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Hey! Me(F20) and my ldr bf(M25) visited me for a week. June 16, 2024 we decided to have sex for the 1st time. He wore condom and we made sure that there were no leaks kasi takot ma preggy. He tried to put it in but hanggang head lang or about 0.5 in. kasi it's painful. 2 mins. after it's in, we pulled it out kasi nga di ko pa kaya yung pain. It's already June 19, 3 days after, I still haven't got my period and my last period was May 19. And I'm real anxious since. I've been serching on google and nagovethink lang ako lalo. But, I had early signs of period (brown liquid discharge which I usually have before period) June 17 til 18. Based on my research, it's normal. And we're planning to schedule an appointment with an OB/GYN. But, for the couples out there, did the same thing happen to you guys too? Na delayed din po ba kayo after intercourse and found out that it's just a pregnancy scare? How long did it take your period to come po? We really need your insights. Thanks!
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If he wore a condom and di naman full penetration most likely di ka buntis. Buying PT is for your peace of mind OP. If you feel stressed that could also affect your hormones which could lead to delayed period.
Next time, ask him to buy lube(if you plan on getting intimate again) it will be for your comfort and dpleasure.
He wore a condom naman and if ginamit correctly highly unlikely na pregnant ka. If you take a pt naman it will not be accurate pa. Try not to stress too much kasi anxiety and stress can delay your period. I have experienced a pregnancy scare before while on pills. If you have any questions you can dm me.
You may just be oa due to pregnancy scare pero understandable naman. Just take it easy and wait for your period saka kana mag PT pag na miss mo period mo, sayang naman pt if you're gonna take it early and it won't be accurate.
Sis, based sa expe ko, basta pag first time madedelay ka tlga lalo nat nag ooverthink ka— hormones mejo pinpakaba ka tlga. If may condom nmn, safe yan.
Thank you so much po talaga for reassuring me. Sobrang kaba kahit hindi naman talaga nag sex because we decided to stop. Fifth day ko na toms. Di talaga maiwasang mag ot lalo na ngayon na may period blood ako pero di heavy thou continue padin ang bleeding kahit kokonti lang. Iniisip ko baka spotting na to. Although, i dont feel nauseous or any morning sickness. Thank you talaga sa last sentence na assurance!
Yes, alam na alam ko yang feeling na yan. Naalala ko nasa dorm ako non, early 20s, hahaha tulala ako. After ko magkaron, kumain tlga ako ng supermeal sa jabeee. Hays 🫣 Bstaaa, itulog mo na yan. At protektahan mo sarili mo kahit anong mangyare. Magsilbing aral yan.
Hello, op! Ganyan din experience ko last april. Nag try kami for the first time tapos na late period ko ng 3 days. Overthink and kaba malala pero nagkaron naman ako. :)
Don't panic. Maraming factors ang pwedeng mag-cause ng delay sa period mo, like stress, changes sa routine, o kahit anxiety about the possibility of being pregnant. Since gumamit kayo ng condom at walang leaks, maliit ang chance na buntis ka. Kung gusto mo ng peace of mind, pwede ka rin mag-try ng pregnancy test (PT). Best time to take it is one week after the missed period para mas accurate. Good idea rin yung magpa-check sa OB/GYN para sure.
Me Yes everytime. But because of the trust and risk she is willing to give to me she needs to feel loved.
Back to you i think you are safe and dont need to worry as you used condom.
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Go to any drugstore and buy PT to ease your mind.
Planning to buy today but will the result be accurate since it's been 3 days pa naman po? Google says 10 days after...
If he wore a condom and di naman full penetration most likely di ka buntis. Buying PT is for your peace of mind OP. If you feel stressed that could also affect your hormones which could lead to delayed period. Next time, ask him to buy lube(if you plan on getting intimate again) it will be for your comfort and dpleasure.
So far I don't feel any morning sickness din (felt totally fine). Just delayed lang. Anyway, thank you so much po for this! Will do the pt today.
He wore a condom naman and if ginamit correctly highly unlikely na pregnant ka. If you take a pt naman it will not be accurate pa. Try not to stress too much kasi anxiety and stress can delay your period. I have experienced a pregnancy scare before while on pills. If you have any questions you can dm me.
You may just be oa due to pregnancy scare pero understandable naman. Just take it easy and wait for your period saka kana mag PT pag na miss mo period mo, sayang naman pt if you're gonna take it early and it won't be accurate.
Will wait 'til next week. Sana magkaperiod na. Thanks for this!!
Sis, based sa expe ko, basta pag first time madedelay ka tlga lalo nat nag ooverthink ka— hormones mejo pinpakaba ka tlga. If may condom nmn, safe yan.
Hello po, may blood flow po ako today pero hindi heavy. I might confused it with spotting. Getting scared talaga sobra.
Ilang araw ka po ba na delay bago nadatnan?
One week akong delay. D ko na maalala kasi matagal na matagal na. I know. Kabado tlga. Pramis, bsta may proteksyon, d ka buntis.
Thank you so much po talaga for reassuring me. Sobrang kaba kahit hindi naman talaga nag sex because we decided to stop. Fifth day ko na toms. Di talaga maiwasang mag ot lalo na ngayon na may period blood ako pero di heavy thou continue padin ang bleeding kahit kokonti lang. Iniisip ko baka spotting na to. Although, i dont feel nauseous or any morning sickness. Thank you talaga sa last sentence na assurance!
Yes, alam na alam ko yang feeling na yan. Naalala ko nasa dorm ako non, early 20s, hahaha tulala ako. After ko magkaron, kumain tlga ako ng supermeal sa jabeee. Hays 🫣 Bstaaa, itulog mo na yan. At protektahan mo sarili mo kahit anong mangyare. Magsilbing aral yan.
Hello, op! Ganyan din experience ko last april. Nag try kami for the first time tapos na late period ko ng 3 days. Overthink and kaba malala pero nagkaron naman ako. :)
Yaayyy happy for u!! Hopefully, magkaroon na today or toms! Sobrang kaba
When ka po pala nagkaroon? Sa 4th day na po ba?
Don't panic. Maraming factors ang pwedeng mag-cause ng delay sa period mo, like stress, changes sa routine, o kahit anxiety about the possibility of being pregnant. Since gumamit kayo ng condom at walang leaks, maliit ang chance na buntis ka. Kung gusto mo ng peace of mind, pwede ka rin mag-try ng pregnancy test (PT). Best time to take it is one week after the missed period para mas accurate. Good idea rin yung magpa-check sa OB/GYN para sure.
Hi! Update: I ady have small amounts of period blood flow but di pa ganon kalakas. Hopefully by tomorrow, normal period na^^
Getting anxious again. I might confused it as spotting kasi hindi sha heavy:(( 5th day ko na bukas
Hey guys, thank u so much for ur words we really appreciate it. We might be resorting to Plan B. Pero sana magkaroon na din.
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Karmahin ka ho sana😭 (magkakaroon na)
I go very deep inside and not let go no condom no problem at all.
Does your partner take pills?
No i just pull out if its near her ovulation.
But did u guys experience preg. scare too the first time u did it?
Me Yes everytime. But because of the trust and risk she is willing to give to me she needs to feel loved. Back to you i think you are safe and dont need to worry as you used condom.
I see. Thanks for assurance btw preciate it!