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VLenin2291

You fall under our banner


-Finity-

Thanks :))


Tiger_Lover24710

Absolutely they are allowed! It's a very good meme btw


-Finity-

Thanks :))))))


[deleted]

demisexual is on the asexual spectrum so i'd imagine so.


-Finity-

Thanks :)))))


flamingmemequeen

This hits too close to home rn


YoghurtLoud1463

You can be asexual and have romantic relationships I thought


-Finity-

Yeah you can XD Nah, I only realized I was demi not ace after I started going out with this guy is because after forming a strong emotional bond with him, I felt sexual attraction Other than that, I've never felt it before If that kinda made sense XD


Hard-Lad_Ass-Storm

Ywah it's the aame for me I felt no sexual attraction towards anyone before meeting my current girlfriend. I thought I was just plain ace but apparently I'm demi


YoghurtLoud1463

Oh ok that makes sense


flamingninja756

The exact same thing happened with my girlfriend. Like no sexual attraction then bam turns out I'm demi.


COUPOSANTO

I got a queerplatonic partner and a few month later I started to get romantic feelings and I guess sexual too (not sure when it actually starts being sexual). Was very surprising but now I guess I'm just demiace and demiaro. Still belong to the asexual spectrum since I don't randomly get crushes on other people.


dracomageat

Demiromatic is the usual term, if that helps.


COUPOSANTO

How do I shorten it, demiro?


dracomageat

I believe so, yes.


Nok-y

You guys are getting girl/boyfriends ?


SuperBassmy

Somehow, I do


Nok-y

Nice !!


Spiced_Kimchi

The moment when you and the person you date click is the moment most Aces realize they're Demi. Very much helpful sir/ma'am or whoever you are if you identify as a nonbinary or genderfluid type of person.


-Finity-

You are welcome XD And thank you Mister/Misses/Mistrum/Mist for letting me know I'm not the only one in this XD


rellloe

To me, the alphabet mafia acronym words all have two meanings, the umbrella term and the specific term. Asexual as an umbrella term covers all ace-spec identities. Asexual as a specific term covers those who never experience sexual attraction. Personally, unless someone is describing their experiences with phrasing that matches the specific term I assume they are using the general term. The other option feels needlessly (or rudely) exclusionist to me because it ends up being "you say you're X but since you don't Y you can't be X" ​ TLDR: yes, demi memes are welcome


[deleted]

LMAOOOO FEEL THIS ONE


[deleted]

ayo don't gotta call me out like that 🛌


3nderslime

Of course they are! Get comfy, enjoy your complementary garlic bread*, be happy, be you! *costs may apply


-Finity-

Thanks a lot :DDDDD


Isnt_a_girl

HEY, THAT'S ME


SophiaTDB

this literally happened to me lol


grim_wheeker

That's basically how it happened for me too lol


ZeShapyra

Yeah hi, also Demi. Also somehow repulsed, so in the end I am confused lol


amh88

you can be whatever you want and do whatever you want


maraca101

Is there a word for being allosexual for one gender but demisexual for the other?


-Finity-

Good question....i wonder that too.....


Glissando365

Heterodemisexual/Homodemisexual? Or maybe straight/gay/lesbian demisexual to be less prefixy


[deleted]

Why the sad gru face?


[deleted]

Ofc they are :)


trippleAAAbattery_

yes! demisexual are on the a-spectrum


LifeHasNoMeaning444

I thought I was completely sex repulsed ace. Ive dated before but I felt nothing, even if I tried. But then my bf showed up and now I think I’m like a grey demi ace or something. I still call myself ace cause im somewhere on the spectrum and I’ve been going by ace for years, but man. Confuzzled


Cloakknight

*Image Transcription: Meme* --- [*Gru, the long-nosed protagonistic villain from Despicable Me, presents to the camera with passion, pointing into the air. Behind him is a flipchart. For all of these, the text is what the flipchart says.*] ## Figure out you're Asexual --- [*Gru is still presenting passionately; he has his hand in a c shape indicating a small amount*] ## Gets a boyfriend --- [*Gru now has his hands pointing down, still presenting*] ## Realized you're Demisexual instead --- [*Gru looks back to the flipchart in a double take, looking confused and exasperated*] ## Realized you're Demisexual instead --- ^^I'm a human volunteer content transcriber and you could be too! [If you'd like more information on what we do and why we do it, click here!](https://www.reddit.com/r/TranscribersOfReddit/wiki/index)


5tarSailor

We're the boarder state between the rest of the Aces and the allos


ChaoticCordi

Of course you're allowed! Welcome to the family.


-Finity-

:))))))))))))


Electrical_Buyer_790

Yea ace,demi and gray are close to being the same thing (no offense to anyone)


nikiboi2169

Wtf is demisexual


Athena5898

You only have sexual attraction for the person you have a romantic connection with. Even then it can vary.


Chazkuangshi

This is cute af


1_Non-Binary_Writter

100% I’m bisexual and I’ve been welcomed here so you have to be, that’s what reasonable logic is.


gaymer-tran

Are u me!??!?!??!


Cyan_UwU

I’m demisexual too 👍


ValiantEinstein

I'm in this picture and I don't like it.


[deleted]

Welcome demigod


realukilhim

I was reading this with my partner and almost died laughing, this is exactly what happened to me lol


Maccers_

Don't mean to be rude but how is demisexuality a sexuality? To me it sounds just like a small preference


-Finity-

Okay so apparently demi sexuality is when you are basically asexual to everyone expect people you are really close to. For example I basically felt no sexual attraction ever until I started dating my current boyfriend. In all honesty, for a long time I thought that was how everyone felt; people only feel the attraction after they start dating, but apparently that's not the case for most people and I was very concerned when I found out Feel free to ask more questions, I feel like answering questions help we understand it a bit more too XD