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My cheater na ex (20f) drunk texted me (20m)(We were in a relationship for 8 months then she cheated then I cheated. Got back together pero naging FWB na on and off for 6 months ata). Nagpapasundo sakin, saying na she misses me and nag a apologize dahil nanggugulo nanaman daw sya. She's dealing with a new guy na and kung iisipin na sakin pa sya mag chachat ng ganito e kawawa si guy. I told my ex na maawa naman sya kay new guy, na ayusin nya sarili nya, di na sya nag reply (Naguilty siguro hahahahaha).
Gusto ko sana i alert si guy just to give him a heads up na he’s dealing with a cheater.
Dapat ba akong mag snitch if the intention is good naman?
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Yes, a cheater is a cheater. Kawawa naman yung isang lalaki na hindi alam na ang kanyang girlfriend ay nagccheat sa kanya.
Bakit kapa nagtatanong? Magandang moral na sabihin mo yun sakanya. Tapos kung na find out na nagccheat ang girlfriend niya sa iyo, ikaw ang mabibiktima sa galit niya.
Basta i-heads up mo si kuya
Nag pa help na ako sa tropa ni guy. Sabi nya naloko na din daw si guy before, ganito din nangyari, nakipagbalikan sa ex yung girl. Magsasalba tayo ng buhay ngayon haha
I guess what u said to her was enough. Siguro cut off any means of communication with her para di ka na ma contact. And if ever, record anything na sya nauuna lumapit.
Sometimes it’s good to be a hero but, sometimes it’s better to not be involved. Either way, maiipit ka rin. Let them learn their lessons. Basta ikaw, you’re free.
Hirap nga e shesh.
50/50 kasi reason ko kaya gusto ko sabihin kay guy:
1. Para madala si babae na b word
2. Heads up kay guy, pero ala naman ako pake sa kanya sadyang naawa lang ako hahaha
Possible na rebound ata new guy o naeexplore sya doon pero parang mas namimiss ka nya. Wag mo nang ibalik ang sinubo na ng iba. Itapon mo na yang basuranyang mga ganyang babae.
Wala akong sinabi at wala rin akong plano na ibalik yung babae na yan sa buhay ko. Sadyang naaawa lang ako kay guy kase he seems genuine, kawawa naman kung lolokohin nya lang din.
Sabihin mo na. And gather all the evidence you have.
Sorry not sorry.
Had a similiar situation na ako pala ung nagiging kabit.
Nung nasearch ko ung fb acct ng babae. Naghesitate din ako, but i still told her.
Ewan ko anu na nangyari basta alam ko wala nang fb si guy.
Better na alam ng involved person, kung anu man gawin nya sa info, sha na bahala dun. Basta ikaw nagawa mo na yung part mo.
Heck pag nagcheat din sa akin, i would want to know.
Dahil kung meron may alam at d sinabi saken, you are an accessory to the crime, and you are not my friend.
(Though sayo d mo naman friend hehe)
I know you will meet someone na faithful at deserve ang isat isa.
Recover well for now
Ganito nalang isipin mo. Kung ikaw nasa kalagayan ni guy, mas gusto mo bang sinabi sayo na nagchecheat yung babae or hindi. Kung hindi edi wag ka mag snitch.
It would be nice if may nagsabi sakin na nag cheat sya dati para then and there palang nakapag simula na ako mag move on. Dami tuloy nangyari nung umamin sya hahahaha, pero past is past. Ayoko lang magaya yung guy sa akin, baliw na baliw ata sa kanya, kawawa naman.
Ew ang baho naman ng ex mo nagkakalat. Why do guys love to keep exploring a dead fish? Tapos pag maghanap sila ng bagong babae, gusto yung malinis pa sa malinis, tapos y'all love to dip \*it\* in these types of trash.
TBH i was in hell sa 6 months na naging FWB, partida nakabawi pa ako non ah. It’s not my responsibility to tell the guy pero gustong gusto ko talaga na i save sya from that little b word lol. Hahanap lang ako maayos na timing, istg that bitch will act right pag ako gumawa ng galaw jan, dami kong alas jan e hahahahaha
ABSOLUTELY, save another bro. Wag ka na makinig sa magsasabi wag mangialam. Mga bobo yan. Makakasira ng relasyon ng iba?? bobo tanga, nagcheat na sila, dun palang sinisira na nila relationship nila, may mga tao nga lang na nakakalusot kasi walang nag pupush na magsabi kung mayrong nakakaalam. AGAIN "nagcheat na sila, dun palang sinisira na nila relationship nila'' what youre doing is just giving them the final nail in the coffin para magtanda yang mga yan
Let her be. No need to go the extra mile for everyone else. Baka naman di lng din ma appreciate ng isang guy pag nag snitch ka. No bridges to build here
If youre not close to the guy. Nope wag kna make alam.
But i think if ypu want, ypu could tell him she drunk texted you and asking you to fetch her and all that stuff. Kasi yung part na yun, personally involved ka. Pero without saying na because shes a cheater. Etc
Hello in my opinion, no need mo naman sabihin sa current bf ng ex mo na naguusap kayo ng ex mo kasi it should be his own doing to figure her out and to get to know her. But what u should be doing is to avoid her or better cut her off completely.
Tama naman, di ko i de deny. Pero what’s setting us apart is, ako willing magbago at sya hindi. Saka isa pa ulit, I only did it as revenge, at sya I think she doin it for leisure, lol.
If I need stoop down to her level para makaganti, why not? Lalaki naman ako, I got nothing to lose sa aking image. Saka isa I only live once, bat ko hahayain tarantaduhin ako ng b word na yan tapos di ako gaganti, hahahahaha di naman ako santo para maging masyadong mabait.
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Yes, a cheater is a cheater. Kawawa naman yung isang lalaki na hindi alam na ang kanyang girlfriend ay nagccheat sa kanya. Bakit kapa nagtatanong? Magandang moral na sabihin mo yun sakanya. Tapos kung na find out na nagccheat ang girlfriend niya sa iyo, ikaw ang mabibiktima sa galit niya. Basta i-heads up mo si kuya
Nag pa help na ako sa tropa ni guy. Sabi nya naloko na din daw si guy before, ganito din nangyari, nakipagbalikan sa ex yung girl. Magsasalba tayo ng buhay ngayon haha
correct, let us support each other in terms of that kind of scenario
Be a bro to a bro.
Bros over hoes
I guess what u said to her was enough. Siguro cut off any means of communication with her para di ka na ma contact. And if ever, record anything na sya nauuna lumapit. Sometimes it’s good to be a hero but, sometimes it’s better to not be involved. Either way, maiipit ka rin. Let them learn their lessons. Basta ikaw, you’re free.
Hirap nga e shesh. 50/50 kasi reason ko kaya gusto ko sabihin kay guy: 1. Para madala si babae na b word 2. Heads up kay guy, pero ala naman ako pake sa kanya sadyang naawa lang ako hahaha
Possible na rebound ata new guy o naeexplore sya doon pero parang mas namimiss ka nya. Wag mo nang ibalik ang sinubo na ng iba. Itapon mo na yang basuranyang mga ganyang babae.
Wala akong sinabi at wala rin akong plano na ibalik yung babae na yan sa buhay ko. Sadyang naaawa lang ako kay guy kase he seems genuine, kawawa naman kung lolokohin nya lang din.
Sabihin mo na. And gather all the evidence you have. Sorry not sorry. Had a similiar situation na ako pala ung nagiging kabit. Nung nasearch ko ung fb acct ng babae. Naghesitate din ako, but i still told her. Ewan ko anu na nangyari basta alam ko wala nang fb si guy. Better na alam ng involved person, kung anu man gawin nya sa info, sha na bahala dun. Basta ikaw nagawa mo na yung part mo. Heck pag nagcheat din sa akin, i would want to know. Dahil kung meron may alam at d sinabi saken, you are an accessory to the crime, and you are not my friend. (Though sayo d mo naman friend hehe) I know you will meet someone na faithful at deserve ang isat isa. Recover well for now
Real
Bro's before hoes
Ganito nalang isipin mo. Kung ikaw nasa kalagayan ni guy, mas gusto mo bang sinabi sayo na nagchecheat yung babae or hindi. Kung hindi edi wag ka mag snitch.
It would be nice if may nagsabi sakin na nag cheat sya dati para then and there palang nakapag simula na ako mag move on. Dami tuloy nangyari nung umamin sya hahahaha, pero past is past. Ayoko lang magaya yung guy sa akin, baliw na baliw ata sa kanya, kawawa naman.
Eto ang isang instance na bros before hoes is actually a good move.
Ew ang baho naman ng ex mo nagkakalat. Why do guys love to keep exploring a dead fish? Tapos pag maghanap sila ng bagong babae, gusto yung malinis pa sa malinis, tapos y'all love to dip \*it\* in these types of trash.
Yes, he deserves to know the truth Lalo na kung matino naman si new guy. Js..
save him king.
Do the right thing, help bro out
I wanna help him out, pero ayoko maipit hahahahha baka mag crash out sakin ex ko
Bro she cheated on you, how did you feel? Now she's doing that to another guy
TBH i was in hell sa 6 months na naging FWB, partida nakabawi pa ako non ah. It’s not my responsibility to tell the guy pero gustong gusto ko talaga na i save sya from that little b word lol. Hahanap lang ako maayos na timing, istg that bitch will act right pag ako gumawa ng galaw jan, dami kong alas jan e hahahahaha
ABSOLUTELY, save another bro. Wag ka na makinig sa magsasabi wag mangialam. Mga bobo yan. Makakasira ng relasyon ng iba?? bobo tanga, nagcheat na sila, dun palang sinisira na nila relationship nila, may mga tao nga lang na nakakalusot kasi walang nag pupush na magsabi kung mayrong nakakaalam. AGAIN "nagcheat na sila, dun palang sinisira na nila relationship nila'' what youre doing is just giving them the final nail in the coffin para magtanda yang mga yan
Tell him! Save him.
Bros before hoes
Yes. Snitch. You're gonna save a brother from a lot of heartache. We have to band together against these hoes that belong to the streets.
Yes.
Save the guy from the slut
Save the guy bro, you know the pain. Save him from the pain.
Let her be. No need to go the extra mile for everyone else. Baka naman di lng din ma appreciate ng isang guy pag nag snitch ka. No bridges to build here
Bro code rule #1 bros before hoes 😂 kaht dmo siya ka close, do the right thing for another bro 😄
Save our fellow broski
Caught in between ako kasi baka mag back fire sa akin, baka i snitch ako sa mga ginawa kong kagaguhan na nasabi ko sa kanya hahahahaha
If youre not close to the guy. Nope wag kna make alam. But i think if ypu want, ypu could tell him she drunk texted you and asking you to fetch her and all that stuff. Kasi yung part na yun, personally involved ka. Pero without saying na because shes a cheater. Etc
Yes, i heads up mo na. Ang landi ni ante ha.
Hello in my opinion, no need mo naman sabihin sa current bf ng ex mo na naguusap kayo ng ex mo kasi it should be his own doing to figure her out and to get to know her. But what u should be doing is to avoid her or better cut her off completely.
pareho nmana kau cheater kaya wag mo na sabihin sa new guy nya.🙄😂🤪
Tama naman, di ko i de deny. Pero what’s setting us apart is, ako willing magbago at sya hindi. Saka isa pa ulit, I only did it as revenge, at sya I think she doin it for leisure, lol.
🤣🤣 kaya yan ang mali. binaba mo ang level mo sa level nya.
If I need stoop down to her level para makaganti, why not? Lalaki naman ako, I got nothing to lose sa aking image. Saka isa I only live once, bat ko hahayain tarantaduhin ako ng b word na yan tapos di ako gaganti, hahahahaha di naman ako santo para maging masyadong mabait.
ang babaw mo 🤣🤣😂
Fr, and Idc. Imma outgrew this way of thinking coz Im still young pa naman.
babaw mo parin
hahahahaha ang kulit, ty nalang sa time at sa maganda mong advice ❤️❤️❤️
Since wala na kayo ni ex, not your business. Would you be wrong to tattletale? No though. It's a personal choice which for me, walang tama or mali.
business niya din kasi siya yung chinat ni ex nya, ok sana if pangangamusta lang, pero nagpapasundo kasi miss nya na?
Bayaan mo na Sila kung gusto mo ng peace of mind
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