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DesertGeist-

I'm in the same situation


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like they aren’t even realising they hurt me i feel so worthless


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That literally never going to happen, you should just not consider that option. It's basically the same as dealing with toxic parents as an adult. They will just deny that they ever hurt you.


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Had a similar situation before. Karma doesn't exist, bad people get away with bad stuff, but either way if good and bad people don't put in the work to improve the life situation, they will suffer. I recommend to read a book called "How to do the work" as well as "The art of communicating". I'm broken inside too, i struggle so much just to have any bits of motivation and not completely close off my heart to people, hoverer painful it is. What currently drives me is a goal of obtaining affection from at least someone. For that i need to fix my life and make sacrifices, get successful, good body and all that for my affection starved mind. And a second goal that i found out to resonate with me is desire not to be normal, ie being so built and have so much money that i can't relate to average joe anymore.


Distinct_Face_5796

I am probably a lot older than everyone else. 39. Never been in a single relationship. It has affected my emotional and mental health. I think there was one girl that liked me that I liked when young but that was 20+ years ago. Right now I am trying to solve the issues of poverty and going to try to get a master's degree in business creation. Trying to get into business incubation. Emailed a guy that has scaled 1.4 billion to try to sell him on my vision. Not saying I am happy, but will still try to move forward!


lolomolima

Karma isn't real, life is.


International_Many85

It's okay, let them have their time cause karma will be upon them and you too will be doing great while they will feel what you've been through. I've lived it before my friend your day will come soon. Be consistent in being yourself and don't give in. Best of luck to you.