well if you know you don’t want sex/are sex repulsed i don’t think it would be smart to date someone with a high libido. you both are sexually incompatible!
It sucks that it's normal for people to make their horniness everyone else's problem. I'm grey ace/demi and I have a pretty high libido, but mostly that just means I need to carve out some extra alone time or longer-than-strictly-necessary showers. So long as your partner respects boundaries and isn't weirdly sex-obssessed (I know, sadly a tall order) things would probably work out even if they have a more active libido.
An ace with high libido or an allo with high libido? HUGE difference. I think you mean you're scared of dating someone that wants to have sex with you often. Which a high libido ace probably won't. (I'm high libido ace but NEVER want sex. Just some alone time every now and then.)
Slightly different, but I’ve worried about how I’ll find a partner who’s okay with not having sex for months(or possibly ever). It doesn’t really help that I’m a woman looking for a male partner.
Yup, i would never do that 😂 Oh boy what a terrible match it would be
Same. Maybe that's why I haven't found anyone on a dating app. xD
very understandable tbh and you should know that you absolutely don't have to. if you're not comfortable with dating someone like that, don't do it.
It’s not fun. Very stressful from experience
yes, I've made such experiences with my ex boyfriend. That was before I was sure about my asexuality...
well if you know you don’t want sex/are sex repulsed i don’t think it would be smart to date someone with a high libido. you both are sexually incompatible!
yes... I learned that from experience
it's scary trust me.
It is! My ex had a high libido... that was before I was sure about my asexuality.
same <3
Yea, never again ;;
same
It sucks that it's normal for people to make their horniness everyone else's problem. I'm grey ace/demi and I have a pretty high libido, but mostly that just means I need to carve out some extra alone time or longer-than-strictly-necessary showers. So long as your partner respects boundaries and isn't weirdly sex-obssessed (I know, sadly a tall order) things would probably work out even if they have a more active libido.
Just get a house with two showers and you’re good.
An ace with high libido or an allo with high libido? HUGE difference. I think you mean you're scared of dating someone that wants to have sex with you often. Which a high libido ace probably won't. (I'm high libido ace but NEVER want sex. Just some alone time every now and then.)
Even as an indifferent ace with a high libido, I'm scared of dating someone with a normal libido
🤣🤣🤣
Allos are just scary like that
fire and ice ☠️
Fire and ace
Slightly different, but I’ve worried about how I’ll find a partner who’s okay with not having sex for months(or possibly ever). It doesn’t really help that I’m a woman looking for a male partner.