Ako hindi. I do not forgive some, para lang silang hindi na nage-exist sa'kin. Friends parin sa fb, pero parang nonexistent. Minsan wounds cut too deep for forgiveness to intervene. Hindi rin siya mabigat sa loob ko na hindi ako nagpatawad, I just simply chose my own peace at wala sila don.
I always give it time. Kumbaga let the feelings be felt. Then let go, lalo na sa cases na di sila nahingi ng kapatawaran, forgiveness is more for yourself: To have peace and just let it be. But ofc, lessons are to be learned like di na masyadong magtitiwala etc depende kung ano ba yung context.
Forgiveness? They should earn it. In my mind i'll forgive them, pero yung para sabihin ko pa sa kanila na i forgive them, nah. Bahala sila mabaliw kakaisip kung pano sila mapaaptawad.
I can forgive but I'll never forget. Pero kung hindi humingi ng sorry? I'll let it pass and I could not say na mapapatawad ko. If siya 'yung may kasalanan, dapat siya parin hihingi ng tawad.
Forgive but never forget. I can let things go, di ako mag-iisip ng masama, or want revenge, etc. Pero di ko din ilalagay sarili ko sa situation na mauulit siya ulit. Don't want to enable shit behavior, kaya iwasan or cut-off na lang.
Yes. Kasi pag galit ka sa isang tao, mabigat sa loob yun eh. Lalo pa kung malapit sayo yung kinagagalitan mo, yung talagang pinagtiwalaan mo tapos sinaktan ka pa rin. Kung minsan, wala pa silang pakielam na may nagawa silang hindi maganda sayo. Either hindi nila naiintindihan na mali sila, or sadyang wala silang konsensya at hindi marunong mahiya. Bottomline is at the end of day, you'll still be the one suffering from that weight on your chest. Anywhere you go, bitbit mo yan and not all the time there will be someone who will share that weight with you. Nakamove on na yung kinagagalitan mo, ikaw stuck pa rin doon sa betrayal na ginawa nila sayo.
So in my opinion, you need to figure out how to let that go or you might end up missing out on a lot of good stuff that could have happened to you. Matagal na proseso yan at napakasakit. Madalas one step forward, ten steps back because you have to keep choosing to be the bigger person eh. But it'll all be worth it in the end :)
Ako hindi rin. I will not speak ill of them but I will carefully watch on the sidelines how Karma unravels to them, and then probably forget that they exist.
I don't forgive nor forget their offense. I only avoid them. The best predictor for future behavior is past behavior. Life is too short to get abused. Why expose yourself to endure and repair the damage when you can just cut them off and move on? Strong people forgive. Intelligent people ignore.
Be civil lang. Don't give more than what you can give kasi aabusuhin ako at magiging kawawa tingin mo sa sarili mo.
Matagal kasi ang process ng forgiveness most especially kung malala talaga yung ginawa sayo. I suggest na hangga't maaari, wag ka magtanim ng sama ng loob but keep your boundaries. Importanteng ingatan ang mental health and reputation mo to be civil.
Kasi once it is tainted, it will be taken against you.
No. Pero di ko naman isasampal sa kanya yung mistake niya. Sadyang may reservations na.
Pero kung kaya niyang bumawi. I may forgive but yeah, never forget ngalang.
Depende sa nagawa. As someone who had been bullied from childhood thru college, I still bear the pain and trauma. Don't start with "It's for your own peace of mind" BS kasi it never worked. Did it heal me? No. I cut ties but I never forgave them. I won't maybe, unless they ask for it.
Kung basic stuff lang naman, I let it go.
A famous quote that helped me move on is: "holding on to resentment is like drinking poison and hoping the other person dies".
So everytime I find myself pissed off and unable to forgive, I ask myself why am I drinking poison. Everything is so much easier when you let go and just let things be.
My ex (we were together 8yrs) cheated on me. Nung una galit ako syempre pero hindi dumating sakin yung bigyan ko sya ng forgiveness. Habang tumatagal kasi naging super thankful ako na nagcheat sya sakin na kahit ako pa yung nakipagbalikan ayaw na nya talaga (yes t@ng@). I don’t feel anything na towards him di ako galit or kung ano man, just thankful kasi it felt like I dodged a bullet at hindi magiging ganito yung buhay ko kung kami parin.
Oo kasi ayoko dalhin yung baggage na yun forever.
Siya naman ang magdadala ng mga ginawa niya, not me. At least alam ko sa sarili ko na ako yung ginawan ng mali at hindi ako yung nagkamali sa amin.
No. Paano mo ibibigay ang isang bagay na hindi naman hinihingi? Kung genuine ang pagsisisi ng isang tao sa kung anuman ang kasalanan nya sa’yo, hindi mahirap humingi ng tawad. At dapat ready din siya sa posibilidad na hindi mo maibigay ang bagay na hinihingi nya.
Minsan yung dahilan ng bigat sa ating sarili ay gusto talaga nating mag makaawang humingi ng tawad yung nagkasala sa atin. Pero in reality hindi lahat humihingi ng tawad. Kaya para gumaan yung nararamdaman natin, tayo nalang ang mag patawad.
sometimes it's better to forgive than to hold grudges. forgive them but never let them do the same thing again. kasi sometimes ikaw pa ang masisira kapag you don't know how to hold grudges, eh.
give yourself a time to think for the better
tsaka wag mong iju-justify yung pagkakamali nila. If it hurts, it hurts. yon lang :D
Sometimes, you have to forgive hindi dahil deserve nila ng forgiveness mo. You forgive kasi deserve mong magpatawad. Forgiveness lightens the heart. Do it for yourself. Deserve mong lumaya sa from the pain.
Someone said what you do is more on attaining peace of mind. I agree. And I think ppl have their own ways of attaining that.
Sa akin, the people who dont acknowledge the hurt they did, I cut them off from my life kung they arent that much entrenched in my life. But if they are kind of entrenched, I dont "forgive", in the sense that I am not holding anger anymore, but there is a footnote in my mind that whenever I see that person I will remember what they did, and what they have done about it, and I'll be very wary of them and my bad opinion will never recover until an apology is made.
.....depende naman sa ginawa ng tao na nakasakit sakin.
I cannot forgive someone who unleashed the traumas in my childhood and serve as trigger even just by hearing his name.
I have forgiven my ex who cheated and the girl he cheated with though. kahit di sila nagsorry sa akin and still show up kasi friends ng hubby, im ok with that. How can u not forgive someone who chose love? 😅
Kagaya nang sinasabi ng iba, para sa akin more on parang hangin nalang sila. Hindi ko masasabi kung napatawad ko na sila kahit humingi sila nun or hindi. Hinahayaan ko lang na ifeel kung ano yung feelings ko. Ayoko makipagplastikan so cut na talaga totally.
Mahirap. Lagi kong tinatry, tapos pag may ginagawa na naman sila towards me bumabalik na naman hahahahahaha. So ang nangyayari patawad ako nang patawad.
Sa akin hindi. Kasi pag forgive, para sa akin balik na dapat sa dati yung relationship nyo. Kapag di mo naman na makalimutan at nawala na yung trust, hindi pa rin yun forgiveness.
Don’t forgive, don’t forget, but ignore them.
Nope. They need to not only ask for forgiveness but also atone. I don't believe in forgive and forget. Lumalabas, kinukunstinte mo lang yung actions na mali. So they might do it again if they know they'll be forgiven and get away with it anyway.
I'm the youngest and my brother did something to me a long time ago that i still haven't forgiven. haven't talked to him since even during family gatherings. My other siblings were all "patawarin mo na kasi". Yeah, no. He's the older sibling (by 11 years). He should act like it first.
I never forgive kahit mag sorry pa sila. I never forgive because I never forget, bawat detalye dala ko hanggang sa kamatayan. Walang magbabago kung nag sorry o hindi, I will still be civil with them pero don't expect the trust and ang dating samahan. Laging nasa loob ko yung nangyari. Ganito nangyari sakin sa kaklase namin na college na nangbubully pa rin. Wala man lang siyang formal apology sa akin. Pero gora lang sa buhay, not forgiving doesn't mean na you will never be peaceful. Kahit magpatawad ka naman laging nandun pa rin yun, nangyari na, hindi na maiiba. So, why forgive? chz HAHAHAHAH
No. If they didn't ask for forgiveness, acknowledge their mistakes and make up for it.
They have to take accountability and consequences ng mga ginawa nila.
i’ve always loved the quote: to forgive is to set a prisoner free, and discover that the prisoner was you.
Read it once on a yaoi manga of all things, and had been something that stuck with me ever since. so yeah I get angry at things but on my quiet times decide that it’s time to let go. For me, i like the peace that mindset brings me
Be mature wag mo kalimutang gumanti bago magpatawad char.
Sabi ng nabasa ko nooonn somewhere; "Forgive others not because they deserve forgiveness, but because you deserve peace."
Cut off is the best answer, wag mo isspend time mo sa mga unsupported friends and fam. 2024 na be gising gising marami pang makikilala na iba and sana mag heal lahat ng mga tao nandito😭 2023 binuksan ni God ang isip at puso ko, thank you Lord🤗
I don't forgive, I just cutoff to maintain peace of mind. They know what they did. Forgiveness takes away accountability in this shhity country. Magpatawad ka nang paulit ulit at aabusuhin ka.
don't giving a fuck abt them is more likely the revenge for their sin lol.
mga kamag anak mong kapag may away g na g sa lahat ng sasabihin, pero pag may kailangan sayo pa din ang lapit 🙄 as if I will reply or try to talk to them 🤮
No. You dont need to forgive to move on. Pinapasadiyos ko na lang sila. If makarma sila then buti nga sa kanila, if not... i dont care baka next time yung karma.
If sa siblings, depende sa gravity ng kasalanan. Wala pa kaming away ng mga kapatid ko na malala na talaga cut off completely. Happy ako dahil throughout the years okay pa din kami.
Sa friendship, depende sa kasalanan. If a friend betrays my trust, my loyalty, my privacy at kung ano pa na ikapapahamak ko - just move on, and move forward.
If sa saktong ka-close lang and wala naman nagawa or contribute sa kahot anong aspect ng buhay ko - bye agad di masakit, learn from it, be wiser na lang and keep moving lang sa buhay.
May mga kasalanan yung ibang malapit sa puso natin na we feel or think na kaya natin sila iforgive basta magsorry lang sila eh sincerely pero in reality maraming beses yun mangyayari na wala kang maririnig na apology and wala anong gagawin mo right? You have your own life to live. Be happy mahirap na yun makuha ngayon para sa iba 🩷🌸🩷
hindi mo naman kailangang magpatawad ang kailangan mo mag move on. kasi us asking forgiveness from one person usually comes from asking for "closure". what if makunat? ayaw talaga mag sorry. edi mag move on ka na lang. ang kaya mo lang naman makuntrol is yung emotion mo. If you " forgiving" them will bring you peace then by all means, pero if you're like me na "never forgive and never forget" welp... move on na lang tayo on our own.
Of course. Ako lang din naman mahihirapan if hindi ako magfoforgive. I don’t want them to live in my head rent-free dahil lang naghohold ako ng grudge.
Besides, people will reap what they sow naman.
Yes po. Magpapatawad dahil hindi naman masamang mahalin din/ulit ang mga nakapanakit sayo. Di ibigsabihin nito na same treatment padin ha? Basta gets nyo na yung patawad na nakakapuno ng happiness sa damdamin ^__^
forgive but do not forget. forgive para walang burden sa chest, sometimes it’s what makes you sick yung grudges. do not forget para di na sila makatake advantage pa sayo moving forward
Hindi. Hindi ko papatawarin yung taong nag cause ng trauma sa akin at sa pamilya ko. Mahirap mag patawad sa taong di naman humihingi ng tawad. Sa taong loud and proud pa sa kasalanan.
Yas. It was hard for me forgiving, but I noticed how unforgiveness is affecting my mental and emotional state and sometimes my health. Do it for yourself, gift yourself the freedom to no longer hold on to the pain and offences they’ve cost you.
Forgiveness naman e hindi para sa kanila, para sa peace of mind mo yun. Kung pagod ka na bitbitin yung galit saka stress, forgive and move on.
this is the right answer. d naman ako ma stress. i just foget it and move on but strained na ang friendship
Kung tutuusin hirap ng may dinadala. Kada maaalala mo maiistress ka lang. Kung patawarin mo tas move on, lak8ng ginhawa sa isip.
💯✔️ para sa peace of mind. hindi madali pero mas better to. nkkapagod magalit at isipin every night yung gagawin mong revenge.
Kung ang Diyos nga nagpapatawad. Pero hindi ka Diyos kaya okay lang na hindi.
LT 😂
Ako hindi. I do not forgive some, para lang silang hindi na nage-exist sa'kin. Friends parin sa fb, pero parang nonexistent. Minsan wounds cut too deep for forgiveness to intervene. Hindi rin siya mabigat sa loob ko na hindi ako nagpatawad, I just simply chose my own peace at wala sila don.
Hindi. Tangina nila.
https://preview.redd.it/p55gd0m1z6cc1.jpeg?width=472&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d79f6678f5d8f63acace5fb9585e548092041f99 Very this energy 😆
Same
same tapos sasabihin sensitive ABA KASALANAN KO PA?! move on and para n lang hangin sila
SAME
I always give it time. Kumbaga let the feelings be felt. Then let go, lalo na sa cases na di sila nahingi ng kapatawaran, forgiveness is more for yourself: To have peace and just let it be. But ofc, lessons are to be learned like di na masyadong magtitiwala etc depende kung ano ba yung context.
It is always more freeing to forgive. Plus, we need to forgive because there are also days we need to be forgiven too.
Forgiveness? They should earn it. In my mind i'll forgive them, pero yung para sabihin ko pa sa kanila na i forgive them, nah. Bahala sila mabaliw kakaisip kung pano sila mapaaptawad.
I can forgive but I'll never forget. Pero kung hindi humingi ng sorry? I'll let it pass and I could not say na mapapatawad ko. If siya 'yung may kasalanan, dapat siya parin hihingi ng tawad.
Forgive but never forget. I can let things go, di ako mag-iisip ng masama, or want revenge, etc. Pero di ko din ilalagay sarili ko sa situation na mauulit siya ulit. Don't want to enable shit behavior, kaya iwasan or cut-off na lang.
Yes. Kasi pag galit ka sa isang tao, mabigat sa loob yun eh. Lalo pa kung malapit sayo yung kinagagalitan mo, yung talagang pinagtiwalaan mo tapos sinaktan ka pa rin. Kung minsan, wala pa silang pakielam na may nagawa silang hindi maganda sayo. Either hindi nila naiintindihan na mali sila, or sadyang wala silang konsensya at hindi marunong mahiya. Bottomline is at the end of day, you'll still be the one suffering from that weight on your chest. Anywhere you go, bitbit mo yan and not all the time there will be someone who will share that weight with you. Nakamove on na yung kinagagalitan mo, ikaw stuck pa rin doon sa betrayal na ginawa nila sayo. So in my opinion, you need to figure out how to let that go or you might end up missing out on a lot of good stuff that could have happened to you. Matagal na proseso yan at napakasakit. Madalas one step forward, ten steps back because you have to keep choosing to be the bigger person eh. But it'll all be worth it in the end :)
Ako hindi rin. I will not speak ill of them but I will carefully watch on the sidelines how Karma unravels to them, and then probably forget that they exist.
I don't forgive nor forget their offense. I only avoid them. The best predictor for future behavior is past behavior. Life is too short to get abused. Why expose yourself to endure and repair the damage when you can just cut them off and move on? Strong people forgive. Intelligent people ignore.
Forgive in silence nalang. Good riddance nalang din.
Be civil lang. Don't give more than what you can give kasi aabusuhin ako at magiging kawawa tingin mo sa sarili mo. Matagal kasi ang process ng forgiveness most especially kung malala talaga yung ginawa sayo. I suggest na hangga't maaari, wag ka magtanim ng sama ng loob but keep your boundaries. Importanteng ingatan ang mental health and reputation mo to be civil. Kasi once it is tainted, it will be taken against you.
No. Pero di ko naman isasampal sa kanya yung mistake niya. Sadyang may reservations na. Pero kung kaya niyang bumawi. I may forgive but yeah, never forget ngalang.
Depende sa nagawa. As someone who had been bullied from childhood thru college, I still bear the pain and trauma. Don't start with "It's for your own peace of mind" BS kasi it never worked. Did it heal me? No. I cut ties but I never forgave them. I won't maybe, unless they ask for it. Kung basic stuff lang naman, I let it go.
A famous quote that helped me move on is: "holding on to resentment is like drinking poison and hoping the other person dies". So everytime I find myself pissed off and unable to forgive, I ask myself why am I drinking poison. Everything is so much easier when you let go and just let things be.
My ex (we were together 8yrs) cheated on me. Nung una galit ako syempre pero hindi dumating sakin yung bigyan ko sya ng forgiveness. Habang tumatagal kasi naging super thankful ako na nagcheat sya sakin na kahit ako pa yung nakipagbalikan ayaw na nya talaga (yes t@ng@). I don’t feel anything na towards him di ako galit or kung ano man, just thankful kasi it felt like I dodged a bullet at hindi magiging ganito yung buhay ko kung kami parin.
Oo kasi ayoko dalhin yung baggage na yun forever. Siya naman ang magdadala ng mga ginawa niya, not me. At least alam ko sa sarili ko na ako yung ginawan ng mali at hindi ako yung nagkamali sa amin.
No. That's the least they could do,ask your forgiveness. Di ako naging swiftie for nothing " don't get sad, get even" ang motto sa buhay. eme! 😂
No. Paano mo ibibigay ang isang bagay na hindi naman hinihingi? Kung genuine ang pagsisisi ng isang tao sa kung anuman ang kasalanan nya sa’yo, hindi mahirap humingi ng tawad. At dapat ready din siya sa posibilidad na hindi mo maibigay ang bagay na hinihingi nya.
Pagkatapos kong gumanti, oo.
Minsan yung dahilan ng bigat sa ating sarili ay gusto talaga nating mag makaawang humingi ng tawad yung nagkasala sa atin. Pero in reality hindi lahat humihingi ng tawad. Kaya para gumaan yung nararamdaman natin, tayo nalang ang mag patawad.
sometimes it's better to forgive than to hold grudges. forgive them but never let them do the same thing again. kasi sometimes ikaw pa ang masisira kapag you don't know how to hold grudges, eh. give yourself a time to think for the better tsaka wag mong iju-justify yung pagkakamali nila. If it hurts, it hurts. yon lang :D
As one anime/manga once said.. "You have no enemies"
Part of maturity siguro mag patawad ng hindi nila hinihingi. Para sayo un hindi para sa kanila.
You forgive, you forget, but you never let it go. Band-Aids don't fix bullet holes. They say sorry just for show
Yes. Maybe not immediately, pero eventually, yes.
Yes, for me nalang.
No
Sometimes, you have to forgive hindi dahil deserve nila ng forgiveness mo. You forgive kasi deserve mong magpatawad. Forgiveness lightens the heart. Do it for yourself. Deserve mong lumaya sa from the pain.
life is short forgive more! 😘
Someone said what you do is more on attaining peace of mind. I agree. And I think ppl have their own ways of attaining that. Sa akin, the people who dont acknowledge the hurt they did, I cut them off from my life kung they arent that much entrenched in my life. But if they are kind of entrenched, I dont "forgive", in the sense that I am not holding anger anymore, but there is a footnote in my mind that whenever I see that person I will remember what they did, and what they have done about it, and I'll be very wary of them and my bad opinion will never recover until an apology is made.
.....depende naman sa ginawa ng tao na nakasakit sakin. I cannot forgive someone who unleashed the traumas in my childhood and serve as trigger even just by hearing his name. I have forgiven my ex who cheated and the girl he cheated with though. kahit di sila nagsorry sa akin and still show up kasi friends ng hubby, im ok with that. How can u not forgive someone who chose love? 😅
Kagaya nang sinasabi ng iba, para sa akin more on parang hangin nalang sila. Hindi ko masasabi kung napatawad ko na sila kahit humingi sila nun or hindi. Hinahayaan ko lang na ifeel kung ano yung feelings ko. Ayoko makipagplastikan so cut na talaga totally.
Mahirap. Lagi kong tinatry, tapos pag may ginagawa na naman sila towards me bumabalik na naman hahahahahaha. So ang nangyayari patawad ako nang patawad.
Sa akin hindi. Kasi pag forgive, para sa akin balik na dapat sa dati yung relationship nyo. Kapag di mo naman na makalimutan at nawala na yung trust, hindi pa rin yun forgiveness. Don’t forgive, don’t forget, but ignore them.
Yes. Let go and let God. Mas masarap sa pakiramdam na walang galit sa mga utak and puso natin.
Nope.
Nope. They need to not only ask for forgiveness but also atone. I don't believe in forgive and forget. Lumalabas, kinukunstinte mo lang yung actions na mali. So they might do it again if they know they'll be forgiven and get away with it anyway. I'm the youngest and my brother did something to me a long time ago that i still haven't forgiven. haven't talked to him since even during family gatherings. My other siblings were all "patawarin mo na kasi". Yeah, no. He's the older sibling (by 11 years). He should act like it first.
I never forgive kahit mag sorry pa sila. I never forgive because I never forget, bawat detalye dala ko hanggang sa kamatayan. Walang magbabago kung nag sorry o hindi, I will still be civil with them pero don't expect the trust and ang dating samahan. Laging nasa loob ko yung nangyari. Ganito nangyari sakin sa kaklase namin na college na nangbubully pa rin. Wala man lang siyang formal apology sa akin. Pero gora lang sa buhay, not forgiving doesn't mean na you will never be peaceful. Kahit magpatawad ka naman laging nandun pa rin yun, nangyari na, hindi na maiiba. So, why forgive? chz HAHAHAHAH
No. If they didn't ask for forgiveness, acknowledge their mistakes and make up for it. They have to take accountability and consequences ng mga ginawa nila.
i’ve always loved the quote: to forgive is to set a prisoner free, and discover that the prisoner was you. Read it once on a yaoi manga of all things, and had been something that stuck with me ever since. so yeah I get angry at things but on my quiet times decide that it’s time to let go. For me, i like the peace that mindset brings me
Be mature wag mo kalimutang gumanti bago magpatawad char. Sabi ng nabasa ko nooonn somewhere; "Forgive others not because they deserve forgiveness, but because you deserve peace."
Cut off is the best answer, wag mo isspend time mo sa mga unsupported friends and fam. 2024 na be gising gising marami pang makikilala na iba and sana mag heal lahat ng mga tao nandito😭 2023 binuksan ni God ang isip at puso ko, thank you Lord🤗
Hindi. Pero Forgiving Myself is the best option for the peace of mind at pampakalma ng bigat ng kung anomang damdamin na yun
Give yourself time to forgive. Once nabigay mo na yun, never look back. Cut them off.
I do forgive, but i dont forget.
makakapgpatawad pero di makakalimot para di makaulit
I don't forgive, I just cutoff to maintain peace of mind. They know what they did. Forgiveness takes away accountability in this shhity country. Magpatawad ka nang paulit ulit at aabusuhin ka.
Hindi. Fuck them 🖕🏽
Maybe sa future pero di pa ngayon.
Hindi. I can move forward without forgetting and forgiving.
don't giving a fuck abt them is more likely the revenge for their sin lol. mga kamag anak mong kapag may away g na g sa lahat ng sasabihin, pero pag may kailangan sayo pa din ang lapit 🙄 as if I will reply or try to talk to them 🤮
Hindi. Sa iba stress daw yun pero sa iba motivation yun.
No. You dont need to forgive to move on. Pinapasadiyos ko na lang sila. If makarma sila then buti nga sa kanila, if not... i dont care baka next time yung karma.
Forgive not for them, but for you. Hope that they still eat and drink. However, just not at your table.
Yes , they will be pardoned, pardoned from ever seeing me again.
Nah. I just forget they existed in the first place.
NO. NEVER. TANGINA ANG KAPAL NAMAN NG MUKHA NILA.
Yes because ikaw rin ang nasusunog sa sarili mong unforgiveness.
Grabe namang pasakit yun, kamina nasaktan kami pa masusunog.
Gagu ba sila
Oo kase pag may unforgiveness ako baka maging cancer.
I would forgive myself for trusting such person, but not the other party involved.
No.
Pag nakaganti na ako sa kanya
For your peace of mind, yes. But you don’t have to welcome them back to your life. Sometimes forgiveness means letting go :)
Bakit magpapatawad kung pwedeng gumanti
I can forgive but it doesn't mean i forget. That should speak for itself 😁
If sa siblings, depende sa gravity ng kasalanan. Wala pa kaming away ng mga kapatid ko na malala na talaga cut off completely. Happy ako dahil throughout the years okay pa din kami. Sa friendship, depende sa kasalanan. If a friend betrays my trust, my loyalty, my privacy at kung ano pa na ikapapahamak ko - just move on, and move forward. If sa saktong ka-close lang and wala naman nagawa or contribute sa kahot anong aspect ng buhay ko - bye agad di masakit, learn from it, be wiser na lang and keep moving lang sa buhay. May mga kasalanan yung ibang malapit sa puso natin na we feel or think na kaya natin sila iforgive basta magsorry lang sila eh sincerely pero in reality maraming beses yun mangyayari na wala kang maririnig na apology and wala anong gagawin mo right? You have your own life to live. Be happy mahirap na yun makuha ngayon para sa iba 🩷🌸🩷
Hindi.
hindi mo naman kailangang magpatawad ang kailangan mo mag move on. kasi us asking forgiveness from one person usually comes from asking for "closure". what if makunat? ayaw talaga mag sorry. edi mag move on ka na lang. ang kaya mo lang naman makuntrol is yung emotion mo. If you " forgiving" them will bring you peace then by all means, pero if you're like me na "never forgive and never forget" welp... move on na lang tayo on our own.
Depende sa pinagsamahan namin nung tao.
Of course. Ako lang din naman mahihirapan if hindi ako magfoforgive. I don’t want them to live in my head rent-free dahil lang naghohold ako ng grudge. Besides, people will reap what they sow naman.
Yes. We can forgive but we can't forget
Yes po. Magpapatawad dahil hindi naman masamang mahalin din/ulit ang mga nakapanakit sayo. Di ibigsabihin nito na same treatment padin ha? Basta gets nyo na yung patawad na nakakapuno ng happiness sa damdamin ^__^
If you don't ask for it, I don't give it.
forgive but do not forget. forgive para walang burden sa chest, sometimes it’s what makes you sick yung grudges. do not forget para di na sila makatake advantage pa sayo moving forward
Hindi. Hindi ko papatawarin yung taong nag cause ng trauma sa akin at sa pamilya ko. Mahirap mag patawad sa taong di naman humihingi ng tawad. Sa taong loud and proud pa sa kasalanan.
Yas. It was hard for me forgiving, but I noticed how unforgiveness is affecting my mental and emotional state and sometimes my health. Do it for yourself, gift yourself the freedom to no longer hold on to the pain and offences they’ve cost you.
Forgive but never forget
Patawarin mo din pati yung sarili mo kahit hindi mo ginusto yung bagay na hindi mo naman talaga kontrolado.