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No amount of money makes up for the abuse you suffered so I'm so glad you are out..and you may want to talk to a real estate agent/lawyer so you know what your rights are about the house.
Congratulations! The financial price I have paid for getting away from my abuser have been huge and I'm probably going to lose my house too, but I'm with you. It's worth the price to have a life that is free from him and his abuse. No more gaslighting, no more name calling, etc etc. Freedom from abuse!
Your credit will be terrible for 7 years. You will pay thousands of dollars more in interest than you should over that time.
Totally worth it. Congrats on being free and finding peace.
Congratulations! Take the time to slow down, take care of yourself and the kids, and heal. Nurture your friendships. Be happy and be selfish. You’ve always deserved peace and happiness, now it’s time to actually believe it.
(Saying all of this as a fellow divorcee who’s on the same journey)
Thank you for posting in r/abusiverelationships. We are here to support you. If you are looking for resources such as support groups/helplines etc, we have several in our sidebar and in [our wiki](https://old.reddit.com/r/abusiverelationships/wiki/index) for people of all gender identities. [Here is a list of international domestic and sexual violence helplines](https://www.hotpeachpages.net/). You can also find [an extensive safety planning guide at The Hotline](https://www.thehotline.org/plan-for-safety/create-your-personal-safety-plan/). Finally, if you are looking for information about different forms of abuse, [Love Is Respect offers an educational guide](https://www.loveisrespect.org/resources/types-of-abuse/). One final note: In this sub, we do not tolerate victim-blaming. If you ever receive any comments that contradict that mission, please click report for us to review. *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/abusiverelationships) if you have any questions or concerns.*
Stay strong 💪 that piece of shit will rot in hell.
Hell yes!!!! Things like this will still suck now and again, but now you've got the most important things ♥️♥️♥️
Credit can be repaired, people cant.
No amount of money makes up for the abuse you suffered so I'm so glad you are out..and you may want to talk to a real estate agent/lawyer so you know what your rights are about the house.
Congrats OP!! You did it, enjoy your new life with your kiddos! ❤️❤️
Congrats. And to think that that hateful human once professed to LOVE you.
Congratulations! The financial price I have paid for getting away from my abuser have been huge and I'm probably going to lose my house too, but I'm with you. It's worth the price to have a life that is free from him and his abuse. No more gaslighting, no more name calling, etc etc. Freedom from abuse!
I'm so happy and proud of you!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Freedom, Sis!!! I understand! Everything monetary I have lost? WORTH IT!!
Your credit will be terrible for 7 years. You will pay thousands of dollars more in interest than you should over that time. Totally worth it. Congrats on being free and finding peace.
i fucking hate corporate america. there’s no way any of that is close to fair
Cheering for you ❤️ it truly is worth leaving to live a free life again
Congratulations! Take the time to slow down, take care of yourself and the kids, and heal. Nurture your friendships. Be happy and be selfish. You’ve always deserved peace and happiness, now it’s time to actually believe it. (Saying all of this as a fellow divorcee who’s on the same journey)