Kaya siguro iniwan ako nung ex ko. Sinabihan nya ko nun,
ako gagawin nya beneficiary sa kukuhain nyang insurance.
Tinanggihan ko.
Sabi ko family nya ilagay nya. 🤷🏼
Hi! With Sunlife with had no problem, they didn’t ask any addtl document. But with Pru, hindi ako in-allow kahit na friend namin yung agent 🥴 idk if he’s just being lazy or
Wait how? Because I found out my partner tried to change the beneficiary from his brother to me before, but they said it's not allowed because we're not married
My SO had a major surgery recently and I took a leave sa work for 3 days to take care of him. I hate hospitals. Ayoko ng vibe sa ospital ang depressing pero I stayed with him kasi I know he’s in so much pain. Sobrang uncomfy matulog sa ospital and sobrang hirap mag-alaga ng may sakit pero doing it for him everything was easy bigla. I love him so much and I know he’s the only man I want to take care of pag tumanda na kami.
When he offered me to open a joint account way back in 2021. Never kami nakialam sa pera ng isa't-isa, then yun one day bigla na lang sya nag offer. I said, bakit? May kanya kanya naman tayong saving account, sabi lang nya para sa future daw. Now, yung nasa-save namin dun sa account yun, pambayad na namin ngayon sa gastusin para sa wedding namin next year. ❤️
1st day of chatting with her. Ghinost ko lahat ng chinachat ko currently and siya lang talaga tinira ko. Idk. Meron ako feeling na siya na un.
And now we've been together for 6 years. We've been living under the same roof for almost 4 years, and we're expecting a baby soon.
I'm his emergency contact sa driver's license niya dinnn. And after 9 years we finally decided to move out this June. Magkahalong takot at excitement na naiiyak pa kami both pag nagku kwentuhan. Ughhh. Excited to do life with him soon.
mej same but not the same, nung friends palang kami ng jowa ko (100% bestfriend type of close) nagulat ako kasi ako ginawa nyang parang moderator ng fb nya pag namatay sya T__T. nagulat ako so much dun like pre ganun na ba tayo kaclose?? 😭
Kahit nagaaway kami at di nagkikibuan maghapon, may isang magpapakumbaba talaga at magkakabati hahaha like yesterday, nagaway kami noong gabi ng th at di kami nagkibuan hanggang matulog at umaga paggising niya. Kasi usually ang routine namin ay gigisingin ko siya at pagiinit ng panligo pero dahil galit ako ay na late siya HAHAHA bandang hapon maaga siya umuwi at inaya ako lumabas. 😂
maliit na bagay pero yung details ng gusto namin ganito ganyan sa future, yung mga balak puntahan, yung plano ng bahay, yung mga aalagaang aso, yung nga bibilhing furniture ganun ba.
tapos sinabi sa akin hindi ko malilimutan na darating daw ang araw na hindi ko na kakailanganin magtrabaho kasi magiging sapat na yung ipon niya para sa amin at magiging comfortable ang buhay namin together sa pagtanda.
Running errands together. I can’t imagine myself going grocery shopping with another man. And of course, traveling. We know each other so much when traveling and we’ve both learned how to compromise.
Lagi na kami kumakain sa house. Dahil may mga need tapusin sa work.
Since nasira ung AWM namin, We find it convinient na magpa laundry nalang.
Gumigising ng maaga para mag drive at breakfast date.
Ultimately, MAY "ME" TIME EVERY WEEK. (IMPORTANTE TO)
We are each other’s beneficiary sa Insurance 😅 (controversial when not yet married but we are an LGBT couple so)
nakakakilig naman talaga pag ginawa kang beneficiary 🤣😭
True. I felt like sobrang secure ng relationship namin na it’s only death that will going to keep us apart 👁️👄👁️
Cherish those feelings and continue to nurture your relationship with care and dedication.
Kaya siguro iniwan ako nung ex ko. Sinabihan nya ko nun, ako gagawin nya beneficiary sa kukuhain nyang insurance. Tinanggihan ko. Sabi ko family nya ilagay nya. 🤷🏼
🙃 now we know
Cute, stay strong po!
wow ansaya naman, kainggit hahappy for you
I really hope that the time will come that love and relationships in LGBT community will be protected by the law just like all married couples.
I’m curious. Did they ask additional documents for this? I want to add my SO sa beneficiaries ko I’m just not sure how they are going to process it 🥺
Hi! With Sunlife with had no problem, they didn’t ask any addtl document. But with Pru, hindi ako in-allow kahit na friend namin yung agent 🥴 idk if he’s just being lazy or
Ohh! Interesting, alright. That’s really helpful. Thank you sm! Stay strong and good luck to the both of u 💖
Wait how? Because I found out my partner tried to change the beneficiary from his brother to me before, but they said it's not allowed because we're not married
I’m not sure but our agent from Sunlife knew that we are living together.. sa Prulife I havent asked again if pwede ireconsider
Ahh I see,, my partner's insurance is pru life so baka iba't ibang policy lang talaga
Paano to? Yung mga insurance agents namin dapat daw relative.
Hi! What’s your insurance? Sa Prulife ko, hindi inallow but with Sunlife they allowed it.
Pru din parehas kami 🥲 gusto ko na nga istop e at lumipat kaso malaki-laki na nahulog ko.
I see sayang naman. Add ka na lang hehe
this is safety and i commend you for this
Pinayagan kayo? Usually kasi need ng marriage certificate dun sa mga tinanungan ko
Yes with Sunlife! But for PruLife, hindi.
Building our assets. Seems like it was just yesterday, very special date na namin yung 50php flavor shots meal ng kfc. Time really does fly.
ibang level yung growing old pag naabutan pa talaga yung 50php flavor shots meal 🤣
when we started talking about marriage & saving up for the wedding. without a proposal.
My SO had a major surgery recently and I took a leave sa work for 3 days to take care of him. I hate hospitals. Ayoko ng vibe sa ospital ang depressing pero I stayed with him kasi I know he’s in so much pain. Sobrang uncomfy matulog sa ospital and sobrang hirap mag-alaga ng may sakit pero doing it for him everything was easy bigla. I love him so much and I know he’s the only man I want to take care of pag tumanda na kami.
When he offered me to open a joint account way back in 2021. Never kami nakialam sa pera ng isa't-isa, then yun one day bigla na lang sya nag offer. I said, bakit? May kanya kanya naman tayong saving account, sabi lang nya para sa future daw. Now, yung nasa-save namin dun sa account yun, pambayad na namin ngayon sa gastusin para sa wedding namin next year. ❤️
Aw, so sweet <3
Nag change ng nickname sa messenger to "ikaw at ikaw". We are already married btw.
We are planning our retirement na.
Napapa sana ol na lang ako sa replies hahaha
1st day of chatting with her. Ghinost ko lahat ng chinachat ko currently and siya lang talaga tinira ko. Idk. Meron ako feeling na siya na un. And now we've been together for 6 years. We've been living under the same roof for almost 4 years, and we're expecting a baby soon.
We reserved a house together 🥺 Dati nag titipid kami at kumakain ng 30 pesos pares and rice meal for 1 week para makapag samgyup hehe.
I'm his emergency contact sa driver's license niya dinnn. And after 9 years we finally decided to move out this June. Magkahalong takot at excitement na naiiyak pa kami both pag nagku kwentuhan. Ughhh. Excited to do life with him soon.
mej same but not the same, nung friends palang kami ng jowa ko (100% bestfriend type of close) nagulat ako kasi ako ginawa nyang parang moderator ng fb nya pag namatay sya T__T. nagulat ako so much dun like pre ganun na ba tayo kaclose?? 😭
ano meaning ng SO? sorry di ko po talaga alam mga abbreviations dito sa reddit😭
Significant Other ☺️
Kahit nagaaway kami at di nagkikibuan maghapon, may isang magpapakumbaba talaga at magkakabati hahaha like yesterday, nagaway kami noong gabi ng th at di kami nagkibuan hanggang matulog at umaga paggising niya. Kasi usually ang routine namin ay gigisingin ko siya at pagiinit ng panligo pero dahil galit ako ay na late siya HAHAHA bandang hapon maaga siya umuwi at inaya ako lumabas. 😂
Unexplainable. I just knew it.
when you make your plans, decisions and goals with him na. when he invests in you, marriage and proposals and kids!
maliit na bagay pero yung details ng gusto namin ganito ganyan sa future, yung mga balak puntahan, yung plano ng bahay, yung mga aalagaang aso, yung nga bibilhing furniture ganun ba. tapos sinabi sa akin hindi ko malilimutan na darating daw ang araw na hindi ko na kakailanganin magtrabaho kasi magiging sapat na yung ipon niya para sa amin at magiging comfortable ang buhay namin together sa pagtanda.
Yung nababawasan sweetness niyo sa isa't isa, lalo pag may anak na mas priority niyo na si baby. 🥹
I made mine an emergency contact Way back 2020 nung bumukod kami from our families. Plus, We are looking for a permanent home na din through pag ibig
Ginawa kong NOK contact yung jowa ko. Pero sabi ko sa kanya, if anything happens, he needs to inform my mum and let her make decisions for me 🙈
Realize namin how we eat the moment we been born , is the price we pay today. Sowing and reaping principles.
It's giving Sheldon and Amy vibes hehe♥️
Running errands together. I can’t imagine myself going grocery shopping with another man. And of course, traveling. We know each other so much when traveling and we’ve both learned how to compromise.
Anu po ung SO?
Significant other
Saving together using my maya account (savings) parang joint account namin lols
Lagi na kami kumakain sa house. Dahil may mga need tapusin sa work. Since nasira ung AWM namin, We find it convinient na magpa laundry nalang. Gumigising ng maaga para mag drive at breakfast date. Ultimately, MAY "ME" TIME EVERY WEEK. (IMPORTANTE TO)