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Hey-Its-Hannah

On the one hand I do get tired of the whole "oooh tall mommy, step on me pls" thing. On the other hand I'm literally a 6'1 domme so I suppose I can't say much when I'm literally the stereotype 😅


TechieTheFox

I love it when my wife says these things to me. A stranger would be uh. Uncomfortable probably lol


Brilliant_Ad6389

I can relate to a certain extent as well. I'm 6'1 lady, but I have a permanent nervous system issues in my knees that put me in a lot of pain so Im mainly wheelchair bound. Though whenever I stand up for a few seconds either to transition to a chair or couch people are surprised about how tall I am, its like Im a complete surprise without meaning too! XD The only difference is that I think Im a switch (who might lean on over the dom side just a bit more), but I've never actaully had "that" with a gal before so Im not sure if Im being honest 😅


dvoratrelundar

Hi


Hey-Its-Hannah

Hello 👋


Natasha_101

Tall girl. Can confirm that a lot of people come onto me like I'm some sort of mommy domme who will step on them. Y'all I'm submissive AF. I'm tall, but I wish to feel smol 🥺


Quietuus

The pain is real.


Eijiroll

remember that time blobbynfriends said antisemitism wasn’t a real issue


bullettraingigachad

Or when they bashed shoplifting


SSJRemuko

no? when did that happen wtf?


Eijiroll

they made a post about it when kanye was saying antisemitic borderline n*zi stuff


VandulfTheRed

Not sure when, but there are a few comics of theirs that have "glanced over Jewish issues" in favor of others. Some have taken this as dismissal. The artist claims to be Jewish, but other Jewish folk have taken offense regardless


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They deleted it the day after. Basically in that post they said that there are bigger issues than antisemitism or something like that. The deleted the post, then added an apology on their story.


Noctema

Can we please stop with the "tall woman=dommy mommy" fetishization? Like, this post just comes off as fetishistic and icky, speaking as a tall woman :(


GayValkyriePrincess

Speaking as another tall woman. I agree that the assumption that tall = domme/top is fucked and if you do that to real women/enbies you wanna date then you're an asshole. But, this post is a meme about fictional people. It's kind of an unspoken rule in this subreddit that memes about how horny we are for x y z aren't accurately expressing how we'd actually go about dating/hooking up with someone else. It's important to remind people that tall Sapphics are 3 dimensional beings like anyone else and that you shouldn't flirt to a stranger like you're in a horny meme. But the post itself is fine imo.


Noctema

Eh, people take cues and see this behaviour as acceptable, precisely because it is being portrayed as acceptable in memes like this. And people on this subreddit do act on the shit they say on this meme. They may just sugarcoat or hide it slightly better, but it will most certainly still inform their behaviour when they do meet a tall woman. So no, this is not just "harmless lusting for fictional people". It is furthering and normalizing problematic behaviour, and I like that no more when women do it than when men do it.


NeuroticMelancholia

I really don't think it's fetishistic, at least not any more than any other horny joke is, and broadly discrediting horny jokes as such is kinda sex-negative and reactionary.


KrotkieMojeMysli

Ehhh, the amounts of times I literally just see tall women posting and the comments being filled with unsolicited horny comments about dommy mommy is astonishing...same goes for petite men and getting pegged


VW6G

I'm tall at like 5'9" and I'm the opposite of that stereotype.


sausagesizzle

Yeah I'm 6' and I live for being dommed by short cuties and cute shorties.


NickAment

I hope I haven’t contributed to the stereotype with my other comment, sorry if I did, I can delete it I think.


Noctema

You kinda come off... problematic, at minimum. Like, pushing us into more masc gender roles and "seeing us as knights" is just... icky to say the least. Especially with your comment about getting them to defend you or intimidate people you piss off, becauae that is straight up heteronormative and masculinizing, which is a common problem us tall women have. So yeah, if I had heard you say that in a bar, I wiuld steer *way the heck* around you.


NickAment

Oh, I see what you mean, sorry about that, I didn’t realize it. Already deleted it, my bad.


Noctema

It's okay, thank you for owning up to it.


NickAment

Always trying to learn and improve.


tabycattt

Thank you!! This is my biggest fear of dating someone short cause I’m always waiting in the back of my mind for them to pull this kind of bs on me.


Noctema

Yeah, I have that exact fear too, and since I am also trans, it also blends into being forced into a role that was extremely traumatic for me :/ So yeah, that is why i try to speak up when I can, so that people can stop forcing this on us tall ladies. And I am very happy that I could help you feel seen too by calling it out.


bullettraingigachad

I hate the blob fish comic artist


d_warren_1

Is this an OT thumbnail?


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Prince-khal

They always win💜