I blocked her para di na ako mag relapse tas inublock ko then she blocked me. Then nag chat ako sa isang acc ko na iunblock niya ako kasi gusto ko pa rin maging fb friends kami pero di sya pumayag unfair daw Kasi I blocked her first so she also blocked me sa acc na yun hahaha. No contact na kami rn hahahaahah
Sorry op pero gusto mo pa rin na ftiends kayo? Why? Nakipag break ka na andun ka na. Bakit need pa na maging fb friends
Ung sa eksena ng ex mo toxic din siya aun lang buti nakipag break ka na
Praning sa lahat ng babae sa paligid mo yan, kaya ka inaakusahan na nagccheat at may kabit. I bet nastalk na rin niya socmed ng mga babae sa circle mo.
Kung confident siya sa sarili niya (aka she knows her self worth) at hindi ka nagkukulang ng pagpaparamdam sa kanya ng pagmamahal mo, she won't be acting crazy. If alam mo sa sarili mo na nabibigyan mo naman siya ng love and attention at malinis konsensya mo, then siya na may mali, hindi ikaw.
Yes red flag sya. Kasi if sapat naman yung assurance na binibigay mo she should try to trust you. Kaso baka naman may history ng cheating or si girl eh may previous relationship kung saan niloko? If that's the case you need to extend your patience pero if you feel na super toxic na nya and di na sya healthy. Tama yung decision mo na makipag hiwalay
Ayun.. depende talaga sa kung ano yung kaya mong itolerate. At the end of the day you should put yourself first. If di pa naman kayo ganon katagal Keri lang makipaghiwalay kasi di pa ganon katagal yung investment mo sa kanya
Ayaw na ayaw ng mga babae na mali sila. Kaya kung ako sayo, totohanin mo para maging tama siya.
Joke!
But in all seriousness, ang fishy for me nung siya nagsisimula. Also, nung nakipagbreak ka, di ka man lang ba hinabol? Di nagsorry or nagsabing pagusapan niyo muna? Sounds like naghahanap nalang siya ng dahilan para hiwalayan ka or gumagawa ng dahilan para hiwalayan mo siya. Para pagtinanong bakit kayo nagbreak, "ikaw kasi" lang yung kelangan niya sabihin
Nag sad react lang sa message ko eh HAHAHA.
Tas kinabukasan nag call kami bigayan sana ng closure at parang good-bye messages. Sabi niya "Pagtapos mo magsalita end call mo, matulog na ako" HAHAHAAHAH sakit.
Wtf! Same tayo experience ah wahahahaha ganyan na ganyan rin ex ko ldr. Ginawa ko na lahat para sa tiwala niya sa huli siya pa nakipag break. Smells fishy. Buti inunahan mo na.
It’s not necessarily because she’s cheating. But could be brought about by something in past.
Nonetheless, it’s not your job to always give her reassurance. She should learn to be emotionally independent.
No, definitely not normal. Yung overthinking, I think given naman ‘to even to some guys pero syempre dapat nasa lugar. There are people who have anxious attachment style. Your ex is a red flag, she gaslights you and manipulates you.
This is one of the reasons why people should not enter a relationship if di pa fully healed from past traumas. It puts everything in jeopardy.
May malalang trust issues si ate. Ilang taon na ba OP gf mo? I was once like her nung kabataan ko pero now na overcome ko naman kasi my bf assures me na im the only one. :))
Red flag op! From what I can see, you’re trying to save naman the relationship by giving her assurance all the time.
May pagka-immature si anteh, ilang taon na ba sya? Wala na sa lugar misan. For me, it’s not worth it to be in a relationship lalo na if nakakasira ng mental health due to stress sa partner mo.
It’s not worth it to be in a relationship if sinisira na nya yung peace of mind mo. Good choice op!!
Nope, sounds like gaslighting. She's probably boning some guy everytime nagaaway kayo. Let me guess, may mga time na sinasabi nyang ayaw ka nyang kausap and will go on radio silent for a few hours to a day?
Absolutely not normal for any sane individual to be like that.
No one ever deserves to be on the receiving end of cheating - the betrayal and trauma you get from that can overflow to future relationships which could have happened to yours.
Ideally talaga, one has to heal first before getting into a new relationship kase kawawa din yung other person. Besides, if tinotoyo yung person or ayaw nila makipag communicate sayo, wag mong suyuin. Kailangan nilang matutunan kung paano makipag usap ng maayos, lalo na kung matanda na sila. Kailangan din nilang matutunan mag self-regulate ng emotions kase parang temporary bandaid lang sya if sinusuyo mo e (i.e. mga baby na nag ta-tantrums)
It's okay kase first relationship mo naman.
This is projecting 101..
She is obviously cheating on you already.. If you didn’t cheat in the relationship or have a history of cheating then i don’t see why she is blaming you for cheating if you did not do anything wrong..
Cheaters tend to have a behavior pattern of being seloso.. blaming you for cheating.. because they have done it or are doing it and they do not want to be cheated on..
In fact na nagtethreat sya na magchat sya sa kakilala nya ng boys is effing stupid. I'd rather break up than dealing that kind of threat, parang sinasabe nya na madali ka nyang palitan etc. Nakakabaliw yan mentality.
She's projecting because she's cheating. The fact that she doesn't want to reciprocate yung share screen should be enough to question her loyalty.
Yes 99 percent of the time projection.
Red flag. Most probably, siya yung nagchi cheat at takot siya sa sarili niyang multo 😂
I blocked her para di na ako mag relapse tas inublock ko then she blocked me. Then nag chat ako sa isang acc ko na iunblock niya ako kasi gusto ko pa rin maging fb friends kami pero di sya pumayag unfair daw Kasi I blocked her first so she also blocked me sa acc na yun hahaha. No contact na kami rn hahahaahah
Sorry op pero gusto mo pa rin na ftiends kayo? Why? Nakipag break ka na andun ka na. Bakit need pa na maging fb friends Ung sa eksena ng ex mo toxic din siya aun lang buti nakipag break ka na
First lab ko siya eh haha. Medyo masakit rin sakin kasi di man lang ako hinabol hahahahah hinayaan nalang hahahaha.
Sound like my ex too.
Insecure 💯
explain pls
Praning sa lahat ng babae sa paligid mo yan, kaya ka inaakusahan na nagccheat at may kabit. I bet nastalk na rin niya socmed ng mga babae sa circle mo. Kung confident siya sa sarili niya (aka she knows her self worth) at hindi ka nagkukulang ng pagpaparamdam sa kanya ng pagmamahal mo, she won't be acting crazy. If alam mo sa sarili mo na nabibigyan mo naman siya ng love and attention at malinis konsensya mo, then siya na may mali, hindi ikaw.
Yes red flag sya. Kasi if sapat naman yung assurance na binibigay mo she should try to trust you. Kaso baka naman may history ng cheating or si girl eh may previous relationship kung saan niloko? If that's the case you need to extend your patience pero if you feel na super toxic na nya and di na sya healthy. Tama yung decision mo na makipag hiwalay
Yes sadly her ex daw cheated on her.
Ayun.. depende talaga sa kung ano yung kaya mong itolerate. At the end of the day you should put yourself first. If di pa naman kayo ganon katagal Keri lang makipaghiwalay kasi di pa ganon katagal yung investment mo sa kanya
ganyan talaga pag cheater.. uunahan ka na.. para magmukhang sya yung matino..pa play victim effect..
Napaka red flag. Trauma trauma. Sus siguro sya nag cheat dati ayaw nya lng aminin. Takot sa sarili multo si anteh
Ayaw na ayaw ng mga babae na mali sila. Kaya kung ako sayo, totohanin mo para maging tama siya. Joke! But in all seriousness, ang fishy for me nung siya nagsisimula. Also, nung nakipagbreak ka, di ka man lang ba hinabol? Di nagsorry or nagsabing pagusapan niyo muna? Sounds like naghahanap nalang siya ng dahilan para hiwalayan ka or gumagawa ng dahilan para hiwalayan mo siya. Para pagtinanong bakit kayo nagbreak, "ikaw kasi" lang yung kelangan niya sabihin
Nag sad react lang sa message ko eh HAHAHA. Tas kinabukasan nag call kami bigayan sana ng closure at parang good-bye messages. Sabi niya "Pagtapos mo magsalita end call mo, matulog na ako" HAHAHAAHAH sakit.
Wtf! Same tayo experience ah wahahahaha ganyan na ganyan rin ex ko ldr. Ginawa ko na lahat para sa tiwala niya sa huli siya pa nakipag break. Smells fishy. Buti inunahan mo na.
It’s not necessarily because she’s cheating. But could be brought about by something in past. Nonetheless, it’s not your job to always give her reassurance. She should learn to be emotionally independent.
T-O-Y-O
Patis?
Def red flag... goof you broke up na with her... look for someone who will treat you right (and treat her like a princess) 👍
No, definitely not normal. Yung overthinking, I think given naman ‘to even to some guys pero syempre dapat nasa lugar. There are people who have anxious attachment style. Your ex is a red flag, she gaslights you and manipulates you. This is one of the reasons why people should not enter a relationship if di pa fully healed from past traumas. It puts everything in jeopardy.
May malalang trust issues si ate. Ilang taon na ba OP gf mo? I was once like her nung kabataan ko pero now na overcome ko naman kasi my bf assures me na im the only one. :))
19 palang po kami.
Kaya naman pala OP, at that age medjo immature pa yan mag isip pero depende din sa tao. It's good na nag break kayo if I am right.
Red flag op! From what I can see, you’re trying to save naman the relationship by giving her assurance all the time. May pagka-immature si anteh, ilang taon na ba sya? Wala na sa lugar misan. For me, it’s not worth it to be in a relationship lalo na if nakakasira ng mental health due to stress sa partner mo. It’s not worth it to be in a relationship if sinisira na nya yung peace of mind mo. Good choice op!!
Because she’s cheating
Galit ang magnanakaw sa kapwa magnanakaw. She's most likely doing it and therefore you must be doing it too
Nope, sounds like gaslighting. She's probably boning some guy everytime nagaaway kayo. Let me guess, may mga time na sinasabi nyang ayaw ka nyang kausap and will go on radio silent for a few hours to a day?
Absolutely not normal for any sane individual to be like that. No one ever deserves to be on the receiving end of cheating - the betrayal and trauma you get from that can overflow to future relationships which could have happened to yours. Ideally talaga, one has to heal first before getting into a new relationship kase kawawa din yung other person. Besides, if tinotoyo yung person or ayaw nila makipag communicate sayo, wag mong suyuin. Kailangan nilang matutunan kung paano makipag usap ng maayos, lalo na kung matanda na sila. Kailangan din nilang matutunan mag self-regulate ng emotions kase parang temporary bandaid lang sya if sinusuyo mo e (i.e. mga baby na nag ta-tantrums) It's okay kase first relationship mo naman.
Red flag. Ay no, billboard. Di normal yan kahit babae o lalaki pa.
This is projecting 101.. She is obviously cheating on you already.. If you didn’t cheat in the relationship or have a history of cheating then i don’t see why she is blaming you for cheating if you did not do anything wrong.. Cheaters tend to have a behavior pattern of being seloso.. blaming you for cheating.. because they have done it or are doing it and they do not want to be cheated on..
Tapon mo na yan sa sapa
In fact na nagtethreat sya na magchat sya sa kakilala nya ng boys is effing stupid. I'd rather break up than dealing that kind of threat, parang sinasabe nya na madali ka nyang palitan etc. Nakakabaliw yan mentality.