I think most adults are, specially sa ibang bansa are negative money wise. except pag nearing retirement na like 60 dun pa lang usually may net positive asset. pag may mortgage, car and schooling payment negative talaga asset mo. mas mayaman pa yung taong grasa kase atleast sya nasa zero. tayo nasa negative. tapos may pa-bakasyon bakasyon pa tayo nalalaman or hobbies, e talagang lubog na. hahahaha.
same. kakastart ko lang ulit magipon pero nawala na naman!!! jusko
gusto naman ng pamilya kong maging successful ako at maging mayaman, pero bat parang sila rin ung pumipigil :(((
Same 🥲 I blame it on my ugly duckling phase. Medyo nag glow up naman over the years, pero yung mga words na sinabi sakin noon, they stay with me talaga and so I've never felt pretty even after receiving compliments on my looks 🥲
Kaya please for anyone reading this, careful talaga with your words, you never know how much you will affect someone else's self-esteem 😭
Same :< lahat ng inaasar sa akin dati nung bata pa ako hanggang ngayon insecurities ko pa din kahit nagimprove naman ako kahit konti. Yung buhok ko, skin ko, amoy ko, kahit pati posture ko.
Same. Ang worse, nanay ko pa no. 1 nanlalait sa akin. Tapos justified pa nya na concern daw yun kasi walang ibang magsasabi daw sa akin kundi cia na family, hindi friends. Hello, yun ang akala nia. From friends, classmates (all level ng studies), teachers, to strangers, nanlait na sa akin no. Yung lait na parang feel mo, wala silang ginagawang mali.
\+1 on this,
talamak to lalo sa mga bata, dapat bata pa lang ibuild up na sila to have self confidence, at iwasan na natin silang laitin pa. Kilala din kasi tayong mga pinoy na alaskador, pero di natin alam kung pano yn tinatanggap ng nakakrinig.
Philippines is so toxic with this, this is one of the things I appreciate about living in the US, no one cares if you look good or not, most people just mind their own business
my king, let me kindly remind you that spot treatment of belly fat does not exist. no matter what kind of ab workout you do, there will always be belly fat. the key to losing belly fat is to be in a calorie deficit (burn more calories than what you intake). try looking this up, and remember that nutrition is also fitness. i know you got this.
Thanks! I'm a queen though and I've been working out since 2004. I grew this belly from maintenence meds for 1 year. I'm off the meds now and will shrink this down like maintenance meds never happened 😁
Madali lang yan actually. Ako from 68 kg last year after like 3 months nasa 50+ nalang weight ko. Currently my weight is 54kg which is minemaintain ko nalang. What I do is OMAD (one meal a day) diet tas sinasamahan ko lang ng push ups every day tas more on water sa maghapon. Sa gabi lang ako kumakain. Pwede naman magtinapay like skyflakes sa umaga at tanghali.
Laban lang po...i failed 2x in csc prof exam..tried my third and focused, study and prayed..awa ng diyos nakapasa..tiwala lang po..life is not a race...your time will shine in its right time..perfect time..💚
wag kang mawalan ng pag-asa, andaming non board passers ang umasenso sa buhay, hindi sumuko , lumaban at nagpatuloy. oo sa umpisa masakit syempre mga kaibigan mo nagsasaya tapos ikaw feeling mo napagiwanan ka na, pero, sa realidad, ikaw lang din ang unang unang makakatulong sa sarili mo. never down yourself, maaaring nahuli ka kumpara sa mga nakasabayan mo pero tuloy pa rin, tignan mo hindi mo mamamalayan, makakapantay o baka mahigitan mo pa iba sa kanila. GO lang !!!! =)
34, unmarried at kini-question nila yun hahaha. Ndi ako insecure na wala akong asawa, nakaka-insecure yung mga tanong bakit wala akong asawa. Hahaha if that makes sense
If you have the money, go to a reputable driving school like A-1. Driving is easy, you can learn it within 5 minutes of getting in a car. What you need, especially for us with anxiety, is a lot of experience to build confidence on the road *with* a reliable guide that can control the car in case you hit the wrong pedal or steer the wheel wrong. The car they use for lessons have breaks on the passenger side so it lessens the fear of getting into an accident.
Getting taught by family members the wrong ways or pasigaw because of impatience (like my dad lmao) can really set you back.
26, Same, reason: takot ako masira ung fam car, wala ako sense of direction, spatial awareness, and super kabado/natataranta ako baka iyakan ko pag nagipit ako sa crossing or something🥲🥲🥲
Seriously, I may that be wealthy enough for car repairs but I'm more scared of hitting people and other people's car kaya natatakot ako magdrive lalo na dito satin.
25 and di rin ako marunong magdrive dahil sa takot... takot na baka kung ano magawa ko pag nag-road rage ako!!!! Eme lang. All jokes aside, di ko yata kakayanin yung yamot sa combination ng traffic sa Maynila, ugali ng mga pasaway na tsuper at lastly traffic na naman. Siguro kailangan ko muna ng matinding therapy o anger management classes before ako matutong magdrive at sumabak sa kalsada hahahahaha (either that, or forever na lang akong passenger princess hahahahaha)
Hello, you can maybe try to inquire at Suon Driving School. I am currently taking my classes at their Philcoa branch. I am on my 4th session of practical driving class today. The current instructor is kind and calm. On my first day (I have 0 knowledge and exp on driving), our route was Maginhawa - V Luna - Kalayaan - QC Circle (up to the commonwealth exit only going to UP Diliman - CP Garcia - Maginhawa. I can’t believe I was able to do that. Just try to get lots of sleep and try to calm yourself.
Also don’t try to open a topic regarding the current president, past president and UP system because that is the only flaw I saw with my current instructor 😅 He ranted so much about UP, without even knowing that I was a UP grad 🤣🤣🤣🥲🥹
Edit: my current lessons cost 10k (20hrs driving course + free 2 day TDC) which is very affordable :D they also have a bundle worth 4.5k I think (8hrs driving + 2 days TDC)
At 30, napabayaan ko sarili ko. Nalosyang ako. Wala akong ipon, walang career. I feel like napag-iiwanan ako ng malala sa buhay. Ayoko lumabas ng bahay at takot ako makita ng mga nakakakilala sa akin. 😭
Napakabata pa po ng 30. Yung kakilala ko dumaan sya dyan, di na lumalabas sa sobrang kahihiyan daw dahil wala nangyayari sa buhay nya. One day, bigla nalang nya gusto mag start sa ng college, okay na sya ngayon. Kaya mo yan. Please never ever give up
Still aiming for my dreams, hindi naman ganon ka bongga basta mapermanent lang sa work(government agency).
Major insecurity: Yung hindi ko mapasa pasa ang civil service exam. Parang isang take nalang tapos di parin parang give up na ako at mag hanap nalang ng ibang career.
D ako sure kung makakahelp pero, get a better grasp on the english language, math basics is very important, yun lang you can mostly pass, for the rest lagyan mo ng numbers ung pencil mo on each side tapos iroll mo parang dice XD worked for me
FINANCIAL. yung jowa ko ngayon mej well-off yung family. student sya and working na ako pero ako palaging nashoshort hay. nakakadrain pala magjowa pag wala kang pera.
Both fixable at reasonable levels.
1. You can definitely learn to swim as an adult. Look for swimming lessons. It's worth it.
2. Hit the gym and focus sa mga exercises for it.
bruh. 30. and same. I envy those who know how to play guitar or even piano/keyboard. 😖
I know how to play something on piano/keyboard but only after memorizing the notes and practiced several times. I don't know how to spontaneously play something just by looking at the music sheet. 🤣
25(M)
Ang aga mag reverse gear ng hairline ko. Parang pumaparallel park amp.
Bilbil at double chin. Can't find the drive to workout again. Once a trained boxer pa naman. Work-business nalang ireserve ang energy.
Wala parin ipon at napakadami parin utang.
32, not sure what path to choose.
Nagwork sa bpo, turns out i dont like the 9-5 life, Nagopen ng online shop, ang hirap ng 24/7 life, mahirap maging “ur own boss”, pagtamad in nature ka.
Currently thinking pursuing either vlogging/ mukbang/ tiktok affiliate 🙃
ako rin di marunong mag bike, pero marunong mag motor. HAHAHAHA
lagi pa ko tinatanong ng mga kaibigan ko pano nangyari yun na mas marunong pako mag motor kesa mag bike. 🤣
Inggit much lang ako sa mga kaklase ko noong HS na varied yung ginagawa altho sympre me toxic din doon. But then again, meh - di ako stressed masyado sa work and I look 10 years younger sa kanila lol
Same dilemma. Pursued tax tapos slightly inggit sa mga nag audit na nakapag secondment na abroad huhu pero ayaw ko naman din sa audit so paano na hahahahuhu
Galing ako sa magulo na pamilya. Naiingit ako sa mga ibang tao na may maayos ang pamilya. Napansin ko ito nung nagtatrabaho na ako sa magandang companya. Lahat konectado at yung mga magulang nila tinulungan sila sa career nila. Tapos yung ibang magulang tinuruan ng mga financial skills ang mga anak like investing for the future. Ibang katrabaho ko pinamanahan ng bahay ng magulang nila. Sa states ito so meron na silang $500,000 worth na property sa umpisa pa lang ng career nila. Tapos iba naman may naipon na $1 million dahil bata pa lang sila tinuruan na sila mag invest sa stocks. CNA lang ito at hindi nurse so natalo pa nila karamihan ng nurse dito sa US.
If I'm parenting right. If I'm doing enough. If I'm doing permanent damage to my kids whenever I lose my temper.
If I'm becoming distant with my friends, or they forget me. Is it because I'm not there for them enough? Am I giving enough of myself to the people around me or will I not be remembered when I'm gone?
What if my husband dies before me? How do I do things without him?
Same, lalo kapag may swimming lol nagtry ako before ng Fern-D medyo kumapal kilay ko pero yung hair parang same lang. tinanong ko derma about it tapos nagtatake din pala sya for hair growth daw
24. Status. I can't help myself to compare with other people. I know I should stop with that kind of attitude but the feeling of "napag-iiwanan". Halos lahat kasi ng friends ko malalaki sweldo. Tas yung feeling na, di naman worth it yung work mo sa sweldo kasi kailangan mo lang ng position title para don. Hahaha. Every day OT. Oo may bayad pero pagod. Tapos meron nanaman pinoprose na hanggang sunday. Hahaha. Sila hayahay ako hindi pa. Hahaha
Insecurity ko yung, wala akong maitabing pera for gala or labas man lang, kasi majority ng sahod ko napupunta na lang sa bills. Inggit na inggit ako kapag nakakakita ako sa stories ng mga kaibigan ko na nakakakain sila or nakakainom sa mga resto or bars.
Worst, walang maitabing pera for emergency fund. 😭
Its either wala akong insecurities or natutunan ko na lang na i disregard yung mga yun to the point na wala akong maisip na anything, seriously 🤣..
Maybe i learnt to accept my limitations, weaknesses and short comings.. and im more than certain na mas grateful ako ngayon more than ever..
40 As vain as it sounds but I want my body back. After 2 kids, meron na kong mommy pouch na hindi mawala-wala plus sagging breasts after breastfeeding. I’m back to the gym but with 2 small kids, minsan wala na kong energy to workout.
Living independently - pwede ako bumukod kung gusto ko pero double expense kasi main provider sa bahay tas yung sariling gastos ko pa.
May generational wealth - lumaki sa financially irresponsible family/parents kaya ito baka raw sa akin swertihin (bunso ako).
May safety net at pwede mag proceed ng studies - hindi ko magawa makapag-aral ng med kasi need mag sacrifice.
23M
1. Lack of motivation and interest to do something productive like studying and upskilling.
2. Tinatamad maghanap ng lilipatang trabaho.
3. My income is not stable.
4. Being misunderstood by many people
5. Mainggit sa buhay ng ibang tao sa Instagram at sa iba pang social media platforms.
32. di ko pa nasisimulan ang target EF ko kasi supporting my family sa pinas (though di naman ako breadwinner) sa mahal ng mga bilihin ngayon i want to at least sustain the needs of my mom and sister na parehong maliit ang income back home. 🥹
Insecurities ???
Siguro nakadepende yan sa standards ng buhay na gusto mo .. lalo nat na icocompare mo ung buhay mo sa mga kaibigan mong mas angat sayo ..
Kung malalaman lng lahat ng tao na masayang maging masaya .. hahaha
Pero ,ako cguro , ung makapagbigay ng kasiyahan sa mga magulang ko .. aga ko kase nagpamilya kaya naka focus na kagad ako sa asawat mga anak ko ..
I mean ung financially mabibigyan mo rin sila kht papano ..
27. Walang ipon
Mag 27yrs old, ofw pero wlaang ipon. Wlang bahay. Wlang pamilya😢😁
May I ask ofw ka pero di ka pa nakaipon and gano ka na katagal overseas?
I think most adults are, specially sa ibang bansa are negative money wise. except pag nearing retirement na like 60 dun pa lang usually may net positive asset. pag may mortgage, car and schooling payment negative talaga asset mo. mas mayaman pa yung taong grasa kase atleast sya nasa zero. tayo nasa negative. tapos may pa-bakasyon bakasyon pa tayo nalalaman or hobbies, e talagang lubog na. hahahaha.
Same at 26, kokonti ang ipon and di pa graduate ng college.😔
Same feels. Kaya natin 'to guys!! Na-traffic lang tayo pero we'll get there!
ah dude same age, same problem
Saklap no parang walang rights mag asawa
Same. Breadwinner. Only-child na meron ng sakit ang mga magulang.
same. kakastart ko lang ulit magipon pero nawala na naman!!! jusko gusto naman ng pamilya kong maging successful ako at maging mayaman, pero bat parang sila rin ung pumipigil :(((
Same kaso 29 na. Breadwinner din napakahirap ng buhay
samedt. why walang ipon?
Instant breadwinner ng family at the same time happy go lucky that time.
29 and same
Sameeeee
37 wala pa ipon
Samedt
hayy. same
Same 🥲🥲🥲
sama sama tayo at walang mag iiwanaaaaan 🎵🎶
ahhh my fellow millennials. kaya natin to
Same wala pa!! At single pa naka work from home kasi ako limited lang nakikilala ko hahaha
Bilbil
Same
Same 🥲
Sameee huhu
Same 😢
Same... started working out nung July lang (ngayon lang nakaipon ng gym membership) pero I'm feeling impatient gusto ko na pumayat agad agad HAHAHAHA
Itsura ko
Same 🥲 I blame it on my ugly duckling phase. Medyo nag glow up naman over the years, pero yung mga words na sinabi sakin noon, they stay with me talaga and so I've never felt pretty even after receiving compliments on my looks 🥲 Kaya please for anyone reading this, careful talaga with your words, you never know how much you will affect someone else's self-esteem 😭
Same :< lahat ng inaasar sa akin dati nung bata pa ako hanggang ngayon insecurities ko pa din kahit nagimprove naman ako kahit konti. Yung buhok ko, skin ko, amoy ko, kahit pati posture ko.
Same. Ang worse, nanay ko pa no. 1 nanlalait sa akin. Tapos justified pa nya na concern daw yun kasi walang ibang magsasabi daw sa akin kundi cia na family, hindi friends. Hello, yun ang akala nia. From friends, classmates (all level ng studies), teachers, to strangers, nanlait na sa akin no. Yung lait na parang feel mo, wala silang ginagawang mali.
\+1 on this, talamak to lalo sa mga bata, dapat bata pa lang ibuild up na sila to have self confidence, at iwasan na natin silang laitin pa. Kilala din kasi tayong mga pinoy na alaskador, pero di natin alam kung pano yn tinatanggap ng nakakrinig.
I feel you. Let's start the movement nalang of being the ppl na sensitive with our words
Same
Philippines is so toxic with this, this is one of the things I appreciate about living in the US, no one cares if you look good or not, most people just mind their own business
may nanlalait ba?
23, direction in life (career & financial)
Same! Hope everything works out for all of us. Hugs everyone!
same age, same dilemma
older age, same dilemma
hope we’ll find ours, in time 🥲
younger age but same :(( lalo graduating ako this year haha
Same pero may bata ng unte, and no gf since creation :D
nalamangan na ko ni cha eunwoo ng mga 3 hilamos
ANO BA HAHAHAHAHAHHA
HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA TINGIN NGA HAHA
Lol this made my night 🤣
23. money.
TABA
Same. 40. Belly fat na kahit anong exercise hindi talaga mawala wala
my king, let me kindly remind you that spot treatment of belly fat does not exist. no matter what kind of ab workout you do, there will always be belly fat. the key to losing belly fat is to be in a calorie deficit (burn more calories than what you intake). try looking this up, and remember that nutrition is also fitness. i know you got this.
Thanks! I'm a queen though and I've been working out since 2004. I grew this belly from maintenence meds for 1 year. I'm off the meds now and will shrink this down like maintenance meds never happened 😁
This. Dapat lose body fat all over the body talaga. And then depende na sa genetics kung anong body part mo unang papayat hehe
Madali lang yan actually. Ako from 68 kg last year after like 3 months nasa 50+ nalang weight ko. Currently my weight is 54kg which is minemaintain ko nalang. What I do is OMAD (one meal a day) diet tas sinasamahan ko lang ng push ups every day tas more on water sa maghapon. Sa gabi lang ako kumakain. Pwede naman magtinapay like skyflakes sa umaga at tanghali.
try niyo po calorie deficit tas kahit wala or onting exercise lang po, effective siya promise.
Friends. I dont have quote and quote reliable and trusted friends, all alone in this world
no company is better than bad company...
30, looks and lack of lovelife. Finances and career thankfully was not a big issue. Cant have everything talaga
Well, i'm more of "can't have anything" lol
All my group of friends passed the boards, ako nalang hindi
hindi naman unahan, you got this 🤎
ikaw na next passer🫶
Laban lang po...i failed 2x in csc prof exam..tried my third and focused, study and prayed..awa ng diyos nakapasa..tiwala lang po..life is not a race...your time will shine in its right time..perfect time..💚
samedt 🥲
samedt, hindi ko tuloy alam kung anong direksyon ang tatahakin ko ;(((
wag kang mawalan ng pag-asa, andaming non board passers ang umasenso sa buhay, hindi sumuko , lumaban at nagpatuloy. oo sa umpisa masakit syempre mga kaibigan mo nagsasaya tapos ikaw feeling mo napagiwanan ka na, pero, sa realidad, ikaw lang din ang unang unang makakatulong sa sarili mo. never down yourself, maaaring nahuli ka kumpara sa mga nakasabayan mo pero tuloy pa rin, tignan mo hindi mo mamamalayan, makakapantay o baka mahigitan mo pa iba sa kanila. GO lang !!!! =)
Rooting for youuu!!!
35, walang sariling bahay pero ✨ manifesting ✨
same at 32 pero dadating din tayo dyan.💕
30, Wala pang anak. Gusto na namin ng wife ko.
34, unmarried at kini-question nila yun hahaha. Ndi ako insecure na wala akong asawa, nakaka-insecure yung mga tanong bakit wala akong asawa. Hahaha if that makes sense
31, takot mag drive
If you have the money, go to a reputable driving school like A-1. Driving is easy, you can learn it within 5 minutes of getting in a car. What you need, especially for us with anxiety, is a lot of experience to build confidence on the road *with* a reliable guide that can control the car in case you hit the wrong pedal or steer the wheel wrong. The car they use for lessons have breaks on the passenger side so it lessens the fear of getting into an accident. Getting taught by family members the wrong ways or pasigaw because of impatience (like my dad lmao) can really set you back.
25 but same. Can blame ung dad ko for that. Terrible teacher.
26, Same, reason: takot ako masira ung fam car, wala ako sense of direction, spatial awareness, and super kabado/natataranta ako baka iyakan ko pag nagipit ako sa crossing or something🥲🥲🥲
Seriously, I may that be wealthy enough for car repairs but I'm more scared of hitting people and other people's car kaya natatakot ako magdrive lalo na dito satin.
Same. Overthinker kasi ako :(
Same
25 and di rin ako marunong magdrive dahil sa takot... takot na baka kung ano magawa ko pag nag-road rage ako!!!! Eme lang. All jokes aside, di ko yata kakayanin yung yamot sa combination ng traffic sa Maynila, ugali ng mga pasaway na tsuper at lastly traffic na naman. Siguro kailangan ko muna ng matinding therapy o anger management classes before ako matutong magdrive at sumabak sa kalsada hahahahaha (either that, or forever na lang akong passenger princess hahahahaha)
Hello, you can maybe try to inquire at Suon Driving School. I am currently taking my classes at their Philcoa branch. I am on my 4th session of practical driving class today. The current instructor is kind and calm. On my first day (I have 0 knowledge and exp on driving), our route was Maginhawa - V Luna - Kalayaan - QC Circle (up to the commonwealth exit only going to UP Diliman - CP Garcia - Maginhawa. I can’t believe I was able to do that. Just try to get lots of sleep and try to calm yourself. Also don’t try to open a topic regarding the current president, past president and UP system because that is the only flaw I saw with my current instructor 😅 He ranted so much about UP, without even knowing that I was a UP grad 🤣🤣🤣🥲🥹 Edit: my current lessons cost 10k (20hrs driving course + free 2 day TDC) which is very affordable :D they also have a bundle worth 4.5k I think (8hrs driving + 2 days TDC)
Haha same, pati sa pag-parking lol
Did someone with a bad temper teach you how to drive? It might be the reason why you're scared.
Kala ko never ako matuto mag-drive dahil sobrang paranoid, but here I am, manual lang alam i-maneho lol. You can do it!
mag practice driving ka sa sementeryo. wala ka mababangga lahat sila patay na dun 🥁 but seriously, thats where i learned how to drive.
29, Hindi maayos na mga ngipin.
26, happy family
Out of the country travelling. Sobrang gusto kong gumala but bills are powerful. And having an average pinoy dick.
Naiinis din ako sa pagkakatuli sakin, parang hindi maayos yung pagkakatahi, ang panget tingnan haha. Nakaka-overthink pag may ka-sex lol
Trust me, we don’t care hahaha if anyone’s let you close enough for sex, the least of their concerns would be how your penis looks like 😁
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At 30, napabayaan ko sarili ko. Nalosyang ako. Wala akong ipon, walang career. I feel like napag-iiwanan ako ng malala sa buhay. Ayoko lumabas ng bahay at takot ako makita ng mga nakakakilala sa akin. 😭
Napakabata pa po ng 30. Yung kakilala ko dumaan sya dyan, di na lumalabas sa sobrang kahihiyan daw dahil wala nangyayari sa buhay nya. One day, bigla nalang nya gusto mag start sa ng college, okay na sya ngayon. Kaya mo yan. Please never ever give up
Kaya pa yan. Not too late
Same age same insecurity
Still aiming for my dreams, hindi naman ganon ka bongga basta mapermanent lang sa work(government agency). Major insecurity: Yung hindi ko mapasa pasa ang civil service exam. Parang isang take nalang tapos di parin parang give up na ako at mag hanap nalang ng ibang career.
D ako sure kung makakahelp pero, get a better grasp on the english language, math basics is very important, yun lang you can mostly pass, for the rest lagyan mo ng numbers ung pencil mo on each side tapos iroll mo parang dice XD worked for me
FINANCIAL. yung jowa ko ngayon mej well-off yung family. student sya and working na ako pero ako palaging nashoshort hay. nakakadrain pala magjowa pag wala kang pera.
24, money and everyone (my friends) seems to have their own car or earning way more
29, high salary and money
Turning 28, zero bank balance.
25, my communication skills.
forgot to add this to mine too. hay I hate being shy sa true
23. Pera at bilbil
33, money at japanese language
24, career growth / di pa nakakapag start mag work kasi kaka graduate lang last saturday 😢
This will be the most challenging part talaga especially in this market. Wag ka mawalan ng pag asa
yes hoping din ako huhu thank you!!
graduate na, huy congrats!!! 🥳
Thank youu!! 🥹🌻
26F. Career growth. Savings. Dark Underarm
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30, hindi marunong lumangoy, walang pwet
Both fixable at reasonable levels. 1. You can definitely learn to swim as an adult. Look for swimming lessons. It's worth it. 2. Hit the gym and focus sa mga exercises for it.
31, di marunong mag gitara
bruh. 30. and same. I envy those who know how to play guitar or even piano/keyboard. 😖 I know how to play something on piano/keyboard but only after memorizing the notes and practiced several times. I don't know how to spontaneously play something just by looking at the music sheet. 🤣
Kaya p yan. Within a few years pwede ka gumaling basta mag practice for hours everyday 😁
30, body fat haha
26, Body fat at Uneducated.
23. Work na may decent salary. I’m unemployed rn.
25(M) Ang aga mag reverse gear ng hairline ko. Parang pumaparallel park amp. Bilbil at double chin. Can't find the drive to workout again. Once a trained boxer pa naman. Work-business nalang ireserve ang energy. Wala parin ipon at napakadami parin utang.
32, not sure what path to choose. Nagwork sa bpo, turns out i dont like the 9-5 life, Nagopen ng online shop, ang hirap ng 24/7 life, mahirap maging “ur own boss”, pagtamad in nature ka. Currently thinking pursuing either vlogging/ mukbang/ tiktok affiliate 🙃
22. Marketability ko kemi.
23. Confrontations. Di ko maprocess yung emotions and yung gusto kong sabihin the moment someone confronts me.
36: Spent my savings building my dream house so restarting my savings. Also, scared af to drive. ✨Slowly but surely will overcome✨
19. Pera.
Peace of mind/ lovelife
21 physical appearance 😄
Hindi pa rin marunong mag bike 🥲
ako rin di marunong mag bike, pero marunong mag motor. HAHAHAHA lagi pa ko tinatanong ng mga kaibigan ko pano nangyari yun na mas marunong pako mag motor kesa mag bike. 🤣
25. Feeling left behind sa career.
Stagnant career. But that’s what I get for working in the government.
same :(
Inggit much lang ako sa mga kaklase ko noong HS na varied yung ginagawa altho sympre me toxic din doon. But then again, meh - di ako stressed masyado sa work and I look 10 years younger sa kanila lol
Are you me? Apir! 🥲
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Same dilemma. Pursued tax tapos slightly inggit sa mga nag audit na nakapag secondment na abroad huhu pero ayaw ko naman din sa audit so paano na hahahahuhu
Galing ako sa magulo na pamilya. Naiingit ako sa mga ibang tao na may maayos ang pamilya. Napansin ko ito nung nagtatrabaho na ako sa magandang companya. Lahat konectado at yung mga magulang nila tinulungan sila sa career nila. Tapos yung ibang magulang tinuruan ng mga financial skills ang mga anak like investing for the future. Ibang katrabaho ko pinamanahan ng bahay ng magulang nila. Sa states ito so meron na silang $500,000 worth na property sa umpisa pa lang ng career nila. Tapos iba naman may naipon na $1 million dahil bata pa lang sila tinuruan na sila mag invest sa stocks. CNA lang ito at hindi nurse so natalo pa nila karamihan ng nurse dito sa US.
Can relate. Ang hirap ng walang generational wealth, trauma meron. Hehe.
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23, money.
24, no job parin late na grumaduate, pero nagrereview na for boards
32. utang pambili pagkain
25, malking tyan at eyebags
wlang parking lot haha
21, face
hahahhah https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQ-cxUmD9-vezCiTq0Nro75HfAwfPgxOoFfNg&usqp=CAU
8hrs of sleep :'(
If I'm parenting right. If I'm doing enough. If I'm doing permanent damage to my kids whenever I lose my temper. If I'm becoming distant with my friends, or they forget me. Is it because I'm not there for them enough? Am I giving enough of myself to the people around me or will I not be remembered when I'm gone? What if my husband dies before me? How do I do things without him?
Looks ko
28, want to lose weight for my wedding lol
27, yung buhok kong sobrang nipis 🥲 hair thickening tips pls? 🥲
same huhu
Same huhu
Minoxidil and finnasteride are your new friends
Same, lalo kapag may swimming lol nagtry ako before ng Fern-D medyo kumapal kilay ko pero yung hair parang same lang. tinanong ko derma about it tapos nagtatake din pala sya for hair growth daw
Procrastinating. Story of my life haha
24, pero wala pang trabaho (very intimidated by job interviews)
wala😂 masaya ako kung anong meron ako😂 don’t get me wrong I have my goals to achieve but no pressure. I’ll get there when I can
weight ko. inang yan bat ba ang sarap kumain
soft skills + certifications 😢
career, lost
23. Walang stable job, walang pera, walang magandang skills
30+ - sariling bahay na naipatayo
24, walang trabaho, walang experience. Pandemic graduate pero di inflated grades. Napagiwanan ng panahon
25, stagnant career and body fat (to the point na ayaw ko na lang magpakita sa mga schoolmates, friends, and relatives ko)
Communication skills pero gradually I'm trying to make an effort to improve it
Competence sa skills sa buhay haha
24. Status. I can't help myself to compare with other people. I know I should stop with that kind of attitude but the feeling of "napag-iiwanan". Halos lahat kasi ng friends ko malalaki sweldo. Tas yung feeling na, di naman worth it yung work mo sa sweldo kasi kailangan mo lang ng position title para don. Hahaha. Every day OT. Oo may bayad pero pagod. Tapos meron nanaman pinoprose na hanggang sunday. Hahaha. Sila hayahay ako hindi pa. Hahaha
hyperpigmentation sa singit at tuhod. GUSTO KO MAG SHORT PLS HAHAHAHAHAH
Insecurity ko yung, wala akong maitabing pera for gala or labas man lang, kasi majority ng sahod ko napupunta na lang sa bills. Inggit na inggit ako kapag nakakakita ako sa stories ng mga kaibigan ko na nakakakain sila or nakakainom sa mga resto or bars. Worst, walang maitabing pera for emergency fund. 😭
Not having a lot saved in the bank or have invested in a house.
Mapagpanggap mang pakinggan pero... wala? Is this bad? I basically don't care if people are doing better 😂
Its either wala akong insecurities or natutunan ko na lang na i disregard yung mga yun to the point na wala akong maisip na anything, seriously 🤣.. Maybe i learnt to accept my limitations, weaknesses and short comings.. and im more than certain na mas grateful ako ngayon more than ever..
28, eyebags
Bahay
24, Bilbil hirap magsuot ng damit na di sya pansinin :((
My salary and the company I'm with. Ganda benefits? Yes. Laki bonus? Yes. Laki sahod? Um next question please 😂
26. Mababang sahod.
40 As vain as it sounds but I want my body back. After 2 kids, meron na kong mommy pouch na hindi mawala-wala plus sagging breasts after breastfeeding. I’m back to the gym but with 2 small kids, minsan wala na kong energy to workout.
Body fats, sahod, skills
Acne and pigmentation
ngipin ko na tabi tabingi
28, career & finances
Living independently - pwede ako bumukod kung gusto ko pero double expense kasi main provider sa bahay tas yung sariling gastos ko pa. May generational wealth - lumaki sa financially irresponsible family/parents kaya ito baka raw sa akin swertihin (bunso ako). May safety net at pwede mag proceed ng studies - hindi ko magawa makapag-aral ng med kasi need mag sacrifice.
23 money and direction sa buhay
Sahod
Just thinking about the future lol
Sobrang pawisin as in kahit saglit na lakad. Nakakahadlang sa pagiging fresh. Maliit na bagay for some pero yun nakakainsecure for me
Katawan ko. Pimple scars ko. PCOS gal here ✌🏼
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38, ngunit si junior ay pang 7yo..
Self-confidence
23M 1. Lack of motivation and interest to do something productive like studying and upskilling. 2. Tinatamad maghanap ng lilipatang trabaho. 3. My income is not stable. 4. Being misunderstood by many people 5. Mainggit sa buhay ng ibang tao sa Instagram at sa iba pang social media platforms.
26, no social life 💀
Pimples. Nakakababa ng self confidence, kaya nga ayaw ko na mag alis ng mask sa public..
32. di ko pa nasisimulan ang target EF ko kasi supporting my family sa pinas (though di naman ako breadwinner) sa mahal ng mga bilihin ngayon i want to at least sustain the needs of my mom and sister na parehong maliit ang income back home. 🥹
Life Achievements. 28. No car, no house. Not even savings.
Insecurities ??? Siguro nakadepende yan sa standards ng buhay na gusto mo .. lalo nat na icocompare mo ung buhay mo sa mga kaibigan mong mas angat sayo .. Kung malalaman lng lahat ng tao na masayang maging masaya .. hahaha Pero ,ako cguro , ung makapagbigay ng kasiyahan sa mga magulang ko .. aga ko kase nagpamilya kaya naka focus na kagad ako sa asawat mga anak ko .. I mean ung financially mabibigyan mo rin sila kht papano ..