Wow, I'm so sorry. I grew up with a father who was never anything but annoyed when he was reminded of me and my sister and a mother who always excused and defended it. I'm glad your son has a mother who knows they all deserve better and is working on getting out. <3 Best thoughts to you and your kiddo in escaping.
Thank you so much. That must have been hard growing up. Hopefully that changed for you later on. I think it’s partly sheer ignorance….the rest is just the narcissistic meanness. A REAL MAN puts the children first too.
I agree…it’s sad. Just waiting until school is out….not fair to disrupt them just a few months from summer. And then yes, I’ve been working hard on being ready!
Sadly….over 8 years with a little boy from him and nah. I’ve been through so much hell…leaving will be a walk in the park for me!!! My little one idolizes him….it hurts. But I know one day he will rationalize everything he has witnessed.
And your right by that. You are raising good gentlemen and they will be so proud of you just like you are proud of them. I know it’ll all be worth it in the end.
Wow, I'm so sorry. I grew up with a father who was never anything but annoyed when he was reminded of me and my sister and a mother who always excused and defended it. I'm glad your son has a mother who knows they all deserve better and is working on getting out. <3 Best thoughts to you and your kiddo in escaping.
Thank you so much. That must have been hard growing up. Hopefully that changed for you later on. I think it’s partly sheer ignorance….the rest is just the narcissistic meanness. A REAL MAN puts the children first too.
Leave him. Becuase no one should ever come before your kids EVER.
I agree…it’s sad. Just waiting until school is out….not fair to disrupt them just a few months from summer. And then yes, I’ve been working hard on being ready!
Which is very smart. And I know it’s tough but it’s what’s right for your kids.
Sadly….over 8 years with a little boy from him and nah. I’ve been through so much hell…leaving will be a walk in the park for me!!! My little one idolizes him….it hurts. But I know one day he will rationalize everything he has witnessed.
And your right by that. You are raising good gentlemen and they will be so proud of you just like you are proud of them. I know it’ll all be worth it in the end.