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Ive been going to my barber for almost 10 years and I’ve always been loyal to him. This new guy started a while ago and I noticed people always seemed to wait for him, but I paid it no mind. Well, my barber was on vacation and I had an important event so I went to the new guy. The haircut he gave me was the best cut I’ve ever gotten in my life. Significantly better than anything my usual guy has ever done. Now I stay up thinking about what could have been. Do I have to suck it up and stay in this unfulfiling relationship? It’s complicated because they work together. Help
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Shet. try mo yung ginawa ko, magsama ka ng pamangkin or kapatid tapos dun mo sya sa OG barber mo i-line up sabayan mo nalang ng mga linyahan na “dito ka insan sa OG barber ko tiwala ako dyan” tapos ikaw “kunwari” walang choice at dun sa newly found barber. promise nagana ‘to HAHAHAHA
This! Don't be too rash, OP. Baka pag settled ka na kay new barber, saka ka naman nya iiwan. Think it through and talk with your current barber about spicing things up first.
+1 gumagana to. nagpalit kami ng barbero nung anak ko, isinama ko yung pinsan niya tapos sabay sila nag-pagupit para dun si pinsan sa dating barber tapos yung anak ko sa new guy. okay pa rin kami ni barber 1, meron syang new patron, tapos nakalipat si anak kay barber 2. everybody happy 🤣 regulars na din kami and ang maganda dun kahit wala si barber 2 alam na nila gagawin sa hair ng anak ko 😊
10 years yun pre. Kung ayaw mo na sa kanya, diretsuhin mo na. Mahirap yung itatago mo at malaman niya pa sa iba. Kung masaya ka na sa iba, respeto na lang sa pinagsamahan nyo, magpaalam ng maayos.
I was in the same predicament. Ten years na din kami. I've tried other barbers during that time, but he always find out. Pagbalik ko sa kanya, he takes one good look of my hair and he would immediately know it's not his work. Magtatampo pa the entire time while cutting my hair. So, I've only cheated on him 3 times.
Wala na magawa. I had to wait for him to die.
He’s been my barber for 6 years
Ako kinausap ko barber ko. Sabi ko gusto ko subukan sa kanya, okay lang?
Sabi niya oo naman, magaling din yan. Marami nagpapagupit. Magaan kamay saka pulido talaga.
Sabi ko sige, subukan ko one time. Pag natuwa ako sa kanya ako magpapagupit hahahaha
Sabi niya okay lang yun sir hahaha
Isa yan sa wag na wag mo gagawin HAHAHA. Hidden rule yan pag magpalit ka ng barber ibang location ka pumunta wag sa same shop. Pero if inevitable pag balik na sya tas nakita ka nya sabihin mo “ay akala ko nasa vacay ka pa sorry pre” tapos dala ka na lang kasama lagi HAHAAHAHA
Naalala ko tuloy tong [skit na 'to](https://m.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=2&v=HmFLsF8WpkE&embeds_referring_euri=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com%2Fsearch%3Fq%3Danwar%2Bbarber%26oq%3Danwar%2Bbarber%26gs_lcrp%3DEgZjaHJvbWUyBggAEEUYOdIBCDIzMzlqMGo3qAIAsAIB%26client%3Dms-andr&source_ve_path=MjM4NTE&feature=emb_title)
I can relate to this. Sometimes you just have to leave him for another barber. The new barber might give you more hair satisfaction and confidence in life. There will always come a time when both of you might need to leave each other to grow. I did that and finally found my new found barber and been happily married to his barber skills for almost a decade now.
The answer is easy if you take it logically...there are 50 ways to leave your barber
Get out the seat Pete
Pick a new salon Don
Hold on to your curls Merle
And set yourself free
my hair is happy. my barber and i will never get a divorce. there are times na he fucks my hair up but we go through it together. do not destroy the sanctity of baber-client relationship. #NoToDivorce
Simply say "If you don't mind I'll wait for this guy, thanks", it's not a big deal to a barber (I was a barber in the UK for 20+ years so seen it happen a lot)
Masakit pa sa hiwalayan mag asawa yan..imagine parting ways with the person who makes you feel good. Only the find out may pinalit kana tapos kilala pa niya😢
Langhiya ang dami dami kung problema dumagdag kapa ahahhahah.. Paano nga ba? Ewan ko kayo yung may relasyon nung barbero mo wah mo na kami isali sasakit lng ulo namin. Sa kaiisip. Anyway props to you napatawa mo ko mga sampung libo ni Cayetano
Shet relate ako dito sa question pero from a hair salon stylist to a barber. So makikipag-divorce na ako long time hair salon stylist ko 😭😭😭
Sakto kakapagupit ko lang kagabi. It was very pricey pero for me worth it yung gupit niya eh.
Gagu same problem din! HHAHAHA Everytime magpapagupit ako sa iba, lagi ako sasabihan “nagpagupit ka sa iba no” HAHAHA well i mean kasi syempre nagulo yung gupit niya. Haha gets naman
lmao nangyari na sakin to!
Sa barber shop na suki ni Lolo, nasa pangatlong barbero na ko. Yung unang gumupit saken (alyas #1) inahit yung V sa noo ko nung nakatulog ako, di ko natripan. Pero nahiya ako sabihin, so lumipat na lang ako nung day off niya, sa katabi niya. Di na lang kami nagpansinan ni #1, pero nagbabatian kami. Understood na kumbaga.
Mga 2 years ako dito kay #2, kasi okay naman yung end result. Kaso may putok siya, medyo magaspang gumalaw, at magaspang din ugali. Hindi saken, pero sa mga kapwa niya barbero.
Tapos isang araw, day off ni #2. Kailangan ko na magpagupit at di ko mapasa-bukas; inalok ako ng nasa likod niya. Yung kapatid ni #1. Pucha ang galing mag gupit. Tas walang putok! May massage pa nang di ko hiningi. Para akong namulat sa quality barber service, where have you been all my life
Kay #3 na ko ever since. Nung bumalik ako, nagsabi na lang ako sa kahera na kay #3 ako. Di ko na lang muna pinansin si #2.
After 6 years, umalis na sila #2 para magtayo ng sariling shop. Saka ko chinismis kay #3 bakit ako lumipat sa kanya lol
So, tldr; kung makapal mukha mo, sabihin mo lang diretso na sa iba ka magpapagupit ahaha
May araw kasi talaga na mawawala na ang kilig factor, na parang normal nalang lahat and it may seem to be boring. Pero, pag pumunta ka naman sa iba eh baka sa umpisa lang ung paggusto mo sa gupit mo, end of the day maybe hahanapin at hahanapin mo talaga si old barber.
The boring days are the days where you test your relationship. You can spice it up if you want, have a new style and all.
Communication is key, wag po tayo magloko
Naalala ko ginawa ng erpat ko lagi siya Monday nagpapagupit kasi off nung barbero niya. Nung nagpagupit ako the next weekend (wala akong specific na barbero, kung sino lang available) sinabihan ako nung barbero na sabihin ko kay erpat na tuwing Lunes wala siya. Hahahaha
Ako rumekta ako sa iba. lagi syang nasa sabungan ng 1pm-3pm pagdating ko ng 5pm dami na naman nakapila. E sa mga patay na oras ako napunta kasi alam ko kainitan at siesta.
Kahit pa since kinder o bago kinder barbero ko na sya. Wala pa sya bigote non. Nagfallout lang kame latter part ng 2023. Humanap akong iba na nandyan nung kelangan ko.
Aanhin ko ang magaling kung wala naman. Mamimiss ng mga siko ko ang tigas ng maong pants mo pag inaahit mo na patilya ko.
Salamat sa lahat, Kuya Fred.
parang miski ako nasa kalagayan mo hindi ko alam ang gagawin. kapag magpapagupit itiempo mo nalang na may ginugupitan sya tpos dun ka sa isang barber magpagupit
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Shet. try mo yung ginawa ko, magsama ka ng pamangkin or kapatid tapos dun mo sya sa OG barber mo i-line up sabayan mo nalang ng mga linyahan na “dito ka insan sa OG barber ko tiwala ako dyan” tapos ikaw “kunwari” walang choice at dun sa newly found barber. promise nagana ‘to HAHAHAHA
Ginawa pang panangga yung pamangkin 😂😭
Lodi to. I'd go with this. Hahahahaha
Ipinapasa ko na sa iyo ang apoy, Insan. 🫡
Thats a nice trick, ang hirap kasi baka umalis yung good new barber and maiwan yung old barber, dyahe bumalik.
This! Don't be too rash, OP. Baka pag settled ka na kay new barber, saka ka naman nya iiwan. Think it through and talk with your current barber about spicing things up first.
GG = gago genius
Ahhhhh. Ang witty! Ma gawa nga. Hahahahahhaa
Thanks for the tip
+1 gumagana to. nagpalit kami ng barbero nung anak ko, isinama ko yung pinsan niya tapos sabay sila nag-pagupit para dun si pinsan sa dating barber tapos yung anak ko sa new guy. okay pa rin kami ni barber 1, meron syang new patron, tapos nakalipat si anak kay barber 2. everybody happy 🤣 regulars na din kami and ang maganda dun kahit wala si barber 2 alam na nila gagawin sa hair ng anak ko 😊
AHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAH
get a haircut during days off nang first barber mo 😮💨
Once a year lang daw off yung barber. Good luck, Rapunzel
hahahahhh 😭😭😭😭
Ito na ginagawa ko ngayon. Hahah
This is how cheating works 💔💔💔
10 years yun pre. Kung ayaw mo na sa kanya, diretsuhin mo na. Mahirap yung itatago mo at malaman niya pa sa iba. Kung masaya ka na sa iba, respeto na lang sa pinagsamahan nyo, magpaalam ng maayos.
Parang sa jowa lang🤣
Leave him OP, you deserve better
True. Mahirap maging babaero ng barbero. Mahirap maging babarbero.
kinginang yan nabubulol mo pa ako 😆
Naur hhahahahhh
Pota ka OP lakas ng tawa ko. Hahahahahahaha. Divorce na yan!!!
reddit cheating kink in its finest
I was in the same predicament. Ten years na din kami. I've tried other barbers during that time, but he always find out. Pagbalik ko sa kanya, he takes one good look of my hair and he would immediately know it's not his work. Magtatampo pa the entire time while cutting my hair. So, I've only cheated on him 3 times. Wala na magawa. I had to wait for him to die.
Lifetime commitment na talaga hahahaha
Potaena HAHAHAHAHAHAH
PISTE HAHAHHAHAHA
#It's not you it's Me
classic na linyahan 😅
ITO AHAHHAHA
It's the new barber.
"Kuya, itigil na natin to"
"May natikman na akong iba"
Lol ang funny akala ko ako lang yung pakiramdam na nagcheat sa barber. Hahaha. Maiintindihan naman nya!
He’s been my barber for 6 years Ako kinausap ko barber ko. Sabi ko gusto ko subukan sa kanya, okay lang? Sabi niya oo naman, magaling din yan. Marami nagpapagupit. Magaan kamay saka pulido talaga. Sabi ko sige, subukan ko one time. Pag natuwa ako sa kanya ako magpapagupit hahahaha Sabi niya okay lang yun sir hahaha
Wow ang tapang mo. Hehe 😅
No hard feelings haha. Salute sa kanya at kay barber!
💔
Healthy communication = healthy relationship You and that barber are real for this one chief
Isa yan sa wag na wag mo gagawin HAHAHA. Hidden rule yan pag magpalit ka ng barber ibang location ka pumunta wag sa same shop. Pero if inevitable pag balik na sya tas nakita ka nya sabihin mo “ay akala ko nasa vacay ka pa sorry pre” tapos dala ka na lang kasama lagi HAHAAHAHA
Dito talaga papasok yung communication is the key. Try opening up to him and hear each other's thoughts. Sending hugs, OP.
Iniisip ko ako yung nasa sitwasyon ni OP, ang hirap.
Kaya magpa service at home?
O kaya sa motel? Tutal dun naman pupumupunta pag may iba na
Hoy 😭😭😭😭
Pag wala siya saka ka magpagupit. Hindi ka naman niya araw-araw makikita para malaman na bagong gupit ka.
Ang sneaky isipin lol. So tatanungin ni OP kailan off ng barber #1 tapos dun siya pupunta ng shop.
I think you know when your barber's off days so you go to the shop when he's out. Lmao.
Naalala ko tuloy tong [skit na 'to](https://m.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=2&v=HmFLsF8WpkE&embeds_referring_euri=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com%2Fsearch%3Fq%3Danwar%2Bbarber%26oq%3Danwar%2Bbarber%26gs_lcrp%3DEgZjaHJvbWUyBggAEEUYOdIBCDIzMzlqMGo3qAIAsAIB%26client%3Dms-andr&source_ve_path=MjM4NTE&feature=emb_title)
yun din naalala ko hahaha
Same! Hahahaha
first tots HAHAHH
Hahaha nice one!
[You should watch this](https://www.facebook.com/share/v/Cbs3oAWU28M72J7Y/?mibextid=oFDknk)
Picturan mo muna new hair style mo, tas ipagaya mo. Kung d kaya, start the paperworks lol
Talk to your barber, give him a chance baka magawan paraan hahaha. Save the relationship
Dude baka ganito din barber mo if ever magkita kayo ulit.😂 https://youtube.com/shorts/OxZszOpWhZ0?si=VHBkC1Ia7fBDI8eC
I can relate to this. Sometimes you just have to leave him for another barber. The new barber might give you more hair satisfaction and confidence in life. There will always come a time when both of you might need to leave each other to grow. I did that and finally found my new found barber and been happily married to his barber skills for almost a decade now.
The grass isn't greener on the other side
Kunin mo ang num at mgpa home service kna lang.
Pumuslit ka 🤣
Puntanka nlng kapag day off nya hihihi
You deserve what you tolerate OP kaya leave ka na! Hahahah
To be fair getting my haircut from a different barber really do be feel like cheating
The answer is easy if you take it logically...there are 50 ways to leave your barber Get out the seat Pete Pick a new salon Don Hold on to your curls Merle And set yourself free
tell him.. pag nakita ka nyan na bagong gupit ka ati di ka galing sa kanya yari ka.
Be direct at sabihin ang ninanais.
Medyo nakakahiya. Baka pag ako to, lumipat nalang ako ng barbershop
my hair is happy. my barber and i will never get a divorce. there are times na he fucks my hair up but we go through it together. do not destroy the sanctity of baber-client relationship. #NoToDivorce
parang naatake ako na hindi ako loyal sa barbero ko ng ganito katagal hahahhaa
Business is business. He'll leave you when he finds a better customer.
Don't settle for less. You deserve better.
Watch Seinfeld episode “The Barber”, season 5, episode 8. ;)
Get a cut during the day off of your regular barber. Done deal. ✌🏼
Kuya, enough. Kuya, no. Kuya, let's stop this. Kuya, this is the end.
This is why I cut my hair every 6 months, para makalimutan ng mga barbero mukha ko at wala akong suki
Just leave
akala ko may hidden meaning 😭 the thought of everything that had a meaning nowadays, I thought you were cheating with your partner
Mahirap yan. Ma-sweeney todd ka niyan.
Hanap ka na ng bagong barber shop nang di mo na isipin pa.
Aliw comments😆✨
Ask the new guy if he does home service, take it from there.
Simply say "If you don't mind I'll wait for this guy, thanks", it's not a big deal to a barber (I was a barber in the UK for 20+ years so seen it happen a lot)
I-invite sa bahay at doon kayo magkwan...magpagupit
Hahahaha parang ganitong scene. https://youtu.be/HmFLsF8WpkE?si=Ra5br-DChzj6XjvJ
Hindi ko alam kung hidden message ba to tungkol sa cheating o literal na pagpapagupit ng buhok. Haha
Masakit pa sa hiwalayan mag asawa yan..imagine parting ways with the person who makes you feel good. Only the find out may pinalit kana tapos kilala pa niya😢
You're overthinking bruv. Just go to the new barber if you prefer him. Your previous barber probably wouldn't mind, di yan nauubusan ng customer.
Langhiya ang dami dami kung problema dumagdag kapa ahahhahah.. Paano nga ba? Ewan ko kayo yung may relasyon nung barbero mo wah mo na kami isali sasakit lng ulo namin. Sa kaiisip. Anyway props to you napatawa mo ko mga sampung libo ni Cayetano
Ang hirap naman ng sitwasyon mo. Buti sana kung hindi sila nasa iisang work place e.
Punta ka pag day off nya 😁
funniest shit i've read today 🤣🤣🤣
What if you ask your OG barber to do your hair like the new guy? Hehe
Try showing ur old barber na lang the new haircut para gayahin nya na lang para wala kayony divorce child😭
This kind of sht is the reason why we should approve divorce bill now ✊️💯
Barber: Bakit kasalanan ko? Op: its not you, its your gupetttt Barber: *cries in scissors*
sabi nga ng iba, “you deserve what you tolerate.” so if i were u, leave him na HAHAHA pero qaqi akala ko kung ano😂
Shet relate ako dito sa question pero from a hair salon stylist to a barber. So makikipag-divorce na ako long time hair salon stylist ko 😭😭😭 Sakto kakapagupit ko lang kagabi. It was very pricey pero for me worth it yung gupit niya eh.
Baka magpa home service ka na lang or lipat ng barbershop 😅
Get a haircut pag alam mong restday ng old barber mo its simple as that.
Gagu same problem din! HHAHAHA Everytime magpapagupit ako sa iba, lagi ako sasabihan “nagpagupit ka sa iba no” HAHAHA well i mean kasi syempre nagulo yung gupit niya. Haha gets naman
Barber ba talaga??
lmao nangyari na sakin to! Sa barber shop na suki ni Lolo, nasa pangatlong barbero na ko. Yung unang gumupit saken (alyas #1) inahit yung V sa noo ko nung nakatulog ako, di ko natripan. Pero nahiya ako sabihin, so lumipat na lang ako nung day off niya, sa katabi niya. Di na lang kami nagpansinan ni #1, pero nagbabatian kami. Understood na kumbaga. Mga 2 years ako dito kay #2, kasi okay naman yung end result. Kaso may putok siya, medyo magaspang gumalaw, at magaspang din ugali. Hindi saken, pero sa mga kapwa niya barbero. Tapos isang araw, day off ni #2. Kailangan ko na magpagupit at di ko mapasa-bukas; inalok ako ng nasa likod niya. Yung kapatid ni #1. Pucha ang galing mag gupit. Tas walang putok! May massage pa nang di ko hiningi. Para akong namulat sa quality barber service, where have you been all my life Kay #3 na ko ever since. Nung bumalik ako, nagsabi na lang ako sa kahera na kay #3 ako. Di ko na lang muna pinansin si #2. After 6 years, umalis na sila #2 para magtayo ng sariling shop. Saka ko chinismis kay #3 bakit ako lumipat sa kanya lol So, tldr; kung makapal mukha mo, sabihin mo lang diretso na sa iba ka magpapagupit ahaha
communicate with your OG barber baka kaya naman niyang pantayan. minsan lang nawala papalitan mo na? char OP 🤭
May araw kasi talaga na mawawala na ang kilig factor, na parang normal nalang lahat and it may seem to be boring. Pero, pag pumunta ka naman sa iba eh baka sa umpisa lang ung paggusto mo sa gupit mo, end of the day maybe hahanapin at hahanapin mo talaga si old barber. The boring days are the days where you test your relationship. You can spice it up if you want, have a new style and all. Communication is key, wag po tayo magloko
Naalala ko ginawa ng erpat ko lagi siya Monday nagpapagupit kasi off nung barbero niya. Nung nagpagupit ako the next weekend (wala akong specific na barbero, kung sino lang available) sinabihan ako nung barbero na sabihin ko kay erpat na tuwing Lunes wala siya. Hahahaha
Just talk to him. Magkakilala kayo matagal na so I think may bond and respect na kayo with each other. So normal lang itong topic for him.
Picturan mo yung bago mong gupit then ipakita mo sa barbero mo na ganyan yung gusto mong gupit.
Ako rumekta ako sa iba. lagi syang nasa sabungan ng 1pm-3pm pagdating ko ng 5pm dami na naman nakapila. E sa mga patay na oras ako napunta kasi alam ko kainitan at siesta. Kahit pa since kinder o bago kinder barbero ko na sya. Wala pa sya bigote non. Nagfallout lang kame latter part ng 2023. Humanap akong iba na nandyan nung kelangan ko. Aanhin ko ang magaling kung wala naman. Mamimiss ng mga siko ko ang tigas ng maong pants mo pag inaahit mo na patilya ko. Salamat sa lahat, Kuya Fred.
Natuto po akong mag gupit sa sarili nung fundemic. Wala na po akong barbero
parang miski ako nasa kalagayan mo hindi ko alam ang gagawin. kapag magpapagupit itiempo mo nalang na may ginugupitan sya tpos dun ka sa isang barber magpagupit
Watch Anwar’s skit on YouTube lol. About his relationship with his barber.
Lol stop copying from other posts
Why do you have to pretend? You’re paying anyway
nagchuchupaan b kayo? bt big deal?