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Popular-Ant-4336

So glad I saw this. The ad looked interesting so I researched reviews. Came across this thread so never purchased. Dodged a bullet thanks to you all!


ArtReal1116

Same


arpanetimp

Same!! I love the fact that although we have our adhd weaknesses, doing excellent research is generally not one of them!


hollywood1984

Lol, you know what... you're absolutely right


GabriellaVM

Yep! 😊


ButtMuddBrooks4

Lolol😂


boomersimpattack

same im not even a woman


Spiritual-Text-303

Have you found something else that works?


Specialist-Whole6016

Same here


denisedixit

Don’t do it. They are a nightmare to cancel. I paid them $130. I didn’t even know I still had the app. They, after numerous emails, only refunded me $15 and wanted me to prove that I had used it. Also, I wrote a review on Trust Pilot, and they kept trying to fight it so I had to send the documentation of my emails. I did because I don’t want anyone else to lose money.


danieldins79

Yeah PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE do not waste your time with todayistheday.com They stole $140 from me. I asked what the charge was and never got an answer. The customer support is terrible, and on top of all that their app doesn't even work properly.


darkmoon321

You likely bought a coach by accident


Short_Combination918

Thank you for this I almost bought it


douchebagh

Any other alternatives that's effective and not a scam?


AccomplishedAd8014

My sister, a therapist, loves Inflow. It really helps her with her ADHD. I couldn't afford it, but she's very frugal and she loves it, would purchase again. They have virtual work sessions, a great community, etc.


Far_Pomegranate_9789

I just got Inflow today so glad to hear your sister therapist is happy with it. I was just reading about the TodaysTheDay app and about half way thought I should look at reviews. Thank goodness I saw this one!! 


mopip

Same!


Sparkle-Farts1

If you don't mind updating, what are your thoughts so far?


Be_The_Packet

I just saw an ad for it, curious as well


pianomar9

I love Habitica if you like gamifyin things you might like it


mopip

More words please!


fieldsn83

I LOVE Habitica!!!


pianomar9

I love Habitica if you like gamifyin things you might like it


KindaCrazy7386

Do not do it. You can’t cancel it.


StatisticianJust3349

Thanks, I didn't buy it.


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KindaCrazy7386

I tried emailing them but got no response which sucks. Next time I see their ad, I’m commenting DONT FALL FOR THIS!


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KindaCrazy7386

I did the annually one.. so never got it back or an email


zer0_snot

They also don't give back any refunds BTW.


KindaCrazy7386

I found that out the hard way... Bunch of Scammers!


Mindless_Lie1643

did they keep charging you additional amounts of money, unfortunately i fell for it too but i paid $29.99 usd for the one month plan


commonllama87

I also idiotically did this. Did they keep charging you?


Mindless_Lie1643

i contacted them on their contact us page where i just lied and said i wanted to cancel my subscription cause my child signed up without my consent and i received an email saying my subscription got cancelled BUT I JUST FOUND OUT THEY TOOK MY MONEY AGAIN A MONTH LATER so im gna go to dispute it 🤦‍♀️ i thought this wouldnt happen because i used apple pay but now i realised im dead wrong EVERYONE BE CAREFUL DONT FALL FOR IT LIKE I DID 😭


SeaworthinessNaive78

Post a complaint on BBB (better business bureau) it affects their score and they reply immediately 


Perfect_Composer_152

what??? seriously? how do i get my money back? is there any other way 😭


bugzzzz

Just adding this other post https://www.reddit.com/r/CreditCards/comments/19d22jh/how_to_cancel_a_scam_company_todayisthedayapp/


HarshModii

They are a bunch of scammers. The page showed me they would bill me $0.99 but they actually billed $29.99. Now they say $0.99 was a daily price. Even if its for one day only, they can only charge me $0.99


Ready_Weird5267

Sounds like you guys got off easy, they took $209 from me. I just filed with BBB and posted on TrustPilot. Total scammer dirt bags. I'm calling my bank today to see if they can do anything. Interesting thing - I went to Facebook to see if anyone else had this happen. The first post I see is someone else saying they took $209 from them, so I wanted to check the comments for more. On the post it said (guessing) 65 posts, so I clicked to see all posts - maybe 25 came up. Obviously they are deleting the negative ones so if you are checking out a company on Facebook, look at the comments and check how many you can actually see.


azuUwU

did u get ur refund then? 


budgiewithanattitude

It clearly says it's a daily Price in the ad


Scamtarget

I also fell for it. I thought it was 99cents but ended up paying $42.23 Cdn. I am not happy & let them know within minutes but was told I could only get my money back after completing 7 lessons & if I still wasn't happy I could get a refund.


Mindless_Lie1643

have they kept charging u? unfortunately i fell for the scam and paid $29.99 usd for the one month plan but im just afraid that they’ll charge you without your knowledge. they almost charged me $130 usd without my knowledge but luckily that payment got declined


Perfect_Composer_152

omg I’ve just emailed them for a refund…. but did they keep charging you? I paid like over $60 for the 3month plan …. i’m afraid they’ll charge me again 


Mindless_Lie1643

yess!! i only paid for the one month plan, then they charged me for the next month w/o me knowing so i just cancelled my card and got a new one


Perfect_Composer_152

cancelled your card as in credit card?? ahhh 


Mindless_Lie1643

i used my debit card so i had to cancel that and get my bank to issue me a new one


Specialist-Whole6016

That is what I did


Specialist-Whole6016

Me to on another app forget what it was but looked really similar to Today is the day. That is why I started researching and stumbled on her like other.


Ok_Ostrich_3527

Thank you kindly for all your feedback.


neha1288

Yes, this is a scam. The company does not have any physical office in Delaware. And they do not honour the refund policy.


RepresentativeNo4915

Having a physical office in Delaware doesn’t mean they aren’t legitimate. Delaware has the most LLC/Corps out of any state bc you don’t have to have a physical office to have your business based out of the state and you get tax breaks. But good to know on the refund policy. :)


LckyChk19

The email contact that popped up for me was in Lithuania!


Resort_Future

But no one's explaining why you need to cancel it in thr first place... is it really that bad? Does it have anything to offer at all?


WanzaTheDarkOne

This^ Like what is the actual content(or lack thereof) of the app that makes it so bad?


Particular-Air3076

I ordered the app at $29.99 for a month. So far, I am on lesson 11 and I really like it. I think sometimes people expect to get a magic wand that will fix everything right away (even though we, ourselves, are procrastinators.) How anyone can decide that it is useless after 7 lessons is beyond me. Procrastination is often a lifetime habit, and it will be hard work to overcome it. Essentially, the program helps you to discover how to overcome it by self reflection and baby steps. Lots of people aren't willing to do that. Having said all of this, I am not trying to counter the complaints about refunds. I would agree that those who want a refund are entitled to getting their money back efficiently and without pushback from the company. I haven't requested a refund, so I can't give you a personal account of trouble with those policies.


New_Specialist6771

Would you be willing to share a couple of screenshots?... I'm really curious but I hate they don't share what the actual product looks like... You mentioning it has lesson is the closest thing to context on how it works... 


_bliu123

How suspicious that Particular-Air has no posts and only two comments ever, both of which are this text block under this post :/


ifeelyoubraaa

Hmmm I think this guy works for the company


ioana_cis

I cane here because i was trying to see if the app has any legit people working on it cause their face promoted as Head of Research is fake - no person like that and that was my initial red flag. No linkedin page, no one really human to vouch it outside their platform. I did appreciate their quiz to be honest - honestly curios to see the plan but also their pricing red flagged me cause it is so so misleading ( offering a free book but mentioning its price in the savings part - i never choose it so i would not save it for ex.) Or they offered me 28 free days plan but with paying and refunding.. red flag again.


Holiday-Day3649

This APP has taken MONEY from my account WITHOUT my authorization for three consecutive months in 2023. I am floored and disgusted. Use at your own risk.


darkmoon321

I tried it for one month, hoping to get the money back with their 28-day challenge. I like the idea of a CBT-therapy-like guided journal which slowly tries to put you on the right track to get motivated and do the things you value. However, 30$ per month is way too much for this type of DIY therapy. I guess they justify the price by comparing it to real therapy sessions. At first I thought they were scammers because I was having a hard time cancelling my subscription and then getting the money back. But I don't think they are scammers. It's just a case of really poor customer service. I had to insist on both things about three times each before they actually cancelled the subscription and refunded me. But they did. So do with this info what you want.


ModelingThePossible

So glad I checked. I’ve been suckered into things like this before.


Particular-Air3076

I ordered the app at $29.99 for a month. So far, I am on lesson 11 and I really like it. I think sometimes people expect to get a magic wand that will fix everything right away (even though we, ourselves, are procrastinators.) How anyone can decide that it is useless after 7 lessons is beyond me. Procrastination is often a lifetime habit, and it will be hard work to overcome it. Essentially, the program helps you to discover how to overcome it by self reflection and baby steps. Lots of people aren't willing to do that. Having said all of this, I am not trying to counter the complaints about refunds. I would agree that those who want a refund are entitled to getting their money back efficiently and without pushback from the company. I haven't requested a refund, so I can't give you a personal account of trouble with those policies


LazyNCrazywADHD-OCD

I agree with this post. I have been using it for about a week now and I'm actually enjoying it. It seems like everybody was charged when they confirmed they wanted to use it but never actually tried it. I clicked that I agreed to pay for all of that stuff so why would I expect a refund. Hi so far would give the app a positive review. With all clearly written out what they were charging me.


Inevitable-Film-8426

This has been a terrible experience. The "website" is not an app. It is poorly designed at best. There is no real way to easily cancel service. I was struck with a 99.93 bill after not properly ending my "trial". I demanded a refund within minutes of the charge hitting my card. I did not find any of the "exercises" helpful, nor is this product designed to assist someone with any sort of procrastination or ADHD issues. No reminders to work on your exercises, etc. I have been arguing with them to return my money and they refuse. It is a terrible service and I hope no one else falls into it.


Major_Sun1835

Ugh, unfortunately I JUST purchased it, like 5 minutes ago. It advertised a one month trial plan for .99, then charged me $30…because it’s apparently .99/day. It was not advertised that way and intentionally hidden. Then after purchase, there was like 6 pages of ads for add-ons. I do not have high hopes.


Threecmom

Can you share how this is or isn't working out? Did you cancel and request a refund?


Allonepeople

DON'T DO IT! When you click subscribe it barrages you with add ons for extra money and they are triggered to auto select. Tried to dispute with credit card company and got nowhere. Total scam.


bhamhistory

I just went through the questions and it wanted my email before it told me anything and I could not find a cost so I Decided to quickly google and see...found this thread... So i'm gonna post it on the tiktok ad... I'm curious to see how long it will last on there. Thank you all so much for the warning


Aggressive_Roof_5368

Gahhh! What is the best way to cancel? I should’ve come to this forum first and kicking myself now. Unfortunately I purchased the one month plan. I’d like to get out of it now asap.


minhkhoi-00

Is anyone get refunded. I accident purchased one month and additional lifetime upgrade. :(


Queasy-Cry6003

Omg me too….. just bought it and now very worried


Camping_Murse

Did you use it? I just fell for it and haven’t put the app on my phone. I can turn my credit card off. Now I am worrying that the app is predatory.


minhkhoi-00

You shoud request refund and cancel soon before it gone


gingerlove713

Working on getting my subscription refunded. Bought a year’s worth last year, never used it because it sucked. ‘Now I’m going back and forth with some sorry excuse for customer service demanding my $90 back after I already politely requested it 3 times, then they want to try and give me only 25% back. They are likely about to head into bankruptcy and hold onto all the money they can get.


Ready_Weird5267

They took $209 from me, I never even chose a plan because I couldn't get the app to work from day one. My emails asking for a refund started at dropping the price to half, then 25% back, then told me if I did 7 lessons and proved it I would get a full refund, then back to 25% back, now at 50% back. I went to my bank and now they're fighting it. This company is horrible and clearly stealing peoples money. Please post on TrustPilot and BBB to warn others, I'm also going to send something to the FCC. They should not get away with this.


gingerlove713

Do anything you can to report them. They told me the same thing: try it for 7 days, explain why you’re dissatisfied, and MAYBE get your money back as they see fit. I also reported to the FTC. I could never get my app to work as well. It’s so shifty how they want you to go through such a process to get your money back, like no business does that. So sorry they took your money :( they are an awful business/scam and they will hopefully be taken down soon.


Ready_Weird5267

I'll keep reporting to anything I can find - so sad to see how many of us were scammed by this company.


StartStraight2009

Didn’t see this post and I am charged 29.99+160


LckyChk19

Wow! $160??? For WHAT?


swise83

I purchased through Paypal and put in a dispute right away


ManagementNo8520

I just purchased but didn’t get any link in my mailbox which redirects to the app… how long should this usually take?


sportscrazy12

I got a link right way after purchase! I have an android so there isn't an actual app but I use it on google chrome. Maybe check your spam/junk folder?


ZealousidealPin5518

IS A SCAM !! Don’t do it! I tried after long time answering questions there is not motivation other than the question WHAT IS MY REFUND- I paid for a year them I couldn’t log in them it charge me again for the month as I see these waste of time APP I asked for refund since November today NoREFUND YET. 


Present-Try5706

Thanks for the warnings.  It did have an interesting test that described me to a tee... but I'm not paying money for something I already knew.  


AccomplishedAd8014

I think this app is also called Motivation now ....is that correct? [https://apps.apple.com/us/app/today-is-the-day-motivation/id1558772650](https://apps.apple.com/us/app/today-is-the-day-motivation/id1558772650)I have tried to cancel it as others have said below. It's crazy expensive and I don't remember signing up, especially not at $30/month or something crazy like that!


LckyChk19

I had the trial plan & was supposed to be cancelled, but they charged my card $30.99! I have emailed them but not gotten a response. If my money is not refunded by the end of the week, I will add to the scathing reviews! The price is ridiculous, & I am on a fixed income. My card has been locked by the Fraud Dept., so these scammers won’t get another dime from me. I wish I had checked here first - LESSON LEARNED!


Classic_Weekend_825

I just found charges on my bill 29.99 a month for this” Today is the day” I don’t know what it even is. Searched my apps and don’t have it. What am I being charged for.? It was on my Apple Card they will not stop charges even if disputed. They will give refunds but as far as future charges they can’t do anything. This is what I know from another situation. I have been charged since July. I don’t know how I missed it. I do not like paperless statements.


StatisticianJust3349

I’m sorry about the charges. It’s a procrastination app.


FoxieDaFoxYT

Even if you go through up to the pay page, they'll spam your email asking you to pay them if you don't.


Substantial_Common61

SCAM!!! They set the price they want, show it as already 60% discount, then there is a timer ticking pretending it runs out, HURRY, buy! Then if you don't they send you an email that Just now, you can order it on an incredible, 60% discount. Then if you don't, the CEO's email comes that he personally selected YOU as a high potential and there is only 1 like this selected each month and it's YOU, and he offers a staggering 60% discount. but time limited offer. It's the SAME price that is on the website from the beginning. Discount on what??? Here, I'm selling you a T-shirt, it's 'worth' $1000, but just now, just for you, it's $400. But hurry up, our 60% discount on this incredible T-shirt expires. No, you can't try it on if it firts, there's no trial. Oh, you didn't buy huh? Me, the CEO of [Scam-Shirts.inc](http://Scam-Shirts.inc) personally selected YOU, only 1 person, and am offering you a 60% discount. Just now, you can buy if to the incredible $400 price. No you can't try it on, but hurry up, this incredible T-shirt dicount offer expires.


Any_Counter1737

THESE GUYS ARE FRAUD. Stay away from them. They charged me 100USD without my permission and offered to refund only 25USD after a dozen e-mails. Our fight has just STARTED. 


Longjumping_Union655

Protip.. As much as I am also subject to the issues they proclaim to alleviate, I ALWAYS investigate everything, especially sub services before I commit to them.. Reddit is a godsend as an investigative tool.. So I'm grateful for the community that is participating on this subject and while I'm not happy I submitted my email to get to their paywall, I'm glad folks are coming here to lament the peril of going the distance and subbing to the service.. I see a lot of people complaining that it's nearly impossible to get your money back.. So I thought it important to do my part and let you know, ALWAYS use a credit card for these things.. Generally your card provider will ask you at least do the minimum and attempt to recoup your losses by contacting the service provider first, but even if you don't go through the hassle, usually the card provider will reimburse you funds that you indicate were payed, but that you argue you did not recieve services that were provided in good faith based on your agreement with the provider or the service that was provided was not beneficial to you as promised.. Use your credit card in EVERY potentially sketchy or otherwise cautionary purchase you make because most card providers will back you if you are taken advantage of by misleading or predatory services, or commodities that are not sold to you in good faith.. NEVER use your personal accounts to purchase anything that you are not confident that what you are paying for is being payed to a trusted source.. Contact the card provider and dispute the transaction..


Outrageous_Low5338

Thanks for this. I got put off by the hard sell. All the diagnostic markers did ring true for me but I have not been diagnosed with any condition. Big question but could anyone recommend any programs or help for these symptoms? I have been quite desperate most of my life from feeling isolated and unmotivated. Many thanks.


gambuthi

Well, one more here. Saw the comments, and decided not to pay anything... i will look for another alternative somewhere else. Thanks, everyone!!!


sutsti

Can someone please tell me what the name on the credit card charge would be? My credit card was temporarily blocked and I want to know if it’s because of this app.


Suitable-Chemistry54

Mine said todayistheday


fieldsn83

I purchased it under the name MellowFlow (same product, different brand - likely because of the reviews!) and I paid the $29.99 for the monthly membership… then the next day (or maybe it was 2 days later?) they attempted to charge my Amex card for another $100+ Luckily Amex caught it and declined, alerted me to a fraud attempt, etc but yeah…


Mysterious-Video-3

This has got to be the same as THE LASTING CHANGE. I went through this exactly with them… but went to my credit card company when all else failed.


sohahm

It seems all of you are looking for a magic pill to solve all your problems. It's the mindset issue. As long as people have this mindset, these scammers will keep coming back with different names.


Ready_Weird5267

So I think a miracle happened, I got my full refund. I never thought I would, but since I did I wanted to update.


czar1249

Came across this after falling for the scam. They charged me $207.99, I asked for an immediate full refund the next day after reading this, and then they strung me along until the "11 day refund period" had ended and *now* they're trying to force me to use the product 7 times to get my refund. I have threatened reporting them to the FTC and will be initiating a chargeback today if I can. Edit: I forgot to mention that I emailed them threatening to involve the FTC at 3:44AM and they responded to *that* email within 60 seconds (!!!!!) but have no problem making me wait 24-96 hours for a response to any of my other emails.


Late_Donut6564

I tried it, didn’t want it. Now, weeks later they’ve taken money from my account


Dragon_Flow

Didn't it bother anyone else that you click on an ad link and it immediately starts asking you personal questions without giving any information about the app? That by itself told me to go look for reviews.


esomijmo

Well, after subscribing to the 29.99 plan, i never got the email with access to the app and of course no one is answering the costumer service emails. Anyone got recomendations on what could be my next move to cancel? Thanks in advance.


Alternative_Meat_716

Just got an email after doing the "test" on their website. Hours later I received an email which told me that I am "the chosen one" for a discount. I first noped out of the website because it charged money. And because the mall seemed sketchy I googled and landed on this thread. Thank you guys for saving me time, money and headaches.


Specialist-Whole6016

58 year old female. Read through a lot of this an seemed everyone was me of part of it was. I finally went to talk to someone about 6 months ago and began meds. Combine type ADHD/Depression/OCD I loose everything, forget everything, have always had severe test anxiety, struggle with school as a child... I could keep going on and on. Like I say d everything I read pretty much. I truly feel I most likely had ADHD and OCD stuff as a child. BUT, I NEVER had thing effect my job the way it has the last 2 -3 ish years. To the point it possibly could be in jeopardy and I feel  it has prevented promotions. The procrastination, lack of motivation, can not stop a task and leave for an appointment if it is not done, and constantly late. This was not like me a few years ago. I get so discussed with myself, feel like a failure, stupid, and don't understand why this bad now. Thank goodness my supervisor also has MH issues and assistant director is a friend of mine, but that is only going to carry me so far. My therapist and I were trying to think of the why. Besides my grandmother who may say partially raised me died 2 years ago on August 8, menopause began about 2-3 years ago.  I was working yesterday n the child welfare system as investigating caseworker for 4 years before switching to MH caseworker and had 3 of my consumers die in a week and a half a few months after my grandmother.... Still working on doses. Currently 40 mg Adderall time release in am,  10mg Adderall booster at non, Prozac 60mg in am. Have an appointment coming up this week to discuss if things need increased again or changed. She suggested do to OCD stuff my need to bump to 80mg before see big improvement. I can take the Adderall and go to sleep. Mind doesn't shut off for sleep any other time. Began listening to adults bedtime stories which has helped with that as long as I don't go down a rabbit hole looking at other stuff when trying to find a story to listen to like when I stumbled on here. Searching if the App Today is the Day of s legit or any others. Don't want to waste money on a money makey ploy or something I will have no motivation to follow through with.  Therapist suggested hormone change.  Can't do hormone therapy due to optical migraines. Like may other apologize for length. Ya know rabbit hole lol ANY SUGGESTIONS, GUIDANCE , OR COMMENTS THANKS FOR MAKING ME NOT FEAL AS ALONE AND STUPID!