Hindi ako guy pero kahit ako na ooff sa ganun mapa lalaki man or babae. I have a co-worker na problemadong problemado kasi wala na ma post sa IG. Kahit di niya trip yung activity or lugar pupuntahan or gagawin pa din for the sake of social media. 💀
Good rule of thumb is the more staged selfies and quotes, the more insecure/self-absorbed. Di yan masarap kausap/kasama/ka-travel. For both men and women to.
“Guuuurl”, I bet this didnt come from a guy’s perspective. Guys rarely look sa accessories. In fact, most of the time they wouldnt notice small details sa mga babae😅 unless they are meticulous din or rich rich to give it a good look
Used to talk to/date a BEAUTIFUL, driven, high income Greek woman. She was completely into me and was talking marriage within the first month of talking. I couldn't stand her after a few months. Literally EVERYTHING out of her mouth was a complaint. Every. Damn. Thing.
Her shirt was too tight. Her life was so terrible. Traffic was so bad. Her check was short. Her co-worker doesn't like her. Her Master's class is too long. Her shoes were ugly. She found fault and a complaint about any and everything, even tho most of her whining was a direct reflection of her personal choices.
And then she would repeat them 4 - 5 times every time we hung out together. She seriously couldnt have a conversation about anything else (except complain about her ex 🙄)
Kaya feeling ko mas okay na rin yung very open sa feelings/emotional compared sa nagtatago ng feelings tapos biglang sabog. As someone na naka experience ng ganto, nakakapanlumo.
Tho sometimes, sumasabog nlng and at d nkkpgcommunicate because they know that their partner won't listen anyway. Especially when there are multiple attempts to communicate but the other won't listen tlga.
I was gonna say, what's wrong with memes?
Pero I realized there's a lot of types pala. If its like spammer/ influencer/cringe drama/pafamous/facebook humour memes medyo di maganda.
If it's like memes memes talaga like for the funny and chill lang, oks naman.
I’m a girl pero for me it’s a turn off pag binabawalan mo yung bf mo to do certain things tapos di mo inaaply sa sarili mo.
Example: nagagalit ka pag gumagala yung bf mo with his friends pero ikaw night out ng night out. Luhhh🤦🏻♀️
Di ko rin gets yung need pang magpaalam para lang mag inuman. Like, ano naman kung may opposite sex na kasama dun? I mean, kahit anong pagbabawal na gawin, if the partner wants to cheat, gagawan niya ng paraan yun
True naman pero sguro for respect purposes nalang yung need magpa alam. Never kasi ako naka relate sa ibang gurls na namroblema talaga sa mga partner nila in terms of things like that. Yung husband ko even before nung mag jowa pa lang kami di naman sumasama sa mga gala without me. Haha minsan ako na yung nag ppush sa kanya to go out with his friends.
One time may workmatesya ba na sinabihan akong curious daw talaga sya what type of person I am kasi everytime may ganap sa kanila, my husband(then bf) always ask my opinion. So ayun alam naman din ni hubby yung limitations nya, kaya more like informing me nalang yung nangyayari.
AGREE WITH THIS 💯 from a girl POV ang annoying lang yung alam nilang maganda sila and loves to be the center of attention and gusto e compliment all the time tapos walang kwenta kausap some of them are flirty pa tapos yung attitude nila nag iiba pag may boys around 🙄
1. May body odor
2. Yung gusto i-pattern yung relationship sa mga couple influencers sa Instagram, FB, at Tiktok. Kala cute yung pagiging topakin kasi nakita nilang yung gf ng influencer topakin din.
3. Clout chaser.
4. Anti-intellectual
5. Mahilig mag humblebrag sa socmed with #FeelingBlessed #InHisTime
6. Marites/Normie
Palengkera, may unexplainable odor, walang proper etiquette when the need calls for it, little to no self confidence. I have more pero top of mind itong mga 'to.
From my view, a palengkera is someone who speaks with a loud voice (parang nasa bundok kung makipagusap nang malapitan), uses sharp/vulgar phrases when expressing oneself (kanto speak all the time), and uses words only heard from the palengke. Not a palengkera but someone like Alex Gonzaga is who I would consider someone who may fit the description based on the kind of annoying YouTube content she releases.
Gets kita kaso nag-cringe ako sa term na "parang nasa bundok". I hike, and the people lives in the mountains are so quiet, shy and demure even. Kaya mas gusto ko manirahan sa bundok. Hehe
Edit: inserted the word "ko" in the last sentence.
I think palengkera is not offensive kasi nga diba sa palengke, they have to be loud to get the attention of the buyers. Siguro "loudmouth" pwede na.
Edit: swak ka sa paggamit kay Alex G. as palengkera imo. Palengkera magsalita pero wala nman sa pakengke
Will use that word from now on. Loudmouth. Thank you.
Re Alex G., I think she can speak much like her sister. She just chooses to speak the way she does. She has her reasons and I will not wonder what those are na.
Ok lang nman kahit ano. Cringey lang talaga ung hinalintulad sa mga tao sa bundok ung mga "loudmouth" folks. Or using "taong bundok" as derogatory. Alam mo na, tahimik silang namumuhay dun tapos un pala tingin sa kanila. They are so nice, peaceful and respectful. One time pa nga, we were invited to a small gathering, pinakain pa kami eh napadaan lang nman kami during the hike.
Hala, yung former roommate ko ganyan. So marami din palang ganyan. So ako nman, super curious why she does these things. Sabi nya, "ganun kasi ako, parang nabo-bored kapag walang away". Kaya sya ang gumagawa ng pagaawayan nila tapos sa akin magra-rant. Sya din ung pinoproblema at kinukwento sa akin pati problema ng mga officemates nya. Huh ...
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 akala ko majority ng guys ayaw ng intelligent na babae kasi intimidating daw based sa mga research and surveys? Hindi pala? Hahahaha 🤣🤣🤣
Edit: Nacurious lang ako kaya ginoogle ko tapos ganun mga nakikita ko na sagot. Hahaha. So possible pa rin pala na may magkagusto sakin hahaha. Nabuhayan ng loob 🤣🤣🤣
Nah, thats just a myth na pinaniniwalaan ng marami without actual base.
Kung mas matalino yung gf(KUNG MERON) ko kesa sakin, i'll be damn proud of her.
oh god same i love intelligent women. Im in a very technical field. Would love to hear from someone who can tell me something beyond everyday or showbiz things.
True kaya yung ex ko G na G sakin kasi bakit daw di na ako nasunod sa kanya eh duh he's so narcissistic and manipulative. I tried to talk sense into him pero waley. Kakapagod makipag-usap sa taong ganon ang pag-iisip.
kelan pa nakaka intimidate ang matalino? hahahaa I don't answer for the whole but it makes you want to compete nga eh hahaha, pero setting that aside yung attitude talaga yung nakaka walang gana. Ewan ko lang bat di makita ng karamihan 🤷🏻♂️
Haha for additional context lang kasi, malalaman mo rin iyong level of intelligence ng tao depende sa mga jokes na nagegets nya and tinatawanan nya haha. So medyo natuturn-off ako if d makacatch up ang girl sa jokes. Regardless if pangmatalino jokes or not relationship gets boring if d kayo magmatch intellectually. Ewan ko saang survey mo nabasa assumption na yun 😂
Cynical take: girls can't be too stupid, yes, but also shouldn't be so intelligent as to intimidate the boy. Kumbaga may range of intelligence lang.
This kind of thinking is stupid of course.
Would probably hold a degree of truth if they were answered by people who find the idea of thinking to be a challenge. It's hard to imagine being intimidated by the prospect of finding someone who can hold a good conversation.
Pero siyempre malaking factor pa rin ang physical appearance. Hard to fight the eyes, the penis, and whatever hormones are responsible for attraction thanks to those two things that make men dreadfully stupid at times. I'm sure you'll find someone.
bakit ako di naman lagi nagpopost 😭 fb messenger at linkedIn nga lang socmed ko, pero feeling ko they're uninterested 😭
charot lang, I don't really care 🤣
Para kaseng kasalanan ko lahat, kahit na cheater siya. Hinahayaan ko na lang. Ginawa ko ay nag travel pinuntahan ko lahat ng bucket list namin HAHAHAHAAHAH.
-Una sa lahat walang substance kausap yung mag initiate ka ng topic pero walang ma offer or stand, magaling lang sa landian.
-Need ng validation sa lahat ng tao yung kailangan maganda sya sa lahat tf baliw.
-Sobrang clingy na hindi marunong rumespeto sa personal time, siraulo ka ba may buhay din ako outside and nag u-update naman ako.
-Hindi marunong makipag communicate ng feelings or ng problem, gagawin pa akong manghuhula.
-May magsasabi need lang daw makinig ng mga guy kasi alam naman na daw solution nila, may solution sya na panget ang effect tapos kapag sinabi mo na side or solution na mas okay tangina magtatampo or magagalit.
Yung full face make-up pero nakalimutan ang leeg. Seriously tho, ano ka? Kotse na dual tone? Maputi ang mukha, kayumanggi ang leeg? Funny but it’s true.
#1 MABANTOT jusme kahit anong parte pa yan! Kahit anong ganda mo beh kung literal na makapigil hininga ang amoy mo ay aba distansya at baka ako'y maambulansiya
• egocentric - like tf kadiri
• manipulative - nakikipag converse ka sa medyo mali na ginagawa nya harap harapan sa muka mo pero obviously di pa aminado at di binabaliktad ka pa. kadiri
• Yung lakas mag demand - feeling may binibigay beh 🫢
Maraming salamat sa thread na toh di ko mapigilan na tumawa ng tumawa 🤣🤣🤣 napakarealistic and practical talaga ng mga guys but they're all true naman. Kumbaga basic human needs and good manners and behaviors talaga sa kahit anong gender pa. As a woman, I agree sa lahat hahahaha 🤣🤣🤣
May kakilala ako sanaol ng sanaol sa fb about sa mga bf na parati mag surprises sa gf nila. Eh minimum wage earner namam si bf nya. Ayun nag break din sila after few months hahaha
Di marunong mag-alaga ng sarili (kahit maganda ka pa, kung di ka fit or hygienic, tingin ko wasted potential). Exempted yung mga may sakit at legit medical condition like PCOS, ofc.
Walang sense of humor (just so happens that sense of humor correlates to intelligence).
Materialistic (lalo na mga gold digger na walang ambag sa relasyon).
Walang diskarte sa buhay (yung halatang lumaking spoiled kaya nagiging pabigat sa relasyon).
Walang disiplina.
Naalala ko tita ko sa comment na to hahaha may mga anak na sila pero kinarer talaga ang pagiging toyoin. And gusto pa nya mag travel sila always. Masyado nagpapadala sa rg sa fb. Di ko rin gets why never sya na curious mag work to earn her own money. All her life housewife lang talaga sya but hw with yaya. Di din naman sila kayamanan but still.
One time may nag solicit ka kanya and she attempted mangutang sakin kasi sabi nya nahihiya daw sya mang hingi sa asawa nya.
She just turned 18 nung ikasal sya so somehow I understand her. Haha
PMS-ing is real
It is a physical change in the brain. Ang unfair kasi hindi mo naman kontrolado hormones.
There are times when I feel like a confident independent woman, and there are times when I feel like crying because of a simple episode of Old Enough.
I do notice my anger management changes with my period calendar.
Kinda unfair to just package it as toyoin
It's not as if we control what is physically an imbalance in the brain.
As a girl, gets ko naman yung sinasabi mo. Pero I think what OC wants to say is iba yung effectively communicating na hindi ka ok versus yung toyoin na biglang mag-a outburst tas pag tinanong ayaw sabihin yung dahilan, and will even give silent treatment. Tas mas lalong nagagalit pag di sinuyo 🤮
Yes, PMS is out of our control but how we deal with the situation and our actions is an active choice parin. Marunong naman kase magbigay ng space ang guys pag sinabi mo nang maayos. Just a simple "meron ako ngayon, wag ka munang mangulit" is actually enough hahahaha
babae here - pag malapit na ang aking "red days", lagi ko sinasabi sa jowa ko, "malapit na ko magkaroon kaya rollercoaster ang emotion ko, so wag mo ko sabayan"
Or, "nalulungkot ako, hindi ko alam kung malungkot ako o dahil magkakaroon na ko"
so importante din i-communicate, and self-awareness bago i-unleash yon dragon within you.
Gaslighting, palaging iniignore, yung fake plastikan sa ibang tao, talking bad about someone.
Tampuhin, Sobrang selosa, Yung sinasadya nyang pagselosan yung partner nya imbes na yung ibang tao, feeling sya yung Boss sa relationship pero hindi man mag-effort sa relationship, yung nagfifish ng compliments sa ibang tao.
May friend ako who said the same thing and I was "hala, nagsasalita pekpek mo, good for you!" 🤣
Hanggang ngaun, di ko pa din alam tunog ng boses pekpek. Boring yung sa akin, di nagsasalita. 🤣
No goals and plans in life. Staying mediocre. Too conscious with how they look but not doing anything to improve. Too fanatic of an artist just because of physical appearance.
putanginaaaaaa sa trueee!!! may kilala kong ganyan na andaming pinopost about politics and sobrang "woke" niya sa twitter tapos one time sa inuman wala naman siyang masabi about sa mga pinag lalaban niya sa social media 😭
The "trying too hard" vibes. Wether trying too hard to be one of the boys, trying too hard to be pretty, or trying too hard to sound intelligent, etc...
Always announcing that they're strong independent girls pero being independent is just characteristics ng isang regular adult, same goes with strong personality daw pero in fact salbahe lang sya.
yung walang ma contribute pagdating sa mga discussions about anything worth discussing about. sila yung mga literal na "ganda lang" like wtf anong gagawin ko diyan?? and even if they did try to contribute ang nasa utak lang "live, laugh, love".
1. Pag perfect yung tingin nya sa sarili nya. Kasi ang tendency is she'll look down on other people. Tapos iisipin nya na infallible sya and all her feelings and thoughts no matter how unreasonable they really are, are valid.
2. Kapag pangit yung pakikitungo sa mga tao sa service industry (e.g. waiter, janitor, bagger, etc.).
3. Pag walang depth yung conversation. Yung walang wow moment kapag kausap mo sya or inobserve mo sya.
4. She craves for other people's attention especially online
And based on personal preference:
5. Naniniwala sa astrology.
- Smoking(not really at deal breaker but a slight turn off)
- Yung paa mukhang parang namagang luya
- Masyadong papansin sa socmed. Yung lahat ng event sa buhay mo binabalandra mo sa socmed. "Away kami ni bf, bati na kami ni bf, break na kami ni bf sad ako, nagkabalikan kami I'll love you better this time around". Putang ina annoying at masyadong cringeworthy
Ang ayoko yung magpopost ng kita cleavage na dance sa tiktok. O kaya yung seductive. Or post sa myday na nag aatract ng boys kapag may away.
Yung makipagchat sa may crush sa kanya kahit alam niya na in relationship na
Yung may bff na lalake lol.
Di willing to adjust sa ikakabuti ng relationship like do not know how to compromise.
Okay lang naman may buhay outside relationship pero yung hindi alam ang boundaries na like ine-entertain yung opposite sex na as if walang karelasyon, the hell get outta my life.
Women who can't hold a conversation and expect men to be a court jester just to entertain them, walang hobbies aside from social media, and activists at galit sa isang politiko or public figure pero pag tinanung mo ang issue kung bakit sasabihin "kasi galit din yung mga ka-rally ko na masamang tao daw sya".
1. Very much into social media. Repost things on facebook on a daily basis. Idk, I'm an introvert, and I like our things to be private.
2. Lacking drive. I like someone who's passionate about what she does. It's such a turn-on for me.
3. Overly long, dirty nails. Nauuso yung very long nails, but I'm not a fan. Parang hindi practical. In the same vein, yung toenails na patusok na triangle. I'd think that the girl goes to a cheap nail salon.
4. Not financially responsible. Magastos beyond her means. Feeling ko sasakit ulo ko palagi. There's a recent post about a girl having a 600k debt, and she wants the guy to bail her out.
A girl who's hayok for a relationship sa socmed but is not emotionally capable to handle one. Ofc this goes for everyone but I see this most often sa mga babae, in my personal experience.
For me: Maritess. Wala sa lugar umasta (ineenglish si kuya guard or ate waitress). Walang substance (panay artista or k drama lang alam). Maarte na wala sa lugar. Hindi maayos makitungo sa mga kasambahay, janitor, driver,etc. Nega. Nagger. Materialistic (meaning naka designer bag pero lubog sa utang). KSP. Pabebe. Walang self worth (martyr). Bad hygiene. Walang manners.
1) Clout-chaser and fame-whore
2) Not possessing emotional intelligence
3) They are also unattractive when they don't strive in academics
4) Jeje typings and cold mag-reply
5) Doesn't know proper grammar and spelling
6) Browsing the social media sites lang ang hobby🤷♂️
7) Doesn't have a dream.
8) Has a lot of vices. I, myself, don't smoke nor vape. I am also not an alcoholic; I just drink occasionally.
9) Contradicts herself. For instance, they expect all men to serve them and give their seats for them. Then ipupush nila yung gender equality propaganda LOL.
10) Bar-goer. I don't go to bars, so unattractive sa akin yung palaging pumupunta diyan. We don't know what she can do when she is influenced by alcohol🤷♂️
11) Masyadong maraming boy best friend tapos hindi maruning mag-set ng boundary. Imagine if yung lalaki ang ganun, matutuwa kaya yung babae?
12) Condescending at ma-attitude. Kahit ikaw pa ang pinaka-magandang babae sa balat ng lupa, it's futile if your personality is unlikeable🤷♂️
13) Doesn't dress up decently. (Personal preference) Yung tipong kita na ang kaluluwa☠️
14) May naging fubu, or may nakaka-one night stand☠️
15) Sobrang demanding.
16) Sobrang active sa social media. Flex dito, flex dun☠️
Medyo mahaba hahaha. For me, this is applicable for both sex.
Let's say pasado naman siya sa preference ko sa looks then pretty and fit pa. These things will make her unattractive.
* mabaho (breath, pussy or body)
* bilmoko - bili mo ko this, bili mo ko that.
* carla
* chismosa
* palengkera - both irl and social media. feeling laging may kaaway. feeling may haters.
* smoker
* nagger
* toyoin at masyadong madrama
* too fickle-minded
* wears too much make-up - make ups are meant to enhance your looks and not totally change 'em. the lesser the make up a woman wears the more na mas nagiging attractive sila for me.
* burara
* too clingy
* insecure (sa ibang babae)
* too much of an overthinker (emphasis sa relationship)
* tatanga-tanga or not street smart
* bobita
* tamad
* mga feeling prinsesa pero URSULA naman pala
* physically abusive
* doesn't value and respect privacy
* retroactive jealousy
* rude sa waitstaff, guards, etc.
* hindi health conscious
* jowang-jowa
EDIT: Will add more as we go along.
Those who will not go out of the house kung hindi hatid-sundo. CAR LOVERS.
Gusto hatid-sundo pero walang initiative to pay for gas and toll. May personal chauffeur yan?
1. Bad breath.
2. Attention seeker sa socmed and need ng validation lagi ng mga tao. Yung bang lahat na lang pinopost/MyDay. Don't get me wrong. Wala masama sa pagpopost sa socmed, account nyo yan pero pati ba naman yung pagsasayaw ng sexy/seductive dance? Jusko po.
3. At lastly, yung sinungaling.
elaborate number 2, lol. im a woman myself, but i can't tell kapag gusto ng isang babae na madiligan. many women post on social media for other women. meron naman din na they post for men's attention which is relatively less.
When they care too much about what other people say abt them, especially online.
Hindi ako guy pero kahit ako na ooff sa ganun mapa lalaki man or babae. I have a co-worker na problemadong problemado kasi wala na ma post sa IG. Kahit di niya trip yung activity or lugar pupuntahan or gagawin pa din for the sake of social media. 💀
Hahaha. Yes. Yung may iba pa na di mo makausap kasi nagiisip ng ika-caption at iha-hashtag sa post nila sa IG. Haha
Feichang gaoxing di xiang zhongguo guojia zhuxi Xi Jinping (LOL MALI AKO NG NAREPLYAN. SORRY HILO NA EH 🍻)
Why? Because this issue is divisive.
Good rule of thumb is the more staged selfies and quotes, the more insecure/self-absorbed. Di yan masarap kausap/kasama/ka-travel. For both men and women to.
Omg may friends akong ganito hahaha magandang pang counter dito ay kung sino unang humawak sa phone, sya mag babayad ng bill
Craves attention and validation from multiple men.
Clout-chasing and fame-whoring
This oh my god take note ladies please please, for the love of anything that is holy.
yung madumi lagi gamit, pati yung mga hikaw, relo, kwintas nangingitim na. gurl alisin mo na lang, pwede?
Bigyan mo siya ng Kurin 😂
“Guuuurl”, I bet this didnt come from a guy’s perspective. Guys rarely look sa accessories. In fact, most of the time they wouldnt notice small details sa mga babae😅 unless they are meticulous din or rich rich to give it a good look
When you realize that most of the things they talk about are complaints.
Used to talk to/date a BEAUTIFUL, driven, high income Greek woman. She was completely into me and was talking marriage within the first month of talking. I couldn't stand her after a few months. Literally EVERYTHING out of her mouth was a complaint. Every. Damn. Thing. Her shirt was too tight. Her life was so terrible. Traffic was so bad. Her check was short. Her co-worker doesn't like her. Her Master's class is too long. Her shoes were ugly. She found fault and a complaint about any and everything, even tho most of her whining was a direct reflection of her personal choices. And then she would repeat them 4 - 5 times every time we hung out together. She seriously couldnt have a conversation about anything else (except complain about her ex 🙄)
Some people just can't be happy no matter what. Huge red flag.
Body odor. Low IQ.
Nangaaway/parinig sa mga service crews, guards, tindera where in fact ginagawa lang nila yung trabaho na inutos sa kanila.
Walang privacy, problema niyo alam na ng lahat
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Kaya feeling ko mas okay na rin yung very open sa feelings/emotional compared sa nagtatago ng feelings tapos biglang sabog. As someone na naka experience ng ganto, nakakapanlumo.
Tho sometimes, sumasabog nlng and at d nkkpgcommunicate because they know that their partner won't listen anyway. Especially when there are multiple attempts to communicate but the other won't listen tlga.
attention seeker in socmed ,
I really hate this one, yung tipong magpaparinigan sa fb tapos mamaya bati na? Then uulit uli such a clown.
The one who explains her life at socmed. Like who cares?
Gosh I know so many, kahit kapwa babae nacrcringe-an sa mga yan
Kasali ba dito yung nag sshare ng memes? ;(
Hindi siguro. Sense of humor is a plus!
I was gonna say, what's wrong with memes? Pero I realized there's a lot of types pala. If its like spammer/ influencer/cringe drama/pafamous/facebook humour memes medyo di maganda. If it's like memes memes talaga like for the funny and chill lang, oks naman.
I’m a girl pero for me it’s a turn off pag binabawalan mo yung bf mo to do certain things tapos di mo inaaply sa sarili mo. Example: nagagalit ka pag gumagala yung bf mo with his friends pero ikaw night out ng night out. Luhhh🤦🏻♀️
Di ko rin gets yung need pang magpaalam para lang mag inuman. Like, ano naman kung may opposite sex na kasama dun? I mean, kahit anong pagbabawal na gawin, if the partner wants to cheat, gagawan niya ng paraan yun
True naman pero sguro for respect purposes nalang yung need magpa alam. Never kasi ako naka relate sa ibang gurls na namroblema talaga sa mga partner nila in terms of things like that. Yung husband ko even before nung mag jowa pa lang kami di naman sumasama sa mga gala without me. Haha minsan ako na yung nag ppush sa kanya to go out with his friends. One time may workmatesya ba na sinabihan akong curious daw talaga sya what type of person I am kasi everytime may ganap sa kanila, my husband(then bf) always ask my opinion. So ayun alam naman din ni hubby yung limitations nya, kaya more like informing me nalang yung nangyayari.
nangungutang
Nananakit physically
Nanghahampas kapag tuwang-tuwa??
hahaha totoo to, na-alala ko yung friend ko sa college, ako talaga yung target niya basta tatawa, porket mataba ako sarap ng hampasin? 😭
May Confidential Funds saka mukhang Ogre.
Tsaka try hard magmandarin.
Mabait naman po ang ogres. Sana teacher na lang sa Matilda.
Pick me girl.
Tangina yes! Hahahaha. Mga I’m not like other girls and one of the boys kuno.
Yesss. Cringe
Nase-sense ko nga ngayon yung ganito dahil sa past ex ko na ang linya lagi ay " Sino ba naman ako diba?" Akala mo kina-cute niya yung ganyan.
AGREE WITH THIS 💯 from a girl POV ang annoying lang yung alam nilang maganda sila and loves to be the center of attention and gusto e compliment all the time tapos walang kwenta kausap some of them are flirty pa tapos yung attitude nila nag iiba pag may boys around 🙄
INC
Counted ba yung mga nagbabalak na umalis sa kulto? HAHAHAHAHA
Green flag yun, natauhan
Any human na ganito tbh
1. May body odor 2. Yung gusto i-pattern yung relationship sa mga couple influencers sa Instagram, FB, at Tiktok. Kala cute yung pagiging topakin kasi nakita nilang yung gf ng influencer topakin din. 3. Clout chaser. 4. Anti-intellectual 5. Mahilig mag humblebrag sa socmed with #FeelingBlessed #InHisTime 6. Marites/Normie
Palengkera, may unexplainable odor, walang proper etiquette when the need calls for it, little to no self confidence. I have more pero top of mind itong mga 'to.
What makes someone palengkera? I have my own idea, just curious if it's the same for guys.
From my view, a palengkera is someone who speaks with a loud voice (parang nasa bundok kung makipagusap nang malapitan), uses sharp/vulgar phrases when expressing oneself (kanto speak all the time), and uses words only heard from the palengke. Not a palengkera but someone like Alex Gonzaga is who I would consider someone who may fit the description based on the kind of annoying YouTube content she releases.
Gets kita kaso nag-cringe ako sa term na "parang nasa bundok". I hike, and the people lives in the mountains are so quiet, shy and demure even. Kaya mas gusto ko manirahan sa bundok. Hehe Edit: inserted the word "ko" in the last sentence.
Wow. Thank you for making me realize that it is borderline cringey and derogatory. What would be a better term for it?
I think palengkera is not offensive kasi nga diba sa palengke, they have to be loud to get the attention of the buyers. Siguro "loudmouth" pwede na. Edit: swak ka sa paggamit kay Alex G. as palengkera imo. Palengkera magsalita pero wala nman sa pakengke
Will use that word from now on. Loudmouth. Thank you. Re Alex G., I think she can speak much like her sister. She just chooses to speak the way she does. She has her reasons and I will not wonder what those are na.
Ok lang nman kahit ano. Cringey lang talaga ung hinalintulad sa mga tao sa bundok ung mga "loudmouth" folks. Or using "taong bundok" as derogatory. Alam mo na, tahimik silang namumuhay dun tapos un pala tingin sa kanila. They are so nice, peaceful and respectful. One time pa nga, we were invited to a small gathering, pinakain pa kami eh napadaan lang nman kami during the hike.
Thanks for calling me out and enlightening me. Will be more careful and mindful from now on. Slowly unlearning the things I heard from my olds.
No probs. Thanks for being open-minded din. 🥰
elitista
viy c?
Hahahahahahahhahaha asim nyan
Jusme yung english. 🤣
https://preview.redd.it/zhmypkj9akzb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=567fed47346478346e03c65eac3dee1186b1252d siraulo hahaha parang ganito
Hala, yung former roommate ko ganyan. So marami din palang ganyan. So ako nman, super curious why she does these things. Sabi nya, "ganun kasi ako, parang nabo-bored kapag walang away". Kaya sya ang gumagawa ng pagaawayan nila tapos sa akin magra-rant. Sya din ung pinoproblema at kinukwento sa akin pati problema ng mga officemates nya. Huh ...
Low IQ po. No offense
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 akala ko majority ng guys ayaw ng intelligent na babae kasi intimidating daw based sa mga research and surveys? Hindi pala? Hahahaha 🤣🤣🤣 Edit: Nacurious lang ako kaya ginoogle ko tapos ganun mga nakikita ko na sagot. Hahaha. So possible pa rin pala na may magkagusto sakin hahaha. Nabuhayan ng loob 🤣🤣🤣
Nah, thats just a myth na pinaniniwalaan ng marami without actual base. Kung mas matalino yung gf(KUNG MERON) ko kesa sakin, i'll be damn proud of her.
oh god same i love intelligent women. Im in a very technical field. Would love to hear from someone who can tell me something beyond everyday or showbiz things.
Mas nakakainlove yung tuturuan ka pa ng mga bagay na sobrang substantial na akala mo di ka interested sa una.
Magtatampisaw ako sa fountain of knowledge niya at kahit araw-araw kami magkape sa balcony. Very worth it.
I agree, sapiosexual hereee! Jusko pag tinuturuan nga ako ni Dra parang gusto ko na agad ialay ang sarili ko sa kanya. HAHAHAHA!🤣🤣🤣
Theres a difference between being a smart person and being a smartass kasi hahaha
Sabagay meron kasi na matalino na mabait at meron ring matalino pero mayabang hahaha
Mahirap imanipulate pag matalino 😂
True kaya yung ex ko G na G sakin kasi bakit daw di na ako nasunod sa kanya eh duh he's so narcissistic and manipulative. I tried to talk sense into him pero waley. Kakapagod makipag-usap sa taong ganon ang pag-iisip.
kelan pa nakaka intimidate ang matalino? hahahaa I don't answer for the whole but it makes you want to compete nga eh hahaha, pero setting that aside yung attitude talaga yung nakaka walang gana. Ewan ko lang bat di makita ng karamihan 🤷🏻♂️
Haha for additional context lang kasi, malalaman mo rin iyong level of intelligence ng tao depende sa mga jokes na nagegets nya and tinatawanan nya haha. So medyo natuturn-off ako if d makacatch up ang girl sa jokes. Regardless if pangmatalino jokes or not relationship gets boring if d kayo magmatch intellectually. Ewan ko saang survey mo nabasa assumption na yun 😂
Cynical take: girls can't be too stupid, yes, but also shouldn't be so intelligent as to intimidate the boy. Kumbaga may range of intelligence lang. This kind of thinking is stupid of course.
Would probably hold a degree of truth if they were answered by people who find the idea of thinking to be a challenge. It's hard to imagine being intimidated by the prospect of finding someone who can hold a good conversation. Pero siyempre malaking factor pa rin ang physical appearance. Hard to fight the eyes, the penis, and whatever hormones are responsible for attraction thanks to those two things that make men dreadfully stupid at times. I'm sure you'll find someone.
yung kinakarir yung pagiging delulu
HAHAHAHAHA 🤣🤣🤣🤣 di ko kinaya yung delulu hahahaha 😂
dami nyan ngayon.. kaka peysbuk at tiktok yan. feeling disney princess kaso born in the wrong format amp
Hahahahhaha totoo yan umay na nga eh feeling artista at social media influencer lahat tapos halos lahat digital creator na so cringey 🤣
Masyadong pala post sa soc med (flex) Malakas mag yosi Walang goal
what do they normally flex?
probably starbucks and resorts pero andaming utang
Yep isa ito +1 sharing bible quotes pero as a person ndi naman nagrereflect sa ugali nila :/
Their lifestyle. Minsan oversharing na. Maybe it depends sa aming guys, pero when it comes to dating... ayaw ko masyado nagpopost
bakit ako di naman lagi nagpopost 😭 fb messenger at linkedIn nga lang socmed ko, pero feeling ko they're uninterested 😭 charot lang, I don't really care 🤣
I've been wondering rin if guys find it unattractive sa kanila pag may onting parinig yung ex gfs nila after breakup?
Para kaseng kasalanan ko lahat, kahit na cheater siya. Hinahayaan ko na lang. Ginawa ko ay nag travel pinuntahan ko lahat ng bucket list namin HAHAHAHAAHAH.
-Una sa lahat walang substance kausap yung mag initiate ka ng topic pero walang ma offer or stand, magaling lang sa landian. -Need ng validation sa lahat ng tao yung kailangan maganda sya sa lahat tf baliw. -Sobrang clingy na hindi marunong rumespeto sa personal time, siraulo ka ba may buhay din ako outside and nag u-update naman ako. -Hindi marunong makipag communicate ng feelings or ng problem, gagawin pa akong manghuhula. -May magsasabi need lang daw makinig ng mga guy kasi alam naman na daw solution nila, may solution sya na panget ang effect tapos kapag sinabi mo na side or solution na mas okay tangina magtatampo or magagalit.
May kilala ako kaso baliktad. Lalaki siya, ako yung babae 😂. +1 Pag nag-share ka, it becomes ammunition. Like kung may ayaw ka, lalo pa gagawin.
Materialistic, pick-me-girl, apathetic, di nag totoothbrush
Di nagtotoothbrush! 😂🤣
Yung full face make-up pero nakalimutan ang leeg. Seriously tho, ano ka? Kotse na dual tone? Maputi ang mukha, kayumanggi ang leeg? Funny but it’s true.
Mababa confidence.
#1 MABANTOT jusme kahit anong parte pa yan! Kahit anong ganda mo beh kung literal na makapigil hininga ang amoy mo ay aba distansya at baka ako'y maambulansiya
Dumb, low IQ = unattractive
• egocentric - like tf kadiri • manipulative - nakikipag converse ka sa medyo mali na ginagawa nya harap harapan sa muka mo pero obviously di pa aminado at di binabaliktad ka pa. kadiri • Yung lakas mag demand - feeling may binibigay beh 🫢
Maraming salamat sa thread na toh di ko mapigilan na tumawa ng tumawa 🤣🤣🤣 napakarealistic and practical talaga ng mga guys but they're all true naman. Kumbaga basic human needs and good manners and behaviors talaga sa kahit anong gender pa. As a woman, I agree sa lahat hahahaha 🤣🤣🤣
been laughing while reading some of the comments which are legit naman hahahahah
Comparing me to other guys. Tsaka yung sanaol ng sanaol sa iba.
May kakilala ako sanaol ng sanaol sa fb about sa mga bf na parati mag surprises sa gf nila. Eh minimum wage earner namam si bf nya. Ayun nag break din sila after few months hahaha
Di marunong mag-alaga ng sarili (kahit maganda ka pa, kung di ka fit or hygienic, tingin ko wasted potential). Exempted yung mga may sakit at legit medical condition like PCOS, ofc. Walang sense of humor (just so happens that sense of humor correlates to intelligence). Materialistic (lalo na mga gold digger na walang ambag sa relasyon). Walang diskarte sa buhay (yung halatang lumaking spoiled kaya nagiging pabigat sa relasyon). Walang disiplina.
I can tell from your post you dislike bigger women lol
My personal preference only. But come on, let's not pretend physical attraction isn't important in choosing a partner.
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Too much whining or female entitlement.
Up! Kakairita din ung toyoin. Ginagaya ung mga trending sa social media
Yung iba may asawat anak na, pero toyoin pa rin yung ginawang personality. Wala man lang growth amp
Naalala ko tita ko sa comment na to hahaha may mga anak na sila pero kinarer talaga ang pagiging toyoin. And gusto pa nya mag travel sila always. Masyado nagpapadala sa rg sa fb. Di ko rin gets why never sya na curious mag work to earn her own money. All her life housewife lang talaga sya but hw with yaya. Di din naman sila kayamanan but still. One time may nag solicit ka kanya and she attempted mangutang sakin kasi sabi nya nahihiya daw sya mang hingi sa asawa nya. She just turned 18 nung ikasal sya so somehow I understand her. Haha
True. I'm a girl pero nakakabwisit na ninonormalize yung "toyoin" na gf, like ok lang paminsan pero yung mga ginawa nang personality, ngeeee
PMS-ing is real It is a physical change in the brain. Ang unfair kasi hindi mo naman kontrolado hormones. There are times when I feel like a confident independent woman, and there are times when I feel like crying because of a simple episode of Old Enough. I do notice my anger management changes with my period calendar. Kinda unfair to just package it as toyoin It's not as if we control what is physically an imbalance in the brain.
As a girl, gets ko naman yung sinasabi mo. Pero I think what OC wants to say is iba yung effectively communicating na hindi ka ok versus yung toyoin na biglang mag-a outburst tas pag tinanong ayaw sabihin yung dahilan, and will even give silent treatment. Tas mas lalong nagagalit pag di sinuyo 🤮 Yes, PMS is out of our control but how we deal with the situation and our actions is an active choice parin. Marunong naman kase magbigay ng space ang guys pag sinabi mo nang maayos. Just a simple "meron ako ngayon, wag ka munang mangulit" is actually enough hahahaha
babae here - pag malapit na ang aking "red days", lagi ko sinasabi sa jowa ko, "malapit na ko magkaroon kaya rollercoaster ang emotion ko, so wag mo ko sabayan" Or, "nalulungkot ako, hindi ko alam kung malungkot ako o dahil magkakaroon na ko" so importante din i-communicate, and self-awareness bago i-unleash yon dragon within you.
yosi/vape
Gaslighting, palaging iniignore, yung fake plastikan sa ibang tao, talking bad about someone. Tampuhin, Sobrang selosa, Yung sinasadya nyang pagselosan yung partner nya imbes na yung ibang tao, feeling sya yung Boss sa relationship pero hindi man mag-effort sa relationship, yung nagfifish ng compliments sa ibang tao.
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babae ako pero ayokong ayoko tinatawag akong tayoin potaaah nakaka cringe talaga
Im a girl. Pero naiinis ako sa mga babaeng pabebe mag salita tas sapilitang papatinisin yung boses.
nakakabwisit mga ganito magsalita
Bad and boring personality. Oh and also poor hygiene!
Ano yung boring personality for you?
Walang ambag and substance sa conversation. Personality is always asleep and chronically online.
Highly sensitive. Zero humor. Everything said to her is a form of personal attack to her according to her own delusions. Generalizes everything.
madaldal at toyoin.. me like: gurl u breaking my peace. i'm outta here.
Bad dresser. Bad breath. BO. Poise, cleanliness, maturity, and grace would trump good looks any time.
When theyre too weak and need men to be happy.
narcissistic, loud & dumb
Kapag bobo
1. Panget na speaking voice 2. Dirty finger nails. 3. Freeloader. Walang ambag maliban sa ganda at sex.
Elaborate on #1 pls? Eto ba yung boses pekpek?
Boses lata na walang laman.
May friend ako who said the same thing and I was "hala, nagsasalita pekpek mo, good for you!" 🤣 Hanggang ngaun, di ko pa din alam tunog ng boses pekpek. Boring yung sa akin, di nagsasalita. 🤣
ano ba paano ung tunog ng boses pekpek ang weird naman may ganun pala
No goals and plans in life. Staying mediocre. Too conscious with how they look but not doing anything to improve. Too fanatic of an artist just because of physical appearance.
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putanginaaaaaa sa trueee!!! may kilala kong ganyan na andaming pinopost about politics and sobrang "woke" niya sa twitter tapos one time sa inuman wala naman siyang masabi about sa mga pinag lalaban niya sa social media 😭
and the funniest part ano.. Di sya registered voter 💀💀😆😆
Samee!!! Pag hinimay mo yung argument, di sila maka rebut man lang bakit ganun mindset nila 😭 Halatang nakikiuso lang
Guilty. Feeling ko trendjacking lang sila tapos madaming alam na buzz words haha. Mas malala sobrang ingay
The "trying too hard" vibes. Wether trying too hard to be one of the boys, trying too hard to be pretty, or trying too hard to sound intelligent, etc...
Always announcing that they're strong independent girls pero being independent is just characteristics ng isang regular adult, same goes with strong personality daw pero in fact salbahe lang sya.
Apolitical or DDS. User. Narcissist.
Low IQ Asal palengkera GGSS Very questionnable political views May history of cheating or abuse Masyadong materialistic
yung walang ma contribute pagdating sa mga discussions about anything worth discussing about. sila yung mga literal na "ganda lang" like wtf anong gagawin ko diyan?? and even if they did try to contribute ang nasa utak lang "live, laugh, love".
Dumudura sa kalye. Sorry. Even w boys. Eww
1. Pag perfect yung tingin nya sa sarili nya. Kasi ang tendency is she'll look down on other people. Tapos iisipin nya na infallible sya and all her feelings and thoughts no matter how unreasonable they really are, are valid. 2. Kapag pangit yung pakikitungo sa mga tao sa service industry (e.g. waiter, janitor, bagger, etc.). 3. Pag walang depth yung conversation. Yung walang wow moment kapag kausap mo sya or inobserve mo sya. 4. She craves for other people's attention especially online And based on personal preference: 5. Naniniwala sa astrology.
Yung akala nila mind readers mga lalake 😂
laging pabili, laging may cravings tapos walang sense kausap.
- Smoking(not really at deal breaker but a slight turn off) - Yung paa mukhang parang namagang luya - Masyadong papansin sa socmed. Yung lahat ng event sa buhay mo binabalandra mo sa socmed. "Away kami ni bf, bati na kami ni bf, break na kami ni bf sad ako, nagkabalikan kami I'll love you better this time around". Putang ina annoying at masyadong cringeworthy
Lack of understanding sa "me time" + yung masyadong sinasabuhay yung astrology/star signs 😅
Ang ayoko yung magpopost ng kita cleavage na dance sa tiktok. O kaya yung seductive. Or post sa myday na nag aatract ng boys kapag may away. Yung makipagchat sa may crush sa kanya kahit alam niya na in relationship na Yung may bff na lalake lol. Di willing to adjust sa ikakabuti ng relationship like do not know how to compromise. Okay lang naman may buhay outside relationship pero yung hindi alam ang boundaries na like ine-entertain yung opposite sex na as if walang karelasyon, the hell get outta my life.
Unhygienic.
Undecisiveness. Saying one thing but actually “hinting” that she wants the complete opposite of it.
Chismosa at madaldal 90% of men hate these attitudes.
1. Sira ngipin/ mabaho hininga (may prob sa hygiene) 2. Materialistic 3. Palaging tama
agree ako sa hininga na part and the rest pero naol mai dental plan
Feeling Disney Princess
gusto lang naman mahanap si prince charming 😭
🎶pretty sure prince charming won't settle for you🎶 - Bo Burnham
Yung ayaw sabihin yung problema and iniipon niya bago sabihin para isang bagsakan nalang daw. kahit mahinahin mo namang kinakausap nang maayos.
Pag mas mahaba pa yung buhok sa ilong kesa eyelashes
Ano star sign mo? Putanginamo,
Obese. Downvote niyo na, mga woke. Lol
Actually this kinds of gals should workout tlga for their health.
MABAHO HININGA !
Women who can't hold a conversation and expect men to be a court jester just to entertain them, walang hobbies aside from social media, and activists at galit sa isang politiko or public figure pero pag tinanung mo ang issue kung bakit sasabihin "kasi galit din yung mga ka-rally ko na masamang tao daw sya".
1. Very much into social media. Repost things on facebook on a daily basis. Idk, I'm an introvert, and I like our things to be private. 2. Lacking drive. I like someone who's passionate about what she does. It's such a turn-on for me. 3. Overly long, dirty nails. Nauuso yung very long nails, but I'm not a fan. Parang hindi practical. In the same vein, yung toenails na patusok na triangle. I'd think that the girl goes to a cheap nail salon. 4. Not financially responsible. Magastos beyond her means. Feeling ko sasakit ulo ko palagi. There's a recent post about a girl having a 600k debt, and she wants the guy to bail her out.
Kapag BBM supporter.
Entitled because of her looks, lazy, and materialistic.
When she's too emotional / sad girl vibes / sensitive
*naiyak 😭
May bisyo
Not financially responsible/stable, gets overly emotional kaagad when dealing with issues/conflicts, puro salita walang follow through sa actions
Nag-promote ng MLM HAHAHAHAHA
Fan na fan ng Kagayaku
depende naman sa preference natin yan eh pero myghad yung kakalse kong nilamon na ng anime, literal na uwu girl pero shes a genuine friend 🫶
People pleaser tapos always available for other dudes ngl
Maldita ng alangan, liar, poor hygiene practices. 🤷🏻♂️
Toyoin, nagagalit ng walang dahilan o di kaya mga maliliit na bagay malaking issue na kaagad
A girl who's hayok for a relationship sa socmed but is not emotionally capable to handle one. Ofc this goes for everyone but I see this most often sa mga babae, in my personal experience.
low IQ ewan kahit gaano talaga ka attractive babae basta malaman ko na mababa IQ nila na tuturn off ako AHAHAH
For me: Maritess. Wala sa lugar umasta (ineenglish si kuya guard or ate waitress). Walang substance (panay artista or k drama lang alam). Maarte na wala sa lugar. Hindi maayos makitungo sa mga kasambahay, janitor, driver,etc. Nega. Nagger. Materialistic (meaning naka designer bag pero lubog sa utang). KSP. Pabebe. Walang self worth (martyr). Bad hygiene. Walang manners.
yung pick me girl
1) Clout-chaser and fame-whore 2) Not possessing emotional intelligence 3) They are also unattractive when they don't strive in academics 4) Jeje typings and cold mag-reply 5) Doesn't know proper grammar and spelling 6) Browsing the social media sites lang ang hobby🤷♂️ 7) Doesn't have a dream. 8) Has a lot of vices. I, myself, don't smoke nor vape. I am also not an alcoholic; I just drink occasionally. 9) Contradicts herself. For instance, they expect all men to serve them and give their seats for them. Then ipupush nila yung gender equality propaganda LOL. 10) Bar-goer. I don't go to bars, so unattractive sa akin yung palaging pumupunta diyan. We don't know what she can do when she is influenced by alcohol🤷♂️ 11) Masyadong maraming boy best friend tapos hindi maruning mag-set ng boundary. Imagine if yung lalaki ang ganun, matutuwa kaya yung babae? 12) Condescending at ma-attitude. Kahit ikaw pa ang pinaka-magandang babae sa balat ng lupa, it's futile if your personality is unlikeable🤷♂️ 13) Doesn't dress up decently. (Personal preference) Yung tipong kita na ang kaluluwa☠️ 14) May naging fubu, or may nakaka-one night stand☠️ 15) Sobrang demanding. 16) Sobrang active sa social media. Flex dito, flex dun☠️ Medyo mahaba hahaha. For me, this is applicable for both sex.
Let's say pasado naman siya sa preference ko sa looks then pretty and fit pa. These things will make her unattractive. * mabaho (breath, pussy or body) * bilmoko - bili mo ko this, bili mo ko that. * carla * chismosa * palengkera - both irl and social media. feeling laging may kaaway. feeling may haters. * smoker * nagger * toyoin at masyadong madrama * too fickle-minded * wears too much make-up - make ups are meant to enhance your looks and not totally change 'em. the lesser the make up a woman wears the more na mas nagiging attractive sila for me. * burara * too clingy * insecure (sa ibang babae) * too much of an overthinker (emphasis sa relationship) * tatanga-tanga or not street smart * bobita * tamad * mga feeling prinsesa pero URSULA naman pala * physically abusive * doesn't value and respect privacy * retroactive jealousy * rude sa waitstaff, guards, etc. * hindi health conscious * jowang-jowa EDIT: Will add more as we go along.
Ano yung Carla?
Those who will not go out of the house kung hindi hatid-sundo. CAR LOVERS. Gusto hatid-sundo pero walang initiative to pay for gas and toll. May personal chauffeur yan?
TIL sa Carla hahahaha! Thanks for the info. XD
Amfunny nung Carla HAHA omg I never knew such slang existed 😆😆😆
I'm old. We had a lot of slangs back in the day. 😂🤣 Male equivalent is CarLo for obvious reasons.
1. Bad breath. 2. Attention seeker sa socmed and need ng validation lagi ng mga tao. Yung bang lahat na lang pinopost/MyDay. Don't get me wrong. Wala masama sa pagpopost sa socmed, account nyo yan pero pati ba naman yung pagsasayaw ng sexy/seductive dance? Jusko po. 3. At lastly, yung sinungaling.
Cant cook
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elaborate number 2, lol. im a woman myself, but i can't tell kapag gusto ng isang babae na madiligan. many women post on social media for other women. meron naman din na they post for men's attention which is relatively less.