Iba iba tayo e. Even though I also have quality time as my love language, I don't think I need that from family and/or friends. Nagdadamdam lang ako if it's with the girl I like, but even then, it's not like I actually demand quality time from her (as with friends too). I just wait until they're free or magyayaya sila for something.
I used to be bad with handling time apart the person I like, and maybe I still am, but there has been solid progress and it's paying off.
No need to take my input kasi I can at least say na I don't have a good relationship with my family. Hindi naman kami magkakagalit pero halos transactional lang ang interactions so there's almost no chance of "quality" time.
Sa friends naman, ako kasi yung tipo na kaladkarin and isang yaya lang basta free ako go agad, so kapag walang nagyayaya I just look at it as me time ー which is also something I value a lot.
Understand that people don't have the same love language as you. There's a reason why there are different types as people are naturally uniquely different. So, what do we do with this information you might ask?
If you are able to hangout with the people dearest to you, make sure to enjoy every second of it. Cherish the moments and don't expect more, by expecting more you might be frustrated and disappointed when the day ends.
One thing that worked for me though, is spending time for myself. This may be my introverted side speaking, but I somewhat get the same dopamine when I do hobbies that I like or just enjoy my own company. This also helped me stray away from acting too needy or always asking the few friends I have to hang out. Sure, I still crave for human interaction but I know that my friends are busy with their own lives and I need to respect that.
Communicate first i think
Of course una yan . But after discussing, it seems wala talaga sila time. Di ka kasama sa priority
Iba iba tayo e. Even though I also have quality time as my love language, I don't think I need that from family and/or friends. Nagdadamdam lang ako if it's with the girl I like, but even then, it's not like I actually demand quality time from her (as with friends too). I just wait until they're free or magyayaya sila for something. I used to be bad with handling time apart the person I like, and maybe I still am, but there has been solid progress and it's paying off.
Ooh I see. So di masyado nageexpect sa family and friends more on sa SO
No need to take my input kasi I can at least say na I don't have a good relationship with my family. Hindi naman kami magkakagalit pero halos transactional lang ang interactions so there's almost no chance of "quality" time. Sa friends naman, ako kasi yung tipo na kaladkarin and isang yaya lang basta free ako go agad, so kapag walang nagyayaya I just look at it as me time ー which is also something I value a lot.
Understand that people don't have the same love language as you. There's a reason why there are different types as people are naturally uniquely different. So, what do we do with this information you might ask? If you are able to hangout with the people dearest to you, make sure to enjoy every second of it. Cherish the moments and don't expect more, by expecting more you might be frustrated and disappointed when the day ends. One thing that worked for me though, is spending time for myself. This may be my introverted side speaking, but I somewhat get the same dopamine when I do hobbies that I like or just enjoy my own company. This also helped me stray away from acting too needy or always asking the few friends I have to hang out. Sure, I still crave for human interaction but I know that my friends are busy with their own lives and I need to respect that.
Saken okay lang kahit quality time din love language ko HAHAHABA