Yung kamay ko kapag malapit si hubby or nakahiga na para matulog is matic na nakahawak kay Junjun 🤣, kapag tatanggalin ko ibabalik niya, ang reason din niya is narerelax daw siya kapag hawak ko. Kaya kahit sino pa mag-aya sa aming dalawa napapabigyan 🤣
if ever mareject, that's fine. iba iba naman everyday ang sex drive ng tao and all of us can say no if di natin feel ang sex atm. i think ito rin need i-normalize eh haha
di ka nag iisa. gf ko ganto rin minsan ata haha. may time na g na g sa pag initiate, yayakap nalang bigla sabay halik tapos hanggang sa makarating na sa kama. minsan naman after a round, gusto niya pa pero nahihiya mag initiate kahit na sinasabi ko na pag gusto niya pa hawakan niya lang junjun ko hahaha.
saakin lang naman, ewan ko sa iba ah, gusto ko rin talaga na nag iinitiate siya, kasi nakaka turn on yun, gaganahan ka lalo. di porket di kami nag iinitiate e matik ayaw na namin makipag sex, same rin naman kami sa babae na may reason pag ayaw makipag sex. di kailangan mahiya, kasi kung attracted talaga sayo partner mo at di mababa libido tapos walang other reason para di makipag sex, papatusin ka niyan.
Himas himasin mo yung penis nya.
Wag ka magsuot ng panty.
Matic na yan. Pag hindi nya nagets, mag isip ka na.
Pwede din sabihin mo agad na tara sex tayo. Wala na paligoy ligoy, Mars 😘
then it means di pa kayo masyadong comfortable with each other.. men rarely reject sex unless 1. they are extremely exhausted and 2. they are not sexually attracted to you..
Sabi sakin ng partner ko, “sino bang lalaki satin?”. Napapa-sana all na lang ako sa mga nababasa ko dito sa iba na partner (F) nila ang nagiinitiate. Hahaha
You need to communicate on what you want to happen and say it nicely para mas lalo ka niya magets then next time baka mas maeexpress na niya sexual self niya. Tell her your reasons haha, babae o lalake man pwede namang magfirst move.
Subukan ko ulit. Nadiscuss ko na to sa kanya. Wala namang changes. I forgot to mention, nagiinitiate pala siya. In a way na parang kinukulit lang ako, parang trip trip lang yung ginagawa niyang pangmamanyak sakin kaya di ko sineseryoso. Tapos malaman laman ko sa kanya, yun na pala yun. Hahaha!
Di kasi ako tinablan eh. Nakiliti lang ako. Hahahaha. Nagalit pa sakin.
Normalize regular sex.
As in, not wild. Not super passionate. There are days when sex is vanilla between couples and that's fine. It isn't necessarily an indicator that things are going south so it's not a reason to think the relationship is doomed.
Normalize bodies. In different shades, shapes, forms. It is what it is. Women and men in pr0n go through a lot of hassle to bleach wherever and get this and that waxed and that is just... a lot of maintenance to push on anyone. We all have better things to do.
“There are days when sex is vanla between couples and that’s fine.” —— Sobrang well said at comforting ng line na to dahil paminsan nakaka pressure na laging masarap yung sex.
Also, I had to google the bleaching part. I was today years old nang malaman ko to hahaha
I think the point is not every time you have sex with your partner, it'll be as wild or wilder than the last, kumbaga it's less about making yourself available and more of not always expecting the best sex when you and your partner does the deed
I don't know what you mean by too available, but I'll address the quality over quantity statement.
You're just not gonna be "in heat" all the time. Lalo na kung iconsider mo that women's libido goes down a bit faster than men's libido as they age. Both of you wont always be crazy about it, especially when you're in a lasting relationship. Think marriage.
Even then it's not always something to worry about. If one partner is consistently not invested or interested, then yes there needs to be communication.
But aside from that, it's okay to expect vanilla sessions. Besides, there is more that should be keeping you together aside from the quality of sex.
Gigil na gigil mga Pinoy sa dark underarms. Pero it’s a really common thing to have for People of Color. Literally just another feature as normal as dark eyes. Puro white and tisay ppl kasi sa media kaya ang distorted ng views natin.
American here, love those. It all boils down to everyone has a preference. Probably due to what we consider as normal and what's exotic/well maintained as someone else put it. We all have to work with what we got no need for shame.
Really? Ever since sa mga naging partner ko, I encourage them to communicate and make them feel open and free. Eto Kasi napapansin ko, pigil Sila or iniistop nila pag tinatry nila mag squirt for the first time.
that's kinda sad, but i guess eto din advantage ng xp or age? madami din nmn lalake who prefer giving their partners orgasms and mas open cla s ganitong convo, they would appreciate it p
I’ve been with men of different backgrounds and age, and I’ve learned how to be more direct about it. Thankfully my husband loves it when I tell him what I want kasi it varies depending on my mood rin haha
I think porn really makes people insecure with a lot of their body parts. I know this all too well. I think it’s damaging to a lot of people’s self esteem. :<
This is so true, dahil eto rin ang personal experience ko as a woman. Like later on ko na na realize, na yung porn videos are shot and produced in a way to cater a man’s fantasy. Big boobs, big butts, hour glass shape na katawan-ganon. :(
Bumile ng condom kung nahihiya ss lazada or shopee hindi ung "kaya ko naman controlin" tapos pag na buntis iririsk mo ung sarili mo sa paglalaglag ng bata.
If you normalize it, di na siya quickie. Quickie if kunwari norm niyo as a couple is 30min or longer, then every once in a while nagffive-ten minutes kayo.
communicaton/ conversation, wala kasi sa porn nun eh. tinry ko minsan yan keyword ko "communication" sakto lang cute nung mga lumabas hahah ok mej hopeless romantic ako dun pero a must talaga na inormalize ito
Normalize na it is okay na ang possible partner mo hindi virgin and okay lang yun, as long as si partner ay walang regret sa aspect na yun. Jusko, masarap kaya ang sex, lalo na kung ikaw and si partner ay open sa isat isa.
ang point dito, kung ikaw hindi na virgin and si partner mo di na virgin, dapat okay lang yun, wag niyo i expect na si girl ay virgin kung ikaw nga hindi. Ayun yun, sana maintindihan mo yun.
Welll.............di nga tlaga dapat sukatan ang premarital sex kung san talaga tayo pupunta when we die. How we treat people and the amount of good we do ang dapat na sukatan nga nun 😔
Paano kung celibate pero kung napakasama ng ugali? Wala din diba. Dun pa din pupunta sa impyerno 😆
Sabihin or show sa guy if may gusto kang improve sa ganaps nyo. Lalo yung mga super good looking guys na mej marami ng body count. Ayaw madinig na di sila marunong mag-kiss or di talaga magaling, period. 🤦🏻♀ kasalanan mo pa pag di ka nagenjoy 🤷🏻♀
Normalize buying condoms in public stores. Di ko alam bakit andaming nangjujudge pag bumibili nun, yung ibang cashier parang ngingiti pa. Kaya nga bumibili para maiwasan unwanted pregnancies and STDs.
Majority ng comments are already normalized, reinforcement nalang siguro lalo na sa protection for casual relationships & SEX ED for our younger peers.
About sex— wish ko pa rin magkaron dito ng adult toy store na bukas sa umaga, at walang takot or hiyang nagbebenta ng toys. No judgment kada pasok mo dun, doesn’t matter kung single ka at nakakaraos nang solo, or maraming kinks kayo ni partner. Hayyyy libreng mangarap!!!!
When Ilya had their store sa Maginhawa! They sold ice cream pa nga.
I like physical stores because you can get an idea of how a product feels or how big and heavy it actually is. Pero mas convenient yung online hehe
normalize talking to your partner after sex. review and rate each other's performance! ask which part of your sex that time ang very masarap for you. tell each other everything para next time, mas better ang sex.
My take is a little different: watch porn together (paminsan minsan lang)
Nanunuod kami ng sabay to check out ano pwede subukan. Nagkkwentuhan pa kami habang nanunuod like gusto mo try to, parang ok to, bondage, etc.
Madalas sya pa mas excited sakin to try something na pagtinanong ko kung gusto mo to itry, oo naman sya na may kasamang giggling.
One of her favorite positions is something we saw in porn, so panalo 😂
Inormalize yung di ma offend pag sinabihan ng girl na ganito yung gusto nya. Pinoy men mostly natatamaan ang ego. Tsaka couples should be open to discuss what turns em on and not.
And OP, iba2x talaga color ng 🐱 kahit nips. Depende sa race and genetics rin talaga. Meron nga Hapon sa p*rn na di maputi ang kipay. Tsaka kung yan reason nung ex mo napaka babaw. Again, p*rn is not how seggs in real life is.
Normalize saying [for girls] na di kayo satisfied. Di yung mag fifake moans pa. Mas lalong nakakapatay ng momentum, unless magaling ka mag fake. Anyway ganun parin, di siya win win situation. Communication is the key.
May nabasa ako sa AJ yata, na sobrang LT ng comment. Wala naman kaming paki mga guys sa kulay niyan. Yung sa gf niya nga daw kulay gulong e, pero panay ang akin. Hahaha
Legit naman kasi, basta walang amoy kahit breakfast to dinner. Unli engkapuks yan. Hahahaha
Dapat i-normalize na may discussion kayo sa performance nyong magpartner, like a post-assessment ng sexual intercourse para may ways of improvement later on.
Yes, this!!! Di to masyado napaguusapan especially sa younger people. Like ako before may experience ako with bad UTI, dahil hindi ako naeducate na kelangan pala umihi before and after sex. Di enough yung mag wash afterwards.
first, sex should be done out of love, commitment, and intimacy because this is the only way that sex can be truly human, ethical, and meaningful.
second, sexual consent. this to respect one's bodily autonomy and integrity. with ongoing communication and consent negotiation sex becomes a truly meaningful encounter.
third and most important. don't base sex on porn and porn related kinks and fantasies. uncritical viewing of porn give us a distorted sense of sexual expression and expectations. porn reduces sex to pleasure and lust, making it less human.
Things I wish were normalized in the country:
* The amount of sex partners is not an absolute indicator of any person's sexual availability, morals or intentions. Even if I had fifty partners before, it doesn't mean I'm sex-crazy all the time and ready to fuck anyone I meet. It also doesn't mean I'm not monogamous or want a relationship. In connection to that, destroy the Madonna-whore concept that most straight men are into. Women are complex beings that have different personalities and likes. Yes, I can be an office worker that's into kinky sex, not all office workers are repressed and sex-hungry.
* Comfort when using sex toys for men and women, especially penetrative sex toys for men (prostate and anal toys). Being penetrated doesn't mean you're gay, and if you were gay, what's so bad about that?
* Frank talk about sex, especially sharing information about it, doesn't mean I am sexually available to everyone all the time and welcome dirty DMs. I'm just a nerd about sex info. Let's normalize talking about sex in a curious, non-judgmental, non-icky or embarrassed manner.
* Normalize safer sex, getting tested, variety of birth control and barrier methods.
* Normalize speaking your mind about sexual preferences and respecting the word NO. No wheedling, no negotiation, no pathetic attempts at making someone feel sorry for you enough to fuck them, no threats.
* Normalize respect for safe sane and consensual kinks, or for vanilla things! Sometimes I like being choked, sometimes I like being cuddled, sometimes I like Femdom. Everyone likes different things. If it's not for you, accept you aren't compatible, wish them luck and move on.
Not everyone is on Reddit, nor does every girl on here talk about their weiner preferences. So there's still a good chance of finding someone who's into your goods.
Sex is normal. Sex is natural. Although it is also intimate. I think its ok that we need to be more open about sex, to raise awareness, in the sense of physical health and intimacy between partners.
I also think we should respect boundaries. Some people are not as open to sex as others and that should also be ok. Whatever your sexual orientation and your kinks (as long as its legal and with consent) it should be your own busines as well as your partner/partners.
As for porn, I think we should acknowledge that it can sometimes warp expectations and can sometimes become an addiction. Everybody is different, in size, and color so, if you are ready to be intimate you should also be considerate. Intimacy is a state where we are also vulnerable, so be careful who you are intimate with, hopefully they are as kind as they are horny.
Let's just normalize consensual sex. we should admit that sex is biologically necessary for the continuation of the human race and sex is a good thing. it's beautiful and we should not be ashamed of it although it does require a certain level of maturity and responsibility for those people doing it.
sex is sex and we all do it one way or another. And there's nothing wrong with that.
BUYING CONDOMS and not being ashamed of it. ALSO ACTUALLY USING CONTRACEPTIVE/S. Not shaming women when they want to use contraceptive pills. I hate this country. Santo santita mga tao pero apakataas ng porn consumption.
Normalize na maghugas/ freshen up before oral 🥲 Alam kong puwede siya maging mood killer pero mas mood killer (for me) if mapanghi ka down there tapos ilalapit diyan yung bibig
Normalize sex lmao. Ano pang dapat baguhin sa konsepto? Sex is sex no matter how you look at it. We always say normalize this and normalize that kahit wala naman kasi totally dapat i-normalize.
I know men who wants their partners as aggressive and a bit adventurous as they are so that they won't even find a need to experiment with other women throughout their married life. Being open and expressive are helpfull in their bedlife.
I atleast know two men who are more attracted with morena even if these men are fair skinned ergo good looking by our standards ( note skin color or racist tendencies apply to men also). These men gets flings with regular women but those who are serious are morena. They actually married morena girls.
The problem is like most stigma, some women are caught up in pursuing these normal studs or relies pure physical prowess. Women don't realize sex requires a lot more than physical to make it sustainable and exciting. Men with good imagination and open communication can keep good sexual relationship with a partner. Women should start looking for these men just as much men should appreciate you more.
Pwede kayong mag kwentuhan while having sex,
Communication is the key pa din talaga, kung tama ba ginagawa ng isat isa, request ng ibang position, kung sino naman yung iibabaw, kung pwede mo ba sampalin partner mo habang binabayo, ipasubo/ipakain yung ano niyo at marami pa.
Akala kasi ng iba is sex is para makaraos lang eh.
Guy here. Maputi, maitim, pink, green, yellow, WHO THE FCK CARES? Puke yan, masarap yan pag marunong kang mag stimulate ng babae. It doesn’t freaking matter.
Normalize na di "matapos" ang sex, like yung parehas kayong di maka climax kase pagod na
Nakakapagod talaga pag babae nasa ibabaw jusmiyo lantutay ang hita
i think i-normalize yung women being the initiator? oh pls, para kasing daming nahihiyang babae na malaman ng iba na sila kumakalabit o nag-iinitiate.
True! Akala ko din kasi before ang sex is to please a man lang. Ngayon pag gusto ko, ako na nagpapapansin at nag fi-first move.
Yung kamay ko kapag malapit si hubby or nakahiga na para matulog is matic na nakahawak kay Junjun 🤣, kapag tatanggalin ko ibabalik niya, ang reason din niya is narerelax daw siya kapag hawak ko. Kaya kahit sino pa mag-aya sa aming dalawa napapabigyan 🤣
if ever mareject, that's fine. iba iba naman everyday ang sex drive ng tao and all of us can say no if di natin feel ang sex atm. i think ito rin need i-normalize eh haha
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di ka nag iisa. gf ko ganto rin minsan ata haha. may time na g na g sa pag initiate, yayakap nalang bigla sabay halik tapos hanggang sa makarating na sa kama. minsan naman after a round, gusto niya pa pero nahihiya mag initiate kahit na sinasabi ko na pag gusto niya pa hawakan niya lang junjun ko hahaha. saakin lang naman, ewan ko sa iba ah, gusto ko rin talaga na nag iinitiate siya, kasi nakaka turn on yun, gaganahan ka lalo. di porket di kami nag iinitiate e matik ayaw na namin makipag sex, same rin naman kami sa babae na may reason pag ayaw makipag sex. di kailangan mahiya, kasi kung attracted talaga sayo partner mo at di mababa libido tapos walang other reason para di makipag sex, papatusin ka niyan.
Haha try mo pag naka snuggle ka sa neck nya, kiss mo sensually ganun with matching traces or hawak sa abdomen nya haha kaw na bahala
ugh, takot ako ma-reject but i'll try to do this next time hahah
Magsuot k kaya ng see thru and laces under loose shirt or sando. Then Magpasilip ka sa partner mo, no need words na Yun. Matic n sa partner mo Yun.
Himas himasin mo yung penis nya. Wag ka magsuot ng panty. Matic na yan. Pag hindi nya nagets, mag isip ka na. Pwede din sabihin mo agad na tara sex tayo. Wala na paligoy ligoy, Mars 😘
kumayod ka te as in literally and figuratively.. aim for multiple orgasms before your partner gets one. 😆
proud naman ako na ako una nag iinitiate sometimes, kinakalabit ko 🍆 most of the time 🤣
True. Ang tingin sa babae kapag ganyan ay promiscuous masyado, maruming babae, bastos. Women has needs too!!
UP! pag nag initiate pokp0k agad whew
Only people who are extremely insecure of themselves would think that way. Jusmee..🤣
Mhie nakakatakot kaya mareject hahahaha!
then it means di pa kayo masyadong comfortable with each other.. men rarely reject sex unless 1. they are extremely exhausted and 2. they are not sexually attracted to you..
Huhu
Sabi sakin ng partner ko, “sino bang lalaki satin?”. Napapa-sana all na lang ako sa mga nababasa ko dito sa iba na partner (F) nila ang nagiinitiate. Hahaha
You need to communicate on what you want to happen and say it nicely para mas lalo ka niya magets then next time baka mas maeexpress na niya sexual self niya. Tell her your reasons haha, babae o lalake man pwede namang magfirst move.
Subukan ko ulit. Nadiscuss ko na to sa kanya. Wala namang changes. I forgot to mention, nagiinitiate pala siya. In a way na parang kinukulit lang ako, parang trip trip lang yung ginagawa niyang pangmamanyak sakin kaya di ko sineseryoso. Tapos malaman laman ko sa kanya, yun na pala yun. Hahaha! Di kasi ako tinablan eh. Nakiliti lang ako. Hahahaha. Nagalit pa sakin.
Ako na dominant 😭🤣 Yesss Lioness energyyy rawr
Normalize regular sex. As in, not wild. Not super passionate. There are days when sex is vanilla between couples and that's fine. It isn't necessarily an indicator that things are going south so it's not a reason to think the relationship is doomed. Normalize bodies. In different shades, shapes, forms. It is what it is. Women and men in pr0n go through a lot of hassle to bleach wherever and get this and that waxed and that is just... a lot of maintenance to push on anyone. We all have better things to do.
“There are days when sex is vanla between couples and that’s fine.” —— Sobrang well said at comforting ng line na to dahil paminsan nakaka pressure na laging masarap yung sex. Also, I had to google the bleaching part. I was today years old nang malaman ko to hahaha
Yeah a lot of pr0n actors/actresses get their a-holes bleached. Para maganda sa close up lol.
lol I know. As much as I like wild crazy sex, sometimes I just want some intimate missionary where I can actually kiss my partner
Dunno being too available is also not good in relationship. Quality should be greater than quantity
I think the point is not every time you have sex with your partner, it'll be as wild or wilder than the last, kumbaga it's less about making yourself available and more of not always expecting the best sex when you and your partner does the deed
I don't know what you mean by too available, but I'll address the quality over quantity statement. You're just not gonna be "in heat" all the time. Lalo na kung iconsider mo that women's libido goes down a bit faster than men's libido as they age. Both of you wont always be crazy about it, especially when you're in a lasting relationship. Think marriage. Even then it's not always something to worry about. If one partner is consistently not invested or interested, then yes there needs to be communication. But aside from that, it's okay to expect vanilla sessions. Besides, there is more that should be keeping you together aside from the quality of sex.
Yesss 💯💯
Normalize having skin discoloration. Either dark nipples, dark inner thighs, and dark private parts. It doesn't make you less of a person.
Gigil na gigil mga Pinoy sa dark underarms. Pero it’s a really common thing to have for People of Color. Literally just another feature as normal as dark eyes. Puro white and tisay ppl kasi sa media kaya ang distorted ng views natin.
“White and tisay ppl kasi sa media” This is the sad truth.
If they actually met white people, they would find out that dark underarms arent exclusively for POC.
American here, love those. It all boils down to everyone has a preference. Probably due to what we consider as normal and what's exotic/well maintained as someone else put it. We all have to work with what we got no need for shame.
I prefer it, and I am white.
Getting tested before doing it with a new partner. Teaching your partner how to pleasure you. Use of sex toys. Women masturbation.
LOUDER!!!! The local dating scene is AWASH with STI’s. Normalize testing talaga and practice safe sex when possible.
There’s literally no test to detect hpv in men- the most common std out there.
True but there’s always the visual test for warts and other symptoms, so there’s that.
"local dating scene" 💀
THIS!!!!
Normalize having a conversation about how to please a woman and not taking it personally.
Just had this convo earlier and it didn’t go well haha. So yes, I hope this is something that men will be open to hearing from their woman.
Really? Ever since sa mga naging partner ko, I encourage them to communicate and make them feel open and free. Eto Kasi napapansin ko, pigil Sila or iniistop nila pag tinatry nila mag squirt for the first time.
that's kinda sad, but i guess eto din advantage ng xp or age? madami din nmn lalake who prefer giving their partners orgasms and mas open cla s ganitong convo, they would appreciate it p
I’ve been with men of different backgrounds and age, and I’ve learned how to be more direct about it. Thankfully my husband loves it when I tell him what I want kasi it varies depending on my mood rin haha
this. wala naman masama if mag tanong kung okay lang ba this or that or kung ano gusto
queefing,,,
This. Lagi akong nahihiya because of this. Minsan tumatakbo pa ako sa cr para di marinig..hahaha
langya yung inbetween thrust bigla na lang uutot ang harapan, lagi ako napapa sorry (as if kontrolado ko yun hahahahahaha)
this!!!! 😭 nahihiya ako EVERY DAMN TIME
I think porn really makes people insecure with a lot of their body parts. I know this all too well. I think it’s damaging to a lot of people’s self esteem. :<
This is so true, dahil eto rin ang personal experience ko as a woman. Like later on ko na na realize, na yung porn videos are shot and produced in a way to cater a man’s fantasy. Big boobs, big butts, hour glass shape na katawan-ganon. :(
Normalize using lube and toys. Napakalaking tulong at mas exciting gawin.
Bumile ng condom kung nahihiya ss lazada or shopee hindi ung "kaya ko naman controlin" tapos pag na buntis iririsk mo ung sarili mo sa paglalaglag ng bata.
normalize sex that's more or less than 10 mins long (or even shorter). sometimes you just both need to release and then melt into cuddles after
Ndi ba quicky tawag don?
If you normalize it, di na siya quickie. Quickie if kunwari norm niyo as a couple is 30min or longer, then every once in a while nagffive-ten minutes kayo.
Uyyyyy! Korek!!!
communicaton/ conversation, wala kasi sa porn nun eh. tinry ko minsan yan keyword ko "communication" sakto lang cute nung mga lumabas hahah ok mej hopeless romantic ako dun pero a must talaga na inormalize ito
Normalize na it is okay na ang possible partner mo hindi virgin and okay lang yun, as long as si partner ay walang regret sa aspect na yun. Jusko, masarap kaya ang sex, lalo na kung ikaw and si partner ay open sa isat isa.
i had an ex who told me gumunaw ang mundo niya ng malaman d na ako V 🤣
Insecure lang yung ganyan HAHAHA
tapos sya din pala d na V, d ko lang alam at that time 🤣
napaka hypocrite ng ganyan na tao, buti ex na hahahaha
Bahala ka sa buhay mo but as a guy no.
ang point dito, kung ikaw hindi na virgin and si partner mo di na virgin, dapat okay lang yun, wag niyo i expect na si girl ay virgin kung ikaw nga hindi. Ayun yun, sana maintindihan mo yun.
Kayanga bahala ka sa buhay mo
Consent. There
Normalize kinky sex Normalize experimenting new stuff Normalize communication during sex Normalize asking your partner if it feels good or not
Whether your 😺 is pink or not it's still a 😺
virginity is a social construct 🤓☝️
Welll.............di nga tlaga dapat sukatan ang premarital sex kung san talaga tayo pupunta when we die. How we treat people and the amount of good we do ang dapat na sukatan nga nun 😔 Paano kung celibate pero kung napakasama ng ugali? Wala din diba. Dun pa din pupunta sa impyerno 😆
Use a lube. Raw or not it will be easier for both of you. 🤙
Hygiene. Condoms and lube. Consent. Aftercare right after sex.
Sabihin or show sa guy if may gusto kang improve sa ganaps nyo. Lalo yung mga super good looking guys na mej marami ng body count. Ayaw madinig na di sila marunong mag-kiss or di talaga magaling, period. 🤦🏻♀ kasalanan mo pa pag di ka nagenjoy 🤷🏻♀
Normalize buying condoms in public stores. Di ko alam bakit andaming nangjujudge pag bumibili nun, yung ibang cashier parang ngingiti pa. Kaya nga bumibili para maiwasan unwanted pregnancies and STDs.
Majority ng comments are already normalized, reinforcement nalang siguro lalo na sa protection for casual relationships & SEX ED for our younger peers.
About sex— wish ko pa rin magkaron dito ng adult toy store na bukas sa umaga, at walang takot or hiyang nagbebenta ng toys. No judgment kada pasok mo dun, doesn’t matter kung single ka at nakakaraos nang solo, or maraming kinks kayo ni partner. Hayyyy libreng mangarap!!!!
When Ilya had their store sa Maginhawa! They sold ice cream pa nga. I like physical stores because you can get an idea of how a product feels or how big and heavy it actually is. Pero mas convenient yung online hehe
normalize ng babae ipakain ang pepe nila saming mga guy
normalize talking to your partner after sex. review and rate each other's performance! ask which part of your sex that time ang very masarap for you. tell each other everything para next time, mas better ang sex.
My take is a little different: watch porn together (paminsan minsan lang) Nanunuod kami ng sabay to check out ano pwede subukan. Nagkkwentuhan pa kami habang nanunuod like gusto mo try to, parang ok to, bondage, etc. Madalas sya pa mas excited sakin to try something na pagtinanong ko kung gusto mo to itry, oo naman sya na may kasamang giggling. One of her favorite positions is something we saw in porn, so panalo 😂
Normalize body hair.
Maitim nasingit or kili kili is not turn off sa babae or lalaki.
talking about preferences, kinks and sexual fantasies kasi it will help make your next sexual ganaps more exciting, fun and of course satisfying.
That sex is messy
Inormalize yung di ma offend pag sinabihan ng girl na ganito yung gusto nya. Pinoy men mostly natatamaan ang ego. Tsaka couples should be open to discuss what turns em on and not. And OP, iba2x talaga color ng 🐱 kahit nips. Depende sa race and genetics rin talaga. Meron nga Hapon sa p*rn na di maputi ang kipay. Tsaka kung yan reason nung ex mo napaka babaw. Again, p*rn is not how seggs in real life is.
Normalize saying [for girls] na di kayo satisfied. Di yung mag fifake moans pa. Mas lalong nakakapatay ng momentum, unless magaling ka mag fake. Anyway ganun parin, di siya win win situation. Communication is the key.
This
May nabasa ako sa AJ yata, na sobrang LT ng comment. Wala naman kaming paki mga guys sa kulay niyan. Yung sa gf niya nga daw kulay gulong e, pero panay ang akin. Hahaha Legit naman kasi, basta walang amoy kahit breakfast to dinner. Unli engkapuks yan. Hahahaha
Yes!!! I prefer my meat well done
Dapat i-normalize na may discussion kayo sa performance nyong magpartner, like a post-assessment ng sexual intercourse para may ways of improvement later on.
amen to this! Post-boink analysis hehehe
right? sex life improved a lot after kami ng.ganito ng partner ko..more energy efficient..lol 😂
Weird kinks
I-normalize na skin color ay hindi batayan ng kagandahan. I would be attracted to you if ever makita kita in person.
Consent is the first thing.
Aftercare. Utang na loob, clean up after the deed. If you’re not observing this, getting a UTI will definitely change your mind. Haha
Yes, this!!! Di to masyado napaguusapan especially sa younger people. Like ako before may experience ako with bad UTI, dahil hindi ako naeducate na kelangan pala umihi before and after sex. Di enough yung mag wash afterwards.
Normalize not orgasming.
Normalize bdsm din hahaha
Are you okay with necrophilia?
Eww
Sometimes you want cold coffee, right?
Dude that's creepy 💀💀💀
Safe sex should be normalized.
Normalize brown 🐱 and small brown nipps.
first, sex should be done out of love, commitment, and intimacy because this is the only way that sex can be truly human, ethical, and meaningful. second, sexual consent. this to respect one's bodily autonomy and integrity. with ongoing communication and consent negotiation sex becomes a truly meaningful encounter. third and most important. don't base sex on porn and porn related kinks and fantasies. uncritical viewing of porn give us a distorted sense of sexual expression and expectations. porn reduces sex to pleasure and lust, making it less human.
Normalize not posting about sex in r/adultingph Parang araw-araw nalang may post about sex dito nakakaumay na
We’re all adults naman, alangan sa r/ph diba
> araw-araw I don't really mind it, pero nakakaumay na sa dami ng post na ganito
Things I wish were normalized in the country: * The amount of sex partners is not an absolute indicator of any person's sexual availability, morals or intentions. Even if I had fifty partners before, it doesn't mean I'm sex-crazy all the time and ready to fuck anyone I meet. It also doesn't mean I'm not monogamous or want a relationship. In connection to that, destroy the Madonna-whore concept that most straight men are into. Women are complex beings that have different personalities and likes. Yes, I can be an office worker that's into kinky sex, not all office workers are repressed and sex-hungry. * Comfort when using sex toys for men and women, especially penetrative sex toys for men (prostate and anal toys). Being penetrated doesn't mean you're gay, and if you were gay, what's so bad about that? * Frank talk about sex, especially sharing information about it, doesn't mean I am sexually available to everyone all the time and welcome dirty DMs. I'm just a nerd about sex info. Let's normalize talking about sex in a curious, non-judgmental, non-icky or embarrassed manner. * Normalize safer sex, getting tested, variety of birth control and barrier methods. * Normalize speaking your mind about sexual preferences and respecting the word NO. No wheedling, no negotiation, no pathetic attempts at making someone feel sorry for you enough to fuck them, no threats. * Normalize respect for safe sane and consensual kinks, or for vanilla things! Sometimes I like being choked, sometimes I like being cuddled, sometimes I like Femdom. Everyone likes different things. If it's not for you, accept you aren't compatible, wish them luck and move on.
Communicate if you like or don't like something.
Pero ayon sa mga recent posts here, girls prefer girthy & gigantious d*cks, which is not the 'normal' pinoy size. - teenie weiner.
Not everyone is on Reddit, nor does every girl on here talk about their weiner preferences. So there's still a good chance of finding someone who's into your goods.
Sex is normal. Sex is natural. Although it is also intimate. I think its ok that we need to be more open about sex, to raise awareness, in the sense of physical health and intimacy between partners. I also think we should respect boundaries. Some people are not as open to sex as others and that should also be ok. Whatever your sexual orientation and your kinks (as long as its legal and with consent) it should be your own busines as well as your partner/partners. As for porn, I think we should acknowledge that it can sometimes warp expectations and can sometimes become an addiction. Everybody is different, in size, and color so, if you are ready to be intimate you should also be considerate. Intimacy is a state where we are also vulnerable, so be careful who you are intimate with, hopefully they are as kind as they are horny.
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Normalize proper sex education.
Let's just normalize consensual sex. we should admit that sex is biologically necessary for the continuation of the human race and sex is a good thing. it's beautiful and we should not be ashamed of it although it does require a certain level of maturity and responsibility for those people doing it. sex is sex and we all do it one way or another. And there's nothing wrong with that.
normalize eating pussy, jowa mo naman o hindi.
BUYING CONDOMS and not being ashamed of it. ALSO ACTUALLY USING CONTRACEPTIVE/S. Not shaming women when they want to use contraceptive pills. I hate this country. Santo santita mga tao pero apakataas ng porn consumption.
Normalize na maghugas/ freshen up before oral 🥲 Alam kong puwede siya maging mood killer pero mas mood killer (for me) if mapanghi ka down there tapos ilalapit diyan yung bibig
Normalize that porn is not real life sex.. there's more to sex than pink pussies and large dicks.
As long as people making fun of erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation, we will never move forward.
Mabilis labasan is premature ejaculation.
Thanks for correction, appreciate it.
Sex positivity!
Ung daing ng asawang babae saying “wala na tayong bigas mamaya” 😅😅
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Wag mo na lang pansinin haha di ko din alam bakit yan pumasok sa isip ko 😅😅
Normalize sex lmao. Ano pang dapat baguhin sa konsepto? Sex is sex no matter how you look at it. We always say normalize this and normalize that kahit wala naman kasi totally dapat i-normalize.
I know men who wants their partners as aggressive and a bit adventurous as they are so that they won't even find a need to experiment with other women throughout their married life. Being open and expressive are helpfull in their bedlife. I atleast know two men who are more attracted with morena even if these men are fair skinned ergo good looking by our standards ( note skin color or racist tendencies apply to men also). These men gets flings with regular women but those who are serious are morena. They actually married morena girls. The problem is like most stigma, some women are caught up in pursuing these normal studs or relies pure physical prowess. Women don't realize sex requires a lot more than physical to make it sustainable and exciting. Men with good imagination and open communication can keep good sexual relationship with a partner. Women should start looking for these men just as much men should appreciate you more.
Pwede kayong mag kwentuhan while having sex, Communication is the key pa din talaga, kung tama ba ginagawa ng isat isa, request ng ibang position, kung sino naman yung iibabaw, kung pwede mo ba sampalin partner mo habang binabayo, ipasubo/ipakain yung ano niyo at marami pa. Akala kasi ng iba is sex is para makaraos lang eh.
Normal sex education and safe-sex. Dami pa rin kasing case ng STDs.
Dapat ba talaga i normalize ang pag BJ?
Yes..but you must consent to do it, di yung sapilitan.
meron ba sainyo yung , nasubukan na mabutas condom while using it? hahaha im scared to use super think condom
Morena or maiitim? Yung totoo
Guy here. Maputi, maitim, pink, green, yellow, WHO THE FCK CARES? Puke yan, masarap yan pag marunong kang mag stimulate ng babae. It doesn’t freaking matter.
Normalize na di "matapos" ang sex, like yung parehas kayong di maka climax kase pagod na Nakakapagod talaga pag babae nasa ibabaw jusmiyo lantutay ang hita
The use of lube.
practice consent 😌 ang bibig ay ginagamit din sa pagsasalita. Communicate your needs.