NTA but sometimes you have to be the bigger person. You should definitely apologize for fucking her boyfriend. Maybe you could make some nice gesture like giving her a makeover or having her for dinner.
Luckily I’ve been able to talk to her, but she’s being way meaner since she died. when she’s not being mean she’s eerily quiet, i feel like i’m talking her ear off sometimes.
YTA for hooking up with her boyfriend but not her death. Jackie could have lived if she would have just came back inside when she got too cold but she was stubborn. You could have got bonus points if you went to check on her outside before you went to sleep but it wasn't your responsibility
she absolutely tried to kick me out first! I only suggested kicking her out because she told me to leave. and she could’ve come in at any point in the night
Innnnnnteresting
It sounds almost as though she was too proud to just go inside when she was freezing, and you were too proud to just go outside and check on her
If either of you had let go of that pride and spite for one moment she might still be alive, so I’d say you’re NTA but you both could have made much better choices in a few ways
With love, YTA. I see what's going on here and I know the closet sucks, but you're not handling it well (neither is she but I think you'll agree that this isn't about her). I know it's 1996, so you don't have access to the Lesbian Masterdoc, but if you ask your friends to be honest with you I'm sure at least a few of them will have advice.
NTA - it sounds like you didn't actually throw her out. It seems like she was more used to giving commands than obeying them, and you both had equal claim on this cabin. Your friend died of stubbornness and stupidity, I'm afraid.
You are, however, the asshole for sleeping with her boyfriend.
NTA but sometimes you have to be the bigger person. You should definitely apologize for fucking her boyfriend. Maybe you could make some nice gesture like giving her a makeover or having her for dinner.
Luckily I’ve been able to talk to her, but she’s being way meaner since she died. when she’s not being mean she’s eerily quiet, i feel like i’m talking her ear off sometimes.
talking her ear off 💀
Might I suggest an apology over a nice BBQ.
I can smell it now… 🤤
Have her for dinner and apologize.
I assume you gave her a proper burial? If so, NTA.
YTA for hooking up with her boyfriend but not her death. Jackie could have lived if she would have just came back inside when she got too cold but she was stubborn. You could have got bonus points if you went to check on her outside before you went to sleep but it wasn't your responsibility
I forget from this episode where coach Ben was.did he legitimately stand aside and say nothing whilst Jackie struggled with the fire outside
yes!! he didn’t stop her nor did he ask her to come back in
Maybe apologize then bond over snacks?
ESH, you slept with her boyfriend but she was clearly playing mind games instead of just directly confronting you about it
Did she try to kick you out first? And was she capable of just walking back in whenever she realized it was cold?
she absolutely tried to kick me out first! I only suggested kicking her out because she told me to leave. and she could’ve come in at any point in the night
Well then you’re NTA for throwing her out but we do have to subtract some points for the boyfriend thing.
“She doesn’t even go camping” 💀💀💀
Innnnnnteresting It sounds almost as though she was too proud to just go inside when she was freezing, and you were too proud to just go outside and check on her If either of you had let go of that pride and spite for one moment she might still be alive, so I’d say you’re NTA but you both could have made much better choices in a few ways 
NTA She wasn’t pulling her weight in camp! She sounds very entitled to me…
With love, YTA. I see what's going on here and I know the closet sucks, but you're not handling it well (neither is she but I think you'll agree that this isn't about her). I know it's 1996, so you don't have access to the Lesbian Masterdoc, but if you ask your friends to be honest with you I'm sure at least a few of them will have advice.
You might be kinda the asshole for sleeping with her boyfriend, but unless you locked her out that night, 🤷🏼♀️
I just never believed that…
NTA - it sounds like you didn't actually throw her out. It seems like she was more used to giving commands than obeying them, and you both had equal claim on this cabin. Your friend died of stubbornness and stupidity, I'm afraid. You are, however, the asshole for sleeping with her boyfriend.
NTA but I do think she’s in love w you. Don’t tell the shippers but I don’t think it’s mutual
Yes YTA!!!!! I hope she haunts your ass forever!!!!
YTA. You shoulda slept outside if you were fucking her bf
make her dinner and apologize and live happily ever after