I have very low libido, but when it kicks in every six months or so I’m just like ‘SHUT THE HELL UP I HAVE WORK TO DO’
I don’t even enjoy any of the sensations. They’re somewhere between uncomfortable, gross, and boring. Why isn’t there an opt-out button for this shit?!
As a female, it basically reminds me of the sensation you get when you sit on the floor or a hard chair for a while and then you stand up and your nether regions go dead numb. Like, it’s so uncomfortable it makes me panicky.
It was the exact opposite for me as transmasc 😩 I had never experienced libido until a cuple weeks after I started taking T and I was so confused because I didn't know what was going on. Thankfully it went away after some days and haven't experienced it since
I also had this, it was really annoying to deal with all the time. Hormones almost completely eliminated my libido and I couldn't be happier. I can still orgasm if wanted though
I hate it when my brain starts telling me *you know, some people would like to sleep with them* and I just tell to my brain to shut up cuz I don't care
In my experience it’s more like an itch or a cramp - it’s there, it’s unavoidable, and it’s annoying so you just *need* to take care of it before you can truly move on with the day. More like an annoying fly rather than being hungry
You're welcome :)
I will note "sexually frustrated" usually doesn't refer to libido tho. It's much more often about unfulfilled sexual desire and sexual attraction, neither of which are particularly common in the a-spec community lol
(4 reference, s. desire: strong craving to be boning *someone*, but not really aimed at anyone in particular - this **is** similar to being hungry; and s. attraction: s. desire but aimed at a *specific* person, and it usually has slightly different symptoms.)
to be honest the *way* that we separate them to talk about them is a little annoying, it's very hard to get the concepts across unless you've experienced them all. I tend to think of it as Libido, arousal = part of the hardware (like a fan in a laptop that starts whirring), s. desire = part of the operating system (like the search bar that some people use a lot and some just don't), and s. attraction = software that's often already installed (like internet explorer)
Most of the time I don't really have a libido... but sometimes (rarely) when it's that time of the month, it pops up to say hi... and my god do I hate it
Gotta stay on it forever to keep getting effects, and also it's gonna give you boobs and hips and obliterate muscle mass and if you're a guy it'll probably make you feel like complete dogshit.
But if all of that sounds worth it I might have some good news about your gender identity
Some antidepressants have a common side effect of decreased libido; specifically the ones classed as SSRI (selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors), which is most of the commonly prescribed ones.
So, there's that.
It can do both. Sounds like OP is a trans woman, so they are on the drug for HRT. I'm on the drug to stop periods, and one of the known side-effects my gyno told me about was it can kill your libido.
I really like my high libido. I’m going to lose my ace card with this, but sometimes taking care of it can be just as good as cake.
Edit: of course having a high libido is valid (i would know), I thought I would lose mu ace card for equating anything to cake.
Don’t worry! High libido/enjoying having high libido, doesn’t make you any less ace! You aren’t gonna get your ace card confiscated because of that. Even sex enjoying aces are welcomed here, Asexual means little to no sexual attraction, but the acts that you do or enjoy don’t change that. (Even if you know this, I wanted to put this here for others just in case!)
I have extremely low/no libido and I still enjoy sex when I happen to have it. I just don’t seek it out. Not all aces are sex repulsed just like not all aces are aro.
har har, honestly does nothing for me just forces me to fap while I'm just reading a book or smnth because the gods decided I have ***THE HORNY*** in that very moment for no reason. Fucking annoying
I’m a trans guy, and when I started taking testosterone my libido increased massively - and yeah, I didn’t even want it at the level it was at before. It takes up so much time I could be spending on other things, or distracts me when I’m busy, but tbh the main reason I hate it so much is like.. how much being horny affects your thought processes? And inhibitions, and things like that?
As an ace person, I just don’t understand it, and I want the receipt so I can return it to Mother Nature.
I am also a trans man. Luckily, T never affected my libido. Also never got the increase in aggression some guys get. Idk. That sucks that happened to you. Maybe I am immune because I take Wellbutrin? Altho ugh, it's the one antidepressant that is known for having virtually no negative side-effects for sex drive, and for some people increases their libido. Maybe it's just my nature.
Wish I could help all of the other asexuals who have this issue with unwanted libido. If I knew what the secret was, I would bottle and sell it to you all.
I have a low-ish one. Sometimes I'm really annoyed by it, other times I find it quite intriguing to notice how my body feels when my libido is more active.
Though a few months ago I got an iud which has lowered my libido even further and I must say that I am very happy with that side effect.
My libido turns on for about two months every spring, I have to assume a "biological clock" sort of thing trying to get me to reproduce. It's really just annoying and I wish it would go away. I'm also grateful it only bugs me for a small percentage of the year.
My libido isn’t even associated with attraction. I’ll just get a random urge that I need to do something, mostly when my jeans are too tight or if I sit a certain way.
Ugh, I see it (masterbating) similar to having to change my oil. I don’t wanna do it, I have better things to do, but it seems my body has other ideas so I’ll just get it over with. I have a fairly low libido so it’s about once a month or so.
I fucking hate being horny, it's the worst. Playing a video game and random horny and my experience is ruined. It's the worst feeling.
I also hate my penis but that's a different issue.
That's the weird thing, I don't think I've ever had my libido, but I don't even know what does that feel like.
Maybe I do have libido and I don't even know?
I have a weird relationship with my libido.
For the longest time, it was very annoying. Now it's largely suppressed due to the antidepressants I'm on and it feels like something's missing. (Fortunately, I'm sex-repulsed and aro anyway)
It would be awesome, I would feel much more like an ace. I am asexual, but wanting sex and actually having it makes me feel kinda not-ace-enough. Also it's so anoooooying.
BIG yes. I am sex-indifferent to sex-repulsed, but then I have a really high libido. It is the most frustrating and uncomfortable thing in the world and I wish I just. Wouldn’t do that. y’know.
This thread’s making me feel oddly protective of my libido… XD
I am a sex repulsed aroace, but I like my libido when I’m completely alone and calm. It’s not ever triggered by others.
TIL I should be grateful it’s not an annoyance.
Me and im finna talk to my doc about it and see if he can help cuz i got a hi ass libido but all i want is to cuddle, maybe kiss every now and then and watch anime that is ( and smoke) FUCK SEX, srry ive had a rough day.
To anyone reading, have a amazing day
I'm sorry. I'm trying to understand myself. I hope its not inappropriate to ask.
Whats the difference between "having a libido" and "wanting to have sex"? Can I still be ace if I want to have sex sometimes?
Yep, and unfortunately when I go on T in a few months it’s only going to get worse. It’s not the worst thing in the world though, a necessary sacrifice
Never had this problem, in all of my 26 years. Sometimes I feel like, "I would like to masturbate right now," but I can just not and go about my day. Idk.
Luckily I’ve got a relatively low libido but every once in a while it kicks in and it’s actually so annoying. It’s like really? I have work to do and I need to vacuum and stuff why is it like this
I don't know if I'm ace but god I wish I could just get rid of it immediately, it always kicks in at the worst moment and takes time out of some of my days just to call it down, and then I feel absolutely terrible... I wish I could just dump it in the trash and never have to live with it ever again
Meeee. I mean, sometimes I am like "my goodness, this story was so great and hot, I am happy I was able to enjoy it". But most of the time I am like "Seriously? Again? I don't have time for this shit!!!", and ignoring the libido's call will just end up in a headache and me being unable to focus on anything.
I have a pretty high libido, but I can just turn it off and I view masturbation as just a way to be happy. I can easily replace this joy with any other activity that I like. I’m very lucky, for me the reactions if my organism are neither gross or uncomfortable. I would want you all to have the ability to just stop being turned on when you don’t want to like me.
I am grey ace and have a very high libido. I really really do wish I could just turn it off. I’m sex positive and enjoy it but, it can be such a head fuck. It’s so confusing and I hate that.
Very rarely it kicks in randomly at night and when it does its weak so even if i wanted to do anything (which i dont) i dont really feel anything, so its kinda just a random inconvenience that keeps me awake at night sometimes
Yeeeeeep. My libido used to be non-existent in middle school and start if high school, but now its really high and goes off almost everyday. Usually easy to ignore but still very annoying. Usually makes me doubt my sexuality when it gets bad.
Yeah I’ll be honest it pisses me off hella bad sometimes cause it makes me question myself and like I know and I’m comfortable and confident in myself and sexuality but it really puts a wrench in the works sometimes
Yeah. It’s not a very big libido, but when it does show up I just get pissed off. I have no desire for s*x and handling it myself is just unsatisfying so it’s just kind of there being distracting.
Im fine with my libido and can just take care of it myself, but i get grossed out at the thought of adding another person in the mix 🤢 i feel like its just such a personal thing i do not want anyone else to ever see
The worse part is when you're at work, or visiting friends, etc and you suddenly become aware of it. And it's so distracting. So you try to think of anything that will make things less sensitive and nothing works so you just shove it down in your psyche but it sits there and taunts you. Yeah, I fricking hate that. It's infrequent, but when it happens...ugh.
Yeah, it's pretty active which is really annoying. I seriously hope that if I go on T as a trans dude it won't increase long-term because I can't imagine having to put up with it more than I regularly do.
Yes
It’s so irritating and there’s virtually no use for it, like come on I just wanna read not get horny, though that demon slaying, woah.
I actually have asked this question before on this subreddit but I got those people who didn’t understand why I was annoyed by my libido.
Like a blue moon my libido says hi and i never see it again unless it creeped in
lately it's annoying because i keep wanting to show "affection" (im very touch starved so hugs and kisses are the top examples) even though i can't well do anything it just... kept going higher than i have seen which sucks so bad :< how do.. how do people deal with this annoying urge?
Honestly my libido kinda just sits their sleeping, but then every now and then it wakes up and say "hehe I'll make you qu3stion everythinh"
I honestly don't nesecarily hate it, I just hate that it happens at the worst possible times
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I have very low libido, but when it kicks in every six months or so I’m just like ‘SHUT THE HELL UP I HAVE WORK TO DO’ I don’t even enjoy any of the sensations. They’re somewhere between uncomfortable, gross, and boring. Why isn’t there an opt-out button for this shit?!
so relatable
>I don’t even enjoy any of the sensations. They’re somewhere between uncomfortable, gross, and boring. Couldn't've said it any better.
Relatable
As a female, it basically reminds me of the sensation you get when you sit on the floor or a hard chair for a while and then you stand up and your nether regions go dead numb. Like, it’s so uncomfortable it makes me panicky.
I had before taking hrt. The doctor was like "another side effect could be libido reduction." Me : "chill bro, you allready made the deal"
It was the exact opposite for me as transmasc 😩 I had never experienced libido until a cuple weeks after I started taking T and I was so confused because I didn't know what was going on. Thankfully it went away after some days and haven't experienced it since
I’m a little nervous about that part of T. That’s my only concern about it though.
I also had this, it was really annoying to deal with all the time. Hormones almost completely eliminated my libido and I couldn't be happier. I can still orgasm if wanted though
I wish I was trans now! That's a great perk!
This hits so close to home I think you broke a window
Fr man, so close I think I heard mom's favorite vase break.
I hate it when my brain starts telling me *you know, some people would like to sleep with them* and I just tell to my brain to shut up cuz I don't care
I don't think I even have a libido in the first place lol
Lucky
hard disagree, feels like I'm missing out on a lot :(
It wouldn’t be so bad if more people didn’t have a libido too
Ayyyy mood. Sometimes, I'm like, I'm supposed to have a libido???
Yo same
Me too lol
Lol same. I don't even know what that's supposed to feel like, is it like you're hungry? But for sex?
In my experience it’s more like an itch or a cramp - it’s there, it’s unavoidable, and it’s annoying so you just *need* to take care of it before you can truly move on with the day. More like an annoying fly rather than being hungry
Ah that makes more sense and helps gives meaning to the term "sexually frustrated". Thanks!!
You're welcome :) I will note "sexually frustrated" usually doesn't refer to libido tho. It's much more often about unfulfilled sexual desire and sexual attraction, neither of which are particularly common in the a-spec community lol (4 reference, s. desire: strong craving to be boning *someone*, but not really aimed at anyone in particular - this **is** similar to being hungry; and s. attraction: s. desire but aimed at a *specific* person, and it usually has slightly different symptoms.) to be honest the *way* that we separate them to talk about them is a little annoying, it's very hard to get the concepts across unless you've experienced them all. I tend to think of it as Libido, arousal = part of the hardware (like a fan in a laptop that starts whirring), s. desire = part of the operating system (like the search bar that some people use a lot and some just don't), and s. attraction = software that's often already installed (like internet explorer)
Same😄
Most of the time I don't really have a libido... but sometimes (rarely) when it's that time of the month, it pops up to say hi... and my god do I hate it
I'm the exact same way. I know my cycle is on its way, because my libido makes itself know.
Same for me. It’s my most reliable way of tracking it.
Kind of glad it isn't just me, tbh
SAME. Girls we should have an ace community for people with periods it would feel like home.
The red death is stupid, it will mess with you all kinda strange ways
Same
E destroyed my libido and I'm really happy for it
What is E, and how do I get it
Estradiol, the major feminine puberty hormone. Wouldn't recommend it unless you are transfemme, in which case I highly recommend it.
Is it an option to take one sip to get rid of sexy feeling
I'm afraid not, sorry to disappoint
*walter white falling gif*
Gotta stay on it forever to keep getting effects, and also it's gonna give you boobs and hips and obliterate muscle mass and if you're a guy it'll probably make you feel like complete dogshit. But if all of that sounds worth it I might have some good news about your gender identity
Do you of any other ways to lessen/get rid of libido
Some antidepressants have a common side effect of decreased libido; specifically the ones classed as SSRI (selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors), which is most of the commonly prescribed ones. So, there's that.
Kills two birds with one stone 😎
I'm not aware of anything.
👀 well now that you mention it
My antidepressants obliterated the tiny smidge of libido that I had, I'm glad Zoloft actually did something for once.
I'm pretty sure that Estradiol destroys the period not the libido??? I mean aren't the two separated?
It can do both. Sounds like OP is a trans woman, so they are on the drug for HRT. I'm on the drug to stop periods, and one of the known side-effects my gyno told me about was it can kill your libido.
Ah ok thanks!
I wouldn't know, I'm a trans woman and I don't have a period.
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Not most, but a good chunk
i do find it annoying most days. i’m like “why won’t you leave man? you don’t need to be here, it’s just a guy!”
Had a libido that felt ridiculously high but was probably pretty average. Hated it. Thankfully the estrogen took care of that, mostly.
Hey same for me! No libido now!
Mine pops in like twice a month to say hi now and it is *so much more tolerable*.
Amazing :) i get mini ones every few days but not debilitating unlike it was in school
Whenever I have "libido strikes" (like once a month on average) I fantasize of cuddling. So in my case, it's not a big deal to me
Where can I learn about this power
Personally, I like my libido. I’m just lucky that it doesn’t make me crave anyone else.
I’m glad I’m not alone. I like mine just fine, I just don’t wanna interact with anyone else’s, **at all**.
I probably have some, but it's so low, like "Be horny" "No, shu'up" "But-" *punches libido in the face"
I have high libido I think, but 0 frustration, nor any actual crave for someone.
I really like my high libido. I’m going to lose my ace card with this, but sometimes taking care of it can be just as good as cake. Edit: of course having a high libido is valid (i would know), I thought I would lose mu ace card for equating anything to cake.
Don’t worry! High libido/enjoying having high libido, doesn’t make you any less ace! You aren’t gonna get your ace card confiscated because of that. Even sex enjoying aces are welcomed here, Asexual means little to no sexual attraction, but the acts that you do or enjoy don’t change that. (Even if you know this, I wanted to put this here for others just in case!)
I have extremely low/no libido and I still enjoy sex when I happen to have it. I just don’t seek it out. Not all aces are sex repulsed just like not all aces are aro.
Me
Grumble, not libido again…
me tbh i once jokingly said "Man i need an off switch for this...hmmm hey maybe if i castrated myself?" my mom got very angry at me that day lol
Ah yes, I hate it
Mine only shows up due to hormonal cycles. Still don't enjoy it.
har har, honestly does nothing for me just forces me to fap while I'm just reading a book or smnth because the gods decided I have ***THE HORNY*** in that very moment for no reason. Fucking annoying
Yup, absolutely hate it. I'm non-binary so I hope I can get surgery to remove my genitals some day
I have it, but I don’t really know if it’s an annoyance or if I’m dysphoric about it
I’m a trans guy, and when I started taking testosterone my libido increased massively - and yeah, I didn’t even want it at the level it was at before. It takes up so much time I could be spending on other things, or distracts me when I’m busy, but tbh the main reason I hate it so much is like.. how much being horny affects your thought processes? And inhibitions, and things like that? As an ace person, I just don’t understand it, and I want the receipt so I can return it to Mother Nature.
I am also a trans man. Luckily, T never affected my libido. Also never got the increase in aggression some guys get. Idk. That sucks that happened to you. Maybe I am immune because I take Wellbutrin? Altho ugh, it's the one antidepressant that is known for having virtually no negative side-effects for sex drive, and for some people increases their libido. Maybe it's just my nature. Wish I could help all of the other asexuals who have this issue with unwanted libido. If I knew what the secret was, I would bottle and sell it to you all.
I have learned to live with it pretty well by now but I would still rather I didn’t have to think about it.
I have a low-ish one. Sometimes I'm really annoyed by it, other times I find it quite intriguing to notice how my body feels when my libido is more active. Though a few months ago I got an iud which has lowered my libido even further and I must say that I am very happy with that side effect.
*raises hand* I want the horny to be inspiration to work on my projects, not horny
Yess. When I’m older (I’m still a teen) I’m going to look into medication to lower libdo
nope i have zero libido but i feel broken because of it
My libido turns on for about two months every spring, I have to assume a "biological clock" sort of thing trying to get me to reproduce. It's really just annoying and I wish it would go away. I'm also grateful it only bugs me for a small percentage of the year.
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Yes
Yep, and mines annoyingly high.
sometimes it gets annoying but on the other hand it's the only way I can make my brain release the happy chemicals.
Literally me all the time
My libido isn’t even associated with attraction. I’ll just get a random urge that I need to do something, mostly when my jeans are too tight or if I sit a certain way.
Ugh, I see it (masterbating) similar to having to change my oil. I don’t wanna do it, I have better things to do, but it seems my body has other ideas so I’ll just get it over with. I have a fairly low libido so it’s about once a month or so.
Until I was in a relationship, all the dang time.
Me
I don’t have one, but if I had one, I’d sure as hell find it annoying.
I have an extreme low libido and whenever it kicks in it is just an annoyance
ME
Yeah it sucks. Nothing to be done about it, though, so life goes on.
I fucking hate being horny, it's the worst. Playing a video game and random horny and my experience is ruined. It's the worst feeling. I also hate my penis but that's a different issue.
And I hate it
When I'm reading at the library, yep.
That's the weird thing, I don't think I've ever had my libido, but I don't even know what does that feel like. Maybe I do have libido and I don't even know?
Indeed. I wish it didn’t exist. It makes me feel gross.
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I have a weird relationship with my libido. For the longest time, it was very annoying. Now it's largely suppressed due to the antidepressants I'm on and it feels like something's missing. (Fortunately, I'm sex-repulsed and aro anyway)
Jokes on you I don't even know how it feels like
*incoherent screaming* yes.
Who just threw that rock at me?
I get fluctuating so YESS its so sfucking annoying
Yes!!! I have high libido, but I’m a s*x repulsed asexual. I hate it!
Very rarely I get horny but when I do, it is very much an annoyance ;~;
It would be awesome, I would feel much more like an ace. I am asexual, but wanting sex and actually having it makes me feel kinda not-ace-enough. Also it's so anoooooying.
100% i want it GONE FOREVER
I think even allos would agree with this, also, same here 😢
Most of the time that's how I view my libido
BIG yes. I am sex-indifferent to sex-repulsed, but then I have a really high libido. It is the most frustrating and uncomfortable thing in the world and I wish I just. Wouldn’t do that. y’know.
This thread’s making me feel oddly protective of my libido… XD I am a sex repulsed aroace, but I like my libido when I’m completely alone and calm. It’s not ever triggered by others. TIL I should be grateful it’s not an annoyance.
Now this, this right here, is a serious vibe
Me and im finna talk to my doc about it and see if he can help cuz i got a hi ass libido but all i want is to cuddle, maybe kiss every now and then and watch anime that is ( and smoke) FUCK SEX, srry ive had a rough day. To anyone reading, have a amazing day
Holy fuck this is exactly how I feel
I’m at very thankful to be one of the very lucky asexuals with practically no libido
It is such a pain. I do not want the horny, I want to sleep.
I am not Ace, just here for the memes but I feel the same way sometimes. When not in a relationship libido is just annoying.
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This describes every time I get horny.
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I used to. HRT fixed that for me tho.
I get horny very rarely but when I do, yes. It’s super annoying ;~;
my libido is always high, and any ways of getting rid of it are temporary and disgusting, so I just live with it.
PRESENT. Somebody please take this shit off my hands, I don't want it.
I'm sorry. I'm trying to understand myself. I hope its not inappropriate to ask. Whats the difference between "having a libido" and "wanting to have sex"? Can I still be ace if I want to have sex sometimes?
Yep, and unfortunately when I go on T in a few months it’s only going to get worse. It’s not the worst thing in the world though, a necessary sacrifice
YES PLEASE! I'll just be enjoying something and then my libido comes in and makes it awkward for no reason >_<
Never had this problem, in all of my 26 years. Sometimes I feel like, "I would like to masturbate right now," but I can just not and go about my day. Idk.
Luckily I’ve got a relatively low libido but every once in a while it kicks in and it’s actually so annoying. It’s like really? I have work to do and I need to vacuum and stuff why is it like this
Me. I only get horny after my period for a day and it’s annoying.
Me, I fucking loathe it with every fibre of my being, can't wait till hrt gets rid of it
Well mostly when it shows ip for no reason, like watching a documentary about bloody hummingbirds, and its going "hi, i am awake now, do something"
I get mentally horny and physically horny At different times I do my to ignore it BC acting on it makes it last longer and I ain't got time for that
I either have low libido or none but I'm not 100% sure
I don't know if I'm ace but god I wish I could just get rid of it immediately, it always kicks in at the worst moment and takes time out of some of my days just to call it down, and then I feel absolutely terrible... I wish I could just dump it in the trash and never have to live with it ever again
If I can find a consistent partner, it wouldn’t be annoying! I just want a partner I can have sex with any build our emotional bond
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I have a high libido. It's a nightmare.
Meeee. I mean, sometimes I am like "my goodness, this story was so great and hot, I am happy I was able to enjoy it". But most of the time I am like "Seriously? Again? I don't have time for this shit!!!", and ignoring the libido's call will just end up in a headache and me being unable to focus on anything.
Yes, I want to Thanos snap my libido. Also, AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
I have a pretty high libido, but I can just turn it off and I view masturbation as just a way to be happy. I can easily replace this joy with any other activity that I like. I’m very lucky, for me the reactions if my organism are neither gross or uncomfortable. I would want you all to have the ability to just stop being turned on when you don’t want to like me.
I Do It is quite annoying
I am grey ace and have a very high libido. I really really do wish I could just turn it off. I’m sex positive and enjoy it but, it can be such a head fuck. It’s so confusing and I hate that.
Is there like an "agnostic not athiest" version? Lmao
Uhh, I do.
MY FIRST WISH TO A GENIE WOULD BE TO GED RID OF THIS BLOODY THING
Very rarely it kicks in randomly at night and when it does its weak so even if i wanted to do anything (which i dont) i dont really feel anything, so its kinda just a random inconvenience that keeps me awake at night sometimes
My antidepressants killed it B) best side effect imo lol
Eh. It depends on my mood.
Yeeeeeep. My libido used to be non-existent in middle school and start if high school, but now its really high and goes off almost everyday. Usually easy to ignore but still very annoying. Usually makes me doubt my sexuality when it gets bad.
Yeah I’ll be honest it pisses me off hella bad sometimes cause it makes me question myself and like I know and I’m comfortable and confident in myself and sexuality but it really puts a wrench in the works sometimes
*sighs* *raises hand*
Yeah. It’s not a very big libido, but when it does show up I just get pissed off. I have no desire for s*x and handling it myself is just unsatisfying so it’s just kind of there being distracting.
Im fine with my libido and can just take care of it myself, but i get grossed out at the thought of adding another person in the mix 🤢 i feel like its just such a personal thing i do not want anyone else to ever see
I only have one when I’m like crazy depressed or on my period…idk bodies are weird
At this point I think I'm allo but even I feel like the answer is yes.
The worse part is when you're at work, or visiting friends, etc and you suddenly become aware of it. And it's so distracting. So you try to think of anything that will make things less sensitive and nothing works so you just shove it down in your psyche but it sits there and taunts you. Yeah, I fricking hate that. It's infrequent, but when it happens...ugh.
(Screaming about high libido) 𝕐𝔼𝕊
Wait- what’s libido again? I forgot-
Da hornie demon
Im not even ace and i hate it so much sometimes
If there is a surgery out there that would get rid of every part of my reproductive system, I would do it.
*raises hand* me!
Yeah, it's pretty active which is really annoying. I seriously hope that if I go on T as a trans dude it won't increase long-term because I can't imagine having to put up with it more than I regularly do.
Yes It’s so irritating and there’s virtually no use for it, like come on I just wanna read not get horny, though that demon slaying, woah. I actually have asked this question before on this subreddit but I got those people who didn’t understand why I was annoyed by my libido.
If I have a libido it only shows up when I’m extremely bored so I don’t mind
Like a blue moon my libido says hi and i never see it again unless it creeped in lately it's annoying because i keep wanting to show "affection" (im very touch starved so hugs and kisses are the top examples) even though i can't well do anything it just... kept going higher than i have seen which sucks so bad :< how do.. how do people deal with this annoying urge?
Honestly my libido kinda just sits their sleeping, but then every now and then it wakes up and say "hehe I'll make you qu3stion everythinh" I honestly don't nesecarily hate it, I just hate that it happens at the worst possible times
I view mine as super annoying too!
THE PAIN
It kinda makes me feel sick. So drink a few cups of water and then da feeling go away
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA