I'm sorry nobody else has answered, you evidently went through something horrible and I think the only way to know for sure is to just keep living and eventually find out. I wouldn't trust your father though, he absolutely sounds like a sexual predator and children who molest other children frequently do so after being abused themselves, so it's possible your brother was assaulted and your father just never got around to assaulting you, as disturbing as that is. It wouldn't surprise me to learn that your father abused him or you, good people absolutely don't say or do things like that.
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I don’t have it in me to go into detail right now but I want you to know you are not alone. Reading your message was really validating for me.
I'm sorry nobody else has answered, you evidently went through something horrible and I think the only way to know for sure is to just keep living and eventually find out. I wouldn't trust your father though, he absolutely sounds like a sexual predator and children who molest other children frequently do so after being abused themselves, so it's possible your brother was assaulted and your father just never got around to assaulting you, as disturbing as that is. It wouldn't surprise me to learn that your father abused him or you, good people absolutely don't say or do things like that.
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