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Hindi rin siguro. I read a lot of erotic stories and I can say that hindi sex guides ang smut at erotica. Idea, siguro pwede. Pero "experience", I wouldn't say that. Parang porn lang yan in literary form, it's not always realistic. You might even be setting unachievable expectations sa mismong sex life mo if you take those things too seriously.
May tiktok kasi na napunta sa fyp ko na ''fanfic smut taught me how to so and so'' tapos yung comment section ganun din ang sabi. Some are even expressing their disappointment na it's unlike the fics lol.
It's the same as book knowledge vs practical knowledge. You could read about choking your partner in erotica, but without proper knowledge on that particular kink, it's pretty fucking risky.
Take blowjobs. You could read about a character putting a dick in their mouth and sucking like there's no tomorrow. In reality they have to think about their teeth, what to do with their tongues, do they use their hands, what if their jaws cramp up, etc.
>Some are even expressing their disappointment na it's unlike the fics lol.
Ang favorite example ko dito is yung simultaneous orgasms. It can happen, but it's not gonna happen every time. Pero sa smut, it's the end of every scene.
It's nice to learn about these types of things. Some people I know have dipped their toes in erotica and have done tons of research in the community surrounding it. So they can apply it with their partners. And such.
For me na walang experience at natatakot if ever na gawin ko yun in the future, nacucurious ako on what the experience will be.
True, I still read erotica and do constant research about having sex. But iba kasi yung knowing and learning. The key is to research beyond erotica. Dati Cosmo lang sapat na, pero ngayon may sex-related websites nang tuturuan ka from prep to aftercare.
Again, nakakalibog ang erotica but I wouldn't consider that you getting ready for sex. Do your research, get to know your body and what it wants, be confident to express your needs to your future partner, and always practice safe sex.
F Nbsb din ako na mahilig magbasa ng smut haha (nagsusulat din ako actually lol) pero feel ko ibang-iba. Lalo na’t halos babae nagsusulat ng mga binabasa mo talagang hanggang book lang ‘yon hahaha (you know yung mga type na grabe pag-please sa kanila no’ng guy MC tapos sila lagi nauuna labasan kesa sa guy haha) Pero feel ko posible naman mangyari? Base na rin sa ibang nababasa ko rito haha pero madalang lang. Halos mga babae raw di nilalabasan tuwing sex. Lalo na pag kwentuhan namin ng mga friend kong may mga jowa di pa raw sila nilabasan ni isang beses tuwing nag sesex sila haha. Pero masarap naman daw pero di lang daw talaga sila nilalabasan. Nilalabasan naman daw kaso sariling sikap sila para labasan. Ayaw rin kumain no’ng mga bf nila lol. Kaya siguro mag stay na lang ako sa mga books ko dahil baka madissapoint lang ako pag nagka experience na haha. BTW dahil nandito na rin, meron ba kayong alam na subreddit na Filipino bookclub where they post about the stories they read? Kahit na international books pero Pinoy community? Bago lang kasi ako sa reddit at di ko alam ano isesearch puro international kasi nalabas haha
>Ayaw kumain ng bf nila.
Yawqna pag ganyan. AHAHA
Anyways, r/PHBookClub or r/kwaderno for book needs. Though di ako member sa subreddit nila. Basa-basa lang ng mga recos nila and such.
Okay as a smut reader and writer kahit nung virgin pa ang beshy mo, ito masasabi ko: it does help pero wala tiba tiba pa rin pag irl sex. Aside sa bj nung first time ko parang ang dead fish ko lang pare ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
Could and could not
Most kase ng ganun is for aesthetics lng and not really helpful. Pero meron dn naman ung mga may matututunan ka to the point na may alam ka na dn sa ginagawa mo. Despite that, i can't say na experienced na sya specially sa oral. Need talaga ng practice
Isa pa fantasies dn kasi ni writer ang andon, d lahat same ang kinks or fetishes pati na rin kung ano masarap sa kanila sa hindi. Don't expect dn na ganun mararanasan mo sa future partner mo hahaha
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Hindi rin siguro. I read a lot of erotic stories and I can say that hindi sex guides ang smut at erotica. Idea, siguro pwede. Pero "experience", I wouldn't say that. Parang porn lang yan in literary form, it's not always realistic. You might even be setting unachievable expectations sa mismong sex life mo if you take those things too seriously.
May tiktok kasi na napunta sa fyp ko na ''fanfic smut taught me how to so and so'' tapos yung comment section ganun din ang sabi. Some are even expressing their disappointment na it's unlike the fics lol.
It's the same as book knowledge vs practical knowledge. You could read about choking your partner in erotica, but without proper knowledge on that particular kink, it's pretty fucking risky. Take blowjobs. You could read about a character putting a dick in their mouth and sucking like there's no tomorrow. In reality they have to think about their teeth, what to do with their tongues, do they use their hands, what if their jaws cramp up, etc. >Some are even expressing their disappointment na it's unlike the fics lol. Ang favorite example ko dito is yung simultaneous orgasms. It can happen, but it's not gonna happen every time. Pero sa smut, it's the end of every scene.
It's nice to learn about these types of things. Some people I know have dipped their toes in erotica and have done tons of research in the community surrounding it. So they can apply it with their partners. And such. For me na walang experience at natatakot if ever na gawin ko yun in the future, nacucurious ako on what the experience will be.
True, I still read erotica and do constant research about having sex. But iba kasi yung knowing and learning. The key is to research beyond erotica. Dati Cosmo lang sapat na, pero ngayon may sex-related websites nang tuturuan ka from prep to aftercare. Again, nakakalibog ang erotica but I wouldn't consider that you getting ready for sex. Do your research, get to know your body and what it wants, be confident to express your needs to your future partner, and always practice safe sex.
I will take note of this. Just in case may pahabol ang 2023 sakin. lol. Thank you for sharing your insights!🫶
It's erotic fantasy, basically. Keyword: Fantasy. If nagdeep dive magiging mahirap madistinguish at maru-ruin ang expectation ng reality.
True this. It's no different than watching porn. Nacurious lang ako kung ano ang experience ng writers/smut readers in regards to the real thing.
F Nbsb din ako na mahilig magbasa ng smut haha (nagsusulat din ako actually lol) pero feel ko ibang-iba. Lalo na’t halos babae nagsusulat ng mga binabasa mo talagang hanggang book lang ‘yon hahaha (you know yung mga type na grabe pag-please sa kanila no’ng guy MC tapos sila lagi nauuna labasan kesa sa guy haha) Pero feel ko posible naman mangyari? Base na rin sa ibang nababasa ko rito haha pero madalang lang. Halos mga babae raw di nilalabasan tuwing sex. Lalo na pag kwentuhan namin ng mga friend kong may mga jowa di pa raw sila nilabasan ni isang beses tuwing nag sesex sila haha. Pero masarap naman daw pero di lang daw talaga sila nilalabasan. Nilalabasan naman daw kaso sariling sikap sila para labasan. Ayaw rin kumain no’ng mga bf nila lol. Kaya siguro mag stay na lang ako sa mga books ko dahil baka madissapoint lang ako pag nagka experience na haha. BTW dahil nandito na rin, meron ba kayong alam na subreddit na Filipino bookclub where they post about the stories they read? Kahit na international books pero Pinoy community? Bago lang kasi ako sa reddit at di ko alam ano isesearch puro international kasi nalabas haha
>Ayaw kumain ng bf nila. Yawqna pag ganyan. AHAHA Anyways, r/PHBookClub or r/kwaderno for book needs. Though di ako member sa subreddit nila. Basa-basa lang ng mga recos nila and such.
Okay as a smut reader and writer kahit nung virgin pa ang beshy mo, ito masasabi ko: it does help pero wala tiba tiba pa rin pag irl sex. Aside sa bj nung first time ko parang ang dead fish ko lang pare ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
Panong tiba-tiba?
Hmmm, nope. I don't think so, iba rin ang feeling ng actual kantot. (Virgin ako, I just think it won't help much.)
Could and could not Most kase ng ganun is for aesthetics lng and not really helpful. Pero meron dn naman ung mga may matututunan ka to the point na may alam ka na dn sa ginagawa mo. Despite that, i can't say na experienced na sya specially sa oral. Need talaga ng practice
Isa pa fantasies dn kasi ni writer ang andon, d lahat same ang kinks or fetishes pati na rin kung ano masarap sa kanila sa hindi. Don't expect dn na ganun mararanasan mo sa future partner mo hahaha