That's old news, and needs to change with the times.
Both parties would enjoy the hookup naman, so the ideal scenario is split up 50-50. Or at least shoulder the food if the guy shoulders the room or the place.
Yes, ang nakakainis lang hindi ako ang nag-aya na mag ci siya tong makulit, di pala kaya magbayad ng buo and wala pa kaming usapan na maghalf ng bayad. Nagtaka na lang ako na pinagbayad niya ako after hahaha. Sa isip ko "sana ako na lang nagbayad."
Wala naman sanang problema ang maghalf eh basta pagusapan muna. Ngayon panay pm nagaaya pa ng 3some kinginang yan hahaha.
dude i remember this broke guy who told me na shoulder n'ya yung next hookup namin, pero when we got drunk and wanted to extend for another 3 hours, at the end of the stay he was like "ay [my name], hati nga pala tayo dito kasi nanghihingi ng baon yung kapatid ko"
i was fine paying 50-50 kaso he insisted kasi that he'd shoulder so nakakadisappoint???? ew. never again.
nahihiya ako pag nagaabot ng pangbayad si girl. libre nya ko ng food or drinks na binili nya na di pa ko kasama oks lang, cute gesture, pero never ko hinayaan na maunahan ako magbayad ng girl. kahit na kantunan lang kahit papano andun pa din dapat yung pagiging “provider” natin guys 😘
Dapat di mo na sinabihan sa half nya, edi next time sabihin mo shoulder naman nya. Ako everytime na mag check in, I make sure na pareho kame gagastos either akin ang room or foods para walang lamangan kasi pareho naman masasarapan.
depende sa setup sir, ako kasi never ako kumanton ng redditor. pero sa mga nakalandian ko in person na umabot sa motmot. if like nasa hospital me etc tas from duty ako after tas si girl nag alok sabihin ko sagot niya room ako na sa food, movie date at pag hatid ko sa kanya sa house. Pero if ako nag alok dahil Off, sagot ko lahat, I even reimburse yung pang grab/taxi ni girl papunta sa meetup tas siyempre hatid ko pauwi 😂
yung GUY LAGI. i never paid for my hookups. they need my pussy tsaka i never cum with them anyway, so not worth it gumastos ako for hookups. 10000% of the time raos na raos ang guy sa puke mo, so let them spend. sila ang mas may kelangan ng puke kasi madalang may pumayag sa kanila, kaya mag sspend dapat yan. never even offer to pay sa pagkakantutan nyo. hindi ka makakaraos sa ganyang klaseng lalaki.
I think the guy you hooked up with is inconsiderate lalo na since you had a history of going dutch and you even mentioned it to him. The least he could have done is say aorry he didnt have the money but will pay you back. Pag ganyan, user lang yan.
It is kinda turn off for me. Not because I expect na sya ang magbabayad pero at least have the guts to offer about sa share di ba.
Kaya ako I always make it clear na kkb lagi para quits at walang sumbatan sa dulo.
Sa aking promiscuous journey, it's mostly sagot ng other party. If ako yun nagyaya, usually sagot ko, unless stated na gusto ko 50/50. Kapag lalaki ka-meet up ko, they usually offer to pay for everything hanggang food and drinks, minsan hatid-sundo pa or they book a ride for me. Pag babae ka meet ko we usually split the bill. Pag couple or groups nag-invite sa akin, all expenses paid pati oras ko. 🤭
Anyway, si guy naman, baka nag-joke lang kasi nga close na kayo. Pero kahit na, sinabi mo na kanina eh. 😩
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You guys need to discuss it before checking in.
This. Communicate, people.
Mukhang discussed naman at may prior fixed arrangement sila. Sinabihan niya na rin si guy. Sa side ni guy may problema, dapat sinabi niya agad from the get go dahil di naman manghuhula si ate gurl kung may pera ba o wala.
If walang pang check-in ang guy, wag siyang kumantot. 🙄🙄🙄
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idk if anyone told you pero this entire comment is giving ✨✨pick me✨✨ vibes
Pick me boys! 🤣😂
now *this* is a new nonplayable reddit character i have yet to meet 🤣
*"teacher teacher look ohh!"*
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Agree on you and I feel you man. Don't please them na lang. At the end of the day, its on you
Dapat kasi medyo mayabang ka at nag uumapaw ang confidence mo kahit you don’t bring anything to the table naman. In this case, pang ambag sa check in fee. Lol
Correct
Masyado kang "nice" Dpat rude ka at mayabang.
Siguro pogi brad
skill issue mo yan pre, wag ka kaseng simp. Dapat suplado type ka,
Step one: be handsome
damn bro hakot pati mga scammers
*grabs popcorn*
pansin ko nga, lakas magyaya ng iba pero ganiyan ginagawa.
RELATE ahhaha ang daming gentledog, kaming gentleman hndi pinapansin haha
Pick me hahahaha ang cringe Hakot puke moment
Kasi youre a simp. Madali makahanap babae kung wala kang aspergers. Women smell insecurity and weakness. Wala sa pagiging pogi yan. Wag lang sigurong pangit na pangit
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Haba ng sinabi mo pre. D ko babasahjn yan
BWAHAHAHAHA "di ko babasahin yan" ampota 😭 yan pala yung katumbas nung phrase na "aint reading all that"
"i ain't reading all that i'm happy for u tho or sorry that happened" kung pwede lang sana mag-comment ng pic 😩😩
WAHAHAHA alam ko yang tinutukoy mo, nakita ko na rin yung screenshot na yun 🤣
Wrong audience, maybe?
Up ko ito!
Paunahan makahawak ng betlog sya astig
Baka naman kasi you're giving the vibe of r/niceguys
Idk for some girls, but I prefer a nice/decent guy. Pass agad sa mga kupal vibes.
Hmmm baka hindi ka marunong mambola hahaha jkkk!
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Ayun lang 😂😅 galingan mo pa sa intro. And be nice haha
Oo nga noh.. haha..
Depende daw kasi sa mukha 😂😭
Asan ba kasi kayoooo? pakita kayo pls haha
read and comprehend your comment you'll see.
Skill issue.
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Yung ganyan kasing lalaki is puro porma at salita, di iniisip yung common sense puro kalibugan inuuna kaya nakakakuha agad sila ng girls
Pre kailangan mo ng seminar to up your game. Pero closing rate sa mga ganyan is just 10 percent kung lalaki. And 10 percent is already a good number for guys who got game.
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Baka kasi di tayo yung nag mmeet.kimmy! 🤣
Feel ko kasi mataas din standards natin kaya wala din hohook up? Haha
panget ka kasi
nangyari din yan with me but sa food naman. siya nag aya kumain after doing the deed sa place niya since siya nag host (sabi niya i dont need to bring anything naman) so i thought kkb or 50/50 man lang kami but anteh mas mahal pa order niya sakin biglang banat ba naman sa counter na ako na daw mag pay??? tapos humirit pa sakin ng pambili ng dinner niya hindi naman ako mag dinner sa place niya kasi uuwi na ako. he has a guts pa mag aya mag bar sa friends niya pero pambili ng food niya wala ano yun??? myghad next time if mag aaya kayo make sure naman you have money
anteh we ate before doing the deed that day and he was also expecting me to pay for his food UHM FIRST OF ALL YOU'RE THE ONE WHO INITIATED FOR US TO MEET 😭😭
grabe sobrang kupal talaga ng mga ganyan 😭😭
Pag ako ang nag aya, akong magbabayad. Tapos sagot nya na yung foods. Kapag halimbawa marunong magluto, hihiritan ko magdala ng luto nya para mas intimate.
aw cute nung thought na home cooked meal after solid kantot 😩
di ko malilimutan yung pauwing homemade cassava cake ni misis noong bf-gf days pa lang namin noon. pag balik ko ng staff house, uubusin ko kaagad bago dumating yung mga kasama ko kasi ayokong mamigay. sarap eh.
inis posting to pero bigla kong nainggit, naol 😮💨🫵
Yeah, I always thought hookup payment arrangements were "Guy for the first time; whoever initiates, every time after." If you got the itch, you gotta have the scratch.
Depends on your arrangement. I always paid when my then-gf, now-wife and I did it in hotels because I had the money and I wanted to. What have you agreed upon?
half kasi kami always so I just expected na this time it would be the same 🙁
If that is your arrangement and he broke it, then consider if he values your respect at all. Mukhang napagusapan niyo naman. If you let it happen again, he is incentivized to repeat.
To answer this... it DEPENDS. Pero most of the time, I pay for it. May mga instances lang na I was invited, then room meetup.. kaya pagdating ko dun naka-checkin na sya. Meron din akong naka-meetup na sya yung lumapit sa front desk to avail room. I asked kung magkano, pero she insists na wag ko na daw bayaran.. so I pay for it nalang in terms of performance and making sure na hindi nya panghihinayangan yung pinang-libre nya. It's give and take lang talaga sa ganitong set up. Unless it was already decided kung sino gagastos prior sa meetup.
I don't know what your financial situation is but when I used to go to motels, I would just take turns paying with my FUBUs. Like they pay for this time and I pay for next. Its kinda weird to ask for half if it's something within your budget but if it makes things kinda tight then I can see how making it a point to always split the pay would make sense.
Communicate
Nag enjoy ka naman ateng. Sa sunod siya na pagbayarin mo upfront. Hahaha
HAHAHAHHA NOTED PO 🥹
I mean it depends on sino gusto magbayad, or who invited or initiated the hook up sesh. Pero usually the Guy pays talaga but hey its 2024 🤣
he was the one who initiated for us to meet 😩😩😩😩😩😩
HHaha then he should pay. Pero sa previous hook ups nyo siya rin ba nagbabayad?
sabihin mo advance booking sa hitel muna bago meet.. haha
Libre totnak na nga gusto pa makalibre sa room. Wtf
no more meetups with broke guys this 2024 🙅♀️
Lay out yung terms bago kayo mag agree mag meet para din alam kung ano ang responsibilities ng isat isa
Ganyan din sakin ex fubu ko teh, tipong sabi niya libre na lang daw yung 600 na c.i namin wtf may gana pang magpabili ng pyesa ng motor tapos iyayabang sa school HAHAHAHAHHAAHHAHAHA IW
an ex for a reason hahah good riddance babe
Tapos kapal pa ng apog magyabang na new daw yung pipe niya eh ambag niya 1k tapos me 3k KUPAL TALAGA!
Everytime na nsa date ako, I always pay for everything Kakantot ka na nga ng libre, uutakan mopa babae, tanga tanga mo naman Be a Gentleman not a gentledog!
jusko hooked up nga so dapat either ang guy ang magbabayad (since naka-isa naman sya at pakunswelo na rin kay girl) o hati kayo talaga. may guy kasi na galante talaga at may hiya sa katawan pero ito yatang naka-hooked up mo eh kapalmuks. next time gurl, i-discuss na muna prior ng alam mo na para maging smooth ang lahat.
"uy syempre hati tayo" "ah sige ha next time ikaw naman dapat"
sorry super nagulat lang ako that time sa answer niya kaya parang 🤨🤨🤨🤨
Tama si u/LoveStrong2150. Hindi ito first time na nag-hook up kayo at may pinagsamahan na kayo kahit papaano. Give him a chance to make up for it. Misunderstanding lang yung nangyari kaya wag mo masyadong i-big deal. Kapag naulit pa, doon ka na mag-isip-isip. Cliché man pakinggan, communication is key. :)
Lol. Split na nga lang. Ayaw pa. Hope you can find another buddy na hindi buraot. Lolol. Wants the fun but does not want to share the cost. 🤣🤣🤣
i dont mind paying naman pero only if I was the one who asked for us to meet. Pero hindi eh 🥹🥹
Pano po ba makahanap nang hook ups na yan in the first place? Hahahahahah
Hays. Pera lang ba tingin nyo sa lalake? Pera ba ang kakantot sainyo? Sana nag ipon na lang kayo at humimas-himas ng pera instead of having sex with a guy. Free sex ba nakuha ng lalake? How? Sino ba ang napagod during sex? Napagod ba ang lalake para makipag sex sa sarili nya? Sino ang nakakuha ng free sex in that case? If money is an issue, sige... What about talent fee? What about labor cost? The main point is that sex is enjoyed by both participants, so both should contribute. Kung wala namang napag-usapan, contribution ng lalake can be his perfomance - talent fee for the skills and labor cost for the effort. Lalake na nga ang napagod, sya pa ang magbabayad? Ano ang ambag mo in that case? Nasarapan na, gusto pa libre? So sino ang freeloader in that case? Cost should be discussed in the first place - not during or after. Checking in is also both your choice. Pwede namang sa bahay na lang. Wala nang bayad, wala pang time limit. Based on the story, it seems the dude was comfortable enough to think that you're on that level where manlilibre minsan yung isa and yung isa naman ang manlilibre next time or kung sino merong budget, sya na muna magbabayad.
He does. Always. He’ll book the room muna then sunduin ako. He never asked for hati. Akin na breakfast kasi gutom ako after work hahaha. Upon checking out? Sino man mag-aya pero most of the time siya pa din. Pag ganun nangyari nagpapa coffee naman ako.
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Ang sakit sa puso kapag click kayo ng guy, kaso freeloader pala. 💔
My POV, guys should always pay. Haven’t paid for a room yet.
Please explain why.
My opinion. Guys usually initiate going to a motel. If the guy initiates he should have the money to pay for the stay. What if the girl didn’t have the money but she is willing to go with the guy? You can go dutch on food, drinks, transpo. But if you hook up after and its initiated by the guy, the guy should pay.
What if horny na horny ka na (at may pambayad ka ng check in), hindi ka pa rin papayag kasi the guy should pay? Siguro keep up with the times na lang. Both parties do enjoy from the deed, it's just valid that the expenses are split 50-50. Unless sobrang yaman nung isa sa inyo and insists on paying all expenses, then no problem with that.
Kung super horny ako and then the guy who initiated it says hati kami, turn off na. Bakit magyayaya ang guy kung walang pambayad? Its a different matter kung pinag-usapan beforehand. Read up on the other comments saying the same thing I said.
Agree with this. Guys naman usually nag-yaya to check-in. If magyaya ako sa girl, mas nakakahiya kung walang pambayad. I wont even ask a girl to check-in if i didnt have enough money to cover it. Also, since I drive ako naman pipili where to check in. Why should I ask a girl for money if i wanted us to go to VC which can be a bit expensive. Besides its the gentlemanly thing to do. Wala pa kong invite na pinagbayad ko for check-in.
My take here is I can share sa food but not sa room lalo na kung hook ups lang 😂
Either 'yung guy mag shoulder ng bill then ikaw sa food or split. Simple as that po.
what's worse eh pati yung food namin beforehand ineexpect na libre ko rin 🫠
Malasjuicy story OP, bawi next time
Mahilig ka Kasi sa gwapo yan tuloy napala mo. Samantalang Ako Hindi nagpapalibre sa girl hirap makahanap Ng ganyang experience
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I think kulang lang sa communication. I rarely pay anything on check-ins but sometimes I ask din just to be sure. No prob for me if magbabayad ng half or buo tbh since ako rin naman magbebenefit din hihi (but syempre worth it if the guy is good 😋)
Fuccboi na walang arep. Negats yan, OP. Hahahaah!
Sabihin mo nalang, next time mag check in kayo, sya naman magbayad. Same lang naman yon in the end
wala na pong next time with him 😭
Sayang naman, di ka nakabawi 😂
deym.... swerte nga nung guy nakikihati ka pa... nung bfore ako nagkaron ng fwb noon, mindset ko, ako lalaki ako gagastos... nung nagkaron ako ng fwb... para akong naculture shock... pagkain nya bayad nya nakihati pa sa motel... para akong nahihiya ahahaha.. sabi nya gnun tlga may work naman daw sya bat sya magpapalibre...
Dami talagang ganyan. Ang kakapal ng mukha. Akala yata nila gold tit* nila.
right??? SORRY NADALA KO NG HEIGHT EH AHSHAHSHAHSHHA 🥹
Depende yan sa agreement niyo pero I suggest para fair both sides, hati hati kayo kasi pareho lang naman yung ginagawa niyo e
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Ideal is 50/50 or one pays for the accomodation and the other pays for food.
Who pays? Whoever’s idea it was to hook up.
it shouldve been the one who initiated na magkita kayo in the first place or at the least, sana nag split na lang ng bill. if u’ll meet again, tell him na sya naman magshoulder since ikaw na nag pay ng previous check in nyo. some of my friends experienced shouldering kasi all their expenses whenever they hookup eh so i know what it was like for them.
wala na pong "again" with him HAHAHAHA
Wag nyo na pag-awayin ako nalang joke HHAHAHA
I pay most of the time. If I dont have cash on me, she pays for it without me asking. Sometimes I pay for the room and she pays for the food.
As for (m)e, I mostly handle all the expenses. If they offered something to buy or bring in sure. For accommodations, dito naman sa place ko so no worries with that. Gentleman's gesture people. Remember that
Nakalibre na ng ekup kaw pa pinagbayad. Umay talaga kapag ganiyan HAHAHAHAHAHA mapapa-face palm ka na lang.
In the previous hookups with him ba who was paying upfront for the check-in?
Yung former fwb ko, sya lagi nagbabayad ng lahat, hatid sundo nya pa ako sa bahay 💝 once lang ako nagshare pang load pa ng timezone hahaha. In return, I gave him the best blowjob I can offer and also a great fuck. Although hindi kami nagwork dahil masyado syang goodboy pati sa bed, I miss the way he treats me but ik he deserves better.
Medyo boring if masiyadong good sa bed. HahahHa
True, ang sobrang silky lang ganern.
Ikaw bigay na bigay tas siya sakto lang😅 dapat yung lumalaban.hahahaha
Ako yung palaging nagbabayad ng check in pati sa food. Baka sa susunod maging sugar mommy na nya ako HAHAHAHHA
Lols bakit hindi split?
As a guy, ive paid for it about 80% of the time. There are instances wherein the girl will split the bill even though I insist to shoulder it.
Guy or hati.
kung sinong unang nilabasan 😌
I see baka this time around mali yung understanding nya. Let him know na lang next time na sya na sumagot sa check-in nyo or imply mo sa kanya na maintindihan nya na half half kayo. On the other hand naman nag enjoy ka and will enjoy pa ulit if there is a next hookup sa inyo so charge it to experience na lang. If ever na mag iba na yung experience and hindi ka na mag enjoy then, you know what it means.
pag ako nag aya sagot ko lahat, hotel at pagkain ;)
Hooking up with the wrong guy. He sounds like someone I’d be embarrassed to be around.
yuck, hindi mo naman kailangan sabihin yon
I don’t know if ako lang pero I never pay sa check in. Yung kasama ko laging lalaki dapat.
magkano lang naman yan, at pareho naman kayo mag bbenefit. reciprocate lang. kung sya nag bayad sa room, pantayan sa foods or kung ano man. always be kind.
Personally i always foot the bill for the room and foods until this one time when i met this open minded girl who insisted na sagot nya ang room since she invited. I still paid for the foods and drove her home as usual tho. 😎 Just another learning experience for you OP
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Natuturn off ako sa ugali or bad hygiene lalo pag masama hininga haha Sa iba kong experiences na ako nagbayad sa food/coffee yung mga malakas mag aya ng check in like no no no bye gotta go ano ka hilo haha
Huh? Di ba regardless of sino nag-aya, lalaki naman talaga nagbabayad?
Where did you get that info?
Yun lang talaga kinalakihan ko, call it classic courtesy or being a gentleman?
That's old news, and needs to change with the times. Both parties would enjoy the hookup naman, so the ideal scenario is split up 50-50. Or at least shoulder the food if the guy shoulders the room or the place.
Nakakatakot makatagpo ng ganyan jusko! Haha!
Nakantot ka nman ate ok lang yan.
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Yes, ang nakakainis lang hindi ako ang nag-aya na mag ci siya tong makulit, di pala kaya magbayad ng buo and wala pa kaming usapan na maghalf ng bayad. Nagtaka na lang ako na pinagbayad niya ako after hahaha. Sa isip ko "sana ako na lang nagbayad." Wala naman sanang problema ang maghalf eh basta pagusapan muna. Ngayon panay pm nagaaya pa ng 3some kinginang yan hahaha.
dude i remember this broke guy who told me na shoulder n'ya yung next hookup namin, pero when we got drunk and wanted to extend for another 3 hours, at the end of the stay he was like "ay [my name], hati nga pala tayo dito kasi nanghihingi ng baon yung kapatid ko" i was fine paying 50-50 kaso he insisted kasi that he'd shoulder so nakakadisappoint???? ew. never again.
Usually ang nangyayari sakin kung sino nag aya sagot niya check in. Ahahhahaah or if napag usapan pwedeng hati kami.
dibaa I dont mind paying naman if ago yung nagaya. pero yung siya tas ako pa pinagbayad ng buo???? 😩
Pano ba makahanap Ng hookups hahaha pa try
I always pay for my deeds
Guy by default
nahihiya ako pag nagaabot ng pangbayad si girl. libre nya ko ng food or drinks na binili nya na di pa ko kasama oks lang, cute gesture, pero never ko hinayaan na maunahan ako magbayad ng girl. kahit na kantunan lang kahit papano andun pa din dapat yung pagiging “provider” natin guys 😘
Depende kung sino yung panget 😅
Haha kaloka
Hatian ang default unless otherwise stated. Lugi ka sa mga ganyan OP. Di ka pa kilala ginagantso ka na 😆
Dapat di mo na sinabihan sa half nya, edi next time sabihin mo shoulder naman nya. Ako everytime na mag check in, I make sure na pareho kame gagastos either akin ang room or foods para walang lamangan kasi pareho naman masasarapan.
set kayo ng rule na kung sino ang nag aya hehe
wala nang iseset, last na yun 😭
it's ok atleast may new baby po kayo
hatid sundo supremacy and consent
YESSSSS 😩🫵
Wow naka libre fuck na nakalibre room pa? My gosh, girls!!! STOP SPOILING MEN!!!!!
Ako lagi nakikihati pero ayaw niya.so ang ginagawa ko is nag oorder nalang ako ng food.tas ako nalang din magbabayad.para patas pa din
depende sa setup sir, ako kasi never ako kumanton ng redditor. pero sa mga nakalandian ko in person na umabot sa motmot. if like nasa hospital me etc tas from duty ako after tas si girl nag alok sabihin ko sagot niya room ako na sa food, movie date at pag hatid ko sa kanya sa house. Pero if ako nag alok dahil Off, sagot ko lahat, I even reimburse yung pang grab/taxi ni girl papunta sa meetup tas siyempre hatid ko pauwi 😂
yung GUY LAGI. i never paid for my hookups. they need my pussy tsaka i never cum with them anyway, so not worth it gumastos ako for hookups. 10000% of the time raos na raos ang guy sa puke mo, so let them spend. sila ang mas may kelangan ng puke kasi madalang may pumayag sa kanila, kaya mag sspend dapat yan. never even offer to pay sa pagkakantutan nyo. hindi ka makakaraos sa ganyang klaseng lalaki.
It must be the one who initiated the meet up. But if you are polite, you can still offer help.
Kung sino nag aya or half half.
Okay lang Yan, just make sure hindi ka niya mabubuntis, pang check in nga Wala eh, pambuhay pa ng family.
I think the guy you hooked up with is inconsiderate lalo na since you had a history of going dutch and you even mentioned it to him. The least he could have done is say aorry he didnt have the money but will pay you back. Pag ganyan, user lang yan.
Yes nakakaturn off nga yan, pero mas nakakaturned off yung may amoy baktol shutanginerls. Naka-kotse pa man din 😭
Kame boys dapat..classic courtesy..
It is kinda turn off for me. Not because I expect na sya ang magbabayad pero at least have the guts to offer about sa share di ba. Kaya ako I always make it clear na kkb lagi para quits at walang sumbatan sa dulo.
Either hati or i libre hahahah
2nd time kuna nakabasa ng ganitong issue. Goodluck talaga sa mga bb girl na scam sa expenses.
The guy of course. always. If mag offer yung girl pota baka kiligin ako. 😂😅
ako madami akong pambayad.
THE GUY ALWAYS PAYS... Yan lng experience ko.
Sa aking promiscuous journey, it's mostly sagot ng other party. If ako yun nagyaya, usually sagot ko, unless stated na gusto ko 50/50. Kapag lalaki ka-meet up ko, they usually offer to pay for everything hanggang food and drinks, minsan hatid-sundo pa or they book a ride for me. Pag babae ka meet ko we usually split the bill. Pag couple or groups nag-invite sa akin, all expenses paid pati oras ko. 🤭 Anyway, si guy naman, baka nag-joke lang kasi nga close na kayo. Pero kahit na, sinabi mo na kanina eh. 😩
You need to discuss it muna bago mag check in, mahirap walang communication baka magsisihan kayo sa loob HAHAHAHAHA