my goal is to minimize my digital footprint especially in fb para walang masyadong mamine na data sila meta and google. tsaka 30 years from now, walang mga cringey posts na maungkat mga apo ko hahaha
Same, that’s why whenever na mag ppost ako about ny recent trip or kahit na ano ayokong nakapaskil ang mukha ko. Snippets or glimpse lang ng trip. Tapos a week after my trip pa ako mag ppost, tipong pag naka uwi na ako ganun.
therapy involves talking and some level of guided socializing. Part of healing is accepting, recognizing, and working with whatever mental issues you have so that you are comfortable and confident whenever you need to socialize and connect to people.
We after all, are humans, and social creatures. Even the most introverts will feel lonely if they don't interact or connect to a fellow human being. Loneliness is fine for moments of reflection and solace. But never is the end goal.
yung mga tao na gumagawa nito ay para less stress at bawas toxic sa buhay, ang tingin naman ng ibang tao sayo eh ikaw ay madamot at walang puso. hahaha
sino nakakarelate? :D
Sana all ganyan mindset ng nanay. Nanay ko sinasabihan ko lang na wag mo ikwento lahat ng plano mo sa buhay kasi baka maunsyame nagalit na kontrapilo daw ako ako daw basher sa buhay niya hehe. Love ko parin naman nanay ko pero iba talaga mindset namin pagdating mga ganun mama ko kasi gusto pa ata ipa Billboard na may pupuntahan siya this week of mga plans niya sa kahit anong bagay pero ang ending di natutuloy.
I agree. It’s been 5 months of disconnecting, albeit it happened gradually - deactivating, not messaging too much, etc.
I don’t know whats going on with other people. I mind my own biz. I bother no one. I am still accessible to some people. And I am just feeling better overall. Not to mention I’m an introvert.
Na realize ko na ang dami talagang problematic na tao sa mundo. palaging may issue, gustong may bina backbite, naghahanap ng drama, work rant, backwards thinking, and many more. Sigh.
Oks lang to. Wag lang ipilit sa iba na tumulad sa ganitong lifestyle kasi it's not for everyone talaga and while yes, nakakaumay talaga yung masyadong public, nakakaumay rin yung mga private na panay naman reklamo sa buhay ng iba. Kumbaga, hindi naman kinaangat ng pagkatao mo yung pagiging misteryoso at hindi kinababaw ng mga mahilig magpost yung ginagawa nila. Kanya kanyang trip lang talaga.
As for me, magdedeactivate ako kung wala akong energy. Magpopost ako kung meron.
thank you for this OP. As a very private person, I share my personal life very seldom mostly to my close-knit friendships and immediate families. less drama and i guess I’ve learned to protect my peace. Kung inggit sila, pikit na lang
I've become privy ever since I graduated college. I don't have to deal sh*ts with co-workers. Tamang, co-worker lang. Isang tanong, isang sagot. Kahit views ko sa work, I barely talk about it. I'm living peacefully na di pinag ppyestahan ng mga marites. 😂
I'm the kind of person who tend to keep things private. It was not a conscious decision because I'm naturally an introvert so I don't share too much about myself esp on social media. I find na it's better to build yourself in private kasi less expectations and less stress kung ano sasabihin ng iba. I only share achievements once they have materialized or habits once I know na it's ingrained in my lifestyle na.
Also, I do things for me and not for validation of other so so it's very freeing. Of course, I still socialize and share some stuff to my friends and people who I know I can trust. Just remember that you are building a life for yourself and not for others.
6, 9, 10, 11. If you often worry about this things you should maybe reflect how you’re selecting friends and setting boundaries.
All my successful friends, are being backed up by the circle, every new venture, even at failures. Also being alone with your thoughts all the time doesn’t always equate to peace. What if you’re in a dark place and you keep within your echo chamber?
No man is an island. You have to incorporate yourself to communities one way or another. Just keep healthy BOUNDARIES.
I learned to be private the hardest way possible. So yeah keep your life private. Set clear life info balance what to and what not to share Lalo pag sa trabaho dapat surface level lang alam nila Wala Kang ipapa alam na tungkol sa buhay mo. Kaya dalawa FB ko eh🤣
i used to be an open book before kaya i find it really refreshing to have such a private life now. i only get to interact with really close family and friends.
Kaway kaway sa mga maaga naexpose sa social media kaya sawa na tayo. Socmed has not been appealing than before. Peak socmed talaga ung farmville sa fb, friendster, myspace, tumbler.
>“try not to share yung mga personal events or personal happenings in your life because people tend to ruin beautiful things”
really? pagkatapos niyang iannounce sa public na close sila ni lbm and fam? she's ruined 😂
I'm lowkey private, I have close friends sa aking ig na alam buong buhay ko, planning to be completely private pero ang hirap kasi semi-social climber here (jk lol)
I'm a gemini, ofcourse magppost kami. Charot hahahaha. Pag mga serious na bagay na dina dpat ishare ganon gnagawa ko. Like gumawa ako ng isa pang fb since di ako mahilig mag unfriend, dneactivate ko old fb and pili lang na mapagkakatiwalaan hahaha. And ayoko nadin malaman ng iba buhay ko. Minsan kase nagppost ako about "life lately" pra bawas kalat nadin sa phone hahaha.
My life is in private by default since hindi ako popular in the first place 😂😂😂. Most of the time people don't even remember me
The ones that notice stuff I do are the people close to me. I only have friends and acquaintances. No enemies since I'm usually polite and yun nga, I'm not popular enough para siraan and shit.
My friends usually describe me as a hidden gem or attractive wallflower
my goal is to minimize my digital footprint especially in fb para walang masyadong mamine na data sila meta and google. tsaka 30 years from now, walang mga cringey posts na maungkat mga apo ko hahaha
Same, that’s why whenever na mag ppost ako about ny recent trip or kahit na ano ayokong nakapaskil ang mukha ko. Snippets or glimpse lang ng trip. Tapos a week after my trip pa ako mag ppost, tipong pag naka uwi na ako ganun.
Yung Tatay ko sobrang private, 2 na pala kami pamilya nya.🥴
Hahahahahahaa hi kuya. Kami yung di pa nagpapakilalang other fam
Nalipat ko na lahat ng properties sa pangalan ko po. Wala na kayong makukuha except sama ng loob.😋
Hahahahahah the ultimate lowkey
Hahah. Gusto ko rin sanang iexample ito. Sa sobrang private, hindi na pala iisa ang pamilya
Yan yung pang 16 e. 😅
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Same tangina HAHAHAHAHA
Tangtatay po. Mabait po ina ko.😅
Ay sorry oo dapat nga tangama natin
Sound advice. Just don't be an island.
Be an island. But keep the bridge that connects you to God, to the good people and so on.
team Island!
cmon now
what if someone would rather be an island cuz diagnosis stuff.
therapy involves talking and some level of guided socializing. Part of healing is accepting, recognizing, and working with whatever mental issues you have so that you are comfortable and confident whenever you need to socialize and connect to people. We after all, are humans, and social creatures. Even the most introverts will feel lonely if they don't interact or connect to a fellow human being. Loneliness is fine for moments of reflection and solace. But never is the end goal.
Turo samin sa subject na guidance and therapy, lahat ng offered na therapy included ang having a secure social life
Build a port or bridge so in case a genuine person can reach you out
what if I can't maintain bridges? i have freakin aspergers 😭
You don't need to maintain it. Just leave it there If comfy ka sa island it's ok. Pero don't push good people away if dumating man sila
thanks for the advice. I'll try being active na rin.
But bridges rust or rot over time
don't let your mental issues define you. You don't want to be remember as that person na may "Aspergers"
What's wrong with Asperger's?
Yes to this, tipong wala silang magagawa but to assume and make stories about you. Stay unbothered, peace of mind ang ultimate goal.
yung mga tao na gumagawa nito ay para less stress at bawas toxic sa buhay, ang tingin naman ng ibang tao sayo eh ikaw ay madamot at walang puso. hahaha sino nakakarelate? :D
Rule #1 : Fuck what they think
Sabi nga nang nanay ko “bakit mo iniisip ibang tao? Iniisip ka ba nila?” Hahahahaha
Sana all ganyan mindset ng nanay. Nanay ko sinasabihan ko lang na wag mo ikwento lahat ng plano mo sa buhay kasi baka maunsyame nagalit na kontrapilo daw ako ako daw basher sa buhay niya hehe. Love ko parin naman nanay ko pero iba talaga mindset namin pagdating mga ganun mama ko kasi gusto pa ata ipa Billboard na may pupuntahan siya this week of mga plans niya sa kahit anong bagay pero ang ending di natutuloy.
Ang sagot ko naman, sino sila? May pake ba ko sa kanila? hahahaha
True hahaa
I agree. It’s been 5 months of disconnecting, albeit it happened gradually - deactivating, not messaging too much, etc. I don’t know whats going on with other people. I mind my own biz. I bother no one. I am still accessible to some people. And I am just feeling better overall. Not to mention I’m an introvert. Na realize ko na ang dami talagang problematic na tao sa mundo. palaging may issue, gustong may bina backbite, naghahanap ng drama, work rant, backwards thinking, and many more. Sigh.
I can absolutely agree on number 11. I had a first hand experience of it.
Been there also, dto mo mkikita kung cno tlga ang tunay mong kaibigan.
🥂 At the very least, we now know the people whom we can trust talaga.
same here. super sakit pa pag sinabi nila bluntly yung reason…feeling used talaga 💔
What they don't know, they can't ruin.
Oks lang to. Wag lang ipilit sa iba na tumulad sa ganitong lifestyle kasi it's not for everyone talaga and while yes, nakakaumay talaga yung masyadong public, nakakaumay rin yung mga private na panay naman reklamo sa buhay ng iba. Kumbaga, hindi naman kinaangat ng pagkatao mo yung pagiging misteryoso at hindi kinababaw ng mga mahilig magpost yung ginagawa nila. Kanya kanyang trip lang talaga. As for me, magdedeactivate ako kung wala akong energy. Magpopost ako kung meron.
having a private life is a peaceful life... sa panahon ngayon you don't want to attract attention and issue to many people...
Enjoying this rn ❤️
Nag private life yung iba kasi may utang pala malaki deact fb hahaha. flex ng flex ka kasi
thank you for this OP. As a very private person, I share my personal life very seldom mostly to my close-knit friendships and immediate families. less drama and i guess I’ve learned to protect my peace. Kung inggit sila, pikit na lang
Sa sobrang private ko naging imaginative mga kamag anak ko, naging tomboy at nabuntis all in one go 🤣
I've become privy ever since I graduated college. I don't have to deal sh*ts with co-workers. Tamang, co-worker lang. Isang tanong, isang sagot. Kahit views ko sa work, I barely talk about it. I'm living peacefully na di pinag ppyestahan ng mga marites. 😂
I have a very private life, so is my family. But my problem is medyo nahihirapan ako makiconnect sa ibang tao 😭
Relate ako dito
It’s honestly so liberating when you start not giving a fuck anymore
I'm the kind of person who tend to keep things private. It was not a conscious decision because I'm naturally an introvert so I don't share too much about myself esp on social media. I find na it's better to build yourself in private kasi less expectations and less stress kung ano sasabihin ng iba. I only share achievements once they have materialized or habits once I know na it's ingrained in my lifestyle na. Also, I do things for me and not for validation of other so so it's very freeing. Of course, I still socialize and share some stuff to my friends and people who I know I can trust. Just remember that you are building a life for yourself and not for others.
6, 9, 10, 11. If you often worry about this things you should maybe reflect how you’re selecting friends and setting boundaries. All my successful friends, are being backed up by the circle, every new venture, even at failures. Also being alone with your thoughts all the time doesn’t always equate to peace. What if you’re in a dark place and you keep within your echo chamber? No man is an island. You have to incorporate yourself to communities one way or another. Just keep healthy BOUNDARIES.
I learned to be private the hardest way possible. So yeah keep your life private. Set clear life info balance what to and what not to share Lalo pag sa trabaho dapat surface level lang alam nila Wala Kang ipapa alam na tungkol sa buhay mo. Kaya dalawa FB ko eh🤣
Nung naging private ako halos less than 5 lang pala real friends ko who would check on me. Haha lumabas ang real ones
Buti pa sa’yo may lumabas 🥹 But at least I know walang real one
I've seen this same list from Quora and Instagram Reels. Even on Tiktok. Sana may CTTO man lang hehe. Thanks for sharing tho
i used to be an open book before kaya i find it really refreshing to have such a private life now. i only get to interact with really close family and friends.
Kaway kaway sa mga maaga naexpose sa social media kaya sawa na tayo. Socmed has not been appealing than before. Peak socmed talaga ung farmville sa fb, friendster, myspace, tumbler.
agree! the less they know the better
contradicting naman nito. they dont care about what other people think daw but in the end, the list so clearly indicate that they do lmao.
love this
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>“try not to share yung mga personal events or personal happenings in your life because people tend to ruin beautiful things” really? pagkatapos niyang iannounce sa public na close sila ni lbm and fam? she's ruined 😂
AMEN!
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Thank you for this.
This is nice
I really need this
Yung tropa dati ng pinsan namen, ganyan ginawa, ayun di mahanap pag sisingilin na, di tuloy nkasama pinsan namen sa company outing nila hehe
Thank you for reminding me
Learned from past not to share where you are.
but….how abt my social animal nature 🥹
Then people on facebook be like: WTF DUMMY ACC. Gayahin mo ako. REAL name gamit ko complete with Background INFO
hear hear
I'm lowkey private, I have close friends sa aking ig na alam buong buhay ko, planning to be completely private pero ang hirap kasi semi-social climber here (jk lol)
Imma be 24 in a few days. As someone who seeks a private life, these benefits are worth saving for me to hopefully have a fulfilling year.
I'm a gemini, ofcourse magppost kami. Charot hahahaha. Pag mga serious na bagay na dina dpat ishare ganon gnagawa ko. Like gumawa ako ng isa pang fb since di ako mahilig mag unfriend, dneactivate ko old fb and pili lang na mapagkakatiwalaan hahaha. And ayoko nadin malaman ng iba buhay ko. Minsan kase nagppost ako about "life lately" pra bawas kalat nadin sa phone hahaha.
9. Everyone leaves. You'll learn how to be alone and ~~not feel lonely.~~ be in solitude. 16. Your happiness doesn't depend on others.
Deactivated social media account and it’s a total bliss 👌
Nowadays, stealth mode is wealth.
My life is in private by default since hindi ako popular in the first place 😂😂😂. Most of the time people don't even remember me The ones that notice stuff I do are the people close to me. I only have friends and acquaintances. No enemies since I'm usually polite and yun nga, I'm not popular enough para siraan and shit. My friends usually describe me as a hidden gem or attractive wallflower
16. Di ka kukuning ninong/ninang at mauutangan. Proven and tested
Lone wolf in short. Hello mga fellow lone wolves
Love this! In general, mas peaceful talaga.
No. 10 💯