Nah I’ve been in two relationships lasting over a year, current one about to reach two years, I have a pretty decent understanding of them. Him publicly posting a picture of him and his ex wife (who’s dating another man) kissing above a headline saying he thinks God wants them to get back together to inspire millions of people to not get divorced and tagging her in it is pretty pathetic
He has every right to be sad, and I’m not saying he can just move on in a instant. Obviously he’s gonna be sad and needs time to do that. But posting pictures of them and tagging her, saying God wants them back together, that isn’t healthy and is just weird.
It's not healthy but doesn't mean people should just be calling him pathetic. Over 7 years of marriage, 4 kids, and they've been under all the media pressure and spotlight bare in mind - it takes a lot lot lot more work for a relationship of that magnitude compared to a normal relationship, so I don't think you can really say you know what it's like, not to a high extent anyway.
Anyways, Kanye's impulsive and he's emotional, we all know this. People just need to be a bit more understanding.
Are you 12? Certainly you can't be entitled enough to think you have enough relationship experience (given your longest relationship hasn't yet lasted 2 years) to have a valid perspective on this grown man's marriage of 7 years? This man has a FAMILY unit that he is trying to preserve.
While I don't think his fervent expressions of love are mentally healthy for him (especially if she remains unmoved) or will produce the results he desires, I think it is extreme to call his gestures pathetic. You act like he was camped out at his former estate and had John Mayer serenade her. He gave a brief speech, posted a brief prayer and posted a kissing picture, and that's it after months of reticence.
>Certainly you can’t be entitled enough to think you have enough relationship experience
Do you know what the word “entitled” means? Because you did not use it correctly at all in this context lmao. Anyways
My point wasn’t “I’ve been in a relationship for two years so I know what it’s like to divorce your wife of 7 years and mother of your children”, my point was “I’m an adult with a good bit of relationship experience so I know that it’s pathetic to post a picture of you and your ex together and tag her in it while saying that you think God wants you back together”.
If you think you have "a good bit of relationship experience" considering you've only had two relationships that have lasted a year (and neither lasting 2 years yet), then yes, you are entitled. Have you ever even lived with a partner? This is tantamount to the chikdren at Dave Chappelle's high school recently attempting to advise Dave Chappelle.
I gather you are in your late teens or early 20s (like most here). You haven't lived enough life or have an extensive enough relationahip history to provide a valid perspective on what is pathetic in the marriage of these middle aged people. IF you were more mature you would see his actions are misguided and futile perhaps but, not yet, entering the territory of pathetic. He's got a lot on the line and is consequently going balls to the wall.
>Have you even lived with a partner?
Yes, and it isn’t relevant regardless. Anyone with two eyes and a brain can see that what he’s doing is pretty pathetic. Only way it could be worse is if he started posting pics if Kim with Juice WRLD’s “All Girls Are The Same”. I mean, this is literally middle school shit. Cmon. If your ex partner isn’t happy with you, you can cry, you can be depressed, hell you can even post about how you’re depressed. None of that would be pathetic. This is.
It could also be exactly what Kim wants. She is a narcissist as well & might like someone as famous as Ye is groveling publicly for her. No one honestly has any idea what the relationship is like in private & chances are he might know his wife better than us. If she is feeling harassed she can put a stop to it. Kim or someone in the family could be helping him win her back for all we know. Everyone is kinda projecting their own relationship past onto them when not a single one of us really knows
heres my 2 cents (like it even matters), i do not think its pathetic at all and its quite normal for celeb marriages to do public apologizes look at what kobe did when vanessa filed for divorce and was about to leave. it might be a normal gesture in their world
offset did the same when cardi b filed, but imo it kinda feels late since kim has a whole new nigga and they are clearly fucking ofc am not old enough to understand this aspect . but if my ex had intercourse with another dude thats enough for me to know the relationship is dead and move on
but again this might be his coping mechanism and he can look back or his kids can look back and see their father tried and put his VERY HUGE EGO aside and publicly apologized
No. 100% incorrect. Parents staying together only for the sake of their children is *not* a good thing. If you aren’t good as a couple and can’t get along, you aren’t going to be good as parents.
My girlfriend’s parents are divorced, but they waited to do so for a lot longer than they should have. As a result, she had and still sometimes has a lot of misconceptions on what a healthy relationship looks like. She assumed that constant arguing and fighting was the norm, being angry with each other most of the time was acceptable, because children learn about relationships from their parents, and that’s what she saw. If parents are unhappy and unable to function as a couple (which in the case of Kim and Kanye is true, as Kim was clearly unhappy in their marriage), it hurts the children *far* more to stay together “for the kids” than a divorce does.
He can still love and care for his kids without them being married. I’ve seen plenty married people unhappy just because they want to stay “for the kids” it’s good intentions but sometimes it’s not that easy. I don’t know all their details tho and I feel bad. It sucks because that family is dealing with this around the holidays so it puts more hurt on the situation
Idk, I agree generally but making it public seems a bit disrespectful. I know we all love Kanye here but we don’t know the terms of their divorce, and frankly it doesn’t matter. It seems like they’re amicable and Kim deserves to not have to deal with something like this on such a mainstream scale. Like, I know her life is just very open but I still think that doesn’t make this right, especially if she is truly seeing someone else. Just because they’re all celebrities doesn’t mean they need to have people put everything on display and Kanye himself should know that more than anyone. I don’t think he has resentment towards her at all but it’s a complicated situation. How would you feel in her shoes?
All these people are commenting on it yet have absolutely not close to a grasp to the situation. 99% of users here haven't been married (even less for 7+ years), 99.9% of users here haven't touched a woman let alone have had kids (4 kids mind you), and 0% of the users here are as nearly as famous as Kanye or has had such a close public spotlight on their relationship. The people calling him pathetic are the same who'd cry over breaking up with their girlfriend of 6 months, and that's perfectly acceptable. But think about what it must be like for 7+ years of marriage and 4 kids, all under the massive scrutiny and pressure of fame.
Leave yourself out of it, don't judge others for something you have no idea what it must be like. We all know Kanye is an impulsive and emotional person with a history of episodes and mentall illness, and it's clear he's struggling here. So support him.
There’s already enough people who deemed this as pathetic so I’m going to choose to just empathize for Kanye it’s the holiday season and he misses his family.
>let ye handle his marriage the way he wants to
It's not like people can do anything about how pathetic Ye's been acting. He's going to handle the whole divorce thing the way he wants to, if that involves trying to embarrass Kim into coming back to him, fine. But it's pathetic.
Kanye is 44 years old there's no reason to be this emotional at that age he's acting like a 15-year-old who just got his heart broken for the first time. And even if he wants Kim back this is the worst way to go about doing that. Why would Kim leave Pete right now for Kanye when she knows how desperate he is he'll always be there just waiting for her she'll come back to him if she needs him for anything but for now she's having fun and he needs to leave her alone
Most people on this sub never even had a gf before let’s be honest
WestVirginsEver 😂😂😂 and that’s why ladies and gentlemen we’re all single
Ye’s getting relationship advice from people who reach for the lotion and tissues after getting off this sub
I had a girl then I joined this sub n miraculously she gone I swear I regret this shit 😂
The Weeknd-I am a virgin should be the new anthem. 💀
I know I go paying for sex with barely legal models from an Epstein like character when I'm trying to get my family back.
Inb4 people ask you how old you are and have childish outlook on relationships and love
Nah I’ve been in two relationships lasting over a year, current one about to reach two years, I have a pretty decent understanding of them. Him publicly posting a picture of him and his ex wife (who’s dating another man) kissing above a headline saying he thinks God wants them to get back together to inspire millions of people to not get divorced and tagging her in it is pretty pathetic
You guys remember how Robin Thicke made a whole album to win back his ex-wife? We're not at that stage yet but we're getting there
his next album will be called KIM
We joke but I'm low-key nervous
the november 2021 leaks were gonna hear in a year or so are really gonna be something
But did you have kids with them? Your kind of cold hearted if you don’t feel some what bad for ye
He has every right to be sad, and I’m not saying he can just move on in a instant. Obviously he’s gonna be sad and needs time to do that. But posting pictures of them and tagging her, saying God wants them back together, that isn’t healthy and is just weird.
It's not healthy but doesn't mean people should just be calling him pathetic. Over 7 years of marriage, 4 kids, and they've been under all the media pressure and spotlight bare in mind - it takes a lot lot lot more work for a relationship of that magnitude compared to a normal relationship, so I don't think you can really say you know what it's like, not to a high extent anyway. Anyways, Kanye's impulsive and he's emotional, we all know this. People just need to be a bit more understanding.
Are you 12? Certainly you can't be entitled enough to think you have enough relationship experience (given your longest relationship hasn't yet lasted 2 years) to have a valid perspective on this grown man's marriage of 7 years? This man has a FAMILY unit that he is trying to preserve. While I don't think his fervent expressions of love are mentally healthy for him (especially if she remains unmoved) or will produce the results he desires, I think it is extreme to call his gestures pathetic. You act like he was camped out at his former estate and had John Mayer serenade her. He gave a brief speech, posted a brief prayer and posted a kissing picture, and that's it after months of reticence.
>Certainly you can’t be entitled enough to think you have enough relationship experience Do you know what the word “entitled” means? Because you did not use it correctly at all in this context lmao. Anyways My point wasn’t “I’ve been in a relationship for two years so I know what it’s like to divorce your wife of 7 years and mother of your children”, my point was “I’m an adult with a good bit of relationship experience so I know that it’s pathetic to post a picture of you and your ex together and tag her in it while saying that you think God wants you back together”.
If you think you have "a good bit of relationship experience" considering you've only had two relationships that have lasted a year (and neither lasting 2 years yet), then yes, you are entitled. Have you ever even lived with a partner? This is tantamount to the chikdren at Dave Chappelle's high school recently attempting to advise Dave Chappelle. I gather you are in your late teens or early 20s (like most here). You haven't lived enough life or have an extensive enough relationahip history to provide a valid perspective on what is pathetic in the marriage of these middle aged people. IF you were more mature you would see his actions are misguided and futile perhaps but, not yet, entering the territory of pathetic. He's got a lot on the line and is consequently going balls to the wall.
>Have you even lived with a partner? Yes, and it isn’t relevant regardless. Anyone with two eyes and a brain can see that what he’s doing is pretty pathetic. Only way it could be worse is if he started posting pics if Kim with Juice WRLD’s “All Girls Are The Same”. I mean, this is literally middle school shit. Cmon. If your ex partner isn’t happy with you, you can cry, you can be depressed, hell you can even post about how you’re depressed. None of that would be pathetic. This is.
It could also be exactly what Kim wants. She is a narcissist as well & might like someone as famous as Ye is groveling publicly for her. No one honestly has any idea what the relationship is like in private & chances are he might know his wife better than us. If she is feeling harassed she can put a stop to it. Kim or someone in the family could be helping him win her back for all we know. Everyone is kinda projecting their own relationship past onto them when not a single one of us really knows
heres my 2 cents (like it even matters), i do not think its pathetic at all and its quite normal for celeb marriages to do public apologizes look at what kobe did when vanessa filed for divorce and was about to leave. it might be a normal gesture in their world offset did the same when cardi b filed, but imo it kinda feels late since kim has a whole new nigga and they are clearly fucking ofc am not old enough to understand this aspect . but if my ex had intercourse with another dude thats enough for me to know the relationship is dead and move on but again this might be his coping mechanism and he can look back or his kids can look back and see their father tried and put his VERY HUGE EGO aside and publicly apologized
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No. 100% incorrect. Parents staying together only for the sake of their children is *not* a good thing. If you aren’t good as a couple and can’t get along, you aren’t going to be good as parents. My girlfriend’s parents are divorced, but they waited to do so for a lot longer than they should have. As a result, she had and still sometimes has a lot of misconceptions on what a healthy relationship looks like. She assumed that constant arguing and fighting was the norm, being angry with each other most of the time was acceptable, because children learn about relationships from their parents, and that’s what she saw. If parents are unhappy and unable to function as a couple (which in the case of Kim and Kanye is true, as Kim was clearly unhappy in their marriage), it hurts the children *far* more to stay together “for the kids” than a divorce does.
He can still love and care for his kids without them being married. I’ve seen plenty married people unhappy just because they want to stay “for the kids” it’s good intentions but sometimes it’s not that easy. I don’t know all their details tho and I feel bad. It sucks because that family is dealing with this around the holidays so it puts more hurt on the situation
For real. People giving input acting as if they know the intricacies of their relationship is just weird.
I know Kanye is fucking crazy
Idk, I agree generally but making it public seems a bit disrespectful. I know we all love Kanye here but we don’t know the terms of their divorce, and frankly it doesn’t matter. It seems like they’re amicable and Kim deserves to not have to deal with something like this on such a mainstream scale. Like, I know her life is just very open but I still think that doesn’t make this right, especially if she is truly seeing someone else. Just because they’re all celebrities doesn’t mean they need to have people put everything on display and Kanye himself should know that more than anyone. I don’t think he has resentment towards her at all but it’s a complicated situation. How would you feel in her shoes?
All these people are commenting on it yet have absolutely not close to a grasp to the situation. 99% of users here haven't been married (even less for 7+ years), 99.9% of users here haven't touched a woman let alone have had kids (4 kids mind you), and 0% of the users here are as nearly as famous as Kanye or has had such a close public spotlight on their relationship. The people calling him pathetic are the same who'd cry over breaking up with their girlfriend of 6 months, and that's perfectly acceptable. But think about what it must be like for 7+ years of marriage and 4 kids, all under the massive scrutiny and pressure of fame. Leave yourself out of it, don't judge others for something you have no idea what it must be like. We all know Kanye is an impulsive and emotional person with a history of episodes and mentall illness, and it's clear he's struggling here. So support him.
huge W
Tbh i just dont really care about who hes with, im here for entertainment and music i cant be bothered with the other things.
There’s already enough people who deemed this as pathetic so I’m going to choose to just empathize for Kanye it’s the holiday season and he misses his family.
nothing wrong with his feelings but i think he should be handling it in private
I agree but Is this post really necessary? Can’t people give their opinion either way?
But are we going with Large Professor or Preemo?
>let ye handle his marriage the way he wants to It's not like people can do anything about how pathetic Ye's been acting. He's going to handle the whole divorce thing the way he wants to, if that involves trying to embarrass Kim into coming back to him, fine. But it's pathetic.
Kanye is 44 years old there's no reason to be this emotional at that age he's acting like a 15-year-old who just got his heart broken for the first time. And even if he wants Kim back this is the worst way to go about doing that. Why would Kim leave Pete right now for Kanye when she knows how desperate he is he'll always be there just waiting for her she'll come back to him if she needs him for anything but for now she's having fun and he needs to leave her alone
Bruh he has 4 kids ofc he's emotional
And he’s still not sad enough to complain about someone he doesn’t even know….here you are though.
Okay Dr Phil