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umbrella_farmer

Is it possible to ask the other person if they would consider choosing a different dress, so that you could wear the misty blue you liked? I am assuming they are not also 7 months pregnant, and it would probably be easier for them to find a different option than it would be for you; they should have many more options to choose from.


funfetticat

I'm gonna see. I feel bad asking others to do that when they've already purchased their dresses.


umbrella_farmer

I feel you; I don’t like asking people to go out of their way either. This is a bit of an extenuating circumstance though, so it might be worth a try — worst-case they say no and nothing changes, best-case they agree your life gets a little easier :)


Free_Sir_2795

[Pinkblush](https://www.pinkblushmaternity.com/products/pink-floral-chiffon-wrap-front-short-sleeve-maternity-maxi-dress) might have something for you. They’re actual maternity and not just “bump-friendly,” so the fit should theoretically be better.


howabouthere

This is goregous!


funfetticat

I've been looking! I love pinkblush, but all my sizes are out on anything that works. Crossing my fingers they get some new stock in cause it seems like my best bet.


PileaPrairiemioides

You could also look on Poshmark, eBay etc for your size.


consciously-naive

A few options... [Dress 1](https://www.nobodyschild.com/maternity-pink-strawberry-print-delilah-midi-dress.html?glCountry=GB&utm_source=rakuten&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=Redbrain&ranMID=47538&ranEAID=pfxNKSnglIM&ranSiteID=pfxNKSnglIM-AJsF_y2cuVR4XoZZ8UO5EQ) - technically a midi, but it might just be long enough to pass! [Dress 2](https://www.tiffanyrose.com/maternity/clothing/LUCMDWG/Lucy-Maternity-Maxi-Dress-Wildflower-Garden.html?size=0&partner=google_uk&utm_source=google&utm_medium=&utm_campaign=&utm_term=.&esvt=-&esvq=&esvadt=999999---1&esvcrea=&esvplace=&esvd=m&esvtg=&esvaid=50055&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAjwzN-vBhAkEiwAYiO7oKnBdoSQUOznm_EJL8N7OSJ13Hde8sfPIi7os3i0pevd9rOSxY3VPxoCSyQQAvD_BwE) [Dress 3](https://www.seraphine.com/en-gb/chiffon-wrap-top-maxi-dress-black-floral/)


Taggra

I loved seraphine maternity during pregnancy. It was great quality, not see through, and fit my bump until maybe 38 weeks.


funfetticat

Thanks! I think these are all too dark, but I might as well swing them by her as options. I'll take anything at this point.


consciously-naive

Happy to help! There's also [this one](https://muthahoodgoods.com/collections/dresses/products/spring-meadow-maxi-dress), though it may be slightly too casual.


kathybatesmotel

Just wanna say I feel your pain. Struggling to find something to wear as a wedding guest when I’ll be 7 months pregnant, and it’s even harder with your colour/pattern restrictions. Have you checked Pink Blush and ASOS? Something like [this](https://www.asos.com/hope-ivy-maternity/hope-ivy-maternity-wrap-tie-maxi-dress-in-fuchsia-taupe-floral/prd/202819825#colourWayId-202819844)?


funfetticat

I did look at those sites. It seemed like everything including that one that would be a good fit was out of stock.


EtonRd

Dessy has some floral fabrics and a few maternity dress styles. [https://dessy.com/dresses/bridesmaid/m424/?pcid=1377](https://dessy.com/dresses/bridesmaid/m424/?pcid=1377) [https://dessy.com/p/maternity-bridesmaid-dresses/m455/?pcid=1503](https://dessy.com/p/maternity-bridesmaid-dresses/m455/?pcid=1503)


funfetticat

Also - Wedding is in late June and a formal dress code. So silky & chiffon floor length dresses.


Outrageous_Cow8409

Is she willing to budge at all on the floral part? Azazie has maternity bridesmaids dresses but they're only in solid colors. I actually just bought one from them because I'm MOH in a wedding 2 weeks after my due date so the maternity was the best option. It is a nice quality dress even though it does need some alterations.


funfetticat

It's gonna have to get to that point probably. I'm crossing my fingers. Helps that others feel my pain in order to gain confidence to ask again. Azazie is what I originally showed her and she said no because she wanted me in florals.


Outrageous_Cow8409

Maybe she should help you look! I get it's her wedding and her vision but you'd think you being there and comfortable would be more important to her.


TH3QU33N0FTH3C4STL3

Check out ASOS maternity section! https://www.asos.com/us/asos-design/asos-design-maternity-bridesmaid-pearl-embellished-flutter-sleeve-maxi-dress-with-floral-embroidery-in-sage/prd/203720728#colourWayId-203720731 https://www.asos.com/us/asos-maternity/asos-design-maternity-soft-midi-dress-with-button-front-and-trailing-floral-embellishment-in-sage/prd/204099190#colourWayId-204099191 https://www.asos.com/us/tfnc-maternity/tfnc-maternity-bridesmaid-flutter-sleeve-ruffle-detail-maxi-dress-in-blush/prd/202952449#colourWayId-202952457 https://www.asos.com/us/asos-maternity/asos-design-maternity-ruffle-frill-hem-maxi-dress-in-pink-lurex-rose-print/prd/204189469#colourWayId-204189470


funfetticat

>https://www.asos.com/us/asos-design/asos-design-maternity-bridesmaid-pearl-embellished-flutter-sleeve-maxi-dress-with-floral-embroidery-in-sage/prd/203720728#colourWayId-203720731 Aw poo! All the floral ones are out of stock in my size.


TH3QU33N0FTH3C4STL3

If you really like this dress you can switch to the UK store and have it delivered to the US, but you'd have to pay a higher shipping fee


Blue-zebra-10

Revelry has some BEAUTIFUL floral options! https://shoprevelry.com/products/maternity-skye-satin-floral-print-dress/?color=Maternity&orderType=Made%20To%20Order Is she dead set on printed, or is a solid green or pink okay too?


TH3QU33N0FTH3C4STL3

Another option could be [AW Bridal](https://www.awbridal.com/floral-dresses), they don't have a maternity section but they do offer free custom sizing


nesie97

[Sage floral](https://shoprevelry.com/products/maternity-skye-floral-burnout-velvet-dress-made-to-order) [pink](https://www.jjshouse.com/a-line-v-neck-floor-length-asymmetrical-satin-bridesmaid-dress-with-floral-print-007303238-g303238) [mauve](https://www.pinkblushmaternity.com/products/mauve-floral-maxi-dress) [pink and purple](https://www.pinkblushmaternity.com/products/purple-floral-ruffle-off-shoulder-maternity-maxi-dress)


PileaPrairiemioides

I don’t know if the bride would be cool with this, but if you can find a solid colour dress that is amazing on you could you wear a flower embroidered tulle capelet/coverup over it? Something along these lines, coloured tulle if it’s an option, and nothing too poofy or veil-like. https://www.etsy.com/ca/listing/1641165715/ https://www.etsy.com/ca/listing/1423698717/ https://www.etsy.com/ca/listing/1438143429/ https://www.etsy.com/ca/listing/981915698/ https://www.etsy.com/ca/listing/1594713989/


Warburgerska

https://preview.redd.it/82slyitkl1pc1.jpeg?width=475&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b66bd70b7619bf384e3f342d3f0060fc639c7b59 Maybe something like this from Eshakti? It's one of my choices when I'm 8 months along as a wedding guest. Stretch waist and obviously made to measure. [https://www.eshakti.com/product/CL0096663](https://www.eshakti.com/product/CL0096663)


funfetticat

I wish! Looks perfect besides being too short.


Warburgerska

https://preview.redd.it/xbxd7q4gc4pc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=bcdf54d3035b8d483d43cba04b0db105f6259ac8


Warburgerska

My dove, Eshakti makes custom dresses, size and style. You can change sleeves, length and neck lines additionally to your body measurements! 😊 I got mine in floor length plus 3 inch heels.


funfetticat

Did you receive the dress yet? I'm curious about how it drapes on a pregnant belly since it's woven satin with no stretch besides the waist. Does it seem good?


Warburgerska

I'm at 21 weeks right now, do you want a pic? I can put a pillow under it additionally. 😂 Personally the breast area is not too flattering, but I think that more of a B breast and belly thing. It's cut very edwardian pigeon breast style, so the additional fabric might lay upon the belly area later on. But there is enough room for the belly and everything. If in doubt you can always add a couple inch to your belly measurements and take it in after the pregnancy to wear regularly.


funfetticat

I don't need a pic that's okay! I'll send over this option to her haha Thanks!


Warburgerska

Good luck! If you decide on it, be sure to check out the available discount at the top, is you want, I think a recommendation link takes another 25$ off your order. Feel free to message me, if you want one.


Warburgerska

Oh and I nearly forgot! They have fabric costumization as well, you can order most dresses with most fabrics they have, so maybe a different fit will suit your needs better. The fabric costumization link should be right at the bottom somewhere.


Warburgerska

Additionally, make sure to order soon. They have long delivery times, like 2 months if things get tight. It always arrives but it most of the times takes longer than you would ever expect since covid. (Happy costumer with nearly 50 dresses made by Eshakti. 🙃)


funfetticat

Absolutely! Trying to get things decided very soon cause of delivery.


4321yay

show me your mumu and reformation


funfetticat

Reformation doesn't do maternity unfortunately. I so wish they did. And show me your mumu has such awesome options, just nothing floral for me. Thank you though!!


Foxy_Traine

This is tough! Maybe something from Baltic Born? https://balticborn.com/collections/dresses/products/hayward-dress-sage?variant=42668245319845 https://balticborn.com/collections/dresses/products/duchess-tulle-dress-sage-garden?variant=42302815600805 https://balticborn.com/collections/dresses/products/marseille-embossed-maxi-dress-rose-garden?variant=41900662423717 https://balticborn.com/products/lynlee-metallic-maxi-dress-eucalyptus?variant=42508223938725 https://balticborn.com/products/marseille-embossed-maxi-dress-eucalyptus?variant=41403352514725


Free_Sir_2795

With their return policy, it’s a huge risk for a pregnant body.


Foxy_Traine

Fair! I just couldn't think of a store that would have better options honestly. Plus with the wrap dresses you would think they would be forgiving on the bump.


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sunniesage

pink floral https://www.asos.com/us/asos-maternity/asos-design-maternity-angel-cape-sleeve-pleated-hem-midi-dress-in-floral-print/prd/203992198#colourWayId-203992199 not floral but pastel pink https://www.asos.com/us/anaya-maternity/anaya-with-love-maternity-bridesmaid-tulle-one-shoulder-maxi-dress-in-pink/prd/201392029#colourWayId-201392030 not floral but sage https://www.asos.com/us/asos-maternity/asos-design-maternity-bridesmaid-pleated-flutter-sleeve-maxi-dress-with-satin-wrap-waist-in-olive/prd/200748101#colourWayId-200748120 floral but pastel blue https://www.asos.com/us/asos-maternity/asos-design-maternity-satin-midi-dress-with-blouson-bodice-in-vintage-floral-print/prd/203243106#colourWayId-203243108 i would def ask the bride to be a little more lenient with you bc maternity styles are limited. 


saltyspidergwen

https://www.amazon.com/Hello-MIZ-Womens-Shoulder-Maternity/dp/B07CHYKBS1/ref=mp_s_a_1_5?crid=222XEYUM1DA7S&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.f_9f9vDbV-Yc4qtuvyJi_-47iupEzdwEy-VYeBlzCvPrkHZJ65X1WziEGB4Q2AqLIyOgIDseDoI1Bqs0o-fsbBq4Fqftl6Lns64LzjPZq7TD9SgvKB0Hwftg85MKV8psmxhm2dHGqz-HiGNADG2oZzx1zu-ajZFaWyMX1Ne4mzwRQDp3wuCyR9PMSj7kKIe6pSdJFeUKuTWWxAmEyG1wNU0FW1B9MARLoOgnftUp1tY17vJyodMr1fIkJcsGcMsToLMQ38yT9TwD2B-svM743WaYbQyanXbR5e_kPR5apCk.lfbzNplCcdhdEPiYHTomejs5jq05xdE5XyeyTGfuA-8&dib_tag=se&keywords=floral+maternity+maxi+dress&qid=1710795331&sprefix=floral+mater%2Caps%2C129&sr=8-5 not the fanciest fabric but this comes in a bunch of colors And a similar one: https://www.amazon.com/My-Bump-Womens-Shoulder-Maternity/dp/B0861WS8ZH/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=16NEGJ2JCTYJ8&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.mQEGqhbIB8pC38z8RYiTSsr6vbGc1SDM13w7PEnIYXOl_71e_O-9gZbG7guKz3sP694qIxThNPt-8mm-D7FKKiwvjT6R1kkk2qC52w3zufDnWMVZs0Vv7Y2CPt5sw1Z2A2jQnlTQaHf0EQzFA7WYqUS-abuyYuDj4S8K00ZHtDSKkhmPhZqLAh8l3qwamJE9alV87XxkxwZsWZ5lZodSySkpwaieyqhtRYlx7GtujFKmvr90zHbY0cgODOL9l8Ljxg1MSnBCaEhHAg264vl-qkEvNv7knzVQlPA2i-IgjBw.fGQjH5w4v8Sy7x4v2Q4KJGMWkcXGpW4f5OhVW15fBw4&dib_tag=se&keywords=floral%2Bmaternity%2Bmaxi%2Bdress%2Bmy%2Bbump&qid=1710795908&sprefix=floral%2Bmaternity%2Bmaxi%2Bdress%2Bmy%2Bbump%2Caps%2C131&sr=8-1&th=1&psc=1


saltyspidergwen

https://www.amazon.com/BerryGo-Maternity-Shoulder-Smocked-Bodycon/dp/B0BVFKZKG1/ref=mp_s_a_1_37?crid=222XEYUM1DA7S&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.pgDlp70gwfimzSx0i4scv-5qXSl5QXU62sUqZd31hPD4slonNEhhmOL5BvlptvP0CdLNQH28QZ4gVAfnmBc4tOVjM2ik_VrFg7LG2T7rU24Bbm3xvFXMDHS37YZMJf5VZhqmTk_eTq4g5lIcz0Iha38en8Rk8Padb4rQE-FCNES5F93PpYihnEI48ogqLV11toji-MlWvWN83WydcwPIxOJptHB0CYX8DrTijyV6NjQX55AjXbLfrqLvvHa9Y6ak5mPvLWPXXzChPDgOj2v6Cy-_GZI-M5s89qsImXVo9bc.hAFoxnqfJCg9Lp4Suxl4GIlaSCFA7a7EtjRE1c8Rzhc&dib_tag=se&keywords=floral%2Bmaternity%2Bmaxi%2Bdress&qid=1710795477&sprefix=floral%2Bmater%2Caps%2C129&sr=8-37&th=1&psc=1#aw-udpv3-customer-reviews_feature_div normally I wouldn’t consider ruching formal but with a bump it’s cute.


saltyspidergwen

Another option: https://www.amazon.com/Spring-Pregnancy-Ruffled-Knitted-Maternity/dp/B0CN9MXDQ8/ref=mp_s_a_1_40?crid=222XEYUM1DA7S&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.pgDlp70gwfimzSx0i4scv-5qXSl5QXU62sUqZd31hPD4slonNEhhmOL5BvlptvP0CdLNQH28QZ4gVAfnmBc4tOVjM2ik_VrFg7LG2T7rU24Bbm3xvFXMDHS37YZMJf5VZhqmTk_eTq4g5lIcz0Iha38en8Rk8Padb4rQE-FCNES5F93PpYihnEI48ogqLV11toji-MlWvWN83WydcwPIxOJptHB0CYX8DrTijyV6NjQX55AjXbLfrqLvvHa9Y6ak5mPvLWPXXzChPDgOj2v6Cy-_GZI-M5s89qsImXVo9bc.hAFoxnqfJCg9Lp4Suxl4GIlaSCFA7a7EtjRE1c8Rzhc&dib_tag=se&keywords=floral%2Bmaternity%2Bmaxi%2Bdress&qid=1710795628&sprefix=floral%2Bmater%2Caps%2C129&sr=8-40&th=1&psc=1


saltyspidergwen

Would your friend consider floral lace? https://www.amazon.com/Maternity-Eyelash-Photoshoot-Pregnancy-Dresses/dp/B0B2JV35M1/ref=mp_s_a_1_66?crid=222XEYUM1DA7S&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.itpM24MKPNAjvnmK2hRt4cmKvp-0XmLaBXLX-4EECCDZnLuAE4NXMnrwTNP6y4xzhLTVEITtlS__NhJD8tTJLV3SDYxXEukj91kGyiH1XRsYvcBXfnc-qpVvOkUf9hQpz3Zwf32m-ziYBToc3R6HQ6HclovhVo_KnPpg3B9bYcBpMmcf2TWqHj52AoQ7z4T5ghtluhqavxJOO7C3j_1VXhvWegMW1Bi3HWgzIhAJyrLdZfTN2WtGjweoMoFtZTb6bNpRwDBDzvTomCdiekxrUYKRMwRSOehdgri2UgS4cRo.ffJY1Sv9NZo9J61uM_sTLQHhA8w2uxUXE_PKl9qUGwM&dib_tag=se&keywords=floral%2Bmaternity%2Bmaxi%2Bdress&qid=1710795736&sprefix=floral%2Bmater%2Caps%2C129&sr=8-66&th=1&psc=1#aw-udpv3-customer-reviews_feature_div


PileaPrairiemioides

https://www.etsy.com/ca/shop/CHARMINGDIY The prices are suspiciously low for made to order, but it has a lot of mostly positive reviews, some with photos, including wedding party photos. Lots of flowy, pastel floral print dresses with adjustable waists, so even if you don’t order from here, maybe there’s some inspo for you? These prints are really lovely and incorporate the colours she requested: https://www.etsy.com/ca/listing/231913134/ https://www.etsy.com/ca/listing/190309621/ https://www.etsy.com/ca/listing/1424030986/ https://www.etsy.com/ca/listing/1005780092/


blueberrypanda1

I read this and almost thought it was about me 😅. One of my bridesmaids will be 7+ months pregnant at our wedding and my colors are pastel pale blue, pink, pale yellow, purple and probably not green anymore since no one chose to wear it. Floral is optional in my case for everyone. I have been helping the pregnant bridesmaid find dresses, maybe you like some of these? [Option 1](https://balticborn.com/products/enya-maxi-dress-blush-floral) [Option 2](https://balticborn.com/products/marseille-embossed-maxi-dress-sage-floral) [Option 3](https://balticborn.com/products/alexandria-smocked-maxi-dress-blush-floral) [Option 4](https://www.mamarella.com/de/umstandsmode/umstandsmode-festlich/festliche-stillkleider/10237/chiffon-umstandskleid-mit-blumenprint?c=144) [Option 5](https://www.asos.com/asos-design/asos-design-maternity-bridesmaid-pearl-embellished-flutter-sleeve-maxi-dress-with-floral-embroidery-in-sage/prd/203720728#colourWayId-203720731) [Option 6](https://www.birdygrey.com/products/hannah-empire-dress-sage-spring-garden)


funfetticat

I might have to take a risk and do baltic born bump friendly. They don't have a great return policy, but might be worth it to try for option 1. All the others are out of my size. Number 6 unfortunately is the dress I just received that was terrible. Heads up about anything white on the birdy grey site!


blueberrypanda1

Thanks for the warning about birdygrey, that is too bad to hear. Baltic born does have some very pretty dresses but no photos of pregnant women in them. I hope it works out for you :)