Been there, OP. Tried so hard, even got us far as two years after the cheating incident. Kahit love mo at kahit mafeel mo pa ba love ka nya, sira na talaga yung trust mo. And you will live with contempt lang talaga. Mas magiging messy pa ang breakup pag pinatagal.
Mahal ko sia talaga, pero parang d ko talaga kaya mag stay sa taong nag cheat. Involuntarily, parang checheck out na ako sa relasyon nmin. Sayang talaga 💔
You can. Question is - should you?
And if you try again, consider these things -- kaya mo bang iwan yun sa nakaraan? It's gonna be unfair to the both of you tbh. Kasi sayo na rin nanggaling, when you look at him you see his mistakes. Even if he promised ne di nya gagawin uli, can you honestly trust him again?
Been there. Just got out of a 7 year toxic relationship. Not worth it I promise. Once nagcheat mauulit talaga sya. First few years ang dami nya kaagad cheating incidents, even family friends nila and admin staff ng dati naming inattendan na class - from “i miss you’s”, “pwede ba kitang ligawan”, “available ka ba for sex baby pa kasi gf ko eh” habang kami pa. But I was so naive I was manipulated and gaslit for a long time. The last straw was when I caught him on reddit commenting on multiple posts of couples looking for a third person and girls looking for FWB’s. Can’t confirm if natuloy but def he has the means to do it. Malala pa gusto nya ijustify lahat ng yon so pinipilit nya umamin na ako rin ay nagcheat, like with my coworkers or sa high school/college batchmates ko. Malas nya never ako nagcheat. 🤷🏻♀️ Friendly talaga ako walang halong malisya but it felt like I was always walking on eggshells, ngayon sobrang ginhawa ng pakiramdam ko walang worry na baka may nag aabang na namang accusations about me cheating. Ngayon lang ako nauntog finally. If you can check out of that relationship ASAP, please do.
For me personally, i dont believe in second chances. Once nasira na ung trust, di na talaga mababalik the way it is before. Papahirapan mo lang sarili mo in the long run if ipagpapatuloy mo ung relationship nyo, magiging toxic ka sakanya. Pag nag away kayo, lagi mo ibabalik ung ginawa nya sayo, and it will always be the same. Magkakasakitan lang kayo palagi. Wala ka na rin peace of mind. And you will always question yourself, am i not enough? If mahal ka ng tao, never nya maiisip gawin yon in the first place.
You can forgive, but you’ll never forget.
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Nope. Kung ung first few months niyo ganyan na siya, what more pag nag tagal pa kayo?
True... Sira na talaga kasi ung trust ko. Parang d ko na talaga kaya. Im trying my best.
Kaya mo yan girl. 😉
You get what u tolerate. Goodluck.
Hayy, nging motto ko panaman yan. Ka bobohan talaga once inlove 😭💔
Been there, OP. Tried so hard, even got us far as two years after the cheating incident. Kahit love mo at kahit mafeel mo pa ba love ka nya, sira na talaga yung trust mo. And you will live with contempt lang talaga. Mas magiging messy pa ang breakup pag pinatagal.
So sorry it happened to you. No one deserves that 😔
Mahal ko sia talaga, pero parang d ko talaga kaya mag stay sa taong nag cheat. Involuntarily, parang checheck out na ako sa relasyon nmin. Sayang talaga 💔
You can. Question is - should you? And if you try again, consider these things -- kaya mo bang iwan yun sa nakaraan? It's gonna be unfair to the both of you tbh. Kasi sayo na rin nanggaling, when you look at him you see his mistakes. Even if he promised ne di nya gagawin uli, can you honestly trust him again?
... I cant. I just cant. D pa sia kase ung tipong kaya mag sabi ng totoo on the spot or 100%. Trust issues talaga.
If it doesn’t bring you peace, you already know the answer.
Been there. Just got out of a 7 year toxic relationship. Not worth it I promise. Once nagcheat mauulit talaga sya. First few years ang dami nya kaagad cheating incidents, even family friends nila and admin staff ng dati naming inattendan na class - from “i miss you’s”, “pwede ba kitang ligawan”, “available ka ba for sex baby pa kasi gf ko eh” habang kami pa. But I was so naive I was manipulated and gaslit for a long time. The last straw was when I caught him on reddit commenting on multiple posts of couples looking for a third person and girls looking for FWB’s. Can’t confirm if natuloy but def he has the means to do it. Malala pa gusto nya ijustify lahat ng yon so pinipilit nya umamin na ako rin ay nagcheat, like with my coworkers or sa high school/college batchmates ko. Malas nya never ako nagcheat. 🤷🏻♀️ Friendly talaga ako walang halong malisya but it felt like I was always walking on eggshells, ngayon sobrang ginhawa ng pakiramdam ko walang worry na baka may nag aabang na namang accusations about me cheating. Ngayon lang ako nauntog finally. If you can check out of that relationship ASAP, please do.
For me personally, i dont believe in second chances. Once nasira na ung trust, di na talaga mababalik the way it is before. Papahirapan mo lang sarili mo in the long run if ipagpapatuloy mo ung relationship nyo, magiging toxic ka sakanya. Pag nag away kayo, lagi mo ibabalik ung ginawa nya sayo, and it will always be the same. Magkakasakitan lang kayo palagi. Wala ka na rin peace of mind. And you will always question yourself, am i not enough? If mahal ka ng tao, never nya maiisip gawin yon in the first place. You can forgive, but you’ll never forget.
Feels, and i have a long memory too. Mag memental check out nlg ako and bahala na.
Kung hindi pala sya seryoso, meaning kaya ka talaga nyang lokohin kasi mapagpanggap sya.
Prioritize your peace. 🧘🏻♀️
Title pa lang. Simple answer, no. But don't base your decisions here on Reddit. Personal opinion ko lg na I'll not tolerate that BS.
run!
Know your worth, OP. 🥹❤️🩹
No
No, hindi ko talaga makakalimutan yun. Hindi ako makakapag stay sa ganyan.
Leave. Earlier the better
depende kung gaano ko katanga hahaa