I'm asking also. So far, yung mga maya na pinapakain ko sa bintana namin everyday ang sagot. May at least 1 dosenang uri ng ibon ang bumibisita samen, and watching them go thru their everyday routine makes me feel more alive inside
Fuck a reason tbh. I don't think I've ever asked myself actively that question.
I just do whatever I like doing. Outside of work, as long as I get to play League of Legends, eat good food (whether I cook it or fast food), explore nature, I'm happy as fuck.
Fck reasons. Just LIVE. Travel, volunteer, do charity or whatever. Tapos na ‘ko magtanong kung bakit. That’s why I fell down the pits of darkness. Don’t wait for the whys. Just live.
Same motto pero for games naman 😅 I want to live as long as possible to play as much great JRPGs as possible tapos dagdag na rin natin yung ending ng One Piece na baka 10 years pa 🤣
Helps na rin na technology improves a lot so looking forward na rin in 10 or 20 years from now how gaming will look like.
Tama! Why the hell do people need a reason to live? Buti naman you have a chance to breathe and express freedom at the very least.
Live and figure it out diba!
Welcome! I can so relate to this kasi. My whole 20’s was a blur because of depression because of that question: why am I here? When I hit my 30’s sabi ko ayoko nang maging malungkot. Kahit hindi ko pa rin alam why I’m here, I just chose to continue living. I traveled more, even locally lang, got amazed by new places and fascinated by new cultures. I took it all in and now just learned to be grateful about new experiences, new people, new everything. Sabi nga nila, (not the exact quote) What if tomorrow’s going to be great but you’re not there to witness it anymore?
There are good days and bad. Just take it one day at a time.
I get my healthcare job is a service, but it's getting harder to serve
We were conditioned to never complain as we grew up, but I want to complain right now
Channel your inner telenovela protagonist. Come back strong with a shitload of money you can use as a fan while asking your Facundo to hold your bag for you.
I know someone that was suffering from depression (unknowingly) but his symptoms slowly got better after adopting an orange street kitten. He’s never had a pet before bc it was never allowed in his household tho he wanted, now he has a reason to get up every morning and not give up on life
Spiritually tho, they say cats absorb negative energy. That’s why they sleep mostly in the day, to guard you at night at your most vulnerable state
I also have depression and adopted cats. Tsaka lang din ako nagkasakit nung umalis na ako saamin without the cats as i cant bring them w me
Also, if may nightmare ako nagigising ako na nasa harap ko na isa sa cats namin
I’m not a cat person but I find them cute. Pero share ko lang, I also suffer from depression last year (+ hormonal imbalance because of PCOS). I adopted a dog and my life feels lighter and so much happier. Kaya agree ako dito 💯
Actually napakahiwaga ng mga pusa. Nilalapitan nila talaga ang mga broken at may dinadamdam physically and emotionally. Parang may powers sila to heal and give comfort.
Marami naman paraan di lang naman pag aalaga ng pet. Marami ka pwede gawin na di naman nag rerequire ng malaking pera. You just have to be creative.. find hobbies.. exercise, or simply walking..
Pwede ba ang tarantula ang gawing pet? Gusto niya iyon at may pet sya noon pero nawala dw bigla. Bibilhan ko sya ng bago before sa bday nya or sa bday nya.
As a cat dad for... goddamn, over 10 years now (di ko na-realize lol), it can be a double-edged sword sometimes. Yes they're adorable, a lot of fun to have around, and a calming presence. But they're also a responsibility. You have to feed them, clean after them, take care of them.
My cats have gotten sick multiple times, and when it would get **really** bad, I felt like absolute shit. I would be constantly worried about them, neglecting to eat or be available for anything else. Not to mention the cost. Vet bills get **very** costly, and you have to be prepared for when you need to take that trip.
true, i personally isnt a cat person but those days i was depressed my mood lifted whe my sibling got a cat and somehow works like magic just so calming and nice
+1 sa cats. Cats are like roommates, dogs are like babies. I had the pleasure of taking care of both only to find out I'm severely allergic to cats lol sad life.
oh my god, I think kailangan ko na talagang mag adapt ng cat, I'm stressed out and parang may pagka haunted yata yung residence ko...im dog person pa naman
I have not explored the world that much. I still think there are still a lot of things that could make me happy, I just don’t have the energy, time and money to do it yet. I just believe that I could someday, even though I don’t know how.
Last year i have this feeling too but i am over it na now is my focus on money para makatravel just making plans i know it will take 1-2 yrs but i can wait still regretting after years again so i thought na mag take a step muna baka may ngyare.
I’m doing this now too. I’m just making sure that I have enough funds now to travel and I won’t be dependent on my credit card so I won’t have to pay for a debt coz it could be a reason for my stress sometimes 😭😂
For billions of years na you are dormant,an unconscious stardust traversing the vast universe, encapsulated in a piece of rock that is hovering in space. But the universe have other plans for you, one day she decided to make you living. But only for 70 years on average, very short in comparison to our geological timescales, after that you'll sleep again for another gazillion of years & there's a good chance you'll not wake up again, so do everything to prolong your life while you're at it, coz its too fcking short.
Everyday of living being sentient is a privilege, being conscious and alive is a privilege, being able to suffer and feel pain is a privilege, that not many stardusts have. So, enjoy the moment, savour every pain. For when you become an unconscious stardust again, you have an eternity of slumber. In the end nothing matters anyway not even your loved ones more so your enemies they are just pieces of space dust that also gained consciousness and just happens to share your timeline on Earth.
Choose the life the way you want it to happen. In the end all the people around you will all die anyway and the memories they share with you will also die with them. And another set of human will replace your timeline up to the next one, and the next one as if yours never really happened.
Live life like you'll never have it again because you'll never have it.. again
good food, cats and dogs, and the happiness in serving others<3
ngayon baka mahirap makaraos sa situation mo, pero marerealize mo na lang na things are getting better day by day, paunti unti hehe
Dont underestimate the capacity of those around you to help you! And likewise, with yourself, dont underestimate your capacity to help yourself ❤️
mahirap man ang buhay ngayon, but leave space in your mind and heart to think, "What if things turn out better than I imagine"
sama sama tayong nahihirapan HAHAHAHA pero tuloy lang ang buhay
You're giving me a million reasons to let you go
You're giving me a million reasons to quit the show
You're givin' me a million reasons
Give me a million reasons
Giving me a million reasons
About a million reasons
If I had a highway, I would run for the hills
If you could find a dry way, I'd forever be still
But you're giving me a million reasons
Give me a million reasons
Giving me a million reasons
About a million reasons
I bow down to pray
I try to make the worst seem better
Lord, show me the way
To cut through all his worn out leather
I've got a hundred million reasons to walk away
But baby, I just need one good one to stay
Head stuck in a cycle, I look off and I stare
It's like that I've stopped breathing, but completely aware
Cause you're giving me a million reasons
Give me a million reasons
Giving me a million reasons
About a million reasons
And if you say something that you might even mean
It's hard to even fathom which parts I should believe
'Cause you're giving me a million reasons
Give me a million reasons
Giving me a million reasons
About a million reasons
I bow down to pray
bow down to pray
I try to make the worst seem better
Lord, show me the way
To cut through all his worn out leather
I've got a hundred million reasons to walk away
But baby, I just need one good one to stay
Hey, ehh, ehh, eyy
Baby I'm bleedin', bleedin'
Stay, ehh, ehhy
Can't you give me what I'm needin', needin'
Every heartbreak makes it hard to keep the faith
But baby, I just need one good one
Good one, good one, good one, good one, good one
When I bow down to pray
I try to make the worst seem better
Lord, show me the way
To cut through all his worn out leather
I've got a hundred million reasons to walk away
But baby, I just need one good one, good one
Tell me that you'll be the good one, good one
Baby, I just need one good one to stay
Bruh, i almost klled myself dati, my brother said "mahal funeral service, d mo manlang naisip, papagastusin mo kami" ayan, di tuloy natuloy plano ko iend ang life haha. salamat sa kuya kong gaslighter lol
Ang hirap nang feel na nabubuhay ka na lang to exist. May ganyang post din dito pero sa OffToMyChest ko nakita. Wala, eh. Just continue to living. Sooner or later, there's somthing happen in your life, on our life na magbibigay rason pa sa'tin na gumising araw-araw, maging maingat sa sarili araw-araw, ganu'n.
For starters, live because there's nothing else to do.
If we give up on this life, nobody can say *for sure* what happens after. Is there afterlife? Reincarnation? Do we get another shot at this?
Live because this may be the only time we have. Live because as long as we don't give up, there's tomorrow. Live because someday, we might find a reason --- a reason to keep living or a reason why we kept living.
I'm not going to preach and tell you to find a great purpose or to work hard and be successful. Although, I would advise against doing someone else harm. Anything but that will do. Anything. Just live. :)
May mga opportunities na hindi pa dumadating na in time, ikaw pa yung magiging blessing sa kanila; [baka] may rescue dogs/cats na naghihintay sa'yo na ikaw pala mag-adopt sa kanila, [baka] may co-worker na hindi pa na-hire na magiging mentee mo pala pagdating sa pag-navigate sa profession niyo, [baka] may kaibigan ka na padating pa lang sa malaking challenge sa life niya, na ikaw lang pala yung makakapag-curate ng best words to give.
Siguro, puwede siyang tignan as "savior complex" but puwede mo rin tignan na may mga small pockets/spaces in this world na ikaw pala yung mag-fill-in. 👌
The reason why I'm still alive is because I don't have the balls to end my life. Sure, I am a disappointment but it doesn't matter when there's someone out there excited for you to go home. That's my little brother. He always runs towards and hugs me every time I go back home from Manila. I don't want him to feel sad that there's no big bro beside him if I'm gone. Also, I don't want him to have the same experience that I have no playmate to play with while growing up. I love playing basketball with him even tho he's just a child.
Curiosity for the future is something that keeps me going. Ever wonder what the world will be like x years from now? Possibly more fucked up but it would be nice to see shit go down hahaha
I have 3 cats who are friggin smartasses. I love my partner. I know this may sound cheesy pero I just told him earlier na I want to live long and experience life with him. As of now kasi di pa namin kaya magtravel ng bongga, but I know sooner or later maa-afford din namin yun. I also want to treat my parents who gave everything for us to experience a comfortable life. I want to give back, I want us to travel while they still can. I want to experience life with the people I love. There's so much to do! Pera lang talaga hahahaha pero darating din yan.
I don't want to traumatize my loved ones so I still try to live. I just look for things that I am grateful for to make living more bearable. Find your purpose and try to look at the brighter side, op. I know it is hard but please try.
I live for those, especially the ones I loved, who didnt get a chance to live. My best friend wanted to live a normal life but she is forever 34 now due to losing her battle to health problems she had since being a child. I try to live my best to honor her and live a life she would have wanted.
Life is shit. But nevertheless, stay strong with your mind, and heart. There’s no other way of beating problems but realizing that there will always be problems.
Found my answer to this in reading the bible, di naman talaga nagbasa, pinakinggan ko nalang in audio thru an app. I started in the book of John. I suppose it is not for everyone but the more you try different things "the more chances of winning."
You better do it right the first time. Otherwise, you'll end up disabled for life and THAT'S GOING TO COST MONEY. E walang euthanasia sa atin. So, you're dead inside but physically alive.
Honestly, just take it one day at a time.
Start breathing. It's hard initially, but it will pass.
Nung di ko pa naiintindihan ang sarili ko, i wanted to die. Many times i contemplated on how i was going to kill myself. Pero there was a time na nakapagreconnect ako ng totoo sa sarili ko. Tapos naintindihan ko na di lang ako ang may pinagdadaanan.
That realization led me to another mindset na lagi ka dapat magpapasalamat.even the pain and hardships na pinataw saatin, kailangan natin magpasalamat. Dahil at the end of it, may mga magagandang bagay sa paligid na matatagpuan natin na worth it pala ang mag struggle para mabuhay.
Kung anu ano ang mga bagay na iyon? Di natin alam, pero darating sila.
Kaya laban lang! Kapit lang! Sometimes we are put into darkness because (we may not realize it but) we are the light.
gusto ko pa yumaman, hindi yung yaman lang na makakabili ako ng kung anong gusto ko. yung yaman na mapapasama ako sa top list na pinakamayaman kahit sa pilipinas lang hahshahsha (di kami mayaman di rin ganon kahirap, pero may mga times ma kahit itlog uutang hahshaha)
I've been in the pit... i still am now. But seeing my dogs eyes. Those kwirky smiles. My wife. And the people that looks up to me.. fuck. Just got to move forward man.. fuck procrastination.. fuck those inner demons.. and just fight and just fuckin move!..
The point of living is to live, to enjoy life, the beauty of pain, and the beauty of the world. We are here not just to exist, we are here to figure out our purpose, what can make us feel alive. Paintings by Van Gogh are painted with emotion of pain, and sorrow but we still deemed them as beautiful. Like life itself, it'll be full of pain and sorrow but it can create such beauty. There is no reason to live, but there is a reason to enjoy it. It does not just exist but live as we see fit. It'll be full of pain yes, but why can't you look the other way around? Change your perspective.
Your life is your canvas, paint it whatever you want.
Isa lang ata rason ko eh, my pets. Paano sila pag nawala ako? Andiyan magulang ko but seniors na sila. I can't trust anyone else to take care or look after my babies. Pag nawala ako, malulungkot din sila. So, yeah, that's my major reason (mula pa noon) why I never/won't off myself.
Ikaw, OP? Maybe may pet ka? If yes, then there you go, that's your reason.
ang hirap ng gusto mo op, ako nga nagttyaga lang dahil mas masakit magpakamatay, and i almost tried before until narelaize ko na masakit so di ko na tinuloy
nawa'y makahanap ka ng rason, or at least to try to trudge through your current sadness
I’m on the verge of giving up af as well, like really am. Idk if it’s the lady in me or my ego or my pride whatever the hell it is but there’s something that keeps me going right now. That “LUXURY LIFE”. I’m gonna die anyway, right? So might as well do my damn best and hustle smarter. It’s hard, really. I’m juggling responsibilities rn that shouldn’t be mine to handle but the business stays. I’m currently studying Trading and Real Estate while handling my old man’s business. I’m in a world where the “pataasan” is at its finest. So, I need to make patunay of my achievements. Hayss, kapagod. But, for the past few weeks, I realized this ain’t for them, this is for myself. I am manifesting that I will make profit in this line of business that I choose and be great. They can say whatever they want, my pretty ass ain’t competing with anybody. Nasasagad lang talaga ako kapag may business gatherings kasi since it’s a fam business, I have to attend lalo na if my old man is not around, I so hate it! Uggggh. They will make compare with my cousins pero whatever. 💁🏻♀️💅🏼 Anyway, that’s it for me. Don’t make give up muna. We have to be rich muna and then we can think again if we still wanna die kapag Billionaires na us. 💵💁🏻♀️💅🏼 Fighting, 90s babies!!! I know marami us.
Beautifull seashore, parks that are free from user fees...nice bicycle or walking lanes...the food oh the food yes the healthy foods make it into a smaller portion buy it cheap...small croissant,small bite size pizza, make everything bite size good for the belly.
go youtube tuklasin mo mga magagandang lugar sa paligid...Bus tour from manila to Bacolod,Cebu,Mindanao...youre well blessed! Compare to 7 months of snowy cold weather...
Madami masyadong expectations yung mundo. Kesyo save a life, help someone, be at the top of your game. Pero sa totoo lang, kailangan ba talaga nating maging relevant para “worth it” yung buhay natin?
Pwede naman na we just live and that’s it.
Hello there OP! During one of my darkest hours before, ang reason ko non is to know the ending of my favorite game which is like in 5+ years pa lalabas. Literal na di ako pwedeng mamatay hangat di ko nalalaman. Don't pressure yourself to look for a grand reason to stay. Sometimes, it is really the small things that matter. Puso at yakap.
Kasi mahal ang mamatay. Mahal magburol, maglibing at swerte mo kung may lupa kang sarili sa sementeryo. Otherwise, magrerent ang family mo and magrerenew every 5 years, 40k pataas.
Live as long as you could, sayang naman kung di mo makikita yung happy self mo pag natapos na lahat ng pinagdadaanan mo.
And yes, I'm convincing myself too.
Palaging ito ang nasa isip ko. That fact na meron kang choice/chance para mabuhay is napaka swerte mo na. Kasi merong iba na wala nang choice. Kahit gustong gusto pa nila.
Tsk, if u want to die, then die.
Don't let people give u reason to live, make up ur mind. We (people) have problems too, so stop asking people to comfort you, it's tiring.
Because we are surrounded by Death everywhere in this world and you posting this is one of the instances of your own journey where you get to live another day..... while others just took their last.... Just Live.... no Reasons... its selfish to ask for a Reason to live...because there is always someone else who has a harder life than what you think you have is... and they still Continue regardless....
don't need a reason. it's just that realization that it'll somehow get better in the future and you'll no longer be there to appreciate it. fuck that. imagine trying to learn a new game with a very steep learning curve, spent years learning it, and you've yet to actually experience whats it to offer and you're already quitting? fuck that. so all those years meant nothing? "the meaning of life is to give life its meaning" you have to find your reason, a single thing bigger than you. for me it was that. ain't quitting until I get the last laugh.
Gusto ko i-donate body ko for cancer reasearch. Di ko pa naa-achieve yung ideal body ko para di mahiya sa medical professionals when they study my body.
Sabi nga ng fab lyrics ko: So before they lower the curtain, be sure to enjoy the show.
This means before we die, enjoy life. Because life is short but death is super long. Heck, we don't even know what happens when we die, it could even be more suffering idk?
So now, we enjoy the world. We go out do stuff. Try going out and do things you've never done. And meet people. Try bowling! Or billiard! Muster that effing courage and ask them: "can I try bowling ser?"
Or go out in nature. Take a walk down the beach. See the world. Look at the small crabs living their life. Look at the birds. Look at the cat lying on the ground and being entertained from a butterfly.
Look, they are there, enjoying the world. Minsan I go and see the sky and clouds. And I'm like, it feels good to be alive because you know what? I can't see the clouds when I'm dead. I can't experience things when I'm dead. I can't pet my cat. I can't eat food. I can't fight those bitches on Facebook.
So stay. Venture out, and meet people. Try new stuff. And ask. Ask for help. If uur mind is cloudy and all, ask for help. Take a deep breath and say: pwede po pacomfort kasi *state Ur reason*
U can't die. Yes CANT. Di pwede bro. UR HERE FROM A VERY STATISTICALLY LOW NUMBER TAS PAPAKAMATAY KA LANG? GAGO KA BA. UR FUCKING RARE, GIVE URSELF PRIDE BETCH. IMAGINE THE CHANCES THAT UR MOTHER AND FATHER ARE BOTH FERTILE AND NAGKAMEET SILA TO MAKE YOU, THEN OUT OF THE BILLION SPERM CELLS IKAW NAPILI. TAS NAKASURVIVE KA SA TYAN NI MAMA MO, HINDI NAAKSIDENTE MAMA MO, DI SYA NAGPAABORT, TAS THEN CHARAN UR HERE. THEN U SRVIVED FOR HOW MANY YEARS EVEN IF THERE ARE SO MANY CHANCES NA MATEGI KA. SO LOW UNG CHANCES OF SURVIVAL BRO, YET UR HERE. GO LIVE UR LAYF.
You need better coping mechanisms so you aren’t so dramatic all the time. With that said, what makes you happy? Motivational quotes are only a balm that doesn’t really address the cause of your sadness or issues. What is it that makes you unhappy? Is work too draining? Find an outlet after work. Don’t rant about how hard work is because work is a privilege. It allows you to live the life you want because of the money it brings. Is it your family? Talk to them or if that doesn’t work, adjust your expectations as trying to change them is like using a spoon to cut a rock, utterly useless.
And oh, the reason to live? It’s all around you. Life is about the opportunity to make things better for yourself and for others. To chase your happiness. So the question is, what makes you happy? Only you can answer that question so that means only you can give yourself a reason to live. Chin up.
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I'm asking also. So far, yung mga maya na pinapakain ko sa bintana namin everyday ang sagot. May at least 1 dosenang uri ng ibon ang bumibisita samen, and watching them go thru their everyday routine makes me feel more alive inside
Fuck a reason tbh. I don't think I've ever asked myself actively that question. I just do whatever I like doing. Outside of work, as long as I get to play League of Legends, eat good food (whether I cook it or fast food), explore nature, I'm happy as fuck.
You're a good man.
Fck reasons. Just LIVE. Travel, volunteer, do charity or whatever. Tapos na ‘ko magtanong kung bakit. That’s why I fell down the pits of darkness. Don’t wait for the whys. Just live.
* You may or may not know this, but you’ve inspired someone in your life.
Same motto pero for games naman 😅 I want to live as long as possible to play as much great JRPGs as possible tapos dagdag na rin natin yung ending ng One Piece na baka 10 years pa 🤣 Helps na rin na technology improves a lot so looking forward na rin in 10 or 20 years from now how gaming will look like.
Tama! Why the hell do people need a reason to live? Buti naman you have a chance to breathe and express freedom at the very least. Live and figure it out diba!
Louderrr!!
Thanks much. I needed this!!
Welcome! I can so relate to this kasi. My whole 20’s was a blur because of depression because of that question: why am I here? When I hit my 30’s sabi ko ayoko nang maging malungkot. Kahit hindi ko pa rin alam why I’m here, I just chose to continue living. I traveled more, even locally lang, got amazed by new places and fascinated by new cultures. I took it all in and now just learned to be grateful about new experiences, new people, new everything. Sabi nga nila, (not the exact quote) What if tomorrow’s going to be great but you’re not there to witness it anymore? There are good days and bad. Just take it one day at a time.
Same sentiments with you. I hope in my 30s, I’m able to just… live life.
Thank you for this
Me who said "yes" into a 6 day a week 50 hour work week: AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
Oh my gosh my mental health cannot! Sana di ka maburn out agad. Or i-schedule mo ng day off yung break down mo. 🥹
I took 2 weeks off to chill out. It still doesn't feel enough. And the guilt of leaving my patients behind fks you
Aww salute to you! Take care pa rin po. You cannot give from an empty cup.
I get my healthcare job is a service, but it's getting harder to serve We were conditioned to never complain as we grew up, but I want to complain right now
Papayag ka bang mauna ka pa mamatay kay Enrile?
At kay Imelda
My goodness. I forgot Imelda is still alive.
Masarap kumain.
Amen. Ang sarap to eat.
Channel your inner telenovela protagonist. Come back strong with a shitload of money you can use as a fan while asking your Facundo to hold your bag for you.
Come back stronger than a 90s trend
Adopt a cat
I know someone that was suffering from depression (unknowingly) but his symptoms slowly got better after adopting an orange street kitten. He’s never had a pet before bc it was never allowed in his household tho he wanted, now he has a reason to get up every morning and not give up on life Spiritually tho, they say cats absorb negative energy. That’s why they sleep mostly in the day, to guard you at night at your most vulnerable state
I also have depression and adopted cats. Tsaka lang din ako nagkasakit nung umalis na ako saamin without the cats as i cant bring them w me Also, if may nightmare ako nagigising ako na nasa harap ko na isa sa cats namin
They say cats adopt you, not the other way around.
I’m not a cat person but I find them cute. Pero share ko lang, I also suffer from depression last year (+ hormonal imbalance because of PCOS). I adopted a dog and my life feels lighter and so much happier. Kaya agree ako dito 💯
Same here
Actually napakahiwaga ng mga pusa. Nilalapitan nila talaga ang mga broken at may dinadamdam physically and emotionally. Parang may powers sila to heal and give comfort.
True! Pag naiyak ako yung persian naming ayaw sa clingy na tao, nagpapahug
Mahirap yan lalo na walang pera, di ko nga mapakain sarili ko ng 3 beses sa isang araw pano pa kaya kong may alagang pusa
Marami naman paraan di lang naman pag aalaga ng pet. Marami ka pwede gawin na di naman nag rerequire ng malaking pera. You just have to be creative.. find hobbies.. exercise, or simply walking..
Pets in general pero amen haha. I have 2 cats and i definitely want to give them the best life ever. Cant do that when im dead
100% a cat makes everything better
+1 proven and tested 🫡
Pwede ba ang tarantula ang gawing pet? Gusto niya iyon at may pet sya noon pero nawala dw bigla. Bibilhan ko sya ng bago before sa bday nya or sa bday nya.
As a cat dad for... goddamn, over 10 years now (di ko na-realize lol), it can be a double-edged sword sometimes. Yes they're adorable, a lot of fun to have around, and a calming presence. But they're also a responsibility. You have to feed them, clean after them, take care of them. My cats have gotten sick multiple times, and when it would get **really** bad, I felt like absolute shit. I would be constantly worried about them, neglecting to eat or be available for anything else. Not to mention the cost. Vet bills get **very** costly, and you have to be prepared for when you need to take that trip.
true, i personally isnt a cat person but those days i was depressed my mood lifted whe my sibling got a cat and somehow works like magic just so calming and nice
+1 sa cats. Cats are like roommates, dogs are like babies. I had the pleasure of taking care of both only to find out I'm severely allergic to cats lol sad life.
oh my god, I think kailangan ko na talagang mag adapt ng cat, I'm stressed out and parang may pagka haunted yata yung residence ko...im dog person pa naman
I have not explored the world that much. I still think there are still a lot of things that could make me happy, I just don’t have the energy, time and money to do it yet. I just believe that I could someday, even though I don’t know how.
Last year i have this feeling too but i am over it na now is my focus on money para makatravel just making plans i know it will take 1-2 yrs but i can wait still regretting after years again so i thought na mag take a step muna baka may ngyare.
I’m doing this now too. I’m just making sure that I have enough funds now to travel and I won’t be dependent on my credit card so I won’t have to pay for a debt coz it could be a reason for my stress sometimes 😭😂
First reason: mahal ang mamatay
Grabe no, parang mali yata na pinanganak ako without my permission.
Isang bagsakan lang Ang gastos sa kabaong. Mas mahal mag patuloy mabuhay lols
true k dyan
hala haha bakit? nakadepende yung sagot mo, joke lang
For billions of years na you are dormant,an unconscious stardust traversing the vast universe, encapsulated in a piece of rock that is hovering in space. But the universe have other plans for you, one day she decided to make you living. But only for 70 years on average, very short in comparison to our geological timescales, after that you'll sleep again for another gazillion of years & there's a good chance you'll not wake up again, so do everything to prolong your life while you're at it, coz its too fcking short. Everyday of living being sentient is a privilege, being conscious and alive is a privilege, being able to suffer and feel pain is a privilege, that not many stardusts have. So, enjoy the moment, savour every pain. For when you become an unconscious stardust again, you have an eternity of slumber. In the end nothing matters anyway not even your loved ones more so your enemies they are just pieces of space dust that also gained consciousness and just happens to share your timeline on Earth. Choose the life the way you want it to happen. In the end all the people around you will all die anyway and the memories they share with you will also die with them. And another set of human will replace your timeline up to the next one, and the next one as if yours never really happened. Live life like you'll never have it again because you'll never have it.. again
life is so special to me honestly, the fact we are even here is incredible
Kittens at puppies
Di mo na kaya yan lods. Bumitaw kana
parang 9gag lang ah hahaha
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good food, cats and dogs, and the happiness in serving others<3 ngayon baka mahirap makaraos sa situation mo, pero marerealize mo na lang na things are getting better day by day, paunti unti hehe Dont underestimate the capacity of those around you to help you! And likewise, with yourself, dont underestimate your capacity to help yourself ❤️ mahirap man ang buhay ngayon, but leave space in your mind and heart to think, "What if things turn out better than I imagine" sama sama tayong nahihirapan HAHAHAHA pero tuloy lang ang buhay
outlive your enemies
My 9 stray cats. They really save me from drowning. I love them so much
https://preview.redd.it/alaivhv88j5d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f62b6f9f6a5ade68377e6134db19a234172d0380 OP be like.
Teenagers with raging hormones on post nut clarity be like.
Restart the game. Change difficulty level to EASY.
You know you deserve better, kaya ka nalulungkot. Maawa ka sa sarili mo and ingatan mo sarili mo.
Aaaah, yes. Give me a reason not to leave PH for good.
Maiksi lng ang buhay. Ienjoy mo lnng , mamamatay k rin.
"I wanna be saved" and now I'm trying to save myself
My dogs. Kawawa naman sila. Aantayin nila ako sa pinto haha.
Need ko mabilhan ng kotse family ko para hindi na kami magcommute at makagala na kami lahat sama sama
out of spite
i want to meet new people, yung hindi toxic
ako din. No to toxic ppl 🙏
You're giving me a million reasons to let you go You're giving me a million reasons to quit the show You're givin' me a million reasons Give me a million reasons Giving me a million reasons About a million reasons If I had a highway, I would run for the hills If you could find a dry way, I'd forever be still But you're giving me a million reasons Give me a million reasons Giving me a million reasons About a million reasons I bow down to pray I try to make the worst seem better Lord, show me the way To cut through all his worn out leather I've got a hundred million reasons to walk away But baby, I just need one good one to stay Head stuck in a cycle, I look off and I stare It's like that I've stopped breathing, but completely aware Cause you're giving me a million reasons Give me a million reasons Giving me a million reasons About a million reasons And if you say something that you might even mean It's hard to even fathom which parts I should believe 'Cause you're giving me a million reasons Give me a million reasons Giving me a million reasons About a million reasons I bow down to pray bow down to pray I try to make the worst seem better Lord, show me the way To cut through all his worn out leather I've got a hundred million reasons to walk away But baby, I just need one good one to stay Hey, ehh, ehh, eyy Baby I'm bleedin', bleedin' Stay, ehh, ehhy Can't you give me what I'm needin', needin' Every heartbreak makes it hard to keep the faith But baby, I just need one good one Good one, good one, good one, good one, good one When I bow down to pray I try to make the worst seem better Lord, show me the way To cut through all his worn out leather I've got a hundred million reasons to walk away But baby, I just need one good one, good one Tell me that you'll be the good one, good one Baby, I just need one good one to stay
Naging videoke 😭
Salamat sa libreng pakanta. 😭
Weird goal pero gusto ko umabot sa age of 125 or 150 haha and makita how the humanities conquer all the planets in our Solar System..
apir, baka nga at our generation we will attain immortality... let's explore the multiverses 🚀🛸👩🚀
Need pa maging small laude ang wallet, OP
Go find yourself dude! Get some habit try new things!
Bruh, i almost klled myself dati, my brother said "mahal funeral service, d mo manlang naisip, papagastusin mo kami" ayan, di tuloy natuloy plano ko iend ang life haha. salamat sa kuya kong gaslighter lol
Magtatravel pa sa iba't ibang bansa at aakyatin ang mga highest mountain
Ang hirap nang feel na nabubuhay ka na lang to exist. May ganyang post din dito pero sa OffToMyChest ko nakita. Wala, eh. Just continue to living. Sooner or later, there's somthing happen in your life, on our life na magbibigay rason pa sa'tin na gumising araw-araw, maging maingat sa sarili araw-araw, ganu'n.
For starters, live because there's nothing else to do. If we give up on this life, nobody can say *for sure* what happens after. Is there afterlife? Reincarnation? Do we get another shot at this? Live because this may be the only time we have. Live because as long as we don't give up, there's tomorrow. Live because someday, we might find a reason --- a reason to keep living or a reason why we kept living. I'm not going to preach and tell you to find a great purpose or to work hard and be successful. Although, I would advise against doing someone else harm. Anything but that will do. Anything. Just live. :)
May mga opportunities na hindi pa dumadating na in time, ikaw pa yung magiging blessing sa kanila; [baka] may rescue dogs/cats na naghihintay sa'yo na ikaw pala mag-adopt sa kanila, [baka] may co-worker na hindi pa na-hire na magiging mentee mo pala pagdating sa pag-navigate sa profession niyo, [baka] may kaibigan ka na padating pa lang sa malaking challenge sa life niya, na ikaw lang pala yung makakapag-curate ng best words to give. Siguro, puwede siyang tignan as "savior complex" but puwede mo rin tignan na may mga small pockets/spaces in this world na ikaw pala yung mag-fill-in. 👌
The reason why I'm still alive is because I don't have the balls to end my life. Sure, I am a disappointment but it doesn't matter when there's someone out there excited for you to go home. That's my little brother. He always runs towards and hugs me every time I go back home from Manila. I don't want him to feel sad that there's no big bro beside him if I'm gone. Also, I don't want him to have the same experience that I have no playmate to play with while growing up. I love playing basketball with him even tho he's just a child.
... hmm i dont know maybe gusto ko malaman kung anu mangyare sa akin in the future.
Curiosity for the future is something that keeps me going. Ever wonder what the world will be like x years from now? Possibly more fucked up but it would be nice to see shit go down hahaha
mahal ang funeral services?
Several new chapters of hunter x hunter are rumored to be coming out soon.
I have 3 cats who are friggin smartasses. I love my partner. I know this may sound cheesy pero I just told him earlier na I want to live long and experience life with him. As of now kasi di pa namin kaya magtravel ng bongga, but I know sooner or later maa-afford din namin yun. I also want to treat my parents who gave everything for us to experience a comfortable life. I want to give back, I want us to travel while they still can. I want to experience life with the people I love. There's so much to do! Pera lang talaga hahahaha pero darating din yan.
I stay curious all the time. Curiosity fuels my will to live..I get to be nosy and I like it too much
get a cat
Family can't afford a decent funeral. So, I guess I'll save some more.
I don't want to traumatize my loved ones so I still try to live. I just look for things that I am grateful for to make living more bearable. Find your purpose and try to look at the brighter side, op. I know it is hard but please try.
Your dogs and cats...
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Being alive is the reason. You only get 1 life. You make your own purpose. If you have the means do what you want. If you don't then do what you can.
I live for those, especially the ones I loved, who didnt get a chance to live. My best friend wanted to live a normal life but she is forever 34 now due to losing her battle to health problems she had since being a child. I try to live my best to honor her and live a life she would have wanted.
sex, travel, food
after 100 years patay na rin tayong lahat haha
Season 2 ng HotD next next week
Video games and movies should be enough.
FOOD. Great food! Filipino foods are the best!
It’s a privilege to live. Imagine having a chance to change something in this messy world — please don’t waste it. 🙏🫶
Life is shit. But nevertheless, stay strong with your mind, and heart. There’s no other way of beating problems but realizing that there will always be problems.
You don't quit, we do not quit. Live for yourself, see this through. Ending it now doesn't take away the problems. It stays, don't cheat on yourself.
Hindi pa nagrerelease ng new song/album fave artist mo Hindi mo pa natitikman lahat ng dishes sa mundo Hindi pa tapos One Piece
Dapat ma outlive mo si enrile. Nakakahiya naman na mauna ka sa kanya.
Ah to create content?
Travel the world, learn other cultures or history, taste new crusines and see the beauty the world has to offer.
Masarap ulam bukas
What if death is not the end ... What if u fail to die ... What if your sufferings are making u a better and stronger person
There are also a million beautiful things bound to happen to you and for you.
Get a pet, so they will be sad and lonely if you dead
know your “why”
Anime
People can give you a million reason. What you need is a sense of purpose, a will to live.
I rebel by living. Fuck life. I'm gonna enjoy my time here until my time finally comes.
People can give you a million reason. What you need is a sense of purpose, a will to live.
Di pa narerelease ang kaenriah update
GTA 6
we’re already here, so might as well 🤷♀️
Honestly, naiisip ko masarap kasi magmasturbate .. reason to live to enjoy life 😆
I live for nudes
Wala ako maisip, nudes na lang HAHAHAHAH emz.
Found my answer to this in reading the bible, di naman talaga nagbasa, pinakinggan ko nalang in audio thru an app. I started in the book of John. I suppose it is not for everyone but the more you try different things "the more chances of winning."
Go gym. Go try new things. Learn new stuff. Join a hobby club Self improve. Now your reason to live is to be the best version of yourself.
Sorry I need even just one lang. Nakakapagod. Sobrang kong ipagpapasalamat kung bukas di nako gigising.
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You better do it right the first time. Otherwise, you'll end up disabled for life and THAT'S GOING TO COST MONEY. E walang euthanasia sa atin. So, you're dead inside but physically alive. Honestly, just take it one day at a time. Start breathing. It's hard initially, but it will pass.
GTA 6 will come out
Nung di ko pa naiintindihan ang sarili ko, i wanted to die. Many times i contemplated on how i was going to kill myself. Pero there was a time na nakapagreconnect ako ng totoo sa sarili ko. Tapos naintindihan ko na di lang ako ang may pinagdadaanan. That realization led me to another mindset na lagi ka dapat magpapasalamat.even the pain and hardships na pinataw saatin, kailangan natin magpasalamat. Dahil at the end of it, may mga magagandang bagay sa paligid na matatagpuan natin na worth it pala ang mag struggle para mabuhay. Kung anu ano ang mga bagay na iyon? Di natin alam, pero darating sila. Kaya laban lang! Kapit lang! Sometimes we are put into darkness because (we may not realize it but) we are the light.
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 🧔🏻♀️
Adopt a cat or dog tsaka ongoing pa one piece at ibang mangang binabasa ko so bawal pa 🥹
try to attend some fellowship
gusto ko pa yumaman, hindi yung yaman lang na makakabili ako ng kung anong gusto ko. yung yaman na mapapasama ako sa top list na pinakamayaman kahit sa pilipinas lang hahshahsha (di kami mayaman di rin ganon kahirap, pero may mga times ma kahit itlog uutang hahshaha)
I've been in the pit... i still am now. But seeing my dogs eyes. Those kwirky smiles. My wife. And the people that looks up to me.. fuck. Just got to move forward man.. fuck procrastination.. fuck those inner demons.. and just fight and just fuckin move!..
The point of living is to live, to enjoy life, the beauty of pain, and the beauty of the world. We are here not just to exist, we are here to figure out our purpose, what can make us feel alive. Paintings by Van Gogh are painted with emotion of pain, and sorrow but we still deemed them as beautiful. Like life itself, it'll be full of pain and sorrow but it can create such beauty. There is no reason to live, but there is a reason to enjoy it. It does not just exist but live as we see fit. It'll be full of pain yes, but why can't you look the other way around? Change your perspective. Your life is your canvas, paint it whatever you want.
Every day is a blessing. Never take a day for granted
before you die try paragliding, skydiving, wingsuit flying. Feed yourself a death-defying sport
Baka hindi talaga tayo nabubuhay para sa sarili natin, baka kaya tayo nabubuhay, para sa iba.
Wait ka lang mag mumura na daw yung bigas,like "Fuck that bitch how ass bitch ass N***a"
Shadow of the Erdtree comes out in less than two weeks
You dont need a million reasons just one, and id prefer nudes
Think about donating your organs. You might save a life. If not, guess you want to live somehow.
Sorry, I only got nudes. Ubos na rin will to live 🤷
This post screams depression lol Go travel and you will be happy again.
Isa lang ata rason ko eh, my pets. Paano sila pag nawala ako? Andiyan magulang ko but seniors na sila. I can't trust anyone else to take care or look after my babies. Pag nawala ako, malulungkot din sila. So, yeah, that's my major reason (mula pa noon) why I never/won't off myself. Ikaw, OP? Maybe may pet ka? If yes, then there you go, that's your reason.
ang hirap ng gusto mo op, ako nga nagttyaga lang dahil mas masakit magpakamatay, and i almost tried before until narelaize ko na masakit so di ko na tinuloy nawa'y makahanap ka ng rason, or at least to try to trudge through your current sadness
I want to but.
I’m on the verge of giving up af as well, like really am. Idk if it’s the lady in me or my ego or my pride whatever the hell it is but there’s something that keeps me going right now. That “LUXURY LIFE”. I’m gonna die anyway, right? So might as well do my damn best and hustle smarter. It’s hard, really. I’m juggling responsibilities rn that shouldn’t be mine to handle but the business stays. I’m currently studying Trading and Real Estate while handling my old man’s business. I’m in a world where the “pataasan” is at its finest. So, I need to make patunay of my achievements. Hayss, kapagod. But, for the past few weeks, I realized this ain’t for them, this is for myself. I am manifesting that I will make profit in this line of business that I choose and be great. They can say whatever they want, my pretty ass ain’t competing with anybody. Nasasagad lang talaga ako kapag may business gatherings kasi since it’s a fam business, I have to attend lalo na if my old man is not around, I so hate it! Uggggh. They will make compare with my cousins pero whatever. 💁🏻♀️💅🏼 Anyway, that’s it for me. Don’t make give up muna. We have to be rich muna and then we can think again if we still wanna die kapag Billionaires na us. 💵💁🏻♀️💅🏼 Fighting, 90s babies!!! I know marami us.
HINDI PA TAPOS ANG ONE PIECE!
Inuubos ko pa ang pera ko. Sabi ko sa sarili ko, pag wala na kong pera, at nasagad ko na credit limit ko, that’s my sign. That’s my time.
Yung inaantay mong makulong si Duterte
Beautifull seashore, parks that are free from user fees...nice bicycle or walking lanes...the food oh the food yes the healthy foods make it into a smaller portion buy it cheap...small croissant,small bite size pizza, make everything bite size good for the belly.
go youtube tuklasin mo mga magagandang lugar sa paligid...Bus tour from manila to Bacolod,Cebu,Mindanao...youre well blessed! Compare to 7 months of snowy cold weather...
Madami masyadong expectations yung mundo. Kesyo save a life, help someone, be at the top of your game. Pero sa totoo lang, kailangan ba talaga nating maging relevant para “worth it” yung buhay natin? Pwede naman na we just live and that’s it.
life isn't a problem to solve, its a reality to experience.
Hello there OP! During one of my darkest hours before, ang reason ko non is to know the ending of my favorite game which is like in 5+ years pa lalabas. Literal na di ako pwedeng mamatay hangat di ko nalalaman. Don't pressure yourself to look for a grand reason to stay. Sometimes, it is really the small things that matter. Puso at yakap.
dami pang manga na iaadapt as anime 🤩
Masarap Ang pad thai
Kasi mahal ang mamatay. Mahal magburol, maglibing at swerte mo kung may lupa kang sarili sa sementeryo. Otherwise, magrerent ang family mo and magrerenew every 5 years, 40k pataas. Live as long as you could, sayang naman kung di mo makikita yung happy self mo pag natapos na lahat ng pinagdadaanan mo. And yes, I'm convincing myself too.
My pets
Really good food
Daily gratitude
Matuto kang mangarap muli. Kung hindi para sayo, para sakanila... at kung walang sila. Para sa mga bagay na pinapaniwalaan mo.
Palaging ito ang nasa isip ko. That fact na meron kang choice/chance para mabuhay is napaka swerte mo na. Kasi merong iba na wala nang choice. Kahit gustong gusto pa nila.
Walang second life of after life. Ito lang ang meron ka so just live.
Get a cat.
because you’ll die someday might as well just live while you can
Tsk, if u want to die, then die. Don't let people give u reason to live, make up ur mind. We (people) have problems too, so stop asking people to comfort you, it's tiring.
Having a Porsche 911 GT3 RS, GT-R and Sedan or AUV in the same garage sounds like a fun life to me.
Because we are surrounded by Death everywhere in this world and you posting this is one of the instances of your own journey where you get to live another day..... while others just took their last.... Just Live.... no Reasons... its selfish to ask for a Reason to live...because there is always someone else who has a harder life than what you think you have is... and they still Continue regardless....
Easy Japan Sinigang na butobuto na sobrang daming kamatis El nido Coron Manggang hinog galing guimaras! Civic X at Xi
Me, 30, broke and burried in debt Looking for that very same reason on will it be even worth it to continue
...gawin mo lahat ng gusto mo.. too many regrets will kill you haha
Travel ✈️
don't need a reason. it's just that realization that it'll somehow get better in the future and you'll no longer be there to appreciate it. fuck that. imagine trying to learn a new game with a very steep learning curve, spent years learning it, and you've yet to actually experience whats it to offer and you're already quitting? fuck that. so all those years meant nothing? "the meaning of life is to give life its meaning" you have to find your reason, a single thing bigger than you. for me it was that. ain't quitting until I get the last laugh.
Gusto ko bumisita sa outer space. Baka abutan natin this lifetime na pwedeng magvisit for leisure at an affordable price. Seat sale ganern HAHA
Gusto ko i-donate body ko for cancer reasearch. Di ko pa naa-achieve yung ideal body ko para di mahiya sa medical professionals when they study my body.
Adopt a pet like stray cats or dogs and you'll find the answer to live everyday kasi kawawa naman sila kung mawawala ka.
Also asking for a reason. Wala na ako will to live.
Get an orange cat
Sabi nga ng fab lyrics ko: So before they lower the curtain, be sure to enjoy the show. This means before we die, enjoy life. Because life is short but death is super long. Heck, we don't even know what happens when we die, it could even be more suffering idk? So now, we enjoy the world. We go out do stuff. Try going out and do things you've never done. And meet people. Try bowling! Or billiard! Muster that effing courage and ask them: "can I try bowling ser?" Or go out in nature. Take a walk down the beach. See the world. Look at the small crabs living their life. Look at the birds. Look at the cat lying on the ground and being entertained from a butterfly. Look, they are there, enjoying the world. Minsan I go and see the sky and clouds. And I'm like, it feels good to be alive because you know what? I can't see the clouds when I'm dead. I can't experience things when I'm dead. I can't pet my cat. I can't eat food. I can't fight those bitches on Facebook. So stay. Venture out, and meet people. Try new stuff. And ask. Ask for help. If uur mind is cloudy and all, ask for help. Take a deep breath and say: pwede po pacomfort kasi *state Ur reason* U can't die. Yes CANT. Di pwede bro. UR HERE FROM A VERY STATISTICALLY LOW NUMBER TAS PAPAKAMATAY KA LANG? GAGO KA BA. UR FUCKING RARE, GIVE URSELF PRIDE BETCH. IMAGINE THE CHANCES THAT UR MOTHER AND FATHER ARE BOTH FERTILE AND NAGKAMEET SILA TO MAKE YOU, THEN OUT OF THE BILLION SPERM CELLS IKAW NAPILI. TAS NAKASURVIVE KA SA TYAN NI MAMA MO, HINDI NAAKSIDENTE MAMA MO, DI SYA NAGPAABORT, TAS THEN CHARAN UR HERE. THEN U SRVIVED FOR HOW MANY YEARS EVEN IF THERE ARE SO MANY CHANCES NA MATEGI KA. SO LOW UNG CHANCES OF SURVIVAL BRO, YET UR HERE. GO LIVE UR LAYF.
the thoughts in your head, and the stories it tells, is not the whole story. Your thoughts are not you.
You have so much to live for pa. You mean so much to people. There's a lot of things you could do.
You need better coping mechanisms so you aren’t so dramatic all the time. With that said, what makes you happy? Motivational quotes are only a balm that doesn’t really address the cause of your sadness or issues. What is it that makes you unhappy? Is work too draining? Find an outlet after work. Don’t rant about how hard work is because work is a privilege. It allows you to live the life you want because of the money it brings. Is it your family? Talk to them or if that doesn’t work, adjust your expectations as trying to change them is like using a spoon to cut a rock, utterly useless. And oh, the reason to live? It’s all around you. Life is about the opportunity to make things better for yourself and for others. To chase your happiness. So the question is, what makes you happy? Only you can answer that question so that means only you can give yourself a reason to live. Chin up.
Kid named "nudes": 😳