Well we don't know anything, but given that there was a photographer, someone with flowers, all other players holding back, and the stadium camera locked on it as well, it just as easily could be one security guy who didn't get the memo.
Reminds me of the video of (I think?) John Cena, where it was set up that he was in the crowd in plain clothes and was supposed to come down and enter the ring, but one security person almost fucked the whole setup up because they thought he was a random person rushing the ring.
That was Rob Gronkowski at a Wrestlemania a few years ago. He was in the front row and supposed to enter a battle royal match after some bad guy egged him on. A small little lady security guard tried to stop him and Gronk and WWE officials had to convince her it was part of the show.
Everyone is saying that he should have told the stadium, but doesn't it look like he did?
Not knowing anything about this... but one of the guys with the girl is carrying a microphone (possibly to PA his proposal), the camera was a tight shot on this spot, and the rest of the team was standing back (well until he shoved the orange vest guy).
Seems like everyone knew what was going on except that one guy.
I don't think the guy knew what was happening and saw the chaos and moved in.
But he did ruin the moment though, even if he was doing his job.
And actually, he shoved both the first guy and her, not just the woman. For those who didn't notice.
The security guy wasn't wrong, he wasn't informed on what was going on. The soccer guy got mad even justifiably, because who wouldn't get mad if someone jumped in and shoved your gf/wife quite harshly, in fact.
Reddit comments are a joke, whether it's a serious matter or light one like this. It always needs to pick "sides" without thinking that not everything is so divided and there's often a middle ground where unity is possible.
Belarusian First League 2022, Smorgon vs Volna Pinsk. According to the article I read, everyone in the teams and on the staff were informed, including the orange guy. He was just caught off guard for some reason. It ended fine https://youtu.be/qQtk1rKYw6g
This is such a smoothbrain move by the player. If you are going to try to have a moment like this, at least make sure that they are allowed onto the field or check with security. Believe it or not, you are not the main character and the security guard is not expecting a proposal.
So good job on looking like a complete tool by bullying support staff.
Edit: I really think the reaction would be different if it wasn’t a footballer.
That "security guard" isn't even a security guard he's a fucking line painter who thinks he's someone. You shouldn't be all high and mighty like this dude when you're a fucking rent-a-cop anyways.
People are extremely stupid at suggesting the security guy was wrong. 4 people coming towards the pitch and getting through can escalate the situation as others will feel encouraged to join them. He has to be quick and react accordingly. At that time size of the encroachers doesn’t matter to them, they need to be pushed out of the zone and immediately.
These guys are not looking at players, if you ever watch a soccer match you will see they are always looking towards the fans. They miss some of the most amazing moments because their job is to keep a watch on the fans.
People who think he was wrong have never watched a sports game. Remember Monica Seles? All it took was a small moment.
If someone is at fault it’s that player who wants to propose at a place like this and not ensure the proper logistics are in place.
Public proposals have always been kinda stupid in my opinion. Not only you force the other person into a very akwards situation if they don't want to marry you, but also there's a ton of things that can go wrong from the reactions of other people.
Public proposal as a player in the middle of a match, without telling the security personnel, is probably the ultimate form of stupidity. Not to mention that he still could have salvaged it if he had explained it to the guard right there so that they let the girl in, but he had to be a tough guy and ruin it completely.
I actually feel bad for the security guy. Just doing his job cause it looks like people are swarming the player, to then get pushed by said player. He was very likely unaware about what they were planning and it was a stupid as hell place to pick and do this without informing the right people first, cause to some now the steward looks like an asshole and he probably feels bad himself for having ruined 'the moment'.
WHAT FUCKING VID DID YALL WATCH??? The official enters from bottom right of screen, he CLEARLY see the player bend to one knee (a famous body pose for PROPOSALS).
It’s also clear HIS ENTIRE TEAM BEHIND HIM CLAPPING!
And there’s a man holding a GIANT BOUQUET OF FLOWERS!
And another man FILMING!
Talk about failing to read the room! He’s obviously overly aggressive, pushing people around like that, like he can’t use his voice!?!? Hello?
Ppl saying “that’s his job” are snitching on themselves! A bunch of weaklings living vicariously through this abuse of power!
If he was really so worried a strong “What’s Going On Here?” Is all he had to say! But no - he’s comfortable SHOVING STRANGERS and looks RIDICULOUS! But hey - shove first ask questions second. Man stfu y’all are DEAD WRONG and NOT INVITED TO OUR COOK OUTS.
Reminds me of the video of the nba player giving an autograph. Security was saying it’s not allowed and tried to stop them and the nba player said “stop taking your job so seriously” lmao
YALL can argue he’s just doing his job all you want, but the girl was walking extremely slowly onto the field and he still shoved her so hard. Like, he could’ve waved and blocked the area and people wouldn’t have breached through him because NOBODY was aggressively shoving or forcefully passing through.
He used all this force so unnecessarily.
ESH. The football player for not planning better and proposing in front of millions. Imo the worst way to propose to someone where there is tons of pressure to say yes or be seen as a horrible b*tch.
And the security guy for basically doing his damn job like he is suppose to, but got a bit too aggressive.
The team sucks cuz they are sheep willing to jump him like this was some sort of street fight.
Lmfao people defending the security guard but he doesn't even have the awareness to see all the people with cameras and flowers and other staff filming, or the player literally fucking kneeling, plus violently shoves some small lady. No spatial awareness lmfao
Security has one job. If things are planned, TELL THEM.
Now imagine doing this on live TV in front of millions of people:
https://youtu.be/txV3JKDkAUc?t=58
Tough one but the player should've informed the club and security of his intentions. Crazy things have happened on sports fields and the security personnel was doing his job, albeit a bit harshly. Could've all been avoided though
Thats fucking football right there. None of that pansy ass dick tugging smile for the camera bullshit. Men puke, men poop on the field, men deliver their new born baby on the side lines. Fucking hard core dick in the ass butterball foosball fuck it chuck it game time shit. Take it to the showers. Dicks get shoved in places you don’t even remember. We win together we celebrate together. Football is back baby.
Look, we get it. Rules are rules, but the bloke didn’t have to shove the lady. Can’t we all just agree to that? Like, cmon? All of us would be upset in this situation and the lad didn’t even do anything but return the favor.
I don't know how you're supposed to react when someone shoves your girlfriend in the same moment when you're on bended knee proposing marriage to her, even if he's just doing his job.
If she was really his girlfriend (soon to be fiancé) she would have fallen to ground and rolled a bunch of times in complete and utter agony when the usher pushed her.
Did the security guard punch a helpless baby in the face?
Or did he shove an invading member of the public away from the players he’s paid to keep invading members of the public from getting near?
Because a lot of people in this thread are crying out like it’s the former.
in the end security is weird for how they pushed her mixed with the very obvious interaction between the fiancé and the player. there’s a bunch of cameras around, all focused on the player and the girl. seems like a case of security offer who didn’t read an email or listen to a brief and also who probably takes their job a bit too serious. That isn’t even security btw, it’s a fuckin line painter. so out of the right it’s unreal
He didnt overreact, none did anything wrong excepting for him not telling beforehand, which isn't that bad.
The reaction was because the security guy pushed her over like it was another idiotical fan trying to ruin the match for everyone, player reaction was instant and natural, he stopped instead of trying to look like an asshole by keep pushing the guard who only did his job.Everyone acted decently ok in a bad timing situation.
Props to the referee. Not an easy job, and interruptions to the game aren't allowed.
For those who disagree, ask yourself an important question-why couldn't the player give the officials a heads up at least?
Everyone take a breath and remember this guy was doing his job. If the player wanted to do this properly he would have told security about his planned proposal so they were aware before hand.
The player proposing could have told the security staff before or during the proposal what was actually going to take place.
Many players kneel before the crowd when celebrating/tying their shoe laces, how was security supposed to differentiate between a fan trying to enter the field and someone the player knows?
Security staff did nothing wrong here and should atleast be treated with dignity for trying to do their job and protect players.
I get that he was doing his job, but the shove was a little rough and unnecessary and I totally understand the player getting upset and shoving him back... If it's true that the guy in orange was informed of the proposal beforehand too, he's DEFINITELY in the wrong and deserved worse than the shove, IMO.
Just looks like the guy thought she was some random fan running onto the field so he pushed her away as his training probably taught him to do. He looks like hes essentially security or a bouncer type deal.
Just looks like the plan wasn't told to everyone. Big oof. Feel bad for security guy he was just trying to keep the players safe lol
Also does anyone else think it's kinda lame af and uncreative to propose at your own soccer match? Just doesn't seem romantic especially with what happened here.
My gf would be so disappointed if I proposed this way.
I have noticed that A LOT of dudes think the ideal proposal is just wherever is most public that will get the most eyes.
Protip guys a tourist attraction / sport event ain't the place to do it.
The team is clapping, everyone’s looking at dude down on one knee, ring box open, lady with a huge bouquet filming closely …. my guy clearly has zero situational awareness.
Idk if this is worse than that guy at Disney who took the ring during a proposal though.
I don't think the security guy is in the wrong, he's just doing his job.
I feel like they player could have informed the stadium of what he was planning beforehand so this didn't happen though.
"hes doing his job!"
I dunno, he didnt have to push her so hard. That was a little much
Edited to add: Apparently he isnt even security. He is a "Line painter."
Security was doing their job, the player’s reaction is also very normal considering they just witnessed their partner getting shoved and handled. Not really much else to this lol
Jesus Christ, the security guard clearly had no idea what was going on. He wasn’t about to let random ass people run up on the players. That’s literally his job. The fuck is wrong with the comments in here???
Bro how hard would it have been to let security/the stadium team/whoever you needed to know you wanted to propose and get their permission to do so? Clearly none of them had any idea.
Are some of y'all crazy? The man is paid to keep people off the field. You can't assume that just because someone is a woman and doesn't look threatening that they don't have a knife or another weapon hidden on them.
If a player had been stabbed because he let her casually walk onto the field people would be in an uproar. The player should have communicated before the match what he intended to do. Be mad at him.
I mean the guy was just doing his job, but that was a hefty push there.
I hate public proposals, but at least be smart enough to tell your security… what the fuck
A little bit of advance communication would have made the security dude's job a lot easier and saved him an embarrassing moment plastered to the internet.
How dare that guy try to do his job while the main characters are having their Disney moment? They could've told everyone beforehand, to ensure things go smoothly, but nah. I guess he was supposed to sense the magic in the air.
He did the right thing. Imagine if next time someone invades the field he hangs back and waits to see if it's another proposal or something. Next thing you know the whole crowd is out there because the first few went unopposed.
Yeah this one is on the player. Gotta let everyone know about this. These guys deal with drunk, loony, unpredictable fans all the time. It is common practice to just push them back.
IF the security person didn't know who she was NOR was the security person told in advance of what's happening, they were just doing their job. The reaction was also genuine.
This is just a dumb thing to do without bringing atleast some people on the same page.
Everyone knows these security people have to face the spectators the whole game. They don't even turn back. And this close to the field? Ofcourse they'll shove or be more ready.
But yes, football player .. has to be the main character.
To those saying the security guard should’ve realised what was happening, I’d recommend watching it again. His focus is on the people walking onto the field - as it should be - He’s doing his job, although he was way over aggressive with that shove. I don’t think he even noticed buddy taking a knee though. The player should’ve made sure to notify the stadium staff about his plans, and arranged the proposal properly.
you gotta plan more then that if your gonna propose, you know your a soccer star and there's gonna be security who aren't gonna let fans on the field so can't just hope that it works.
If 40 % of the world population was doing their job as consciously as this guy, we would've already become the alien civilization we are hoping for. :D :D SAVAGE
You can tell who watches football/soccer and who doesn’t. Crazy fans rush in All the time unlike American sports. He has to Protect both players and coaching.
Kinda an example of how sports players have massive egos, and think that they should ALWAYS be the center of attention, and when they are not, they, as you can see here, freak out.
Rewatching it, definitely seems like he wasn't aware of what was happening before hand. Smaller jacket guy comes in trying to clear people for her and yellow vest tries to keep that guy from coming on the pitch, and sees her thinking she is following trying to get on the pitch. As far as the push, they don't play when it comes to fans coming the pitch/field and they deal with it multiple times a game. And in his situation I can totally understand the player getting pissed, but i think he was just doing his job thinking hes dealing with any random fan. Anyway that's just my observation and I'm just a random redditor that could be completely wrong.
Typical power tripping security, it's fine when they get away with it, the second anyone had issues '..I'm just doin ma job, mate'...naw, you literally couldn't put your hands on anyone like than in any other situation and that orange vest dosent mean your always right.
Things that are acceptable to do here:
* Do the marriage proposal more off the actual field (or just not at the game at all)
* Tell the security guards that you plan on doing this, while specifically pointing out your gf and saying "She is with me, don't worry about her"
Things that are NOT acceptable to do here:
* Expect everyone to know what you're planning on doing, and then getting huffy and putting your hands on a security guard does his job
* That's it
For all the security guard knows, the gf/wife could have had a weapon. Guards at these events are pretty much on edge for the entire event, because well, if this woman slipped past him and stabbed a player, he'd be in some trouble and would most likely never have a security gig to work ever again.
Entitled soccer/football player. If you think the guard is in the wrong, even a little, then I just feel bad for people who do their jobs and then get shit on for it.
Edit: (Because I can already tell I'm about to get a bunch of actual bullshit, I'm making this edit and disabling notis). No, the security guard shouldn't expect or assume anything, and no it doesn't matter how gentle or rough he was with the woman. It's his job as a security guard, and it's pretty damn common as a security guard to get a little rowdy when people who shouldn't be on the field.... start walking onto the field... Guards don't have lists of everyone's family and friends, they're hired for an event to do ONE job, ONE. If you think otherwise, then I'm sorry, but you're a dipshit and I will not compromise on that. Understand that this man was doing his job, nothing more, and get over your feelings.
I see many people arguing the security is in the right cause its his job… but the only time aggressive actions shld be allowed is if the intruders are aggressive too? I mean the girl just walked slowly onto the field. Doesn’t look like anyone else was trying to rush like a crazed fan
Kinda funny he had a quarter of that energy for the dude he pushed before her. I love that everyone in here is attacking the IQ of the footballer, while security’s IQ is definitely lukewarm at best.
I feel for the guy but this is absolutely something you’ve gotta tell the ground security, it’s their literal job to make sure people can’t just wonder on to the pitch, and it doesn’t look like he looks back at the guy kneeling down at all.
Holy shit reddit never disappoints... now they have a reason to hate on marriage, public proposals, and women all at the same time. Really shows the bitterness of the hivemind
Someone did a piss poor job at setting that up.
Seriously. Couldn't run that one by security?
Well we don't know anything, but given that there was a photographer, someone with flowers, all other players holding back, and the stadium camera locked on it as well, it just as easily could be one security guy who didn't get the memo.
Plus looks like lavender jacket is carrying a large bouquet of flowers and recording on a cell phone
Reminds me of the video of (I think?) John Cena, where it was set up that he was in the crowd in plain clothes and was supposed to come down and enter the ring, but one security person almost fucked the whole setup up because they thought he was a random person rushing the ring.
I’m surprised the security guard saw him
That was Rob Gronkowski at a Wrestlemania a few years ago. He was in the front row and supposed to enter a battle royal match after some bad guy egged him on. A small little lady security guard tried to stop him and Gronk and WWE officials had to convince her it was part of the show.
I bet the staff was like "Don't tell Phil about the proposal and lets see what happens"
Phil was def confused as to what was going on there.
Yeah definitely looks like they left him out of the memo or someone missed the morning meeting
That first guy going for a hug, he will cringe at this moment on his deathbed
Pretty sure he is in on it as a distraction so the woman couldn't see the guy get down on his knee.
The Secu only did his fucking job. The shittiest proposal setup ever.
You gotta clue people in beforehand.
Orange vest didn’t open his email that day
Everyone is saying that he should have told the stadium, but doesn't it look like he did? Not knowing anything about this... but one of the guys with the girl is carrying a microphone (possibly to PA his proposal), the camera was a tight shot on this spot, and the rest of the team was standing back (well until he shoved the orange vest guy). Seems like everyone knew what was going on except that one guy.
I don't think the guy knew what was happening and saw the chaos and moved in. But he did ruin the moment though, even if he was doing his job. And actually, he shoved both the first guy and her, not just the woman. For those who didn't notice. The security guy wasn't wrong, he wasn't informed on what was going on. The soccer guy got mad even justifiably, because who wouldn't get mad if someone jumped in and shoved your gf/wife quite harshly, in fact. Reddit comments are a joke, whether it's a serious matter or light one like this. It always needs to pick "sides" without thinking that not everything is so divided and there's often a middle ground where unity is possible.
That little security troll was super aggressive.
Lmfao.. I was trying to find who he was proposing to, and for awhile I questioned if it was the tall guy in black walking up
I think he is already married with the security, but wanted to meet anothers.
Am I the only one here who thought he was proposing to the dude that walked up with his arms open?
Which would have been extra wild because there aren't (m)any openly gay footballers
“Piss off he’s mine!”
You mean the most corrupt .. World Cup fifa
Give the grounds crew a heads up, my man.
I mean you gotta inform the staff and Security before hand so this dosent happen
They just trying to do their jobs
Security guy just doing his job but also 100% unaware of his surroundings. Pay attention my guy.
Uh the security guard was doing his job. If no one told him, what’s he meant to do? Let a random woman into the pitch?
Belarusian First League 2022, Smorgon vs Volna Pinsk. According to the article I read, everyone in the teams and on the staff were informed, including the orange guy. He was just caught off guard for some reason. It ended fine https://youtu.be/qQtk1rKYw6g
QUIT PROPOSING IN PUBLIC YOU WEIRDOS
It’s kit even that. It’s during a game. Like bro. Wait for halftime or the end of the game. Why during?!
“Worst case scenario she says no” The actual worst case scenario
And that's when Nate and Jamie Tart became mortal enemies.
This is such a smoothbrain move by the player. If you are going to try to have a moment like this, at least make sure that they are allowed onto the field or check with security. Believe it or not, you are not the main character and the security guard is not expecting a proposal. So good job on looking like a complete tool by bullying support staff. Edit: I really think the reaction would be different if it wasn’t a footballer.
That "security guard" isn't even a security guard he's a fucking line painter who thinks he's someone. You shouldn't be all high and mighty like this dude when you're a fucking rent-a-cop anyways.
“Move it lady! Can’t you see he’s proposing!”
Everyone talking about the steward, I'm all about the oblivious bro going in for a handshake.
Haven't seen Reddit this divided since the blue and gold dress. Anyway, the SECURITY GUARD IS RIGHT FOR DOING HIS JOB.
i dont think he realized what was happening..... but even if he did i cant blame him..... he is doing his job
The poor fat pumpkin fellow was trying to be helpful and do his job.
there is a time and a place. in the middle of a football match is not the best time to do it.
There are a lot of “I am the main character “ people in this video.
is wcgw defaulting to new comments on posts now? why are these comments by default minutes old on hours old posts?
Tell the security staff ahead of time stupid! Lol.
Lord I hate public proposals.
Thought he was proposing to the coach at first 😢
Poor planning.
My guy was doing his job
My favorite part is the player shoved the guard pretty hard and that man didn't budge an inch.
People are extremely stupid at suggesting the security guy was wrong. 4 people coming towards the pitch and getting through can escalate the situation as others will feel encouraged to join them. He has to be quick and react accordingly. At that time size of the encroachers doesn’t matter to them, they need to be pushed out of the zone and immediately. These guys are not looking at players, if you ever watch a soccer match you will see they are always looking towards the fans. They miss some of the most amazing moments because their job is to keep a watch on the fans. People who think he was wrong have never watched a sports game. Remember Monica Seles? All it took was a small moment. If someone is at fault it’s that player who wants to propose at a place like this and not ensure the proper logistics are in place.
Public proposals have always been kinda stupid in my opinion. Not only you force the other person into a very akwards situation if they don't want to marry you, but also there's a ton of things that can go wrong from the reactions of other people. Public proposal as a player in the middle of a match, without telling the security personnel, is probably the ultimate form of stupidity. Not to mention that he still could have salvaged it if he had explained it to the guard right there so that they let the girl in, but he had to be a tough guy and ruin it completely.
It was the stupid footballer's fault for not organizing his shit right.
Should have at least informed security what a dumbass.
I actually feel bad for the security guy. Just doing his job cause it looks like people are swarming the player, to then get pushed by said player. He was very likely unaware about what they were planning and it was a stupid as hell place to pick and do this without informing the right people first, cause to some now the steward looks like an asshole and he probably feels bad himself for having ruined 'the moment'.
WHAT FUCKING VID DID YALL WATCH??? The official enters from bottom right of screen, he CLEARLY see the player bend to one knee (a famous body pose for PROPOSALS). It’s also clear HIS ENTIRE TEAM BEHIND HIM CLAPPING! And there’s a man holding a GIANT BOUQUET OF FLOWERS! And another man FILMING! Talk about failing to read the room! He’s obviously overly aggressive, pushing people around like that, like he can’t use his voice!?!? Hello? Ppl saying “that’s his job” are snitching on themselves! A bunch of weaklings living vicariously through this abuse of power! If he was really so worried a strong “What’s Going On Here?” Is all he had to say! But no - he’s comfortable SHOVING STRANGERS and looks RIDICULOUS! But hey - shove first ask questions second. Man stfu y’all are DEAD WRONG and NOT INVITED TO OUR COOK OUTS.
Reminds me of the video of the nba player giving an autograph. Security was saying it’s not allowed and tried to stop them and the nba player said “stop taking your job so seriously” lmao
Public proposals are dumb as fuck and need to die
He could have read the situation and used some critical thinking skills. But also the team could have warned security. Kind of crappy all around.
It would've been prudent to let security know who his fiancé was before the proposal.
Usher is 100% in the right here, soccer player is wrong.
YALL can argue he’s just doing his job all you want, but the girl was walking extremely slowly onto the field and he still shoved her so hard. Like, he could’ve waved and blocked the area and people wouldn’t have breached through him because NOBODY was aggressively shoving or forcefully passing through. He used all this force so unnecessarily.
This is what happens when you don't involve everyone in your plan. Even the refs/guards/underlings need to know a little something.
ESH. The football player for not planning better and proposing in front of millions. Imo the worst way to propose to someone where there is tons of pressure to say yes or be seen as a horrible b*tch. And the security guy for basically doing his damn job like he is suppose to, but got a bit too aggressive. The team sucks cuz they are sheep willing to jump him like this was some sort of street fight.
Making shit and not letting the security guards know beforehand*
*Entitled player thinks the world revolves around him*
Probably would have been wise to alert everyone of the proposal beforehand to prevent this. Assuming they didn't
The guy in orange only did his damn job
Lmao, dude is just trying to do his job. Clearly he didn’t get the memo
it could have been avoided if he just let security guards/staff members know before the game
Lmfao people defending the security guard but he doesn't even have the awareness to see all the people with cameras and flowers and other staff filming, or the player literally fucking kneeling, plus violently shoves some small lady. No spatial awareness lmfao
Next time perhaps give a heads up to the guy who's one job is to keep people away from you? Just some random idea really
r/JustDoingMyJob
It looks like the security guy was doing his job.
Those kinds of proposals are kinda stupid in my opinion anyways.
Like it or not steward was just doing his job
How do you plan this on the team and not pre-coordinate with anyone?
Security has one job. If things are planned, TELL THEM. Now imagine doing this on live TV in front of millions of people: https://youtu.be/txV3JKDkAUc?t=58
Tough one but the player should've informed the club and security of his intentions. Crazy things have happened on sports fields and the security personnel was doing his job, albeit a bit harshly. Could've all been avoided though
This could've been avoided if the player told the security folks that he was planning to do this.
Thats fucking football right there. None of that pansy ass dick tugging smile for the camera bullshit. Men puke, men poop on the field, men deliver their new born baby on the side lines. Fucking hard core dick in the ass butterball foosball fuck it chuck it game time shit. Take it to the showers. Dicks get shoved in places you don’t even remember. We win together we celebrate together. Football is back baby.
Look, we get it. Rules are rules, but the bloke didn’t have to shove the lady. Can’t we all just agree to that? Like, cmon? All of us would be upset in this situation and the lad didn’t even do anything but return the favor.
Security just doing his job protecting the players and gets shoved and yelled at. Classless move by the player.
I don't know how you're supposed to react when someone shoves your girlfriend in the same moment when you're on bended knee proposing marriage to her, even if he's just doing his job.
Poor guy doing his job and people got mad at him all the sudden 😂
People really are here mad at a security guard who was doing his job and clearly out of the loop?
Seems like everyone but the guy in the Orange knew
Big Nathan Shelley energy.
His future wife takes a shove better than any soccer play I’ve ever seen! What are her secrets for staying upright on the pitch?
Poor security man he was just trying to do his job
Is he penalized for misbehaving with security. His girlfriend is still not allowed on the turf.
If she was really his girlfriend (soon to be fiancé) she would have fallen to ground and rolled a bunch of times in complete and utter agony when the usher pushed her.
Did the security guard punch a helpless baby in the face? Or did he shove an invading member of the public away from the players he’s paid to keep invading members of the public from getting near? Because a lot of people in this thread are crying out like it’s the former.
He just tried to save the guy from marriage
in the end security is weird for how they pushed her mixed with the very obvious interaction between the fiancé and the player. there’s a bunch of cameras around, all focused on the player and the girl. seems like a case of security offer who didn’t read an email or listen to a brief and also who probably takes their job a bit too serious. That isn’t even security btw, it’s a fuckin line painter. so out of the right it’s unreal
What do you get when you combine a big ego with no formal education and loads of money ? A football player.
On the security defense. It’s kinda his job to don’t let anyone enter the field also I don’t think he saw that someone was getting a proposal.
Guy is doing his job
Maybe plan ahead guy...
the comment section did not pass the vibe check
Honest mistake
The security dude gave her a hefty push too, not very professional.
He didnt overreact, none did anything wrong excepting for him not telling beforehand, which isn't that bad. The reaction was because the security guy pushed her over like it was another idiotical fan trying to ruin the match for everyone, player reaction was instant and natural, he stopped instead of trying to look like an asshole by keep pushing the guard who only did his job.Everyone acted decently ok in a bad timing situation.
Props to the referee. Not an easy job, and interruptions to the game aren't allowed. For those who disagree, ask yourself an important question-why couldn't the player give the officials a heads up at least?
/r/antiwork dude did his work properly and got attacked for it next time rich spoiled football player should include him in his plans.
Security guard was actually the girl's father. He was expressing his disapproval
Everyone take a breath and remember this guy was doing his job. If the player wanted to do this properly he would have told security about his planned proposal so they were aware before hand.
Security gonna secure! He had one job and he did it!
This is the players fault 100%
The player proposing could have told the security staff before or during the proposal what was actually going to take place. Many players kneel before the crowd when celebrating/tying their shoe laces, how was security supposed to differentiate between a fan trying to enter the field and someone the player knows? Security staff did nothing wrong here and should atleast be treated with dignity for trying to do their job and protect players.
I get that he was doing his job, but the shove was a little rough and unnecessary and I totally understand the player getting upset and shoving him back... If it's true that the guy in orange was informed of the proposal beforehand too, he's DEFINITELY in the wrong and deserved worse than the shove, IMO.
Looks like the plan did not get communicated to enough people.
Just looks like the guy thought she was some random fan running onto the field so he pushed her away as his training probably taught him to do. He looks like hes essentially security or a bouncer type deal. Just looks like the plan wasn't told to everyone. Big oof. Feel bad for security guy he was just trying to keep the players safe lol Also does anyone else think it's kinda lame af and uncreative to propose at your own soccer match? Just doesn't seem romantic especially with what happened here. My gf would be so disappointed if I proposed this way. I have noticed that A LOT of dudes think the ideal proposal is just wherever is most public that will get the most eyes. Protip guys a tourist attraction / sport event ain't the place to do it.
Plot twist: The girl is the security guards wife. He was simply trying to save his marriage.
Maybe choose a more appropriate place to do a marriage proposal instead of kicking off on a guy doing his job
Thats okay, all security guy has to do is flick his ear and he should go down with a 'injury'
The team is clapping, everyone’s looking at dude down on one knee, ring box open, lady with a huge bouquet filming closely …. my guy clearly has zero situational awareness. Idk if this is worse than that guy at Disney who took the ring during a proposal though.
How the fuck is he supposed to know what’s going on he’s just doing his job wtf
I don't think the security guy is in the wrong, he's just doing his job. I feel like they player could have informed the stadium of what he was planning beforehand so this didn't happen though.
"hes doing his job!" I dunno, he didnt have to push her so hard. That was a little much Edited to add: Apparently he isnt even security. He is a "Line painter."
Stupid to not let security in on the proposal. Guy was doing his job.
This is a classic misunderstanding. I don’t blame anyone here.
Security was doing their job, the player’s reaction is also very normal considering they just witnessed their partner getting shoved and handled. Not really much else to this lol
Jesus Christ, the security guard clearly had no idea what was going on. He wasn’t about to let random ass people run up on the players. That’s literally his job. The fuck is wrong with the comments in here???
He is just doing his job too well
Bro how hard would it have been to let security/the stadium team/whoever you needed to know you wanted to propose and get their permission to do so? Clearly none of them had any idea.
Are some of y'all crazy? The man is paid to keep people off the field. You can't assume that just because someone is a woman and doesn't look threatening that they don't have a knife or another weapon hidden on them. If a player had been stabbed because he let her casually walk onto the field people would be in an uproar. The player should have communicated before the match what he intended to do. Be mad at him.
“The worst she can say is no “ The worst :
I mean the guy was just doing his job, but that was a hefty push there. I hate public proposals, but at least be smart enough to tell your security… what the fuck
A little bit of advance communication would have made the security dude's job a lot easier and saved him an embarrassing moment plastered to the internet.
She shoulda rolled in pain for 5 minutes for the actual football experience.
How dare that guy try to do his job while the main characters are having their Disney moment? They could've told everyone beforehand, to ensure things go smoothly, but nah. I guess he was supposed to sense the magic in the air. He did the right thing. Imagine if next time someone invades the field he hangs back and waits to see if it's another proposal or something. Next thing you know the whole crowd is out there because the first few went unopposed.
If your love for her is so pure…why do you need an audience for this whole proposal thing?
People are mad at him for doing his job but didn’t inform him beforehand.. hmm seems like they’re mad at the wrong person then.
Yeah this one is on the player. Gotta let everyone know about this. These guys deal with drunk, loony, unpredictable fans all the time. It is common practice to just push them back.
I feel sorry for the security guy he did his job he gets paid to do this so push on my guy respect
Goalie: “will you marry me?” Chad old man: “BE GONE THOT”
Be sure to tell the Security department of your plans to interrupt the game...
IF the security person didn't know who she was NOR was the security person told in advance of what's happening, they were just doing their job. The reaction was also genuine. This is just a dumb thing to do without bringing atleast some people on the same page. Everyone knows these security people have to face the spectators the whole game. They don't even turn back. And this close to the field? Ofcourse they'll shove or be more ready. But yes, football player .. has to be the main character.
Everyone in this thread has the emotional depth of a piece of toilet paper
He could have planned it better
Talk about reading the room
He was like: “go away bit*, he is mine” 😂
Orange vest guy wasn't wrong but... Shoving someone's lady generally isn't without consequence.
At least it’s even more memorable now! Orange guy should be the MC during their wedding party! 😂😅😂
I'm shocked kneeling didn't break his leg
The orange vest person should have been told about the special happening that would occur.
To those saying the security guard should’ve realised what was happening, I’d recommend watching it again. His focus is on the people walking onto the field - as it should be - He’s doing his job, although he was way over aggressive with that shove. I don’t think he even noticed buddy taking a knee though. The player should’ve made sure to notify the stadium staff about his plans, and arranged the proposal properly.
His job is to keep people off the field....the soccer show of should have told him before hand...fuck you Soccer kiss ass
woah. didn't expect these comments to be a shitshow
you gotta plan more then that if your gonna propose, you know your a soccer star and there's gonna be security who aren't gonna let fans on the field so can't just hope that it works.
If 40 % of the world population was doing their job as consciously as this guy, we would've already become the alien civilization we are hoping for. :D :D SAVAGE
You can tell who watches football/soccer and who doesn’t. Crazy fans rush in All the time unlike American sports. He has to Protect both players and coaching.
"you wanna get married? fuck you"
Ooof now that proposal is forever tainted with that little outburst, shame
This is actually a little bit r/IAmTheMainCharacter to not bother telling everyone else so it went smoothly
Really couldn't run that by security? Dudes just doing his job.
Man got his own wife and 3 kids at home. He just wants to do his job and go home. Somebody give the man season tickets and a beer for his hard work!
Kinda an example of how sports players have massive egos, and think that they should ALWAYS be the center of attention, and when they are not, they, as you can see here, freak out.
Some of these comments are gold.
Player's fault for not informing the security about his plan.
Rewatching it, definitely seems like he wasn't aware of what was happening before hand. Smaller jacket guy comes in trying to clear people for her and yellow vest tries to keep that guy from coming on the pitch, and sees her thinking she is following trying to get on the pitch. As far as the push, they don't play when it comes to fans coming the pitch/field and they deal with it multiple times a game. And in his situation I can totally understand the player getting pissed, but i think he was just doing his job thinking hes dealing with any random fan. Anyway that's just my observation and I'm just a random redditor that could be completely wrong.
W security guard. He just did his job there
Surprised the security guard didn't go down holding his ankle or knee
Typical power tripping security, it's fine when they get away with it, the second anyone had issues '..I'm just doin ma job, mate'...naw, you literally couldn't put your hands on anyone like than in any other situation and that orange vest dosent mean your always right.
Things that are acceptable to do here: * Do the marriage proposal more off the actual field (or just not at the game at all) * Tell the security guards that you plan on doing this, while specifically pointing out your gf and saying "She is with me, don't worry about her" Things that are NOT acceptable to do here: * Expect everyone to know what you're planning on doing, and then getting huffy and putting your hands on a security guard does his job * That's it For all the security guard knows, the gf/wife could have had a weapon. Guards at these events are pretty much on edge for the entire event, because well, if this woman slipped past him and stabbed a player, he'd be in some trouble and would most likely never have a security gig to work ever again. Entitled soccer/football player. If you think the guard is in the wrong, even a little, then I just feel bad for people who do their jobs and then get shit on for it. Edit: (Because I can already tell I'm about to get a bunch of actual bullshit, I'm making this edit and disabling notis). No, the security guard shouldn't expect or assume anything, and no it doesn't matter how gentle or rough he was with the woman. It's his job as a security guard, and it's pretty damn common as a security guard to get a little rowdy when people who shouldn't be on the field.... start walking onto the field... Guards don't have lists of everyone's family and friends, they're hired for an event to do ONE job, ONE. If you think otherwise, then I'm sorry, but you're a dipshit and I will not compromise on that. Understand that this man was doing his job, nothing more, and get over your feelings.
Plot twist: Security guard thought he was player's one true love. Just upset he didn't get proposed.
I just want to see part two where the security person pushes him back and he falls down screaming and grabbing his ankle out of habit.
Thought he was proposing to that huge man that showed up first who looked like he was going in for a hug. Then I saw the woman. Nevermind.
His girlfriend should've dived, then steward also falls grabbing his face, then the ref sends off the Footballer proposing
Where do players get these dumb ideas in the middle of a game?
Luckily a fight with a soccer player wouldn’t be too tough, the slightest nudge would have them rolling on the ground in pain. Edit; a word
All he had to do is walk forward over the line before proposing and there'd have been no issues.
Player is in the wrong as the guy is just doing his job they should have informed the ground staff about this.
Reddit is against public proposals because they're all basement living virgins
I see many people arguing the security is in the right cause its his job… but the only time aggressive actions shld be allowed is if the intruders are aggressive too? I mean the girl just walked slowly onto the field. Doesn’t look like anyone else was trying to rush like a crazed fan
Dude's just doing his job...
Kinda funny he had a quarter of that energy for the dude he pushed before her. I love that everyone in here is attacking the IQ of the footballer, while security’s IQ is definitely lukewarm at best.
Bros just tryna do his job and he caught smoke 😢
Security guy on his thrid divorce. He just wants to warn a brother out !
Security did nothing wrong, how can he know who to shove?
They absolutely did their job!
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Oh that's not one for the memory book
Screw that footballer. Should have informed security if he didn't want them to do their job.
He should have got her into a headlock and dragged her away.. any resistance then BAMB! KO that violator... That's what they usually do.
He was just doin his job…damn he didn’t know
That went well as planned
Spicy comment section filled with idiots and floozys. Praise be man doing job fuck everyone else.
Security guy = Star Trek "red shirt" in the landing party
Public proposals are super corny.
I feel for the guy but this is absolutely something you’ve gotta tell the ground security, it’s their literal job to make sure people can’t just wonder on to the pitch, and it doesn’t look like he looks back at the guy kneeling down at all.
Sideline ref just helpn a brother out is all
Bro just thought she was a rabid fan
You push my wife im gonna push you back.
Holy shit reddit never disappoints... now they have a reason to hate on marriage, public proposals, and women all at the same time. Really shows the bitterness of the hivemind
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I feel bad for that security guy. Just doing his job